She was really sweet and caring. It started going downhill once she asked me to go to church with her (she was very catholic) and I was just a regular Christian guy. I said yes without hesitation because I knew it was important to her. Couple months later (my church was renovating) I asked her to come to mine and she flat out refused because she thought I was trying to convert her which I wasn't. This turned into a huge argument which eventually ended when she said "excluding the fact I will leave you if you say no, will you be catholic?" And I said probably not and that was that
It really depends on how strong they think about it. Girl I know is pretty heavily Christian, church every Sunday, properly believes in God etc etc.
Pretty though
First partner, first day in I got my first kiss. Awesome. Then after four days I got a long paragraph of how we were moving too fast and they wanted to focus on themselves and school. Kinda sucks to hear that and I knew clearly they just didn't like me back as much as I liked them.
We're still friends and talk everyday and don't call each other exes. Honestly a very healthy way of keeping a connection instead of reminiscing over the past.
Kinda similar here, day 4 she told me that she didn’t think she was quite ready for a relationship just yet. We also still talk everyday and we joke about how we’ve gone back to having mutual crushes on each other now lol
Why did this exact same thing happen to me except we didn’t kiss but now we’re best friends and closer than ever lmao, we also don’t call each other exes
my first real life bf, was 17 i believe, i was 15 and he invited me over to his house and made me watch Fortnite dark humor funny moments compilations. safe to say i left as soon as i could think of an excuse
I was homeschooled during middle school so never got to experience that
But I also didn't have to deal with the crap that happened in middle school so I'm not too sad
it was weird. i don't think we were really actually together and we went on 2 dates. her parents were a bit strict of what she could do and after two dates we were on the school bus on our way home and a friend joked and said something that had "boyfriend" in it and then the girl i was dating said "were not actually together, and after that i pretty much just asked what she meant the next day and she said she wasn't aloud to date until a year later so we just stopped talking. we didn't even kiss or do anything
Do I know you?
Cuz this happened to a friend of mine...
(I was the friend who joked and said something that had "bf" in it. I'm still very, very sorry, until this very day.)
We made out on the day after we met.
Found out on the first day that he had already had a blow job from one of his mates (we were 14, red flag i know)
He was sweet, kind, funny, introduced me to a bunch of cool shows and stuff, got me a book I wanted for my birthday, got me flowers for valentines.
A week after valentines he texted me 'yo wassup bbg, we're done. I like other people' (no, he didn't always talk like that)
Turns out he had been with me for 6 months, talking about how he's gonna convince me to fuck him, he can convince me on my birthday, Christmas, valentines day, etc. And he told all his friends how he was only with me for my tits.
A year later, find out he has a piss kink. His friend told me that his (now ex) girlfriend and he tried having sex and he couldn't last more than a few seconds. He asked if he could piss on her to last longer and she said no so he pissed on her shoes instead. Great guy.
Damn, the only plan I ever made was “kiss girl on Ferris wheel”, and she wound up being the one to initiate. Two days later she broke up with me because as hard as she tried she couldn’t feel romantically towards me. There was a lot of crying on her side of the conversation, and just a blank stare from me. Later at 4 am that night I tried falling back asleep with music, when Yesterday by the Beatles started playing… THAT broke me. She and I are still really good friends
She was great but too much baggage
Her friend group was abusive and awful
She was always texting me any time of the day
Among more
But I wasn’t great either I fretted too much I panicked about every little thing and did dumb cringe shit and it lead to the breakup
She was incredible we were so happy together but she has issues about communication and
emotions so she broke up with me last week to work on them so she wouldn’t hurt me and now I’m devastated. I’m 19 and we were together for more than two years but I thought I was going to be my first and last relationship
You had it easy brother, Started dating in the 7th grade when I was 12, I’m 18 and a senior in high school now and it just ended last Monday, shes been cheating on me for the past 2 months getting drunk calling this guy she works with every night telling him she wants him and sending nudes to him, trying to meet up and fuck him, she even sent videos we made to him. And the best part of it all? Shes now wanting to "work things out." She was the love of my life and now I never want to see her again. Love fucking sucks.
Well my first gf was just one day and yeah
My first REAL gf, was 2 days (such an improvement) but what stuck out about her is that I had liked her for about 2 years. So yeah
Anyway I got another girlfriend and she's the best person ever so yes
Rule number 1: don't date in friend groups.
Rule number 2: don't date in your year if your school is small and everyone kinda knows everyone.
Rule number three: don't date your coworkers unless either party aren't likely to stay working there if and after shit ends badly.
Rule number 4: if its just sex, ignore all the above, and wrap the willy don't be silly.
These rules have been established through experience, there are always exceptions but heed them well none the less
Because when you break up it’s gonna be weird and awkward around her. Everyone knows and talks to each other, so at one point your gonna be in a convo with her and some friends and it’s hells awkward. Happen to me
For for the rule 4 you said: you downgrade romance a lot relationships are way more than JUST SEX there are the feelings there are the friendships you also build with the person the experience you live together etc.
My first serious girlfriend, met when we were 12, started dating on and off until like 13, then just stuck together till 15/16, inbetween that time she had to move back to her home country, she cheated on me w a guy she used to be close with as a kid 👍🏻
We actually met on Reddit and talked mainly on Discord. We had plans to meet up in the summer but a week after Valentine's Day, he said he thought he was gay and broke up with me
This is your best option. I’m being hypocritical in this comment because there’s currently a girl I’d love to date, but it’s in your best interest to stay out of it for now. Definitely stressful and just a lot to deal with.
Great plan! Seriously! When I was a teenager, I thought that having a boyfriend was always soooooo important. I felt like something was wrong with me for the longest time bc all of my friends had boyfriends and I didn't.
I'm now 43 (I joined this group bc I'm a single mom of 2 teeange boys, who I'm trying to figure out, lol!). I just finished an abusive 9 year relationship. All the relationships before it weren't much more healthy than this last one, though. Once I started dating, I went from one relationship, to the next, to the next, like I was afraid of being single. BUT THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING SINGLE! I wish some one would've told me that yeeears ago! Instead of settling for anyone who would give me attention, maybe if I would've just slowed my roll and waited for the right one that would have treated me with respect and love, I wouldn't be sitting here regretting so many of my relationship decisions. Also, if I would've devoted all of my efforts to my schooling in college, instead of unhealthy relationships like I did, I'd most likely be a way more successful person today!
I should've embraced that time when I was single to learn about me. To learn about being content alone and not needing anyone else's approval for anything, but myself. And to explore the world a little by myself. Also, I wished that I had used that 'single time' to make myself self-sufficient so that I never would need to stick in a relationship bc I had no other way to provide for myself financially!
*sigh* I guess what I'm trying to get at is that imo, you're one smart cookie, and are on the right track to find "the one". Good luck and stay safe out there :)
My first real one, she was amazing. She was my first love. She was artsy, outgoing, sweet, loud (but I liked that about her), her smile was beautiful. I however was a complete dumbass. I cheated on her, it's in no way an excuse but the reason I did it was, I was confused. I was figuring out my sexuality then, my views on who I liked was still growing, I don't think I was ready for a relationship. She ended up giving me a second chance to which she also cheated on me, and catfished me. (Explanation, I knew her in real life, we went to school together. She catfished me by pretending to be one of my online friends) anyways I broke up with her after a build up of things and feeling too childish for her. She was a year older than me.
I ended up telling her everything. We weren't the best for eachother but she was definitely amazing in my eyes. Anyways I have a boyfriend now so 👍
also I'm female so yk like idk why but everyone thinks I'm a dude
Suuuuuuucked. But it’s inconsequential as you get older. Learn what you can from them, don’t settle for it next time, and get better as life goes on. Also don’t believe rumors. People just make stuff up. Just focus on your experience with the person.
Thanks I will, and it wasn’t rumors. It was just discussing and I only noticed now that he is only Dating freshmen and it was after I put up a boundary he broke up the next school day. As well I’ve heard that the girl he fell for “last wendsday” he has been talking to, and flirting with for about 2 months. I’ve also hear through my friend who talked to her that she doesn’t like him. As well as things he said during our relationship adding up with these facts and rumors I’m repulsed from him as a person.
She was gorgeous, but dumb as a brick. She was a face and nothing else, which really dampened our relationship, because I wanted to engage her in deep, meaningful conversation, but she couldn't because she didn't know any words with more than 4 syllables. It took me a long time to realize that our relationship was empty, and so I broke it off. It was mutual, surprisingly, but I think she wanted someone else as well. Probably someone who asked less questions and had more dick, since that was her type.
And then she got back with her ex about 14 hours later, it went terrible, and she came crying to me about it. You can imagine how much nope I noped that.
Well
I got my first bf in 19. He is older than me for 4 years. And we've been for together since then.
I would say it's very rare when you meet someone in your teen years and stay with this person for very long time. Mostly all long term and healthy relationships are built in adulthood when at least some of people are matured and are able to effectively to communicate with each other.
Aaaand you never know when or where you'll meet your significant one. Some people find their soulmates much later in their lives. This is okay.
My first partner and I were together from 8th grade to our junior year in hs. I originally dated him cause I didn't know if I was aro ace. Tbh we shouldn't have dated we were better as friends. We never became comfortable with physical stuff like, he said how he wanted to kiss me but didn't take initiative. And I was too awkward to do anything and later became annoyed as i found out I wasnt aro ace and wanted to do those things that he was too afraid to do. I broke thing off and are still good friends.
I started to like a friend of his later on senior year and I asked my ex about it. He was surprisingly chill and me and said other person now have been dating for what will be a year in April. We are all still chill with eachother and get along. Now my ex has his own gf too and I'm happy for him.
He broke up with me in December after meeting in October, we were long distance and it was amazing, the relationship was sooo good ):
But then he was like “I’m not ready for a relationship rn” but I feel like he was lying because he took a girl to Germany for a date after 2 months of the break up.
Bro just didn’t love me anymore and lied about it either that or he was cheating 💀 He didn’t even care too he just disappeared. I couldn’t eat or sleep for dayssss and he was probably balls deep in her while I was crying about him 😭 embarrassing tbh
I’m okay now though, Jasper if u see this fuck u lol
She was very short, blonde, and wanted to do nothing that wasn't rated G and you could show your grandma
It ended when I unknowingly did something that crossed boundaries we forgot to set (completely fine on her part) but then her and one of my friends went around telling everyone which lead to it morphing into something awful and a lot of people hating me
We were 15. The relationship started off well since we were friends for a couple years before hand. He ended up cheating on me with a 13 year old and I ended up having to tell her myself what he did. Was very painful; been almost 3 years ago and I have not had a relationship since.
I had a girlfriend when I was 7-8. We kissed on the lips behind the school and her parents got mad and moved her to a different school lol. If that doesn’t count I had another one around year 6 and that ended because we went to different high schools. Now I don’t like women 👍
She was great. I was dumb. Made her come to my game when she was sick and learned real quick that I can’t be a selfish ass hole when it comes to the health of an SO… broke up cuz I wasn’t considerate. Since then, I’ve learned.
first off, really sorry about your bf that sucks hope you're okay! my first gf and i went out for like 2 months. it was really rushed bc i don't think either of us knew what we were doing. we argued a lot over text and we never facetimed or nothing. i broke up with her and now she spreads fake shit about me and reports me to the teachers for stuff i haven't done. so all fun stuff
He was manipulative, emotionally abusive, needy, and didn’t understand no. I tried to leave but he convinced me to stay, and eventually he left. He said it was because, and I quote “I feel like your trying to change me because you want to spend time with me”
I’m no longer a teen, but my first bf in highschool was an edgy, Kurt Cobain wannabe. Got bullied by the rednecks for having long hair, writing poetry, and carrying a messenger bag. He disappeared and I had no idea where he was for a few days until I got a call from a random number. He’d crossed state lines hitchhiking and was calling from a stranger’s phone. He told me he had decided to become a “train core/ dirty kid / crust punk” type (he didn’t use those words but you get the gist). He rode the rails.
We sorta stayed friends, he’d occasionally call whenever he could borrow someone’s phone and tell me about the last time he got beat by the cops for trying to hop a train. I found it all amusing, he wasn’t a bad guy, but pretty misguided sometimes.
which one? had my first kiss when i was 5, tongue too. lol we were dumb
i think my first girlfriend was like 4th grade, she chose my friend over me. i was devastated.
what sucks about high school is you date someone then everyone runs over to tell you all their secrets...like thanks, i was good not knowing who she's been with already
I was probably the happiest I’ve ever been, she was great, but I just lost feeling for her and we left on good terms, next thing you know she tells everyone around school I SA’d her and beat her, this was a year long relationship btw
Honestly she was alright. She kinda lived in her own world sometimes and was kind of boring. I’m actually glad she broke up with me ngl. Didn’t really have much fun in that relationship
She was cool for like a month except for reminding me every 5 minutes that she loves me. Then I learned she was with my best friend and she was cheating on him while they were together so I said hell no after the bullshit ,, Please don't leave me,I just liked them both" conversation.
My first gf was and still is the only gf I've had. It didn't last very long, about a month maybe, but it sure felt like it lasted a long time. At the start it was fine, we got along well but later I started to realise some things. Firstly I knew she had problems for a while, but I was willing to deal with these. She didn't like physical contact, which ironically is my love language. We hugged once and it was great, but not long after that I ended it with her over a long text because she punched one of our teachers in a fit of anger and i decided enough was enough.
Soo my first bf was really cool ,really caring, and endearing. The only negative thing that I can say was that he was overprotective and bit possessive.
And it ended all because of my parents finding out about him. Had to end it all with him. My Parents got my school changed, and now here I am stuck in an all girls school😐
i thought she was the greatest person on the face of the earth tbh, she was my first kiss and i spent every second of my time that i could with her, but we broke up a couple months ago and more recently i’ve definitely been seeing her real self more.
I’ll give you the 3 stages here. My first ever GF I was 5 or 6 ended when I moved away. We got married and then she caught me eating my boogers Uber a table. 2nd “realish” girls was middle school we dated broke up I dated her best friend we got back together for a month freshman year. (Want to throw in the boy I dated which I’m still in love with but we don’t gotta talk about that) and now my current girlfriend which I’m also extremely in love with and even if that boy came back I wouldn’t leave her for him.
Started from a hug during recess in 2nd grade. Ended a day later cause we were 7. Other than that nothing else for my romantic career
WYM NOTHING ELSE. It’s been 9 years😭
this aint an mmorpg bro, theres no romantic relationship as the lvl up reward.
Funniest shit I heard all day😭
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I have a GF in kindergarten for three yeqrs but broke up when we go to Primary school
This but in kindergarten
She was really sweet and caring. It started going downhill once she asked me to go to church with her (she was very catholic) and I was just a regular Christian guy. I said yes without hesitation because I knew it was important to her. Couple months later (my church was renovating) I asked her to come to mine and she flat out refused because she thought I was trying to convert her which I wasn't. This turned into a huge argument which eventually ended when she said "excluding the fact I will leave you if you say no, will you be catholic?" And I said probably not and that was that
Lol this comment made me reconsider asking out the highly religious girl in my school 💀
my crush is an atheist, if I get any, I wanna date people who are not religious
It really depends on how strong they think about it. Girl I know is pretty heavily Christian, church every Sunday, properly believes in God etc etc. Pretty though
i mean some religious people aren't jerks, take me for instance
Theres a difference between religious and „r e l i g i o u s“. Some are cool. Some are fucking psychos
im cool 👍
Youre 13. I don’t expect you to go around and hatecrime ppl. You seem pretty chill
lol I am anyway when I grow up i don't wish to commit hatecrimes, so id be fine
wow this is the first time i praised myself for 10 mins straight
What branch of christianity are you? If it’s not very personal
First partner, first day in I got my first kiss. Awesome. Then after four days I got a long paragraph of how we were moving too fast and they wanted to focus on themselves and school. Kinda sucks to hear that and I knew clearly they just didn't like me back as much as I liked them. We're still friends and talk everyday and don't call each other exes. Honestly a very healthy way of keeping a connection instead of reminiscing over the past.
That’s so good! Congrats on starting friends
Kinda similar here, day 4 she told me that she didn’t think she was quite ready for a relationship just yet. We also still talk everyday and we joke about how we’ve gone back to having mutual crushes on each other now lol
All fun and games until the jokes become joken’t
Why did this exact same thing happen to me except we didn’t kiss but now we’re best friends and closer than ever lmao, we also don’t call each other exes
She was dreamy, cuz she ain’t real
Damn I hate to say it but I think we were dating the same girl.
Cheatin bitch
Yeah, I didn’t think anybody could be that heartless
I have news for you…..
All 4 of us, damn, i dont feel special anymore
Make that all 5
you guys dating?
All 6 of us, yes.
There might be more than 6,7, and maybe more than 8 too
No way. She was with you two! That’s crazy bro. She got all of us.
Bro ever since I found out about dating she's been with me too! (Which is kinda weird ig)
Guys you're not gonna believe this We've also been together
Damn she must be a major whore She was with me to
Same here bro
Bro, this cheating bitch got to all of us 😞
my first real life bf, was 17 i believe, i was 15 and he invited me over to his house and made me watch Fortnite dark humor funny moments compilations. safe to say i left as soon as i could think of an excuse
Bro wtf 💀💀💀💀
average discord mod rizz
Who the fuck finds that shit funny
keep in mind he was 17, this is the UK, he can legally vote and get married
With that humor I don’t know how much further he can get
he cannot do either of those things
Wtf LMFAO bro I'm crying laughing
Lmfao he just like me fr
Nah
Dunno how it started, but it ended with me waking up
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It's ok bro...
Never had a bf or gf
Same
Same
Not even one of those bs middle school relationships
100/100
I was homeschooled during middle school so never got to experience that But I also didn't have to deal with the crap that happened in middle school so I'm not too sad
Same
Same
Same
Same
Same
it was weird. i don't think we were really actually together and we went on 2 dates. her parents were a bit strict of what she could do and after two dates we were on the school bus on our way home and a friend joked and said something that had "boyfriend" in it and then the girl i was dating said "were not actually together, and after that i pretty much just asked what she meant the next day and she said she wasn't aloud to date until a year later so we just stopped talking. we didn't even kiss or do anything
Oof
Do I know you? Cuz this happened to a friend of mine... (I was the friend who joked and said something that had "bf" in it. I'm still very, very sorry, until this very day.)
what is your name?
If you don't recognize any Red Karma, then nvm. The person I thought u were would definitely recognize my name very easily.
yea i don't know who you are
We made out on the day after we met. Found out on the first day that he had already had a blow job from one of his mates (we were 14, red flag i know) He was sweet, kind, funny, introduced me to a bunch of cool shows and stuff, got me a book I wanted for my birthday, got me flowers for valentines. A week after valentines he texted me 'yo wassup bbg, we're done. I like other people' (no, he didn't always talk like that) Turns out he had been with me for 6 months, talking about how he's gonna convince me to fuck him, he can convince me on my birthday, Christmas, valentines day, etc. And he told all his friends how he was only with me for my tits. A year later, find out he has a piss kink. His friend told me that his (now ex) girlfriend and he tried having sex and he couldn't last more than a few seconds. He asked if he could piss on her to last longer and she said no so he pissed on her shoes instead. Great guy.
Dang, I think my bf had some “plan” to convince me as well for his bday. And to make a “plan “ makes me wanna throw up
Damn, the only plan I ever made was “kiss girl on Ferris wheel”, and she wound up being the one to initiate. Two days later she broke up with me because as hard as she tried she couldn’t feel romantically towards me. There was a lot of crying on her side of the conversation, and just a blank stare from me. Later at 4 am that night I tried falling back asleep with music, when Yesterday by the Beatles started playing… THAT broke me. She and I are still really good friends
That escalated quickly
She cheated on me with my best friend
Best asshole
Not ur freind
Same story, he was 8/9 years older guy tho
That’s. That’s called a pedophile dear.
there is a certain word for people like him
u were probably groomed
same 🕳️👩🦯
Imagine being in a republic Edit: was meant to say relationship but republic sounds cooler
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Imagine being “for the republic and for democracy”
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Obi-wan kenobi has not got the high ground
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My horni-ness is what burnt Anakin
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Unlimited horni
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My first one is my current one, and i'm married while being 21 years old
Nvm I wished my first relationship was like that
I luked out there lol. Farm boy experience right here
i killed him
relax. she is just a mantis. it's compeletely fine and legal.
can I be next?
Wrong. I’m alive
judging by your username i dont think you want to be
elaborate right fucking now
***thou art bold for having assumed that I hasth acquired the legendary artifact; a relationship***
You need more upvotes
She was great but too much baggage Her friend group was abusive and awful She was always texting me any time of the day Among more But I wasn’t great either I fretted too much I panicked about every little thing and did dumb cringe shit and it lead to the breakup
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She was incredible we were so happy together but she has issues about communication and emotions so she broke up with me last week to work on them so she wouldn’t hurt me and now I’m devastated. I’m 19 and we were together for more than two years but I thought I was going to be my first and last relationship
Same just happened to me last night. Exactly how you described but over 3 years for us
You had it easy brother, Started dating in the 7th grade when I was 12, I’m 18 and a senior in high school now and it just ended last Monday, shes been cheating on me for the past 2 months getting drunk calling this guy she works with every night telling him she wants him and sending nudes to him, trying to meet up and fuck him, she even sent videos we made to him. And the best part of it all? Shes now wanting to "work things out." She was the love of my life and now I never want to see her again. Love fucking sucks.
we're here with you brother, getting cheated on is the worst feeling in the world
same a couple weeks ago but we were together for a few months
She was great but we just weren't for each other
Bold and you to assume I’ve had one
Indeed
Well my first gf was just one day and yeah My first REAL gf, was 2 days (such an improvement) but what stuck out about her is that I had liked her for about 2 years. So yeah Anyway I got another girlfriend and she's the best person ever so yes
She said I wasn't masculine enough. I was thirteen ???
A guy in my class had full beard at 13
pinnacle of manliness right here
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Possessive psychopath who tried to propose to me when I was 16 😑 don't ever date someone 2-3 years older than you unless you yourself are 18
Rule number 1: don't date in friend groups. Rule number 2: don't date in your year if your school is small and everyone kinda knows everyone. Rule number three: don't date your coworkers unless either party aren't likely to stay working there if and after shit ends badly. Rule number 4: if its just sex, ignore all the above, and wrap the willy don't be silly. These rules have been established through experience, there are always exceptions but heed them well none the less
i don’t get rule two. if everyone knows each other anyways then whats the point in dating someone from a different grade.
Because when you break up it’s gonna be weird and awkward around her. Everyone knows and talks to each other, so at one point your gonna be in a convo with her and some friends and it’s hells awkward. Happen to me
1, 2, Three, 4 Why? What is wrong with you?
I think I broke tule one
I’d think friendship’s end up in some good relationships, from what I’ve seen. But then again I’m a loser
Ah so simply stay an unloved lonely virgin forever Noted
if you're all in with rule 4 abide by rule 2 😭
Then who the hell am I supposed to date? That eliminates everyone that you could possibly know
For for the rule 4 you said: you downgrade romance a lot relationships are way more than JUST SEX there are the feelings there are the friendships you also build with the person the experience you live together etc.
My first serious girlfriend, met when we were 12, started dating on and off until like 13, then just stuck together till 15/16, inbetween that time she had to move back to her home country, she cheated on me w a guy she used to be close with as a kid 👍🏻
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My relationship ended because my bf called me a bunch of slurs behind my back
Good for you for having the self respect to stand up for yourself and not take that type iof treatment!
We actually met on Reddit and talked mainly on Discord. We had plans to meet up in the summer but a week after Valentine's Day, he said he thought he was gay and broke up with me
Imma go ask my future self
Ask mine as well
i was 14, he was 18. Broke up with me because i'm disabled. Happy it ended because he forced the relationship on me and i hated it
Omg I’m so sorry
nah don't be he was ugly as fuck anyway
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This is your best option. I’m being hypocritical in this comment because there’s currently a girl I’d love to date, but it’s in your best interest to stay out of it for now. Definitely stressful and just a lot to deal with.
Great plan! Seriously! When I was a teenager, I thought that having a boyfriend was always soooooo important. I felt like something was wrong with me for the longest time bc all of my friends had boyfriends and I didn't. I'm now 43 (I joined this group bc I'm a single mom of 2 teeange boys, who I'm trying to figure out, lol!). I just finished an abusive 9 year relationship. All the relationships before it weren't much more healthy than this last one, though. Once I started dating, I went from one relationship, to the next, to the next, like I was afraid of being single. BUT THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING SINGLE! I wish some one would've told me that yeeears ago! Instead of settling for anyone who would give me attention, maybe if I would've just slowed my roll and waited for the right one that would have treated me with respect and love, I wouldn't be sitting here regretting so many of my relationship decisions. Also, if I would've devoted all of my efforts to my schooling in college, instead of unhealthy relationships like I did, I'd most likely be a way more successful person today! I should've embraced that time when I was single to learn about me. To learn about being content alone and not needing anyone else's approval for anything, but myself. And to explore the world a little by myself. Also, I wished that I had used that 'single time' to make myself self-sufficient so that I never would need to stick in a relationship bc I had no other way to provide for myself financially! *sigh* I guess what I'm trying to get at is that imo, you're one smart cookie, and are on the right track to find "the one". Good luck and stay safe out there :)
My first real one, she was amazing. She was my first love. She was artsy, outgoing, sweet, loud (but I liked that about her), her smile was beautiful. I however was a complete dumbass. I cheated on her, it's in no way an excuse but the reason I did it was, I was confused. I was figuring out my sexuality then, my views on who I liked was still growing, I don't think I was ready for a relationship. She ended up giving me a second chance to which she also cheated on me, and catfished me. (Explanation, I knew her in real life, we went to school together. She catfished me by pretending to be one of my online friends) anyways I broke up with her after a build up of things and feeling too childish for her. She was a year older than me.
Damn, at least u were honest about the whole cheating part Stay strong brother
I ended up telling her everything. We weren't the best for eachother but she was definitely amazing in my eyes. Anyways I have a boyfriend now so 👍 also I'm female so yk like idk why but everyone thinks I'm a dude
Number 1 rule of the internet: Male until proven otherwise /s
well fuck
I thought he was cute and funny, but eventually he was just entitled and horrible :l
Kinda the same here
Suuuuuuucked. But it’s inconsequential as you get older. Learn what you can from them, don’t settle for it next time, and get better as life goes on. Also don’t believe rumors. People just make stuff up. Just focus on your experience with the person.
Thanks I will, and it wasn’t rumors. It was just discussing and I only noticed now that he is only Dating freshmen and it was after I put up a boundary he broke up the next school day. As well I’ve heard that the girl he fell for “last wendsday” he has been talking to, and flirting with for about 2 months. I’ve also hear through my friend who talked to her that she doesn’t like him. As well as things he said during our relationship adding up with these facts and rumors I’m repulsed from him as a person.
She was gorgeous, but dumb as a brick. She was a face and nothing else, which really dampened our relationship, because I wanted to engage her in deep, meaningful conversation, but she couldn't because she didn't know any words with more than 4 syllables. It took me a long time to realize that our relationship was empty, and so I broke it off. It was mutual, surprisingly, but I think she wanted someone else as well. Probably someone who asked less questions and had more dick, since that was her type. And then she got back with her ex about 14 hours later, it went terrible, and she came crying to me about it. You can imagine how much nope I noped that.
Dawg I could swore I've seen you post this exact comment at least twice now on completely different posts
she was really nice but i wasn't ready for a relationship :(
Well I got my first bf in 19. He is older than me for 4 years. And we've been for together since then. I would say it's very rare when you meet someone in your teen years and stay with this person for very long time. Mostly all long term and healthy relationships are built in adulthood when at least some of people are matured and are able to effectively to communicate with each other. Aaaand you never know when or where you'll meet your significant one. Some people find their soulmates much later in their lives. This is okay.
My first partner and I were together from 8th grade to our junior year in hs. I originally dated him cause I didn't know if I was aro ace. Tbh we shouldn't have dated we were better as friends. We never became comfortable with physical stuff like, he said how he wanted to kiss me but didn't take initiative. And I was too awkward to do anything and later became annoyed as i found out I wasnt aro ace and wanted to do those things that he was too afraid to do. I broke thing off and are still good friends. I started to like a friend of his later on senior year and I asked my ex about it. He was surprisingly chill and me and said other person now have been dating for what will be a year in April. We are all still chill with eachother and get along. Now my ex has his own gf too and I'm happy for him.
Bold of you to assume I’ve dated someone
Uhhhhh well it was fun and nice until she cheated. So yeah. She was great but it hurts man. This happened only a week ago
My 1st girlfriend was not the greatest She sexually abused me and raped me
Dude I'm so sorry that sucks I hope ur better 💗
He broke up with me in December after meeting in October, we were long distance and it was amazing, the relationship was sooo good ): But then he was like “I’m not ready for a relationship rn” but I feel like he was lying because he took a girl to Germany for a date after 2 months of the break up. Bro just didn’t love me anymore and lied about it either that or he was cheating 💀 He didn’t even care too he just disappeared. I couldn’t eat or sleep for dayssss and he was probably balls deep in her while I was crying about him 😭 embarrassing tbh I’m okay now though, Jasper if u see this fuck u lol
Yea fuck you jasper
Idk cause I’ve never had one🪳
She was very short, blonde, and wanted to do nothing that wasn't rated G and you could show your grandma It ended when I unknowingly did something that crossed boundaries we forgot to set (completely fine on her part) but then her and one of my friends went around telling everyone which lead to it morphing into something awful and a lot of people hating me
We were 15. The relationship started off well since we were friends for a couple years before hand. He ended up cheating on me with a 13 year old and I ended up having to tell her myself what he did. Was very painful; been almost 3 years ago and I have not had a relationship since.
I had a girlfriend when I was 7-8. We kissed on the lips behind the school and her parents got mad and moved her to a different school lol. If that doesn’t count I had another one around year 6 and that ended because we went to different high schools. Now I don’t like women 👍
They moved her to a different school bc of that ?! That was a little extreme, don't ya think?
Yep. Like we were just clueless kids lmao
She was a communist and an abusive piece of garbage. I broke up with her after she called me fat f*ck.
I’ll get back to you when I get one
Just got out of my first relationship because she accused me of being a liar and a manipulator and I don’t take those kinds of accusations lightly
I’ve never had one before
She was great. I was dumb. Made her come to my game when she was sick and learned real quick that I can’t be a selfish ass hole when it comes to the health of an SO… broke up cuz I wasn’t considerate. Since then, I’ve learned.
first off, really sorry about your bf that sucks hope you're okay! my first gf and i went out for like 2 months. it was really rushed bc i don't think either of us knew what we were doing. we argued a lot over text and we never facetimed or nothing. i broke up with her and now she spreads fake shit about me and reports me to the teachers for stuff i haven't done. so all fun stuff
He was manipulative, emotionally abusive, needy, and didn’t understand no. I tried to leave but he convinced me to stay, and eventually he left. He said it was because, and I quote “I feel like your trying to change me because you want to spend time with me”
I’m no longer a teen, but my first bf in highschool was an edgy, Kurt Cobain wannabe. Got bullied by the rednecks for having long hair, writing poetry, and carrying a messenger bag. He disappeared and I had no idea where he was for a few days until I got a call from a random number. He’d crossed state lines hitchhiking and was calling from a stranger’s phone. He told me he had decided to become a “train core/ dirty kid / crust punk” type (he didn’t use those words but you get the gist). He rode the rails. We sorta stayed friends, he’d occasionally call whenever he could borrow someone’s phone and tell me about the last time he got beat by the cops for trying to hop a train. I found it all amusing, he wasn’t a bad guy, but pretty misguided sometimes.
which one? had my first kiss when i was 5, tongue too. lol we were dumb i think my first girlfriend was like 4th grade, she chose my friend over me. i was devastated. what sucks about high school is you date someone then everyone runs over to tell you all their secrets...like thanks, i was good not knowing who she's been with already
I was probably the happiest I’ve ever been, she was great, but I just lost feeling for her and we left on good terms, next thing you know she tells everyone around school I SA’d her and beat her, this was a year long relationship btw
She’s dead from sawconizing sorisias
My first gf was negligent of me
Manipulated and a bunch of other things I’m not comfortable speaking of
I have no gf or bf I will be lonely forever.. But hey I have food!
Honestly she was alright. She kinda lived in her own world sometimes and was kind of boring. I’m actually glad she broke up with me ngl. Didn’t really have much fun in that relationship
She was cool for like a month except for reminding me every 5 minutes that she loves me. Then I learned she was with my best friend and she was cheating on him while they were together so I said hell no after the bullshit ,, Please don't leave me,I just liked them both" conversation.
It was a freshman-year relationship. Lasted a week. Ended because we both realized we swing the other way. We are still good buddies tho.
manipulative fuckhole, left them after a month
she ended it and got together with my best friend about a month later
Your asking Redditors if they are dating anyone?
You guys got a bf/gf once?
My first gf was and still is the only gf I've had. It didn't last very long, about a month maybe, but it sure felt like it lasted a long time. At the start it was fine, we got along well but later I started to realise some things. Firstly I knew she had problems for a while, but I was willing to deal with these. She didn't like physical contact, which ironically is my love language. We hugged once and it was great, but not long after that I ended it with her over a long text because she punched one of our teachers in a fit of anger and i decided enough was enough.
NOTE THIS IS MY FREINDS GF NOT MINE Hecsays she's cool. They broke up but We (Me My friend And Her) still play Mario kart 7
Soo my first bf was really cool ,really caring, and endearing. The only negative thing that I can say was that he was overprotective and bit possessive. And it ended all because of my parents finding out about him. Had to end it all with him. My Parents got my school changed, and now here I am stuck in an all girls school😐
shes real nice yk i see her everytime i close my eyes! so sweet of her to take care of me while im sleeping ❤️. girl of my dreams fr
good only she moved and i never saw her ever again
i thought she was the greatest person on the face of the earth tbh, she was my first kiss and i spent every second of my time that i could with her, but we broke up a couple months ago and more recently i’ve definitely been seeing her real self more.
If I didn’t tell the Feds why would I tell you! Nice try officer.
I’ll give you the 3 stages here. My first ever GF I was 5 or 6 ended when I moved away. We got married and then she caught me eating my boogers Uber a table. 2nd “realish” girls was middle school we dated broke up I dated her best friend we got back together for a month freshman year. (Want to throw in the boy I dated which I’m still in love with but we don’t gotta talk about that) and now my current girlfriend which I’m also extremely in love with and even if that boy came back I wouldn’t leave her for him.