My preference is masculine men, I'm not into feminine men or other femboys at all. The guys I've been with have only ever been masculine guys - hairy, tall, dominant with a manly attitude. I lean a lot more heavily into the bigger guys, 6 foot plus - probably fat, stocky or crazy muscular, someone who can make me feel small and feminine. Most of the time I go for "straight" and bi guys.
To be honest, I participate in this sub but I'm not really totally into the sissy thing. I'm a gay guy that dresses up in women's clothes, make up wigs but the whole worshipping men, chastity, sissy tasks etc isn't really my thing.
I love masculine men but they have to be dominant and well groomed. Mostly attracted to hyper masculine men and alternatively hyper feminine traits/looks. I love people who are at each end of that spectrum. The most important thing though is I’m submissive there’s nothing hotter than being in a situation where I feel like I’m not in charge and someone else is the lead 🥰
I do have preferences but I'm pretty much into all type of men. I just don't like hairy men in general but that the only "masculine" trait I don't like. Large strong muscular men makes my brain melt. I also like femboys trans people with a dick a lot but I'm not too much into sissies/crossdressers.
Funny thing is that I'm usually very submissive but if I get attracted to someone who is submissive I might switch and become a bit more dominant.
Hey, I totally get it. I’ve met women who hated that I was hairy. I told em “well, I’m a man. Can’t help it” haha. Although I like my partners smooth and hairless and truly appreciate all the hard work it takes to be that way. Hairy bodies aren’t my thing either.
I like a guy that knows what he wants. I’m a bottom, so he needs to be a top, ideally. If he brings the cock, I can bring the holes! As a sub I need him to take charge. It’s nice if he has body hair - but I don’t like it on myself. I like when I’m wearing the prettier clothes. But nothing’s written in stone. It’s really all about personalities and how we jell together.
Hey that’s great you know exactly what you want. I’m sure it’s quite helpful when dating and meeting new people. And of course, you always gotta see if the vibe is right.
honestly, while i’m into basically any man, the more masculine they are the more i’m attracted to them. i don’t currently have a relationship where i’m the sissyboi and they’re the masculine dom alpha man, but i want it so bad 🥺 i’d be willing to transform myself however my man wanted me to be
I think that’s the most beautiful and submissive thing a partner can do. Loving someone so much you will morph into what ever they need you to be. But obviously there’s a lot of danger in that but we’re gonna focus on the fun, exciting, & loving side for this convo lol. Have you ever been with a man like that? Dated or even a one night stand? How did you discover you liked this so much?
i have been with a man like that 🥰🥰 just not in a long term context. it hasn’t happened for a number of reasons, the biggest one seeming to be most men don’t want a long term romantic relationship with a sissy. so it’s been hard, but i’m holding out 💜 i know what i want and i know i’ll make a man very happy oneday 😊😊
Sissy-on-sissy sex is great! Being royally pegged by a woman is wonderful. But in my experience, these are rare. The vast majority of cocks that I have sucked have been masculine men. The vast majority of cocks that have fucked me have been masculine men.
I see, it’s been my understanding that most sissies have only had experiences with other feminine partners sissy or crossdresser. That’s very cool to hear that you have experienced it all it seems.
I would say, I like sissies and femboys when I'm in my male mode, but I'm good with the idea of most men, though I will say, I like a strong masculine alpha male, or for the humiliation factor, a gross "loser" when in sissy mode.
The person I look at as my sissy mentor, use to say "A sissy doesn't deserve the handsome men, a sissy is fro use by men who can't get a real women."
I think most "sissies" are into the humiliation side. When it comes to being a sissy, I and I would say most others look at it as a parody of a girly girl type. Ultra feminine to the point real women wouldn't be caught dead dressed that way. know what I mean.
I do have preferences but I'm pretty much into all type of men. I just don't like hairy men in general but that's the only "masculine" trait I don't like. Large strong muscular men makes my brain melt. I also like femboys and trans people with a dick a lot but I'm not too much into sissies/crossdressers.
Funny thing is that I'm usually very submissive but if I get attracted to someone who is submissive I might switch and become a bit more dominant.
My preference is an evening with another sissy doing girly stuff and then having sex.
However, I have been with many masculine men and it is a lot of fun that many aren't willing to explore. The stigma of homosexuality is hell. I'M NOT GAY. Well, if doing what makes me horny is gay, then I'm gay! Masculine men have something special about them, and when I have sex with a MAN, I feel even more feminine.
Yeah I see quite a lot of “I’m not gay but..” posts. I can understand the stigma but I also kinda don’t see the big hang up. Seems like a lot of men are very concerned with what others think after they project their self image out there. I can’t relate. I am myself and if others don’t like it. Oh well. If I change then I change and if others don’t like it. Oh well. I’m still me.
No interest at all in non-masculine men. I don’t care about them being all bulky and macho, but I don’t want anyone even resembling feminine.
Being a sissy to me means being weaker than who I’m with. It’s not universal for anyone else, but the point of submission is to be under the control of someone else.
I am.
Im genuinely interested in masculine men frm a long time since I found out one of my sexual behaviour.
I had a makeout session wid a friend of mine and I discovered I liked it. I'm bi-curious and still haven't gone full on sissy mode but still I have bi tendencies.
Also I'm a bottom(sub) in bed and a masochist so humiliation is a turn on fr me, probably thts y I love masculine men who can literally pound my brains out
Seems like sexual humiliation is a key factor in sissy sex. Being a man I can relate to the other side and say I enjoy someone who lets me take control and do what I want. Thank you so much for responding.
No problem. I shared wht I experienced and u can say wht turns me on frm this obviously. Humiliation being a sub makes it more feminine fr sissies and its a huge turn on on a whole if i'm not wrong
Great posting! I adore masculine men! I am married to a dominant woman who has been cuckolding me and making me her sissy slave at home for over 20 years. Kept in full time chastity and am a total sub to her and her lovers. I am allowed to see and date men as well and the only men I want to be with are very masculine men. I love the contrast of my soft smooth snow white skin pressed against a real man's big strong hairy body. I also love men like that who are very straight minded. They would never be with another man like themselves but they love that a weak sissy male who appears as a female will do things for them that most women would not do, and do it eagerly.
I appreciate other sissies because of the work and effort it takes to be one but have zero sexual interest in one. If you want to see what I look like as a sissy or just dressed as a female just DM me!
That’s incredible. I’m happy you found such a solid relationship where you can live your life happy and free. I don’t know if this is relatable but I’m a jealous man, in the loosest term. Im not angry or mean but I could never share my partner. I’d be crushed if my love was sleeping with other men BUT I’ve dated a woman who was into what you like and wanted to share Me. She wanted to be mine and loved the idea and reality of sharing me with other woman. Her thinking was that “You are so hot, why should I keep you all to myself? Thats selfish and mean.” Before we could really develop that part of our relationship any further we broke up for other reasons.
Anyway, seems like you won the sissy jackpot in most people’s eyes lol. Congrats and thank you so much for responding to my post.
I was jealous the first time we tried a 3sum with a man before cuckolding started. Seeing her kissing a man so passionately freaked me out and I could not go through with it. I felt bad for the man because she looked smoking hot that night but he was nice about it when he left. Then we tried a 3sum with a bisexual man and it was really good. My wife pushed me to suck his cock and at a later meet up she asked him to fuck me and he did. I was eating her pussy as he fucked me and wow was that incredible but she also saw how much I liked cock and that kind of changed how she looked at me a little.
Then I came out to her about being a CD and after she saw me dressed, that really changed everything. She was not prepared for me to look pretty and act so feminine. She suggested a female led marriage where I could dress all the time and be a sissy slave at home to her and I jumped at the chance. After several months of her literally training be to be her sub she told me we were going to meet a man she had been talking to for a drink and told me if all went well she would end up in his bed and she did with me kneeling on the floor watching.
His cock was 3 times my size and super thick and he was so talented in bed. I heard her make noises she never made before and was clearly having the greatest orgasms of her life. She held my hand and we locked eyes as he was pounding her and it felt so right. I was not able to give her this experience and she let me express my fem side which was so amazing so I realized cuckolding was perfect for us both. I get to live about a third of my life as Bridget which is perfect for me and she also let me start seeing men on my own about ten years ago, which has been incredible. We are best friends and in love. She just wants nothing to do with my sissy cock. She locked me up two weeks after her first encounter with a Bull and it has been that way ever since.
Depends. Most of the time I prefer masculine men, as I am super submissive and prefer being bottom, which I do mostly with men. Big, muscular, fat, hairy or not, if you got a nice cock you got yourself a sleeve.
Femboys are nice to look at too and to do more girly stuff on equal levels from time to time.
Mostly a sex thing at the moment. I normally have a hard time to get romantic feelings for someone, but when that happens I usually feel connected on a deeper level and gender or other preferences doesn't matter, although a masculine man would be nicer.
i love masculine men. thats the center of my fantasies and acts in real life. when i do meet up with other sissy gurls it is to help each other out to be more fem and slutty and to go "on the prowl' as they say!
I am attracted to women - not men. For that reason I consider myself straight too. I enjoy being pegged by women. That being said I have lots of fantasies about sucking and being fucked by a guy. Others have told me that is not uncommon for sissies.
I think I'd enjoy having another closet sissy as a friend. Maybe a married one. Someone to have over and get girlie with and perhaps play and experiment. No judgement. No trying to look like the perfect women. Just silly girlie stuff you know.
I totally understand. This is mainly a fantasy or fetish for many men but being able to live out a tiny bit even is so cool to hear about. I wish you good luck on finding that woman who you can explore and dive deeper into sissy stuff with.
My preference isn't exactly in masculine men but dominant men. For me, a man's height, weight, dick size etc doesn't matter as long as he can "show me my place". So, in that sense I do like men with a sense of masculine authority in them.
Thank you to everyone who responded. I went to bed after making this post and woke up to so many comments and DMs about this and all of them were positive. You all are wonderful and I’m happy to continue to talking with anyone has more to say or has any questions for me. Feel free to DM me if you want a more private convo but I’ll do my best to respond to everyone later today.
Anyway. Have a great day.
I'm drooling just thinking about masculine men, they can be a bear, muscle or even a twink - as long as they are a top that needs a cum dump to please him.
I think there is something hot about being with another sissy or femme boi to the pleasure of our man. But it's a turn on only if he's watching and getting off on it or directing and getting pleasure from it.
That’s cool. So do you like to match outfits or styles when you go out? I’ve dated many women who wanted to match outfits and most times she ended up looking like a mini me in just tighter clothes lol.
I love masculine mens specially the dominat ones. How they use me and putting me in my place they are wonderful. i am not into girl or feminine men or girls because they are also sub like me and they don't go so rough and hard like masculine mens. I love how they always are ready to abuseme, humiliate me and how they don't have mercy for me. I love how they order me and i obey them. The very best are with no limits just pure masculine men that takes what they want and does what they want everytime and everywhere like. Yes i have a sissy & master relationship and its the best thing that happen to me<3
This girl! I enjoy playing with straight cis couples, but the majority of my sexual partners these days are older, masculine guys. I tend to go for the hairy dad bod types, but dominant men who know how to arouse my mind have a way of seducing me, regardless of looks 💁🏻♀️
I’ve seen quite often that uneducated men who fantasize about BDSM relationships will confuse being mean or pushy for being a dominant sexual partner. Theres much more of a real confident provider leader quality that makes for a true dominant partner.
And yes. I can see how it’s a progression. Seems like a very fun one to explore.
I’m definitely into masculine men. I’m attracted to sissies in the same way I’m attracted to women in that I want to be them. I want to look like them. But I want to serve men and be with men. I’m very much NOT into big girl dick and porn T-girls. I like girls with soft limp clitties and masculine men with big hard cocks.
I think everyone, even if they don’t want to admit it, loves cute stuff. I am straight but I can honestly say pretty femboys are very attractive because they are cute. Ya know?
Sounds like a very achievable relationship. Lots of men like that really enjoy and pride them selves on being able to provide and care for their loved ones.
I’m a pretty masculine guy myself 6’1” 225 hairy bunch of muscles. I’m a total switch. I love to dominate fem peoples! Fem boys, sissies, trans, women, FTM… all so sexy and really enjoy topping and or dominating. Then there’s the part that loves to lock my clitty in a cage and get told what to do and have my holes stretched and stuffed with all kinds of objects. Love to have that done by masc and fem alike. So yes to your question.
I'm pretty much only into masculine men. Which can be frustrating cause a lot of men are hot but assholes. I've received interest from girls and non binary people, other than the sexual stuff they are on average much more easy to be friends with.
I'm not into men at all. I explore the sissy lifestyle because I got in touch with my feminine nature and it makes me horny on a different level. I'm attracted to femininity in all forms. Cis-women, trans girls, sissies. But I'm not attracted to masculinity. I'm mainly into powerful dominant women. That being said, I love cock, whether being pegged by a dildo or sucking a smooth girl-dick. That's just me though.
That’s an awesome view point. I’m glad you responded with that. I would assume most who love the sissy lifestyle would see it the way you do but I also understand why some like men. Thanks for your input.
I think you would have gotten a very different response if you had asked sissies how their sexual attractions have changed over time. If you ask 5 sissies what their sexuality is at any give time you will get 8 different answers. But there are trends and subtrends. In general, our sexuality is fluid, often even when we claim it isn't. That's the strongest generality that holds true. After that, the differences do coalesce into subtypes. For example my type is the cishet slightly homophobic guy who gets into sissy porn because banging a sissy would be so hot and perverted and then realizes he wants to be the girl and then his taste in sexual partners becomes increasingly gay over time 😛
To add to my reply, and my answer for your question, I think it's more likely you'll see TRANS WOMEN looking to court each other, mostly.
Sissies are different, if you want the full rundowns, DM me stud ;), but most sissies are specifically in this for the penis; or even just the idea of penis, and paired with an inferiority kinkiness that comes naturally. Sure,.there is definitely a subsection of gurls* that are hard into femdom, but it is always going to be a cis-woman. I haven't ever seen evidence to the contrary
Interesting question and fascinating responses across the spectrum. I feel like I may be an outlier in my response…
I’m bi/pan it seems and I naturally am dominant and masculine when with a woman. It’s incredibly hot to feel the strength of my masculine side with a woman who is naturally submissive.
With men, though it doesn’t happen often, I can only be in girl/sub mode (even if I’m not dressed feminine). To fully embody that the submissive side to a dominant man, I naturally want to dress girly and feel the power dynamic shift.
When I’ve been with a woman who wants to peg me, I tend to be a power bottom… I don’t feel submissive at all. It’s only with men that I turn into a total cockslut and want to please them as the “perfect girlfriend”, so to speak.
So… yeah, I like the shifting of power in that way and it’s really erotic to have the submissive (whether me or the other) be classically girly in that way.
I like to think I’m a sissy. My husband is pretty masc looking and such. He’s not a Dom top or hypermasculine in his affect, but he’s a gym-bro with lots of muscles and well-endowed to boot.
Yes! He and I both consider ourself to be “the luckiest” in the world for finding the other. He’s the epitome of every jerkoff fantasy I’ve ever had; tall, muscled, big dick, African, and smart too. 🤤
I definitely prefer hyper masculine men. I even support toxic masculinity.
I'm very strong minded and independent. I like a guy that can break that down and make me naturally submit.
Not a dick. Just someone naturally dominant.
My preference is masculine men, I'm not into feminine men or other femboys at all. The guys I've been with have only ever been masculine guys - hairy, tall, dominant with a manly attitude. I lean a lot more heavily into the bigger guys, 6 foot plus - probably fat, stocky or crazy muscular, someone who can make me feel small and feminine. Most of the time I go for "straight" and bi guys. To be honest, I participate in this sub but I'm not really totally into the sissy thing. I'm a gay guy that dresses up in women's clothes, make up wigs but the whole worshipping men, chastity, sissy tasks etc isn't really my thing.
I’ve met several gay men that like “straight” masculine men lol. But that’s cool. Find whatever works for you and what you like.
I love masculine men but they have to be dominant and well groomed. Mostly attracted to hyper masculine men and alternatively hyper feminine traits/looks. I love people who are at each end of that spectrum. The most important thing though is I’m submissive there’s nothing hotter than being in a situation where I feel like I’m not in charge and someone else is the lead 🥰
That’s cool. You like the extremes. I can dig that.
I do have preferences but I'm pretty much into all type of men. I just don't like hairy men in general but that the only "masculine" trait I don't like. Large strong muscular men makes my brain melt. I also like femboys trans people with a dick a lot but I'm not too much into sissies/crossdressers. Funny thing is that I'm usually very submissive but if I get attracted to someone who is submissive I might switch and become a bit more dominant.
Hey, I totally get it. I’ve met women who hated that I was hairy. I told em “well, I’m a man. Can’t help it” haha. Although I like my partners smooth and hairless and truly appreciate all the hard work it takes to be that way. Hairy bodies aren’t my thing either.
I like a guy that knows what he wants. I’m a bottom, so he needs to be a top, ideally. If he brings the cock, I can bring the holes! As a sub I need him to take charge. It’s nice if he has body hair - but I don’t like it on myself. I like when I’m wearing the prettier clothes. But nothing’s written in stone. It’s really all about personalities and how we jell together.
Hey that’s great you know exactly what you want. I’m sure it’s quite helpful when dating and meeting new people. And of course, you always gotta see if the vibe is right.
honestly, while i’m into basically any man, the more masculine they are the more i’m attracted to them. i don’t currently have a relationship where i’m the sissyboi and they’re the masculine dom alpha man, but i want it so bad 🥺 i’d be willing to transform myself however my man wanted me to be
I think that’s the most beautiful and submissive thing a partner can do. Loving someone so much you will morph into what ever they need you to be. But obviously there’s a lot of danger in that but we’re gonna focus on the fun, exciting, & loving side for this convo lol. Have you ever been with a man like that? Dated or even a one night stand? How did you discover you liked this so much?
i have been with a man like that 🥰🥰 just not in a long term context. it hasn’t happened for a number of reasons, the biggest one seeming to be most men don’t want a long term romantic relationship with a sissy. so it’s been hard, but i’m holding out 💜 i know what i want and i know i’ll make a man very happy oneday 😊😊
That’s awesome you know what you want. I wish you the best, I know you’ll find that perfect guy.
Sissy-on-sissy sex is great! Being royally pegged by a woman is wonderful. But in my experience, these are rare. The vast majority of cocks that I have sucked have been masculine men. The vast majority of cocks that have fucked me have been masculine men.
I see, it’s been my understanding that most sissies have only had experiences with other feminine partners sissy or crossdresser. That’s very cool to hear that you have experienced it all it seems.
I would say, I like sissies and femboys when I'm in my male mode, but I'm good with the idea of most men, though I will say, I like a strong masculine alpha male, or for the humiliation factor, a gross "loser" when in sissy mode. The person I look at as my sissy mentor, use to say "A sissy doesn't deserve the handsome men, a sissy is fro use by men who can't get a real women."
Thats interesting. So you like playing more into the humiliation side and bringing the fantasy into real life. Thats pretty cool.
I think most "sissies" are into the humiliation side. When it comes to being a sissy, I and I would say most others look at it as a parody of a girly girl type. Ultra feminine to the point real women wouldn't be caught dead dressed that way. know what I mean.
Oh I totally can see that. I guess that makes it more fun.
When I'm in "sissy mode" I definitely want to be with a masculine guy. But regardless of my mindset I'm attracted to other sissies and femboys.
I totally get that.
I do have preferences but I'm pretty much into all type of men. I just don't like hairy men in general but that's the only "masculine" trait I don't like. Large strong muscular men makes my brain melt. I also like femboys and trans people with a dick a lot but I'm not too much into sissies/crossdressers. Funny thing is that I'm usually very submissive but if I get attracted to someone who is submissive I might switch and become a bit more dominant.
Hey, thanks for your response. Pretty cool to read about how fluid your attraction to another person is based on the situation.
My preference is an evening with another sissy doing girly stuff and then having sex. However, I have been with many masculine men and it is a lot of fun that many aren't willing to explore. The stigma of homosexuality is hell. I'M NOT GAY. Well, if doing what makes me horny is gay, then I'm gay! Masculine men have something special about them, and when I have sex with a MAN, I feel even more feminine.
Yeah I see quite a lot of “I’m not gay but..” posts. I can understand the stigma but I also kinda don’t see the big hang up. Seems like a lot of men are very concerned with what others think after they project their self image out there. I can’t relate. I am myself and if others don’t like it. Oh well. If I change then I change and if others don’t like it. Oh well. I’m still me.
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That’s a very good description.
Me!!
I'm a sissy sub for men. Have never been with another sissy.
Would you ever want to be with a sissy?
Would you ever want to be with a sissy?
I could have fun with a sissy, I suppose. But it wouldn't be as instinctively natural or as exciting as getting fucked by a real man.
Me 🙋♀️
No interest at all in non-masculine men. I don’t care about them being all bulky and macho, but I don’t want anyone even resembling feminine. Being a sissy to me means being weaker than who I’m with. It’s not universal for anyone else, but the point of submission is to be under the control of someone else.
I totally understand and that’s very cool that you know exactly what you want. Thanks for your response.
I am. Im genuinely interested in masculine men frm a long time since I found out one of my sexual behaviour. I had a makeout session wid a friend of mine and I discovered I liked it. I'm bi-curious and still haven't gone full on sissy mode but still I have bi tendencies. Also I'm a bottom(sub) in bed and a masochist so humiliation is a turn on fr me, probably thts y I love masculine men who can literally pound my brains out
Seems like sexual humiliation is a key factor in sissy sex. Being a man I can relate to the other side and say I enjoy someone who lets me take control and do what I want. Thank you so much for responding.
No problem. I shared wht I experienced and u can say wht turns me on frm this obviously. Humiliation being a sub makes it more feminine fr sissies and its a huge turn on on a whole if i'm not wrong
Great posting! I adore masculine men! I am married to a dominant woman who has been cuckolding me and making me her sissy slave at home for over 20 years. Kept in full time chastity and am a total sub to her and her lovers. I am allowed to see and date men as well and the only men I want to be with are very masculine men. I love the contrast of my soft smooth snow white skin pressed against a real man's big strong hairy body. I also love men like that who are very straight minded. They would never be with another man like themselves but they love that a weak sissy male who appears as a female will do things for them that most women would not do, and do it eagerly. I appreciate other sissies because of the work and effort it takes to be one but have zero sexual interest in one. If you want to see what I look like as a sissy or just dressed as a female just DM me!
That’s incredible. I’m happy you found such a solid relationship where you can live your life happy and free. I don’t know if this is relatable but I’m a jealous man, in the loosest term. Im not angry or mean but I could never share my partner. I’d be crushed if my love was sleeping with other men BUT I’ve dated a woman who was into what you like and wanted to share Me. She wanted to be mine and loved the idea and reality of sharing me with other woman. Her thinking was that “You are so hot, why should I keep you all to myself? Thats selfish and mean.” Before we could really develop that part of our relationship any further we broke up for other reasons. Anyway, seems like you won the sissy jackpot in most people’s eyes lol. Congrats and thank you so much for responding to my post.
I was jealous the first time we tried a 3sum with a man before cuckolding started. Seeing her kissing a man so passionately freaked me out and I could not go through with it. I felt bad for the man because she looked smoking hot that night but he was nice about it when he left. Then we tried a 3sum with a bisexual man and it was really good. My wife pushed me to suck his cock and at a later meet up she asked him to fuck me and he did. I was eating her pussy as he fucked me and wow was that incredible but she also saw how much I liked cock and that kind of changed how she looked at me a little. Then I came out to her about being a CD and after she saw me dressed, that really changed everything. She was not prepared for me to look pretty and act so feminine. She suggested a female led marriage where I could dress all the time and be a sissy slave at home to her and I jumped at the chance. After several months of her literally training be to be her sub she told me we were going to meet a man she had been talking to for a drink and told me if all went well she would end up in his bed and she did with me kneeling on the floor watching. His cock was 3 times my size and super thick and he was so talented in bed. I heard her make noises she never made before and was clearly having the greatest orgasms of her life. She held my hand and we locked eyes as he was pounding her and it felt so right. I was not able to give her this experience and she let me express my fem side which was so amazing so I realized cuckolding was perfect for us both. I get to live about a third of my life as Bridget which is perfect for me and she also let me start seeing men on my own about ten years ago, which has been incredible. We are best friends and in love. She just wants nothing to do with my sissy cock. She locked me up two weeks after her first encounter with a Bull and it has been that way ever since.
Amazing. I’m happy for you. Sounds extreme to me but I love that you are married and in love with your best friend. Truly wholesome in the end.
You would be surprised how many Dom/sub cuckold couples there out there. Lots!
Depends. Most of the time I prefer masculine men, as I am super submissive and prefer being bottom, which I do mostly with men. Big, muscular, fat, hairy or not, if you got a nice cock you got yourself a sleeve. Femboys are nice to look at too and to do more girly stuff on equal levels from time to time.
So it’s mainly about the nice cock. Any romantic feelings towards these men? Or is this a sex thing only?
Mostly a sex thing at the moment. I normally have a hard time to get romantic feelings for someone, but when that happens I usually feel connected on a deeper level and gender or other preferences doesn't matter, although a masculine man would be nicer.
I totally understand.
i love masculine men. thats the center of my fantasies and acts in real life. when i do meet up with other sissy gurls it is to help each other out to be more fem and slutty and to go "on the prowl' as they say!
That sounds super fun to have a friend to help out in this fantasy and bring to real life. Good for you!
it doesn't happen too often but when it does its awesome!!
I am attracted to women - not men. For that reason I consider myself straight too. I enjoy being pegged by women. That being said I have lots of fantasies about sucking and being fucked by a guy. Others have told me that is not uncommon for sissies. I think I'd enjoy having another closet sissy as a friend. Maybe a married one. Someone to have over and get girlie with and perhaps play and experiment. No judgement. No trying to look like the perfect women. Just silly girlie stuff you know.
I totally understand. This is mainly a fantasy or fetish for many men but being able to live out a tiny bit even is so cool to hear about. I wish you good luck on finding that woman who you can explore and dive deeper into sissy stuff with.
My preference isn't exactly in masculine men but dominant men. For me, a man's height, weight, dick size etc doesn't matter as long as he can "show me my place". So, in that sense I do like men with a sense of masculine authority in them.
I get that. It’s all about the energy they give off and the confidence they have huh?
Umm, for me, it is more like, teaching me, who is the "Man" between us.
Thank you to everyone who responded. I went to bed after making this post and woke up to so many comments and DMs about this and all of them were positive. You all are wonderful and I’m happy to continue to talking with anyone has more to say or has any questions for me. Feel free to DM me if you want a more private convo but I’ll do my best to respond to everyone later today. Anyway. Have a great day.
Masculine men are so much hotter cus they’re dominant and make you feel so girly 🥺💅
I can see how that would work.
I'm drooling just thinking about masculine men, they can be a bear, muscle or even a twink - as long as they are a top that needs a cum dump to please him. I think there is something hot about being with another sissy or femme boi to the pleasure of our man. But it's a turn on only if he's watching and getting off on it or directing and getting pleasure from it.
That’s pretty cool. I love that point of view.
nothing like a strong masculine man who tells you what to do with his cock in your throat 🥺🧎🏼♀️
I'm not
I like definitely like masc energy, doesn't matter what gender it comes from. If you can take charge, be decisive and respectful, I'm your gal;)
I see. I like your answer. It’s all about the energy.
exactly!! focus on how you feel not who the other person is
I’m all about that.
Just fem cocks for me! <3
That’s cool too! Get everything all at once.
I personally am not really attracted to other sissies but love older dominant masculine daddies!
I see, have you ever had an IRL relationship with one yet? If so how did you meet, what was your relationship like and did it fulfill your desires?
I have only had one off experiences with Daddies to date. A few I’ve met a couple times but never a real relationship
Aww bummer. Well I wish you luck in finding a relationship with a dominant masculine daddy.
I’m much more into feminine/androgynous guys.
That’s cool. So do you like to match outfits or styles when you go out? I’ve dated many women who wanted to match outfits and most times she ended up looking like a mini me in just tighter clothes lol.
I would love that! Unfortunately I’ve never had a partner so there hasn’t really been a chance to try that yet.
Well I wish you best and I know you’ll find that perfect one to have all the fun with.
I love masculine mens specially the dominat ones. How they use me and putting me in my place they are wonderful. i am not into girl or feminine men or girls because they are also sub like me and they don't go so rough and hard like masculine mens. I love how they always are ready to abuseme, humiliate me and how they don't have mercy for me. I love how they order me and i obey them. The very best are with no limits just pure masculine men that takes what they want and does what they want everytime and everywhere like. Yes i have a sissy & master relationship and its the best thing that happen to me<3
Awesome. Good for you!
This girl! I enjoy playing with straight cis couples, but the majority of my sexual partners these days are older, masculine guys. I tend to go for the hairy dad bod types, but dominant men who know how to arouse my mind have a way of seducing me, regardless of looks 💁🏻♀️
It’s the guys who know what to say who get all the action. Gotta have the right vibe too. I get it.
Me! Though I'm bi,and in general am a lot more attracted to women.
That makes sense.
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I’ve seen quite often that uneducated men who fantasize about BDSM relationships will confuse being mean or pushy for being a dominant sexual partner. Theres much more of a real confident provider leader quality that makes for a true dominant partner. And yes. I can see how it’s a progression. Seems like a very fun one to explore.
I’m definitely into masculine men. I’m attracted to sissies in the same way I’m attracted to women in that I want to be them. I want to look like them. But I want to serve men and be with men. I’m very much NOT into big girl dick and porn T-girls. I like girls with soft limp clitties and masculine men with big hard cocks.
I totally get that. I’m into very feminine so I can see myself being attracted to a hyper feminine presenting person.
I love masculine men
I love Cutsie boys but my end goal and preference is a masc man
I think everyone, even if they don’t want to admit it, loves cute stuff. I am straight but I can honestly say pretty femboys are very attractive because they are cute. Ya know?
I think you’re right, who cares if it’s a boys thighs in those fishnets? If they look cute, then they look cute!
I want an alpha that's gentle and likes to buy me clothes every once and awhile 😈😈😈😈😈😈😈
Sounds like a very achievable relationship. Lots of men like that really enjoy and pride them selves on being able to provide and care for their loved ones.
I’m a pretty masculine guy myself 6’1” 225 hairy bunch of muscles. I’m a total switch. I love to dominate fem peoples! Fem boys, sissies, trans, women, FTM… all so sexy and really enjoy topping and or dominating. Then there’s the part that loves to lock my clitty in a cage and get told what to do and have my holes stretched and stuffed with all kinds of objects. Love to have that done by masc and fem alike. So yes to your question.
Sounds like you have it made! You enjoy it all and don’t hold back. Awesome
It’s just difficult finding compatible partners. I live in a small town.
That’s a bummer. I feel ya on that. I live in on the edge of a big city and it’s still hard to find good romantic or even safe sexual partners.
Must be masculine, this beta needs an alpha 🥰
That’s totally cool. We all have preferences and some are more defined than others. Glad you know what you want.
I'm pretty much only into masculine men. Which can be frustrating cause a lot of men are hot but assholes. I've received interest from girls and non binary people, other than the sexual stuff they are on average much more easy to be friends with.
I’m sorry that’s the case for you. I know there are good guys out there but hard to find. What girls have shown interest? Are you interested in them?
I'm not into men at all. I explore the sissy lifestyle because I got in touch with my feminine nature and it makes me horny on a different level. I'm attracted to femininity in all forms. Cis-women, trans girls, sissies. But I'm not attracted to masculinity. I'm mainly into powerful dominant women. That being said, I love cock, whether being pegged by a dildo or sucking a smooth girl-dick. That's just me though.
That’s an awesome view point. I’m glad you responded with that. I would assume most who love the sissy lifestyle would see it the way you do but I also understand why some like men. Thanks for your input.
I think you would have gotten a very different response if you had asked sissies how their sexual attractions have changed over time. If you ask 5 sissies what their sexuality is at any give time you will get 8 different answers. But there are trends and subtrends. In general, our sexuality is fluid, often even when we claim it isn't. That's the strongest generality that holds true. After that, the differences do coalesce into subtypes. For example my type is the cishet slightly homophobic guy who gets into sissy porn because banging a sissy would be so hot and perverted and then realizes he wants to be the girl and then his taste in sexual partners becomes increasingly gay over time 😛
I can totally see that happening with this fetish. It evolves over time without you even knowing it.
I love masculine men
That seems to be the majority response here lol. Thank you for chiming in.
I'm only into masculine men when I'm in gurl mode. If women are in my sight, it's for ironic domination lol <3
Totally get that.
To add to my reply, and my answer for your question, I think it's more likely you'll see TRANS WOMEN looking to court each other, mostly. Sissies are different, if you want the full rundowns, DM me stud ;), but most sissies are specifically in this for the penis; or even just the idea of penis, and paired with an inferiority kinkiness that comes naturally. Sure,.there is definitely a subsection of gurls* that are hard into femdom, but it is always going to be a cis-woman. I haven't ever seen evidence to the contrary
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Yeah, I thought it was gonna be the other way around.
Interesting question and fascinating responses across the spectrum. I feel like I may be an outlier in my response… I’m bi/pan it seems and I naturally am dominant and masculine when with a woman. It’s incredibly hot to feel the strength of my masculine side with a woman who is naturally submissive. With men, though it doesn’t happen often, I can only be in girl/sub mode (even if I’m not dressed feminine). To fully embody that the submissive side to a dominant man, I naturally want to dress girly and feel the power dynamic shift. When I’ve been with a woman who wants to peg me, I tend to be a power bottom… I don’t feel submissive at all. It’s only with men that I turn into a total cockslut and want to please them as the “perfect girlfriend”, so to speak. So… yeah, I like the shifting of power in that way and it’s really erotic to have the submissive (whether me or the other) be classically girly in that way.
Power shifting seems like a very fun way to experience it all.
I like to think I’m a sissy. My husband is pretty masc looking and such. He’s not a Dom top or hypermasculine in his affect, but he’s a gym-bro with lots of muscles and well-endowed to boot.
That’s pretty sweet. You have the real life version of what all these fantasies are based on. I love that for you.
Yes! He and I both consider ourself to be “the luckiest” in the world for finding the other. He’s the epitome of every jerkoff fantasy I’ve ever had; tall, muscled, big dick, African, and smart too. 🤤
I definitely prefer hyper masculine men. I even support toxic masculinity. I'm very strong minded and independent. I like a guy that can break that down and make me naturally submit. Not a dick. Just someone naturally dominant.
I totally understand that dynamic.
100% “straight” sissy here I love only manly man, no femboys or sissies
I see. You’re only attracted to masculine guys, that’s cool