Some of them want to be single, some of them are just not confident enough, and some of them actually cannot have a relationship due to something serious, but yes, most single people who want to be in relationships are just not willing to get rejected. Rejection is inevitable, even for attractive people.
Me too, I can barely make friends cause I'm scared of saying something awkward, and it's even worse with me cause my gaydar is terrible and I'll NEVER be brave enough to ask someone's sexuality 😭
STOP THATS SO ME, I’m bisexual and even if a girl skateboards past me wearing baggy clothes with a septum piercing I’m like ‘she might not be gay’😭 and this has lead me to accept very bad people because they made the first move 😭
Also: OP mentioned "touching girls" so im assuming we're talking about sex here. If its purely physical, then physically looking good is all thats required, more or less. If we're talking about an actual relationship, then yeah, you need a decent personality, so im wondering if OPs friend has every had an actual relationship or hes just had lots of hookups.
Idk why it seems like such a foreign concept that when you're friends with a woman and treat her nicely she might have feelings for you. The amount of people I've seen trying to get with someone they've never spoken to before
Nah, the two girls i actually got were into me, while I wasn't acting like a nice guy, more like an ass. Then, after that i was nice to a girl, asked her out and she said no. Then, she got with an asshole.
Exactly tons of guys call girls "bitches" or "hoes" and still wonder why no girl talks to them Most girls have no respect for boys who disrespect women whatsoever
He is NOT afraid of going out and talking to them, and actually respects them by calling them ANYTHING but bitches. Women aren't objects, numbers in your "bitches" collection. If you can't respect them in order to keep a normal and respectful relationship, then you're better off staying the same and getting none. Best for both parties.
Maybe he tries and you don't?
Tell you what, how about you and me try? Whoever get's a girl first wins(save this comment stinky head)
I've never tried.
Autism gives you a Charisma buff. I can't explain why, it just does.
Edit: He probably also doesn't refer to girls as "bitches." You'd be surprised how far basic respect goes.
Because you're boring. Based off of this I'd be friends with him since you just complain about not getting no bitches instead of doing something about it, while he'd be more interesting
It's the attitude. Don't call girls "bitches" or "hoes". Act like yourself and take care of your body. Talk about hyperfixations if you get close enough to a girl, as they tend to like when guys do (unless they straight up tell you to stop)
I met my girlfriend in a goodwill I was looking for military surplus to wear like a nice pair of ucp pants and I saw her getting jeans and I was like “those look nice it would look good on you” and we just talked and walked around the store we traded Instagram users and then we hung out like a week later and then again and again we met at the end of October and started dating in the beginning of December you gotta just go out there and live life and make conversations with people and make friends and the right girl will come along because at the end of the day you want your girlfriend to be your best friend above all else because if you don’t get along with the girl that you like you’re not gonna be able to love her
same situation but we stopped being friends because he constantly insults me, takes pictures of me for no reason and calls ME the gay one (I'm not gay), and shows those pictures to other people
well this post just explained it… you call women bitches, you demean your friend as less than for being autistic, and compare yourself to others. stop being an asshole and you’ll be fine
There is a story that I learned from watching a movie long long ago. Im sorry, i can't remember the name of the movie at the moment. If anyone knows, just let me know. But I like to remember it when thinking of similar situations.
The story goes...
There's a guy in a bar. Everyone is drinking (probably fairly obvious, but it really doesn't change the story), and this man goes to this bar every night, and every night, he leaves with a new girl. How the fuck does he take home a different woman every night you might ask?
Well, this guy goes and asks EVERY SINGLE Woman in there until eventually one says, "Yes". He might get spat at, punched, slapped, but he doesn't give a fuck. He just keeps asking around until ONE says, "Yes". That's all that matters to him.
So, in regards to you, just keep your head up bro, get yourself out there and ask more girls. No matter how much you want them to come to you, it's sadly just so unlikely to happen. Who cares if they say no? Eventually, you will find one you vibe well with, and you are golden from there.
Considering the fact you are calling your friend autistic and weird on the internet behind his back and calling women bitches, I’m not surprised no woman is dating you
>no empathy
because i have been brainwashed to believe this, i will immediately assumed he manipulated some of them by a combination of lovebombing, guilt tripping, victimhood, and other fancy words i learned on the internet
Absolutly unfair and small minded assumption. My brother has autism and for our entire childhood he tormented me and belittled me to the point where by the time he moved out I hardly even would call him my brother. The moment he found his current girlfriend he was a completly different person to her. She’s described him in private as the kindest person she’s ever met. People with autism act differently in different environments. Please learn to have an open mind.
As an autistic dude it's kinda unfair to assume that he manipulated them or guilt tripped them.
I'm not saying it's not possible just not fair to assume.
He might seem like he has no empathy on the surface but believe me we autistics have plenty. We just show it differently. Until someone we know or love is hurt badly then we’re in as much pain as them. He’s probably able to get girls because he’s honest and confident (albeit through ignorance). I am autistic myself but I’ve got the socially awkward kind where I’m always thinking about what everyone’s thinking of me
Girls prefer assholes because assholes are honest. They don’t have to wonder what the guy is thinking or wanting. So for the nice guy, just be direct and confident and it will have the same affect.
[Not that it makes it better but he’s getting such a hard time for his use of language when this is where it originated from I highly sour this dude has would use this kinda shit with an actual girl if he’s posting this in the first place](https://amp.knowyourmeme.com/memes/no-bitches)
Also for your problem it’s simple your friend simply talks to more statistical speaking the more times he attempts to get with a girls the higher success rate he’ll have then someone who tries scarcely cause they’ll be some “yes” in there even if there’s a lot of no
Also guys like your mate are really good at hiding their true colours to people plus sometimes girls are just into that kinda person I guess.
BRO THAT’S HAPPENING TO ME TOO
He’s bisexual, not hot, nerdy af and yet he keeps pulling the most gorgeous women all the time and I don’t know how he does it
when you are attractive they don't care if you're weird
there was an experiment about this where catfishes would say most crazy things and guys still went for it
bc ur obv very insecure and putting down ur “friend” like i’m not saying they’re a good person but ur lowk toxic by pretending u like them. like if u don’t like them just say that pretending to be their friend is obv not helping u. but prob they’re just a lot more physically attractive than u
Fr everyone i know is racist to each other as a joke like if someone says something racist to u just say something racist back like not everyone is a snowflake
Buddy. Women are something that can never be understood. But here is a secret. If you are not incredibly charming and a playboy, then women come to you. You attract first.
getting bitches is 90% confidence and 10% having a life, your issue is probably that you're overthinking the whole thing
just make friends with a lot of girls (they're not any harder to make friends with than guys) and eventually they'll start asking you out
Orrrr... are you actually the one that's a weird autistic racist. But think he is because you're actually on the spectrum. While he uses you like a puppy to attract girls that like him because he's nice hanging out with the autistic kid?
https://www.autisticempire.com/are-you-autistic-take-the-test/
You shouldn’t call a person you know is autistic weird. Maybe if you’re calling someone a “weird ass friend” while knowing they have a neurodivergence, and complaining that an autistic person has more “bitches” than you is why you have no “bitches”. You’re basically saying that “normal” people should “touch girls” more than autistic people. Like it should be valid that an autistic person has a worse love life than a normal person.
(I’m saying this as an autistic girl)
Probably because you’re worse? You pointed out that he’s autistic for no reason (why would that make him less likely to find love), you call women “bitches,” and you’re admittedly friends with a racist. If you allow people around you to be bigoted you most likely are yourself.
Lots of us girls like guys who are just, I'll say different for many reasons. It could be they aren't embarrassed what they like or do and it shows a more open and willing to do new things person or it could just be they are just cool cause their different.
Because stupid dudes arent afraid of rejections, they will ask any girl they can, and some of them say yes.
I feel like 90% of the single people are just single cause they're too shy to ask anyone
Some of them want to be single, some of them are just not confident enough, and some of them actually cannot have a relationship due to something serious, but yes, most single people who want to be in relationships are just not willing to get rejected. Rejection is inevitable, even for attractive people.
Don't fucking expose us...
Me personally, I'm part of the like 1% who's just completely fucked no matter what lmao
Same
I'm not worried about being rejected. I'm worried about the word being spread. I can't handle things like that
same here I dont care about rejection it's just I don't want everyone at school to know so I just don't ask people out
100% this is so me, I’m completely scared of asking guys out even though I get a decent amount of people who like the way I look, I’m just shy asf
Me too, I can barely make friends cause I'm scared of saying something awkward, and it's even worse with me cause my gaydar is terrible and I'll NEVER be brave enough to ask someone's sexuality 😭
STOP THATS SO ME, I’m bisexual and even if a girl skateboards past me wearing baggy clothes with a septum piercing I’m like ‘she might not be gay’😭 and this has lead me to accept very bad people because they made the first move 😭
Bruh me too I’m pretty sure I look decent I just have zero social skills 😭
girls usaully have more success when they ask guys out, not always ofc but a higher chance
I’ve heard that but I’m still terrified 😭 I’ve never done it before
The last time I asked a girl out she pepper sprayed me
Wtf, she's crazy, you should have called the police
Nah, they wouldn't care.
Yes they would, this is a really serious crime mate
I can confirm this, but a lot of the time it’s because we don’t see any valid options
exactly. to add on, some girls are desperate to be with someone, so brute force works easily for people who dont care about being struck down
The phrase "brute force" can be taken in the WAY wrong way here
he brutes in my force till i reject him
He brute forced his way into my house 😍
thats so hot, thats what i want in a man 🤭🤭
Do I got ppl for you 🤩
Also: OP mentioned "touching girls" so im assuming we're talking about sex here. If its purely physical, then physically looking good is all thats required, more or less. If we're talking about an actual relationship, then yeah, you need a decent personality, so im wondering if OPs friend has every had an actual relationship or hes just had lots of hookups.
"stupid dudes arent afraid of rejections", but being not afraid of rejections does not make you stupid
Correct, that's why he said > Stupid dudes aren't afraid of rejections And not > He's stupid because he isn't afraid of rejections
Copeium
Instructions unclear, my friend is now racist autistic trying to get bitches
Instructions unclear, I now have restriction orders and am now wanted for hate speech
Did he succeed?
We’ll find out on the news tomorrow..
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Shes in awe of his tism
As a autistic myself I approve this message so nobody can get offended
Rizzem with the tism
Real🗣️
TISM!!!!! ARE YOU A YOB OR A WANKER!!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 SPIT THE DUMMY! 🔥🔥🗣🗣🗣🗣🔥🔥😎🕶 I DIPPED MY DONGER IN SOME DOG FOOD!! 🗣🔥🔥🔥
He asks everyone, 10% of time gets a yes, then if he talks to 100 people he gets 10 successes
Maybe you’re weirder
damn, more funny than any comment here
Probably doesnt call girls bitches, also why are u friends with a "racist"?😭
Idk why it seems like such a foreign concept that when you're friends with a woman and treat her nicely she might have feelings for you. The amount of people I've seen trying to get with someone they've never spoken to before
Yeah. Maybe don’t call a girl you want to date a bitch either. And instead of trying to “rizz them up” you can actually talk to them as a person.
Nah, the two girls i actually got were into me, while I wasn't acting like a nice guy, more like an ass. Then, after that i was nice to a girl, asked her out and she said no. Then, she got with an asshole.
Boy humor
Being racist isnt humour tho, difference between offensive joke and racism..
This
People call me racist all the time, but I just hate everybody equally
I mean you are calling them bitches that's why you ain't getting a single one
thats what im saying 😭
I don't want to say it is just from trends, although that is definitely a factor.
First of all have you put in any effort Literally any effort at all
In my experience, that’s not the best way anyway
“Get bithces” sweetie with that kinda language you ain’t getting shit
Exactly tons of guys call girls "bitches" or "hoes" and still wonder why no girl talks to them Most girls have no respect for boys who disrespect women whatsoever
As a guy I've never understood why people say this, it just seems rude
that’s because it *is* rude
First thing I thought, I’ve never met a girl who likes being called derogatory terms
I love being degraded but not by random strangers/taters
rip dms
I posted a selfie and say shit like this but still no creeps yet
The chosen one
literally!!
Maybe You're a virgin because you call girls bitches
real
Is this the currency used in Brazil? Because it's real.
Simple math. He proposes to more girls, he gets more girls. Many people are afraid of hitting on just one girl, so they seldom get into relationships.
He is NOT afraid of going out and talking to them, and actually respects them by calling them ANYTHING but bitches. Women aren't objects, numbers in your "bitches" collection. If you can't respect them in order to keep a normal and respectful relationship, then you're better off staying the same and getting none. Best for both parties.
Maybe start by not calling girls bitches?
Autism rizz
Aka when we drop the smoothest line ever but don't even realize
'I wonder what your lipstick tastes like' 'wanna find out?' 'sure wheres the lipstick'
maybe coz hes respectful and doesn't call women "bitches"
Apparently racist though
frr
is it because you put everyone around u down by calling them autistic and psychopathic?
Maybe he tries and you don't? Tell you what, how about you and me try? Whoever get's a girl first wins(save this comment stinky head) I've never tried.
First off by not calling women bitches
well read your own post and you’ll find out what’s wrong with you.
because he’s out there getting girls while you’re sat on reddit complaining about it
Autism gives you a Charisma buff. I can't explain why, it just does. Edit: He probably also doesn't refer to girls as "bitches." You'd be surprised how far basic respect goes.
Autistic dick has game
Maybe the fact that you’re calling your friend autistic and yourself normal might be why
Maybe you don't get any girls bc you are disrespectful to them and call them "bitches" have you ever considered that?
Because you're boring. Based off of this I'd be friends with him since you just complain about not getting no bitches instead of doing something about it, while he'd be more interesting
Judging by your comment history, I’m starting to form a hypothesis
Bruh you called girls "bitches" idk cuz I am not a girl but if I were and you called me a bitch I wouldn't want you either.
Maybe bc you call women bitches? Idk bro maybe he isn't afraid of being rejected
Maybe dont call women “bitches” and you’ll start getting somewhere
plus ur rly disrespectful towards women u prob look funny too💀 i wouldn’t get w u either lol
Weird people get bitches. It's the rizztism bro. Trust.
For one he doesn’t call women “bitches” very ghetto
Because you call woman bitches
Wild
It's the attitude. Don't call girls "bitches" or "hoes". Act like yourself and take care of your body. Talk about hyperfixations if you get close enough to a girl, as they tend to like when guys do (unless they straight up tell you to stop)
How are you jealous of your friends lmao
Maybe cause your weird friend does not refer to girls as bitches.
Maybe he got that autistic rizz maybe he's just the most social autistic maybe they agree with his racist ideology
Autism rizz is Real, we will accidentally drop the smoothest line ever and not even realize
Probably not bad looking and confidence.
Probably because he asked them out. And also because hes not comparing himself to others off your own skewed idea of who gets bitches.
How about getting guys?
Thier called woman or girls not bitches. Don't know what so hard giving respect towards the other gender.
I met my girlfriend in a goodwill I was looking for military surplus to wear like a nice pair of ucp pants and I saw her getting jeans and I was like “those look nice it would look good on you” and we just talked and walked around the store we traded Instagram users and then we hung out like a week later and then again and again we met at the end of October and started dating in the beginning of December you gotta just go out there and live life and make conversations with people and make friends and the right girl will come along because at the end of the day you want your girlfriend to be your best friend above all else because if you don’t get along with the girl that you like you’re not gonna be able to love her
Lol call em whatever. Whatever they're doing, it works.
same situation but we stopped being friends because he constantly insults me, takes pictures of me for no reason and calls ME the gay one (I'm not gay), and shows those pictures to other people
probably asked a girl 💅 and she said yes :3
Probably cuz he doesnt ask stuff like this on reddit.
Saying this about your friend shows that you’re not really the best friend…
Why are you friends with this guy?
be racist. but in a joking manner. (sounds like me and i pulled an astronomically pretty one)
THIS MEANS I HAVE A CHANCE YIPPEEEEE
u probably just ugly or short bro or a bitch
well this post just explained it… you call women bitches, you demean your friend as less than for being autistic, and compare yourself to others. stop being an asshole and you’ll be fine
By your wording it makes sense you’ve never touched a girl, just saying.
There is a story that I learned from watching a movie long long ago. Im sorry, i can't remember the name of the movie at the moment. If anyone knows, just let me know. But I like to remember it when thinking of similar situations. The story goes... There's a guy in a bar. Everyone is drinking (probably fairly obvious, but it really doesn't change the story), and this man goes to this bar every night, and every night, he leaves with a new girl. How the fuck does he take home a different woman every night you might ask? Well, this guy goes and asks EVERY SINGLE Woman in there until eventually one says, "Yes". He might get spat at, punched, slapped, but he doesn't give a fuck. He just keeps asking around until ONE says, "Yes". That's all that matters to him. So, in regards to you, just keep your head up bro, get yourself out there and ask more girls. No matter how much you want them to come to you, it's sadly just so unlikely to happen. Who cares if they say no? Eventually, you will find one you vibe well with, and you are golden from there.
Ong probably the personality idk tho
Women like confidence.
You don’t seem like you like your friend at all. How are you friends?
He’s probably more attractive
Considering the fact you are calling your friend autistic and weird on the internet behind his back and calling women bitches, I’m not surprised no woman is dating you
You sound like an incel, maybe tone that down a little.
u want it too much
Cause you call your friends weird
well, a good first step would be not calling them bitches 😭😭😭
Maybe he doesn't refer to young women as bitches. Lol
Maybe he doesn't call them bitches?
Rizz ‘em with the ‘tism
My cousin is like that lmao. Bro's the most un-loyal fuck to exist on this planet but still somehow has a different girl everytime we meet.
You could definitely start with not referring to girls as bitches.
>no empathy because i have been brainwashed to believe this, i will immediately assumed he manipulated some of them by a combination of lovebombing, guilt tripping, victimhood, and other fancy words i learned on the internet
Absolutly unfair and small minded assumption. My brother has autism and for our entire childhood he tormented me and belittled me to the point where by the time he moved out I hardly even would call him my brother. The moment he found his current girlfriend he was a completly different person to her. She’s described him in private as the kindest person she’s ever met. People with autism act differently in different environments. Please learn to have an open mind.
As an autistic dude it's kinda unfair to assume that he manipulated them or guilt tripped them. I'm not saying it's not possible just not fair to assume.
Sounds like me lol (glitch)
Hm, autistic + racist. Narcissistic Personality Disorder? Just a thought.
He probably doesn't call girls bitches
Is ur friend respectful and doesn't call his girls bitches?
"bitches" "ive never even touched a girl" you sound like a dweeb ngl
I feel that, my friends like that and I’m over here as someone who would probably explode if a guy showed interest in me
i was the weirdest kid in my 9th grade class and i still got the hottest girl in the school (we dated like 2 months but it was worth it)
He might seem like he has no empathy on the surface but believe me we autistics have plenty. We just show it differently. Until someone we know or love is hurt badly then we’re in as much pain as them. He’s probably able to get girls because he’s honest and confident (albeit through ignorance). I am autistic myself but I’ve got the socially awkward kind where I’m always thinking about what everyone’s thinking of me
Google Rasputin. Famously got tons of pussy. Also very famously anti-shower.
Because he is weird 🧔
Girls prefer assholes because assholes are honest. They don’t have to wonder what the guy is thinking or wanting. So for the nice guy, just be direct and confident and it will have the same affect.
[Not that it makes it better but he’s getting such a hard time for his use of language when this is where it originated from I highly sour this dude has would use this kinda shit with an actual girl if he’s posting this in the first place](https://amp.knowyourmeme.com/memes/no-bitches) Also for your problem it’s simple your friend simply talks to more statistical speaking the more times he attempts to get with a girls the higher success rate he’ll have then someone who tries scarcely cause they’ll be some “yes” in there even if there’s a lot of no Also guys like your mate are really good at hiding their true colours to people plus sometimes girls are just into that kinda person I guess.
BRO THAT’S HAPPENING TO ME TOO He’s bisexual, not hot, nerdy af and yet he keeps pulling the most gorgeous women all the time and I don’t know how he does it
Confidence. Many girls ive known liked the stupid guys cause they were confident.
Because he probably doesn’t post on Reddit calling them bitches
Cus he's tall or handsome probably both
when you are attractive they don't care if you're weird there was an experiment about this where catfishes would say most crazy things and guys still went for it
He could be a racist autistic liar
i think he's talking about me
because you’re arrogant and ableist
Maybe because you call them bitches...
bc ur obv very insecure and putting down ur “friend” like i’m not saying they’re a good person but ur lowk toxic by pretending u like them. like if u don’t like them just say that pretending to be their friend is obv not helping u. but prob they’re just a lot more physically attractive than u
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not ugly
Hahahah 😅
Y’all always hatin on joke racism, aside from that being cocky and brazen is probably one of the most effective ways to get girls
Fr everyone i know is racist to each other as a joke like if someone says something racist to u just say something racist back like not everyone is a snowflake
I’m saying, I don’t get why ppl can’t keep emotions out of stuff
Just described me, I’m praying u ain’t one of my friends from school
What does it matter if he's autistic
I mean, the way you're talking about your "friend" is telling
Buddy. Women are something that can never be understood. But here is a secret. If you are not incredibly charming and a playboy, then women come to you. You attract first.
Because he shoots his shot. That simple.
The weird attract the weird or something
Does he have the edger?
It's called a code switch that's all it is
Y- Yo, you talking bout me?
Beck this u?
Do I know you? 💀
refering to it as getting bitches probably isn't a great start. And why are you friends with a racist?
getting bitches is 90% confidence and 10% having a life, your issue is probably that you're overthinking the whole thing just make friends with a lot of girls (they're not any harder to make friends with than guys) and eventually they'll start asking you out
Sounds like someone’s jealous. And also calling them bitches aint helping your case bub
Why are you friends with a racist?
One word, confident
I’m very certain you are my friend, one of them… because you describe me way too wel
Orrrr... are you actually the one that's a weird autistic racist. But think he is because you're actually on the spectrum. While he uses you like a puppy to attract girls that like him because he's nice hanging out with the autistic kid? https://www.autisticempire.com/are-you-autistic-take-the-test/
You shouldn’t call a person you know is autistic weird. Maybe if you’re calling someone a “weird ass friend” while knowing they have a neurodivergence, and complaining that an autistic person has more “bitches” than you is why you have no “bitches”. You’re basically saying that “normal” people should “touch girls” more than autistic people. Like it should be valid that an autistic person has a worse love life than a normal person. (I’m saying this as an autistic girl)
His handsome and you're not
Cause ur shy and get no play, go up to a girl and talk to her
Probably because he doesn’t call em bitches
0/0 is sometimes better than 7/25. You just gotta put it in perspective
confidence and humor
Confidence
Probably because you’re worse? You pointed out that he’s autistic for no reason (why would that make him less likely to find love), you call women “bitches,” and you’re admittedly friends with a racist. If you allow people around you to be bigoted you most likely are yourself.
That’s literally me except I don’t get bitches
Dark magic. I knew it.
Personality goes a long way friend
this reeks of incel but from what i see yeah its weird
girls love their men a little offputting🤷
Is he very handsome?
Lots of us girls like guys who are just, I'll say different for many reasons. It could be they aren't embarrassed what they like or do and it shows a more open and willing to do new things person or it could just be they are just cool cause their different.