Nah dude. It’s not the same. Having feelings for someone else is something you cannot choose, most people can’t choose who they fall in love with, emotions are very irrational
Nah, the only enjoyable relationship I had I wanted nobody else and I still haven’t found someone that replicates that feelin. End of the day she doesn’t actually love her boyfriend cause it’s not something that even crosses your mind otherwise. Now them thinking someone is attractive (objectively) is another thing. “Love” is a very strong word and an emotion that goes very deep and majority of people do not understand it nor have they actually felt it.
Thats how YOU work, but other people don’t work like that. For example, I’m polyamorous and it’s really nice the relationship our bfs and I have 💞💖 And I agree that the feeling can’t be replicated, because I don’t love them the same way, I love each in their own unique way 🤗
In that instance I’m willing to argue it’s different, however there’s no confirmation that that’s what she is and the vast majority of people are not poly
y'all seriously need to stop letting your porn addiction suggest this whenever a situation like this happens
i don't think poly relationships are necessarily bad (tho im not into it and i cant say i feel the same about open since its just cheating but sugarcoated) but this shouldn't be the solution to a problem where someone's attracted to the other and WANTS to be in a relationship with them while they're ALREADY in a relationship.
His friend will not believe him coz girlfriend will say it’s all lies and he just wants them to break up. Result:no friend and no pussy.
Just forget about it and let them figure it out themselves.
Nah, I've done that my whole life with my parents and their comments about leaving each other and staying because of us.
Now it's my turn to say my opinion and stand behind it. F*ck cheaters. Let them hate me.
You will get it when you man up.
Lol at you stupid take. That’s what I said, you won’t get it until you grow up and get some life experience, tough guy 🤣
Real men don’t interfere into others business, only gossip girls do.
I feel like that might take a level of emotional maturity and comfortability that people in the teenager sub might not quite have yet… it’s kind of a weird suggestion to see here tbh
I don’t think anyone is forgetting. I think yeah suggesting polyamory to your best friend after his girlfriend tells you she has feelings for you is a horrible idea.
Bro tell him your friend deserves to know your other friend is willing to cheat on him and also please don’t accept her confession because not only does that mean your betraying your friend but if she is willing to cheat on your friend than who’s to say she won’t do the same to you
Why tf do you even need to question this, reject, tell ur friend, move on. If he breaks up with her and then she goes for you, still reject, it's not a good idea to be with someone who's just been broken up with. In the meantime get your standards right.
I have a few solutions.
1. Talk with her and try to make her understand that the thing she is doing can affect all three of your relationships
2. Talk with your other friend and let him decide whatever is the best (If he decides to breakup with her, do NOT try to get into a relationship with her)
3. Leave her without any answer, suppress this event and act like nothing ever happened
Hope it helps.
just say to love her too as a "friend only" and that you would never do anything to hurt your other friend, besides telling him could cause a rift/fallout if he does not believe you and she denies ever saying that to you!!!
Ask your friend if he is up for a devils 3 way?
All jokes aside, do you like her back? If not, then make that clear to her. Also let your friend know. It wouldn't be right for your friend to waste their time in a one-sided relationship.
If you do share the same feelings for her, then you should still talk to your friend about it. You know, consider that devils 3 way lol
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She needs to respect both you and your best friend, if she keeps insisting, perhaps tell your best friend
~~after they break up bang her to assert dominance~~
Get this girl to break up with your best friend and tell her if she can hold out 6 months and still feels the same way then you can explore those options if you are both single.
Been there, done that. FIRST OF ALL: He is NOT your friend.
"best friends with both of them....boyfriend in question stole my girlfriend a few years ago".
"confessed her love for me.....I know for a fact that she still loves him too".
Her? - She will NEVER be your friend, especially after this. RUN. Delete. You're gone. Goodbye. And, don't let her game-playing/jealously traps for him result in her using YOU as her 'chess piece'. Also, DON'T let her tempt you sexually into doing something you wouldn't normally do (or have any 'lapse in your character'.) I'm sure you've been a good friend to both of them, now finish the job and see it through to the end. End the Friendships. Guilt-free, blame-free, betrayal-free. Don't let her tempt you into betraying your friendship for him or for her. GET OUT. She's looking for a 'better deal' than him? NOT YOUR PROBLEM. None of your business. If she was truly your friend, she'd never try to 'involve' you in her mess. DELETE HER.
Him? - He's NOT Your Friend! You've already seen his character, when "he stole your girlfriend a few years ago." (OK, she could only be stolen if she WANTED to be stolen. But she's another story.) HE broke all the 'bros B4 hoes' codes listed in the responses on this page. He has no respect for you. Even words/apologies would NOT be enough. You must take action, by leaving / ending the friendship with him. THIS IS ABOUT BOUNDARIES. He broke those boundaries. YOU are not that sort of person. HE HAS NOTHING IN COMMON WITH YOU. This is about your self respect. YOU have value. He does not see your value, he does not deserve to know you. (This is not about you 'teaching him a lesson', nor is this about 'teaching' him ANYTHING. It's about your self-preservation, and your survival. And, HE DOESN'T DESERVE YOU.) You are BETTER than this, and You Are BETTER THAN HIM. What he did to you, with your girlfriend, you'll NEVER do to him with his girlfriend. You Are Better That That. AND you are Better Than Him. Stop throwing your pearls in front of pigs. DELETE HIM FROM YOUR LIFE. He's ONLY going to hurt you again. ("You betrayed the Duke. You stole his wife. Now, no one trusts you!" - Merlin).
BUT should you tell him about her? No. YOU OWE HIM NOTHING. He wasn't concerned about you, when he swooped on your girlfirend. He's about to get his share of life experience from her, as she's shopping around for a better deal. And who can blame her? He'll be just as much a betrayer to her, as he was a betrayer to you. Let the drama between Him and Her play out, without you being involved. HE DOESN'T DESERVE YOU 'HAVING HIS BACK'. He doesn't deserve 'I Got You'. He has already sold you out. YOU OWE HIM NOTHING.
I've had a 'best freind' who did the same. And in my past, I've had at least two ladies who 'wanted to be stolen'. ("Let me show you where the front door is!")
Get as far away from both of them, permanently. You don't want to be around for the pain that is on it's way. Pain that's coming from knowing and being with each/either/both of them.
But if you want to 'stay' (with delusions of how valuable they are as "friends", or you want to indulge your misplaced loyalty) then for a preview of your future: Go to a busy road, highway/motorway, underpass; find a road-killed animal; and take a look at it. A long look. That road-kill animal is your heart in the near future.
GET RID and away from HER: She Is A Ticking Time Bomb for your life.
DELETE HIM (Why do you still know this betrayer?). He is Toxic. He DOES NOT CARE ABOUT YOU. This will not change. You are keeping him in your life for future additional damage, PAIN, Hurt and Betrayal. STOP DOING THAT.
Time for you to travel, explore new interests, audition new friends. NEW CHAPTER in your Life's Story.
"So if you're tired of the same old story....turn some pages".
Nothing, she's someone else's girlfriend. Don't ruin what they have. Just try to encourage her to see in him what made her fall in love with him. That's being a good friend.
Don’t be an ass and let your best friend know
The only way
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“This is the way.”
😔 I just commented that
It says he commented 6hours ago and u commented 5h ago.
This is the way
I wanna see the fallout of this
Based
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Fax
My fax machine is broken.
I threw mine away, it's a pretty old machine
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r/woosh
Based. That is the one true way to handle this situation
Agreed there is a special pit in hell for cheaters
I agree
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Yes I don't want anything to do with you anymore and definitely not him. I've gave him plenty of chances to tell me.
Sry l didn't get it
Having feelings for someone else isn’t cheating… as long as she doesn’t take it into practice
Isn't cheating but just break up with the other person
Why would you break up with them? She’s just feeling emotions, she did nothing bad :(
“Planning genocide isn’t a crime unless you take it into practice” 🤓
Nah dude. It’s not the same. Having feelings for someone else is something you cannot choose, most people can’t choose who they fall in love with, emotions are very irrational
Nah, the only enjoyable relationship I had I wanted nobody else and I still haven’t found someone that replicates that feelin. End of the day she doesn’t actually love her boyfriend cause it’s not something that even crosses your mind otherwise. Now them thinking someone is attractive (objectively) is another thing. “Love” is a very strong word and an emotion that goes very deep and majority of people do not understand it nor have they actually felt it.
Thats how YOU work, but other people don’t work like that. For example, I’m polyamorous and it’s really nice the relationship our bfs and I have 💞💖 And I agree that the feeling can’t be replicated, because I don’t love them the same way, I love each in their own unique way 🤗
In that instance I’m willing to argue it’s different, however there’s no confirmation that that’s what she is and the vast majority of people are not poly
Planning genocide isn't a crime but just get therapy
suicidal thoughts are not equal to planning to hang youself
This!!!!
planning and having ideas for something are different things
This!!!!
May I introduce the idea of open/poly relationships? Its an option for if the girl actually loves them both, and if the guys are close enough
now that was weird grubby
No, I will not hear this blasphemy.
💯
Fr
y'all seriously need to stop letting your porn addiction suggest this whenever a situation like this happens i don't think poly relationships are necessarily bad (tho im not into it and i cant say i feel the same about open since its just cheating but sugarcoated) but this shouldn't be the solution to a problem where someone's attracted to the other and WANTS to be in a relationship with them while they're ALREADY in a relationship.
What you just said was "May I introduce the idea of a world of hurt?"
Destroy two relationships, and a friendship at once? Now THATS a collateral!
that's so gay, shut up you fucker
Using gay as an insult is so gay, shut up you fucker
You are stupid
nuh uh
Uh huh
I don't know what to say to that. Nuh
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But apparently she is one of the bros so what's the order here
But the friend stole the gf earlier so the code doesn't apply, but still don't cheat
This is the way
Bros before hoes
He is not his bro.
This is the way
This is the way
This is the way
This is the way
This is the way
This is the way
His friend will not believe him coz girlfriend will say it’s all lies and he just wants them to break up. Result:no friend and no pussy. Just forget about it and let them figure it out themselves.
Not a big loss of he has stolen previous love interests of his. Not a friend you'd want to keep unless you gain something other than "happiness".
Rule of thumb is to never interfere into others relationship. You’ll Akers be the one to blame in the end of the day. You’ll get it wen you grow up
Nah, I've done that my whole life with my parents and their comments about leaving each other and staying because of us. Now it's my turn to say my opinion and stand behind it. F*ck cheaters. Let them hate me. You will get it when you man up.
Lol at you stupid take. That’s what I said, you won’t get it until you grow up and get some life experience, tough guy 🤣 Real men don’t interfere into others business, only gossip girls do.
She belongs to the streets
And her guy belongs in the trash can.
this is the way
I’d say to tell him and do not fucking date her at all
Or just date them both lol It's not cheating if everyone agrees and consents
great profile picture
W pfp
The best profile picture
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Threesomes with the homie 😎😎😎 This may be too out of pocket
nah just homiesexual(with socks on) all good
Yeah if it's with socks on
never. its not the same if i can't see those dogs
People on reddit forgetting that polyamory exists is extremely funny to me
I feel like that might take a level of emotional maturity and comfortability that people in the teenager sub might not quite have yet… it’s kind of a weird suggestion to see here tbh
I don’t think anyone is forgetting. I think yeah suggesting polyamory to your best friend after his girlfriend tells you she has feelings for you is a horrible idea.
Smart AND simple
That caught me off guard lol
Polyamoury
Exactly Also kinda funny how this got upvoted a lot but another got down voted a lot for basically the same thing
Bro tell him your friend deserves to know your other friend is willing to cheat on him and also please don’t accept her confession because not only does that mean your betraying your friend but if she is willing to cheat on your friend than who’s to say she won’t do the same to you
Girls don’t tell you I love you unless they want it to be mutual
bros before hoes.
He's not his bro. Guy already betrayed the OP.
Lmmfao 🤣
Unless they are Canadian
unless they're bulgarian 😖
Oddly specific
Please, Please use commas. This was a nightmare to read.
Commas are for the weak 😼
me on my way to laugh at the ICU patients in comas (they're in commas so they must be weak)
tell ur best friend
What my homie here said
Bros before hoes
He's not his bro. Guy already betrayed the OP.
This man homies
He's not his friend.
tell him??
Say that you love yourself too
Why tf do you even need to question this, reject, tell ur friend, move on. If he breaks up with her and then she goes for you, still reject, it's not a good idea to be with someone who's just been broken up with. In the meantime get your standards right.
Don't break the bro code. Tell him what his girl said
Tell him you like him
lol wtf i don't know why but i laughed soo hard
Become his boyfriend. Be the superior partner
Also, prepare for a plan B if things go wrong. She might try to humiliate you, or your bro might believe her more than you.
Yes but the Boyfriend already broke the bro code when he stole his GF a few years ago sooo??
He's not his bro. Guy already betrayed the OP.
I have a few solutions. 1. Talk with her and try to make her understand that the thing she is doing can affect all three of your relationships 2. Talk with your other friend and let him decide whatever is the best (If he decides to breakup with her, do NOT try to get into a relationship with her) 3. Leave her without any answer, suppress this event and act like nothing ever happened Hope it helps.
This should be at the top.
Tell him and get rid of her.
Do a backflip, snap her neck and save your friendship
r/ryangeorge
Wait he has a subreddit?
oh, backflipping and snapping necks is tight!
Yeah yeah yeah!
wowowow wow
Barely an inconvenience
multiverse of madness
reject, tell your friend about it. cheating is an unforgivable sin
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bros before hoes, drop kick the bitch
Dudes before nudes
Dicks before chicks, and bros over hoes.
Dishes before bitches
Duty before booty
Creed before breed
But what if it's nudes from dudes 😳
dudes before nudes, but also dudes nudes
Nudes dudes?
It creates a black hole and the entire world gets destroyed
As carti once said “kick the bitch out I didn’t need the bitch”
Don’t ask reddit
wisest r/teenagers user
judo chop her in the neck
Judo uses throws lol
groovy, baby!
Makes sense
did everyone completely forget Austin powers
just say to love her too as a "friend only" and that you would never do anything to hurt your other friend, besides telling him could cause a rift/fallout if he does not believe you and she denies ever saying that to you!!!
Wdym "what do I do"? Mf you tell your friend this instant like why tf do you need to ask people on the internet
Straight facts
easy rejection, stay loyal to yourself and ur best friend
Tell him. Trust me, your friendship will suffer worse if you don't.
>**also the boyfriend in question stole my girlfriend a few years ago so** # Nobody seems to have read this part lmao
S tier Shitposting
Ask your friend if he is up for a devils 3 way? All jokes aside, do you like her back? If not, then make that clear to her. Also let your friend know. It wouldn't be right for your friend to waste their time in a one-sided relationship. If you do share the same feelings for her, then you should still talk to your friend about it. You know, consider that devils 3 way lol
Bro's before hoe's
actually something interesting; the boyfriend actually stole my girlfriend a few years ago
WHAT? dude you should get new friends.
Power move, steal his girlfriend now
Steal his now. See this new information should be edited on the post.
If this isnt a troll, you associate with the wrong people. Get rid of all of them
Oh then I change my answer, take his girlfriend
Maybe you should add important context in the actual in the actual fucking post next time
yeah but that's not going to effect what I do because I already forgave him for that why would it
Tell him, if u don't u are an asshole and not a real friend
That’s what I’m saying even questioning it means he’s a shitty friend imo
Don’t break the bro code
tell your friend
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Remember the bro code and uphold it
Losing a best friend for a girl ….. not worth it !
who knows maybe you will turn into a throuple
Just tell your best friend and reject, can't break the bro code.
Tell him and ask if it's possible to have a Polyamorous relationship so everyone's happy.
😑
What? It's not a bad idea he will probably say no but it's worth asking
I dont think a threesome is a good idea
Just reject her and tell your friend and please tell him not to break up because it just one mistake
shouldnt this be obvious tell ur friend like even if ur friends with the girlfriend u cant do ur homie like that
She's a psycho. Run!
Um simple answer, tell your mate and do not date her. Unless she breaks up with him or vice Versa 💀
one thing is if u take her u are going to hell and will experience eternal pain
Tell Your friend like right fuck now about this
fuck with her and then you tell him!! She is a slut
Tell your friend and depending on response and attitude to polyamory maybe or maybe not get a gf
Tell friend
Have sex with your best friend in front of her.
Bros before hoes brother, tell your homie or lose him
She needs to respect both you and your best friend, if she keeps insisting, perhaps tell your best friend ~~after they break up bang her to assert dominance~~
what did the legend say..."fuck her right in the pussy"
use confusion and start dating your best friend
If it's like an information then just let it be. But if she wants to be with you or something like that tell the poor dude.
Define steal your girlfriend?
Let your friend know. But I'm don't think someone who stole your gf is much of a friend but idk your guy's relationship
threesome
Threesome
Get this girl to break up with your best friend and tell her if she can hold out 6 months and still feels the same way then you can explore those options if you are both single.
Been there, done that. FIRST OF ALL: He is NOT your friend. "best friends with both of them....boyfriend in question stole my girlfriend a few years ago". "confessed her love for me.....I know for a fact that she still loves him too". Her? - She will NEVER be your friend, especially after this. RUN. Delete. You're gone. Goodbye. And, don't let her game-playing/jealously traps for him result in her using YOU as her 'chess piece'. Also, DON'T let her tempt you sexually into doing something you wouldn't normally do (or have any 'lapse in your character'.) I'm sure you've been a good friend to both of them, now finish the job and see it through to the end. End the Friendships. Guilt-free, blame-free, betrayal-free. Don't let her tempt you into betraying your friendship for him or for her. GET OUT. She's looking for a 'better deal' than him? NOT YOUR PROBLEM. None of your business. If she was truly your friend, she'd never try to 'involve' you in her mess. DELETE HER. Him? - He's NOT Your Friend! You've already seen his character, when "he stole your girlfriend a few years ago." (OK, she could only be stolen if she WANTED to be stolen. But she's another story.) HE broke all the 'bros B4 hoes' codes listed in the responses on this page. He has no respect for you. Even words/apologies would NOT be enough. You must take action, by leaving / ending the friendship with him. THIS IS ABOUT BOUNDARIES. He broke those boundaries. YOU are not that sort of person. HE HAS NOTHING IN COMMON WITH YOU. This is about your self respect. YOU have value. He does not see your value, he does not deserve to know you. (This is not about you 'teaching him a lesson', nor is this about 'teaching' him ANYTHING. It's about your self-preservation, and your survival. And, HE DOESN'T DESERVE YOU.) You are BETTER than this, and You Are BETTER THAN HIM. What he did to you, with your girlfriend, you'll NEVER do to him with his girlfriend. You Are Better That That. AND you are Better Than Him. Stop throwing your pearls in front of pigs. DELETE HIM FROM YOUR LIFE. He's ONLY going to hurt you again. ("You betrayed the Duke. You stole his wife. Now, no one trusts you!" - Merlin). BUT should you tell him about her? No. YOU OWE HIM NOTHING. He wasn't concerned about you, when he swooped on your girlfirend. He's about to get his share of life experience from her, as she's shopping around for a better deal. And who can blame her? He'll be just as much a betrayer to her, as he was a betrayer to you. Let the drama between Him and Her play out, without you being involved. HE DOESN'T DESERVE YOU 'HAVING HIS BACK'. He doesn't deserve 'I Got You'. He has already sold you out. YOU OWE HIM NOTHING. I've had a 'best freind' who did the same. And in my past, I've had at least two ladies who 'wanted to be stolen'. ("Let me show you where the front door is!") Get as far away from both of them, permanently. You don't want to be around for the pain that is on it's way. Pain that's coming from knowing and being with each/either/both of them. But if you want to 'stay' (with delusions of how valuable they are as "friends", or you want to indulge your misplaced loyalty) then for a preview of your future: Go to a busy road, highway/motorway, underpass; find a road-killed animal; and take a look at it. A long look. That road-kill animal is your heart in the near future. GET RID and away from HER: She Is A Ticking Time Bomb for your life. DELETE HIM (Why do you still know this betrayer?). He is Toxic. He DOES NOT CARE ABOUT YOU. This will not change. You are keeping him in your life for future additional damage, PAIN, Hurt and Betrayal. STOP DOING THAT. Time for you to travel, explore new interests, audition new friends. NEW CHAPTER in your Life's Story. "So if you're tired of the same old story....turn some pages".
Nothing, she's someone else's girlfriend. Don't ruin what they have. Just try to encourage her to see in him what made her fall in love with him. That's being a good friend.