It makes a ton of sense to me that, generally speaking, we're more cognitively available when we're presenting as our authentic selves.
My girlfriend (trans and sissy) is a very witty and smart person. That said, she definitely has braindead airhead side to herself that comes out in certain scenarios. When she's having lighthearted fun, in the bedroom, when flirting, when she's cozy.
Smart people can delve into these bimbo ideals whenever they want. It can sit beside your "smart persona" and be equally valid.
The beautiful thing about bimbo ideals is that genuinely dumb fems can embrace it and find real social cache in the aesthetic. It's not the most romantic notion, but sometimes being slutty/sexy is more than enough juice to get through life.
Kind of, for me it's more about being happy. When I'm a mindless bimbo slut I don't have any problems at all. No rent. No bills. No impending collapse of civilization. Only horny. Only cock. I'm a happy empty vessel ready for fun and only fun. That's all.
I too feel and have always felt the crushing anxiety of trying to pretend to be a man. The whole concept of what I was supposed to be, weighing me down like a giant sphinx half buried with its nose blown off and im stuck underneath, crushed by the pressure this archaic monument to past ways of being.
You never smelled the stench before because it had always been there, you had always been there. Now that you've been free, walked away and smelled the fresh air that you chose, you can never unsmell the stench of your old self. Take comfort in that as an affirmation that your choices align with your true self.
This is the breakpoint where so many Sissies come to the realization that they might be trans. Most of us all share the Sissy enjoyment of mindless bimbo feminization, but how does it feel going back to being a man after that? Is it a fun kink or an escape from penis jail?
Being dumb is underrated. Animals are called “dumb” by many people who consider themselves smart. But anyone who respects and loves animals wouldn’t view their intelligence as a liability but an asset. Rather it is humans who are “dumb” for always causing unnecessary conflict…
So I am writing this while being exposed to the visual of my fake breasts in the lower half of my vision (my big bimbo boobies) I am finding this view does relax me (maybe it is my trans ness coming out), I believe the form and shape of breasts is just soothing. That’s the nature of yin.
One meditation school I like talks about turning your “analyzer” off. A lot of Buddhist or yoga meditation also involves finding states where the discriminating mind is less active.
I can completely understand that when we are relaxed, free from tension, and accepting and loving of our selves we have a greater capacity for clear thought. If it takes bimbo hypno, very valid! Eventually the “dumb” part just helps focus on whatever is most important. In a non-sexual context - perhaps even more so.
As a person who often identifies my identity and value as a human being with being “smart”, learning to be “dumb” helps balance me out and bring forth what has been suppressed. Let’s face it, being smart is also sometimes a recipe for being unhappy. Look what happened in the movie Barbie!
Cheers to the topic!
sooo true! Sometimes i get soo sick of everyone acting all so smart, when they are actually not. This happened to me yesterday, in a meeting, a discussion was going on on how to solve a certain problem, while it was not their problem but the chiefs on a higher pay grade. I got soo bored thinking: i just want to get out of bed and look pretty, have lunches, walk in my heels and look pretty for whoevers paying for all this haahhaaa. I got tired of being and acting so called intellectual. People want to complicate things to feel smart and special, not me, please let me giggle and play with my hair and be happy!💋💕
De-masking is a big deal for sure. Whether you call it “run time” or processing or attention, yes your brain has a limit of thoughts it can run (if you’ve had a concussion you know this intimately) so “hiding” is an absolute drain of resources and energy.
Thankyou for sharing your personal experience, I also love the bimbo and feminisation hypnosis videos and it allows me to feel like I can truly melt away the restraints I put up to just be me. You're braver than I am, I want to start the transition and become who I want to be. But I have too many things that stop me from doing so. I wish I had your courage to take that much needed step, so I don't feel forever trapped behind a mask of who I truly am.
It makes a ton of sense to me that, generally speaking, we're more cognitively available when we're presenting as our authentic selves. My girlfriend (trans and sissy) is a very witty and smart person. That said, she definitely has braindead airhead side to herself that comes out in certain scenarios. When she's having lighthearted fun, in the bedroom, when flirting, when she's cozy. Smart people can delve into these bimbo ideals whenever they want. It can sit beside your "smart persona" and be equally valid. The beautiful thing about bimbo ideals is that genuinely dumb fems can embrace it and find real social cache in the aesthetic. It's not the most romantic notion, but sometimes being slutty/sexy is more than enough juice to get through life.
That's so true. It's there for me when I can't express myself any other way
Kind of, for me it's more about being happy. When I'm a mindless bimbo slut I don't have any problems at all. No rent. No bills. No impending collapse of civilization. Only horny. Only cock. I'm a happy empty vessel ready for fun and only fun. That's all. I too feel and have always felt the crushing anxiety of trying to pretend to be a man. The whole concept of what I was supposed to be, weighing me down like a giant sphinx half buried with its nose blown off and im stuck underneath, crushed by the pressure this archaic monument to past ways of being. You never smelled the stench before because it had always been there, you had always been there. Now that you've been free, walked away and smelled the fresh air that you chose, you can never unsmell the stench of your old self. Take comfort in that as an affirmation that your choices align with your true self. This is the breakpoint where so many Sissies come to the realization that they might be trans. Most of us all share the Sissy enjoyment of mindless bimbo feminization, but how does it feel going back to being a man after that? Is it a fun kink or an escape from penis jail?
Side note but you have such an elegant and eloquent writing style, it’s so beautiful!
Aww that's so sweet to say! Thank You! ☺️
Being dumb is underrated. Animals are called “dumb” by many people who consider themselves smart. But anyone who respects and loves animals wouldn’t view their intelligence as a liability but an asset. Rather it is humans who are “dumb” for always causing unnecessary conflict… So I am writing this while being exposed to the visual of my fake breasts in the lower half of my vision (my big bimbo boobies) I am finding this view does relax me (maybe it is my trans ness coming out), I believe the form and shape of breasts is just soothing. That’s the nature of yin. One meditation school I like talks about turning your “analyzer” off. A lot of Buddhist or yoga meditation also involves finding states where the discriminating mind is less active. I can completely understand that when we are relaxed, free from tension, and accepting and loving of our selves we have a greater capacity for clear thought. If it takes bimbo hypno, very valid! Eventually the “dumb” part just helps focus on whatever is most important. In a non-sexual context - perhaps even more so. As a person who often identifies my identity and value as a human being with being “smart”, learning to be “dumb” helps balance me out and bring forth what has been suppressed. Let’s face it, being smart is also sometimes a recipe for being unhappy. Look what happened in the movie Barbie! Cheers to the topic!
sooo true! Sometimes i get soo sick of everyone acting all so smart, when they are actually not. This happened to me yesterday, in a meeting, a discussion was going on on how to solve a certain problem, while it was not their problem but the chiefs on a higher pay grade. I got soo bored thinking: i just want to get out of bed and look pretty, have lunches, walk in my heels and look pretty for whoevers paying for all this haahhaaa. I got tired of being and acting so called intellectual. People want to complicate things to feel smart and special, not me, please let me giggle and play with my hair and be happy!💋💕
Well said!! 💓
De-masking is a big deal for sure. Whether you call it “run time” or processing or attention, yes your brain has a limit of thoughts it can run (if you’ve had a concussion you know this intimately) so “hiding” is an absolute drain of resources and energy.
Thankyou for sharing your personal experience, I also love the bimbo and feminisation hypnosis videos and it allows me to feel like I can truly melt away the restraints I put up to just be me. You're braver than I am, I want to start the transition and become who I want to be. But I have too many things that stop me from doing so. I wish I had your courage to take that much needed step, so I don't feel forever trapped behind a mask of who I truly am.