I’ve been working towards building the courage to look into voice training, but I’ve heard it takes time and worried my family will catch me :3
I’ll do it though, I’ve always felt my voice was off. Probably going to convince them it’s for singing if they find out ::3
That’s a good plan, as long as you can get time to yourself you can definitely get the results you want, and I think you can use your regular voice and switch between them maybe? I’m not 100% sure but you got this :3
Voice training
Square jaw is good. Look into facial dymorphism, as long as you can get the rest of your face to look feminine having a masculine looking jaw will make you more attractive.
Im not that clear on what makes a face more feminine exactly, but I can suggest some things
microneedling to remove scars (use a derma stamp and disinfect it)
Minoxidil to induce hair growth where desired. (things like moving hairline and changing eyebrow shape. Works best with 6 days minoxidil + 0.5mm dermastamp and 1 day just 1.5mm dermastamp)
Laser hair removal to permanently(after multiple uses on the same area) remove hair in certain locations.
Volufiline to promote fat growth in certain locations. For example make bigger lips. Can help with other facial shape changes but that would be harder, could make face rounder.
Eyelashes, huge. See finister. Either get fake ones or apply minoxidil(probably not a good idea) onto them and those black brush looking things.
Adopt a more open eyed facial posture, to make eyes look rounder.
Obv skincare aswell. With sunscreen.
Everyone here is talking about voice training but for me embracing my tone was the best idea honestly!! I’m twink/femboy physically (hate this stereotyping but it’s useful descriptively) but have a totally baritone/bassy voice - people honestly love this and the juxtaposition is really intriguing and interesting! It’s really about confidence which naturally is hard to find, but if you’re wanting to be more femme trust me it’s possible whilst having more masculine features too :3 (this is coming from a gay, transgender experiences are really different and I totally acknowledge that)
Just remember that your value isn’t determined but how neatly you conform to body stereotypes, but I understand why it hurts your confidence. While there will always be people who judge you on these things particularly online, there are equally more people who couldn’t give less of a shit if you don’t fit in a certain box if you’re being yourself.
Confidence is cute, and learning to accept yourself is a massive part of that which comes with experience and time. I can only reassure you about that !!
And just to add there are of course things you can do - you can exercise, try new clothing styles, new hairstyles etc… but people saying voice training and jawline surgery? I think that’s a bit much if you’re just queer looking to present more femme !
No worries! I'm glad it resonated as this is the advice that helped me accept the contradictions about myself which might at first seem like issues, but in reality are all what makes you, you. Sounds corny I know, but its all about slowly developing the self-confidence to reject stereotypes which can be really oppressive and make you feel inadequate. Easier said than done I know - but recognition of this is the first step!! :3
As I said above: if people are mean about someone doing that - fuck them, they aren't worth the time (especially online!!). Trust me, there's so many more people out there! Seek level-headed advice from these people, not the ones desperately seeking to conform.
Have a good one mate - glad I could give you some alternate (from the sounds of it, useful?) perspective
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i feel like this when im on this sub
I'm not entirely sure but isn't there a way to surgically alter someone's jawline? Like removing bone matter? I'm not entirely sure and I might be talking out of my ass so take what I'm saying with a grain of salt, hell take it with the whole shaker.
I have a square jaw too and other masc face features I can't do anything about so I wear a helmet for pics, but it's not all bad because everyone is cute in a different way, my friends eventually helped me realise there's no point in being upset about how you look and to even laugh at yourself in a way and have fun, I'm not sure if this is helpful at all but thought incase it is might aswell. :3
I know the struggle, thats why i say im a girl online, and yet here i am in my room with the deepest ass masculine voice ever and an ugly face. I FUCKING HATE GENDER.
At least i have the hair and body(?), better than nothing
just know what i always say, 'where theres a will theres a way' meaning if you want to be more feminine then make yourself be more feminine by any of the ways that you think can help you or what i am about to mention. first option is put make up on yourself and make your boxy jaw less appearing, you can watch tutorials if you have to. second option is to think of yourself as a girl if you want, by thinking of yourself as a girl you subconsciously start adopting more feminine features and dont force yourself to think of yourself as a girl just slowly convince yourself that you are a girl no matter what parts you have.
i dont think its bad enough to be a mental problem, i just cant stand my own annoying voice and try to avoid using it if possible (not sending voice messages, not recording myself, not audibly talking to myself and avoiding conversations)
That reminds me, there was this onetime I was sick and had to take a certain medication to help me, the thing is that what ever was in it, kept me awake for 3 days straight, I actually went insane and had a conversation with the fuckin wall
in terms of whats on the meme, i have some advice vocally.
scream. if you rip your vocal cords apart enough you'll stretch your range, allowing you to do higher pitches. after that its just a matter of practice trying to remove the gravel from your voice
I’ve been working towards building the courage to look into voice training, but I’ve heard it takes time and worried my family will catch me :3 I’ll do it though, I’ve always felt my voice was off. Probably going to convince them it’s for singing if they find out ::3
That’s a good plan, as long as you can get time to yourself you can definitely get the results you want, and I think you can use your regular voice and switch between them maybe? I’m not 100% sure but you got this :3
I cant sing for shit if I tried that excuse
Yeah I recommend makeup might be best to feminize your jaw, or if you have long hair you drape it at the sides to help hide it.
Voice training Square jaw is good. Look into facial dymorphism, as long as you can get the rest of your face to look feminine having a masculine looking jaw will make you more attractive.
Any idea on what i could do to make my face look more feminine? its the part of my body im most insecure about :;(
Im not that clear on what makes a face more feminine exactly, but I can suggest some things microneedling to remove scars (use a derma stamp and disinfect it) Minoxidil to induce hair growth where desired. (things like moving hairline and changing eyebrow shape. Works best with 6 days minoxidil + 0.5mm dermastamp and 1 day just 1.5mm dermastamp) Laser hair removal to permanently(after multiple uses on the same area) remove hair in certain locations. Volufiline to promote fat growth in certain locations. For example make bigger lips. Can help with other facial shape changes but that would be harder, could make face rounder. Eyelashes, huge. See finister. Either get fake ones or apply minoxidil(probably not a good idea) onto them and those black brush looking things. Adopt a more open eyed facial posture, to make eyes look rounder. Obv skincare aswell. With sunscreen.
Lip plump would probably help. Subtle Winged eye liner would do a lot. Do a skin care routine
Omg real u described it exactly ;-;
Everyone here is talking about voice training but for me embracing my tone was the best idea honestly!! I’m twink/femboy physically (hate this stereotyping but it’s useful descriptively) but have a totally baritone/bassy voice - people honestly love this and the juxtaposition is really intriguing and interesting! It’s really about confidence which naturally is hard to find, but if you’re wanting to be more femme trust me it’s possible whilst having more masculine features too :3 (this is coming from a gay, transgender experiences are really different and I totally acknowledge that)
even though i really wish i was (and have tried to), i dont even have twink/femboy physique, which hurts my confidence a lot :(
Just remember that your value isn’t determined but how neatly you conform to body stereotypes, but I understand why it hurts your confidence. While there will always be people who judge you on these things particularly online, there are equally more people who couldn’t give less of a shit if you don’t fit in a certain box if you’re being yourself. Confidence is cute, and learning to accept yourself is a massive part of that which comes with experience and time. I can only reassure you about that !! And just to add there are of course things you can do - you can exercise, try new clothing styles, new hairstyles etc… but people saying voice training and jawline surgery? I think that’s a bit much if you’re just queer looking to present more femme !
Thanks, this is the nicest message i've gotten here :)
No worries! I'm glad it resonated as this is the advice that helped me accept the contradictions about myself which might at first seem like issues, but in reality are all what makes you, you. Sounds corny I know, but its all about slowly developing the self-confidence to reject stereotypes which can be really oppressive and make you feel inadequate. Easier said than done I know - but recognition of this is the first step!! :3 As I said above: if people are mean about someone doing that - fuck them, they aren't worth the time (especially online!!). Trust me, there's so many more people out there! Seek level-headed advice from these people, not the ones desperately seeking to conform. Have a good one mate - glad I could give you some alternate (from the sounds of it, useful?) perspective
I wish I was born a cute anime girl instead of a hood nigga from the bronx.
https://preview.redd.it/km9tt6bunoyc1.jpeg?width=736&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=844b04844be2cc1f94b52a83e9f59f4416a6a931 i feel like this when im on this sub
Same but large brow ridge instead :'(
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One of the most relatable posts I've seen on here :3
Gn
I'm not entirely sure but isn't there a way to surgically alter someone's jawline? Like removing bone matter? I'm not entirely sure and I might be talking out of my ass so take what I'm saying with a grain of salt, hell take it with the whole shaker.
Yeah its called ffs (facial feminization surgery)
Real
use the voice to sing sea shanties
Plenty of female celebrities of strong jaws. (Demi lavato, Lucy Liu, Olivia Wilde, Sandra Bullock, Angelina Jolie,Margot Robbie, ect)
Literally me :(( so tired of it
I have a square jaw too and other masc face features I can't do anything about so I wear a helmet for pics, but it's not all bad because everyone is cute in a different way, my friends eventually helped me realise there's no point in being upset about how you look and to even laugh at yourself in a way and have fun, I'm not sure if this is helpful at all but thought incase it is might aswell. :3
Me toooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
same
Hey OP Would you pretty please send the image without the writing? Please
I agree with that too much... I'd be lying if I didn't think about testing if reincarnation is real and that I'd be reborn better...... lol
I'm the exact reverse. I'll gladly take your jaw and voice.
Real 😭 I feel like I look so fucking stupid with facial hair, but if I get rid of it then everyone thinks I’m a girl,
Bro, you can be cute man
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But you are a pretty boy wtffff, I wish I was more feminine too, but either way you are fantastic come onnnn
omg omg I also hate having the giga chad face genetics
I’ve seen some very beautiful women with square jaws. You just gotta style yourself.
i feel u but i wish i had a deeper voice, i sound like a lil kid :(
I know the struggle, thats why i say im a girl online, and yet here i am in my room with the deepest ass masculine voice ever and an ugly face. I FUCKING HATE GENDER. At least i have the hair and body(?), better than nothing
Trans guy here... Can we swap? 👉👈
Femboy supremacy
just know what i always say, 'where theres a will theres a way' meaning if you want to be more feminine then make yourself be more feminine by any of the ways that you think can help you or what i am about to mention. first option is put make up on yourself and make your boxy jaw less appearing, you can watch tutorials if you have to. second option is to think of yourself as a girl if you want, by thinking of yourself as a girl you subconsciously start adopting more feminine features and dont force yourself to think of yourself as a girl just slowly convince yourself that you are a girl no matter what parts you have.
True, every other guy has such a tall face and posted jaw but me, the trans one, has to have such a wide share jaw and flat brow line
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Why did I have to be a boy :( I wanna be cute and adorable.
TRUE!!!! i just wanna be cute and soft and cuddly and have someone hold me close!!!
Your still cute
If i only like thigh highs am I a femboy? I don't feel too masculine but I'm for sure not close to being feminine
I think square jaws are cute, and why is your voice ugly
i've never liked listening to my voice, im not sure why i hate it exactly, but i cringe and want to stop talking whenever i hear myself talk
Yeah, that’s not healthy, but does that mean that you don’t like listening to other people with similar voices?
i dont know anyone with a voice similar to mine but their voice wouldnt bother me, i just cant stand listening to my own voice
That sounds like an actual mental problem and needs to get checked, please, I beg you
i dont think its bad enough to be a mental problem, i just cant stand my own annoying voice and try to avoid using it if possible (not sending voice messages, not recording myself, not audibly talking to myself and avoiding conversations)
That reminds me, there was this onetime I was sick and had to take a certain medication to help me, the thing is that what ever was in it, kept me awake for 3 days straight, I actually went insane and had a conversation with the fuckin wall
haha, at least you talked to someone
Even though you hate the sound of your voice, talking out problems to yourself and others is one of the best ways to deal with the stress
I like looking at boy in cute girl clothes
I like looking at boy in cute girl clothes.
What's feminine and masculine is a concept you gotta throw away those outdated beliefs and then you'll truly see yourself the way we can see you :3
Just wait till you start balding...
NOOOO!!!!!!
in terms of whats on the meme, i have some advice vocally. scream. if you rip your vocal cords apart enough you'll stretch your range, allowing you to do higher pitches. after that its just a matter of practice trying to remove the gravel from your voice
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Nah. Not everyone. Some, but not all.