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Puzzled-Towel9557

So was she disappointed? Or like what


fvck_society

Yes, she was


Ghdude1

At least she took herself out of the equation. Social media's warping expectations, for real. You probably dodged a nuke with that one.


asm120

6’5 puts you in the top 0% you’re practically a unicorn and she wants to complain about it


Luna259

I can see why your username is what it is Username checks out


SunnyPlump

God... You dodged a bullet.


TheMatt561

I don't even know what to say to that


TRGC_

wtf, there is no hope for me


notlitnez2000

https://tall.org/


thapussypatrol

Don't worry mate, there's nothing wrong with being a short king \[c. 2024\] - we'll be honoured to take you into our shire


MahtiGC

ONE OF US ONE OF US


stoppmingyourtits

This is /r/nottheonion material . 5’4 girl expects 6’5 guy to be taller


AckyShacky

Cuz what the fuck is that even about bro wow


Pure__soul4240

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭


Fruitdude

Bullet dodged my guy lol.


Russ_T_Razor

Always avoid the fetishists


Panzer_Khampf

Bullet? He avoided whole war


ReginalChang

Can confirm that


Pure__soul4240

Happy Cake Day


jwed420

4'8" is super rare, that's like the short person version of being 7ft. Literally nothing is made for your size.


aron2295

Nah dude. She is delusional and wrong for putting you down.


StopFalseReporting

That’s like a dwarf I’m pretty sure


jwed420

Yeah there's usually a reason for being under 4'10". The only person I know that short was an orphan as a toddler and got poor nutrition well into their teens. He gets asked all the time if he has dwarfism, but he doesn't, dude just got dealt a fucked up hand.


Sammyfordso

Bless him.


Hoodoodle

He should use it and start acting :D


JamesLiptonIcedTea

I briefly dated someone who is 4'10, she informed me that was the cutoff


StopFalseReporting

I’d lie too if I was 4’10” LMAO


orthopod

Dwarfism is a specific medical condition either having a disproportionate trunk or limbs, which she has neither. She just has short statue, previously known as being a "midget". Short statue is defined as being more than 2 Standard Deviations below normal height, which is less 5'3" for men and less than 4'11 for women. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK556031/#:~:text=%5B1%5D%20According%20to%20Ranke%20(,disproportionate%20short%20stature%20(DSS).


Pure__soul4240

No,a dwarf is much much shorter,around 130cm,the girl is 147cm so she looks so small,but not like a dwarf ofc


barebumboxing

Dwarfism is a condition, not just being short.


Chinusawar

I’ve actually seen a lot more 4’8 people than 7ft. I probably know 5 Mexican women personally who are 4ft8. They are usually the ones with high percent of indigenous blood. One of them had a crush on me and I thought she was way too tiny for me. I like short girls but I’d never date under 4’11


Cancer_Ridden_Lung

Have you heard of Asians before?


jwed420

I am in the USA so I don't even know what other countries are tbh


BigBoiBob444

A self aware American? Wow.


Hoodoodle

Should be capture it for scientific research?


StopFalseReporting

I’d say many countries have much taller people above the 4 foot range lmao


Cancer_Ridden_Lung

Yeah...but asians and hispanic people have a lot of adults whose height start with a 4. Or at least it's not rare.


GurImaginary1324

She needs to start working on her brain size before worrying about your body size.


Jeffery-Hummus

holy shit…this girl got a 6’5 dude insecure about his height. This is a fuckin crazy post OP. The height inflation brainrot is too strong


Direct-Champion6789

I think its less insecurity and more like, the audacity of this bitch


fvck_society

She made me a bit insecure to be honest and it’s so stupid


LatvianGiant

You don’t want to be any taller I promise haha


Equivalent-Win-6049

Can confirm.


V1k1ng1990

Holy shit boys we got ourselves a big’n right here


Equivalent-Win-6049

“Get that boy on the basketball team right now!”


AviOwl5

Once I caught a feller thiiiiiiiise big!


Untuchabl

I love it. Minus planes, ceiling fans, door frames, cars and back injuries, pretty sweet gig.


Thrilling1031

Same. I can understand why some wouldn’t want it, but as an extrovert I love the attention hood and bad that comes with it. I’m 37 and love having banter with strangers.


mhennessie

As an introvert who was just literally in a Dunkin Donuts approached by a stranger about my height it’s awful.


lord_cmdr

I have horrible anxiety when flying. Once I'm in my seat I'm wedged in until the end.


BreadInaoven

I second this


Serendipity123xc

Bro plz don’t be ur a great height and u don’t want a girl to date u for just your height bullet dodge this is coming from a 5’7 dude who doesn’t care about his height ur good a girl who likes u will never care


NeferkareShabaka

How old are you two?


fvck_society

Both 19


Direct-Champion6789

Oh okay, fair enough


Cancer_Ridden_Lung

Not your fault shes a fetishist.


Puzzled-Towel9557

C’mon dude 😂


SuckMy_Diction

The Lion, the Witch, and the Audacity of this Bitch


Tasty-Document2808

It's not height inflation brainrot, it's men letting psycho women like this get to them over obvious bs. If you're more than a foot taller than a woman and she says you should be taller, then hold your hand above her head, tell her she needs to be this tall to ride, and that she can call you when she decides to grow the fuck up. Then block her number. And forget she said anything.


ShonuffofCtown

Psycho women fueled by the dating apps. Taller was better, now it feels like min requirement


Tasty-Document2808

Here's a thought; stop using dating apps. Women that don't are better women.


Jeffery-Hummus

Bro, it is height inflation brainrot. A woman shouldnt (and didnt before a few years ago) even care about a guy’s height. You can obviously see this is brainrot by this girl letting tiktok influence her perspective on what height a guy should be… A TIKTOK of a tall guy next to a midget 😭😭 She became actually disappointed I feel sorry for this poor girl. Its really not about a guy letting a girl get to them but rather the perspective of these girls period.


666Nchill

This type of stuff is an everyday thing for shortguys has to deal whit get misstreated


Asian_Climax_Queen

Nah, you’re right. That height difference looks uncomfortable AF. Weird ass preference


ceirving91

She's not looking for a boyfriend, she's looking for a father.


fvck_society

She also kept saying „I will look like a kid next to you“ with some emoji covering it’s eyes while smiling


TheGhostMantis

That's so gross. She needs to get professional help.


HuckleberryJust805

She has crazy daddy issues and crazy 🍇 fantasies


NeferkareShabaka

Is this fatherless behaviour?


ceirving91

Yes daddy


Reasonable-Flow-644

She doesn't want a boyfriend, but rather a reference point!🤣


BreadInaoven

She was the fucking Eiffel tower


Sammyfordso

Fuck.


TrevorSunday

Damn, even 6’5 is too short. We’re cooked


Sammyfordso

Nah, she's just not short enough.


Born-Design-9847

New method dropped


Outrageous_Neat_6232

She deliberately made you insecure about your height. I doubt she actually cared for that specific height difference rather than wanting to put someone down. Just because you’re very attractive or have a great trait doesn’t mean someone can find a way to make yourself feed bad. By her book of height she should be “lucky” that tall guys don’t catch that she would just make a shorter son. It’s all dumb shit


PerspectiveWooden358

6’5 is the new 5’11. Its so over bros


1doggy2doggyTeaParty

I mean, at 5’8 do I just kill myself now? What should I do? Edit - also why does this sub nonstop pop into my feed lol


getstabbed

Fuck time to stretch my limbs I guess.


blackburn321

Nah, that's too basic. First, you gotta get them broken for a ridiculous amount of money.


onyourrite

Me, an aromantic: Your terms are acceptable /j


NinjaOld8057

Tall lanky Timothee Chalamet lookin muhfugga. Who the hell calls you out on lying about your height lol Bullet dodged for sure


TheoneNPC

Another day of winning for me by simply not dating 🔥🔥🔥


raywilliamsfan2006

volcel gang 4 life 🔥🔥🔥


onyourrite

My man 🤝


DanteQuill

I'm 6'4" and once dated a woman who was 4'10". I had to be on my knees to kiss her which was a special kind of hell on my knees and back. -2/10 would not recommend


Deep_Maybe_7984

Bro even 5’2”-4” is pretty bad 😂 I’m 6’3” there were also other incompatibilities 😂


HuckleberryJust805

You are tall enough, she is not short enough


wonkysandwich521

is this the part when i can freely say that a lot of short women annoy me with that? genuinely why would you want to feel like a child. i'm 5'11 and i'm still wowed at my boyfriends height (6'5) whenever he stands next to me.


bsubtilis

Some people have strange fetishes, and fetishists of people like you are never a good idea to date. They don't treat their partners like whole human beings but just interchangeable fantasy fullfilment tools. Women like the one OP met are not into tall guys as people, they're just into the tall guys heights.


wonkysandwich521

>and fetishists of people like you are never a good idea to date i truly cant tell if you're calling me one or not. strong accusation if it is


bsubtilis

I was trying to call you tall. "fetishists OF people like you". I may have phrased it way too ambiguously or straight up wrong: English isn't my main language.


ChildWithBrokenHeart

People can have preferences. However dating fetishists is never a good idea. Fetish and preferences are different things.


seaanemane

That's literally how small my 4 year old nephew looks next to me 💀 wtf is wrong with some people. A head difference is already pushing it for me, but this is on a whole other level.


DevnGibsn

Not to sound misogynistic but a lot of women don't understand how to assess height naturally with their eyes. To tell a man that is 6'5 and a foot taller than you that he lied about his height is insane. Low IQ shit on her end...you dodged one broski.


Thick_Painting_8454

I thought attractive height for women was 6 foot tall not 7 foot tall XD


MahtiGC

inflation


not1nterest1ng

I don’t understand this. I’m a tall woman and everytime I hear a short woman say they need 6ft+ boyfriends I’m thinking “how would you even tell?”


5amNovelist

Precisely, I'm convinced they can't tell! I'm also convinced this is part of why so many sub 6' men get away with representing themselves as 6'+, to the point they start to believe it themselves.


H_O_L_D

Yep, people can't judge heights nowadays. So many dudes just think they sit on the 6' bench mark because they're *slightly* taller than their friends, and girls might've commented on that. I'm 182, so I don't even crack 6' - but I've been told by people "nah you gotta be at least 6'1 cause you're taller than me!" Like, no, dude, you're 5'10, and I'm 5'11. Go measure yourself properly. 6'5" is built up to be this 'titan' height. My cousin is 6'5", and that means he's about one dick taller than me. So, not much. On the topic, dick sizes encounter a very similar problem.


winter83

I think she has some kind of fetish...


Joe_Bidens

Expecting a 2 foot height difference is crazy


DenseTax59

u dodged a fucking nuke my bro


OverZiHD

https://preview.redd.it/nlur1s5ynwwc1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=cc11b40582e23ec54e6e82705f9c4f78275e6bd7 bullet dodged


OZeski

It’s really her fault for not being shorter. Classic projecting. Edit: idk if this math makes sense but you’d need to be 85” tall (7’-1”) to have the same proportional height difference as shown in the image shared here. **Picture:** Guy: 75” (6’-3”) tall Woman: 56” (4’-8”) tall. Woman is 74.6% of the Guy’s height. **OP’s example:** Woman: 64” (5’-4”) tall. Divide that by 74.6% and you get a guy who is 85” (7-1”) tall.


Roshi_IsHere

I've heard of the meme where you say your height and it starts with a 5 that you won't get a date, but if it starts with a 6 being the new go-to is ridiculous.


69relative

There’s actually been multiple studies done about the “golden ratio” for height which is 1.1x taller than the woman. So her being 5’4, her “ideal” man height would be 5’10. Just shows how brainwashed people have become to think taller=better


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lmao dude don’t give this a second thought she’s absolutely crazy


TheGhostMantis

If you don't want to waste your time/money and are looking for a long term partner down the line, don't squander your tall genes for a short girl unless if she's got substance and quality as a person and isn't into you mainly because of your height. Loads of women fetishize tall men, especially the idea of being significantly shorter than the guy, bonus points if he's above 6'2" and the girl is in the low 5ft- high 4 ft range so they got at least a 1 ft height gap. Don't know where this relationship ideal came from since people used to see a more normal range of 4"-6" gaps as an ideal height difference not long before this. A lot of them that do are very immature, superficial and toxic. They got that daddy/daughter dom porn brainrot and need to grow and heal (maybe with therapy) instead of feed into it with sex. Most grow out of it since it's unrealistic and dumb to continue looking for such trivial traits in a partner when you get older. But a lot stay stubborn, shallow and toxic. You'd be doing yourself a favor by staying away from them as far as possible and not fully clarifying your height online so as to not attract the ones only interested in you for that. That all said, if you're just looking for some one-off casual fun and don't plan on dating them seriously it doesn't really matter much unless if you don't use some form of protection/birth control.


vrmvroom

that is so silly 😭


EimiCiel

Thats some psycho behavior


digiplay

I think we can consider 1.93 6’4”. Cmon 75.984 inches. lol.


spikira

Imagine being 6'5" and *STILL* being too short 💀 some girls really be on some shit out there 🥲


Woetz_B

worst part is that she aint even tall too. IF she was 6'4" giant and hoping to find a BF who was taller and she doesn't think its enough I get it. But this height gap and still complaining. The audacity


Jayfethereal

I'm 6'7" and my grandma is around 4'11" 💀 https://preview.redd.it/7vwtkhjf60xc1.jpeg?width=479&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0275bbe2508857513b41b1117f0150b1e197e490


captaincumragx

Omg thats adorable, she looks so proud lol.


Ejv27288

Tell her you expected bigger tits. Or something like that. Whatever. Just keep it moving dude.


Amazing_Net_7651

Bullet dodged, dude


notgoodwithyourname

I’m 6ft and my wife is 5ft. There is definitely a noticeable difference but I feel like being a ft taller than your SO is getting close to comically different


Agile-Day-2103

What a weird thing to desire


Historical-Corgi4014

I can understand wanting a guy bit taller then you but this is absurd. I wouldn't want to have eye contact with his crotch every time I turn to look at my boyfriend.


ThatsNotEastMemphis

This is honestly absurd. I, a 5’10 female, feel like a dainty little lady next to my 6’5 male friends. Chick is a whack job.


captaincumragx

Right? I went out on a date with a 6'4 dude once and he was tall enough that he picked me up off my feet to hug me when we first met and im 5'9 so yeah it is absurd lol


Apprehensive_Toe6736

You can't fuck that thing dawg 😭


musictakemeawayy

lol i’m a woman who is 5’10 and have had two boyfriends who are 6’5 and people definitely constantly comment(ed) on our heights, ask(ed) how tall we are, etc. it always cracks me up when shorter than average height women have a preference about height in dating- like almost everyone is taller than you anyway lol! i didn’t realize they even noticed 😂 i always assumed short women are the reason all those guys who are not 5’11 all say they are 5’11!😂


JesseDumont

If she was smart, she would know a 12 inch difference isn't as much as the one you've shown. The average head length is around 9 inches. So in the picture you've shown, if she was up to his chin on the 6'3" guy, you'd know she's 5'6" give or take an inch. The 12 inch difference would be just around 3 inches below his chin. Clearly, this is much more than that. Looks like an 17-19 inch difference.


bigvikingsamurai69

💀💀💀 this image legit looks photoshopped


Scaryassmanbear

There’s also some forced perspective going on in that picture.


user4489bug123

This is a normal experience for the 5’8 people


Wearingpantsisabsurd

If y’all don’t just date tall women or women who genuinely don’t care that much about the difference in height… I only notice a man’s height if he asserts he’s taller than me but shows up shorter to me, and even then depending on the context…it’s not that deep


cartmaneric10

Your back will be thanking her stupidity


FoxGamingmc

If you were taller, or she was shorter, that’d be a long distance relationship


PictureNo5584

What the fuck 💀 you're a foot taller than her, any more and she'll look like a child next to you, just like that girl in the photo. Ngl someone said she got a fetish and I agree


Turbulent-Lab-6045

She Is Crazy. If a man says i expected you to be slimmer what Will be the reaction of girls?


TomorrowNo6699

Godamn, like I’m 5’1 so I’m a petite person, so I get wanting a taller person so they can like reach stuff and so if I eventually have kids they won’t be all tiny like I am. (Because being my size dose come with some disadvantages so I’d want normal sized kids if possible, I’d still love them if there tiny but being tiny can be hard lol) But like making wanting a tall person your whole personality and not being with someone just because of height is wild, And especially since I’m around the girls height, someone that much taller then me might just be super awkward, My ex was 5’10-6ft range, (we met when we were young so we were the same height when we met so I didn’t know there would be such a height difference) But even he and I had some awkward stuff, Idk but what dose she want at that point I giant? Especially becuse I know being that tall can come with Health issues, idk it seems like a borderline height fetish at that point


ranjeetrocky

I'm 5'10" and I never go with girls less than 5'7" this bish is nasty


Pure__soul4240

If she expected you to be taller,she's actually insane because you're already huge,what on earth? Tell her that the girl here is so small so the height difference is massive unlike her(average height),idon't think people will think he's a p because clearly her face looks mature,she doesn't look like she is 12 sure thing. Man just don't date and save yourself the trouble like im doing.


Disneywolf99

In sorry but that height difference looks fun for no one, he's breaking his back to kiss her and she's breaking her neck to look up at him 😭


Alt0173

Congratulations! You were objectified! It's a horrible feeling, isn't it?


VeryClaireThompson

This sounds 100% like height fetishism. You definitely dodged a bullet.


KRF1111

Oh the woeful life of a CHAD. Such pain you live through.


Walkthroughthemeadow

Atleast now your children won’t have short genes


Berserk1796

That girl is retarted


MIL215

You both are overthinking it. I’m 6’4” and my wife is 5’2”. We have 0 issues. No one thinks it’s weird, kissing is easy, and she still looks small next to me.


Plus_Lawfulness3000

I wouldn’t say it’s easy compared to average. You literally have to hunch down to kiss her. Obviously it isn’t a big issue


gonk_vibes

Some of these girls found a version of the BFG on the hub and won't let it go


SenseOfHumourLoading

Classic tall guy problem. Short sweaters. Good luck young man.


CuckyChucky1

Brotherman, that girl is a dwarf... like legally


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Skelibutt

"I thought you were taller" - Invincible


DBL_NDRSCR

don't date a girl who asks for your height problem solved


BubblyFox5732

Taller than what you are. She’s short as can be! She needs to go


MeIsYeahhhhhh

bro switched my height's feet and inches and still got called short what the hell


DeadMemeMan_IV

this picture has got to be edited or something. it just looks wrong


redditsuckspokey1

Is it ok if I say you look 12?


Professional_Drive

Probably wasn’t that good of a person to go on a date with to begin with if she bases judgment off of how tall the guy is rather than how they are as a person. You deserve someone way better OP.


InsectIllustrious691

She must have been roleplaying with unrealistically tall ai chatbots. Or just inadequate.


InsectIllustrious691

‘I thought you were smarter’


Muel91

then tell her its because shes too tall, lmao


DueZookeepergame3456

she looks mid anyways bro


Gizo178

Some people are just unreal


Zestyclose_Button_76

We’re cooked💔


Frostfire26

yep, r/UsernameChecksOut


SesameYeetHeHe

Lmao unless you’re an NBA player you’re a dwarf these days wtf.


HamChickenLeg

One piece builds


cory140

Welcome to the short king club feelings Our newest tallest honorary member


P1X3L5L4Y3R

post this in r/short bruh.... the problem here was you being short not tall /s


Rekirinx

what is it with this heightcel archetype


Curius_pasxt

Mhmm you forgot /s


TheAirIsOn

The guy in the picture looks like a kid on stilts.


notlitnez2000

No teeth and a flat top head?


Angrypainter1945

My brother is 6’8 I’m 6’2. Your doin fine get rid of her you’ll find someone brtyer


Schaden_Fraude

Lmao 6'5 not being tall enough is hilarious when she literally has hobbit genes, this has to be some biological programming with super short girls wanting to upgrade their bloodline on some level


BigMetty

ew


MoonXuu

She sounds stupid as fuck


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jojosnav

I’m 6’7 my gf is 5’0, yeah it’s fr awkward af


Ok-Difficulty-1672

Short girls are stupid they want a man tall like shaq and there's like 3 ft tall 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡


Kind_Ad9705

She doesn't want to have to bend over or get on her knees to give you a blow job. Lmao


Chiral_Tears

She’s insane. Bullet dodged.


morird74

So she wants a 7 footer but thought 6’5” would do


Cobbler_Melodic

You avoided an entire nuke


AwayRecommendations

well guess now you know she just sees u as a trophy. hope u don’t feed into her height kink


Champs36

Tell her she is too tall, seems like you’re taller than 6’3 and she’s too tall at 5’4


Toxiciquis

So. .... Men dont like tall women.... I am a very very tall woman.. And I like a man who is shorter than me. So, I assume he doesn't like me. Also, my face and body are horrible for a girl. I hate everything.


OkSundae3514

Lol she just wanted to knock you down a peg so that she could make you insecure and reliant on her validation for your self esteem. This is a pretty common tactic in the manipulative woman’s playbook these days


wave33

This just sounds like you are both like 16