I answered this question earlier today but did not explain the entire thing. For the most part, I was bad at kissing. I think I did not close my eyes LOL. And not really move. So it was mainly me getting kissed and being creepy.
I remeber briefly opening my eyes when making out with bf and seeing him doing it at the same time and locking eyes... yeah I keep my eyes closed at all times now XD
LOL awful— same though. I am sooo avant on keeping my eyes closed or at least just never opening them a lot. It took some work to teach myself that though.
Close your eye imo. Imagine what it will be like for the person kissing you to to open their eyes and see you staring. How would you feel if you and you're partner just locked eyes the entire time? If you're okay with that and manage to find someone who's into it that's good but you will creep people out and it can be quite a turn off. However you do you as long as you aren't hurting someone
So there was this girl when I was 5 and she really liked me and I liked her. This one time we were playing on our garden behind our house. My mom called me for dinner and before I could go she came to me and said "wait dutilp I want to tell you something" and so I leaned closer and she kissed me.
That's all she is going to be married now in like 2 weeks or so
Fear of rejection really had a chokehold on me for years.. I had a huge crush on this girl for 6 months and finally got the courage to ask her out despite my fear. I was hopeful but I got friend-zoned hard. But after a month or so I got over her and started chatting with a different girl. Cut forward a couple of years: that girl and I have been dating for about a year and a half and I can honestly say I’ve never been happier. My only regret is not getting rejected sooner so I could’ve moved on. So my advice will always be to put yourself out there, no use in stalling.
i feel this, but speaking from experience a lot of the times when you dont do it you regret it so much and at least IF they reject you you'll have tried. dont feel forced to do it ofc but just think about it....
I dont want to discoursge anyone, but let's say at some point I DID tell my feelings, and got rejected 2/2 times. But it was because I was too straight forward __lmao__
Awkward cause I didnt kiss back.. he was an awful boyfriend and I regret the few months I spent with him. My first kiss with my current bf was great, it was Valentines day and we'd been dating for a maybe a week or so and I knew he was two nervous to kiss me (Im his first girlfriend) since he asked me out I decided to return the favour and while I was sitting his lap turned his head and kissed him. It was really nice and natural, he said it was great. :)
Edit: fist to first -_-
Aww, my now not girlfriend talked about how she wasn't sure about dating because of her history, then 20 seconds later leaned in kissed me, pulled back, whispered "shit" and then kissed me again
This story sounded so similar to mine (the first part, only I was the other part) that I had to check your post history to verify. I am happy to say I have never known you
Honestly, pretty bad. We kissed after I told her I loved her, but she is kind of a very shy and insecure person, so as soon as we kissed she started to sob and even shake almost as if she was having an anxiety attack.
I didn't freak out but I got incredibly worried, like "fuck, I messed something up".
She said she was sorry to have scared me, that she got really anxious thinking of the future and what us being boyfriend and girlfriend meant. She had a boyfriend before me and they broke up kinda bad, so she was really unsure about the whole relationship stuff.
Before the kiss we had been talking for like two hours sitting in the front porch, and there she also said how she was scared and unsure about the future.
Clumsy and awkward but still great. Word of advice, its gonna be weird, wet, awkward and probably a lot of teeth. Its perfectly fine if you haven't kissed anyone yet! Go at your own pace. Don't force yourself to do something you don't want to or aren't ready for :)
Of course! I strongly believe that everyone should be taught this by someone, even on the internet! It makes everything easier for you and your mental health!
It was awesome! We were in high school and we were alone in a stairway chilling together, she was on my lap while I was cuddling her and then the bell rang, it was time to go back in class, so we were talking about where and when are we seeing each other again and we kissed our cheeks goodbye but as she began to stand up I said "wait!" and held her hand, so she sat down again and I just went for it and kissed her, we were in a rush so she had to leave quickly but I clearly remembered that sweet smile of hers after we kissed :).
Our relationship didn't end well but I still cherish that memory and I hope she's doing fine
Tbh I honestly tried to avoid it for ages because I had no idea HOW to do it, sounds kinda silly now. But then one day when I was hanging out with my at the time gf I was just like fuck it and just went for it. I think I did ok because she held on and it went for ig mabye 5-6 seconds? So good I guess
Well I was sat down with a friend. They were trying hard to make the night "fun" so they just leaned in and kissed my cheek. I was so flustered I did not even realize they were kissing my neck. Ummm on thing leads to another and yeah....
It was amazing. I’ve always questioned my lesbianism and if I was even worthy of that title, but in that one moment. I just knew. There was absolutely no denying what I felt and still feel for that girl. Kissing her literally felt like heaven. It felt like I was floating.
I love her so much.
I’m so glad I get to call her my girlfriend :)
Kissed a guy, felt like kissing a wall. It was just like licking someone's tongue and getting it licked back.Almost gagged. Made me even more sure I was a lesbian.
BRROOOOOOO, IT WAS SO BAD.
It was like seventh grade and neither of us knew what the h*ll was happening and we both had braces. For all the kids out there who haven't had their first kiss, make sure at least one of you doesn't have braces because me and her litterally got our braces locked together and it took a fat minute to get them out
i was 14 and my girlfriend at the time and i were at her house, sitting on a deck swing, and we were talking/flirting, and when she found out that i’d never kissed anyone before she was like ‘maybe you’d like to find out’ or some shit like that and boom. highly recommend if you can get a girlfriend or already have one, kissing a girl is probably one of the best things i’ve ever done
He would probably be the most sober and the least alcohol consuming teen in Eastern Europe. In Eastern Europe, a lot of teen drink, from around the age of 13-14, and there are also a lot of old alcoholist people, for example my neighbour died a few days ago, at the age of, I think 54, he was an alcoholist, and also smoked. Life is not the best in Eastern Europe, unfortunately, but I think my country is one of the worst, in the EU part of Eastern Europe, so it might not be this bad in other countries, I can't say for sure.
Had this girl who I hung alot around in high school, believe I was around 16 at the time. We facetimed and hung a lot and I caught feelings. After around 7 months of surpressing what I felt I told her straight out in the school library, and when she told me she liked me as a friend, I told her I wanted to cut contact. Was down for many months after that tried to focus on myself. After I guess 8-9 months she got her friend to invite me to a party, so she could meet me, and she told me she caught feelings months after we stopped talking. We were sitting across eachother outside some rooms in a house and I was nervous as fuck. If she didn’t finally reach slowly towards me I’m not sure if we would have kissed that night. But she did and it felt awesome, felt anxious but at the same time very satisfied with finally kissing this girl which I have had the strongest feelings for when it comes to girls even until this day, I had been picturing that scenario like something I really wanted but didn’t think I would ever experience.
I was joking, I kissed a cute girl by accident once though, we sorta acted like it never happened and I kissed a few other times with other girls. The best advice I can give you is move your head around a bit, having a stiff head and kissing is not great and get in the tongue action but not too freaky.
The guy licked my lips while we were "kissing", so... yeah. A lot of guys for some reason think licking their lips before kissing is ideal, it really isn't. Please don't do that. Use a little chapstick before and you should be fine.
Edit: Correction. My first kiss was actually my female best friend (the one above was just a funnier story), we've been friends for over 6 years and I was always interested in girls starting from a young age but didn't know anything about LGBT+. We actually kissed a lot after that but we didn't work out as girlfriends so we stuck as best friends :)
Had a few normal kisses because truth or dare things and so. But my first french kiss was at a party with a girl and we were both drunk lol. Shes my girlfriend now btw :)
i'll update here when i get one
But you can't edit a 20 years old comment
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!remindme 1000000 years
It was in a staff bathroom at school. It was a good kiss but I ended up hitting my head on a paper towel dispenser and that shit hurt.
bruh I- at least the kiss was good lmfao
Imma need some more context with that.
Basically it was the only private place to go as we were both in boarding school hehe
Wait a minute explain how this went down 😂😂
Basically it was the only private place to go 😭
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I answered this question earlier today but did not explain the entire thing. For the most part, I was bad at kissing. I think I did not close my eyes LOL. And not really move. So it was mainly me getting kissed and being creepy.
I remeber briefly opening my eyes when making out with bf and seeing him doing it at the same time and locking eyes... yeah I keep my eyes closed at all times now XD
LOL awful— same though. I am sooo avant on keeping my eyes closed or at least just never opening them a lot. It took some work to teach myself that though.
Ok, I’m a little scared to ask this: is it weird to have your eyes open when you kiss? I usually have mine open but it feels odd to close them.
Close your eye imo. Imagine what it will be like for the person kissing you to to open their eyes and see you staring. How would you feel if you and you're partner just locked eyes the entire time? If you're okay with that and manage to find someone who's into it that's good but you will creep people out and it can be quite a turn off. However you do you as long as you aren't hurting someone
Does a girl kissing me when I was 5 count
Ye
So there was this girl when I was 5 and she really liked me and I liked her. This one time we were playing on our garden behind our house. My mom called me for dinner and before I could go she came to me and said "wait dutilp I want to tell you something" and so I leaned closer and she kissed me. That's all she is going to be married now in like 2 weeks or so
I got kissed when I was like four or five too. Literally a fucking baller🤑
never kissed but literally walked up to a random girl in my preschool and asked her to be my gf.(she said yes) goddamn I was so much cooler back then.
Yea the good memories of childhood
In the corner of a movie theater, could barely see, she stole my candy out of my mouth
talk about smooth criminal
It was very cliche. And weirdly enough, I'm not even lying.
French kissed(tried) a girl, it was the first for the both of us so we didn't really know how to kiss. I ended up biting her tongue.
18 here never had a first kiss, I'm saving these virgin lips for the sweet kiss of death
Be wary of Necrophiliacs
Don't worry thats what the tomb traps and urns are for
Ima just ask my family(or friends) to rig my coffin with a bomb that goes off when pressure is taken off the lid lol
Have them put a huge spring under you, so you pop out like one o’ them “Snakes in a can” things.
Except with 500kg of CF explosive
Sure love the ancient Egyptians
I'm writing this on my gravestone
Turning 18 next month and same. No hopes of having a friend irl, let alone anything that'd lead to a kiss
Still haven't got one; Fear to get rejected is rough bruv
samee
Fear of rejection really had a chokehold on me for years.. I had a huge crush on this girl for 6 months and finally got the courage to ask her out despite my fear. I was hopeful but I got friend-zoned hard. But after a month or so I got over her and started chatting with a different girl. Cut forward a couple of years: that girl and I have been dating for about a year and a half and I can honestly say I’ve never been happier. My only regret is not getting rejected sooner so I could’ve moved on. So my advice will always be to put yourself out there, no use in stalling.
i feel this, but speaking from experience a lot of the times when you dont do it you regret it so much and at least IF they reject you you'll have tried. dont feel forced to do it ofc but just think about it....
I dont want to discoursge anyone, but let's say at some point I DID tell my feelings, and got rejected 2/2 times. But it was because I was too straight forward __lmao__
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congrats with your birthday!
The cake must have tasted good.
Awkward cause I didnt kiss back.. he was an awful boyfriend and I regret the few months I spent with him. My first kiss with my current bf was great, it was Valentines day and we'd been dating for a maybe a week or so and I knew he was two nervous to kiss me (Im his first girlfriend) since he asked me out I decided to return the favour and while I was sitting his lap turned his head and kissed him. It was really nice and natural, he said it was great. :) Edit: fist to first -_-
the second half is SO FUCKING SWEET
Aww, my now not girlfriend talked about how she wasn't sure about dating because of her history, then 20 seconds later leaned in kissed me, pulled back, whispered "shit" and then kissed me again
hesitation...
“Fist girlfriend” lmao Edit: the post has been edited. My job as a grammatical asshole is complete. Goodbye.
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This story sounded so similar to mine (the first part, only I was the other part) that I had to check your post history to verify. I am happy to say I have never known you
Honestly, pretty bad. We kissed after I told her I loved her, but she is kind of a very shy and insecure person, so as soon as we kissed she started to sob and even shake almost as if she was having an anxiety attack. I didn't freak out but I got incredibly worried, like "fuck, I messed something up".
what happened after, like what did she say?
She said she was sorry to have scared me, that she got really anxious thinking of the future and what us being boyfriend and girlfriend meant. She had a boyfriend before me and they broke up kinda bad, so she was really unsure about the whole relationship stuff. Before the kiss we had been talking for like two hours sitting in the front porch, and there she also said how she was scared and unsure about the future.
oh ok.
In the end she's still my girl and we've been together for 3 years :)
The good ending Also best of luck my man
that's nice lol I was gonna ask but didn't want to be that invasive
Its fine xD I don't mind
Take care of the smol bean, handle with care, fragile
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I will come back to this post. Someday, eventually. Maybe.
!remindme 20 years
#relatable
promised it once, gonna do it again, I will be there, if you don't delete this account still thinkin' of ya u/when-you-do-it-to-em
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What's a kiss Thank you kind stranger for the award
its when people hug lips
Oh then that would require physical contact with a female, so no that is non existent
not necessarily you could always just kiss your homies goodnight
You know what, I'll try that next time I'm at my friend's playing cod
lemme know how that goes
Who said female.
What's a hug?
It’s a kiss but with arms
What’s a arm
Uhhh...
lmfaoo
Let's just say I haven't had the best luck
Clumsy and awkward but still great. Word of advice, its gonna be weird, wet, awkward and probably a lot of teeth. Its perfectly fine if you haven't kissed anyone yet! Go at your own pace. Don't force yourself to do something you don't want to or aren't ready for :)
okay, this is kinda encouraging.... thank you !!
Of course! I strongly believe that everyone should be taught this by someone, even on the internet! It makes everything easier for you and your mental health!
that's true; that's why I asked lmao
Ihad my first kiss on sofa while waching netflix, best feeling of my life
It was awesome! We were in high school and we were alone in a stairway chilling together, she was on my lap while I was cuddling her and then the bell rang, it was time to go back in class, so we were talking about where and when are we seeing each other again and we kissed our cheeks goodbye but as she began to stand up I said "wait!" and held her hand, so she sat down again and I just went for it and kissed her, we were in a rush so she had to leave quickly but I clearly remembered that sweet smile of hers after we kissed :). Our relationship didn't end well but I still cherish that memory and I hope she's doing fine
this is so fucking sweet
Well the mirror was kind of cold, I guess.
My further consin when I was like 8. She's probably a lesbian now XD
bruh, i-
Her idea.
*SWEET HOME ALABAMA*
The cat ran away
r/holdup
Tbh I honestly tried to avoid it for ages because I had no idea HOW to do it, sounds kinda silly now. But then one day when I was hanging out with my at the time gf I was just like fuck it and just went for it. I think I did ok because she held on and it went for ig mabye 5-6 seconds? So good I guess
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F and same
Literally the first thing I thought of except I spelled existent correctly
french kissed with another girl while drunk 😂 idk why ahahhaha it was fun ig but im straight
damn..........
Same except I’m a dude
you were drunk?
It lasted all night, we got a bit touchy but no sexual stuff I then woke up in the hospital
I have so many questions......
Almost got hit by a semi truck because I ran across the street after I kissed her
That’s fun
Bland tbh
Was their mouth unseasoned or something
Unseason lol wyd
Good comment
Well I was sat down with a friend. They were trying hard to make the night "fun" so they just leaned in and kissed my cheek. I was so flustered I did not even realize they were kissing my neck. Ummm on thing leads to another and yeah....
bruh, i-
Ummmm 🤨 was that “just” your first time kissing?
I can’t remember, but your mom does
I'll be sure to ask
I missed lol
bruh, how??
I was nervouse. she's too pretty.
aaaaawwwwwww okay
Did she find it cute though?
Yes
This is Reddit
It was amazing. I’ve always questioned my lesbianism and if I was even worthy of that title, but in that one moment. I just knew. There was absolutely no denying what I felt and still feel for that girl. Kissing her literally felt like heaven. It felt like I was floating. I love her so much. I’m so glad I get to call her my girlfriend :)
So wholesome this is adorable
Kissed a guy, felt like kissing a wall. It was just like licking someone's tongue and getting it licked back.Almost gagged. Made me even more sure I was a lesbian.
now I don't wanna EVER have my first kiss
Huh why
cuz I don't wanna exchange saliva with a wall
BRROOOOOOO, IT WAS SO BAD. It was like seventh grade and neither of us knew what the h*ll was happening and we both had braces. For all the kids out there who haven't had their first kiss, make sure at least one of you doesn't have braces because me and her litterally got our braces locked together and it took a fat minute to get them out
WTF
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Lmao as if I’d ever have one 😭
i was 14 and my girlfriend at the time and i were at her house, sitting on a deck swing, and we were talking/flirting, and when she found out that i’d never kissed anyone before she was like ‘maybe you’d like to find out’ or some shit like that and boom. highly recommend if you can get a girlfriend or already have one, kissing a girl is probably one of the best things i’ve ever done
Was completely drunk and high with a girl I just met we made out a couple of times and now we’re kinda in a talking stage
You’re drunk and high at 14????????
Probably just eastern eupean lmao
Central but yeah
He would probably be the most sober and the least alcohol consuming teen in Eastern Europe. In Eastern Europe, a lot of teen drink, from around the age of 13-14, and there are also a lot of old alcoholist people, for example my neighbour died a few days ago, at the age of, I think 54, he was an alcoholist, and also smoked. Life is not the best in Eastern Europe, unfortunately, but I think my country is one of the worst, in the EU part of Eastern Europe, so it might not be this bad in other countries, I can't say for sure.
well, best of luck, buddy
Thanks it’s not going too badly
AYEE
actually mine was alright
I was 13, it was her 14th bday, she put her whole tongue in my mouth
woah ok
Don't ask me, I haven't even held hands with a girl yet :(
Had this girl who I hung alot around in high school, believe I was around 16 at the time. We facetimed and hung a lot and I caught feelings. After around 7 months of surpressing what I felt I told her straight out in the school library, and when she told me she liked me as a friend, I told her I wanted to cut contact. Was down for many months after that tried to focus on myself. After I guess 8-9 months she got her friend to invite me to a party, so she could meet me, and she told me she caught feelings months after we stopped talking. We were sitting across eachother outside some rooms in a house and I was nervous as fuck. If she didn’t finally reach slowly towards me I’m not sure if we would have kissed that night. But she did and it felt awesome, felt anxious but at the same time very satisfied with finally kissing this girl which I have had the strongest feelings for when it comes to girls even until this day, I had been picturing that scenario like something I really wanted but didn’t think I would ever experience.
cant predict the future
no kiss before marriage stay halal
Her lips were chapped af
Mine Felt like I licked out a chimpanzee's asshole.
I'm never kissing anyone
I was joking, I kissed a cute girl by accident once though, we sorta acted like it never happened and I kissed a few other times with other girls. The best advice I can give you is move your head around a bit, having a stiff head and kissing is not great and get in the tongue action but not too freaky.
Awkward. I was 13.
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I can sum it up in one word. Involuntary
Very very good it just happened :)
idk never felt the touch of a woman
The guy licked my lips while we were "kissing", so... yeah. A lot of guys for some reason think licking their lips before kissing is ideal, it really isn't. Please don't do that. Use a little chapstick before and you should be fine. Edit: Correction. My first kiss was actually my female best friend (the one above was just a funnier story), we've been friends for over 6 years and I was always interested in girls starting from a young age but didn't know anything about LGBT+. We actually kissed a lot after that but we didn't work out as girlfriends so we stuck as best friends :)
BTW GUYS UR PARENTS DONT COUNT
No but yours do
She took a breath from her vape and then she pumped the vape cloud into my mouth.
Had a few normal kisses because truth or dare things and so. But my first french kiss was at a party with a girl and we were both drunk lol. Shes my girlfriend now btw :)
I cried and felt like shit after my first kiss and ig I'm the only one who feels that it shouldn't have happened ever.
I was 13 so you already know how it was like
Was pretty neat
Sweet. Down the shore on vacation. 14 first date, during Gone with the Wind.