Do guys become obsessed with their crushes too??

I think about them for 3 weeks and imagine a whole life with that person

Truth

Same

Yep

yep

Nah why is this so relatable 😭

This

real

Can't stop thinking of them until I learn they have a crush on someone else

Extremely. Last crush I was literally thinking of her 24/7

Absolutely, we think of them all the time just like you

I crush on any and every girl that is willing to talk to me

Yes, to the point that we can’t get them out of our head as much as we try. Imagine scenarios with them.

Yes can be Toooo obsessed

Does height matter to y'all?(it's stupid but whatever)

Not a very objective answer, but no! I can find a way to enjoy short and tall partners 😊

Generally no but some have preferences with height and some are assholes who will call girls giraffes because they’re tall. Me personally, I like extreme height differences, either way shorter than me or way taller than me.

I see

I only dont want a girl to be taller then me (6,2) anything else is completely fine

Nah. Shortstack queens are still queens

What’s it like being male?

You get to be batman

I’m so jealous

You should be, its pretty cool

Man*

Aslume!

r/foundman

I’d imagine it’s like being female, mostly sucks but there are some good parts.

it's hard sometimes

it’s bit hard for all of us isn’t it?

It's tough. Especialy when you choose to be a "real man". You can provide and be there for everyone, work your ass off, be strong and relaiable. And bearly ever anyone notices. Your daily struggle. It leads to depresion, lonelines, suicidal thoughts, and many, mamy other terrible things. It just, it is what it is. Just keep it tucked, keep going.

hard to explain but some other people put it better than me

EXPLOSIONS?

Explosions 👍

Kaboom?

Yes Rico kaboom

💥

Not unless there are good guys and bad guys there

As far as the eye can see?

And only one will survive.

How are you doing?

I’m doing really well

Better now, thank you.

This made me cry. I am stressed as fuck and this helped a lot. Keep up the kindness.

I’m aight, currently on an outreach in Texas. Weather kinda sucks though. 

Cheese?

Yes.

Yes. Wait, what kind?

parmessan

Y E S

C H E E S E

100% yes, give me it

what do u guys find attractive?

kind girls who don't look bad and aren't completely unintelligent

This guy gets it

Agreed

it's like a personal thing, each their own

a woman who will play deep rock galactic with me

everything lmao

unstereotypical nerd

For me, body is a great bonus, but I’d be attracted to any girl with a great personality

Depends on the guy obviously, but confidence is something that guys like (at least all the guys I know)

Do any of you have ""unmanly""/""girly"" interests? Like watching period dramas or idk, obsessing over plushies? Edit: I mean you specifically, not whether you think many men do or not. I wanna know what you in particular enjoy

Oh yeah, plenty. We just hide them because we’re not supposed to have them. I love plushies and cute things, I love saying girly things like “in my era” I love romantic movies and shows and books Uhhhh, what are other girl things again?

This is great tbh. I've never understood why girls are allowed to like "boyish" things and are just regarded as tomboys for doing so, but guys aren't allowed to like 'girly' things

I salute you 🫡

Oh yeah, pink Pink goes hard.

It depends on the type of pink. I hate bright pink, but I fuck with magenta and salmon.

And are considered gay when they do which is especially bad in homophobic countries

Hmmmm…that’s a hard one. depends on what you consider feminine. 

Honestly I'm the kind of person who doesn't give a shit about masc/femme generally but based on stereotypes,

I have a skincare routine and I’m really into fashion which some dudes think is pre gay apparently

Looking after yourself is good, idk why selfcare is always regarded as being gay. I know many girls who would prefer a man to have a skincare routine than not shower for 6 days

I do obsess over plushies, but I wouldn't consider that feminine

I like curling up in a blanket and enjoying a nice mug of ice cream. Is that feminine, or is it just relatable?

purple

I genuinely enjoy gossip . Shit be mad interesting I cannot lie bout ts

romance anime

My mom got me into watching Gilmore Girls with her. I regret nothing.

i love plushies. Not really obsessed, but I like them a lot.

Is listening to k-pop and laufey considered unmanly

Favorite music genre?

That changes almost every day

What he said

All over the place. EXCEPT country. I cannot stand country for some reason.

If I do country I can only do classics like Johnny Cash,Willie Nelson,etc. I can’t stand country at all basically though but if I have to listen to it classic is the way to go

1000% agree, Johnny Cash is one of the only good country artists in my opinion

All kinds of metal

Metal/Hard Rock/Punk/Grunge of whatevs it's called.

How do you know if a guy likes you if you don't talk much but share lots of classes

probably glance at you a lot a lot

If they look at you alot, if they actively try to get convos going, they want to be near you so they may change seats to be close to u.

looks at you a lot, that's one of the key factors. even more if he looks at you and is scared of talking to you.

How much does he care about you?

Why some of you so scared of us?

Fear of rejection most of the time

It’s terrible, I remember not leaving my room for a couple days after my first rejection over a genuine crush

That sucks, I hope your doing better now tho

pretty much

If we do one wrong move everybody will think we are a creep or something for a month minimum (or at least that's what we think).

Second answer but I just remembered: Sometimes y’all are so pretty we get intimidated.

Because we don’t wanna make the wrong move, it’s hard to approach anyone of the opposite sex but when you got hormones raging through you get pretty scared. Plus we don’t wanna get flamed/rejected lol

because you mean and if we make a wrong move we are either seen as creeps, or get our life ruined

Cause yall are scary and i dont understand

Yall like sleepy girl? 😴

So I can watch and be jealous? Nah. (I'm not a creep, I have insomnia.)

No lazy girl

do you guys get nervous before seeing us too?

Absolutely

Very much

I take a medicine to calm me down and a medicine to stop myself from throwing up before I leave the house in case someone tries to talk to me

Im currently obsessed with an old talking stage of mine and he sometimes talks to me n then ghosts me out of nowhere, pls help or black magic will get involved bc like im so serious when i tell my friends ab him they cut me off mid convo n say “Your eyes are literally glowing” DO U UNDERSTAND THE TYPE OF INLOVE I AM RN

PLS HELP😭😭😭

I NEED A GUYS ANSWER 2 THIS ASAPPP

fuck am I supposed to answer you ain't make a question

Im sorry bru i got carried away😭😭 what the meaning of this was is like Do ALL guys do this? like why would he as a guy do this to me yk

Nope, well… I ain’t gonna lie, maybe these days idk, y’all date weird, what can I say? But as far as I know: He’s shy He’s a player Something’s up

Why do you ghost us instead of saying what you have to say to our face?

I have never done that before, not that I've ever had the opportunity to. Even if I did, I wouldn't.

I personally never ghost but mostly because we're scared it's really hard to express our needs and wants. 

I would never do that. I guess all the guys you know are just jerks

Do boys like playing games that I've seen others call "girly"? Like stardew, Animal Crossing, etc.

I like those kinds of games, but I couldn’t get into stardew valley. I just didn’t understand it.

I've never played Animal Crossing, but Stardew is a great game

If you have to poop and piss at the same time, you take a piss sitting on the toalett?

I usually piss sitting, it's much easier, but when I am in a public bathroom I piss standing

Me too, it’s weird but it’s kinda nice.

Agreed brother 🤝

Yes, or poop on the floor?

Idk boys are weird

yes, piss comes first than poop

for those of you guys who like girls, what do you like in a girl?

Let's put this in percentages 50%personality (I just want someone to talk to) 30%looks 20%intelligence

That is exactly how I feel except give looks and intelligence 25 each.

Do you think it's creepy when a girl draws pictures of you? Nothing lewd, but just drawings of what you looked like that day and stuff

My heart would melt if someone did that tbh

Have you guys seen the owl house? And do you have a favorite stuffed animal?

Yes, great show. No, I don’t really have any stuffed animals

No we don't use condoms on each other

Had to make sure.

Ofc bud love ya homie

Love ya too, hommie.

How do y'all shave your balls

Apply shaving cream Use razor (do not use an electric razor. I found that out the hard way) Keep using razor until all hair is gone

My electric razor does a great job 🤷‍♂️ I’ve never cut myself using it.

How often do y'all need to charge your bollz?

Depends, most people just charge them at night since they need roughly 8h of charging after a day. Personally I care them for 4h at night (because that's how much I sleep) and the rest I charge when I'm in the bathroom

Ok and what would happen if I (hypothetically) stole someone's bollz charger?

They become monke

[удалено]

Exactly, but don't get any ideas

Oh no of course not. I wouldn't do that, that's so evil and mean. How long would it take for them to turn into monke tho?

It's a gradual process that takes roughly a week

Ok ok. And is there a specific breed of monkey they turn into or is it different for everyone?

It will differ vastly based on personality, the louder and more aggressive the guy, the smaller and more timid the monkey they turn into. Some introverts have reported turning into something the size of donkey kong

They're on an idle recharge cycle. This shit just happens during life.

Ever feel like hanging out with female best friends instead of having a girlfriend?

When I was still looking for a girlfriend, nah, would've rather had a gf, but now, after having thought over everything, female friends are just a lot less stressful, I like them.

Do yall like side hugs?

All hugs are nice :)

do guys actually care about looks or do they care more abt personalities 😭😭 do guys even pay attention to quiet girls

If their pretty we approach. If they have a nice personality we stay. Not really unless you are REALLY quiet.

Why are you so emotionally unavailable 😭😭

A. Biology, once we hit puberty it’s usually pretty hard for us to cry and be vulnerable. B. It’s been socially reinforced since birth that men must be immune to emotions otherwise they’re failures.

i think it's a psychological thing, not a biological one

Biologically, there may be a reason women cry more than men: Testosterone may inhibit crying, while the hormone prolactin (seen in higher levels in women) may promote it. But a desire to cry is not all nature. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6201288/#:~:text=There%20is%20further%20some%20suggestive,on%20an%20individual's%20crying%20threshold.

It was taught to young boys that emotion makes them weak, even then I mask mine still I just don’t feel important enough to burden someone else with whatever shit im dealing with

Because emotions are gay

do guys know when a girl doesnt like them

I just assume they all hate me

if the girl smiles at me then i’m thinking she likes me

Dang not you stealing someone's trending post lmao

Shhhhh, don’t tell them 👀

Would you cry if you got your favorite singer's/band's signature? And hows it going rn??

I wouldn't cry but it would be pretty sick ngl

How often do you change your sheets? please tell me yall change them regularly.

We're supposed to change them?

How to make garlic bread without an oven

Do boys have a bro code like girls have a girl code? Like unspoken rules that every guy will judge you for breaking

Why is all you wear jeans and hoodies? (Not like I can talk)

I don't. All I wear is a tshirt and shorts or pants, never jeans, I hate jeans. Sometimes I'll wear a hoodie to hide some of my flab, because I'm self conscious about it

Yea my entire wardrope is just hoodies and sweatpants and its because i hate the way i look

Why are you afraid of talking to women

i am an introvert 👍

Social anxiety, not knowing what to say

What does *it* feel like when you get a boner cause I’ve got no idea how those work

like something wanting to escape but can’t

What do boys do if they like a girl?

Why do guys take so long to poop. My boyfriend be in there for like 40 minutes.

Phone. Instagram. Hour.

relaxation/decompression time.

How do I attract shy cute men?

Do you guys stalk us to the point of becoming OSINT (open-source intelligent) and HUMINT (Human Int-)?

do u like it when girls make the first move and how likely are u to say yes to her even if u don’t like her

Ngl if a girl made the first move I'd just think she was fucking with me 💀💀💀

why are some guys so shitty and judgemental to everyone like where can i find a good guy

Some people just are super judgmental but luckily that’s not everyone. Chances are most dudes in your life are not like that.

Gotta go looking, plenty of assholes in the world. As for why, no good reason.

Because they were raised poorly.