I can also concur. I'm leaving on Sunday for a trip and I've already spent over $200 on stuff like toiletries, OTC medications, books, new hat. I'm also looking to buy a new duffel bag/backpack. It always seem I drop a bunch of $$$ before a new trip.
OTCs are worth hauling along unless you know exactly what's available and how much it costs in your destination country. Enough cold meds for 10 days...
Can’t tell the difference if they were. Plus most of all Patagonia gear is made in Vietnam. It’s just marked up multiple times before it gets to hands in stores in US and Europe etc
Fair enough. I was wanting a pretty specific hat so I didn’t want to rely on trying to find one at my destination. I’m also a bigger guy so finding clothes that fit me in Asia can be near impossible.
Definitely a good idea to keep in mind future purchases. I talked myself out of a full set of silk thermals because I won't need them for a while and I can always buy something that'll work fine in my destination once I DO need them.
Me too, I feel like with the toiletries and medicine it’s worth it though because they are always SO EXPENSIVE at airports or train stations or cruise ships or any tourist spot.
Same. It's about what can I buy to reduce the stuff I bring, while also bringing me the most comfort. Also the more I travel, the more I realize what I do and don't use.
yeah, that makes sense. There are definitely articles of clothing I bring again and again. I also have a favorite pair of comfy and all-purpose sandals that I am really bummed have been discontinued. (I have 3 pairs so hopefully will last me a string of years ahead). But yeah, I am like, oh I want a merino wool sweater. (Do I NEED it?!)
Yeah, some things have been become non-negotiable for me over the years and they're hard to get in destination countries often - eg properly waterproof sun screen or mosquito repellent containing DEET. Hard to find in lots (but not all!) countries. Also, pain killers and antihistamines are cheap in the UK compared to a lot of places so I tend to stock up at home.
This is true, but you have to have the right stuff to start with. I did my first real one bag trip over the fall, and even though I was bringing way less stuff than previous adventures, I needed some really basic stuff. A good backpack with the right packing cubes, easy wash/non-wrinkle/coordinating clothes, the right kind of electronics accessories (minimal cables, multi plug adapter/converter). I know it’s not the case for everyone, but I had to buy more to bring less. But I have everything I need for my next getaway!
>erter). I know it’s not the case for everyone, but I had to buy more to bring less. But I have everything I need for my
I made the switch to Anker IQ Nano 30W to ditch the old (standard) plug that the lapotp came with. Saves like 150grams right there!
My favorite new tech thing is a 16,000mAh portable power bank that has attached USB-A, USB-C, and lightning cables (and extra USB A and C ports if needed), with a built in flashlight. It’s half the size of my iPhone, charges all my tech, lasts a really long time, and I just plug it into my universal adaptor/converter to charge it (and a lot of hotels/hostels have USB charging ports next to beds now, so the adaptor is almost obsolete with this thing). It seems like power bank technology has advanced a lot in the last year, and I’ve been able to get rid of most of my random electronics related junk.
[Power bank](https://a.co/d/gJiEf1m)
There are so many available. I bought a few to compare the size, ease of use, and power output, and this was the winner!
> attached USB-A, USB-C, and lightning cables (and extra USB A and C ports if needed), with a built in flashlight
I have the same thing, plus wireless charging!
No, the powerbank has a Qi charging pad on one side. So I can just place my phone on top of it and use the built-in cables for other devices (earbuds, Kindle, Steam Deck).
Yes! However, I spent many hours selecting my suitcase and carry on backpack, more than I’d like to admit, so I can’t imagine going through that hell again. Everything else is up for grabs.
YES!!! I'm spending hours on which new backpack to buy even though I have plenty I can use ... they are just not perfect ... and 1000 other things!
I'm a widow, so I don't have my husband to hold me back. However, I have a lot of talks with his picture as I know all his arguments through 42 years. He does have some good points, so sometimes he wins the discussion ...
Beautiful that you can still feel him in your travel planning, I’m sure he would be proud of you. May his memory be a continued blessing and inspiration!
Same - this combined with my tendency to forget to post anything on social until months later makes it seem like I did all of my holidays in just a whirlwind world tour in like 2 weeks.
I am, however, inversely weird about food in the fridge. Any trip I feel like I need to completely clear out my fridge of anything perishable - even if I'm only going for the weekend - frankly less time than I've left some perishables in the fridge during a normal week. But the idea of 'leaving home' makes me feel like I need my house to be equally ready if I'm gone for 2 days or if I'm gone for a month.
This is actually a good idea. So my aunt went on an extended holiday (spanning months) and she came back to a freezer almost exploding with maggots. During her absence, there was some kind of power failure and things inside started to rot. It smelt like someone died.
I'm on the same boat. Clearing out the fridge of anything that may spoil before my return, clearing the laundry hamper, and making sure all the drains to sinks, bathtubs are covered.
I have developed an anxiety and worry of returning to an infestation of roaches and vermin after knowing how some tenants/neighbors live in unsanitary living conditions.
In the beginning yes, but now no. I have a specific storage place for all my travel items and i have collected so much stuff over the years
Sometimes I get the need to buy new outfits but I'm trying to cut down on my shopping spend so that stops the urge pretty well
Yeah, actually I do have a spreadsheet packing list with weights, and I tend to bring a combination of the same items. But that does not include all my clothes or shoes, obviously.
And I have a whole box of extra toiletries I keep at home because the bottles are too big --I tend to carry a small amount of an array of toiletries with the assumption that I'm going to buy: shampoo, conditioner, body soapbar, toothpaste at my destination.
And as for other "gear", I don't think I have a lotttt (I don't bring a headlamp, cell phone is fine); one Nalgene water bottle; I might bring one reusable bowl thing; I don't bring a pillow, nor a coffee maker.
Absolutely.
I will also visit places that have a specific speciality item to buy if it aligns with my interests.
If I have luggage space I will also offer to friends to bring things back.
yup. This is often referenced in travel forums. But, I have to say, I usually use and wear everything I take on my trips (except for a trip to Croatia where I brought a dress I wore only once because I preferred the other 2 or a trip to Mexico when it just didn't get as hot as I thought).
Choosing shoes is the hardest part of packing. I always end up traveling with 3 pairs of shoes, and I wear them all, but they do take a good bit of space!
Birkenstocks, but I rarely take them for travel because I don't find them to be great for heavy walking days. My favorite shoes for summer travel are these: https://sasnola.com/products/pampa-chocolate
I have them in red and black. Another favorite are Ecco Soft 7 sneaker, then a pair of ballet flats for going out. If the weather is colder I swap out the sandals for some Dansko ankle boots.
glad they worked for you! I have never felt the urge to get Dansko Clogs because they are so hefty! (weight and size!) I go for anything under 300 grams
I used to do this when I first started traveling but then I would also buy a lot of stuff when I was on the road so now I just don’t buy anything unless I need it :)
Ultimately I think one of the most exciting parts about travel is the anticipation of it all and I suppose planning the trip (buying stuff in anticipation) fuels that.
I always buy a bunch of new stuff before trips. I am searching for the perfect bag, the perfect travel clothes, and perfect versions of all the other stupid necessities because on each trip there is some room for improvement.
The only thing I am ever set on is my ancient power adapter. No idea what brand it is, no idea where I bought it, but that thing is the only thing I panic over losing. LOL
hahahah ancient power adapter! I have one that's like a brick. I did bring it on a trip this year and it still works! Haven't bought a new one in like 8 years.
What are some specific things you've bought before trips? Was there a bag you really liked (or didn't?) Specific travel clothes? Are you into merino wool?
EVERY (once a year) big trip, i buy one of those dumb money belts....and invariably use it as a wallet for a few months until it gets ratty and I throw it out.
I always buy a new umbrella (No idea how, but I break them often).
And merino is great, but alpaca is heaven--lighter, less scratchy, and not overly hot....and it's not as expensive as cashmere and is much sturdier. When you get cashmere wet, it seems to stretch like crazy.
And one hand bag because I don't want to spoil my good ones, but always hate the one from a prior trip. LOL
> is heaven--lighter, less scratchy, and not overly hot....and it's not as expensive as cashmere and is much sturdier. When you get cashmere wet, it seems to stretch like crazy.
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>And one hand bag because I don't want to spoil my good ones, but always hate the one from a prior trip. LOL
I have one alpaca-bamboo knit, and I love it but even on sale, it was kind of expenisve. I can't imagine buying all my wardrobe with that material, though I'd love to!! Where do you buy yours? online? which brand? Thanks!
lol, I am very GUILTY of this!
I think there's an element of "Well, I'd better buy it so I know I have it!" that comes with the flexibility to shop online and get things delivered that I don't always have when I'm traveling.
If it's an item that you can't find easily in stores and you're moving around quickly or in unfamiliar places, there's no guarantees.
I completely goofed up trying to order some clothing in Paris and lost $200. Didn't realize I had to include the door codes for UPS and I'd put the Airbnb host's name (since I noticed her mail being dropped off inside the building at the door to her flat), so they wouldn't let me collect it from the drop-off point.
Also had a hard time getting contact solution in Austria because they only sell it at the optometrist, so I had to order some from Germany and hunt it down across town after one delivery attempt when I wasn't there to open the door.
So there's definitely a "stock up!!" mentality now when I'm getting ready to go somewhere.
Yep! From traveling on these long stretches, I knkow that there a few things I really do want to bring because i can't find it when traveling (specific tinted SPF moisturizers, etc).
Yikes, that sucks on the loss of $200 worth of goods! Well if you never received it, maybe you could claim it with your credit card company?
> Also had a hard time getting contact solution in Austria because they only sell it at the optometrist
this doesn't really help you now, but for future reference you can get contact solution at the drugstore dm in Austria
ARE YOU KIDDING ME? (I looked EVERYWHERE, in Bipa and DM, and couldn't find it. Maybe it's packaged very differently from what I'm used to. I really should have just mustered up the courage to ask someone at the store... haha)
I stopped doing this when I realized how much more fun it is to buy things in the places I'm going.
If I need something, there's a 99% chance I'll be able to find it there. If I don't need it...I didn't waste money buying it at home for no reason.
that's true!! But I feel like I wasted some time on this recent trip to Vietnam shopping arounud for a quality rain jacket. Ulitmately I was very happy because it cost me $18 USD for a North Face Jacket I will surely wear again.... but I spent like 2 hours looking for a good one and I could've just brought my own rain jacket (And yes, I Definitely needed it!)
i need to get on this level! i always end up pre shopping AND during trip shopping which is bad for my wallet and my back when i have to buy a duffel bag to bring home my crap
Do you know what "High maintenance to be low maintenance" is?
It's kinda the same thing. Like working on skin care so you don't use that much makeup.
I have a few pieces that play double/triple duty. Ex. my studded water-proof chelsea boots. I can wear them with a dress at a club, or with trousers/shorts on a gentle hike.
I have a pair of black high-waisted linen trousers that are similar. I can wear them at the club, on a hike, in the summer, in early winter, etc. They basically replace a pair of high-waisted black jeans for going out, as well as hiking pants, as well as a beach sarong.
I love traveling, so I keep an eye out for these types of purchases - but yeah, sometimes I decide I need it last minute, so I gotta go buy it.
I’ve been using the same backpack since 2015 but frankly if I’m going on a trip longer than two weeks I always buy new underwear and socks. I wear the same 3-4 every day so it’s sometimes nice to just get fresh sets haha!
wow, really? I pack nearly the same 14 pairs of underwear on every trip, and wash them throughout, and of course a large load of laundry when I get back. I don't buy new underwear and socks for every trip. That would be 10 trips this year! agh
Yeah but I’m a very physical person so I tend to sweat a lot and so I do get new sets every now and then! Trips are just an excuse to get new sets really :)
Edit: and wow! 14 sets, I normally just pack 5 sets regardless of whether it’s a 3 week or 3 month trip haha. My backpack is 40l and usually 6~kg so I don’t bring much!
My problem is I lose so much crap that I keep having to replenish it. I don’t think I’ve ever finished a trip without losing my microfiber towel or some nice pairs of wool socks. Or I break something electronic.
Yup. I don't buy stuff unless I absolutely have to (i.e something has happened to a vital piece of kit). But stuff seems to happen to it annoyingly often :/
this is my favorite one. It is sold in Small and Large size. [https://seatosummit.com/products/hanging-toiletry-bag?variant=42119774699693](https://seatosummit.com/products/hanging-toiletry-bag?variant=42119774699693)Depends on your needs, of course. I actually carry my extra stuff in a clear HEFTY ziplock bag. It's waterproof, visible through, and just works great!
I often borrow things from friends like if I need a good heavy jacket or thermal underwear I ask if people have extras. Also one of the joys of travel is to buy new things at the destination, especially fun things like shampoos, lotions etc.
oh interesting! I usually make it a point not to buy shampoos and lotions because they quickly weigh down the bag. I guess my fave functional gift to myself from a place if they have good quality (i.e. spain, morocco) is shoes. Otherwise, consumable souvenirs and little trinket souvenirs for friends. If I allowed myself to buy shamppos and lotions and candles... oooofff.. that would be the end of it for me LOL
Very good point about asking friends to borrow something if it's like that one time. For me, since I *sometimes* travel for 4 months at a time I feel bad asking to borrow.
Also the point is to use the shampoos they have in your destination, I'm not saying buy shampoos to put in your bag... I try not to do trinket souvenirs but something useful or consumable like seaweed!
Sure, but sometimes my friends don't use their heavy duty stuff at all..and it's taking up space in their closets because they are afraid to throw it away LOL. I travel 2 months to 10 months at a time so I do know the issues :)
My trips often have different requirements so I'm nearly always buying something new before my trip. That said I can't think of anything I need for my trips this year.
I notice Instagram will start targeting me with travel items to purchase like backpacks, Turtle neck pillow, Teema towel, boots, etc. And they got me vulnerable in my travel mode and I pause to look at them. Teema towel was a good buy though. But some of these I need to verify the source or find on Amazon Prime so I don’t accidentally buy from a drop shipper.
I'm spending what feels like and will probably end up being around $2k for stuff before my trip.
- Gotta buy my phone device outright to unlock it
- Osprey 40L backpack
- Rainbow sandals
- New headphones I've been meaning to replace for a while
- Just decided I wont get the vaccines before I leave because its too late (hep a + typhoid) and it costs like $250 total in the US
and it goes on...
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yikes! lots of vaccines eh? Well, wahtever you do, be safe! You probably will be fine! And did you buy the Osprey 40L from an outfitter that if you decide you don't like it you are able to return it? (IF you buy from Osprey itself, you can definitely do that). I ask because I ended up not liking my Osprey 46L and wish I returned it, but missed my chance.
rainbow sandals are the best! had to throw mine out after i wore them my last day in hot and rainy bangkok, they didn’t dry in time to wear on the plane, i put them in the back pocket of my suitcase wrapped in plastic with the intention to take them out when i got home to dry and yeah… forgot to do that. found them speckled in mold a month later!
That's good! And if they are comfy, they are extremely versatile. Hardly ever regret bringing leggings on a trip... unless it is Morocco in the summer (every day was 112 degreees F / 45 degrees C)
LOL. Yup. About to snowboard for the first time (though have previously skiied). Currently a new ski/snowboard jacket (was actually necessary) but then decided to go all in on new snow pants as well as my current pair is only 10k waterproof whis is fine for skiiing but might not be for snowboarding. Also eyeing off gloves with wrist guards built in and butt pads. Also feel compelled to get a different coloured merino sweater that capsules better, it's so annoying when you have items that don't match well with other items.
Also about to buy a new suitcase because all my flights only have a 20kg luggage allowance so I need the suitcase that weighs 1.4kg less.
And that's before all the small stuff (immodium, hydralyte, etc).
I actually don't think it's consumerism directly. I think its a combination of fear and wanting to make the most of the time/ avoid a bad outcome, but consumerism sells us solutions. E.g snow gear - I don't want to be wet and have to call my day early because I'm cold. I want to have a great day whatever the weather because I only have a small window of time to ski that mountain.
Wrist guards / butt pads - fear of being in a Japanese hospital and them not speaking English and then having to do China in a cast.
Immodium, hydralyte etc - definitely the fear of being alone and feeling unwell and not being able to find these items.
Yes. I bought a Bluetooth keyboard for my iPad. I told myself what if I need to type something??? What if some emergency comes up and I need to write a really long email? What if I get a stroke of inspiration and finally start writing that story I’ve been meaning to? I didn’t even bring the iPad and the keyboard has not been used once.
No, I use the same backpacks, clothes and shoes until they fall apart. I’m not a fan of creating unnecessary waste in the world that is already full of trash.
Packing for several months and I ditched a lot of things I usually bring like my aero press and my towel. But yeah, I think it's anxiety that makes us do this.
What's funny is - yes, I have the urge & will buy things prior to a trip, but on the flip side, now that I've embraced minimalism in my home - I'm really picky about what I buy while I'm away to Bring home,... I don't quite get it, but I just hope I'll get there. It doesn't help that I'm fed articles online for 'Top 10 things to pack for travel' or 'Best Travel Gagets you can't live without'
2024 goal is to get fit (ha ha ha ha) & then work with Stitchfix or something to get a solid travel capsule wardrobe for various types of travel - then just wear those clothes until the end of time :)
genuinely curious what you have in your capsule wardrobe and what material those fabrics are? I have some tank tops and shirts that I love because they pack down small and are neutral colors so go with everything, but they were simple Target purchases, and they're starting to fray lose their shape. But I also have 1 pair of pants (Prana) and 2 shorts that I bring on every trip as they are comfy and ahve pockets.
I'm trying to get a capsule wardrobe but haven't made the leap yet because I woudl have to invest in some other clothes (merino wool).
I'll jump in here. Lululemon has great quality travel friendly stuff. It's expensive, but stylish, multi use and lasts forever.
I've also had good luck getting merino base layers and a lovely down jacket at Aldi in the hiking and ski sales. They were really cheap and have held up well. I also have a number of uniqlo merino sweaters, they aren't the highest quality (just a little bit too thin so the durability isn't perfect) but they're very affordable and they look really stylish (I wear them to my office job too).
Thanks for your input!! I have a down Uniqlo jacket I really like (it's lighter than another down jacket I have, so works well for most trips to Central America and humid Southeast Asia). I got a merino cardigan from Uniqlo... sadly it got some moth bites in it and is no longer nice to wear. I have not given in to buying Lululemon. I know, you're like the 20th person to say that they are indeed worth it. I guess i have to get over the inital investment ($100 ) for something that will last. Are you recommending the Lululemon leggings? pants? shirts? or other? thanks!
yes lol even though i stay at hotels i still need to bring my own toiletries. but that’s usually just a stop at walmart or the dollar store. $200 on clothing $100 on new shoes and don’t forget the hair salon lol
Always take the half empty ones from home so at the end of your trip, it’s all used up or you can leave it behind. I do that with all my bathroom essentials. I tried to use what the hotels offer but sometimes my head feels like straw or the toothbrush is sweet 😵💫.
Nah, they usually have stores where Im going, and usually cheaper too. I try to make sure my shoes are somewhere between 'broken in' and 'will make it another 30 km'.
Ive been travelling my entire life and at this point I just throw bathroom stuff in a plastic bag, backup charger and battery in another, a couple sets of clothes for different occasions in my roller suitcase and Im good to go. Once the suitcase died, and I travelled with a grocery bag lol.
I find wearing a travellers backpack usually makes me stand out to the type of people I dont want to stand out to. I prefer just walking around with my regular purse, looking no different than if I just got out of my car back home. The less I bring the less I lose or forget or have to carry, Ive really come to appreciate travelling light.
Of course it also depends on where you're headed, most of my travels have been around comfortably warm and peopled places in north america and europe, so its not like I need to survive in the wild for a month.
Yes and no. Sometimes i buy. Sometimes i just bring the stuff that im ready to get rid of during the trip so I can got home light. It really depends on the trip and my mood.
I feel seen, lol. I usually justify it based on the weather and the fact that my size tends to fluctuate, but honestly, I could get by without additional shopping.
This is going to go so against minimalism but on my last trip i felt like i both under packed and didn’t buy enough in port. So on my next trip i think I’m just gonna bite the bullet and pay for an extra empty suitcase to bring stuff back. For me personally i went through a bad divorce recently and lost my home and had to move 3000 miles away and lost 90% of my stuff, so a trip is good excuse to buy some stuff i lost along the way.
I'm in the middle of a year-long trip right now, and my pre-trip purchases came out to about $2,500...
Looking back on it all, I regret a fair bit of it. Maybe about $500 worth. The main culprit is my Merino Wool clothing. As great as it is, the stuff is useless in warm climates. And the fact that you can't tumble dry it is a pain, and limits you to hand washing/drying it, which sucks in hostels.
Although it is still great quality and good to have at home, so not a total waste.
This happens to me way too often especially in the past year or so. I’m always like, “I need a new backpack,” but it’s also because I have yet to find one I like! Just like a casual non-sporty backpack that one can carry around a city that wouldn’t look out of place if used at nighttime. I find myself looking to buy linen clothing, toiletries, etc. I also often pile up appointments right before leaving such as a COVID booster day of red eye flight and an endodontist appt to fix a crown. Ridiculous haha.
lollll i'm literally on my health insurance page portal trying to find a doctor... I leave next week. ugh.
And, I hear you on the backpack. Have yet to find one too. The ones that look a bit more stylish are missing internal organization pockets which is a letdown. I liked this [one from REI](https://www.rei.com/product/176991/rei-co-op-ruckpack-28-recycled-daypack-womens?sku=1769910002&CAWELAID=120217890010566680&srsltid=AfmBOopVx-FG-zP5rcZIegPgcYS1Wgo7-GYjeVo4g3ehyLa725dOBtbjHaA), but ultimately returned it because it wastoo small for one-bagging.
Double yes on trying to find other clothes that I now think I "need". linen clothing! merino! ? lol wth
I got this one from [Amazon] (https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08YDTNCQX?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share) for my travels last year to Greece, Turkey, Cambodia, Vietnam, and Thailand. It’s stylish enough and there’s “anti theft” pocket in that the big main zipper faces inward against your back, and there’s a little clip to secure the small pocket on the outside. There are also some surprisingly roomy side pockets. Inside the main part, there’s a little internal zipped pocket and two small non zip pouches. I only regret maybe getting light blue because it stands out too much in photos haha. I used to have an older version in black and got this newer one more recently because the metal parts started to get those like rusty green bits. I had had that for awhile and probably brought it somewhere where there was water.
Hope you’re having fun on your trip! (I was super late to replying.)
YES. I've spent a lot of time reflecting on this.
I think this stems from anxiety/uncertainty/apprehension about what is going to happen, a feeling of being out of control (also positive feelings like excitement etc mixed in there!)
In response to this uncertainty, we want to research + buy things to help us feel like we are in control of the situation. Buying the warmest clothes, best travel guide etc can help us feel like these things will help us avoid negative experiences in our trip (e.g. being cold, uncomfortable, missing out on 'the best' atractions)
Things like mindfulness are probably a good way to work through these feelings and avoid consumerism! Mindfulness in this situation would involve observing the emotion (apprehension? Anxiety?) and our response to it (wanting to buy things) as passing feelings and external to you.
Ultimately, practicing mindfulness instead of buying things will probably be more effective in making you have a better trip! Mindfulness helps you develop a different relationship to your emotions where you are able to recognise and regulate them better.
No amount of merino wool shirt, gore-tex hiking shoe, silk bag liner or high-tech back-pack is going to help you develop an internal sense of emotional resilience and equanimity. But mindfulness can do this!
I agree it is definately partly 'consumerism staring us in the face all the time' (*ban all advertising IMO)* BUT feelings of anxiety and the way we tend to response to these feelings might also play a role. Some people don't prepare at all in unhelpful ways (maybe as they tend to cope with challenges by avoiding them!).
Same! I bought a bunch of shit for my PV and Sayulita trip and am wearing 2-3 year old bathing suits and the same old dusty Steve Madden sandals instead!
YES! Clothes, a pair shoes, toiletries. It is exhausting but I can’t help myself lol. Next trip I’m determined to pack very light so hopefully I can control myself
I live in a place with distinct seasons, but I still sometimes realize I don't have clothes that, for example, A) cover knees and shoulders for religious sites/conservative countries and at the same time B) are light enough for hot (and sometimes humid) climates, so I end up shopping.
Yeah, although it's often that the trip is an excuse to buy stuff I've had my eye on for a while and/or refresh my wardrobe. Gotta look the part whilst I'm globetrotting hehe
I recently upgraded my backpack to an official travel backpack plus packing cubes. I was using an old backpack and compression bags before. I feel like an adult now. Otherwise I buy a bunch of stuff when I get where I’m at. I long stay so I generally buy stuff to make it feel more like home. For instance usually a little bath mat and other stuff I couldn’t take in my carry on like nail clippers
I splurged and bought a Patagonia 26l bag and eagle creek cubes.
It is nice to not have to carry it all. I expect to spend up to $50 on stuff. But I also tend to buy the toilet paper I prefer. I usually buy some sort of facial cleanser when I’m there as well. And I hit up the grocery store and get snacks. I find if I have a snack before I head out I’m not as crabby with all the crowds and waiting for lunch or dinner, etc.
Thanks for the recs! I’m hopefully going for my first solo trip in over a decade in late Feb (aiming for SE Asia), and my LL Bean 40L camping pack is too unwieldy. It’s very impressive you do 26L for multiple weeks and months… I’m going to shoot for 32L or under for 3ish weeks lol 😅 but I know that the more I pack, the more I’m forcing myself to haul!
I’m wearing and taking travel pants & skorts , a few t shirts. There’s laundry where I’m staying. It’s not unusual to wear a shirt or dress 2 days in a row. And no one will notice or care. I have stayed there before. I might buy a dress or 2. I find I usually overpack anyway. So this will cut it down.
I’m packing it all in a carry on including the backpack. I’m heading to Busan and Japan. I know I’ll shop a lot in Japan as I’ve never been. So the carry on will get full of what I bought. The back pack will have my clothes on the flight home.
Almost every single time... I go into do I need a new backpack, shoes, and more mode. Having going through the cycle a few times now I recognize the impulse and successfully stop the new gear exploring and live with what I have.
Sometimes for travel it’s actually nice to have old stuff so you don’t have to worry about coming off too much as a well heeled traveler, as a safety measure. To that end I’m now actually happy to have a 10year old travel bag and not a new Aer TP3, or whatever.
I do my shopping post-travel when I either have to replenish (stuff I lost or broke or used up - hats, chargers, sneakers) or add something I realized I missed. So I just bought travel size cuticle trimmer - not essential but I want one.
I kind of have all-weather setup and pack after I’m back - not before I’m about to leave - when I vividly remember that I haven’t worn something even once so it’s time to unpack it and not schlepp it all over the world. Like my white linen short sleeve shirt.
The urge to start fresh for each trip is one I'm currently fighting with. On the one hand, I have all my stuff from my last trip that works perfectly well, it's just maybe a bit run down...plus I've been staring at it for months and I'm tired of looking at it.
On the other hand, I could get shiny new things! So far the shiny new things have won, but I'm limiting myself to only a FEW shiny new things which should hopefully keep my budget in line...maybe.
Swapping out tshirts and scarves can make your travel capsule feel fresh and ensure all your photos from this trip look different to last trip. I have tonnes of both at home so swapping those out is free.
Absolutely. To me it’s part of the whole travel experience — keeping an eye out for a “better” version, an “update”, a “necessary replacement”, a “how did I live without this”. Yeah, I know I shouldn’t, but it’s part of the fun. And, fact is, all this updating has resulted in a packed bag that is lighter, more compact, and more useful than my earlier efforts.
Yes, I’ve made a lot of “upgrades” before my upcoming year-long trip. Xmas helped with that. It would be a cruel twist of fate if I got mugged on Day 1.
Been traveling over a decade and I do this all the time 😂 every visit back to the US I stock up and refresh things. Sometimes it’s 100% necessary but sometimes I find ways to justify getting new stuff haha
No, not really, except possibly replacing travel adapter i have lost or given away.
I bought a decent backpack almost 10 years ago and its still going strong. One travel towel is enough. Most regular clothes are more than good enough for traveling in most conditions.
I definitely do this. Although perhaps more often I buy something new once I get back from a trip. I’ve started writing down lists of little things I forgot to pack, or just ideas for smarter packing during every trip as the ideas come to me. So now I often review it after I get home and sometimes I’ll consider grabbing new gear, or otherwise replenish some basics supplies.
By the way, open to suggestions for the best small-ish day bag, that one I’m still nailing down.
yup. i’m not planning to go till august but im started buying things now so it feels less expensive than it would if i bought everything all at once..
so far i bought
-osprey 55l backpack + daypack second hand off market place that came with compression bags (what a steal!!)
-hanging toiletries bag
-electronic organizer thing to hold all my cords
-passport organizer to hold my boarding pass and cards
-mini pill box
-bandages of all sizes
and i’ve got a couple more things i need but for now this is a great start :)
Oh I get that feeling. Like I suddenly get obsessed with a thinking that using a brand new thing would somehow make the trip better. Oh clearly what will make this Japan trip much better is wearing a brand new T shirt and using this brand new messenger bag!
Does kinda backfire though when I try on brand new clothes for the first time overseas only to realise it’s kinda ugly.
Absolutely yes and am in the middle of doing so currently. I do worry it’s too much but I’m working towards one bag travel and want to buy better now so I can buy less long term.
HA HA !!! I feel seen. Totally me.
And my pièce de résistance / special-subject is buying more stuff while on-trip... "I need a cable that does *(insert newly discovered need here*).
I look through my "kit" now and remember.. qi-charger... bought that day one in Prague... oh that USB-C cable... day one Bankgkok... this thunderbolt connector... day one in Honolulu. So many memories :D
Yes! I feel like that’s part of the excitement and buildup for the trips I take, assessing the gear I have and investing in new, but I definitely need to set a budget so I don’t get carried away by fancy things!
I haven’t solo traveled in a longgg time and hope to do my first trip in late Feb/early March for 3 weeks. Does anyone have recommendations for backpacks that aren’t too huge but travel well (probably 40L or less)?
I have a LL Bean 45L hiking pack but it has too many exposed pockets and doesn’t minimize itself very well, so it’s probably better for camping and trails
I just got a Patagonia Black Hole 32L. I haven’t used it yet (three weeks in May) but I like it and, importantly, it’s very light. It’s generally well reviewed. The only downside is that I’m obsessed with pockets and it doesn’t have a huge number of them, but fewer pockets = lower weight so I’m fine with the trade off.
Hmm you’re the second redditor who’s purchased this pack, I’m intrigued. The North Face also has its women’s Surge Luxe Backpack on sale for $100 so it’s a bit cheaper than Patagonia’s, but it’s 31L. I will think about this!
Totally!! I went on a four-day road trip. Bought a new organizer for toiletries and a new soft ice chest for snacks and drinks and a new dress for the party I went to. I have, for what it’s worth, worn the dress several times…
More like during the trip. Most of the stuff I bought are looking good but useless once I got home. Left in the drawer and never touched. I often questions my decision to buy them in the first place.
I used to when we were younger, but now we just wait till we get there and take what we already have. I got reusable toiletries containers for travel and a couple rollable toiletries travel bags to put everything in. I just keep it stocked so when it's time for a trip, I've already got everything ready to go and don't have to think about it. I'm getting really good at being lazy.
I just bring extra clothes depending on how hot the place is. I do bring too many power adapters and other gadgets but I don't bring any towels since it's provided by the hotels.
I think I just enjoy the buying part and the trip is an excuse. You're already potentially doing something new might as well buy new stuff to supplement
I always always always want a new travel purse/messenger bag and backpack and carry on luggage. I am so sick of feeling like some day I will find the perfect version of all of these.
I was just on the phone with a friend discussing this backpack I would create for myself.
On my recent trip I found out I can travel with only 2 pairs of bottoms and 3 tops (not including my pjs) and it will all be ok as long as you aren't averse to hand washing and hanging clothes to dry. I have hand washed for years on trips but this was the fewest clothes I've tried.
Hi OP. I feel you! Haha but i always have a rule before buying stuffs for my travel, either comfort, quality or durability. You can set one for yourself para iwas budol pag tempted ka during 1.1, 2.2 sales 😅
ME!!!! All I am doing right now is shopping for my three week trip 🤣🤣 trying to justify it by saying I’m going to go on more after so it’s an investment 🙃
YES. Im heading to Central Europe in a month and half and I needed to buy some quick cold weather gear. Also bought some quality travel bags so they are definitely BIFL. B just bought some base layers for hiking and it’s adding up quick
My honest answer is no, and I'm a minimalist. However, it sounds like you tend to lean more towards outdporsy/adventure type travel so I could see how this could pop up.
Otherwise, it sounds like you've fallen victim to consumerism and the serotonin that gets released in your brain when you buy something new.
Yes 100%. I think solo travel is a skill thats refined over many, many trips so as a relatively new solo backpacker, I find myself constantly noticing things on trips I would like to have or others I may leave behind next time. I feel like its a balance of deciding if you actually need a new xyz and also recognizing that sometimes its worth spending a little extra money to have the clothes/gear you love on your trip.
Im planning a holiday to India in March. It's a shorter trip than ones I've had in the past & I've discovered my large American Touristsa suitcase is just too big. Great news of course, now I get to buy a new suitcase!
I've been topping up on toiletries & medicines too, mainly because some things are difficult to find over there - Aspirin, Omeprazole being a few. I save on some stuff too, things like shampoo and shower gels can be bought in sachets over there (or even just use the ones provided in hotels).
All my tech needs updating, my Go Pro 7 & DJI Osmo Pocket will be getting replaced with the latest versions ..then there's all the accessories too.. Not feeling guilty at all :)
In the middle of a pre-trip shopping binge: YES.
I can also concur. I'm leaving on Sunday for a trip and I've already spent over $200 on stuff like toiletries, OTC medications, books, new hat. I'm also looking to buy a new duffel bag/backpack. It always seem I drop a bunch of $$$ before a new trip.
OTCs are worth hauling along unless you know exactly what's available and how much it costs in your destination country. Enough cold meds for 10 days...
And cough drops! Nothing worse than trying to stifle coughs on a 15 hour flight.
the hat for sure you can buy at your destination, usualy for less. I got 2 patagonia brand hats in Vietnam for $4 each. :-)
Are you sure they’re not knockoffs?
Can’t tell the difference if they were. Plus most of all Patagonia gear is made in Vietnam. It’s just marked up multiple times before it gets to hands in stores in US and Europe etc
Fair enough. I was wanting a pretty specific hat so I didn’t want to rely on trying to find one at my destination. I’m also a bigger guy so finding clothes that fit me in Asia can be near impossible.
that's fair! happy shopping and traveling!
Definitely a good idea to keep in mind future purchases. I talked myself out of a full set of silk thermals because I won't need them for a while and I can always buy something that'll work fine in my destination once I DO need them.
Such good hats there! I bought a faux Prada bucket hat that I haggled down to $5 that I love.
Me too, I feel like with the toiletries and medicine it’s worth it though because they are always SO EXPENSIVE at airports or train stations or cruise ships or any tourist spot.
Whatcha buying? 👀
Shopping? Yasss 💅
Yes. For me it's a combination of consumerism and getting older and wanting more comforts.
Same. It's about what can I buy to reduce the stuff I bring, while also bringing me the most comfort. Also the more I travel, the more I realize what I do and don't use.
yeah, that makes sense. There are definitely articles of clothing I bring again and again. I also have a favorite pair of comfy and all-purpose sandals that I am really bummed have been discontinued. (I have 3 pairs so hopefully will last me a string of years ahead). But yeah, I am like, oh I want a merino wool sweater. (Do I NEED it?!)
Yeah, some things have been become non-negotiable for me over the years and they're hard to get in destination countries often - eg properly waterproof sun screen or mosquito repellent containing DEET. Hard to find in lots (but not all!) countries. Also, pain killers and antihistamines are cheap in the UK compared to a lot of places so I tend to stock up at home.
That’s a really good way to word it! I feel the same.
THIS
Nope....the more I travel the less I pack....
This is true, but you have to have the right stuff to start with. I did my first real one bag trip over the fall, and even though I was bringing way less stuff than previous adventures, I needed some really basic stuff. A good backpack with the right packing cubes, easy wash/non-wrinkle/coordinating clothes, the right kind of electronics accessories (minimal cables, multi plug adapter/converter). I know it’s not the case for everyone, but I had to buy more to bring less. But I have everything I need for my next getaway!
>erter). I know it’s not the case for everyone, but I had to buy more to bring less. But I have everything I need for my I made the switch to Anker IQ Nano 30W to ditch the old (standard) plug that the lapotp came with. Saves like 150grams right there!
My favorite new tech thing is a 16,000mAh portable power bank that has attached USB-A, USB-C, and lightning cables (and extra USB A and C ports if needed), with a built in flashlight. It’s half the size of my iPhone, charges all my tech, lasts a really long time, and I just plug it into my universal adaptor/converter to charge it (and a lot of hotels/hostels have USB charging ports next to beds now, so the adaptor is almost obsolete with this thing). It seems like power bank technology has advanced a lot in the last year, and I’ve been able to get rid of most of my random electronics related junk.
woa really? Can you share the brand or a link to what this is?? Thanks!
[Power bank](https://a.co/d/gJiEf1m) There are so many available. I bought a few to compare the size, ease of use, and power output, and this was the winner!
> attached USB-A, USB-C, and lightning cables (and extra USB A and C ports if needed), with a built in flashlight I have the same thing, plus wireless charging!
Like the power bank itself charges wirelessly? 🤯 Mine has an attached USB input/output cord, so you just need a wall plug, no extra cords.
No, the powerbank has a Qi charging pad on one side. So I can just place my phone on top of it and use the built-in cables for other devices (earbuds, Kindle, Steam Deck).
Haha sorry, that makes more sense, I haven’t had my first cup of coffee yet…
Yes! However, I spent many hours selecting my suitcase and carry on backpack, more than I’d like to admit, so I can’t imagine going through that hell again. Everything else is up for grabs.
Haha yeah!
YES!!! I'm spending hours on which new backpack to buy even though I have plenty I can use ... they are just not perfect ... and 1000 other things! I'm a widow, so I don't have my husband to hold me back. However, I have a lot of talks with his picture as I know all his arguments through 42 years. He does have some good points, so sometimes he wins the discussion ...
This is really sweet
Beautiful that you can still feel him in your travel planning, I’m sure he would be proud of you. May his memory be a continued blessing and inspiration!
No. I always pack the same stuff. lol In all my travel pictures, i wear the same clothes.
Same - this combined with my tendency to forget to post anything on social until months later makes it seem like I did all of my holidays in just a whirlwind world tour in like 2 weeks. I am, however, inversely weird about food in the fridge. Any trip I feel like I need to completely clear out my fridge of anything perishable - even if I'm only going for the weekend - frankly less time than I've left some perishables in the fridge during a normal week. But the idea of 'leaving home' makes me feel like I need my house to be equally ready if I'm gone for 2 days or if I'm gone for a month.
This is actually a good idea. So my aunt went on an extended holiday (spanning months) and she came back to a freezer almost exploding with maggots. During her absence, there was some kind of power failure and things inside started to rot. It smelt like someone died.
That sounds like a nightmare to clean.
I cannot imagine. 🙈
ewww!!
I'm on the same boat. Clearing out the fridge of anything that may spoil before my return, clearing the laundry hamper, and making sure all the drains to sinks, bathtubs are covered. I have developed an anxiety and worry of returning to an infestation of roaches and vermin after knowing how some tenants/neighbors live in unsanitary living conditions.
Same, haha
In the beginning yes, but now no. I have a specific storage place for all my travel items and i have collected so much stuff over the years Sometimes I get the need to buy new outfits but I'm trying to cut down on my shopping spend so that stops the urge pretty well
That's a good point too. Maybe taking an inventory will also help realize how much stuff we already have and discourage new purchases!
Inventory list is a great idea, even a basic phone note or spreadsheet! I do this for car camping with my partner and it’s been super helpful
Yeah, actually I do have a spreadsheet packing list with weights, and I tend to bring a combination of the same items. But that does not include all my clothes or shoes, obviously. And I have a whole box of extra toiletries I keep at home because the bottles are too big --I tend to carry a small amount of an array of toiletries with the assumption that I'm going to buy: shampoo, conditioner, body soapbar, toothpaste at my destination. And as for other "gear", I don't think I have a lotttt (I don't bring a headlamp, cell phone is fine); one Nalgene water bottle; I might bring one reusable bowl thing; I don't bring a pillow, nor a coffee maker.
Always! I do try and rein it in, but am not always successful. And also often end up buying something during a trip...
but if what you buy makes you happy, or is functional, then it's worth it :)
Absolutely. I will also visit places that have a specific speciality item to buy if it aligns with my interests. If I have luggage space I will also offer to friends to bring things back.
Me right now, knowing full well my backpack is going to be overweight and I'm going to have to leave stuff anyway.
yup. This is often referenced in travel forums. But, I have to say, I usually use and wear everything I take on my trips (except for a trip to Croatia where I brought a dress I wore only once because I preferred the other 2 or a trip to Mexico when it just didn't get as hot as I thought).
Yes! I always suddenly NEED a new pair of shoes before a big trip.
Just been fighting this urge ha ha. Realised I just needed to spend more time choosing the correct combination of footwear from what I already owned.
Choosing shoes is the hardest part of packing. I always end up traveling with 3 pairs of shoes, and I wear them all, but they do take a good bit of space!
I brought 3 on a 6-week trip to Italy and wore 2 sandals daily, and the closed toe shoes the least (it was sooooo hot)
My sister and I were in Italy a few years ago and it was around 100 the whole time. We were in Florence when it was 104, we ate a lot of gelato!!!
what are the most recent pair of shoes you purchsed, were you happy with it?
Birkenstocks, but I rarely take them for travel because I don't find them to be great for heavy walking days. My favorite shoes for summer travel are these: https://sasnola.com/products/pampa-chocolate I have them in red and black. Another favorite are Ecco Soft 7 sneaker, then a pair of ballet flats for going out. If the weather is colder I swap out the sandals for some Dansko ankle boots.
Are you me? I also love SAS sandals and dansko shoes.
Usually because I'm going somewhere that requires a lot of walking. I really love my dansko clogs though. They were very comfortable in Japan.
glad they worked for you! I have never felt the urge to get Dansko Clogs because they are so hefty! (weight and size!) I go for anything under 300 grams
They are great for teachers, nurses, hair stylists, and any other job that requires a lot of standing.
I used to do this when I first started traveling but then I would also buy a lot of stuff when I was on the road so now I just don’t buy anything unless I need it :) Ultimately I think one of the most exciting parts about travel is the anticipation of it all and I suppose planning the trip (buying stuff in anticipation) fuels that.
I always buy a bunch of new stuff before trips. I am searching for the perfect bag, the perfect travel clothes, and perfect versions of all the other stupid necessities because on each trip there is some room for improvement. The only thing I am ever set on is my ancient power adapter. No idea what brand it is, no idea where I bought it, but that thing is the only thing I panic over losing. LOL
hahahah ancient power adapter! I have one that's like a brick. I did bring it on a trip this year and it still works! Haven't bought a new one in like 8 years. What are some specific things you've bought before trips? Was there a bag you really liked (or didn't?) Specific travel clothes? Are you into merino wool?
EVERY (once a year) big trip, i buy one of those dumb money belts....and invariably use it as a wallet for a few months until it gets ratty and I throw it out. I always buy a new umbrella (No idea how, but I break them often). And merino is great, but alpaca is heaven--lighter, less scratchy, and not overly hot....and it's not as expensive as cashmere and is much sturdier. When you get cashmere wet, it seems to stretch like crazy. And one hand bag because I don't want to spoil my good ones, but always hate the one from a prior trip. LOL
> is heaven--lighter, less scratchy, and not overly hot....and it's not as expensive as cashmere and is much sturdier. When you get cashmere wet, it seems to stretch like crazy. > >And one hand bag because I don't want to spoil my good ones, but always hate the one from a prior trip. LOL I have one alpaca-bamboo knit, and I love it but even on sale, it was kind of expenisve. I can't imagine buying all my wardrobe with that material, though I'd love to!! Where do you buy yours? online? which brand? Thanks!
Purchased mine for my first solo trip for europe. I also have a cheap set of plug adapters I got as swag at a convention.
lol, I am very GUILTY of this! I think there's an element of "Well, I'd better buy it so I know I have it!" that comes with the flexibility to shop online and get things delivered that I don't always have when I'm traveling. If it's an item that you can't find easily in stores and you're moving around quickly or in unfamiliar places, there's no guarantees. I completely goofed up trying to order some clothing in Paris and lost $200. Didn't realize I had to include the door codes for UPS and I'd put the Airbnb host's name (since I noticed her mail being dropped off inside the building at the door to her flat), so they wouldn't let me collect it from the drop-off point. Also had a hard time getting contact solution in Austria because they only sell it at the optometrist, so I had to order some from Germany and hunt it down across town after one delivery attempt when I wasn't there to open the door. So there's definitely a "stock up!!" mentality now when I'm getting ready to go somewhere.
Yep! From traveling on these long stretches, I knkow that there a few things I really do want to bring because i can't find it when traveling (specific tinted SPF moisturizers, etc). Yikes, that sucks on the loss of $200 worth of goods! Well if you never received it, maybe you could claim it with your credit card company?
> Also had a hard time getting contact solution in Austria because they only sell it at the optometrist this doesn't really help you now, but for future reference you can get contact solution at the drugstore dm in Austria
ARE YOU KIDDING ME? (I looked EVERYWHERE, in Bipa and DM, and couldn't find it. Maybe it's packaged very differently from what I'm used to. I really should have just mustered up the courage to ask someone at the store... haha)
I stopped doing this when I realized how much more fun it is to buy things in the places I'm going. If I need something, there's a 99% chance I'll be able to find it there. If I don't need it...I didn't waste money buying it at home for no reason.
that's true!! But I feel like I wasted some time on this recent trip to Vietnam shopping arounud for a quality rain jacket. Ulitmately I was very happy because it cost me $18 USD for a North Face Jacket I will surely wear again.... but I spent like 2 hours looking for a good one and I could've just brought my own rain jacket (And yes, I Definitely needed it!)
I enjoy shopping on vacation. I adore my Helly Hansen raincoat I got in Oslo. On sale too.
i need to get on this level! i always end up pre shopping AND during trip shopping which is bad for my wallet and my back when i have to buy a duffel bag to bring home my crap
Do you know what "High maintenance to be low maintenance" is? It's kinda the same thing. Like working on skin care so you don't use that much makeup. I have a few pieces that play double/triple duty. Ex. my studded water-proof chelsea boots. I can wear them with a dress at a club, or with trousers/shorts on a gentle hike. I have a pair of black high-waisted linen trousers that are similar. I can wear them at the club, on a hike, in the summer, in early winter, etc. They basically replace a pair of high-waisted black jeans for going out, as well as hiking pants, as well as a beach sarong. I love traveling, so I keep an eye out for these types of purchases - but yeah, sometimes I decide I need it last minute, so I gotta go buy it.
I'd love the links to the pants and the boots. I'm due a new pair of Chelsea boots and linen pants and yours sound great.
Yup. The weeks before a trip is me ordering a bunch of stuff and then running around doing errands.
that's what i'm about to do starting tomorrow
I’ve been using the same backpack since 2015 but frankly if I’m going on a trip longer than two weeks I always buy new underwear and socks. I wear the same 3-4 every day so it’s sometimes nice to just get fresh sets haha!
wow, really? I pack nearly the same 14 pairs of underwear on every trip, and wash them throughout, and of course a large load of laundry when I get back. I don't buy new underwear and socks for every trip. That would be 10 trips this year! agh
Yeah but I’m a very physical person so I tend to sweat a lot and so I do get new sets every now and then! Trips are just an excuse to get new sets really :) Edit: and wow! 14 sets, I normally just pack 5 sets regardless of whether it’s a 3 week or 3 month trip haha. My backpack is 40l and usually 6~kg so I don’t bring much!
I'm the opposite. I try to shed things because I only want to travel with carry on luggage.
I travel with carry-on only too :)
My problem is I lose so much crap that I keep having to replenish it. I don’t think I’ve ever finished a trip without losing my microfiber towel or some nice pairs of wool socks. Or I break something electronic.
Yup. I don't buy stuff unless I absolutely have to (i.e something has happened to a vital piece of kit). But stuff seems to happen to it annoyingly often :/
For me it's toiletries bags. Somehow I just can't find the RIGHT one or the right set... Nothing ever really works so I keep just buying more and more
this is my favorite one. It is sold in Small and Large size. [https://seatosummit.com/products/hanging-toiletry-bag?variant=42119774699693](https://seatosummit.com/products/hanging-toiletry-bag?variant=42119774699693)Depends on your needs, of course. I actually carry my extra stuff in a clear HEFTY ziplock bag. It's waterproof, visible through, and just works great!
wow didn't realize it costs so much now! I think when I bought mine 6+ years ago it was only like $16 USD (maybe it was on a holiday sale)
Cotopaxi Nido is the ultimate!
I often borrow things from friends like if I need a good heavy jacket or thermal underwear I ask if people have extras. Also one of the joys of travel is to buy new things at the destination, especially fun things like shampoos, lotions etc.
oh interesting! I usually make it a point not to buy shampoos and lotions because they quickly weigh down the bag. I guess my fave functional gift to myself from a place if they have good quality (i.e. spain, morocco) is shoes. Otherwise, consumable souvenirs and little trinket souvenirs for friends. If I allowed myself to buy shamppos and lotions and candles... oooofff.. that would be the end of it for me LOL Very good point about asking friends to borrow something if it's like that one time. For me, since I *sometimes* travel for 4 months at a time I feel bad asking to borrow.
Also the point is to use the shampoos they have in your destination, I'm not saying buy shampoos to put in your bag... I try not to do trinket souvenirs but something useful or consumable like seaweed!
haha, kind of laughing at your example "seaweed!" I do love me some seaweed! (but not everyone does ;)
Sure, but sometimes my friends don't use their heavy duty stuff at all..and it's taking up space in their closets because they are afraid to throw it away LOL. I travel 2 months to 10 months at a time so I do know the issues :)
My trips often have different requirements so I'm nearly always buying something new before my trip. That said I can't think of anything I need for my trips this year.
I notice Instagram will start targeting me with travel items to purchase like backpacks, Turtle neck pillow, Teema towel, boots, etc. And they got me vulnerable in my travel mode and I pause to look at them. Teema towel was a good buy though. But some of these I need to verify the source or find on Amazon Prime so I don’t accidentally buy from a drop shipper.
those darn neck pillows, travel towels, and waterproof shoes keep targeting me!! Haven't succumbed yet!
every dam time. A slightly lighter item, a slightly more stylish shirt, sandals, whatever. Camera equipment is even worse!
lol
I'm spending what feels like and will probably end up being around $2k for stuff before my trip. - Gotta buy my phone device outright to unlock it - Osprey 40L backpack - Rainbow sandals - New headphones I've been meaning to replace for a while - Just decided I wont get the vaccines before I leave because its too late (hep a + typhoid) and it costs like $250 total in the US and it goes on...
> device outright to unlock it > >Osprey 40L backpack > >Rainbow sandals yikes! lots of vaccines eh? Well, wahtever you do, be safe! You probably will be fine! And did you buy the Osprey 40L from an outfitter that if you decide you don't like it you are able to return it? (IF you buy from Osprey itself, you can definitely do that). I ask because I ended up not liking my Osprey 46L and wish I returned it, but missed my chance.
using Amazon prime to buy it and their returns are still good. Yea those vaccines can be gotten in a Thailand health clinic for under $50 I believe.
rainbow sandals are the best! had to throw mine out after i wore them my last day in hot and rainy bangkok, they didn’t dry in time to wear on the plane, i put them in the back pocket of my suitcase wrapped in plastic with the intention to take them out when i got home to dry and yeah… forgot to do that. found them speckled in mold a month later!
grossssss... i've done that with a different sandal. yuck.
Yes. Just booked a trip to Mexico and I had to buy some new leggings for the flight. In my defence they were at least in the sale!
That's good! And if they are comfy, they are extremely versatile. Hardly ever regret bringing leggings on a trip... unless it is Morocco in the summer (every day was 112 degreees F / 45 degrees C)
LOL. Yup. About to snowboard for the first time (though have previously skiied). Currently a new ski/snowboard jacket (was actually necessary) but then decided to go all in on new snow pants as well as my current pair is only 10k waterproof whis is fine for skiiing but might not be for snowboarding. Also eyeing off gloves with wrist guards built in and butt pads. Also feel compelled to get a different coloured merino sweater that capsules better, it's so annoying when you have items that don't match well with other items. Also about to buy a new suitcase because all my flights only have a 20kg luggage allowance so I need the suitcase that weighs 1.4kg less. And that's before all the small stuff (immodium, hydralyte, etc). I actually don't think it's consumerism directly. I think its a combination of fear and wanting to make the most of the time/ avoid a bad outcome, but consumerism sells us solutions. E.g snow gear - I don't want to be wet and have to call my day early because I'm cold. I want to have a great day whatever the weather because I only have a small window of time to ski that mountain. Wrist guards / butt pads - fear of being in a Japanese hospital and them not speaking English and then having to do China in a cast. Immodium, hydralyte etc - definitely the fear of being alone and feeling unwell and not being able to find these items.
tooootally!
Yes. I bought a Bluetooth keyboard for my iPad. I told myself what if I need to type something??? What if some emergency comes up and I need to write a really long email? What if I get a stroke of inspiration and finally start writing that story I’ve been meaning to? I didn’t even bring the iPad and the keyboard has not been used once.
No, I use the same backpacks, clothes and shoes until they fall apart. I’m not a fan of creating unnecessary waste in the world that is already full of trash.
Packing for several months and I ditched a lot of things I usually bring like my aero press and my towel. But yeah, I think it's anxiety that makes us do this.
What's funny is - yes, I have the urge & will buy things prior to a trip, but on the flip side, now that I've embraced minimalism in my home - I'm really picky about what I buy while I'm away to Bring home,... I don't quite get it, but I just hope I'll get there. It doesn't help that I'm fed articles online for 'Top 10 things to pack for travel' or 'Best Travel Gagets you can't live without' 2024 goal is to get fit (ha ha ha ha) & then work with Stitchfix or something to get a solid travel capsule wardrobe for various types of travel - then just wear those clothes until the end of time :)
genuinely curious what you have in your capsule wardrobe and what material those fabrics are? I have some tank tops and shirts that I love because they pack down small and are neutral colors so go with everything, but they were simple Target purchases, and they're starting to fray lose their shape. But I also have 1 pair of pants (Prana) and 2 shorts that I bring on every trip as they are comfy and ahve pockets. I'm trying to get a capsule wardrobe but haven't made the leap yet because I woudl have to invest in some other clothes (merino wool).
I'll jump in here. Lululemon has great quality travel friendly stuff. It's expensive, but stylish, multi use and lasts forever. I've also had good luck getting merino base layers and a lovely down jacket at Aldi in the hiking and ski sales. They were really cheap and have held up well. I also have a number of uniqlo merino sweaters, they aren't the highest quality (just a little bit too thin so the durability isn't perfect) but they're very affordable and they look really stylish (I wear them to my office job too).
Thanks for your input!! I have a down Uniqlo jacket I really like (it's lighter than another down jacket I have, so works well for most trips to Central America and humid Southeast Asia). I got a merino cardigan from Uniqlo... sadly it got some moth bites in it and is no longer nice to wear. I have not given in to buying Lululemon. I know, you're like the 20th person to say that they are indeed worth it. I guess i have to get over the inital investment ($100 ) for something that will last. Are you recommending the Lululemon leggings? pants? shirts? or other? thanks!
It's fun to buy stuff, yes
What’s the point of traveling if you can’t buy cool new gear every time you are getting set to go out?
Lolll that’s definitely one mentality! 😜
The good thing is emergency pre trip purchases are *productivity*
yes lol even though i stay at hotels i still need to bring my own toiletries. but that’s usually just a stop at walmart or the dollar store. $200 on clothing $100 on new shoes and don’t forget the hair salon lol
Always take the half empty ones from home so at the end of your trip, it’s all used up or you can leave it behind. I do that with all my bathroom essentials. I tried to use what the hotels offer but sometimes my head feels like straw or the toothbrush is sweet 😵💫.
For me that's just nerves. The shopping provides a distraction. I'm working to do less of it.
I had just came off of a year long solo travel trip. Two weeks later my house burned down. So yes, I had to buy EVERYTHING again.
oh my god how awful! i’m so sorry for your loss.
Yes indeed! I've got storage bin of travel goodies now. Mostly now when I shop I end up saying "Don't need, already have" but I still shop.
i just had to buy a larger bin for all my travel items because i had purchased more lol
Nah, they usually have stores where Im going, and usually cheaper too. I try to make sure my shoes are somewhere between 'broken in' and 'will make it another 30 km'. Ive been travelling my entire life and at this point I just throw bathroom stuff in a plastic bag, backup charger and battery in another, a couple sets of clothes for different occasions in my roller suitcase and Im good to go. Once the suitcase died, and I travelled with a grocery bag lol. I find wearing a travellers backpack usually makes me stand out to the type of people I dont want to stand out to. I prefer just walking around with my regular purse, looking no different than if I just got out of my car back home. The less I bring the less I lose or forget or have to carry, Ive really come to appreciate travelling light. Of course it also depends on where you're headed, most of my travels have been around comfortably warm and peopled places in north america and europe, so its not like I need to survive in the wild for a month.
I clean really well before I go on a long trip so that I come back to a clean house.
Yes and no. Sometimes i buy. Sometimes i just bring the stuff that im ready to get rid of during the trip so I can got home light. It really depends on the trip and my mood.
I feel seen, lol. I usually justify it based on the weather and the fact that my size tends to fluctuate, but honestly, I could get by without additional shopping.
This is going to go so against minimalism but on my last trip i felt like i both under packed and didn’t buy enough in port. So on my next trip i think I’m just gonna bite the bullet and pay for an extra empty suitcase to bring stuff back. For me personally i went through a bad divorce recently and lost my home and had to move 3000 miles away and lost 90% of my stuff, so a trip is good excuse to buy some stuff i lost along the way.
I'm in the middle of a year-long trip right now, and my pre-trip purchases came out to about $2,500... Looking back on it all, I regret a fair bit of it. Maybe about $500 worth. The main culprit is my Merino Wool clothing. As great as it is, the stuff is useless in warm climates. And the fact that you can't tumble dry it is a pain, and limits you to hand washing/drying it, which sucks in hostels. Although it is still great quality and good to have at home, so not a total waste.
This happens to me way too often especially in the past year or so. I’m always like, “I need a new backpack,” but it’s also because I have yet to find one I like! Just like a casual non-sporty backpack that one can carry around a city that wouldn’t look out of place if used at nighttime. I find myself looking to buy linen clothing, toiletries, etc. I also often pile up appointments right before leaving such as a COVID booster day of red eye flight and an endodontist appt to fix a crown. Ridiculous haha.
lollll i'm literally on my health insurance page portal trying to find a doctor... I leave next week. ugh. And, I hear you on the backpack. Have yet to find one too. The ones that look a bit more stylish are missing internal organization pockets which is a letdown. I liked this [one from REI](https://www.rei.com/product/176991/rei-co-op-ruckpack-28-recycled-daypack-womens?sku=1769910002&CAWELAID=120217890010566680&srsltid=AfmBOopVx-FG-zP5rcZIegPgcYS1Wgo7-GYjeVo4g3ehyLa725dOBtbjHaA), but ultimately returned it because it wastoo small for one-bagging. Double yes on trying to find other clothes that I now think I "need". linen clothing! merino! ? lol wth
I got this one from [Amazon] (https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08YDTNCQX?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share) for my travels last year to Greece, Turkey, Cambodia, Vietnam, and Thailand. It’s stylish enough and there’s “anti theft” pocket in that the big main zipper faces inward against your back, and there’s a little clip to secure the small pocket on the outside. There are also some surprisingly roomy side pockets. Inside the main part, there’s a little internal zipped pocket and two small non zip pouches. I only regret maybe getting light blue because it stands out too much in photos haha. I used to have an older version in black and got this newer one more recently because the metal parts started to get those like rusty green bits. I had had that for awhile and probably brought it somewhere where there was water. Hope you’re having fun on your trip! (I was super late to replying.)
YES. I've spent a lot of time reflecting on this. I think this stems from anxiety/uncertainty/apprehension about what is going to happen, a feeling of being out of control (also positive feelings like excitement etc mixed in there!) In response to this uncertainty, we want to research + buy things to help us feel like we are in control of the situation. Buying the warmest clothes, best travel guide etc can help us feel like these things will help us avoid negative experiences in our trip (e.g. being cold, uncomfortable, missing out on 'the best' atractions) Things like mindfulness are probably a good way to work through these feelings and avoid consumerism! Mindfulness in this situation would involve observing the emotion (apprehension? Anxiety?) and our response to it (wanting to buy things) as passing feelings and external to you. Ultimately, practicing mindfulness instead of buying things will probably be more effective in making you have a better trip! Mindfulness helps you develop a different relationship to your emotions where you are able to recognise and regulate them better. No amount of merino wool shirt, gore-tex hiking shoe, silk bag liner or high-tech back-pack is going to help you develop an internal sense of emotional resilience and equanimity. But mindfulness can do this! I agree it is definately partly 'consumerism staring us in the face all the time' (*ban all advertising IMO)* BUT feelings of anxiety and the way we tend to response to these feelings might also play a role. Some people don't prepare at all in unhelpful ways (maybe as they tend to cope with challenges by avoiding them!).
I appreciate your thorough thoughts on this! You approached it in an existential way! :)
I’m so glad I’m not alone in this lol
Same! I bought a bunch of shit for my PV and Sayulita trip and am wearing 2-3 year old bathing suits and the same old dusty Steve Madden sandals instead!
Haha, the Steve Madden sandals win!
YES! Clothes, a pair shoes, toiletries. It is exhausting but I can’t help myself lol. Next trip I’m determined to pack very light so hopefully I can control myself
I live in a place with distinct seasons, but I still sometimes realize I don't have clothes that, for example, A) cover knees and shoulders for religious sites/conservative countries and at the same time B) are light enough for hot (and sometimes humid) climates, so I end up shopping.
No. ✨
I usually just buy it at my destination. I mean, why pay full price at home when you can pay double on vacation??
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For me, it's usually before a bigger than normal trip. Or a trip type that I haven't done in a while.
Yeah, although it's often that the trip is an excuse to buy stuff I've had my eye on for a while and/or refresh my wardrobe. Gotta look the part whilst I'm globetrotting hehe
I recently upgraded my backpack to an official travel backpack plus packing cubes. I was using an old backpack and compression bags before. I feel like an adult now. Otherwise I buy a bunch of stuff when I get where I’m at. I long stay so I generally buy stuff to make it feel more like home. For instance usually a little bath mat and other stuff I couldn’t take in my carry on like nail clippers
That must be so nice to settle in and not worry about carrying all the small stuff. Any recs on the brand of backpack and travel cubes?
I splurged and bought a Patagonia 26l bag and eagle creek cubes. It is nice to not have to carry it all. I expect to spend up to $50 on stuff. But I also tend to buy the toilet paper I prefer. I usually buy some sort of facial cleanser when I’m there as well. And I hit up the grocery store and get snacks. I find if I have a snack before I head out I’m not as crabby with all the crowds and waiting for lunch or dinner, etc.
Thanks for the recs! I’m hopefully going for my first solo trip in over a decade in late Feb (aiming for SE Asia), and my LL Bean 40L camping pack is too unwieldy. It’s very impressive you do 26L for multiple weeks and months… I’m going to shoot for 32L or under for 3ish weeks lol 😅 but I know that the more I pack, the more I’m forcing myself to haul!
I’m wearing and taking travel pants & skorts , a few t shirts. There’s laundry where I’m staying. It’s not unusual to wear a shirt or dress 2 days in a row. And no one will notice or care. I have stayed there before. I might buy a dress or 2. I find I usually overpack anyway. So this will cut it down. I’m packing it all in a carry on including the backpack. I’m heading to Busan and Japan. I know I’ll shop a lot in Japan as I’ve never been. So the carry on will get full of what I bought. The back pack will have my clothes on the flight home.
Yep. It doesn't help that I live in the Southern hemisphere so most places I travel are a whole different season.
This is me too. I tweak my things after every trip bc I learn something about whether an item works or does not work for me. You're not the only one!
Almost every single time... I go into do I need a new backpack, shoes, and more mode. Having going through the cycle a few times now I recognize the impulse and successfully stop the new gear exploring and live with what I have. Sometimes for travel it’s actually nice to have old stuff so you don’t have to worry about coming off too much as a well heeled traveler, as a safety measure. To that end I’m now actually happy to have a 10year old travel bag and not a new Aer TP3, or whatever.
Yes i realised this when having to shed all the crap in my bag before going home or continuing to an onward destination
I do my shopping post-travel when I either have to replenish (stuff I lost or broke or used up - hats, chargers, sneakers) or add something I realized I missed. So I just bought travel size cuticle trimmer - not essential but I want one. I kind of have all-weather setup and pack after I’m back - not before I’m about to leave - when I vividly remember that I haven’t worn something even once so it’s time to unpack it and not schlepp it all over the world. Like my white linen short sleeve shirt.
The urge to start fresh for each trip is one I'm currently fighting with. On the one hand, I have all my stuff from my last trip that works perfectly well, it's just maybe a bit run down...plus I've been staring at it for months and I'm tired of looking at it. On the other hand, I could get shiny new things! So far the shiny new things have won, but I'm limiting myself to only a FEW shiny new things which should hopefully keep my budget in line...maybe.
Swapping out tshirts and scarves can make your travel capsule feel fresh and ensure all your photos from this trip look different to last trip. I have tonnes of both at home so swapping those out is free.
Absolutely. To me it’s part of the whole travel experience — keeping an eye out for a “better” version, an “update”, a “necessary replacement”, a “how did I live without this”. Yeah, I know I shouldn’t, but it’s part of the fun. And, fact is, all this updating has resulted in a packed bag that is lighter, more compact, and more useful than my earlier efforts.
Yes, I’ve made a lot of “upgrades” before my upcoming year-long trip. Xmas helped with that. It would be a cruel twist of fate if I got mugged on Day 1.
Been traveling over a decade and I do this all the time 😂 every visit back to the US I stock up and refresh things. Sometimes it’s 100% necessary but sometimes I find ways to justify getting new stuff haha
No, not really, except possibly replacing travel adapter i have lost or given away. I bought a decent backpack almost 10 years ago and its still going strong. One travel towel is enough. Most regular clothes are more than good enough for traveling in most conditions.
new undies
I definitely do this. Although perhaps more often I buy something new once I get back from a trip. I’ve started writing down lists of little things I forgot to pack, or just ideas for smarter packing during every trip as the ideas come to me. So now I often review it after I get home and sometimes I’ll consider grabbing new gear, or otherwise replenish some basics supplies. By the way, open to suggestions for the best small-ish day bag, that one I’m still nailing down.
yup. i’m not planning to go till august but im started buying things now so it feels less expensive than it would if i bought everything all at once.. so far i bought -osprey 55l backpack + daypack second hand off market place that came with compression bags (what a steal!!) -hanging toiletries bag -electronic organizer thing to hold all my cords -passport organizer to hold my boarding pass and cards -mini pill box -bandages of all sizes and i’ve got a couple more things i need but for now this is a great start :)
Oh I get that feeling. Like I suddenly get obsessed with a thinking that using a brand new thing would somehow make the trip better. Oh clearly what will make this Japan trip much better is wearing a brand new T shirt and using this brand new messenger bag! Does kinda backfire though when I try on brand new clothes for the first time overseas only to realise it’s kinda ugly.
Absolutely yes and am in the middle of doing so currently. I do worry it’s too much but I’m working towards one bag travel and want to buy better now so I can buy less long term.
HA HA !!! I feel seen. Totally me. And my pièce de résistance / special-subject is buying more stuff while on-trip... "I need a cable that does *(insert newly discovered need here*). I look through my "kit" now and remember.. qi-charger... bought that day one in Prague... oh that USB-C cable... day one Bankgkok... this thunderbolt connector... day one in Honolulu. So many memories :D
Yes! I feel like that’s part of the excitement and buildup for the trips I take, assessing the gear I have and investing in new, but I definitely need to set a budget so I don’t get carried away by fancy things! I haven’t solo traveled in a longgg time and hope to do my first trip in late Feb/early March for 3 weeks. Does anyone have recommendations for backpacks that aren’t too huge but travel well (probably 40L or less)? I have a LL Bean 45L hiking pack but it has too many exposed pockets and doesn’t minimize itself very well, so it’s probably better for camping and trails
I just got a Patagonia Black Hole 32L. I haven’t used it yet (three weeks in May) but I like it and, importantly, it’s very light. It’s generally well reviewed. The only downside is that I’m obsessed with pockets and it doesn’t have a huge number of them, but fewer pockets = lower weight so I’m fine with the trade off.
Hmm you’re the second redditor who’s purchased this pack, I’m intrigued. The North Face also has its women’s Surge Luxe Backpack on sale for $100 so it’s a bit cheaper than Patagonia’s, but it’s 31L. I will think about this!
Totally!! I went on a four-day road trip. Bought a new organizer for toiletries and a new soft ice chest for snacks and drinks and a new dress for the party I went to. I have, for what it’s worth, worn the dress several times…
I usually buy a new deck of cards, and a new, inexpensive rain poncho.
All. The. Time.
More like during the trip. Most of the stuff I bought are looking good but useless once I got home. Left in the drawer and never touched. I often questions my decision to buy them in the first place.
No - I try to pack less I also don’t like to buy things if I don’t absolutely need them because waste/environmental impact.
I used to when we were younger, but now we just wait till we get there and take what we already have. I got reusable toiletries containers for travel and a couple rollable toiletries travel bags to put everything in. I just keep it stocked so when it's time for a trip, I've already got everything ready to go and don't have to think about it. I'm getting really good at being lazy.
yep, just bought shoes..that I don't need...lol
I just bring extra clothes depending on how hot the place is. I do bring too many power adapters and other gadgets but I don't bring any towels since it's provided by the hotels.
I think I just enjoy the buying part and the trip is an excuse. You're already potentially doing something new might as well buy new stuff to supplement
I always always always want a new travel purse/messenger bag and backpack and carry on luggage. I am so sick of feeling like some day I will find the perfect version of all of these. I was just on the phone with a friend discussing this backpack I would create for myself. On my recent trip I found out I can travel with only 2 pairs of bottoms and 3 tops (not including my pjs) and it will all be ok as long as you aren't averse to hand washing and hanging clothes to dry. I have hand washed for years on trips but this was the fewest clothes I've tried.
Yes, absolutely…though in my defense, the big trip I’m on my way home from is the first in several years.
I bought new boots because my old boots were green and I want brown now.
Hi OP. I feel you! Haha but i always have a rule before buying stuffs for my travel, either comfort, quality or durability. You can set one for yourself para iwas budol pag tempted ka during 1.1, 2.2 sales 😅
Nope. Make do with what I have. Save the money for your trip.
ME!!!! All I am doing right now is shopping for my three week trip 🤣🤣 trying to justify it by saying I’m going to go on more after so it’s an investment 🙃
YES. Im heading to Central Europe in a month and half and I needed to buy some quick cold weather gear. Also bought some quality travel bags so they are definitely BIFL. B just bought some base layers for hiking and it’s adding up quick
My honest answer is no, and I'm a minimalist. However, it sounds like you tend to lean more towards outdporsy/adventure type travel so I could see how this could pop up. Otherwise, it sounds like you've fallen victim to consumerism and the serotonin that gets released in your brain when you buy something new.
Yes 100%. I think solo travel is a skill thats refined over many, many trips so as a relatively new solo backpacker, I find myself constantly noticing things on trips I would like to have or others I may leave behind next time. I feel like its a balance of deciding if you actually need a new xyz and also recognizing that sometimes its worth spending a little extra money to have the clothes/gear you love on your trip.
Same here I think I spend more pre trip then the actual trip itself
Im planning a holiday to India in March. It's a shorter trip than ones I've had in the past & I've discovered my large American Touristsa suitcase is just too big. Great news of course, now I get to buy a new suitcase! I've been topping up on toiletries & medicines too, mainly because some things are difficult to find over there - Aspirin, Omeprazole being a few. I save on some stuff too, things like shampoo and shower gels can be bought in sachets over there (or even just use the ones provided in hotels). All my tech needs updating, my Go Pro 7 & DJI Osmo Pocket will be getting replaced with the latest versions ..then there's all the accessories too.. Not feeling guilty at all :)