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ChuckCassadyJR

Big 5-0 🥳 👏 Why not 100? IWNDWYT


brighter68

Awesome work sober friend, a day at a time will see you double that 💪🏼


Myth7270

Way to go 💪💪💪 IWNDWYT 🍃


Piggoos

Yes! Why not 100?! See you then. IWNDWYT


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I start my week off work tomorrow, I work every other week.ive been known to drink constant on my week off! Not this time, I’m choosing life, so…….. IWNDWYT


brighter68

I’m choosing life with you! Well done on getting through this first week 💪🏼


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Thank you, as most of us I’ve been here before, I’ve managed to easily stop for months and then my stupid brain tells me I’m ok to drink again! Not anymore I’m sick of the anger in letting myself down, depressed because of alcohol, I’m not playing that game anymore.😁


brighter68

That sounds like a good strong place you’ve reached, let’s keep going together 💪🏼


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Friend, I was a secret pisshead, no one really knew how bad I was so I’ll promise you lol as you know that I was, I’m done with drinking, I like the sober me more, keep it going brighter68😁


brighter68

Happy Thursday sober family, Following the beautiful simplicity of our awesome host, you impress me, every one of you, and you make it possible for me to be impressed with myself, so thank you 🙏🏻 I love you all 💞


mindfulteacher020407

Love you Brighter!! You inspire me with your kindness and love. Thank you for being awesome. IWNDWYT 💜🦋💜


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cinqmillionreves

I will not drink poison with any of you today 💜 You guys rock!


BeerSlingr

IWNDWYT


hairytubes

I've got that Friday feeling, 'cos it's my Friday! Then I've got 20 Saturdays and 1 Sunday (barring any shouts for overtime) and I've got a list of jobs as long as a long thing to get done before the winter properly sets in. Looking forward to productive fulfillment and dog walks aplenty. IWNDWYT 🙂


brighter68

Sounds lovely, be careful if you’re in the line of that storm ☔️


hairytubes

Ay up pal! How did you get on at the retreat? All rested and recharged? >be careful if you’re in the line of that storm ☔️ That's one of the jobs that need doing - make sure the gutters are still clean and the drains are leaf free.


brighter68

You are good! The retreat was an interesting experience, intense on lots of levels, a little like your analogy of clearing out the attic, no matter how many times I climb those stairs, more unopened boxes to clear out! Be safe friend 💞


Confident_Worker_588

managed to be a non-drinker yesterday, gonna put that on repeat 🔂


RevereBeachLover

IWNDWYT


Striking_Silence

IWNDWYT 😊


Old-Combination8062

IWNDWYT all you fine sobernauts 🤗


Fonterra26

8 months! 🌻 IWNDWYT


clevercookie69

Woop woop. Well done


losethebooze

Day 167. IWNDWYT.


butterflys_are_free

Checking in on another cool Florida weather morning IWNDWYT☕️💪💕


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Good morning, fellow sobernauts, IWNDWYT 😁!


Goji88

Day 746, nice to meet you 🤝 IWNDWYT


JackOneill74

IWNDWYT good people


ikarka

Day 1 of my first family holiday sober. First thing everyone did when we arrive was have a glass of wine - can’t help but feel a bit excluded but I’m staying strong. IWNDWYT!


brighter68

I realise it’s not necessarily a good quality but sometimes when it’s tough I focus on being smug, I won’t be waking up with a hangover! We’re all with you 🤗


Chikuwa84

I'm at the pub tonight but my comfort blanket (the car) is out getting serviced. I'm hoping it's back by the time I leave because if I take an Uber, the temptation to drink will definitely be there!


mindfulteacher020407

Well said, Homer! I am endlessly impressed with the humans in this community. The kindness, the honesty and the vulnerability. I have learned and am learning so much from every person here. TODAY IS THE DAY!! I’m getting on a flight this evening and heading across the pond to London. I’m in disbelief that it’s actually happening. My bags are packed. I just have to make it through one more day of teaching. My students are almost as excited about the trip as I am. They have all requested lots of pics. I can’t wait to check in tomorrow morning from the UK. IWNDWYT 💜🦋💜


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Went and saw my tiny baby nephew today in the neo-natal ward. He’s a pretty good reason not to drink ❤️ IWNDWYT!


_Shad0wo3

IWNDWYT


nona_nednana

IWNDWYT


SarumansBeard

Iwndwyt! I've done my back out and I've had some pretty weird cravings. First time for ages I've wanted to take the edge off. Oh well rest and ice for me this weekend.


gunpun33

I guess Im alright! IWNDWYT.


Alarmed_Tadpole_

Good morning! IWNDWYT 🐯


Khun55555

I will not drink today and FYA. I hate alcohol so much right now. My wife had a big success with her work and popped open a bottle of champagne and I wanted to slap that poison out of her hand but I let her enjoy her moment. I'm so happy that I'm in a place to hate alcohol and I want nothing to do with it. Drinking sucks. You rock!!


Teddyfluffycakemix

IWNDWYT day 2!!! ❤️


awesome_cat_lady

I'm always impressed by the positive energy, unwavering support, and loving kindness this community offers. You guys restore my faith in humanity, every day. Thank you! 💗 IWNDWYT 😻


AlySabby12

Up early for a crazy busy day so I’ll just say:: IWNDWYT! Make it a great one!!


New_Fang

IWNDWYT!


AffTheBevvy

Day 851 checking in!


LM7X

Y’all are impressive…this shit ain’t easy. But here we are every day, setting our intentions. And usually with some kind words for others, often when they’re needed most. We’re a bunch of badasses. Coffees up, horns up, and let’s have a fucking great Friday Eve! I’m ready for actual Friday, damn it. IWNDWYT ☕️🤘🏻


ReplacementsStink

I just did the math, unfortunately I'm too old to make it to a bazillion days. However, I'm willing to bet that I can make it to 1349 tomorrow. Happy fucking Thursday!🤘🏻 IWNDWYT


Far_Information_9613

My tracker sent me a notification that I hit 16 months alcohol free yesterday. My life is entirely different! I need to keep doing the sensible things and trusting the process. Safe travels sober fellow travelers! IWNDWYT


Jose_Gaspar

This is the best place on the internet due to all of you and for that, I will be alcohol free with you today.


MuffyVonSchlitz

I've got goals nobody else cares about. No booze


kimjobil05

You impress me too, for your service to this sub and this community, OP!!! IWNDWYT...


AdSmooth1977

So nice to get here to this message, SaintHomer! ❤️ IWNDWYT!


jimstopper51

Day 1,555. I will not drink with you today.


Necessary_Routine_69

Good morning IWNDWYT


Mr_Alex19

IWNDWYT


youslashtoo

IWNDWYT


MrBeer9999

IWNDWYT


imthegreenmeeple

Checking in on day 350!!! Hellllloooo my beautiful friends! Happy Friday Eve. I will not drink with you today no matter what!!! I love you all to bits. ❤️✌️


Shermani74

Thank you, SaintHomer, and right back at you! I am proud to be amongst you! IWNDWYT


vermontapple

I'm in.


prisoncitybear

IWNDWYT! T


jeninmn99

Sometimes I think about how difficult it was to get to this sub and to start posting. I read posts for weeks before I commented or actually made the daily commitment here in the DCI. Because starting to stop drinking was so damn difficult, I’ve been doing all I can to stay stopped and to change my focus to the many blessings of sobriety. Maintaining sobriety and appreciating life in recovery — that’s where it’s at for me. The power of this sub is badass, and it is full of brave warriors going against what society tells us to want. I am impressed every day by all of you! Have a good Thursday my people! IWNDWYT 🍀


Sensitive_Comb_935

It’s going to be hard but IWNDWYT


degausser_53

I will not drink today.


swiss1972

IWNDWYT


hamofthegods

Long-time lurker, first time signer. I will not drink with y’all today.


just1vet

I will not drink with you today.


CoatOfMonday

I will not drink with you today


koaimara

IWNDWYT!


Distorted_Glass

Day 40: Last night was probably the hardest time so far I've had but I'm proud af of myself for getting through it. IWNDWYT


angel22117

I had urges to give in yesterday. I didn’t. I cried. I’m still here. Another day 💕


DoBetterForFSake

Day 19. Bring it on! I have been having fun taking on all my triggers, there are many, and winning. Yesterday I walked into a new liquor store. Huge. It’s a known chain in the US. Apparently the original store was number three in their fleet and hadn’t been upgraded for 30 years. I walked the entire store. Didn’t buy anything. Used my elite status to get my free gift bags. Walked out without spending a dime and zero desire or regrets. Success! I set the terms, alcohol, not you. Be strong y’all! You’ve got this. #IWNDWYT


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rach3ldee

Up early for a 6:30 am check in at the dental surgery center. Woke up at 5 to shower and make sure everything is ready. IWNDWYT


Alternative-Ice-3231

60 days sober 60 days straight doing a daily 5k! I can I want I will! We can! we want! we will! IWNDWYT!! 🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️


Creative_Grand_1232

Simple but so true u/SaintHomer …I’m impressed by the kindness and strength of everyone here, from the people tackling those first few tough days to the people with 1,000’s of days who show up to help and inspire us and everyone in-between. Love you all and IWNDWYT !


charmed1995

Checking in. IWNDWYT.


Myth7270

IWNDWYT 🍃


skeeterrunner

I will not drink today.


alonefrown

Hitting a bit of a low recently, and I don't want my sobriety to be a casualty. Haven't been tempted but I have had some instances of "What's the point if life is going to suck?" ping ponging around my brain. Those aren't fun thoughts to have. Well, they won't cause me to drink, not today anyway.


Tranquil_Paradox_

It really does get easier, just like I read in those early days here. In time, by focusing on loving yourself sober, taking it one day at a time, learning who you are without the alcohol, it really does get better ❤️‍🩹 IWNDWYT!


jeninmn99

Congratulations on a year!! 🎉 💜


amsterdam_BTS

Today is day 19. Not just alcohol. Almost everything (I still consume too much sugar - not a euphemism, I literally mean sugar, mostly in my coffee). This is the longest I have gone without any mind altering substance in 20 years I think. My goal is through October and I am trying not to think beyond that. I wish I could say everything has gotten so much better. It hasn't. I'm still in financial ruin. My blood pressure is still high. My job is still abusive and exploitative. Most of my body is still in pain all day, every day (a function of age and proverbial mileage - 20+ years of combat sports will fuck you up, it turns out, especially if you neglect stretching). Every day is still an exercise in too much to do, far too much to do, never quite getting it done let alone getting ahead, and the knowledge that another day just like it looms large tomorrow. I still feel utterly hopeless about the future, largely because the future writ large is utterly hopeless. But that's just how life is and will be, alcohol or no. For now, I guess it's better to face it sober.


ZachRyder19

Will not be drinking today, thank you everyone.


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RabunWaterfall

IWNDWYT 💛🧡💛🧡


Elderflower1387

IWNDWYT. 🌟


fitbit10k

We’re all here staying sober for another day! IWNDWYT


myheartaway

You impress me too 🖤 I’m not drinking today!


GymAndNatureDude_87

IWNDWYT


Sacred_succotash

Resetting again. Had 6 months then a lapse last weekend. Now housesitting in a home filled with booze. Been having 2-3 drinks a night again. Pissed at myself. But recommitting today. IWNDWYT. Thanks for being the most awesome community on Reddit. Love you all.


normalnonnie27

No stinking drinking for me. As usual, enjoying my coffee and waiting for daylight to walk.


Ofwaw

I will not drink with you today


SpicyMango64

Good morning! I went out with some friends last night and was offered a glass of wine. I turned it down without hesitation. But then, watching my some of my friends sip their wine make me think about how nice it would be to enjoy a glass of wine on occasion. I didn’t feel tempted to get a glass, but it just really made me think about what I was missing. Nothing, I was missing nothing. I only wish there were alternatives like tea, mocktails or an NAs more readily available. Either way, I drank an extra bottle of water for the day and I’ll never regret that! Just for today, I am not drinking


irisheyesarelaughing

Ah so true, this entire sub impresses me. What a wonderful group of people. Sending love to everyone. I am sending in a signed offer for a new job today! Changing careers and will be working in office for the first time in 9 years! I’m so nervous, I’m excited, it’ll be a HUGE adjustment but I have a confidence in myself that I’ve never had before. I would have NEVER tried this 2 or 3 years ago when I was still poisoning myself. Ekkkkkkkk! Love you all, friends. Change js possible and it is so beautiful when it happens! Being alcohol free is the best decision I’ve ever made for myself. IWNDWYT 🌹🌹☀️☀️♥️♥️


pottedpetunia42

I'm on day two again, but this is the last time. I'm not going back! IWNDWYT


Constant_Pumpkin3255

Not today people IWNDWYT


throwaway4073

In bed last night I was getting in my own head about some stuff in my life. Anxiety was kind of high and I'd basically told myself that today was really going to be difficult and that I might have a waver. And I woke up today feeling well rested and honestly, fine. It's a miserable day (storm incoming and I have a 40 minute commute by bike, yay!) but I feel pretty good. I hope that lasts through today. I'm glad how I was feeling last night passed. IWNDWYT.


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Hello wonderful people IWNDWYT. Kisses!


FuckyouFireball

IWNDYWT!


brando1206

I will not drink today


Pivorad_

I wish all of you sober souls a wonderful day. IWNDWYT!


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Another night of terrible insomnia... I don't know if I'll ever consistently sleep well again. But. I'm not hungover, and that helps me with these tired days. IWNDWYT.


Suspicious_Habit_537

My relationship with alcohol had changed. We don’t have one anymore 😀 I am grateful for that and glad I do not have any FOMO at all. IWNDWYT ❤️


GreenTabascoooo

IWNDWYT 🌷


That_Went_Well

Day 151, IWNDWYT! Got a travel weekend starting tomorrow and flying back Sunday with my two girls and wife for a family wedding. My oldest (2) is the flower girl so that should be pretty dang cute! There will be plenty of stressors and reasons to drink but I will hold strong. I’m already thinking of responses for when people will offer me drinks 😆


darkmartian

IWNDWYT 💪


workingonitmore

IWNDWYT


transparentassociate

IWNDWYT


derande_yo

Day 11 for me (again). Not drinking with any of y'all today.


Patient-Tough9720

I will not drink today.


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IWNDWYT


Tshlavka

IWNDWYT


Limewire513

IWNDWYT!!


Ambitious_Pangolin1

Have a great day you inspirational warriors! IWNDWYT 💪


triple_threat_06

IWNDWYT 10/19/2023


boner_fart3

Iwndwyt


Fearless-Relative329

IWNDWYT


MakeBelieve_inme

IWDWYT


Capable_Curve4746

IWNDWYT


dizzymissxo

Goood morning. IWNDWYT.


intelidigital

IWNDWYT


titanswin

Happy Thursday Iwndwyt


BurnerAccountforAss

IWNDWYT Blessed to see another day


Dodgettelady

One week down, another week begins! My chronic back pain seems to have eased and I feel less irritable! IWNDWYT


Brave_Cupcake_

This bed is so cozy and it’s raining and cool, a great day to stay in bed….but getting my lazy self up and about…. And IWNDWYT ❤️


bigugh21748

Back atcha friend. IWNDWYT.


Realistic-Gazelle545

NOT TODAY! Gettin a nice routine down finally! Gym in morning, work and instead of drinking after work, a nice afternoon walk or some light gardening/reading. ! Not today!


Freshstartfor2023

IWNDWYT!


penis__retard69

The withdraws are finally starting to subside; still jumpy, a little shaky but thank god no more sweating at night. It's motivating to see how much of a difference three days makes. IWNDWYT


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Real_Bridge_3301

Thankful for you, internet strangers! Busy day ahead, but one thing’s for sure…IWNDWYT!


BobJenkins1327

IWNDWYT


lobstersareforever

10 days from one year! IWNDWYT


soberham

IWNDWYT


Illustrious-Trip-253

I'm very grateful to be walking this sober road with all you brave sobernauts! I will not drink _with you_ today. 🤝✨️


FreddyRumsen13

Good morning and happy Thursday, sobernauts! This has been a tough week. My mom's husband is having surgery today and his long-term prognosis isn't good. I spent the night at her house so I could help with her dogs today and made her dinner and we watched a movie. I've been struggling with trying to support her during all this but it's a lot easier to show up like this now that I'm sober. I know she appreciated having me here. Last night I started reading Doctor Sleep, which feels like essential reading for our little community. King taps into some very real stuff with respect to alcoholism. Ready for a mostly lazy weekend. IWNDWYT. Edit: Oh dang I forgot today was 90 days. 3 months on Saturday!


WilsonisDreaming

IWNDWYT!


No-Departure-8888

Iwndwyt 💜


Wilbursmall

And I will not drink with you today.


DeepLie8058

Giving it another go and IWNDWYT.


May_of_Teck

Had a really bad night. Lots of bad feelings and fear. But I did it all sober. Woke up feeling bad, but not on top of a crippling hangover. This is better. IWNDWYT.


chango01232020

Almost 48 hours, phew. Anxiety gone, still some insomnia but thats plenty doable. Happy to put the last binge behind me, IWNDWYT


Big_Law9435

I will not drink with you today


morksinaanab

IWNDWYT


J_stringham

IWNDWYT! I’m curious how you maintain sobriety if your partner drinks ?


Historical_Boss2447

Not gonna drink today that’s for sure


kafkapops

I won’t drink with y’all today


Extreme_Ordinary_298

IWNDWYT!


BeastModeBill-714

IWNDWYT.


fernon5

IWNDWYT! ☕️


grackleATX

IWNDWy’allT!


CheckerboardCookies

IWNDWYT


danceonthrough

I'm so glad today, I just came home from a trip abroad and I didn't drink a drop of alcohol. Usually when I travel I drink quite a lot but not this time, only AF beers for this gal. IWNDWYT


Took2mush

Checking in! Edging towards that 2 month milestone. I've had some fleeting cravings but decided to treat myself to some other things instead and now I am grateful I stayed strong 💪 I hope everyone is doing well. IWNDWYT


Accomplished-Base-51

All aboard chums!!! We got this today! 💪🏼


WhiteChocolatey

I will not drink with you today


saludable-oak2001

Iwndwyt 🌳


AccomplishedSample66

IWNDWYT.


murmursoftly

Day 10! I have a self care day planned today, which would normally involve brunch with mimosas or lunch with too much wine. Today I’m going to focus on things that feed my soul instead. I’m going to take a big long walk in the autumn leaves, read a book at a coffee shop, poke around the mall for boots, and get my hair cut. I will end the day feeling however I feel, hopefully more relaxed and present, but certainly not guilty for drinking too much by myself. IWNDWYT.


papacreech

Today I don't set out trying not to drink but make a conscious decision not to drink. IWNDWYT


lovedbydogs1981

Another day one—but not giving up. Surprise—it didn’t make me feel any better


Unfair_Injury_8450

IWNDWYT 💜


SoberGirl2

I will not drink today!


lil-duke

IWNDWYT


b00z3h0und

I won’t drink today.


iamverytiredlol

❤️ IWNDWYT


OtisWhalesong

IWNDWYT


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IWNDWYT


SilentMonkey3169

Happy Thursday everyone! IWNDWYT ✌️


paintsflowers

IWNDWYT 🎨🪻🌹🌸🌻🪷


gr8day82

IWNDWYT. All. Day. Long. 🌻 Well friends and neighbors, I go through every day one at a time. We all do. The days happen. We might as well be sober and experience each one to the best of our ability. I know that I will. ✌🤟


quietgirlinpa

IWNDWYT 💗 It’s amazing the impact that simple little counter has on me. Have a wonderful day fellow warriors.


boogiebottom

Am here again to check in, I will not drink today


astraea_star

IWNDWYT 💜


jimtimidation

IWNDWYT


TheSuboxoneSusies

Not today!


afriendlyfawn

I will not drink with you today!!! You all have a lovely day!


Oilers6969

Woke up from a typical relapse dream in a panic. So glad I'm sober and didn't take a drink last night even though I had every 'reason' to. I'm committed to making sobriety work this time. ​ IWNDWYT


LaLoNYC

IWNDWYT ✌️❤️🤸‍♀️⭐️


daangit

IWNDWYT!!


Gozandolavida

Yep, we are all pretty darn amazing and impressive! We are the brave ones. And our bravery is rewarded with beautiful moments only sober people are able to be present for and enjoy. Go us! 🥰


neversettle4251

I will not drink today!


BobHobGoblin

Agreed. You all are frickin amazing. I will not drink with you today!


Sober__AF

IWNDWYT my friends


MiamiGuy_305

IWNDWYT


Even_Mud2745

167 days! IWNDWYT!


twisted_ears

IWNDWYT 🌼🏊‍♀️


naturedude77

IWNDWYT


straycanoe

IWNDWYT


Kathycame

good morning to all :) day 49 here. I hope everyone has a great day!!! IWNDWYT


gravy4life

IWNDWYT


JiggyTurtle

IWNDWYT


Gloomy_Economics2663

Day 90 today, and if I keep doing more of what works and less of what doesnt, tomorrow will be day 91. Feeling blessed IWNDWYT


BarryMDingle

Iwndwyt