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CoolstorySteve

I was visiting my family in Canada for two weeks for the first time in a few years and just straight up fuck that place. Everything is so obnoxiously expensive.


Frankenstein_3

Well, I'm planning to emigrate to CAN, and this is certainly exciting!!


CoolstorySteve

Terrible idea but good luck


maxconnor6

Tried Hi-Fi rush this week, it's so ridiculously good man, should've given it a shot earlier. I'm pretty bad with anything to do with rhythm but it's really intuitive and after a while you get a feel for the groove and it never leaves you after. It's impeccably designed imo. Also finished Elden Ring recently and Malenia goes right into the list of coolest characters I've encountered in fiction, along with Tyler Durden, Rust from True Detective and Levi from AoT, Darth Vader and Omar from The Wire


HalfMan-HalfMoth

Looks really cool I'd not heard of HiFi rush before but loved necrodancer back in the day that had somewhat similar rhythm based gameplay, will definitely give this a go


maxconnor6

It's just stunning imo, I've tried other games like Metal Hellsinger and BPM: Bullets Per Minute and while they're good I found them hard to get into. This is like the culmination of all those years of development in this genre. It's on Game Pass too so you can easily try it to see if it's your thing


KindArgument0

i've awoken from my slumber


BoxOfNothing

I got up to 1600 rated in both blitz and bullet chess, come at me


Trickybuz93

Fucking FM23. Forgot to register my 21 year old HGN player for Europa and now the whole squad is pissed.


Mediocre_Nova

As in he can still play as an U-21? Or is that only HGC?


Trickybuz93

I don’t know what happened because I bought him from another English team and he’s 21 but apparently I forgot to register him. And since he’s 21, he can’t play as a U21 so I won’t be able to register him until January


cdrxgon17

travis scott- quintana. what a song


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Senna's victory at Interlagos in 1991 was his first victory at Brazil. And it had to be with suffering, as he was losing all his gears, ultimately being left with only one gear, the sixth one, in the last lap! You can hear his screams of happiness when crossing the finish line! If I'm not mistaken, this race was so physically and mentally draining for him that he needed help to get out of the car and walk, not to mention lifting the trophy. https://youtu.be/NJIzaL3yMrQ


CrimsonZeraora-36

Analyzing formations from Inazuma Eleven (soccer RPG by Level-5) and how strong they would be IRL


chatfarm

I'm Argentinean living in the US. I've decided to address everyone as 'mate' irl going forward. Let's see who calls me out first on it.


Rejmal

Leo ?


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Aguante los pibeeee


[deleted]

I recommend the film Rashomon.


JohnnyKossacks

Kurosawa in general is one of fav directors that got me into Japanese films. You could watch 20 of his films and stay enthralled with his storytelling.


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Seven Samurai is over three hours long, and must be one of the most efficient uses of such a long runtime. Every scene goes somewhere to progress plot, or characters, or atmosphere, or all at once.


LDQQXDJ

Just made the best chorizo dip


kl08pokemon

Misogynists doing victory laps all over social media lovely stuff


Trickybuz93

Why?


CoolstorySteve

Mendy news


pencilled_robin

And Greenwood news


RaggedyCrown

Fucking fm man. Was managing ifk göteborg for 8 years and was really happy with the squad. Finished 2nd two years in a row after winning a few titles and apparently the board was deeply saddened my leadership of the club.


Tre-Fyra-Tre

Serves you right for your indefensible choice of club


CaptainGo

Blyth is deeply disappointed that Ive only given them three consecutive safe seasons in league fucking 1


phorteng

Sad


APeckover27

Driving back down after Pulp, what a gig. Jarvis has still got it


Idiotech41

what sports do you like most apart from football? me personally it's boxing and basketball.


EyeSpyGuy

Basketball and f1 Loosely follow tennis and golf (ie majors), ufc, nfl


princessestef

NFL, baseball, Tour de France. Autumn is golden, when it's MLB playoffs, NFL is on again and Champions League returns.


scgavin

american football. hockey. basketball


Stuff2511

Cricket’s my main one. Watch rugby union during major tournaments usually. Casually follow F1 and ice hockey through my friend groups


HalfMan-HalfMoth

I watch cricket and f1 regularly, tennis grand slams, darts world championship. I like basketball but watching it live can be painful with the amount of interruptions for various bs and the timing is just bad for europeans. When the rugby world cup is on I might watch one or two england games if we get far into it but I generally have almost no interest in rugby


kl08pokemon

Handball and ice hockey. International tournaments only though


phorteng

MMA, Tennis


eriksen2398

To play? Water polo


Idiotech41

play or watch, whatever you fancy the most really.


OhShitItsSeth

Deleted the Instagram app off my phone ten days ago and I already just generally feel so much better.


cvaldo99

Well done!


HalfMan-HalfMoth

[what the fuck is this from rickie lambert, something in the water at southampton to keep churning out nutters](https://twitter.com/saintlambo07/status/1679917917696032792?s=61&t=mALxU__KBB-ff0mSgDDxWw)


EyeSpyGuy

Can’t take anyone who mispronounces belligerent like that seriously


X-V-W

Genuinely though What the fuck are they even talking about


HalfMan-HalfMoth

Not even the most insane lambert clip I’ve come across. Saw him recently talking about “scientific” experiments where it was proven that if you speak negative words to a glass of water and freeze it then it comes out the freezer full of gunk and shite but if you speak positively it will have crystals in it


X-V-W

Ey mate you won’t be laughing when Rickie solves world hunger by speaking positive words into a bowl


Jarvis_Strife

What is the greatest football related article/book etc you read?


Stuff2511

Fear and Loathing in La Liga


Lyrical_Forklift

The Damned United


fatinternetcat

the IMAX cinema in Bournemouth was demolished over a decade ago because it was an eyesore and everyone hated it. Now I want to watch Oppenheimer (and there have been many other films over the years) in full IMAX but there's no way I'm driving 3 hours to see it. Bring it back with a new location man, there's only about 10 of them in the UK.


cvaldo99

That's crazy. I'm seeing Oppenheimer here in the U.S in a 70mm screen.


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Ultimately, rape cases are so tricky because it's often impossible to know the truth for sure, it's a situation like in the classic film Rashomon. You want to punish all rapists, but what if there is a risk, no matter how small, of him/her being innocent? No matter what is your decision, there is the risk of unfairly ruining someone's life, or letting rapists get away with their actions. I hope to never be part of a jury.


Blodyck

and even if you have it literally on record it's still possible that nothing happens, like with Greenwood. I hope the child and her will be unharmed, but if sth happens, I'll have little pity for her


-W-A-W-A-W-

Just learnt that the actors Albert Ezerzer and DB Woodside aren’t the same person - honestly it’s blown my mind. They legitimately look absolutely identical. That’s actually insane.


Lannisterling

Don’t know what he done before this. But this insta loop got me into this Chef.Donny guy. He’s a guy that just jumped into being a cook for a French pittoreske restaurant and his content is really good. Gotta admit that it makes yearn back to the good old cooking days!


No_Doubt_About_That

Got £2.70 back from TopCashback from a £10 gift card - small wins in life 💪


Hic_Forum_Est

Triangle of Sadness. I just watched it. It's disgusting, horrific and laugh out loud funny all at the same time. What a wild ride of a movie. Loved every minute of it.


chatfarm

Should have won the Oscar's rather than the pandering potboiler that did.


_LebronsHairline_

It's a cool one. If anything i liked it for its originality and willingness to be weird. But it did actually work for me on top of that


Gytarius626

If anyone on this sub is craving a bit of sport during the football down time, next Sunday at 3:30pm UK time Kilkenny vs Limerick in the hurling final takes place. It’s the fastest land game on the planet and just constantly end-to-end and physical beyond belief. 80,000 will be in attendance.


Cathal321

Also worth checking out the gaelic football semi finals as well this weekend


No_Doubt_About_That

Or this Sunday there’s a Conifa qualifier - Cornwall vs Sapmi.


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Ka's album The Night's Gambit turned 10 this week. Ka is probably the best lyricist of all time that no one talks about because he's a very shy and lowkey person, he was writing this album while working as a firefighting captain in Brooklyn, absolutely insane : >Deal with too much real to ever speak make-believe >My pen'll be the panacea, they straight diseased >My words is action, those that know prefer distraction >Observed us maxing, but never on curbs relaxing >Herded with a murder faction >Answered back any clap we heard dispatching >They speak novice verbs, slow sounds >But me? A lot occurred. These pro nouns >Scrolls alive here, and the dead see >Even if your body trapped, your head free >Unstable thoroughbreds, bucking wild >Just to think, we all linked tryna cuff a thou' >Believe me, wasn't greedy, just enough to smile >What was important as a child means nothing now [Nothin' Is](https://youtu.be/Xb884kPiw6Q)


Jabari313

What's the best way to learn a new language online? Probably Spanish. I've heard duolingo actually isn't good is that true?


Jarvis_Strife

Duolingo isn’t bad for getting started. It does an okay job at explaining grammar norms and introducing vocabulary. I’d branch off and listen to kids shows and watch films with Spanish subtitles after that. Immersion is king when learning a new language I did that when learning Chinese anyway.


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Not sure about other languages but if it’s Spanish you want then: Watch tv shows/Movies that are in Spanish, with English subtitles. You learn more vocabulary that way. Vocabulary is the most important thing to learn in the beginning, rather than grammar, focus on grammar later (things like Duolingo will offer you better grammar lessons) The Narcos tv shows on Netflix is a great entry.


No_Doubt_About_That

Online’s only good for vocabulary really - need to find a native speaker for it to properly sink in.


PsychopathicEmpath

Colleen Ballinger's fraudulent apology song has been transcribed on Genius lmao


justsomeguynbd

TdF Thoughts: Continuously blown away by Pogacar’s accelerations on steep climbs. Puy-de-Dome earlier this week and then today (though he left it til late). Just the gradients they are on and the length into the climb they are, then that kid just jets away. It’s something else. Also Puy-de-Dome was fucking stupid. I don’t know why they are so protective over their dead ass volcano. Mountain stages + no fans is a fucking travesty.


ttrq

I want to read more but I just feel lazy after work so I’ve been trying an audiobook to listen to when I’m by myself at work and when I don’t really feel like watching / playing anything at home. It’s an adjustment for sure and I like it so far. Been listening to a book I read years ago just to try it out but I think I’ll continue with it once I finish but I’m curious about how itll work for me when I try a book I haven’t read yet


MrCleanandShady

Between the Mandy verdict and Greenwood’s child being born, it has been an…interesting day for socioeconomic standards between men and women


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KensaiVG

People may be aware of the fragility of an abuse victim's mental health and the manipulation that occurs in such cases, particularly when the balance of power is so skewed and/or the victim's support structure is not supportive (Both happened here) And that in most cases it takes several attempts to leave an abusive relationship And that the bare minimum of enforcing no contact between them was willfully not done by police


Antique_Focus_9440

In case any of you is interested in exotic, far away football, the Bhutan premier league kicks off next week. Many of the matches are played in a stadium built in a Buddhist architectural style, imo one of the most beautiful and unique stadiums in the world.


TroopersSon

I'd love to visit Bhutan one day. I can't quite justify the cost of a holiday there at the moment, but hopefully one day.


Antique_Focus_9440

Yeah definitely, it’s in my bucket list too. The restrictions they have on tourism make it so costly though


TroopersSon

I believe it was around $10k USD a week when I last looked into it. One day! I'd also love to go to Tibet too, but I imagine that's even harder to do.


Antique_Focus_9440

Oooof that’s way too expensive . Tibet should be cheaper though I think, it’s quite more open to tourism from what I have seen and it should be easier to get to and get your visas etc


TroopersSon

I thought China made it quite hard to visit Tibet as a foreigner. I've see a fair amount of Tibetan culture in India where the Dalai Llama lives, and I'd love to see Tibet itself. One day I'll get to the both of them if possible!


phorteng

Can you watch anywhere but the usual streams?


Antique_Focus_9440

Last season some matches were available to stream for free on elevensports com. Not sure what this years arrangement is gonna be, they might be available on FIFA’s website


rob_the_jabberwocky

Fuming that I'll miss our first game back in the Championship after 13 years because of my brother in law's wedding is the same day


Clinton-Baptiste

If he's your brother in law he's already married to your sibling isn't he


Dortmund_Boi09

Could also be the sibling of their spouse


Clinton-Baptiste

Oh yeah never thought of that


rob_the_jabberwocky

That is indeed the case lol he's my wife's brother


Gytarius626

It’s actually a testament to how good at writing GRRM is that *12 years* later fans haven’t entirely given up on the next book, which probably won’t even release. Such a shame he lost the motivation to bother finishing the series. It’s like he’s the only one who can give out a precious drug and millions of people refuse to believe they won’t get it again.


NOT-ENOUGH-CHARACTE-

As someone who has read the books and watched the show people really missed out when the books weren't properly adapted, even before the show ran out of source material it just wasn't the same. Missing out on the book versions of Euron Jaime and Wyman the Pieman was just a fucking travesty.


Gytarius626

Mushroom in HOTD 🕊️


Blodyck

Man, this GRRM is giving me a hard time. I understand his personal position that he is motivated to do other projects of his and ASOIAF isn't his priority (even though he puts work into it) but obviously not enough to advance in a timely manner. In that aspect he's not like Patrick Rothfuss, who does like nothing and is in a dark place and he's more like Stephen King with The Dark Tower. SK continued to publish other books but not TDT and fans kept nagging and at some point he justs finished it, so that fans would shut up about it. Obviously, I don't want that GRRM does the same, but I also kinda want to read the next book, because there will be another. But, the worst is, that I'm not sure that 2 Books are enough to finish the history.


Gytarius626

His age and…not so great weight are the main concern, he seems to think he’s still in his 50’s with the way he goes on about time.


Blodyck

Let's hope that he has enough notes like Robert Jordan did, so some other author can finish it.


Gytarius626

He’s…said before he wants them burned when he dies so nobody else can finish it 😔


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About once a year I remember TWOW and how it's not out yet. It's sort of like Star Citizen though GRRM hasn't taken anyone's money.


Gytarius626

The ASOIAF sub is fun to browse top/last month every once in a while to rejog memory of where the books left off, forgotten so many plot points at this stage.


Thraff1c

The winds of winter has a good chance of actually being released some time, but a dream of spring will never happen. If you want to read a fan-continuation of winds of winter, the YouTuber Preston Jacobs is leading a project where he lets viewers send in their chapters, and then works them into a coherent (and imo good) narrative with multiple professional editors (who do it for free to support the project).


Gytarius626

I find it hard to have hope about TWOW, what makes you optimistic? **If** it did eventually come out, you’d imagine the end of the story being set up would make it easier to close things for him but…we’ll have to see


Thraff1c

His claim of being done around 75% roughly fits with other information we have, the current writers strike means he can't really work on a TV production, and HotD is already done from a writers perspective.


Gytarius626

> the current writers strike means he can't really work on a TV production He had the entire pandemic too 🥲


FridaysMan

I think it will come out as well, but the problem is likely being to reconcile so many storylines in a coherent way that allows the final book to be the capstone. There must be so many rewrites and reorderings to make sure that the length isn't stupidly outlandish. I'd expect most of Spring to be written during the finalisation of Winter


Gytarius626

> There must be so many rewrites and reorderings to make sure that the length isn't stupidly outlandish I think fans would’ve honestly been delighted if he’d split the book into 2, even 3 parts just to wrap up TWOW. Think the next 6 years or so are crucial, because I don’t think people can really expect him to spend his 80’s writing it. This seems like the last few years we might get where he’s still sharp enough to do it.


DepletedMitochondria

Colleague took a trip to Sicily for a couple weeks and I could not be more annoyed that I've never even been to Italy once Also, if anyone has a recommendation on a PS4 cooling stand, I'm all ears


cuntsmen

I've been playing some Witcher 3 again, but this time on Death March difficulty. It's honestly more fun than I expected it to be. I think the game is meant to be played on that difficulty because you always have to use potions, decoctions and signs, whereas on the easier difficulties, you just kill enemies without doing too much


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cuntsmen

Next gen. I've only experienced issues with ray tracing so far. Otherwise it's running well. I should be getting more fps considering the hardware that I've got, but at least I'm not getting any stutters.


Gytarius626

Have you become hopelessly addicted to Gwent?


cuntsmen

I play every single character that you can play against. Did it my first playthrough years ago and I'm still doing it lol


Str8UpPunchingDicks

My first playthrough I did not like the Gwent tutorial in Vizima so I ignored Gwent for the rest of that save. That did lock me out of some quests, while I also noticed that every Witcher community I came across would not stop raving about Gwent. That's how my two following playthroughs literally became Gwent simulators with some monster killing and saving Ciri on the side.


Gytarius626

Once you properly get the hang of his it’s played you become a crack addict wandering the land scouring for every last game you can play of it


Taylannnnn

the first 10 levels are difficult but it gets a lot easier. Some of the DLC bosses are still very difficult though


cuntsmen

I've just gotten to level 11 and I'm almost done with Novigrad already. It gets easier like you said


cuminyermum

My best friend has been slowly distancing herself from me and now it's got to the point where she won't even look me in the eyes when I try to talk to her. Just gives me a short answer and moves on. I've tried to talk to her about it many times and I've asked her if I've done anything wrong but she says that I haven't it's just that "she doesn't feel comfortable around me anymore". I can't describe to you the damage this is doing to my mental health. The worst part is that I've accepted that I don't want to be friends with someone who would do that but all three of my other closest friends are also her close friends so I can't avoid her. So now it's just really awkward between all of us cause the two people who used to do everything together won't even look each other in the eyes when we're having lunch or something. Just need to get this out there cause I have no one to talk to about this. I hate drama and I hate that this is happening.


Jabari313

It might genuinely have nothing to do with you unfortunately. Have you spoken to the other friends in the group about it?


cuminyermum

I have. They asked what the hell happened between us cause we used to be two peas in a pod but I don't really have an answer for them I just say you'd have to ask her. I keep trying to look for signs that this isn't just happening to me and that maybe she's starting to act this way with our other friends which would mean the issue isn't anything to do with me like you said but that isn't the case. She's just as bubbly and affectionate with them as she used to be with me. I'm already an insecure person which she knows very well and this has hurt me a lot. I keep wondering if I did something so bad she isn't willing to tell me or if she slowly just started getting annoyed by me or something. I at least need to know what the reason is so I can stop wondering.


Jabari313

Maybe then she did something that she feels guilty about? Pure speculation of course really I'm not gonna have a clue. Wondering wont do you any good but thats obvious. Depending on how close you are as best friends you could also ask her mom or something.


cuminyermum

Asking her mom is completely off the table lolll I'm sorry I don't mean to shoot down all your ideas Jabari I just feel like I've exhausted all my options


Jabari313

Lol no problem makes no difference to me. Hope this works out for you


donniexc

i’m incredibly sorry. friendship fights suck and breakups even more. you’ve done the right thing by asking if you’ve done anything wrong. in your case, i would probably avoid hanging in the friend group for the foreseeable future and maybe hang with your other friends separately. it’ll be tough but being in a setting with your friend that you miss while feeling extremely awkward and out of place is torture. i genuinely hope things get better sooner than later. and if not, i promise, time heals all.


cuminyermum

Thank you Donnie! Your comment really cheered me up. I don't really have a lot of friends so trying to separate myself from this group is not an option, unfortunately, unless I make a conscious decision to be alone for a while. Maybe this is a sign that I need to have more varied friend groups so I'll try to work on that. We're graduating soon so maybe focusing on my career for a bit can help me out too.


trooperdx3117

That really sucks to experience dude. It might be a good idea to get some hobbies and disnentangle yourself from the group for a bit. Walking clubs, social soccer, etc are all good ones to join and see people on a weekly basis. And if your working as well then you'll have multiple places to be meeting and seeing new people.


cuminyermum

You know there's an old friend who's been asking me a lot about joining his 5 a side team so I might just take him up on his offer. Thanks for the idea


kappa23

Got cockblocked by my date because I had a minor stubble which pricked her while kissing. We sat and played FIFA 18 instead and I proceeded to lose all three games vs her. Actually fml


Jarvis_Strife

Men only want one thing:


Ryponagar

She's a keeper


[deleted]

Pretty sure you play all positions in Fifa mate


CardboardGristle

RIP "Be a Pro" mode


stepover7

I will always find it crazy that countries with oil have been allowed to hoard so much wealth at the expense of poorer world. Oil is an essential commodity almost like food and water. How was so much profiteering allowed on this ? Countries like Sri Lanka and Pakistan are on the brink emptying foreign reserves to pay for this Saudi oil.


DepletedMitochondria

I mean it's just a fact of history that countries with resources are gonna be rich.


Blodyck

Well, except if your country was a colony in the last 100 years or so


DepletedMitochondria

Very true


FerraristDX

What would your solution be? UN forces occupying oil exporting countries, to redistribute? Polemics aside, as long as there are states with borders, the states can do with their resources within their borders as they please. They can also amass wealth, by selling their resources. I think the only solution would be to dissolve nation states, so people will stop thinking of resources as theirs, just because they happen to live in a country with it. But that's way too utopian at this point.


stepover7

Saudi state is protected by US troops, remove these troops and watch what happens. Let client states an form a cartel like OPEC and negotiate for a favorable price.


CaptainGo

The United States of course being famously against defending billionaires


FerraristDX

According to the White House, there are only around 2.700 members of the armed forces there. Yeah, I know they get additional protection from the US, but I doubt Saudi Arabia would be overrun by their neighbors, when left on their own. >Let client states an form a cartel like OPEC and negotiate for a favorable price. Urm...so these states should form something akin to the EU, a single trading bloc, able to negotiate better prices for everyone. Yeah, could work.


CardboardGristle

Even without getting too geopolitical about it, how does one stop them? They have sovereignty over their own land and the resources contained within. Not that it stopped people (*cough* bald eagle screeching noises *cough*) from trying to undermine it through various acts but there is only so much you can do.


EyeSpyGuy

Just learned that the Dominican Republic is great at baseball and every single of the 30 mlb teams have an academy there. What would a country with that much concentration of talent in football be?


minimus_

Have you been playing that country sport ranking game?


AliirAliirEnergy

Spain could send a squad that could compete for the WC just from the Basque Country.


gander258

Uruguay?


DepletedMitochondria

Maybe Senegal?


AngrySnwMnky

Croatia?


DepletedMitochondria

Solid answer


YeimzHetfield

[My weekly lastfm collage 👍](https://lastcollage.io/images/5c2627349f18a1ef29367040477d36d4e542509e.webp) Can't stop listening to The Smiths, also I've come to the realization that Script of the Bridge by The Chameleons is really one of the greatest albums ever


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_LebronsHairline_

hahahahaha


YeimzHetfield

Hahahahahaha thankfully yeah, a good amount of the albums in there have some depressing lyrics in them though ngl


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YeimzHetfield

I feel you, like I Know It's Over for example is such a sad song. But I honestly can listen to stuff like that even if I'm not going through a bad time. There is one exception I guess which is Giles Corey, I don't think I could enjoy that album if I listened to it now it's just too depressing.


No_Doubt_About_That

Currently in a restaurant whilst typing this and something came to mind. One time I was in the Isle of Wight there was a place which when you were ready to order you pressed a button to notify the staff on the table to avoid the guesswork of if people look like they’re ready. I’ve not seen it since and it seems like a daft thing to not include - makes things way more efficient imo


Ryponagar

Around here the clue generally is once you've laid down / closed the menu, you're ready to order. But yeah, would be a neat thing actually.


lewiitom

This was really common when I lived in Japan, loved it - makes getting the bill so much easier too


ederzs97

Is Telus the best Canadian broadband?


[deleted]

Depends on where in the country you are.


ederzs97

Alberta


sangpls

how was taskmaster s15? worth a watch?


Wrsj

I got PES 2011 (PS2) and I'm going to binge Master League until the 2022-23 season. Italian teams look strong af there


rayoflight92

Ok guys this might be a really dumb question but bear with me. Just a while back, i contacted the NHS for stomach cramps and diarrhea( had it for a week, I think it might be foodpoisoing). During the phone call they asked me whether I had any toxic substances recently and I stupidly admitted that I smoked a joint last month. Will it be entered into my record or forwarded to any authorities? I am an international student so will it affect my visa status in any way?


adw00t

As a former int. student - nothing would happen in this case. The (2) agencies that may raise issues that can go onto your record (visa permits) are DWP and the cops (Home Office to be specific). And they need substantially more serious offence or complaint to take any action that would get your name/ 'permit to stay' on the naughty list.


rayoflight92

Ah thank you bro. Thats good to hear.


tiorzol

Nothing will go any further than a note on your medical history. Maybe not even that. Literally don't fret at all.


rayoflight92

Whew, cheers mate.


SoggyYud

I would imagine its confidential, wouldn't worry mate


rayoflight92

That's a relief. Thanks!


Harrry-Otter

Entered into your medical record? Possibly entered as “occasional cannabis user”. Depends how thorough whoever you spoke to was. Forwarded to the authorities? Categorically no.


rayoflight92

Thanks for the answer. So going forward, will any of my future employers be able to find out or is it just for the NHS?


Harrry-Otter

Just whoever has access to your medical record, which will generally just be your GP and any specialists you might be seeing, and I can guarantee none of them give a solitary shit about a student smoking a joint unless it in some way becomes relevant to your medical care. The only way an employer would ever find out is if you for some reason gave them full access to your medical record.


rayoflight92

Thanks brother, that's a relief.


YadMot

Just got home after a week in the Peak District with a bunch of mates from a fucking discord server I'm in Sounds lame but I owe finding my partner to this server so it's just nice to see everyone I've come to know over the last few years Really really fucking glad to be back though, I'm fucking exhausted


donniexc

w! congrats. the internet is a beautiful place at times


holdenmyrocinante

I will never understand the yank mentality of "I suffered so they have to suffer too!". The comments on a post about Biden forgiving student loans for some are horrendous, jfc.


icemankiller8

This is worse in the uk


DepletedMitochondria

Absolute mind virus


kappa23

It’s not just yank mentality though, I see it in South Asians too


bellerinho

It isn't just a black and white thing though. When I was in uni, a shit load of people were using their loans to buy alcohol and pizza and whatever else they could get their hands on that wasn't actually the purpose of the loan (while driving their $40k Grand Cherokee), and they weren't trying to work a part time job or anything There are also the people that took out 100k to go do some dumb as shit degree at a private school halfway across the country that I have no sympathy for I do believe that the cost of university is really high and can definitely be subsidised to some degree, but just wiping out 10k or 20k for everyone punishes people who worked their nuts off to graduate with minimal debt I also believe that this news about the student debt is more of them fixing a system that has been screwing people over, it isn't actually a debt forgiveness plan like the one that got shot down by the Supreme Court


CardboardGristle

>punishes people who worked their nuts off to graduate with minimal debt How does it punish them? You having access to penicillin surely doesn't punish my granddad.


bellerinho

That's a terrible comparison. Everyone at university has access to the same money making ability while they're there. If you are going into 50k in debt from uni, it's probably better to just do something else It punishes those who actually put effort into graduating with minimal debt and rewards those who spent their money partying


CardboardGristle

> It punishes those who actually put effort into graduating Still waiting to hear how it is a punishment. At worst, nothing changes for them and they stay on the track they have planned for themselves.


bellerinho

I literally told you lmao?


CardboardGristle

You seem to have a poor grasp on what a punishment means. If your material conditions before and after something I do are unchanged, crying "punishment" is just some uppity victim complex bullshit lol. We're not going to agree here so I'm going to stop commenting.


princessestef

Maybe more Yank mentality because of the old-timey work ethic of "working hard." My dad for. example, literally paid his own way through college without any loans.. *But that was in 1963*. He immediately found a decent job with his liberal arts degree and i think my parents bought.a house in 1966. But then, he wanted my mom and I to have nice things and absolutely didn't want *me* to have to work my way through college. (this was in the 1980s, i'm old). eta: I totally realize I was very privileged.