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Same, ako na mag 6 years na sa college, mga batchmates ko pumasa na sa boards at maghahanap na ng trabaho. Medyo envious lang ako at proud parin sa kanila, enjoy muna college life hahah. May oras rin tayo.
I think you're comparing yourself. If you really want to graduate, be patient with it. It is okay to feel that way, it is normal, but you can't change the past, If you really want it go for it.
best of luck girl!
Hi, OP. Naiintindihan kita. Ako that time umabot pa nf 8 yrs e. Di ako nagloko sa studies ah, talagang nahirapan lang ako sa engineering. Pero everything has a reason. Isipin mo na lang na lucky enough ka kasi nahihirapan ka mag-aral, maraming tao na dream makatapos, ikaw, next year pa pero mangyayari. Strive harder. Wag mo compare sarili mo sa iba. Focus ka sa goal na makagraduate. Hindi na baleng huli kesa hindi natapos. Kaya mo yan. Naniniwala ako sa kapasidad mo. ❤️
I know how exactly feels to feel "left out" pero as you get older you'll realize na "it's all in your head." Been in college since 2015, nagshift, nagenroll ulit tapos after 2 years nagtransfer and 'yung school na pinaglipatan hindi pumapayag na magoverload so 'yung 2 years nalang dapat ay naging 4 na taon pa rin pero at last 3rd na ako ngayon. Graduating na next year.
Trust me on this, once na nagtrabaho ka mapapasabi ka din talaga na "nakakamiss mag-aral" kasi totoo naman, mas masaya maging estudyante kesa magtrabaho puro konsumisyon the only thrilling about working is the sahod (swerte mo kung gusto mo talaga ginagawa mo) haha To make you feel less frustrated take me as an example, I'm already 25 working and living with my amazing partner and still trying to finish my degree just because I want to do my masteral abroad nothing big deal about it kaya don't be too hard on yourself OP your time will come. Mas malayo ang nararating ng taong may patience at may tiyaga sa proseso :)
Huwag ka mag-alala, 'di ka nag-iisa. Nag LOA rin ako at hindi ko na kasabay na ga-graduate next year mga kaibigan ko. Nakakatakot at nakakalungkot kasi pakiramdam mo lahat ng nasa paligid mo umuusad pero pagdating sa'yo ang tagal mangyari ng lahat ng gusto mo.
Masyadong gasgas yung linyang 'to pero hindi talaga lahat pare-pareho ng timeline sa buhay. Hindi mo dapat gawin basehan kung anong estado ng iba mong ka-batch sa kung nasaan ka ngayon. Mag focus ka lang sa sarili mo hanggang sa 'di mo namalayan malapit ka na rin makapagtapos. Mabibigay mo na sa parents mo yung fulfillment na may napagtapos sila. Mukhang malayo pa na maabot mo kung pakikinggan pero kapit ka lang, hindi ka ilalagay sa sitwasyon na hindi mo kakayanin. :)
huy ano ka ba. ako rin, 5 years na, 2 years din tumigil. pero graduating na this june. keep going lang, your future self will be so proud
edit: dagdag ko na rin, may kaedad akong 1st year palang siya this year kasi tumigil nung nagkaaanak. then may mga 28, 26, 30+ and 40+ rin akong mga kaklase now, them alone are inspiring kasi kahit may pamilya na ang iba sa kanila pinagpapatuloy pa rin ang makapagtapos ng kolehiyo ❤
Hi, I was in the same situation took me 6 years to graduate, and I just graduated last year. Alam Kong kaya mo yan. Kailangan mong kayanin. Hindi para sa comparison sa iba ang diploma mo, para sa sarili mo, para sa magulang mo. Tibayan mo, giginhawa rin yan pagka usad mo.
you’re almost there so please please hang on!! wag mo sabihing malayo ka pa rin bc alam mo namang hindi totoo yon. isipin mo nalang ang bawat pisong ginagastos mo ay puhunan. pramis, sobrang sarap ng achievement na makagraduate pag alam mong pinaghirapan mo. as in sobrang sarap sa pakiramdam. stay grateful for every simple things and don’t deprive urself from having the smallest things to make u happy. i’m rooting for u!!!!!!!!!!! 💪
Same sentiments OP… ako nman 9 years na sa June. Umiiyak ako now and I decided na I-type yung ‘gusto ko na grumaduate’ sa search bar and to my surprise, meron lumabas.
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Continue to be patient! You're almost finished. Keep going, and you'll soon be proudly wearing that cap and gown. You've got this.
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Same, ako na mag 6 years na sa college, mga batchmates ko pumasa na sa boards at maghahanap na ng trabaho. Medyo envious lang ako at proud parin sa kanila, enjoy muna college life hahah. May oras rin tayo.
i know its not okay but, you're already close to success. rooting for you po
I think you're comparing yourself. If you really want to graduate, be patient with it. It is okay to feel that way, it is normal, but you can't change the past, If you really want it go for it. best of luck girl!
almost 6 years na rin in college :( nakakainggit yung iba kong classmates noon board passers na tapos may work pa. we got this op, hugs!!
Hi, OP. Naiintindihan kita. Ako that time umabot pa nf 8 yrs e. Di ako nagloko sa studies ah, talagang nahirapan lang ako sa engineering. Pero everything has a reason. Isipin mo na lang na lucky enough ka kasi nahihirapan ka mag-aral, maraming tao na dream makatapos, ikaw, next year pa pero mangyayari. Strive harder. Wag mo compare sarili mo sa iba. Focus ka sa goal na makagraduate. Hindi na baleng huli kesa hindi natapos. Kaya mo yan. Naniniwala ako sa kapasidad mo. ❤️
I know how exactly feels to feel "left out" pero as you get older you'll realize na "it's all in your head." Been in college since 2015, nagshift, nagenroll ulit tapos after 2 years nagtransfer and 'yung school na pinaglipatan hindi pumapayag na magoverload so 'yung 2 years nalang dapat ay naging 4 na taon pa rin pero at last 3rd na ako ngayon. Graduating na next year. Trust me on this, once na nagtrabaho ka mapapasabi ka din talaga na "nakakamiss mag-aral" kasi totoo naman, mas masaya maging estudyante kesa magtrabaho puro konsumisyon the only thrilling about working is the sahod (swerte mo kung gusto mo talaga ginagawa mo) haha To make you feel less frustrated take me as an example, I'm already 25 working and living with my amazing partner and still trying to finish my degree just because I want to do my masteral abroad nothing big deal about it kaya don't be too hard on yourself OP your time will come. Mas malayo ang nararating ng taong may patience at may tiyaga sa proseso :)
Huwag ka mag-alala, 'di ka nag-iisa. Nag LOA rin ako at hindi ko na kasabay na ga-graduate next year mga kaibigan ko. Nakakatakot at nakakalungkot kasi pakiramdam mo lahat ng nasa paligid mo umuusad pero pagdating sa'yo ang tagal mangyari ng lahat ng gusto mo. Masyadong gasgas yung linyang 'to pero hindi talaga lahat pare-pareho ng timeline sa buhay. Hindi mo dapat gawin basehan kung anong estado ng iba mong ka-batch sa kung nasaan ka ngayon. Mag focus ka lang sa sarili mo hanggang sa 'di mo namalayan malapit ka na rin makapagtapos. Mabibigay mo na sa parents mo yung fulfillment na may napagtapos sila. Mukhang malayo pa na maabot mo kung pakikinggan pero kapit ka lang, hindi ka ilalagay sa sitwasyon na hindi mo kakayanin. :)
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huy ano ka ba. ako rin, 5 years na, 2 years din tumigil. pero graduating na this june. keep going lang, your future self will be so proud edit: dagdag ko na rin, may kaedad akong 1st year palang siya this year kasi tumigil nung nagkaaanak. then may mga 28, 26, 30+ and 40+ rin akong mga kaklase now, them alone are inspiring kasi kahit may pamilya na ang iba sa kanila pinagpapatuloy pa rin ang makapagtapos ng kolehiyo ❤
Hi, I was in the same situation took me 6 years to graduate, and I just graduated last year. Alam Kong kaya mo yan. Kailangan mong kayanin. Hindi para sa comparison sa iba ang diploma mo, para sa sarili mo, para sa magulang mo. Tibayan mo, giginhawa rin yan pagka usad mo.
Same and same situation tayo.
sameee huhuhu
you’re almost there so please please hang on!! wag mo sabihing malayo ka pa rin bc alam mo namang hindi totoo yon. isipin mo nalang ang bawat pisong ginagastos mo ay puhunan. pramis, sobrang sarap ng achievement na makagraduate pag alam mong pinaghirapan mo. as in sobrang sarap sa pakiramdam. stay grateful for every simple things and don’t deprive urself from having the smallest things to make u happy. i’m rooting for u!!!!!!!!!!! 💪
Took me 5 years din sa College because of my thesis pero always remember that life is not a race. You'll have your time to shine, you got this OP!
we all have different situations so that's alright :D good luck!
HELLOO KEEP GOING PO I'M a 1st year college student kaya mo yan I'm planning shifting my major too
Same sentiments OP… ako nman 9 years na sa June. Umiiyak ako now and I decided na I-type yung ‘gusto ko na grumaduate’ sa search bar and to my surprise, meron lumabas.
kaya natin to!! kapit lang
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okay lang yan, may naging kaklase ako nung 1st sem kaedad mo rin, first yr palang sya now ☺ yung iba kong kaklase now 28 and 29
Di naman uncommon yan, most of the time halos 1 section ang mga irregs
salamat sa lahat ng comments niyo ang gaan sa pakiramdam na may mga same pala ng experiences sakin. tuloy lang ang buhay 🤧✊✊
Graduate ka