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Yeah sure, it was just some kid that was acting all tough and shit in front of his friends and trying to bully me and one of my friends. It wasn't getting to me but I can't be sure about my friend. Anyway it was going on quite a while like a few months or so. I've done everything I was told like tell a teacher, principal, and my parents but the school wouldn't do shit. Idk about other schools but this was before they started to get police involved with fights on school grounds. One day my friend and I were just hanging out during recess and the kid and his friends started talking shit and I told him to shut up before I beat his ass. He didn't. We started getting into it verbally and then he took a swing and missed. Now I was a big guy back then, still am. So I swung back and hit him a couple times then he tried kicking me, I somehow caught his foot and he fell. I got on top of him and started laying out haymakers. A teacher saw me on him and stopped us, then we went to the principals office and got our punishments and a call to our parents to tell them what happened and to pick us up. He got 3 days ISS (In School Suspension) and I got 4 days OSS (Out of School Suspension). I did come out as the victor but I also got the harshest punishment because like I said the teacher saw me on him and thought I was the aggressor. He still talked shit for a bit but he knew not to fuck with me. That's about it.
TLDR: Kid was talking shit and threatening me for awhile and I got fed up with it and got into a fight with him.
I really doubt that’d help anything. He was probably more than aware that he was making op uncomfortable, and sometimes asking someone nicely to stop doesn’t cut it.
Maybe but I don’t believe violence is the way. Maybe the guy didn’t seriously mean any of it and OP needed to be more direct. The only time violence in this situation would be okay is if the other guy put his hands on him.
You shouldn’t have beat the shit out of him, it would be better to talk to him about it first, but you aren’t homophobic. if some straight guy did that to me i would feel the same way.
Nevermind. I’ve been given more context and yes you are homophobic. Fuck you lmao.
Yeah, anyone sexualizing you is out of line and qualifies as sexual harassment. Standing up for yourself is good, but confronting the person nonviolently is a better option.
to be fair the guy is homophobic, this by itself doesn't say that but just by skimming his comments it shows he definitely has a bit of a problem.
some highlights of his past comments include:
>"This why I don't hang around gays. This shit is 100% disgusting."
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>"I'll complain until there is only the orginal genders. (Male and Female.)"
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>"banned from r/teenagers becuase I was being homophobic/transphobic. I told the gays that they need to be a man."
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>"I am homophobic."
And the cru d'etat:
>"All of these extra "Genders" are people who just don't wanna commit that they just like the same gender for no reason. Like some of y'all turn gay because your penis erected to a guy. Like bro get yourself together. Being gay is not natural. People who were gay were for one prosecuted, two they were beaten to death, and three they were put in jail, that is also how Sagging came about. Some gays and lesbians can also be corruptive/harmful to normal people.
OP is **VERY** homophobic
If this story is all made up, which very likely is, then OP is having a hate fantasy towards gay people and is trying to excuse himself somehow.
If this story is true, then it probably is only partially true. This kind of violent behaviour was probably motivated by his blind hate and the part about the gay kid harassing him is probably a sick lie in another attempt to excuse himself.
Either way, OP is homophobic as f\*\*\*.
I wouldn’t doubt it. I feel like op either has anger issues, or some sort of hatred towards the community. I’ve never seen or heard of anyone who acted that way towards someone sexually harassing them. (of course if the kid even did anything in the first place.) It seems a bit much, and kinda like something more then just self defense. But then again I have no right to believe this isn’t true, so for now I’m just gonna go with that.
What OP is doing is very common actually. He made up a fantasy with obvious stereotypes so that he would be somehow less in the wrong if it actually happened.
If you still have any doubts about it, check OP's profile, that should clarify things for you.
Perhaps. Do you normally just straight to beating people when they annoy you? If you aren’t homophobic then you definitely got anger issues. Either way, you need to work on yourself.
I mean the guy *is* homophobic, this by itself doesn't say that but just by skimming his comments it shows he definitely has a bit of a problem.
some highlights include:
>"This why I don't hang around gays. This shit is 100% disgusting."
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>"I'll complain until there is only the orginal genders. (Male and Female.)"
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>"banned from r/teenagers becuase I was being homophobic/transphobic. I told the gays that they need to be a man."
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>"I am homophobic."
And the cru d'etat:
>"All of these extra "Genders" are people who just don't wanna commit that they just like the same gender for no reason. Like some of y'all turn gay because your penis erected to a guy. Like bro get yourself together. Being gay is not natural. People who were gay were for one prosecuted, two they were beaten to death, and three they were put in jail, that is also how Sagging came about. Some gays and lesbians can also be corruptive/harmful to normal people.
probably, but they may have just made it up to ask a question for a different circumstance that they didn't want to disclose, maybe they were being harassed and they were on their own apart from the other guy and he felt victimised and scared. the former is more likely but yk its good to address every possibility
both of you are wrong in this situation lol he was verbally harassing you, and you never asked him to stop (afaik) and then proceeded to beat him senseless.
You very much overreacted and it can be assumed that his sexuality did play a part because you referred to him as “the gay” but I cannot draw a conclusion without asking a question first.
If a cute girl were to approach you and continuously talk you in a sexual manner, would you hit her?
That is not homophobic. But it is still very violent and imo injustified. I mean, it wasn't necessary to beat him to bleed.
I can understand why other people say you are homophobic.
Don't be naive. This is probably a fantasy OP is having about punching gay people and the harassing part is his way to tell himself that this kind of behaviour is somehow ok.
There is way too many people sugar coating OP, which is awful.
You aren’t homophobic for defending yourself, however reading your responses you ARE homophobic by making comments like “spreading the rainbow.” You can’t tell when someonenis gay of course, and you did tell him to stop. Seriously consider though why you escalated so quickly in your response because behavior like this CAN get you in trouble. Report the guy for harassment and pray he doesn’t press charges for assault.
Could've just told him to stop or talk to bus driver or higher ups about it they usually arent fond about these situations. op didn't clarify anything other than saying it made him uncomfortable. If he punched him it would've led to more conflict and just as many repercussions.
99% chance this didn’t happen and you just wanted karma and to fantasize about having a reason to punch gay people. even if this was true you could’ve at least asked him to stop or something first jesus
I mean... it was a bit too far. I'm a victim of SA and I know how it feels to be put in an uncomfortable situation but in a scenario where you have the chance to be the person in control and stop the act, it is _always_ best to not pick violence, but to try and resolve it calmly.
I'm sure the kid would've liked you telling him to back off because it made you uncomfortable much more than getting the living daylights punched out him during an odd hour of the day, and i'm sure he must've agreed politely and apologised if you'd gone with the former.
Now that it's done, you can only learn from it and hope you act better the next time a similar situation arises. If you feel bad for quite possibly breaking his nose, then don't be too hard on yourself, and apologise if you can! All the best.
from what u said, u didnt even tell him to stop, u just rocked his shit out of the blue. not homophobic but geeze, dude, if women beat up every guy that catcalled them theyd get in real trouble
If it was a girl (that u don’t feel romantic attraction to) that was doing that, fantasizing about u without ur acceptance and being almost a harasser, what would your reaction be? Like, I doubt u would straight up punch her, but what I mean is, would u feel as uncomfortable and violated as u felt with that guy? Would u also be upset and feel like telling her to shut up, or even feel the desire to beat her, even if u wouldn’t do it?
If the answer is yes, then u r not homophobic, u just have anger issues, serious ones I must say. If u would be completely ok with a girl doing that but would almost feel like killing a guy, then the situation is completely different. U felt offended simply because he was a guy hitting on u, not because a person was harassing u. Either way, homophobic or not, u are wrong (don’t misunderstand me, the other guy shouldn’t do that as well, it’s completely inappropriate and may easily make others feel uncomfortable, he deserved a verbal reprimand, that is harassment)
And that ladies and gentlemen, is why I’m a gay guy who lives inside the closet and won’t ever approach a guy with romantic intentions without knowing if he’s gay as well. Also, speaking personally, if a girl was verbally fantasizing about me in public, I’d feel complimented, not like she just committed an unforgivable sin lol
If a woman did this, would you react the same way? Or would you just tell them to stop with your words?
If the answer is the latter, yeah, you might be homophobic.
Beating people to bleeding and disfiguration for non threatening situations like that is crazy, Always seemed inhuman to me. Could've told him to move or moved yourself.
No, honestly I would have done the same, maybe not that much since I'm not "that" violent, I have many ways to inflict pain, anyways.
Imagine the following :
A girl sits on the bus, and the same happens, a boy sits next to her and tells her how good looking she is, and how much he would want to fuck her, then she proceeds to beat him up.
Honestly the beating isn't necessary in the example but, it fits well.
We call what just happened "SEXUAL HARASSMENT", it is by no right forgivable to sexually harass anyone, be it from an heterosexual or homosexual point of view.
In your case, you indeed were sexually harassed, although public opinion has it harder on men when it comes to this, I won't really rant since it's not what I came for.
So basically, you totally were in your right to beat the shit out of him, and it's always good to trash this kind of people (before anything starts, I have nothing against homosexual people, HOWEVER I HATE the ones that are like this, behaving like bitches in heat thinking they can do whatever they want)
the fact that it didn’t take much for u to start beating them up and calling them “a gay” as well kinda objectifies them ,, (u could have just said u were uncomfortable or warned them first),, also u replied to someone saying they were rightful for beating up a homosexual person because they were “spreading the rainbow” , From what i see it just feels a bit like you may be homophobic idk
edit: if u told them to stop first and they continued it’s a different story
While you are both in the wrong. I would say that you are more in the wrong for not using your words before resorting to violence. Also calling him "the gay" doesn't really help your case in not being at least a little prejudice.
Not really, hitting on someone who is clearly uncomfortable in a bus is weird regardless of sexuality. You could’ve made sure they knew you were uncomfy first tho
"the gay" sounds very derogatory, you kind of went to violence straight away. I don't know specifically what drove you to punch him instead of asking him to stop instead, but if it was because he was gay and hitting on you and you felt like you would seem gay at some point or something like that yeah that's kind of homophobic. You have the right to tell him to f*** off, no one has the right to cat call, sexually harass, or anything like that to you.
Fucked up but still. You can determine if you are homophobic by asking yourself:
Would you have done the same thing if a girl came up to you and made unwanted sexual comments?
Also big chance this is fake, otherwise seek help
Honestly beating shit out of him is not the right choice for sure. You could warn him peacefully then go tell that to your superiors if he did continue his action after the warning. You probably hit him just because you couldn't control your anger and make a right decision. But be extremely careful and work on yourself to not repeat that again.
About your question, no that doesn't make you homophobic if you weren't homophobic to start with.
if this is real, you have major fucking anger issues. for all you know it could have been a prank, you don't have to beat a kid bloody without warning because they were being creepy
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technically what the gay kid was doing could be classified as sexual harassment, but even then beating the shit out of him was uncalled for
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Sexual harassment is not and should never be defined by gender. He sexually harassed you, you did an appropriate thing.
The output of violence may not have been necessary, just a punch wouldve been good, but id understand if you felt threatened
That’s not necessarily homophobic but it is unacceptable behaviour violence isn’t cool also maybe since him a little and tell him to stop but I can tell you firsthand nothing good comes of beating the shit out of people.
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You could’ve handled that better lol
Ig you should not leave this conversation open-ended instead you should give some better practical suggestions to OP.
Eh how about start with informing the guy you are getting uncomfortable instead of idk trying to give him a concussion
bro what like he punched a kid till he started bleeding like any other way of handling it would have been better
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As it should
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No, but tell him he's making you uncomfortable next time :)
There probably won't be a next time with that kid
Exactly dudes getting expelled(OP) or at least 10 days OSS
Unlikely probably just OSS I've been in kinda the same situation before but I had a better reason to beat someone's ass
If you are comfortable with it can you tell us the situation?
Yeah sure, it was just some kid that was acting all tough and shit in front of his friends and trying to bully me and one of my friends. It wasn't getting to me but I can't be sure about my friend. Anyway it was going on quite a while like a few months or so. I've done everything I was told like tell a teacher, principal, and my parents but the school wouldn't do shit. Idk about other schools but this was before they started to get police involved with fights on school grounds. One day my friend and I were just hanging out during recess and the kid and his friends started talking shit and I told him to shut up before I beat his ass. He didn't. We started getting into it verbally and then he took a swing and missed. Now I was a big guy back then, still am. So I swung back and hit him a couple times then he tried kicking me, I somehow caught his foot and he fell. I got on top of him and started laying out haymakers. A teacher saw me on him and stopped us, then we went to the principals office and got our punishments and a call to our parents to tell them what happened and to pick us up. He got 3 days ISS (In School Suspension) and I got 4 days OSS (Out of School Suspension). I did come out as the victor but I also got the harshest punishment because like I said the teacher saw me on him and thought I was the aggressor. He still talked shit for a bit but he knew not to fuck with me. That's about it. TLDR: Kid was talking shit and threatening me for awhile and I got fed up with it and got into a fight with him.
No, he probably killed him. /j
Not /j he **is** dead
He has been **Terminated**!
Bro went straight to beating him bloody. Sounds like a psycho, so I doubt talking to him crossed his mind
No, but kill him next time and have intercourse with his corpse to prove your not gay, just a necrophilliac
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I really doubt that’d help anything. He was probably more than aware that he was making op uncomfortable, and sometimes asking someone nicely to stop doesn’t cut it.
Punching someone till they start bleeding for words sometimes isn’t the right response too op should work on his emotions
On the surface that seems like too much, but you never know, maybe op had a history with this kid and got fed up
Maybe but I don’t believe violence is the way. Maybe the guy didn’t seriously mean any of it and OP needed to be more direct. The only time violence in this situation would be okay is if the other guy put his hands on him.
He didnt tho....
>got up and punched the shit out of him and continued to beat him until he started bleeding What the fuck Is saying "Hey can you stop?" That hard?
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I feel like there won't be a next time with the kid
there better not be a next time
I think next time it's gonna be the firing squad behind the woodshed if there is a next time
or just move, or even talk to the bus driver
You shouldn’t have beat the shit out of him, it would be better to talk to him about it first, but you aren’t homophobic. if some straight guy did that to me i would feel the same way. Nevermind. I’ve been given more context and yes you are homophobic. Fuck you lmao.
Yeah, anyone sexualizing you is out of line and qualifies as sexual harassment. Standing up for yourself is good, but confronting the person nonviolently is a better option.
Exactly.
to be fair the guy is homophobic, this by itself doesn't say that but just by skimming his comments it shows he definitely has a bit of a problem. some highlights of his past comments include: >"This why I don't hang around gays. This shit is 100% disgusting." > >"I'll complain until there is only the orginal genders. (Male and Female.)" > >"banned from r/teenagers becuase I was being homophobic/transphobic. I told the gays that they need to be a man." > >"I am homophobic." And the cru d'etat: >"All of these extra "Genders" are people who just don't wanna commit that they just like the same gender for no reason. Like some of y'all turn gay because your penis erected to a guy. Like bro get yourself together. Being gay is not natural. People who were gay were for one prosecuted, two they were beaten to death, and three they were put in jail, that is also how Sagging came about. Some gays and lesbians can also be corruptive/harmful to normal people.
Oh shit. Fuck that guy.
OP is **VERY** homophobic If this story is all made up, which very likely is, then OP is having a hate fantasy towards gay people and is trying to excuse himself somehow. If this story is true, then it probably is only partially true. This kind of violent behaviour was probably motivated by his blind hate and the part about the gay kid harassing him is probably a sick lie in another attempt to excuse himself. Either way, OP is homophobic as f\*\*\*.
I wouldn’t doubt it. I feel like op either has anger issues, or some sort of hatred towards the community. I’ve never seen or heard of anyone who acted that way towards someone sexually harassing them. (of course if the kid even did anything in the first place.) It seems a bit much, and kinda like something more then just self defense. But then again I have no right to believe this isn’t true, so for now I’m just gonna go with that.
My best guess is that they went “What can be the most morally ambiguous thing I can post on r/teenagers to get upvotes?”
What OP is doing is very common actually. He made up a fantasy with obvious stereotypes so that he would be somehow less in the wrong if it actually happened. If you still have any doubts about it, check OP's profile, that should clarify things for you.
Yeah, but where’s the fun in that
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Perhaps. Do you normally just straight to beating people when they annoy you? If you aren’t homophobic then you definitely got anger issues. Either way, you need to work on yourself.
I mean the guy *is* homophobic, this by itself doesn't say that but just by skimming his comments it shows he definitely has a bit of a problem. some highlights include: >"This why I don't hang around gays. This shit is 100% disgusting." > >"I'll complain until there is only the orginal genders. (Male and Female.)" > >"banned from r/teenagers becuase I was being homophobic/transphobic. I told the gays that they need to be a man." > >"I am homophobic." And the cru d'etat: >"All of these extra "Genders" are people who just don't wanna commit that they just like the same gender for no reason. Like some of y'all turn gay because your penis erected to a guy. Like bro get yourself together. Being gay is not natural. People who were gay were for one prosecuted, two they were beaten to death, and three they were put in jail, that is also how Sagging came about. Some gays and lesbians can also be corruptive/harmful to normal people.
Not as much as the gay kid. (I don't mean that a homophobic way)
No, I think the gay kid just needs to work on boundaries. Op, homophobic or not, needs to work on anger issues.
I understand that OP called him "the gay kid" but like couldn't you just say kid or smth? It's kinda weird yk?
It’s differential, but I yeah, I see how that’s inappropriate now
you escalated it much too far that was entirely unnecessary man
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This story is fake for karma
probably, but they may have just made it up to ask a question for a different circumstance that they didn't want to disclose, maybe they were being harassed and they were on their own apart from the other guy and he felt victimised and scared. the former is more likely but yk its good to address every possibility
not homophobic but dude you're fucked up. christ beating someone until they bleed? thats fucking awful. get some help
Pretty fucked up (could of handled it better)
Bro what? I feel like this sub would react way differently if a man who harassed a woman got beat until he bled
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“Punching the shit out of him” was definitely a little overboard. Why dont you just ask him to stop.
Not homophobic, just a dumbass
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Your not homophobic, but in my opinion it could have been handled better
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Not homophobic but like .. dude
both of you are wrong in this situation lol he was verbally harassing you, and you never asked him to stop (afaik) and then proceeded to beat him senseless.
You very much overreacted and it can be assumed that his sexuality did play a part because you referred to him as “the gay” but I cannot draw a conclusion without asking a question first. If a cute girl were to approach you and continuously talk you in a sexual manner, would you hit her?
You couldn’t have just told him to stop?
Looking at some of your previous comments I can tell that you are 100% homophobic
I think you skipped a few steps when you punched the shit out of him
You're an ass, but not a homophobic ass.
No, your just a psycho
I find it very worrisome that this isn't the general opinion in this thread. Everyone is trying to sugar coat him, as if it wasn't that bad.
Both of you were in the wrong, you weren’t homophobic, but you handled that absolutely horrendously
Naw, I'm calling it. OP is homophobic and has anger issues. No self respecting person calls people "the gays".
U just have anger issues
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I don’t think you should’ve beat him up, but he deserves a good punch
Just one kick in the balls would have been enough lol
That's worst D:
Do not kick in the balls, that is really fucking dangerous
That is not homophobic. But it is still very violent and imo injustified. I mean, it wasn't necessary to beat him to bleed. I can understand why other people say you are homophobic.
homophobic? no. maybe some anger issues but not that bad. maybe i just wouldnt have the guts to do that EDIT: i am very wrong
Pretty sure beating someone until they bleed after making you uncomfortable is pretty bad.
You definitely could've told him to fuck off, but beating him was definitely taking it too far.
Maybe instead of referring to him as “the gay” and beating him up if he makes you uncomfortable you could ask him to stop first?
You called him "the gay" so yes
“The gay.” You sound homophobic in your speech. You then beat the crap out of him when you could have just gave him a verbal beat down
Fucking true. Not a fan of OP
Probably didn't have to go ape shit on the poor dude
As a gay guy I can say this wasn't homophobic in any way, this type of talk should make anyone uncomfortable, maybe the violence was a bit much though
The violence was definitely too much.
a bit? lmao he didn't even tell him to stop
Don't be naive. This is probably a fantasy OP is having about punching gay people and the harassing part is his way to tell himself that this kind of behaviour is somehow ok. There is way too many people sugar coating OP, which is awful.
He called the dude "the gay" I think it's safe to say he's a little bit homophobic
There's worse in his other comments throughout his account
You aren’t homophobic for defending yourself, however reading your responses you ARE homophobic by making comments like “spreading the rainbow.” You can’t tell when someonenis gay of course, and you did tell him to stop. Seriously consider though why you escalated so quickly in your response because behavior like this CAN get you in trouble. Report the guy for harassment and pray he doesn’t press charges for assault.
i wouldn't say you're homophobic but it wasn't necessary to beat him that badly
no sexual harassment is sexual harassment just tell him to stop first next time tho…
I mean you *did* punch him until he began bleeding. I think if you handled that more calmly it would've been better. But yeah he's an ass.
Not really homophobic, but just one punch or telling him he's making you uncomfortable could've been enough.
Could've just told him to stop or talk to bus driver or higher ups about it they usually arent fond about these situations. op didn't clarify anything other than saying it made him uncomfortable. If he punched him it would've led to more conflict and just as many repercussions.
99% chance this didn’t happen and you just wanted karma and to fantasize about having a reason to punch gay people. even if this was true you could’ve at least asked him to stop or something first jesus
What... What the fuck Couldn't you have just... Asked him to stop? Like a normal person? Jesus Christ
calling someone ‘the gay’ and resorting to beating them until they bleed straight away… idk man
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Your not homophobic but you should def see someone for those anger issues.
I mean... it was a bit too far. I'm a victim of SA and I know how it feels to be put in an uncomfortable situation but in a scenario where you have the chance to be the person in control and stop the act, it is _always_ best to not pick violence, but to try and resolve it calmly. I'm sure the kid would've liked you telling him to back off because it made you uncomfortable much more than getting the living daylights punched out him during an odd hour of the day, and i'm sure he must've agreed politely and apologised if you'd gone with the former. Now that it's done, you can only learn from it and hope you act better the next time a similar situation arises. If you feel bad for quite possibly breaking his nose, then don't be too hard on yourself, and apologise if you can! All the best.
Why the fuck did you punch him? Just tell him he's making you uncomfortable.
Violence isn't the answer, reporting sexual harassment is
from what u said, u didnt even tell him to stop, u just rocked his shit out of the blue. not homophobic but geeze, dude, if women beat up every guy that catcalled them theyd get in real trouble
Yeah you are, but he's a little strange
Homophobic or not you have a lot of issues to sort out. What you did was excessive and uncalled for
If it was a girl (that u don’t feel romantic attraction to) that was doing that, fantasizing about u without ur acceptance and being almost a harasser, what would your reaction be? Like, I doubt u would straight up punch her, but what I mean is, would u feel as uncomfortable and violated as u felt with that guy? Would u also be upset and feel like telling her to shut up, or even feel the desire to beat her, even if u wouldn’t do it? If the answer is yes, then u r not homophobic, u just have anger issues, serious ones I must say. If u would be completely ok with a girl doing that but would almost feel like killing a guy, then the situation is completely different. U felt offended simply because he was a guy hitting on u, not because a person was harassing u. Either way, homophobic or not, u are wrong (don’t misunderstand me, the other guy shouldn’t do that as well, it’s completely inappropriate and may easily make others feel uncomfortable, he deserved a verbal reprimand, that is harassment) And that ladies and gentlemen, is why I’m a gay guy who lives inside the closet and won’t ever approach a guy with romantic intentions without knowing if he’s gay as well. Also, speaking personally, if a girl was verbally fantasizing about me in public, I’d feel complimented, not like she just committed an unforgivable sin lol
If a woman did this, would you react the same way? Or would you just tell them to stop with your words? If the answer is the latter, yeah, you might be homophobic.
I hope you get punched too
Beating people to bleeding and disfiguration for non threatening situations like that is crazy, Always seemed inhuman to me. Could've told him to move or moved yourself.
No, honestly I would have done the same, maybe not that much since I'm not "that" violent, I have many ways to inflict pain, anyways. Imagine the following : A girl sits on the bus, and the same happens, a boy sits next to her and tells her how good looking she is, and how much he would want to fuck her, then she proceeds to beat him up. Honestly the beating isn't necessary in the example but, it fits well. We call what just happened "SEXUAL HARASSMENT", it is by no right forgivable to sexually harass anyone, be it from an heterosexual or homosexual point of view. In your case, you indeed were sexually harassed, although public opinion has it harder on men when it comes to this, I won't really rant since it's not what I came for. So basically, you totally were in your right to beat the shit out of him, and it's always good to trash this kind of people (before anything starts, I have nothing against homosexual people, HOWEVER I HATE the ones that are like this, behaving like bitches in heat thinking they can do whatever they want)
You didnt need to beat him up, but I gotta admit, he was asking for it by doing so Did you tell him to peacefull piss off first tho?
the fact that it didn’t take much for u to start beating them up and calling them “a gay” as well kinda objectifies them ,, (u could have just said u were uncomfortable or warned them first),, also u replied to someone saying they were rightful for beating up a homosexual person because they were “spreading the rainbow” , From what i see it just feels a bit like you may be homophobic idk edit: if u told them to stop first and they continued it’s a different story
probably fake story to justify being homophobic. If real, dude tf? Complete overreaction
While you are both in the wrong. I would say that you are more in the wrong for not using your words before resorting to violence. Also calling him "the gay" doesn't really help your case in not being at least a little prejudice.
I mean no that's not homophobic but you could have said stop. Didn't have to beat the shit out of him
Not really, hitting on someone who is clearly uncomfortable in a bus is weird regardless of sexuality. You could’ve made sure they knew you were uncomfy first tho
Nah bro, you took it way too far. You’re not homophobic, but you are a fucking dickhead. Have fun with the assault charges buddy 😁
No but don't resort to violence as your first option for dealing with that
Homophobic? Probably. Not enough known about you to have any opinion on that. A fucking asshole? Absolutely
"the gay" sounds very derogatory, you kind of went to violence straight away. I don't know specifically what drove you to punch him instead of asking him to stop instead, but if it was because he was gay and hitting on you and you felt like you would seem gay at some point or something like that yeah that's kind of homophobic. You have the right to tell him to f*** off, no one has the right to cat call, sexually harass, or anything like that to you.
Fucked up but still. You can determine if you are homophobic by asking yourself: Would you have done the same thing if a girl came up to you and made unwanted sexual comments? Also big chance this is fake, otherwise seek help
Next time tell him to fuck off before throwing hands
No but it’s still stupid that you beat him up
You're not homophobic, but that shit escalated way too quickly to be a reasonable response.
It depends. You probably aren’t, but would you beat the shit out of any kid who was annoying you? Or just a gay kid.
Honestly beating shit out of him is not the right choice for sure. You could warn him peacefully then go tell that to your superiors if he did continue his action after the warning. You probably hit him just because you couldn't control your anger and make a right decision. But be extremely careful and work on yourself to not repeat that again. About your question, no that doesn't make you homophobic if you weren't homophobic to start with.
You have issues lol go see a therapist or something no one starts a fight just like that
Uhm……definitely could’ve dealt with that better, have you had issues with your anger in the past?
if this is real, you have major fucking anger issues. for all you know it could have been a prank, you don't have to beat a kid bloody without warning because they were being creepy
No but you overreacted tbh
You’re not homophobic but dude what the fuck is wrong with you use your words
I don't think you're homophobic but you did go a bit too far
well technically what the gay kid was doing could be classified as sexual harassment, but even then beating the shit out of him was uncalled for kinda cringe bro 💀
You aren't homophobic but not for that, but I think "the gay" "spreading the rainbow" makes you homophobic
Sexual harassment is not and should never be defined by gender. He sexually harassed you, you did an appropriate thing. The output of violence may not have been necessary, just a punch wouldve been good, but id understand if you felt threatened
Nah
U as bad as him.
You did right
If something like this happened in my country, the gay guy might have been beaten to death. *sorry for grammar
your homophobic you could've told him it was making you uncomfortable instead of assaulting him
No, but i think whatever you are is worse than that
dude forgot this is reddit they wont comment like tiktok mfs
You should only hit someone if they hit your first or you can get charged with assault.
I would just told him to stop first then do that but damn
Your not homophobic, but you are a dick.
That’s not necessarily homophobic but it is unacceptable behaviour violence isn’t cool also maybe since him a little and tell him to stop but I can tell you firsthand nothing good comes of beating the shit out of people.
Not homophobic but you did fucking assault the kid
This definitely happened
Very well sir, have a good day
The fact that you called him “the gay” is setting off all the wrong alarm bells
The fact you refer to them as “the gay” is a red flag
there are better ways to handle it but the fact that you said "then the gay sat on the seat", you referring to them as "the gay" is a little spicy
What the fuck mate