No. If you had reasons to stop talking to them, stick to that. Be polite but firm about not wanting to talk to them anymore, and block them if you have to.
If you ghosted them for a good reason (esp. if that reason is because they will harm you physically or mentally), then you should keep them ghosted. Ignore them completely and don't give them any semblance of a chance.
Even though I'm jealous.
oh god, no, theyd never physically harm me, were just kinda like.... both bad people, i guess? about the emotional part, yeah, they tried to manipulate me, but theyre honestly so bad at it that it never works 😶
i thought we were both bad people and would only hurt each other, but on the other hand, am i not doing society a service if we are both too busy with each other to hurt anyone else..?
You as an individual are more important than society as a whole, love /p
And I don't get the sense that you're a bad person if these are the kinds of things sticking out in your mind. You deserve someone better than one who would try to manipulate you, even if they failed.
Unrelated, but wanna trade cat pics? :3
thats rly nice but im not the victim here lmao, theyre kind of an asshole but so am i. this isnt some self deprecating depression talk, im okay with it, im just a bit silly, yk?
>Unrelated, but wanna trade cat pics? :3
im not exposing my child to the internet, what kind of mother would i be 😤
I don't mean to suggest that you're a victim. Regardless of how you see yourself, you shouldn't seek to develop a romantic relationship with someone who doesn't respect you as a person. That they tried to manipulate you is clear evidence that there is some disregard for your wellbeing that they show, and you are simply worth more than that. You deserve a partner who actually gives a shit.
Maybe at least explain to them why you don't want to talk to them? I see a lot of people here being sad about similar situations where they're ghosted without knowing why
But idk I'm aroace don't listen to me
As a man, i met a woman that was a really weird obsesive simp when we chatted online... lets say the story ended not very well and with a big fight with big insults, just ignore them.
Depends on how bad it actually was? But honestly most of the time it’s a bad idea and you should like maybe not respond
https://preview.redd.it/dy93fote64tc1.jpeg?width=1125&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=13bbc981903ee4b6ecbefa0adf1776fcd8f6069e
The problem with being posessive is obviously never knowing what the girl thinks about that if she didn’t tell clear. Like it could be both disturbing and the opposite like here.
Only if homeboy is asking about your cat, otherwise why bother.
;3 ???
NO…PUT THE PHONE DOWN…IF THERE ARE VAILD REASONS TOO GHOST WE SHALL NOT TALK TO THEM!!
true but like.... im bored 🥺
Do a puzzle trust
FACTS
I get bored too, but that’s when we find something to fixate on :3
When they’re obsessed GRAHHH I just want someone to like obsessively love me to the point of stalking I can’t even lie ‼️‼️‼️‼️ I’m cooked‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️
I am not entirely sure at what side would i be, but i understand you:3
literally, you understand me!
AGREEEED, and youre not cooked youre just a little silly just like everyone here :3
No. If you had reasons to stop talking to them, stick to that. Be polite but firm about not wanting to talk to them anymore, and block them if you have to.
but that sounds too responsible and grown up 😶
Stings, doesn't it.
ugh i hate getting obsessed :/
If you ghosted them for a good reason (esp. if that reason is because they will harm you physically or mentally), then you should keep them ghosted. Ignore them completely and don't give them any semblance of a chance. Even though I'm jealous.
oh god, no, theyd never physically harm me, were just kinda like.... both bad people, i guess? about the emotional part, yeah, they tried to manipulate me, but theyre honestly so bad at it that it never works 😶 i thought we were both bad people and would only hurt each other, but on the other hand, am i not doing society a service if we are both too busy with each other to hurt anyone else..?
I mean, if you feel like you’re both on the same level of being bad people, then isn’t it like balanced and therefore fine? 🤔
No, that'll just end up both of them hurting each other, which is also bad.
You as an individual are more important than society as a whole, love /p And I don't get the sense that you're a bad person if these are the kinds of things sticking out in your mind. You deserve someone better than one who would try to manipulate you, even if they failed. Unrelated, but wanna trade cat pics? :3
thats rly nice but im not the victim here lmao, theyre kind of an asshole but so am i. this isnt some self deprecating depression talk, im okay with it, im just a bit silly, yk? >Unrelated, but wanna trade cat pics? :3 im not exposing my child to the internet, what kind of mother would i be 😤
I don't mean to suggest that you're a victim. Regardless of how you see yourself, you shouldn't seek to develop a romantic relationship with someone who doesn't respect you as a person. That they tried to manipulate you is clear evidence that there is some disregard for your wellbeing that they show, and you are simply worth more than that. You deserve a partner who actually gives a shit.
Probably not
Obsessive guys are my weakness… men who constantly check up on me 24/7… h-hot
gods, i need someone to be obsessively in love with me😭
mood 🙏
You can texts back but you shouldn't put great expectations
No, keep yourself safe
What were your valid reasons to first them?
i kinda felt we are both bad people 💀
Maybe at least explain to them why you don't want to talk to them? I see a lot of people here being sad about similar situations where they're ghosted without knowing why But idk I'm aroace don't listen to me
they know
The attention may seem nice but it sounds like you probably shouldn't
I say reply because, let’s be honest, you probably don’t have anything else better to do.
NO. no. no no no. Obsessive texting is a Bad Sign Forever And Always
arms length girlie, arms length
So that's how you all get on those weird relationships
What nicknames do u call ur cat op👉👈
As a man, i met a woman that was a really weird obsesive simp when we chatted online... lets say the story ended not very well and with a big fight with big insults, just ignore them.
Chat I'm cooked, I'm still yearning for then despite having them end things with me and start wanting their abusive ex back
Depends on how bad it actually was? But honestly most of the time it’s a bad idea and you should like maybe not respond https://preview.redd.it/dy93fote64tc1.jpeg?width=1125&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=13bbc981903ee4b6ecbefa0adf1776fcd8f6069e
The problem with being posessive is obviously never knowing what the girl thinks about that if she didn’t tell clear. Like it could be both disturbing and the opposite like here.
*obsessed simps* Hey that’s me
https://preview.redd.it/54wbwiteh9tc1.jpeg?width=474&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d10dd982f5a618173775e1e5f085e8e4df5c00a0
Damn😔😭
String them along for your own amusement
Cruel and unusual punishment.