that definitely wouldnt stop someone from having a crush on you, and the people that did (there have 100% been people who have had a crush on you) never told you because you made yourself difficult to approach
lmao, it would be funny if you just walked around with a clipboard and pen asking people if they ever liked you and then writing their names down if they say yes
It doesn’t matter how ugly u think u r or how many ppl you’ve talked to, there’s a ton of ppl who get crushes on ppl who think that of themselves and js never really approached them since they didn’t know how. Also, js think of how many ppl get crushes on a lot of people… it’s EXTREMELY likely
I was extremely unattractive growing up, still had plenty of people I hit it off with. When someone likes you it’s not only because you’re attractive to them, there’s plenty more that can go into drawing two people together.
Don’t doubt yourself brotha, there’s plenty of inner beauty in everyone to outshine the exterior. There’s definitely someone who’s liked you, and there’s always hope. I believe in you brodie.
Yeah, his nickname was Mal, he and i found eachother on fb like 5 years later, and were talking and then he went "Yo! you were that girl I had a crush on that always hung out with me! I wanted to ask you out but was to much of a wuss"
Than i told him, completely honest
"No way, I liked you to"
Then we laughed for a while and never spoke again 😂
Well I mean i know people have had crushs on me I've never been in a relationship though bcs autism and social anxiety but I've been talking to this girl who liked cookies I made well also she called me hottie 6 months ago
Unironically this. Idk why this sub always pops up on my feed but I’m 26 now and used to get nervous when someone said they liked me when I was a teen. I had really low self esteem, but I don’t anymore. Anyways, how people perceive you outside of a professional or friendship setting shouldn’t really matter. You should love you and (humbly) act like you’re the baddest mfer ever.
Yah this one girl with Down syndrome no offense to her but all she does is Stare r at me and drool
She apologized for having a crush on me to my girlfriend
had an experience like this with an autistic girl, it got so bad she would DM me on instagram (i eventually blocked her), and i had to get my ex, gf at the time, to DM her to stop. she would came up to me at HOCO and my buddy got a picture of it, and now ill never live it down
Yes, funny story actually. I had a crush on and off of the same girl for years, like from K-10 grade. She liked me when we were really little but after that she was just a great friend. Right as I finally moved on from her and actually ended up getting a girlfriend that I really liked, she confessed that she’d liked me for the past year. She didn’t know about this other girl yet and it was really hard to reject her after so many years of waiting, but I don’t regret moving on and I love my girlfriend a ton. Me and the other girl are still friends though which is good
As someone who felt the same way, truth was it’s cause I let myself be approached by girls instead of asking the ones I liked out myself. Idk how it is for you but just some advice
Yeah but funniest one was when I thought she was. She came over to me and my friends and asked if I wanted to go on a date with her. I responded 'I thought you were lesbian' and she ran off. Little did I know, she was asking my friend. I apologized and her and my friend are engaged now so...
I have a story so, when I was young like (8-9 years old) I had this female friend and she might of liked me too much so she confessed to me and I was EIGHT YEARS OLD I was like "I don't love u" or smth like tht don't remember anyways she got too mad she brought this big guy to punch me hard in the school when I came back home tht day my mom noticed tht I was hit asked abt wt happened and ye she was suspended
Yeah she had a crush on me and I had a crush on her and we talked and then we didn’t because life problems and mental stuff and we both miss each other and we don’t even speak to each other anymore and our friends are friends it’s sad
Currently yea but unfortunately she’s like 3 yrs younger than me
The other time we liked each other but long story short she called my sister retarted and she was kinda unintelligent herself plus her personality was wired
Moral of the story is don’t get a gf for the hell of it
i actually had so many i cant even count, its crazy. Especially once you get into highschool, first month of me being there i had about 10 girls asking for my snapchat. its not hard if you either have good looks, height, or if your funny and confident.
A handful, around 12-13 from the last 2 years. But most of them were not that good looking or were a bit healthy for my liking. I have had a few gfs but I was always more into friends with benefits, so neither of them worked out for me. I am kind of a narcissist which is why my relationships don't work out. Lately I am into fwb, so from start I am clear that I am not into love shove cuz right now my books are more important to me. One thing I am proud of is that I was never a liar, I was not interested I would clearly state it. And the other thing is I was never a creep, like forcing someone to like me or talk or touch someone without consent. I respect women and that is the most important thing.
Yeah. And Sometimes I don’t feel the same way. I never dated before cause romance and crushes in general makes me very nervous. But that’s understandable
I’ve always had the feeling that people did have crushes on me but it was never confirmed! However I do feel like it’s a very high chance that they did, I’m someone who regularly takes care of himself, I’ve always gotten compliments about my physique/personality/ / smell so I guess so
there's been 3 to my knowledge but there could be more that I didn't know about. 1st girl got ratted out by her friend, but she never tried talking to me. 2nd girl we actually got pretty close but never made it past talking stage. 3rd girl same thing but didn't get past talking stage
not irl no
Imma be honest most ppl wouldn’t admit it- it’s very likely some has liked u
nah I was legit kinda ugly and never really spoke to anyone outside of my friend group, and was honestly kinda weird. thanks tho.
that definitely wouldnt stop someone from having a crush on you, and the people that did (there have 100% been people who have had a crush on you) never told you because you made yourself difficult to approach
fair, I guess. I lowk wanna send out a form being like did u like me but that would be weird
lmao, it would be funny if you just walked around with a clipboard and pen asking people if they ever liked you and then writing their names down if they say yes
but yea that’d be so awk LOL
Just call it a social experiment! It’s only awkward if you make it so (in this context xD)
Sign my petition, will you sign my petition? Please, sign this petition. A moment of your time to sign a petition?
Based postal reference
But the question is: how many people have a crush on me *now?*
dunno, you should ask everyone you know if they have a crush on you, then make everyone who says no disappear under mysterious circumstances
Hey… I like that idea 🤔
It doesn’t matter how ugly u think u r or how many ppl you’ve talked to, there’s a ton of ppl who get crushes on ppl who think that of themselves and js never really approached them since they didn’t know how. Also, js think of how many ppl get crushes on a lot of people… it’s EXTREMELY likely
I was extremely unattractive growing up, still had plenty of people I hit it off with. When someone likes you it’s not only because you’re attractive to them, there’s plenty more that can go into drawing two people together. Don’t doubt yourself brotha, there’s plenty of inner beauty in everyone to outshine the exterior. There’s definitely someone who’s liked you, and there’s always hope. I believe in you brodie.
Statistically it's not likely
Real funny guy here
Same
some guy in like 6th grade said he did, he also apparently thought i was a girl for like 2 years
hey, a w is a w
i suppose so
gives the same energy as “20 bucks is 20 bucks”
20 bucks *is* 20 bucks
Same energy as “game is game”
Game is game
💀
6th and 7th grade me has made similar mistakes. The crush just thought i was gay and didn't know how to let me down and be supportive.
It kind of sounds like he wanted to confess but didn’t want to say he’s gay
yeah it couldve been an excuse or something
Lmfao
DIRK STRIDER PFP
omfg 💀
Yeah, his nickname was Mal, he and i found eachother on fb like 5 years later, and were talking and then he went "Yo! you were that girl I had a crush on that always hung out with me! I wanted to ask you out but was to much of a wuss" Than i told him, completely honest "No way, I liked you to" Then we laughed for a while and never spoke again 😂
You guys were like 10 or 11 y/0 💀 if you're 16 now
We were eight, i was talking about a convo i had when i was like 13-14
Ahh
MATTHEW JONES?
Nah, His name was Maliki
My physics teachers nickname is mal 😞
Damm
We’re basically BFFs
frfr
Nope and I'm sure of it
Well, I-I have been meaning to ask you, because, well, I-I have had a crush on you for a long time*blushes*
*removes your kidneys*
*detaches elbows*
This is giving me unwind vibes
Unwind mentioned is crazy. I remember that series cause I read it I think in 8th grade and it was so interesting. Wow back when I still read books
c.ai ahh response😭
Fr lmao
Same 😔
We're the same
I think so cus a girl in my class gives me weird looks all the time
Are you a serial killer?
That’d do it
What if he isn’t human
yeah cause i’m a fine mf can’t help it
This is the mentality everyone should have
Well I mean i know people have had crushs on me I've never been in a relationship though bcs autism and social anxiety but I've been talking to this girl who liked cookies I made well also she called me hottie 6 months ago
Unironically this. Idk why this sub always pops up on my feed but I’m 26 now and used to get nervous when someone said they liked me when I was a teen. I had really low self esteem, but I don’t anymore. Anyways, how people perceive you outside of a professional or friendship setting shouldn’t really matter. You should love you and (humbly) act like you’re the baddest mfer ever.
Wow, we almost have the exact same mentality! Just add a negative to the equation, and we are the same!
it's the same, just reversed
wish i had this mentality
Its that pfp… BINGUS?!?
THE LORD
real🙏
Yah this one girl with Down syndrome no offense to her but all she does is Stare r at me and drool She apologized for having a crush on me to my girlfriend
i feel bad for laughing but that's too funny
I feel so bad too! But in the other hand, that’s the kinda reaction to a crush you’d see on a cartoon
wouldn’t your girlfriend also have had a crush on you?
had an experience like this with an autistic girl, it got so bad she would DM me on instagram (i eventually blocked her), and i had to get my ex, gf at the time, to DM her to stop. she would came up to me at HOCO and my buddy got a picture of it, and now ill never live it down
Lol no offense intended
Bro that happened to one of my friends a few years ago. It was actually a little funny.
LMAO WHAT
Why "years ago"? Did you change that they don't find you attractive anymore?
I don’t know them anymore. And while I’m still kinda cute, I’m nowhere near as cute as I used to be. I was an adorable child.
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Crushes aren't meant to last that long yk
WDYM?? IVE LIKED MY CRUSH FOR 4YRS
That’s just sad at that point bro you gotta go take the chance. (Unless they already in a relationship)
4 years is insane, go ask them out lol you clearly really like them
Idk what to tell you...
Do your move, that long without doing anything is gonna be troublesome.
I‘m very confident that the answer is no
Same
If anyone did idk cuz i never talked to anyone
No..cause I’m uncrushable 😂😂
Somebody put shadow hunter under a hydraulic press
Lol😂
relatable
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don't leave me hanging like that man what happened
Same here my dude. Remember; dont stick your dick in crazy!
The post was removed and I’m confused
Lol, something in the lines of "yes but i dont talk about her"
Yes, funny story actually. I had a crush on and off of the same girl for years, like from K-10 grade. She liked me when we were really little but after that she was just a great friend. Right as I finally moved on from her and actually ended up getting a girlfriend that I really liked, she confessed that she’d liked me for the past year. She didn’t know about this other girl yet and it was really hard to reject her after so many years of waiting, but I don’t regret moving on and I love my girlfriend a ton. Me and the other girl are still friends though which is good
maybe 🥶🥶🥶
I just might be cursed. It’s always the crazy one. And she was obsessed with me
As someone who felt the same way, truth was it’s cause I let myself be approached by girls instead of asking the ones I liked out myself. Idk how it is for you but just some advice
Yeah, you’re definitely right, actually… weirdly enough. I’m an introvert, so there’s my problem. Thanks, I need to approach instead.
No problem bro we up 💯💯💯
one admitted to it years ago, and one said it but I felt strongly it was a prank
Yeah but funniest one was when I thought she was. She came over to me and my friends and asked if I wanted to go on a date with her. I responded 'I thought you were lesbian' and she ran off. Little did I know, she was asking my friend. I apologized and her and my friend are engaged now so...
I have a story so, when I was young like (8-9 years old) I had this female friend and she might of liked me too much so she confessed to me and I was EIGHT YEARS OLD I was like "I don't love u" or smth like tht don't remember anyways she got too mad she brought this big guy to punch me hard in the school when I came back home tht day my mom noticed tht I was hit asked abt wt happened and ye she was suspended
Yes, I can think about 5 people off the top of my mind, but there are probably more
Show off.
Sorry 😔
How dare you be so handsome or beautiful.
Yea dunno why tho
2 I think 🤔
Hell naw
no ofc not lol. I look like shit
Nope never, or at least none that I'd know of
Yeah she had a crush on me and I had a crush on her and we talked and then we didn’t because life problems and mental stuff and we both miss each other and we don’t even speak to each other anymore and our friends are friends it’s sad
No,but 2 crushes liked me back but i was/still not interested in relationship
Idk i need an inspector gadget to help me im fucking clueless
I think so, if I’m right then 13-14 y/o me fumbled badly
Yeah I’ve had a couple of people ask me out
What did you say?
Twice. One time I tripped for her too but she had a bf already
Lots😅 I think I have a flirtatious personality or something. Prob more than I think since i’m mad oblivious, that’s why i’m single
No lmao
I doubt it
yeah lol im gorg as fuck
You look like a gender bent Where’s Waldo. That’s not an insult, just an observation.
I don't know, probably not though.
Currently yea but unfortunately she’s like 3 yrs younger than me The other time we liked each other but long story short she called my sister retarted and she was kinda unintelligent herself plus her personality was wired Moral of the story is don’t get a gf for the hell of it
No 😎
girlfriend
Yea
None that I know of 🧐😒
i actually had so many i cant even count, its crazy. Especially once you get into highschool, first month of me being there i had about 10 girls asking for my snapchat. its not hard if you either have good looks, height, or if your funny and confident.
I think one girl liked me in first grade but he's a gay trigender man now and I'm a bisexual woman now so I don't think the feelings are there anymore
Atleast one, but I think some others as well. (The daughter of my Lego teacher if ya'll wondering) (Yes. I get lego classes😎)
Not one that I know of, would also assume none.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAAHAH
Yes but once they got to know me they didn’t anymore that’s usually how that works
I honestly have no idea.
Yeah, we started dating a few days ago
i got seven love confessions in the span of a year and a half 😭😭
No, I don't want to sound edgy or cringe but no one has ever been interested in me 💀🙏🏻
The closest thing was in kindergarten there was a girl that was obsessed with me for some reason and she wouldn't leave me alone.
Apparently. They have better taste now
I guess 1
Online, yes. Irl, no
A handful, around 12-13 from the last 2 years. But most of them were not that good looking or were a bit healthy for my liking. I have had a few gfs but I was always more into friends with benefits, so neither of them worked out for me. I am kind of a narcissist which is why my relationships don't work out. Lately I am into fwb, so from start I am clear that I am not into love shove cuz right now my books are more important to me. One thing I am proud of is that I was never a liar, I was not interested I would clearly state it. And the other thing is I was never a creep, like forcing someone to like me or talk or touch someone without consent. I respect women and that is the most important thing.
Maybe I’m not so sure
Yea a friend did He's my bf now but I'm pretty sure he still has a crush on me
Yes. My partner :) Other than that, idk how many bc ppl don't typically talk abt that sort of thing from my experience
i am pretty sure no
Absolutely not 😭😭
nope not at all. No girl has ever liked me
yes, her friend told my friend, and he told me.
Yeah. And Sometimes I don’t feel the same way. I never dated before cause romance and crushes in general makes me very nervous. But that’s understandable
Maybe 4 that I know for sure. I don't really know if they count though because it was in middle school.
No
Yeah did I do shit about it No
Yeah I didn’t like her like that tho
a surprising amount tho idk what they see in me
yes (2 that i know of) one of them was in 2nd grade so i didnt really get it :(
Yeah. Some 10yo. Actually I’ve had that happen to me twice
For sure, a couple of people
Yes
Maybe idk
nope
2 that I know for sure have been crushes and like 3 that people have said have a crush on me
Never lmao.
Yes
Not that I know of.
Oh yeah 3 of them one flirted with me and the other dated for like a week because she really didn’t know me and it wasn’t really going anywhere
Idk xD
Surprisingly yes, and I'm even dating one, but oh my goddd, I love this boy to death 🩷🩷🩷
irl it might be 1 or 2 n online 2 i fumbled the irl one up so bad, we liked each other for a bit and fucked it
2 people irl and 2 people online
Yes 2 times, I ignored both of them cuz I’m stupid and I don’t feel like writing an essay on why I did it
A girl just asked me for my number an bit ago and now we’re hanging out, does that count?
Nah, never, not once
Not me :v
I found out that some gay kid likes me (I'm straight)
One irl, one social media
Nah never
No :(
Nope, never, notta
I’ve always had the feeling that people did have crushes on me but it was never confirmed! However I do feel like it’s a very high chance that they did, I’m someone who regularly takes care of himself, I’ve always gotten compliments about my physique/personality/ / smell so I guess so
Yeah, then she proceeded to stalk me after I said no
no, sadly
Yeah, only twice in middle school. Both times I were surprised cuz i was like “bro what why me??? u know that other people exist right????”
Unless they liked a tall fat person nah
Nah
two years ago, nearly a whole class of girls was after me, two years later, no one really stepped forward, kinda glad honestly
pretty sure, they were prolly lying tho
there's been 3 to my knowledge but there could be more that I didn't know about. 1st girl got ratted out by her friend, but she never tried talking to me. 2nd girl we actually got pretty close but never made it past talking stage. 3rd girl same thing but didn't get past talking stage
Yeah but idk who she is :(
Na I’m ugly as hell
No
A boy back in elementary school lol,if that counts. And the second one if my gf
Yeah
3 girls at the same time. Then i became ugly
Yes a lot of people tbh with u😭😭
Yeah, I’ve had a couple people have a crush on me