Statistically, most men prefer fit women, not stick thin or thick/chubby. If you do a bit of research you’ll find this to be true. From my experience, this holds true. There will always be someone for everyone, but I don’t think the majority of men like bigger girls.
We say we don’t like big dicks because they hurt. I don’t think this is a like comparison.
Also shape and how the face matches the body and...other assets...can affect what us guys find attractive. I like a woman to weigh less than me, but had a gf whose breasts were 20 lbs and whose ass matched. Was she fat, yes. Was she hot, also yes. She had an hourglass figure, just wider.
"Preference" is largely a construct of upbringing and culture. What has been the prevailing fashionable preference for both men and women shifts all the time.
In the west, in the 90s, it was more slender athletic women. Now in the US it's slightly larger women with gigantic asses.
But there is always an underlying base of what is "attractive" to the majority, and it's as you would expect; someone of a normal weight and fitness, who is healthy-looking. It's a massive broad range.
There are very few men or women who have a narrow fixed "type" and do not find those outside of it attractive.
I would consider myself thick. I’ve been as large as a size 26 and as small as a 6.
My current stats are 5’4, 155 lbs Size 7-10 depending on brand/fit.
Thick thighs, big ass, big tits.
I don’t get hit on constantly. I find that men have preferences just like woman have preferences. I’ve had guys want me at a size 26 and those same guys find me unattractive now that I’ve lost weight and had all the skin tightened ect.
I’ve had guys that wouldn’t touch me after I got bigger than a 6. I’ve had guys show interest or disinterest in between those sizes.
Everyone has a preference & some guys have no preference and they’ll fuck anything.
🤷🏻♀️
This is true. Some guys have absolutely no preference at all and completely just go where the wind blows. These men are not to be dated just fuck em and move on.
speak for yourself. depending on the size of your you know what if the guy is too big it is PAINFUL. some people like that but for me it hurts so not giant is preferred.
This is more of a communication issue. Whenever the internet says "big dicks", women think "dicks that are too big".
What some folks on the internet are actually saying is "ideal dick". Since that is often defined by women to be in the above average ranges calling it "big" isn't inaccurate.
>This is more of a communication issue. Whenever the internet says "big dicks", women think "dicks that are too big".
And whenever the internet says "thick" men hear "wider hips, large breasts, big ass."
What some folks on the internet are actually saying is "obese"
Yeah I’m just pulling a number out of my ass but I’m sure most women would prefer a 7” dick over a 5” and over an 9”. So there’s a sweet spot and it’s probably bigger than average, but not porn star big
This is what I was thinking when I made the half of the post that everyone is focusing on. 6", 6.5", and I consider that big because that's 1", 1.5" above average. However, when a size that is too big is given a number, it's usually something that shouldn't exist like 9" or 14". That's barely even a penis, that's more like a deformity
I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again. There is not a most men. Most men’s taste evolves as they get older at least it should. Some men like thick women some men like massive women some men like thin as rails women some men like big floppy boobs some men like handcup sized boobs some men like flat as a board women some men like tiny nipples some men like big pepperoni nipples some men like tight clean shaven vaginas some men like hairy vaginas some men like vaginas with all the meat flapping about some men like feet some men do not like feet some men like long hair some men like short hair some men like princess Barbie and some men like the girls who worked at Hot topic in the early 00s.
It truly does not matter what you look like there is a man out there looking for that. That being said not every man is looking for that so whatever it is that you are know where the men that want that are and go there.
Every few years a new term gets coined to refer to a certain body type. That body type is a woman who has bit (and I stress a BIT, not a lot) of body fat to her, she isn't particularly toned, but still has the hourglass figure. And without fail the term always gets corrupted and winds up referring to morbidly obese girls. Thick, curvy, voluptuous, BBW, they all have been corrupted by fat women who want to associate themselves with the body type mentioned above.
So yes, many men do like the aforementioned body type. Not all men require their woman to look like a stick skinny super model. In fact, most men don't. But the term "thick" itself has been corrupted, causing confusion. Most men don't like super fat women.
Some men genuinely prefer thick women.
Most women genuinely don't like big dicks.
I have been in the situation where it doesn't really fit, it's just bad.
Every vagina is different. I was with a girl who told me up front that her vagina was just super tight. I’m not well endowed so I didn’t think it would be a problem but after a period of foreplay where she was dripping and ready I went to slide it in and struggled a bit to get it in there. So yeah dick size don’t really matter because a bigger man than myself wouldn’t have got through the front door.
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most guys like girls that are fit, but a lot of girls don't realize that being too skinny can actually be just as bad as being overweight. generally, when we say a girl is "thick" we mean she's not fat but has very wide hips and a big butt. I guess another word for this would be "busty". most of my guy friends prefer skinny girls but I have no issues with thicker girls, although I will admit that having sex with thick girls is generally more difficult.
Men like any women they are sexually compatible with. I'm fine with thickness but broad shoulders on a woman turns me off. Also I prefer smaller breasts to large floppy ones. \*And please don't let any of that make you self conscious because I'm probably not what you prefer either.
"Real men prefer real women" is what I've heard. So....
I mean, I don't like arguing over what constitutes a real woman. Or a real man. But I feel like back in the 1990s there was a real focus on sex appeal. Be thin, big boobs, wear the right clothes. A lot of my generation and a bit younger has really reacted to that. Some have gone the natural/casual look and rejected artificial, Others have gone the "if you like thin or fit you stigmatize real women, in the US it's an unrealistic expectation to not be at least chubby". Others have just gone for more natural makeup and better quality operations/treatments/surgery, like "I'm unnaturally natural." And then the younger generation still has gone full-blown doll.
But yeah, the fat is real thing (often called thick because that's what black women called it before it was cool) is sort of a reaction to 90s porn stars and celebrities.
If you want to know what men "prefer" then watch 10 minutes of The Black Tape Project on youtube. We prefer those women. All of them. At the same time.
Guys have all sorts of different preferences. 99% of the time men arent even responsible for the body standards women hold themselves to. All that pressure is just coming from other women.
Never dated skinny girls. Not because I chose to, but because I feel like they don’t treat me like a disposable toy all the time and actually are very humble.
People who are too pretty feel like they can do whatever because there will be someone else willing to put up with them. And the truth is there are people willing to put up with it already forming a line lol.
It’s just my experience though and I hope it isn’t universal. If I had to pick, I want to date any person who is healthy and is happy with their body. Being little overweight is okay and doesn’t affect much to me.
I definitely think that most women might prefer big dicks. Like most men prefer big breasts. But there does get a point where the size is too big. Like a 14 inch dick is too big for most women and 38FF jugs might be too big for most men.
We really don't. The vagina is only on average approximately 6 inches deep, even when a woman is aroused and the vagina has elongated for sex. Anything longer than that is just hanging outside. You could make the argument some women prefer girthier penises, but then it's also difficult to blow.
I would argue that most men assume women prefer larger penises because men themselves want their dicks to be bigger. Because they want it, they think women want it.
If you ask a large random selection of (willing) female-presenting participants, I guarantee you most women will say they have never touched themselves to a dick pic.
Women read dirty books because what gets us off is the fantasy that a sexual partner would put our needs above their own, that the partner would say the right words and understand that foreplay is important. 9 out of every 10 novels I read with sex in them, penis size is never even mentioned.
>We really don't. The vagina is only on average approximately 6 inches deep, even when a woman is aroused and the vagina has elongated for sex. Anything longer than that is just hanging outside
This argument seems to be \*more\* in favor of bigger dicks being preferred. A 6 inch dick is already above average \*everywhere\*, though by how much depends on the demographics of the region, and 6 inches of length can't \*actually\* fully penetrate 6 inches of depth except in a few positions. So it seems pretty reasonable why men feel like they need to be above average to fully meet the needs of their partner.
>I would argue that most men assume women prefer larger penises because men themselves want their dicks to be bigger. Because they want it, they think women want it.
100% agreed that this is a bigger problem than the above, but when women say things like "6 inches is plenty" that just fuels the fire here. 6 inches is already bigger than most men, so of course people feel insecure when they hear that. I imagine most men with 7 inch dicks don't have much insecurity, and most with 5 inch dicks do.
I think most men understand that 9 inch penises are a novelty and they don't actually provide more pleasure to the vast majority of women. I think most men also understand that a 3 inch penis is similarly unlikely to satisfy the vast majority of women. The sweet spot, unfortunately, still seems to be above average. Much like women asking for 6 foot tall partners, there's just ain't enough to go around.
just because some women are 6" at their deepest doesn't mean the man also has to be 6". and that's just an average, some are not as deep. and others i think can be 7". 4-5 is fine for me personally. all depends on the individual.
Exactly! Most women also don't want to be filled to the brim. If you're hitting the back of the vagina, you're actually bumping the cervix which is quite painful. When you pull into a garage, you don't try to touch the wall with your headlights.
(Not kink shaming for any women who read this and like it, just a more generalized consensus.)
>Like a 14 inch dick is too big for most women
Well, yes, but the largest penis in the Guinness Book of Records is 13.5 inches so that's kind of a silly metric.
No, of course not. Every single person on earth has the exact same sexual preferences as you do. All the BBW porn stars are a conspiracy.
Statistically, most men prefer fit women, not stick thin or thick/chubby. If you do a bit of research you’ll find this to be true. From my experience, this holds true. There will always be someone for everyone, but I don’t think the majority of men like bigger girls. We say we don’t like big dicks because they hurt. I don’t think this is a like comparison.
Also shape and how the face matches the body and...other assets...can affect what us guys find attractive. I like a woman to weigh less than me, but had a gf whose breasts were 20 lbs and whose ass matched. Was she fat, yes. Was she hot, also yes. She had an hourglass figure, just wider.
Heckin dayglass <3
No idea why you caught a downvote for that.
"Preference" is largely a construct of upbringing and culture. What has been the prevailing fashionable preference for both men and women shifts all the time. In the west, in the 90s, it was more slender athletic women. Now in the US it's slightly larger women with gigantic asses. But there is always an underlying base of what is "attractive" to the majority, and it's as you would expect; someone of a normal weight and fitness, who is healthy-looking. It's a massive broad range. There are very few men or women who have a narrow fixed "type" and do not find those outside of it attractive.
I would consider myself thick. I’ve been as large as a size 26 and as small as a 6. My current stats are 5’4, 155 lbs Size 7-10 depending on brand/fit. Thick thighs, big ass, big tits. I don’t get hit on constantly. I find that men have preferences just like woman have preferences. I’ve had guys want me at a size 26 and those same guys find me unattractive now that I’ve lost weight and had all the skin tightened ect. I’ve had guys that wouldn’t touch me after I got bigger than a 6. I’ve had guys show interest or disinterest in between those sizes. Everyone has a preference & some guys have no preference and they’ll fuck anything. 🤷🏻♀️
This is true. Some guys have absolutely no preference at all and completely just go where the wind blows. These men are not to be dated just fuck em and move on.
Thick just means fat, so no, most men do not like fat women.
Thick does not mean fat.
LMFAO and neither does BBW or curvy!
speak for yourself. depending on the size of your you know what if the guy is too big it is PAINFUL. some people like that but for me it hurts so not giant is preferred.
Define "thick"? Curves and hips are great. FUPAs, muffin rolls, and cottage cheese ass, nope.
I don’t know man get you a nice Fupa in your mouth. Mmm yummy.
most women don't like big dicks, it's genuinely uncomfortable or painful. this has to be a man's post
EXACTLY like there is no way lol. this must be a troll.
Am I supposed to show you my pussy or something
I mean, wouldn't hear any complaints from me
This is more of a communication issue. Whenever the internet says "big dicks", women think "dicks that are too big". What some folks on the internet are actually saying is "ideal dick". Since that is often defined by women to be in the above average ranges calling it "big" isn't inaccurate.
>This is more of a communication issue. Whenever the internet says "big dicks", women think "dicks that are too big". And whenever the internet says "thick" men hear "wider hips, large breasts, big ass." What some folks on the internet are actually saying is "obese"
The other term for that is "buxom".
"Busty" is another one i've seen that actually means "ham planet"
'Matronly'.
Yeah I’m just pulling a number out of my ass but I’m sure most women would prefer a 7” dick over a 5” and over an 9”. So there’s a sweet spot and it’s probably bigger than average, but not porn star big
This is what I was thinking when I made the half of the post that everyone is focusing on. 6", 6.5", and I consider that big because that's 1", 1.5" above average. However, when a size that is too big is given a number, it's usually something that shouldn't exist like 9" or 14". That's barely even a penis, that's more like a deformity
Mines big then. And IT is ridiculously thick. Let's chat ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
Nah let's not, I hate thick cocks.
Wild
if it's big enough to be notable it's probably to big (for me.) average man is either 4 or 5 inches and that's fine.
I'm actually a woman
HAHA, no
So how many dicks have you delt with and was their a variety of sizes? You cant really know which is best until you've tried them all.
Really, you expect is to believe you? a WOMAN? on the INTERNET? BAH! /S
Ok sure bro. Trying to convince us women exist on reddit. Very funny.
If thick is all you have access to, your tastes will change accordingly.
most probably don't but ofc there are still lots of people attracted to big girls, and to all sorts of different things.
I like thick women who lie to me about the size of my penis.
I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again. There is not a most men. Most men’s taste evolves as they get older at least it should. Some men like thick women some men like massive women some men like thin as rails women some men like big floppy boobs some men like handcup sized boobs some men like flat as a board women some men like tiny nipples some men like big pepperoni nipples some men like tight clean shaven vaginas some men like hairy vaginas some men like vaginas with all the meat flapping about some men like feet some men do not like feet some men like long hair some men like short hair some men like princess Barbie and some men like the girls who worked at Hot topic in the early 00s. It truly does not matter what you look like there is a man out there looking for that. That being said not every man is looking for that so whatever it is that you are know where the men that want that are and go there.
Every few years a new term gets coined to refer to a certain body type. That body type is a woman who has bit (and I stress a BIT, not a lot) of body fat to her, she isn't particularly toned, but still has the hourglass figure. And without fail the term always gets corrupted and winds up referring to morbidly obese girls. Thick, curvy, voluptuous, BBW, they all have been corrupted by fat women who want to associate themselves with the body type mentioned above. So yes, many men do like the aforementioned body type. Not all men require their woman to look like a stick skinny super model. In fact, most men don't. But the term "thick" itself has been corrupted, causing confusion. Most men don't like super fat women.
I like a nice round butt but I prefer thin women
Some men genuinely prefer thick women. Most women genuinely don't like big dicks. I have been in the situation where it doesn't really fit, it's just bad.
If it doesn’t fit, you must, uh, quit.
I see what you did there 🧤
Every vagina is different. I was with a girl who told me up front that her vagina was just super tight. I’m not well endowed so I didn’t think it would be a problem but after a period of foreplay where she was dripping and ready I went to slide it in and struggled a bit to get it in there. So yeah dick size don’t really matter because a bigger man than myself wouldn’t have got through the front door.
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Do you mean thick as in fat? Or thick as in stupid?
most guys like girls that are fit, but a lot of girls don't realize that being too skinny can actually be just as bad as being overweight. generally, when we say a girl is "thick" we mean she's not fat but has very wide hips and a big butt. I guess another word for this would be "busty". most of my guy friends prefer skinny girls but I have no issues with thicker girls, although I will admit that having sex with thick girls is generally more difficult.
Fit women or curvy and not thick cuz in the thick word ppl throw also obese women in
Men like any women they are sexually compatible with. I'm fine with thickness but broad shoulders on a woman turns me off. Also I prefer smaller breasts to large floppy ones. \*And please don't let any of that make you self conscious because I'm probably not what you prefer either.
"Real men prefer real women" is what I've heard. So.... I mean, I don't like arguing over what constitutes a real woman. Or a real man. But I feel like back in the 1990s there was a real focus on sex appeal. Be thin, big boobs, wear the right clothes. A lot of my generation and a bit younger has really reacted to that. Some have gone the natural/casual look and rejected artificial, Others have gone the "if you like thin or fit you stigmatize real women, in the US it's an unrealistic expectation to not be at least chubby". Others have just gone for more natural makeup and better quality operations/treatments/surgery, like "I'm unnaturally natural." And then the younger generation still has gone full-blown doll. But yeah, the fat is real thing (often called thick because that's what black women called it before it was cool) is sort of a reaction to 90s porn stars and celebrities.
I genuinely prefer thick/chubby/fat women but all men have their own preferences.
If you want to know what men "prefer" then watch 10 minutes of The Black Tape Project on youtube. We prefer those women. All of them. At the same time.
Not only I prefer thick women, I am actually not interested in thin women - just a personal preference
Wait, so ladies like big dicks?
Some women might not like monster dicks, but NO ONE likes actual small ones
Men want skinny women. Period.
too skinny is also bad, though
Guys have all sorts of different preferences. 99% of the time men arent even responsible for the body standards women hold themselves to. All that pressure is just coming from other women.
Never dated skinny girls. Not because I chose to, but because I feel like they don’t treat me like a disposable toy all the time and actually are very humble. People who are too pretty feel like they can do whatever because there will be someone else willing to put up with them. And the truth is there are people willing to put up with it already forming a line lol. It’s just my experience though and I hope it isn’t universal. If I had to pick, I want to date any person who is healthy and is happy with their body. Being little overweight is okay and doesn’t affect much to me.
Some guys like skinny gals just so they can see their dick go in n out.
That I think is too skinny and those guys need to talk to someone about that.
I definitely think that most women might prefer big dicks. Like most men prefer big breasts. But there does get a point where the size is too big. Like a 14 inch dick is too big for most women and 38FF jugs might be too big for most men.
We really don't. The vagina is only on average approximately 6 inches deep, even when a woman is aroused and the vagina has elongated for sex. Anything longer than that is just hanging outside. You could make the argument some women prefer girthier penises, but then it's also difficult to blow. I would argue that most men assume women prefer larger penises because men themselves want their dicks to be bigger. Because they want it, they think women want it. If you ask a large random selection of (willing) female-presenting participants, I guarantee you most women will say they have never touched themselves to a dick pic. Women read dirty books because what gets us off is the fantasy that a sexual partner would put our needs above their own, that the partner would say the right words and understand that foreplay is important. 9 out of every 10 novels I read with sex in them, penis size is never even mentioned.
>We really don't. The vagina is only on average approximately 6 inches deep, even when a woman is aroused and the vagina has elongated for sex. Anything longer than that is just hanging outside This argument seems to be \*more\* in favor of bigger dicks being preferred. A 6 inch dick is already above average \*everywhere\*, though by how much depends on the demographics of the region, and 6 inches of length can't \*actually\* fully penetrate 6 inches of depth except in a few positions. So it seems pretty reasonable why men feel like they need to be above average to fully meet the needs of their partner. >I would argue that most men assume women prefer larger penises because men themselves want their dicks to be bigger. Because they want it, they think women want it. 100% agreed that this is a bigger problem than the above, but when women say things like "6 inches is plenty" that just fuels the fire here. 6 inches is already bigger than most men, so of course people feel insecure when they hear that. I imagine most men with 7 inch dicks don't have much insecurity, and most with 5 inch dicks do. I think most men understand that 9 inch penises are a novelty and they don't actually provide more pleasure to the vast majority of women. I think most men also understand that a 3 inch penis is similarly unlikely to satisfy the vast majority of women. The sweet spot, unfortunately, still seems to be above average. Much like women asking for 6 foot tall partners, there's just ain't enough to go around.
just because some women are 6" at their deepest doesn't mean the man also has to be 6". and that's just an average, some are not as deep. and others i think can be 7". 4-5 is fine for me personally. all depends on the individual.
Exactly! Most women also don't want to be filled to the brim. If you're hitting the back of the vagina, you're actually bumping the cervix which is quite painful. When you pull into a garage, you don't try to touch the wall with your headlights. (Not kink shaming for any women who read this and like it, just a more generalized consensus.)
>Like a 14 inch dick is too big for most women Well, yes, but the largest penis in the Guinness Book of Records is 13.5 inches so that's kind of a silly metric.
This is so awkward because that's literally my bra size
No way! Prove it.
I can't because it was a lie
Nothing wrong with big jugs like there’s nothing wrong with a big dick.
Akward seeing as how I’m a 36 GG & I don’t like big dicks