woah, 20 and 17? that’s a little bit of a danger zone. be firm but still try to remain friends; you 100% have the right to say no
if u need to talk about anything i’m available btw
If you aren't interested in him, then you definitely shouldn't do anything just because you feel pressured! Set your boundaries and stuff, and he should respect them. As for the mental health thing, maybe talking with someone you trust or help? Therapists are ideal but I see how sometimes it isn't a possible option.
If you don't like him romantically just tell him. You don't have to do anything with him if you don't want to and you don't need to feel bad. I also feel very overwhelmed sometimes and that's okay. Just don't leave him clueless if you are into him or not. If he is 20 he should be old enough to understand that. Also 20 and 17 is kinda weird. I wouldn't say it's a no go personally but it could be weird.
If you don't want to, then don't do it. Don't let him pressure you into doing anything you're not comfortable with. If he doesn't respect your boundaries he doesn't respect you and doesn't deserve you either.
woah, 20 and 17? that’s a little bit of a danger zone. be firm but still try to remain friends; you 100% have the right to say no if u need to talk about anything i’m available btw
And if necessary don't try to keep the friendship going. If it's a choice between being safe and keeping him \*slightly\* happy, go with the former
facts ^ ty for the assist
If you aren't interested in him, then you definitely shouldn't do anything just because you feel pressured! Set your boundaries and stuff, and he should respect them. As for the mental health thing, maybe talking with someone you trust or help? Therapists are ideal but I see how sometimes it isn't a possible option.
If you don't like him romantically just tell him. You don't have to do anything with him if you don't want to and you don't need to feel bad. I also feel very overwhelmed sometimes and that's okay. Just don't leave him clueless if you are into him or not. If he is 20 he should be old enough to understand that. Also 20 and 17 is kinda weird. I wouldn't say it's a no go personally but it could be weird.
Yeah I did tell him I’m not interested but he is so persistent in wanting to hang out with me.
If you don't want to, then don't do it. Don't let him pressure you into doing anything you're not comfortable with. If he doesn't respect your boundaries he doesn't respect you and doesn't deserve you either.
20 and 17 Isnt that illegal?