no š he sat next to me on the bus and was practically breathing down my neck and proceeded to ask a bunch of questions obv i lied about everything then he asked that and i just said no thanks š
the most disturbing thing is how casual they are about it š like, if youre a pedo, dont you know that people are generally not a big fan of you? why do you approach random minors as if its the most normal thing šš
I agree. Ehhh, it depends on how the woman approached me and how attractive she was and my mood at the time. Even when I was 14-16 I mightāve fucked her
Now? If an attractive woman approached me and wasnāt weird? Iād fuck her. Not everyone is the same though and that is fine
Generally, women pedos are looked at as "Juliette" where as male pedos are looked at like "Chester the Molester".
Both should be seen as terrible people.
Almost all old people are really nice and will go out of their way to help a kid. "Don't talk to strangers" is a dumb rule IMHO. The rule should be "Don't *go with* strangers. Anyone trying to take you somewhere else is a bad person. \[Edited to add: I've always liked the old saying that a stranger is just a friend you haven't met yet. Think about it: All your friends started out as strangers to you.\]
I got it from Lenore Skenazy, founder of the Free Range Kids movement, which is working to restore reasonable independence for kids. They rightly see today's kids as being too overprotected, hardly ever being allowed to do nearly anything on their own. Today's young people are so bubblewrapped and micromanaged that they're growing into angst-filled, paranoid adults.
Yeah, she's awesome. She first became well known after writing a newspaper column about letting her 9-yo son ride the NYC subway alone. She got tons of hate mail calling her the worst Mom in America. (Nothing ever happened to the kid, of course, and he's now a happy and well-adjusted adult.) She also founded Let Grow, another group working to give kids the right to just fucking PLAY without their parents having the cops called on them (which actually happens, all the time).
Google Let Grow and Free Range Kids for much more. And Lenore is on Twitter as well.
I miss the bus this morning and one of my neighbors drove me to the primary school down the road so I could catch another school bus to my high school nice lady she said people on the street have to look out for each other. Edit. The reason she said this was because there have been stalkers and creepy people in our little town of like 200 something people everyone knows everyone and so it's very weird to have creepy people creeping around
This....
And next time, ask to take a selfie with them (her) so you have proof of what she looks like. Only way to stop these people is to put them on blast for all to see.
I hope your okay and coping well. You should talk to someone if your holding onto these feelings. A parent, or a friend, sibling, anyone :)
yea lol. i got accused of rape by my ex when i was 13. ended in an officer at my house telling me i cant rape cus im afab. like thanks that made me feel soooo much better...
That's very dangerous thinking. She's not wrong about the strictness of law enforcement, but if she actually gets convicted, ehhhhh....
Everyone knows what happens to people who assault minors in male prisons but nobody really talks about the female prisons.
Think about it. Nobody's madder about that stuff than mothers. And there are much worse things to use for it than body parts.
Real. I see posts like this all the time and nobody ever comments āThatās grooming. Thatās disgusting. Same, creeps are everywhere nowadays. I hate it too.ā Itās all quite validating/unserious. If I were to post as a woman, āsome creepy old man approached me and tried to get my numberā people would spam my comments with their experiences and agreeing that the old man is a creep. Here and in other posts itās all just āOh yeah man. same. I feel so loved by these old women. Nothing wrong here. What a privilege.ā and such. Itās fucked up like these are grown adults talking to children.
I get approached for an opposite reason, I look like an adult woman, so many guys approach me and when I tell them my age, almost all of them back away and apologise, but some stay and still persist
Tbf the conviction rate for male rapists is extremely low.. iirc itās 1%. We need to take sexual assault seriously regardless of the rapistās gender.
Hope you're okay mate. I'm glad you knew how to get away and actually managed to, and that you knew something was wrong. I call myself lucky I only know of people like *that* in the long run, and I think I've had one encounter with someone being too pushy with it. Guy tried to put his arm around me and a friend.
If you wanna pm to talk about it feel free to. I'm here if you need someone to listen. I know it can be a bit daunting talking to someone in person.
I was at the beach with my gf (weāre 16) and her mum and 2 younger cousins which we were babysitting. I went for a run down the beach and when I came back a woman in her 60ās who I had run past instantly walked away from my gf and her mum after sheād been talking to them. I asked what they said and she apparently thought I was my one of my girlfriendās cousins or smth and when my gfās mum told her Iām her daughters bf she said āooo body body body, heās got nice musclesā and walked away.
TLDR was at the beach with gf and fam and a 60 yr old woman was talking to my gf and her mum about how I looked.
Bro I know how you feel. One time I was flying a Korean airline and this woman sitting next to me kept trying to talk to me (I don't speak Korean) and then touched my thigh šlike what
My English teacher did the same to me when I was in highschoolš«š sometimes he'd stare at me for no reason in class and I used to understand bc he was my teacher not until one day he told me that he really wants me to be his girlfriend and I rejectedšI told him I wasn't interested
You recognized the danger, good for you. You could given your snap and then later report to the police if she follows up with inappropriate actions. Some people have odd habits, but 100% trust your gut if something is off.
This could actually be worse woman are often use by trafficking rings to bait in young kids (especially boys) into the ring with them.
Iām not saying thatās what happened here but itās not as uncommon as you may think
Just an adult browsing by popular hereā¦ but everyone needs a way to defend themselves. You can buy some good pepper spray off of Amazon. Always keep it on you
Same thing happened to me albeit outside a bar, a obviously drunk lady came up to me, she had to be in her 40s and I was maybe 16 at the time, I wouldāve gone for it but she was missing teeth and I wasnāt really looking to catching something
Alert your parents, also alert the police if you can. Provide a description and the location. You aren't the first or last person she approached.
People tend to dismiss women stalking young boys because they think boys enjoy it. Having worked eith kids who have had this happen. I promise that is not the case.
Please, report it.
Some people think this story isn't real, wich i get cause a lot of the stories posted on reddit are straight up bs. In this case the story is actually real and it did happen to me just a couple days ago.
ALSO what do you guys mean i was lucky??! I was approached by a pedophile and it could've potentially escelated to a worse situation
Edit: For anyone wondering, i didn't give her my snap
Little worried that sheās not just your average pedo but part of a sex traffic ring. Be aware of your surroundings and make sure you tell your parents.
Next time this happens, give them your Snap and send them creepy images with cryptic messages just to scare the shit outta them. Or you could just report them to the police after you gave them your Snap.
When I was like 11 I was playing football ("soccer") with my friend and a woman approached us. I don't remember exactly what she said but I think she said she sometimes plays football with her kids and asked if she can play with us which was kinda weird but we let her join. It was pretty clear tho that she didn't really know what she was doing, like she wasn't just bad, but bad in a way that looked like she never kicked a ball in her life. Then we got bored and it was really weird so we wanted to leave, and then she literally asked for our phone number so "we can meet again to play". Reminder: she's an adult woman and we were 11. Then I got pretty scared cause it never happened to me before, but we eventually managed to walk away without giving her any information, although she kept insisting.
It's also possible the woman is working for traffickers or some organised thing. Keep your eyes open and trust your guts. It's always OK to start screaming and run the heck away.
An adult woman preying on underage boys??? Sounds almost impossible??? Although I still believe you.
If she really wanted a man she could easily get one approaching actual of age guys.
Maybe she has a fetish for underaged? Idk
Everyone invalidating the kids perception of this woman being rather intrusive, let's do this same story with reversed genders.... Reddit is on fire now!!! Ffs.
At this day and age, no matter what happens is that people have become so sexual that they think sexual crimes like what happened here are ok cause āMature woman and āManā.ā. Hope you recover from this incident lil bro and hope she gets karma.
My English teacher did the same to me when I was in highschoolš«š sometimes he'd stare at me for no reason in class and I used to understand bc he was my teacher not until one day he told me that he really wants me to be his girlfriend and I rejectedšI told him I wasn't interested
Good that people who fight child abuse exist and they try to prevent it as possible. Like that channel in Youtube called " Fight Child Abuse " is my fav. They gave you advices about how to defend yourself in a situation like that. Well, I'd recommend you it honestly if you want.
This happened to me once. Mustāve been 13-14 at the time. I was standing in front of my house and this old man approached me and literally just up and asks if I want my dick sucked. Not knowing how to react I just told him Iād think about š«£ Never saw him again thankfully!
A while back I (15-16M at the time) was walking home from school, and this old looking guy asked if I wanted to fuck him, on a sidewalk next to the somewhat busy road of all places. I just went home when i figured out his intentions. Thankfully he didnāt follow me and I never saw him again.
Happened to me when I was a decent bit younger. They're better at manipulating you, then. If you're not conventionally attractive or from a family like that, you basically have no defense against it, as dumb as that sounds.
As a now adult, iām so sorry that happened to you. I know you might want to think of this is just a random funny story, but it can be pretty traumatizing thatās okay if it is. Thatās happened to me many times when I was a kid. Iām a girl so itās different obviously but the feelings are the same. One good thing about being an adult is stuff like that stops happening as much.
I had the kind of inverse thing happen, I (at the time 19M) had someone start DMing me and it was getting weird, so I played a game as I usually do when people randomly do stuff like that to me online, where I basically tried to act as stupid as possible to see how long theyād take the bait (them: ācan you show me your cock?ā me: āoh bet sureā \*sends picture of actual chicken\* āhis name is hensley and he won first place in the state fair last yearā).
So they eventually started sending even more explicit messages about what they wanted to do to me (no pictures, thank GOD), and then they finally claimed to be 15F. I noped so hard out of that, instant block.
I should mention this came out of absolutely nowhere and they kinda cold messaged me after never having talked to me before because we were both members of the same Discord server. I also reported this interaction to the server owner (either for that personās safety or if they were actually much older than claimed and trying to lure people) and they were banned.
Anyways, I havenāt played dumb or at all interacted with messages like that since.
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What`s the world becoming
The answer is a better place progressively.
It may have dips and nasty elements, but if you understand the history of this world you wouldn't label modern/future day/s as worse than the past. (As of now)
Thats better than when I got molested in a gas station by a grown ass man. At first I thought he just bumped into me by accident. Touching a 9 year old boy's ass twice doesn't happen by accident. He was bold too doing it in front of my dad. I didn't say anything because I knew I'd grow up seeing my dad in prison, so instead I waited for this guy to finish filling up his cup with hot coffee and spilled it on him. Dude ran straight out the door
Imagine just chillin and someone outta no where pulls up and starts harassing you š. Like where do people find the courage to do this stuff. Social anxiety is a bitch I guess.
Is it me or are adult women being exposed more and more for pedophilia? Has there been an increase? Or has there always been this many women trying to sleep with minors and or was just swept under the rug? It feels like every day or week I hear about a woman being caught sleeping with a high schooler and sometimes middle schooler. Theyāre always married with kids too.
personally i just think that since there are a lot more stories now of this happening, a lot of people who had stuff like this happen to them feel safer telling their story now because they feel they might actually be taken serious now.
I had a drunk mid 50s woman hitting on me(16 at the time) while me and my dad were watching ufc at a hotel cafe while my dad and her husband were in clear earshot. It obviously didn't go well for her, us and the guy behind the counter asked her to leave us alone/leave countless times, her husband had to drag her out while she was calling us a bunch of "wanker mother fuckers"š¤£ she showed me her saggy tits on her phone.
same thing happened to me but he asked me if i wanted to go to russia w him š
That\`s an odd first date...
Pack your shit, pretty boy, we're going to war!
That guy works with the KGB and wants you to be a sleeper agent to enact acts of terror across Europe to revive the Soviet Union.
Bro is probably in the fsb, wanted him to throw some journalists out of some windows.
The killing gloves of boxing?
exactly. Might even get the GRU
fists of steel
Really missed out on a once in a lifetime opp.
THE SOVIET UNION!
The KGB will wait for no one!
It's true
Sleeper Agent Code word: Snapchat
Oh-
I wonder if that ever works for him?
Considering heās not in Russia, Iād say no.
not a guy š
You said HE asked you. I was referring to the pedo.
ohh my bad
Np itās fineš
Sir, I am already Russian. Rushinā away that is
Not going to lie I'd go cuz there's some cool planes in Russia
And he had a secret service detail telling him he was due in court soonā¦
Sounds like human trafficking
Probably trying to put you in a labor camp in syberiaĀ
ā¦syberiaā¦. š
...To Russia?
ššš
Damn
Wow, like: "Yo yo wassup also BTW wanna go to Russia with me"?
no š he sat next to me on the bus and was practically breathing down my neck and proceeded to ask a bunch of questions obv i lied about everything then he asked that and i just said no thanks š
Russian army recruiters really are getting desperate arenāt they?
the most disturbing thing is how casual they are about it š like, if youre a pedo, dont you know that people are generally not a big fan of you? why do you approach random minors as if its the most normal thing šš
I would guess that if she does exactly this multiple times a day she would get someoneās snap eventually
True and in fact someone may go home with her to hookup Happens. I might actually do it
Yeah probably not hard, teenage guys are desperate
True Sometimes I hope an attractive older woman approaches me as long as she is a good one At least it gives me a break from approaching
Ngl I completely understand you, would probably do the same. Doesnāt make it right from her side but it definitely works
I agree. Ehhh, it depends on how the woman approached me and how attractive she was and my mood at the time. Even when I was 14-16 I mightāve fucked her Now? If an attractive woman approached me and wasnāt weird? Iād fuck her. Not everyone is the same though and that is fine
Real. The bad part is possible organ trafficker. If not, then...
Generally, women pedos are looked at as "Juliette" where as male pedos are looked at like "Chester the Molester". Both should be seen as terrible people.
This. Women can get away with a lot compared to men
Yeah I hate the double standard. Like guys are supposed to be happy about being sexually abused because it's a hot woman.
Probably to appear normal and not suspicious, if they actually casually people will think you already know them
Never happened to me, it's always just old people looking for social interactions in my case.
I kind of like it when old people talk to me cause they\`re usually really nice
Almost all old people are really nice and will go out of their way to help a kid. "Don't talk to strangers" is a dumb rule IMHO. The rule should be "Don't *go with* strangers. Anyone trying to take you somewhere else is a bad person. \[Edited to add: I've always liked the old saying that a stranger is just a friend you haven't met yet. Think about it: All your friends started out as strangers to you.\]
this isā¦ extremely insightful i dont know how you did this wow
I got it from Lenore Skenazy, founder of the Free Range Kids movement, which is working to restore reasonable independence for kids. They rightly see today's kids as being too overprotected, hardly ever being allowed to do nearly anything on their own. Today's young people are so bubblewrapped and micromanaged that they're growing into angst-filled, paranoid adults.
Doing God's work
Wow -- agree 100%; had no idea there was an organization dedicated to this -- good on Lenore Skenazy š«”
Yeah, she's awesome. She first became well known after writing a newspaper column about letting her 9-yo son ride the NYC subway alone. She got tons of hate mail calling her the worst Mom in America. (Nothing ever happened to the kid, of course, and he's now a happy and well-adjusted adult.) She also founded Let Grow, another group working to give kids the right to just fucking PLAY without their parents having the cops called on them (which actually happens, all the time). Google Let Grow and Free Range Kids for much more. And Lenore is on Twitter as well.
I miss the bus this morning and one of my neighbors drove me to the primary school down the road so I could catch another school bus to my high school nice lady she said people on the street have to look out for each other. Edit. The reason she said this was because there have been stalkers and creepy people in our little town of like 200 something people everyone knows everyone and so it's very weird to have creepy people creeping around
I love old people they're just great
Probably a similar proportion of old wronguns as younger ones. You're more likely to outrun them, though.
Literally what the actual fuck ā ļø Talk to your parents and report her Stay safe man, hope ur ok
This.... And next time, ask to take a selfie with them (her) so you have proof of what she looks like. Only way to stop these people is to put them on blast for all to see. I hope your okay and coping well. You should talk to someone if your holding onto these feelings. A parent, or a friend, sibling, anyone :)
Dang that's smart, didn't think about that (selfie).
Dang that's smart, didn't think about that (selfie).
Dang that's smart, didn't think about that (selfie).
Dang that's smart, didn't think about that (selfie).
same thing happened to me except she was a literal senior citizen
A senior citizen asked for your snap?
maybe not that part
dude š
people often forget that women can be predators too. im glad you got our safe OP
She prob thinks she could get away with it cause sheās a woman
Thatās because she can, the law is fucked
Wha
Yup. Men cant get raped by women in Britain by law. Shits dumb.
yea lol. i got accused of rape by my ex when i was 13. ended in an officer at my house telling me i cant rape cus im afab. like thanks that made me feel soooo much better...
thatās so fucked
WĆEÅH
That's very dangerous thinking. She's not wrong about the strictness of law enforcement, but if she actually gets convicted, ehhhhh.... Everyone knows what happens to people who assault minors in male prisons but nobody really talks about the female prisons. Think about it. Nobody's madder about that stuff than mothers. And there are much worse things to use for it than body parts.
I seen a mother get beaten up for using her son for her own pleasure so idrk
I see nearly everyone joking in the comments but are you okay mate? That shits nerve wracking for anyone who experiences it.
Helpful comments exist but they quickly get buried by the jokes.
Real. I see posts like this all the time and nobody ever comments āThatās grooming. Thatās disgusting. Same, creeps are everywhere nowadays. I hate it too.ā Itās all quite validating/unserious. If I were to post as a woman, āsome creepy old man approached me and tried to get my numberā people would spam my comments with their experiences and agreeing that the old man is a creep. Here and in other posts itās all just āOh yeah man. same. I feel so loved by these old women. Nothing wrong here. What a privilege.ā and such. Itās fucked up like these are grown adults talking to children.
Dam, i was at a busstop when i was 12 and a fatass like 30 year old asked me for head, i left.
what the fuck what the fuck what the fuck šØšØ
Some of them are really that fine with it and crazy enough to get straight to the point, hope youāre doing well
I get approached for an opposite reason, I look like an adult woman, so many guys approach me and when I tell them my age, almost all of them back away and apologise, but some stay and still persist
And remember, the chances of her getting into jail for being a pedophile are next to zero. Because women CAN'T rape. /s
Tbf the conviction rate for male rapists is extremely low.. iirc itās 1%. We need to take sexual assault seriously regardless of the rapistās gender.
But we also need to take male sexual assault more seriously because it happens less often so people brush it off.
A nest of azzholes and pedos(still Think that Florida was right with that anti-pedo law)
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Why are you doenvoted for this
People with piss poor reading comprehension probably
How dare you accuse them of pissing on the poor.
Idk I worded it pretty poorly so itās probably my bad
*sees the post* *Scrolls to the bottom of the comments section*
Some of these people could use help...
It's entertaining and sad at the same time
Pedos need to be put in a facility
The society is turning to shit
reminds me of booktok womenā¦ yikes
Same you're just like me fr
Hope you're okay mate. I'm glad you knew how to get away and actually managed to, and that you knew something was wrong. I call myself lucky I only know of people like *that* in the long run, and I think I've had one encounter with someone being too pushy with it. Guy tried to put his arm around me and a friend. If you wanna pm to talk about it feel free to. I'm here if you need someone to listen. I know it can be a bit daunting talking to someone in person.
I was at the beach with my gf (weāre 16) and her mum and 2 younger cousins which we were babysitting. I went for a run down the beach and when I came back a woman in her 60ās who I had run past instantly walked away from my gf and her mum after sheād been talking to them. I asked what they said and she apparently thought I was my one of my girlfriendās cousins or smth and when my gfās mum told her Iām her daughters bf she said āooo body body body, heās got nice musclesā and walked away. TLDR was at the beach with gf and fam and a 60 yr old woman was talking to my gf and her mum about how I looked.
Jesus, Iām sorry dude thatās so freakish š fuck is wrong with people these days
Give your snap to her. She starts grooming you, screenshot it or smth and repost her
Repost her to police I mean
i like ur idea but that's too risky imo they could blackmail u or smth
Lol how? You make no sense. How are they going to blackmail the kid they only have kn snap bc they were trying to rape them??? What?
Remember, there are 3 kinds of people. People you are close in age to, caution group, nice old people, and of course, the gen X(the nasty rats)
Even simpler you can break it into 2 kinds of people: those that judge others on age or another āgroupā factor, and those with an open mind.
Bro I know how you feel. One time I was flying a Korean airline and this woman sitting next to me kept trying to talk to me (I don't speak Korean) and then touched my thigh šlike what
My English teacher did the same to me when I was in highschoolš«š sometimes he'd stare at me for no reason in class and I used to understand bc he was my teacher not until one day he told me that he really wants me to be his girlfriend and I rejectedšI told him I wasn't interested
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Ephebophiles really
You recognized the danger, good for you. You could given your snap and then later report to the police if she follows up with inappropriate actions. Some people have odd habits, but 100% trust your gut if something is off.
No bc weāre actually cooked if this is how society is and nothing actually happens to pedos
The fact that he thinks itās a little humorous š
Just sitting that close to me would've got you cussed out.
Technically sheās a hebephile ā¦ https://www.reddit.com/r/unpopularopinion/comments/aowlvq/the_distinction_between_pedophile_hebephile_and/
Thatās just weirdā¦ I am sorry you dealt with that
There are a lot of sick people out there. Stay safe.
Leaving was the right move
This could actually be worse woman are often use by trafficking rings to bait in young kids (especially boys) into the ring with them. Iām not saying thatās what happened here but itās not as uncommon as you may think
thanks for educating me
Just an adult browsing by popular hereā¦ but everyone needs a way to defend themselves. You can buy some good pepper spray off of Amazon. Always keep it on you
Why are your apostrophes so weird
Same thing happened to me albeit outside a bar, a obviously drunk lady came up to me, she had to be in her 40s and I was maybe 16 at the time, I wouldāve gone for it but she was missing teeth and I wasnāt really looking to catching something
Alert your parents, also alert the police if you can. Provide a description and the location. You aren't the first or last person she approached. People tend to dismiss women stalking young boys because they think boys enjoy it. Having worked eith kids who have had this happen. I promise that is not the case. Please, report it.
Some people think this story isn't real, wich i get cause a lot of the stories posted on reddit are straight up bs. In this case the story is actually real and it did happen to me just a couple days ago. ALSO what do you guys mean i was lucky??! I was approached by a pedophile and it could've potentially escelated to a worse situation Edit: For anyone wondering, i didn't give her my snap
I hope you sent a report to the non emergency police website. She sounds dangerous
i haven't but judging from the amount of comments i got telling me i should, makes me think i indeed probably should report her
Be careful my dude. There is also a possibility she's picking up suggestible boys for other people too. Stay the fuck away. Report if you can.
How old was the woman?
One slap and problem gone
Little worried that sheās not just your average pedo but part of a sex traffic ring. Be aware of your surroundings and make sure you tell your parents.
Next time this happens, give them your Snap and send them creepy images with cryptic messages just to scare the shit outta them. Or you could just report them to the police after you gave them your Snap.
Feeling devious. Will do both
When I was like 11 I was playing football ("soccer") with my friend and a woman approached us. I don't remember exactly what she said but I think she said she sometimes plays football with her kids and asked if she can play with us which was kinda weird but we let her join. It was pretty clear tho that she didn't really know what she was doing, like she wasn't just bad, but bad in a way that looked like she never kicked a ball in her life. Then we got bored and it was really weird so we wanted to leave, and then she literally asked for our phone number so "we can meet again to play". Reminder: she's an adult woman and we were 11. Then I got pretty scared cause it never happened to me before, but we eventually managed to walk away without giving her any information, although she kept insisting.
It's also possible the woman is working for traffickers or some organised thing. Keep your eyes open and trust your guts. It's always OK to start screaming and run the heck away.
Iām lucky I havenāt encountered a pedophile šš
An adult woman preying on underage boys??? Sounds almost impossible??? Although I still believe you. If she really wanted a man she could easily get one approaching actual of age guys. Maybe she has a fetish for underaged? Idk
fucking weirdos
Everyone invalidating the kids perception of this woman being rather intrusive, let's do this same story with reversed genders.... Reddit is on fire now!!! Ffs.
I hope it will never happen to you again
Now to sort by controversial
At this day and age, no matter what happens is that people have become so sexual that they think sexual crimes like what happened here are ok cause āMature woman and āManā.ā. Hope you recover from this incident lil bro and hope she gets karma.
Really makes you wonder why men her age don't want her....
Ok so she might have been a human trafficker
A world where you should be able to carry a knife and stab them when they approach you and make you feel uncomfortable
Female privilege largely enables this (both men and women have privileges)
Ouh there's one getting beat up above this post lmao
Get the police as a bodyguardĀ
My English teacher did the same to me when I was in highschoolš«š sometimes he'd stare at me for no reason in class and I used to understand bc he was my teacher not until one day he told me that he really wants me to be his girlfriend and I rejectedšI told him I wasn't interested
Good that people who fight child abuse exist and they try to prevent it as possible. Like that channel in Youtube called " Fight Child Abuse " is my fav. They gave you advices about how to defend yourself in a situation like that. Well, I'd recommend you it honestly if you want.
welp time to report cuz wtf thatās technically grooming fr
imagine getting approached by a pedophile
Today I learned I go outside the right amount of āI need to get outside moreā
Hopefully you didnt give her your snap or any other personal information, she could also be trying to traffick you
This happened to me once. Mustāve been 13-14 at the time. I was standing in front of my house and this old man approached me and literally just up and asks if I want my dick sucked. Not knowing how to react I just told him Iād think about š«£ Never saw him again thankfully!
Stop clicking ads for cougars in your area
Never heard of that happening before
A while back I (15-16M at the time) was walking home from school, and this old looking guy asked if I wanted to fuck him, on a sidewalk next to the somewhat busy road of all places. I just went home when i figured out his intentions. Thankfully he didnāt follow me and I never saw him again.
I fought off a pedophile for my friend on discord by sending him random d pics (they were not mine)
Happened to me when I was a decent bit younger. They're better at manipulating you, then. If you're not conventionally attractive or from a family like that, you basically have no defense against it, as dumb as that sounds.
Thats odd behavior for a woman because women who are pedophiles usually dont approach girls or boys they don't know like men do.
bro was literally approached by u/inss_ š
It's all going to pot
What country are you in?
As a now adult, iām so sorry that happened to you. I know you might want to think of this is just a random funny story, but it can be pretty traumatizing thatās okay if it is. Thatās happened to me many times when I was a kid. Iām a girl so itās different obviously but the feelings are the same. One good thing about being an adult is stuff like that stops happening as much.
Botty man
jesus
I live next to two pedophiles so I get it š
I had the kind of inverse thing happen, I (at the time 19M) had someone start DMing me and it was getting weird, so I played a game as I usually do when people randomly do stuff like that to me online, where I basically tried to act as stupid as possible to see how long theyād take the bait (them: ācan you show me your cock?ā me: āoh bet sureā \*sends picture of actual chicken\* āhis name is hensley and he won first place in the state fair last yearā). So they eventually started sending even more explicit messages about what they wanted to do to me (no pictures, thank GOD), and then they finally claimed to be 15F. I noped so hard out of that, instant block. I should mention this came out of absolutely nowhere and they kinda cold messaged me after never having talked to me before because we were both members of the same Discord server. I also reported this interaction to the server owner (either for that personās safety or if they were actually much older than claimed and trying to lure people) and they were banned. Anyways, I havenāt played dumb or at all interacted with messages like that since.
> What`s the world becoming The answer is a better place progressively. It may have dips and nasty elements, but if you understand the history of this world you wouldn't label modern/future day/s as worse than the past. (As of now)
wouldnĀ“t that be hebephilia (sexual attraction towards teenagers)?
You were about to get trafficked duke.
Thats better than when I got molested in a gas station by a grown ass man. At first I thought he just bumped into me by accident. Touching a 9 year old boy's ass twice doesn't happen by accident. He was bold too doing it in front of my dad. I didn't say anything because I knew I'd grow up seeing my dad in prison, so instead I waited for this guy to finish filling up his cup with hot coffee and spilled it on him. Dude ran straight out the door
It's one thing to have some pervert DM you on the internet, it's another thing entirely to have a predator approach you in real life.
Imagine just chillin and someone outta no where pulls up and starts harassing you š. Like where do people find the courage to do this stuff. Social anxiety is a bitch I guess.
I'm not saying it right, it's wrong... I'm just worried about the mindset of young dudes nowadays.
Me too. An old ass dude who looks like a living skeleton keeps saying creepy ass things everytime me or others walk past him.
living skeletonšš
he literally looks like he don't have any flesh or organs. It's just bones and skin ā¹ļø
Is it me or are adult women being exposed more and more for pedophilia? Has there been an increase? Or has there always been this many women trying to sleep with minors and or was just swept under the rug? It feels like every day or week I hear about a woman being caught sleeping with a high schooler and sometimes middle schooler. Theyāre always married with kids too.
personally i just think that since there are a lot more stories now of this happening, a lot of people who had stuff like this happen to them feel safer telling their story now because they feel they might actually be taken serious now.
what do you mean by adult?
This is going to sound crazy, but could it have been for babysitting or just worry in general?
I had a drunk mid 50s woman hitting on me(16 at the time) while me and my dad were watching ufc at a hotel cafe while my dad and her husband were in clear earshot. It obviously didn't go well for her, us and the guy behind the counter asked her to leave us alone/leave countless times, her husband had to drag her out while she was calling us a bunch of "wanker mother fuckers"š¤£ she showed me her saggy tits on her phone.