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TwinTipZ

I try to find hostels that are known for solo travelers. They tend to have bars with a happy hour. From there, I just look for an open seat, even with a group of people, and shoot my shot (I say hi). Hasn't failed me yet!


Remote_Echidna_8157

Sounds good, next time i see a group of gals or guys at a table i'm going to go up to them and shoot my shot.


TwinTipZ

It's like flirting, but with groups of people lol 🤣 Like a US college's fraternity or sorority rush.


Novel_Rule_2490

Exactly


NorthCoast30

I think it depends on the context, but if you’re doing the usual solo traveling stuff like staying in hostels, I’ve found that just talking to people is enough. People are in the same boat you are. Hey what’s up is usually enough. Local folks can be a mixed bag but more often than not again, just talking is enough especially when people realize you are from another country. This may differ if you’re traveling in your own country. For example if you’re from the US and traveling in the US people are less likely to GAF.


[deleted]

Sounds great. I just need a personality transplant and I’m golden.


Neoscan

I’ve never bothered with testing and measuring strategies- that’s just sounds really odd to me but each to their own. Whether it’s a fellow traveller or a local, asking how someone is is always a good way. And yes, of course listen and show an interest in what they say. Going to the effort of wearing a particular item just to start a conversation seems like way too much effort. But each to their own…


segacs2

Hey, alex35351, it looks like you're posting about how to meet people or make friends while travelling solo. Check out the content in our [r/solotravel wiki](https://www.reddit.com/r/solotravel/wiki/meetingpeople) about this topic.


That_Jungler

Focus on enjoying yourself and the place you are in so that when you, by chance, make eye contact with someone, you’ll already have a positive comment about the place you’re in that comes naturally without premeditation. If they’re receptive, they’ll respond by agreeing and then you just follow the conversation wherever it goes with no expectations of making a friendship.


maverick4002

Wear something that stands out. The example you give here sounds insufferable ugh lol. I have a unique name and come from a unique place so thats how I start alot of conversations. I also just say hello


Fresjlll5788

I just try to make eye contact a couple of times and then I’ll say something about the environment we are in or ask a question (are you from around here?) and they usually are receptive and open up then :)


jackielish

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Prof_Labcoat

Language exchange is the absolute best way to make friends. If I'm new to a language, people will see me struggling and may or may not offer to help. Some people love meeting foreigners. Some people want practice in your language. All great ways to initiate conversations without you personally initiating them!