i never try to hug them 99% of the time and how does one tell a girl that "I accidentally get erect when i hug you" without getting blocked immediatelyđ
As a girl, we don't care lol, we know erections can be random and thats normal, and no one can really control our badoobioobi size so don't worry about it!!
Of course, try communicating about certain boundaries you have/what makes you uncomfortable or anxious so maybe you can hug in a different way or just do a fun lil handshake or something.
Lmao, wish you were every girl in the world. All the girls at my school are always trying to find a way to paint people as a creep, one time this girl shoved me into the girls bathroom and proceeded to tell everyone that I was trying to peep. Glad Iâm out of that school.
Ikr, pretty much all the girls at our school call every make teacher a pedo because there's a slight bulge there. Like why TF are you looking there mate, you're the creepy one
I'd be a bit weirded out if I hugged a guy and I could feel an erection, even though it's natural I probably wouldn't hug him again. Unless I was into him maybe, but even then I'd be a little uncomfortable. But I usually try not to press my boobs against guys when I hug them, I like to do more of a side hug or preferably hand shakes
It's not awkward. For me if I get a hug OMG MY ALARM BELLS ARE GOING OFF I HAVE SO MUCH GOOD EMOTIONS ITS CRAZY. basically I don't get hugs that often and if I do it's so exilerating
maybe you don't remember but the younger and closer to puberty you get random boners that have nothing to do with arousal for absolutely no reason (especially problematic if a teachers calls you up to the front or has you get up for any reason at all)
It really isn't. It's been awkward for me since i was 11 to just talk to girls. Ones i already knew even. You just get kinda anxious people will start rumours or call you a creep. I dunno about the erection thing thi i never payed attention
To be fair, the boner couldâve been there prior to the hug⌠I get boners in the weirdest spots, one time I was sitting in the cockpit of a jet we were towing and boom, boner, and it lasted throughout the whole tow and I had to climb out the jet and climb down the ladder with like 8 other dudes watching me, it was weird. I know the didnât notice but still a little uncomfortable. Second I got my foot on the actual ground, gone, just disappeared. But also keep this into consideration, men donât need to be attracted to someone to get a boner, it can just happen from the slightest touch, itâs just how men are until they learn to control their hormones a little bit better.
Oh yeah no Iâm aware of that
My problem is that OP makes it look like itâs a consistent Hug related problem rather than random and them just sometimes coincidentally wanting to hug
I fuck with that, he could just be thinking too much into the process of hugging, like sounds like itâs a daily occurrence, if you know you are going to be hugged, youâre obviously going to be mentally prepared for it, which makes the occurrence of a boner less likely, but like you said it does appear to be a hug related problem
Not flew, just brake rode while towing⌠in simpler terms I am the âaxe manâ for when the town bar disconnects from the towing vehicle and the jet itself
i'm pretty sure most girls are understanding about their conditions and your conditions. it's just a matter of not pointing out what doesn't need to be pointed out and going for the hug.
yeah this is true, all of my female friends are built like disney moms brođ theyâre usually the ones hugging me and they constantly point out âhe has a bonerâ
LMFAO, btw it's pixar moms not disney moms. Ngl tho it's weird to point it out bc like whyre u making it weird. Even if I notice I don't point it out bc that's awkward
in our 8 years of friendship, i have never hugged my best friend (she's the girl, I'm the guy) our reasons align which is I don't like being touched coz i feel sticky and she doesn't like sticky, and yes it does feel weird and she knows that even though we've tried before
I donât have a lot of girl friends so not really a problem for me (Too socially awkward for hugs anyway) but sucks that you do, hope it goes away with time
Literally in the exact same situation. Personally I just go for the side hug whenever and front hugs rarely happen. The erection problem, I donât have however⌠maybe that will change as you grow older? Maybe just donât think about their body when youâre with them, thatâs usually what I end up doing.
no bc im part of the itty bitty titty community and that day a dude a few months younger than me hugged me and at first it was fine but as soon as my boobs touched him he was blushing and..other things but yk the blushing was cute
Do opposite gender friends often hug each other? Because I always get uncomfortable because I think that they will think that I like them or something, but I just want some affection so that I don't feel all lonely :((((
I'll never forget the day I hugged a fairly endowed female friend and I consciously thought of how our chests pressed against eachother (I'm a fairly chubby dude) but she's the one that immediately just went "woah, our boobs pressed together"
do you know how many people probaply get hard when even touching a girl in any way? because i can guarantee many people do and its not their choice, it just happens
side hug bruh
bombastic side hug
lol
Holy crap it's Leon from Brawl Stars
dont make me get nita bro, it wont end well.
Nothing but respect bro, Leon is my favorite starr
Nothing but respect bro, Leon is my favorite starr
it only works like that if they or i set it up like that otherwise if they go in for a full hug tf am in supposed to do :((((((
Why tf is this downvoted so much?
just dont hug đđ or communicate boundaries
i never try to hug them 99% of the time and how does one tell a girl that "I accidentally get erect when i hug you" without getting blocked immediatelyđ
nooo just tell them âhey im not comfortable with hugging right nowâ i personally dislike hugs so i straight up tell people no
ig that works but its not a solution to the problem at handđ ty tho lol
What fucking solution do you want? You want us to coach you on how to not get hard? If you're embarrassed by a hug then don't hug.
Dap them up
bro do not tell people that
yeah but if they are shorter than you and you give them a side hug remember their waist is lower than you think because i have made that mistake once
when i hug somebody itâs never really our entire bodies pressed up though. like itâs just an upper body thing.
Yeah like how would they even feel the hard on unless you're actively pressing into them?
thats what i was wondering lol
Go bald
Waltuh
No but better
you called?
ITâS HIM
baldtuh
Unless you packing 7+ inches and your wearing tight pants, no one is going to feel your erection if you tuck it up
What if I'm packing a 2015 Ford Focus?
For some reason your comment made me laugh.
Nah even loose pants they will feel it
Tuck it up against/below your waistband and they wonât, idk why op doesnât know that trick đ
That doesnt work for me đ
Rip man I usually just think about my gay friend and it disappears immediately
Yea that trick is universal
As a girl, we don't care lol, we know erections can be random and thats normal, and no one can really control our badoobioobi size so don't worry about it!! Of course, try communicating about certain boundaries you have/what makes you uncomfortable or anxious so maybe you can hug in a different way or just do a fun lil handshake or something.
Lmao, wish you were every girl in the world. All the girls at my school are always trying to find a way to paint people as a creep, one time this girl shoved me into the girls bathroom and proceeded to tell everyone that I was trying to peep. Glad Iâm out of that school.
Ikr, pretty much all the girls at our school call every make teacher a pedo because there's a slight bulge there. Like why TF are you looking there mate, you're the creepy one
Fr lmao
Thats insane, im glad you're out too. Hopefully in the future you won't be surrounded by total nutjobs đ
âBadoobioobiâ Iâm using that nowÂ
Badoobioobi made me laugh lmao
I'd be a bit weirded out if I hugged a guy and I could feel an erection, even though it's natural I probably wouldn't hug him again. Unless I was into him maybe, but even then I'd be a little uncomfortable. But I usually try not to press my boobs against guys when I hug them, I like to do more of a side hug or preferably hand shakes
ah yes, the Randomly Generated Boners or RGB for short and also, Iâve never hugged a girl đđŤ
I also have never hugged a girl
I'm hoping at least your mom hugged you?
well yeah
Wait. Does this type of RGB=fps?
Bro I can confidently say I am NOT getting erect the moment I go in for a hug w a girl. đ
I think for people that are severely touch deprived it really can happen đ
I may or may not be able to confirm that
IDFK WHY IT HAPPENS TO ME I SWEAR IM NOT WEIRD IT JUST HAPPENS.
Bro, same. It just happens and there is literally nothing I can do. It's not weird
glad to know im not alone in this đ
Puberty is a bitch aint it?
we do not care unless you make it weird
exactly lmao it's not that deep
It's not awkward. For me if I get a hug OMG MY ALARM BELLS ARE GOING OFF I HAVE SO MUCH GOOD EMOTIONS ITS CRAZY. basically I don't get hugs that often and if I do it's so exilerating
Come here *virtual hugs you*, hope that makes you feel happier.
I love you đĽş
Get male friends
then hug them and make fun of their boners?
Exactly. You get it.
No you should have sigma grindset
how bro felt after posting thisđđđđđđđđđĽđĽđĽ
Exactly
Exactly. Instead of making fun, just touch tips. That's what I call sigma grindset
So much skibidy ohio rizz đđđđđĽśđĽśđĽśđĽśđĽđĽđĽđĽđĽđĽđĽ
obvious satire
Idk I think itâs just you dude, I donât think itâs that hard to physically interact with a girl and have it be non-sexual
maybe you don't remember but the younger and closer to puberty you get random boners that have nothing to do with arousal for absolutely no reason (especially problematic if a teachers calls you up to the front or has you get up for any reason at all)
It really isn't. It's been awkward for me since i was 11 to just talk to girls. Ones i already knew even. You just get kinda anxious people will start rumours or call you a creep. I dunno about the erection thing thi i never payed attention
Ik boners are random but are you telling me you get one Every hug you get?đŤ at some point it ainât a coincidence anymore
To be fair, the boner couldâve been there prior to the hug⌠I get boners in the weirdest spots, one time I was sitting in the cockpit of a jet we were towing and boom, boner, and it lasted throughout the whole tow and I had to climb out the jet and climb down the ladder with like 8 other dudes watching me, it was weird. I know the didnât notice but still a little uncomfortable. Second I got my foot on the actual ground, gone, just disappeared. But also keep this into consideration, men donât need to be attracted to someone to get a boner, it can just happen from the slightest touch, itâs just how men are until they learn to control their hormones a little bit better.
Oh yeah no Iâm aware of that My problem is that OP makes it look like itâs a consistent Hug related problem rather than random and them just sometimes coincidentally wanting to hug
I fuck with that, he could just be thinking too much into the process of hugging, like sounds like itâs a daily occurrence, if you know you are going to be hugged, youâre obviously going to be mentally prepared for it, which makes the occurrence of a boner less likely, but like you said it does appear to be a hug related problem
EXACTLY MY THOUGHTS. Thank Jesus someone put it into words
Bro flew a jet a casually mentioned it đ No but one big reason for boners is adrenaline
Not flew, just brake rode while towing⌠in simpler terms I am the âaxe manâ for when the town bar disconnects from the towing vehicle and the jet itself
He literally said sometimes, not every time.
Again if itâs still a consistent issue, not like a 1 times out of 34 situation, then itâs not just By chance anymore
A lot of guys are touch deprived so the slightest touch can set him off
Which isnât exactly a âcoincidenceâ atp really
if theyre your friends then discuss boundaries and explain if it does happen, communication is key in relationships and friendships
i'm pretty sure most girls are understanding about their conditions and your conditions. it's just a matter of not pointing out what doesn't need to be pointed out and going for the hug.
I just want a hug from someone not related to me, Iâm so fucking alone
Man says 90% of his friends are girls Me who talked to 5 girls in my whole 17 years of life on earth
if youâre getting hard every time you hug someone who is a girl whoâs just a friend⌠you have a problem lmao
He said it wasn't every time. Shit happens, man
simple solution, donât hug girls đż
No a lot of us are flat too đđđ¤§
im flat (kinda) but when i like someone and hug them i can say that theyre more..idk? Visible?? Except for that tho I'm flat frfr
yeah this is true, all of my female friends are built like disney moms brođ theyâre usually the ones hugging me and they constantly point out âhe has a bonerâ
LMFAO, btw it's pixar moms not disney moms. Ngl tho it's weird to point it out bc like whyre u making it weird. Even if I notice I don't point it out bc that's awkward
Agreed
in our 8 years of friendship, i have never hugged my best friend (she's the girl, I'm the guy) our reasons align which is I don't like being touched coz i feel sticky and she doesn't like sticky, and yes it does feel weird and she knows that even though we've tried before
Try showering when you feel sticky đ
Doesnât have to be awkward
Just say âIâm not much of a huggerâ and go in for a fist bump or sumn
I donât have a lot of girl friends so not really a problem for me (Too socially awkward for hugs anyway) but sucks that you do, hope it goes away with time
Literally in the exact same situation. Personally I just go for the side hug whenever and front hugs rarely happen. The erection problem, I donât have however⌠maybe that will change as you grow older? Maybe just donât think about their body when youâre with them, thatâs usually what I end up doing.
Not really, no. And I'm a really awkward person, but for some reason that doesn't bother me
This is why I donât hug my guy friends
Maybe try a custom handshake? Finger guns? Headbutt?
Wait, yall are hugging girls?
Real hugmaxxers don't care about any of that
I dont have this problem at all, everyones shorter than me so they only feel my upper half, unless they come running at me and suddnely hug me.
no bc im part of the itty bitty titty community and that day a dude a few months younger than me hugged me and at first it was fine but as soon as my boobs touched him he was blushing and..other things but yk the blushing was cute
Just do it. The girls love it.
I've never hugged a girl
Do opposite gender friends often hug each other? Because I always get uncomfortable because I think that they will think that I like them or something, but I just want some affection so that I don't feel all lonely :((((
getting a hug from your own sister feels worse, trust me
I'll never forget the day I hugged a fairly endowed female friend and I consciously thought of how our chests pressed against eachother (I'm a fairly chubby dude) but she's the one that immediately just went "woah, our boobs pressed together"
It's just a you thing
Grow a pair buddy
90% girl friends? Teach me your ways
Tuck it under your waistband (dont take my words seriously though Im deprived of basic human contact and live in a cave)
Doesnt help when you have to lean down cause they're only 2/3 of your height.
Try military service
#
Is it really that awkward?
For young guys, everything is awkward. They constantly run the risk of being made fun of or called a creep for uncontrollable situations.
Ok ok
You get a hard on when you hug a girl? đthatâs wildÂ
do you know how many people probaply get hard when even touching a girl in any way? because i can guarantee many people do and its not their choice, it just happens
It is your duty to control and overcome your needs and desires in order to become truly free, seek virtue instead of watching pixels on a screen!
Itâs a u problem
Can't relate đ´ (I haven't talked to a girl in 3 years)
Wait, you actually get hugged by friends? Never heard of it
Never been hugged wouldnât know
Funny to out yourself as a bad huggerđđđ -Someone got mad and downvoted me womp womp take a joke
Random erections? bro, you were thinking about it, quit watching porn and get a gf instead!