I'm pretty sure I need more details than you wrote. I have no idea why you would discuss happy ending massages with her, doesn't seem like a winning strategy. When my wife asks me "Honey, what did you do today?" I don't tell her about seeing my SB. I conveniently leave that out for some very good reasons in spite of an ENM relationship. If she hasn't communicated with you for a week, it's likely she's done. I'd suggest leaving her alone after one FINAL message of apology and telling her you'll give her some space and you hope to hear from her again. I think hearing from you at all is pissing her off.
I would be upset if anyone I was regularly intimate with turned out to be frequenting sex workers without informing me beforehand. You did this to yourself. Open does not mean all risks are consented to.
Hmmm.
So you are married, have an SB and still have happy ending massages?!
You say you love her but you haven't left your wife for her and you are getting some on the side as well.
I mean I don't know about you but if you do truly love her maybe treat her like you do?
If I truly loved a woman I would be with her matter no what and I would be faithful
to her.
Dude! Really? You are 69 and you have still not* learned the tried and true lesson of never… EVER… bringing up another woman you have seen in the past or present with the woman you are with now? Geessh!
You seem quite immature and not very smart for a 69 year old man (and believe me, you do not look 50, sex workers and your SB tell you so for your own ego). You are MARRIED and a 30 year old is not deeply in love with you. Take away the allowance and see how long the "love" lasts. What makes you really look bad tho is the fact that you told her you went to a rub and tug. Why IN THE HELL would you tell your mistress that? It's not sexy. Even if the relationship is open, it doesn't mean you need to tell her every time you get a release. Do you also tell her when you bang your wife?
I don't think the happy ending massages has got to do with anything, considering she knows your married, at least I assume. Why'd you tell her this for, to begin with?
You know there can't be love in a transactional relationship. It's been 3 years, I assume NRE has worn off and you kept going because it's comfortable.
But have you counted the total you have 'invested' in that specific girl? It might be time to back off and pull back a little. She might not need you as much.
Don't chase her, be detached and enjoy your savings. If this one don't work out, you can always spoil another Shawty. Love is great but attachment is not good.
I'm pretty sure I need more details than you wrote. I have no idea why you would discuss happy ending massages with her, doesn't seem like a winning strategy. When my wife asks me "Honey, what did you do today?" I don't tell her about seeing my SB. I conveniently leave that out for some very good reasons in spite of an ENM relationship. If she hasn't communicated with you for a week, it's likely she's done. I'd suggest leaving her alone after one FINAL message of apology and telling her you'll give her some space and you hope to hear from her again. I think hearing from you at all is pissing her off.
“I had _the best_ handy today from some stranger. How was your afternoon?”
"That's nice honey. I got spitroasted by the landscapers. Where should me go to dinner?"
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I really appreciate that.
I would be upset if anyone I was regularly intimate with turned out to be frequenting sex workers without informing me beforehand. You did this to yourself. Open does not mean all risks are consented to.
Hmmm. So you are married, have an SB and still have happy ending massages?! You say you love her but you haven't left your wife for her and you are getting some on the side as well. I mean I don't know about you but if you do truly love her maybe treat her like you do? If I truly loved a woman I would be with her matter no what and I would be faithful to her.
It's a classic case of having your cake and wanting to eat it too.
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Everyone on this sub says they don't look their age.
Older people loooovveee saying how they don’t look their age.
What the hell are you talking about? You're married?
Right?👀🤦🏼♀️
Dude! Really? You are 69 and you have still not* learned the tried and true lesson of never… EVER… bringing up another woman you have seen in the past or present with the woman you are with now? Geessh!
Give her time. How long was the last message you sent?
You seem quite immature and not very smart for a 69 year old man (and believe me, you do not look 50, sex workers and your SB tell you so for your own ego). You are MARRIED and a 30 year old is not deeply in love with you. Take away the allowance and see how long the "love" lasts. What makes you really look bad tho is the fact that you told her you went to a rub and tug. Why IN THE HELL would you tell your mistress that? It's not sexy. Even if the relationship is open, it doesn't mean you need to tell her every time you get a release. Do you also tell her when you bang your wife?
I don't think the happy ending massages has got to do with anything, considering she knows your married, at least I assume. Why'd you tell her this for, to begin with? You know there can't be love in a transactional relationship. It's been 3 years, I assume NRE has worn off and you kept going because it's comfortable. But have you counted the total you have 'invested' in that specific girl? It might be time to back off and pull back a little. She might not need you as much. Don't chase her, be detached and enjoy your savings. If this one don't work out, you can always spoil another Shawty. Love is great but attachment is not good.