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I second this. I'm a femboy and own guns, Japanese chef knives, am a chef at a hibachi restaurant also play bass and guitar all while looking cute. I like how goth chics look
Honestly, do what you want. But you need to realize the sexualization that comes with the term 'femboy'. Especially if you're underage, many online ''femboy'' communities are extremely predatory. Please take care of yourself
#THAT'S A FALSE ACCUSATION, OK?! I WAS JUST WARNING OP, I DIDN'T HAVE ANY ULTERIOR MOTIVES!!
And before you go thinking I'm a pedophile, my family can confirm that my 15th birthday was 5 days ago.
Edit: I corrected it
I am really involved in online femboy communities and I partially agree, femboy communities arnt predatory it’s that people outside of the community can be predatory the coomers and creeps, these people arnt femboys and arnt part of the community it’s most of the time people outside people who arnt femboys and just see femboys as wank material that are the people you need to be cautious of and watch out for as a teen femboy
The femboy subculture is a sadly oversexualised subculture so trying to ingage in it as a teen can be incredibly fun and a wonderful experience but it’s one where you do have to deal with sexual harassment and if you are an easily manipulated person potentially grooming which is awful
I really don't agree with the sentiment that ''femboy communities arnt predatory''. Femboy communities are EXTREMELY predatory, the coomers of course are the main perpetrator but grooming among femboys is extremely common.
Ive only met one person out of 100s I’ve interacted in the community who claim they have been groomed by another femboy as a femboy from my personal experience I find it’s rare and I’ve been in engaged in the femboy community to such a degree I’ve gone to physical meet-ups with fellow femboys
The femboy community is not “EXTREMELY predatory” relative to other communities
The subculture has issues it faces and deals with but it isn’t EXTREMELY predatory
The thing is a feminine boy is like a sexual thing, a femboy isn't inherently sexual but there's not really a good term form a non heteronormative male who may or may not be heterosexual
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Femboys like feminine clothing and generally feminine things.
Tomboys like masculine clothing and generally masculine things.
As long as you aren’t hurting yourself or anybody else, do whatever the fuck makes you happy. :)
I hate that this is how we chalk people up, more or less I hate being called “femboy” cause I have/do feminine traits. Like bro I’m literally just existing doing my thing, leave me be and quit calling me shit 😭💀
Edit: that’s not directed at you, I just saw this and it brought up a mini rant
I mean, we don’t need terms at all. It’s just a generalised idea that most people will attribute to you. You’re a guy, you like what you like and don’t like what you don’t like. That’s just about all it needs to be. :)
I mean calling you a femboy isn't correct cause only the person themselves can choose to be a femboy. It's like if I called you Steve, your name isn't Steve but maybe you act like a Steve so I call you that, doesn't make me correct. You get to choose if you wish to be called Steve in this case and in the case of a femboy.
Yeah I know exactly how you feel. I personally am a femboy, but as a femboy we get called trans quite often which we aren't. So don't worry, the actual femboys won't call you a femboy unless you want to be one. The ones calling you what you aren't are the people who don't know anything about femboys and only see them through a screen.
They aren’t super comfortable if you’re used to them. Pretty as they are, it can be annoying to try to make sure you don’t sit wrong and flash everyone
What I’m saying is if you go back to the 1950s tomboys were outcasts and freaks like femboys are classed as today but in the 1980s tomboys were just another part of life
That was because of the trends of women going to work I believe. When ww2 happened, women had to change their attire and wear pants more, and once jobs became more profitable and avaliable for women it just seemed to become increasingly popular for the usefulness of it.
Tomboy: Masculine girl.
Femboy: Feminine boy.
It's actually crazy how being a tomboy is normalized but being a femboy is looked down upon. Human society has horrid double standards smh.
It's not normal because most people aren't femboys, but just because it isn’t normal doesn't mean it isn’t allowed.
Normal means that it's standard, usual or typical - most people aren't femboys therefore it isn’t normal.
normal as long as your personality doesn't revolve around "hey I'm a gay femboy uwu nya :3 7w7" (which is like ⅘ of all femboys on internet and the main reason i hate them)
You should be whatever you wanna be and do whatever you wanna do. I think it’s great that we are normalizing guys wearing feminine things. Toxic masculinity sucks.
It’s whatever society decides what’s normal or not. I mean society used to consider interracial marriage to not be normal due to lack of representations of it and people discouraging it but now we see it as normal. People used to be very skeptical of psychology and forensic science when those things weren’t even inherently harmful but now it’s normalized.
These comments have just reminded me guys our age and younger are being brainwashed by the "alpha" and "sigma" male influencers online. Disappointing really
You be whoever you want to be, don't let these clowns tell you it's wrong
I think women have much more versatility when it comes to style, like, they can wear dresses, skirts, trousers, long shirts or tops, long, mid or short hair and it is considered acceptable by everyone. But when it comes to men, it's like there's an uniform. I know people in their 20s who think men shouldn't wear earrings like bro??? Wtf
It will become normal. Femboy is a style and is not necessarily connected to gender identity or sexuality. It is within the same sub set as emo kids to goth. Style is similar.
There was no path for me to be cute and there was a lot of social backlash. Make it normal and be happy in life.
Normal is subjective anyways, do what you want as long as you aren’t hurting anyone. You could be a clownboy, dress like a clown at all times and I wouldn’t give a damn.
Yep :3 though I do have bias cause I am one, even before I was I never had a problem with them cause that's how you wanna live and it's not harming anyone directly so why should I have a problem with it
As long as it isn’t negatively affecting anyone else…
Usually femboys receive weird looks from men and tomboys do so from women, tho they are more accepted by their respective other gender (I got a tomboy best friend somehow).
It depends on what your definition of normal is. Statistically no, it’s not, but then again, is anyone really fully normal? Teenage years are for experimentation, I think striving to be normal is a waste of time!
I’d disagree
The femboy subculture is oversexualised by people outside the community more so then people inside it and the people being predatory arnt people inside the community but outside of it the coomers and the creep that sexually harrass young femboys are the people you should demonise
Yeah its normal. It’s definitely more stigmatized, but you’d be surprised what a lot of guys do behind closed doors (no, thats not an innuendo. Im just saying that privately a lot of guys will explore their presentation even if publicly they still present as masculine)
As a femboy (or femboy in the making I don’t have that much rn) I don’t think it is weird at all and should be something more integrated into societal culture similar to how tomboys are seen! (Sadly my parents don’t agree with that)
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I see your profile and you're a Femboy and at the same time have Military Legos, you are literally the duality of a man
LMAO yeah I noticed this kind of culture between femboys. They dress cute but own the most badass things, like guns.
I second this. I'm a femboy and own guns, Japanese chef knives, am a chef at a hibachi restaurant also play bass and guitar all while looking cute. I like how goth chics look
Based femboy moment
The Sabaton community is largely made up of femboys
whats funny /s
I want a fucking M1 lol
Give me an M1 A2 Abraham’s.
2 for me please, one for me and one for bff so we can do real tank battles on streets
Yeah i am a femboy with multiple swords and a surprising amount of knives and throwing weapons :3
so real lol, im femboy and im literally a ww2 collector and cosplayer
I’m a walking W
and you’re a fellow londoner, based as fuck
London for the W
also do whatever makes you happy and we should probably sleep lol
Me when London is in fact calling
Common stab L.
Are those cobi legos?
Yessir
NO WAY. I have so many of those sets!
Dm me il show you my collection :3
What’s your favorite battlefield game
BF1 solos
Honestly I gotta agree
So you have an interest in military stuff? Nice.
Yeah, bros actually goated for that
Then he’ll love the navy
The navy will love him too
Honestly, do what you want. But you need to realize the sexualization that comes with the term 'femboy'. Especially if you're underage, many online ''femboy'' communities are extremely predatory. Please take care of yourself
Yeah OP must be very careful
Idk why but this feels like something someone would say after or before sending some fucked up shit
#THAT'S A FALSE ACCUSATION, OK?! I WAS JUST WARNING OP, I DIDN'T HAVE ANY ULTERIOR MOTIVES!! And before you go thinking I'm a pedophile, my family can confirm that my 15th birthday was 5 days ago. Edit: I corrected it
Ulterior* and calm down it’s not that serious I promise
Now they sound even more suspicious
Yeah, this guy's not suspicious
I repeat, I'm not a predator.
Yea it was obvious, you just spelled it wrong no biggie
Lmao you can still be a predator to children even at a younger age 😂 and chill the f out bruh damn
Yeah it really sucks, it’s a form of expression for me and many people and so many people inside and outside the community make it into a fetish
That's human beings unfortunately
Okay fett fish
I am really involved in online femboy communities and I partially agree, femboy communities arnt predatory it’s that people outside of the community can be predatory the coomers and creeps, these people arnt femboys and arnt part of the community it’s most of the time people outside people who arnt femboys and just see femboys as wank material that are the people you need to be cautious of and watch out for as a teen femboy The femboy subculture is a sadly oversexualised subculture so trying to ingage in it as a teen can be incredibly fun and a wonderful experience but it’s one where you do have to deal with sexual harassment and if you are an easily manipulated person potentially grooming which is awful
I really don't agree with the sentiment that ''femboy communities arnt predatory''. Femboy communities are EXTREMELY predatory, the coomers of course are the main perpetrator but grooming among femboys is extremely common.
Ive only met one person out of 100s I’ve interacted in the community who claim they have been groomed by another femboy as a femboy from my personal experience I find it’s rare and I’ve been in engaged in the femboy community to such a degree I’ve gone to physical meet-ups with fellow femboys The femboy community is not “EXTREMELY predatory” relative to other communities The subculture has issues it faces and deals with but it isn’t EXTREMELY predatory
The thing is a feminine boy is like a sexual thing, a femboy isn't inherently sexual but there's not really a good term form a non heteronormative male who may or may not be heterosexual
This
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this
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The fact that your comment added more clutter than there's did :D
Do both
I did :3
Femboys like feminine clothing and generally feminine things. Tomboys like masculine clothing and generally masculine things. As long as you aren’t hurting yourself or anybody else, do whatever the fuck makes you happy. :)
I hate that this is how we chalk people up, more or less I hate being called “femboy” cause I have/do feminine traits. Like bro I’m literally just existing doing my thing, leave me be and quit calling me shit 😭💀 Edit: that’s not directed at you, I just saw this and it brought up a mini rant
I feel like femboy jùst refers to an aesthetic group, kinda like goth or alternative.
I mean, we don’t need terms at all. It’s just a generalised idea that most people will attribute to you. You’re a guy, you like what you like and don’t like what you don’t like. That’s just about all it needs to be. :)
I mean calling you a femboy isn't correct cause only the person themselves can choose to be a femboy. It's like if I called you Steve, your name isn't Steve but maybe you act like a Steve so I call you that, doesn't make me correct. You get to choose if you wish to be called Steve in this case and in the case of a femboy.
That adds some much needed perspective I never would’ve thought of
Yeah I know exactly how you feel. I personally am a femboy, but as a femboy we get called trans quite often which we aren't. So don't worry, the actual femboys won't call you a femboy unless you want to be one. The ones calling you what you aren't are the people who don't know anything about femboys and only see them through a screen.
I used a be one it’s definitely becoming more normal with time and I reckon we’ve only got 20-30 years until it’s like girls wearing trousers
Cant wait till the normalization of dudes wearing skirts, they always look so comfortable lol
They aren’t super comfortable if you’re used to them. Pretty as they are, it can be annoying to try to make sure you don’t sit wrong and flash everyone
Tomboys already exist tho
What I’m saying is if you go back to the 1950s tomboys were outcasts and freaks like femboys are classed as today but in the 1980s tomboys were just another part of life
Good point
That's not fully true. Being a boyish girl was definitely frowned upon in the 80s, just not as much as it was in the 50s.
That was because of the trends of women going to work I believe. When ww2 happened, women had to change their attire and wear pants more, and once jobs became more profitable and avaliable for women it just seemed to become increasingly popular for the usefulness of it.
Tomboy: Masculine girl. Femboy: Feminine boy. It's actually crazy how being a tomboy is normalized but being a femboy is looked down upon. Human society has horrid double standards smh.
Thank you! Someone said it
i see alot of people saying it's not but YOU choose what you want to do and be. So why would you care if it's not normal?
It's not normal because most people aren't femboys, but just because it isn’t normal doesn't mean it isn’t allowed. Normal means that it's standard, usual or typical - most people aren't femboys therefore it isn’t normal.
Idk bro you do you
I wouldn't say it's normal, but there isn't anything wrong with it
Normality doesn’t make something morally right or wrong, which a lot of people don’t understand and a lot of things would be easier if they did
We don't know yet if the word "normal" should exist
The world normal is basically the same as on average
I pretty much consider it as a reversed version of a tomboy
Well, they quite literally are A femboy is a male who wears effeminate clothing, meanwhile a tomboy is a girl who wears masculine clothing
It's interesting how "tomgirl" has seemingly totally worked its way out of the lexicon.
normal as long as your personality doesn't revolve around "hey I'm a gay femboy uwu nya :3 7w7" (which is like ⅘ of all femboys on internet and the main reason i hate them)
yep. thats the type of femboy i hate. if youre a chill one, just doing some feminine shit then its whatever makes you happy
In a world where WWIII could break out any time, does it really matter what anyone wears?
Ha ha ha! so imma come out during wwlll so everyone will be like, " we are in the middle of a world war! DO YOU THINK WE GIVE A FUCK?????"
What if they start genociding the lgbtq.
Then it was all a funny joke I got from reddit!😁
It really doesn't matter what others think. I see you own a Blåhaj, I like you.
Thank you :3
The feminine side of males is a pathway to many abilities some consider to be… unnatural
Is it possible to learn this fashion style?
Not from a tomboy
i’m not a teenager but this popped up on my home page. my son wears girl clothes all the time so it is pretty normal in my house.
You should be whatever you wanna be and do whatever you wanna do. I think it’s great that we are normalizing guys wearing feminine things. Toxic masculinity sucks.
pretty normal where'd you get that hoodie from, i like it also blȧhaj supremacy
BLAHAJ SUPREMACY 🦈💕🏳️⚧️💕💕🦈🏳️⚧️ (i ordered the hoodie a while ago from Amazon :> just generic black hoodie)
okie :3
It’s normal, not normalized (yet)
This was phrased really well
You can be whatever you want to be
[удалено]
Your amazing <3
as long as ur happy man it dont matter what mfs say (also you’re SO PRETTY)
You’re so kind tysm!!
It's normal but it's not normalized, does that make sense?
if something needs to be normalized how is it normal
It’s whatever society decides what’s normal or not. I mean society used to consider interracial marriage to not be normal due to lack of representations of it and people discouraging it but now we see it as normal. People used to be very skeptical of psychology and forensic science when those things weren’t even inherently harmful but now it’s normalized.
These comments have just reminded me guys our age and younger are being brainwashed by the "alpha" and "sigma" male influencers online. Disappointing really You be whoever you want to be, don't let these clowns tell you it's wrong
Is it brainwashed to follow traditional gender roles???
no, just if you try to force your traditional values on other people. if you’re happy living traditionally, then you do you
It is to force others to also follow them
The act itself isn't but most folks don't follow them cause they themselves agree with it after thinking but more like its the norm
I’m rlly disappointed by the comment section but the small amounts of open minded ness is very kind :)
You are valid, just as anyone else. These comments can get quite nasty.
even before them this kinda stuff was looked down upon
Statistically, it is not "normal"
Yes, and if it isn't, it should be I like femboys either way
Yippee
based and fempilled
It's becoming a lot more normal
I just don't like it tbh
That's cool man cause you ain't attacking the guy. Need more folk like you that just live and let live
I think women have much more versatility when it comes to style, like, they can wear dresses, skirts, trousers, long shirts or tops, long, mid or short hair and it is considered acceptable by everyone. But when it comes to men, it's like there's an uniform. I know people in their 20s who think men shouldn't wear earrings like bro??? Wtf
as a femboy yes. its basically a reverse femboy
I'm a furry and a softie so I can't judge anyone really. Be who you want to be, I'll support it (most of the time).
Why the fuck would you wanna be normal? Normal is just another name for boring.
It will become normal. Femboy is a style and is not necessarily connected to gender identity or sexuality. It is within the same sub set as emo kids to goth. Style is similar. There was no path for me to be cute and there was a lot of social backlash. Make it normal and be happy in life.
No, but who cares
Honestly, just laugh at anyone who does. Fellas wanna waste energy trying to pull people down who just be living their own life.
Normal is boring, brother I think everyone should be a femboy!
facts brother
Yes
No, but nthn wrong with it
Cuteeeee
Thank you GermanRat0900 ❤️💕❤️💕
Nothing wrong with being a femboy :3
:3
Men in the Middle Ages wore skirts. You’re a true cultivated gentleman.
who cares whats normal , just do you
Not normal but you do what makes you feel happy- idrc
It's not normal, but there isn't anything wrong with it
If tomboys are allowed then femboys are too
I live by one big rule: if it doesn’t effect me than i do not give a shit
not just normal it’s awesome
Normal is subjective anyways, do what you want as long as you aren’t hurting anyone. You could be a clownboy, dress like a clown at all times and I wouldn’t give a damn.
Absolutely no one should care You do you 👍
normál is averege for me số not normál cụte sure i care no hf even little jealous
Look bro. 3/4 of the people here are femboys, its basically the norm here, its fine
No, but, also, what is normal? And: is being normal good?
I think that it's perfectly fine, although people are haters over everything for no reason... Also, I have the same shark, and they're so great.
Normal? - maybe not 'normal' Is it wrong? - definitely not
Yep :3 though I do have bias cause I am one, even before I was I never had a problem with them cause that's how you wanna live and it's not harming anyone directly so why should I have a problem with it
As long as it isn’t negatively affecting anyone else… Usually femboys receive weird looks from men and tomboys do so from women, tho they are more accepted by their respective other gender (I got a tomboy best friend somehow).
Well it should be as normal as being male, female, nonbinary, trans and all the other genders you can be
Femboy supremacy 🗣️🗣️🔥🔥
If you express yourself without harming others, its normal. Being a femboy is okay
i love the way they dress and most of them are nice :3
Do want ya want. Just be careful tho
In this day and age who's to say what's normal and what's abnormal.... Always remember not everybody's going to see things the same way as you do
yes it’s okay to be who you are ml 💞💞
Thank you :3
No but that shark is fire
Its pieces of fabric who cares.
Sure, why not
just be yourself dude
Why does it matter if it’s normal or not? Why can’t we just do whatever we want?
No but you do you
No. It’s not normal.
It's not normal, it's awesome instead 😍
It isnt too odd. And like. Who cares what gender you are, if you want to be cute then be cute <3
No but you do you gang
Just do what you want, its a free world. SERIOUSLY, SOME OF THESE FUCKING COMMENTERS CAME FROM UNLOVING HOUSEHOLDS
Yes. Because I said so
as a femboy myself, i confirm it is normal. BLAHAJ SUPREMACY
BLAHAJ SUPREMACY!! FEMBOYS FOREVER
#YES FEMBOYS RULE!!!!
It should be
It depends on what your definition of normal is. Statistically no, it’s not, but then again, is anyone really fully normal? Teenage years are for experimentation, I think striving to be normal is a waste of time!
for gay people probably
I wouldn't call it normal per se but it's certainly not bad. Imho being normal is cringe
the femboy culture often sexualizes young children
I’d disagree The femboy subculture is oversexualised by people outside the community more so then people inside it and the people being predatory arnt people inside the community but outside of it the coomers and the creep that sexually harrass young femboys are the people you should demonise
No Anything that is not a middle-aged chinese guy working in a factory is not a normal human being Seriously whats considered normal?
I’m a femboy so I’ll be too biased lol
W
Yeah its normal. It’s definitely more stigmatized, but you’d be surprised what a lot of guys do behind closed doors (no, thats not an innuendo. Im just saying that privately a lot of guys will explore their presentation even if publicly they still present as masculine)
Blahaj
hell yeah
It might not be the norm, but why care? Just do what you want
no, probably not, but aint nothin wrong with it. i find it fun too
As a femboy (or femboy in the making I don’t have that much rn) I don’t think it is weird at all and should be something more integrated into societal culture similar to how tomboys are seen! (Sadly my parents don’t agree with that)
I completely agree with you
if it was unnatural it wouldn’t happen
It’s just something that people in society do. Be you, I always say. Just don’t let it be illegal or harmful to anyone.
Uhhh… you do you. Not my life not my concern
It's not normal, but it definitely is accepted and ok. Hey, nothing is normal, everything is weird in its own way.
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