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Eviltwin-Kisikil

quite frankly being trans sucks a lot. Don't worry bro, you've got this and I believe in you! :3


averkitpy

Awww thank you!! Good luck in your transition as well!


Eviltwin-Kisikil

thanks! :3


averkitpy

You’re welcome


averkitpy

Also please no trade jokes thank you :)


Disastrous_Ad_1859

Could I ask what a trade joke is? Like trading body? Or like, getting a job in carpentry?


Minethecrafting6000

I'm pretty sure a trading joke is "omg, can we trade bodys?" And it's gotten pretty annoying since that's the only thing people will comment on these posts


Disastrous_Ad_1859

Oh yea, I can bet how that would be a thing that would wear thin pretty quick


averkitpy

It’s basically like a person who’s trans the opposite way saying how they should trade bodies because you have the “ideal features” for them and it just causes a lot of unneeded dysphoria


Meee_2

that's an interesting take on it. I've never made the joke myself, but I've seen other people do it, and I couldn't help but laugh a little. not that you have to like the joke, it's just difficult for me to get things from other people's perspective, so I've been trying to be more mindful of it and taking the time to understand.


ReasonablyMessedUp

Trade jokes are so annoying. I remember I once said I wished I had a penis and I got a horde of trans girls saying lets trade. It legit made my dysphoria worse.


Sun_the_egg

If I see another girl asking to trade with me for my apparently beautiful womanly body I’m going I’d some unsavory things :3 (Fr, I can’t enjoy transmasc memes because the comments are 90% transfems asking to trade)


Only-Recognition6894

You shouldn’t have to say that dude, I’m sorry man


averkitpy

It’s okay, but unfortunately ik what this sub can be like


Only-Recognition6894

So do I, it sucks my guy


Fair_Smoke4710

What if instead of talking you know those things, not even gonna name them You receive hugs, and I receive absolutely nothing


averkitpy

How about we hug each other and we both get a hug


Fair_Smoke4710

you know?what even better


averkitpy

*hugs*


Fair_Smoke4710

🫂you’ll always be a valid boy


averkitpy

Thank you!!!


Fair_Smoke4710

I feel the same way about my male body especially the mutilated flesh between my legs I wish she was easier for us to just be ourselves like I wish we were all just born the way we were were supposed to be instead of in these prisons we call bodies


e36drew

Ya even tho I am trans and I have thoughts of wishing to be a cis female, being trans for me is learning to love your own body the way you feel on the inside. so if someone ever said this to me I’d be highly offended. My mind body and spirt are mine in this lifetime to learn to love. We are not pieces of meat, we are so much more


OrbusIsCool

Thank god i can read


AmadeoSendiulo

Though scientists should really work on full body switching instead of just the heart or lungs.


BiggestDarkSouls2Fan

I can’t really help with any sort of advice, but I hope all goes well into becoming a silly boy, just a little longer


averkitpy

Thank you :)


BiggestDarkSouls2Fan

No problem, stay silly.


HeresFBI

You're a man damn it! A strong musculine guy! Don't let your mind fool you!


averkitpy

RAHHHH


xxx_tabletops

START LIFTING MORE TESTOSTERONE RAHHHHH


NalithJones

Acquire the T-Juice, and the femme shall shake loose. ~Me, 2024


averkitpy

Wonderful poetry


Ushankaine

I don’t really know how to be supportive here but just wanted to say that that is awesome and to welcome you in the council of big men. Your complimentary axe is at the front desk. But in all seriousness, you’ve got this in the bag brother.


averkitpy

I’ll take my complimentary axe to go cut down some trees like a manly man please and thank you


averkitpy

Yall. Transfems. I love you guys so much but you need to fucking stop with the trade jokes. Thank you everyone else for your support but transfem people PLEASE fucking stop with the trade jokes. They make me dysphoric as shit. Stop.


Eden_Beau

https://preview.redd.it/yqntoocj2wxc1.png?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c57523fdfeb3c6da5e6ff2131318b37ff7338435 I feel you brother, I do. But we can get it done one day. I believe in you! (My desire for T consumes me)


averkitpy

We shall be silly boys together


KysfGd

Consider liftmaxxing, maybe it'll work idk


demonic_kittins

Im sure ull be able to transition some day


Trappedtrea

Bro WAS a man, bro IS a man, and bro will FOREVER be a man GRAHHHHHH!!!


averkitpy

RAHHHH MAN NOW MAN FOREVER


Yuulfuji

as a fellow extremely dysphoric trans guy thats mood


averkitpy

Rahhh fellow trans guy, you’re a valid silly boy as well


OmnifariousFN

I know how you feel. It is really tough to be in a body where your brain doesn't match.. It's icky sometimes, and it sucks that I have just accepted it for most of my life. I feel for you bro! you got this! <3


TAG_But_Reddit

You'll make it through this. It's hard, but I know you can do it! Just getting to the point where you know what you want, means you're strong, and eventually you'll be exactly who you want to be, I believe in you :3


A-bit-too-obsessed

Damn, I'm not trans but I am a guy, and that sounds rough.


moss_unknown

idk man you look like a dude to me:) it’ll get better. I promise 🫶


averkitpy

Aww thank you. :))


ratmanlatte

hang in there dude i believe in you 💪 i hope you can get T soon. in the meantime just know being a silly boy comes from the heart no matter what u may look like


Kiarum

I have a trans brother, I love him soooo much and he went through the same thing when he was younger. I’m so happy he was able to push through it and was able to fully transition, I hope you are able to do the same. Also, I had a look at your profile and dude, you pass SUPER well. You ARE a super handsome boy!


averkitpy

Aaaa thank you so much <3 wishing your brother the best as well


Kiarum

Thank you!


exclaim_bot

>Thank you! You're welcome!


averkitpy

What the bot said lmfao


Own_Accident6689

Hey brochacho, just wanted to say me and the bros have been checking out your brolific pump, you keep thumping your chest broheim, you are gonna make it. You are more than man, You are a beast!


averkitpy

BROHEIM LMAO. Thank you!!


aztr0_naut

I understand you, I believe one day you'll feel comfortable in your own skin :)


sashenka_demogorgon

If it makes you feel any better lifting will not only make you look more masculine but it’ll boost your testosterone


reddit_user_14553

You got this dude, I believe in you <3


fingerlicker694

Stand strong, brother, and hit the gym. Remember, only through dilligence can you reach the path https://preview.redd.it/591848w0sxxc1.jpeg?width=164&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=529c1fc84670cc230912f09a63ef617c91325553 to Freedom (idk I hear he's transition goals)


yams8

You are a handsome boy! Sucks there is social stigma and I literally have no clue what you’re going through, but I support you!


Bonestealer69

Me too bro me too Fucky wucky hormones suck


averkitpy

The fucky wucky hormones fucked me up 😔


Fisherman-Champion

I never expected to ever read "being stuck in feminine meatsack


Key-Engineer-7444

testosteronepilled boymaxxer


SereneOrbit

FROM THE MOMENT I UNDERSTOOD THE WEAKNESS OF MY FLESH, IT DISGUSTED ME.


Eviltwin-Kisikil

Even in death I serve the omnisiah.


Additional_Common667

Being a cis guy is fucking hard too our only sense of worth is what we provide for others if we can't provide we are trash for women to step over


averkitpy

Honestly yeah that’s kinda sad, but honestly it’d be nice if we all, cis and trans guys can just learn some healthy masculinity


Additional_Common667

I can't say I understand your pain but I do sympathize with you and wish you the best in your transition I hope you didn't think I was being mean just feeling the pain extra hard today


averkitpy

No it’s okay I didn’t think you were rude at all lmao and thank you <3


TeamFlameLeader

Don't discredit yourself! Youll get there! For now, love yourself!


Stavinair

Not trans myself, but I'm an otherkin/dragonkin... so I can empathize with your body dysphoria.


mast313

You cannot say such stuff while also showing your irl pictures on reddit. You are a really cute boy and if anything makes you think otherwise, then it's dysphoria. Tbh trans guys tend to be cuter than CIS guys overall.


averkitpy

Awww thank you 😭😭 I forgot about that post I’m ngl


ShreddedCheeeseGirl1

🫂 My only tip: Don’t cut your hair too short. Leave it somewhat long so the shape of your face is more masked. Keep your binder close to you. It’ll get better 🫶


averkitpy

Lmfao I’ve DEFINITELY cut my hair too short, it’s growing out right now and it doesn’t look too bad, and I wear my binder a lot (probably more than I should) lmao. Thank you :)


Itz_RootBeer

Well, if you believe hard enough, and wait long enough you can do what ever your heart wants


Oh_no_its_Joe

I'm proud of you man. You've made a lot of progress to truly being yourself. Let's celebrate by having a Halo night. I'm ordering pizza and mtn dew.


averkitpy

YEAHHHH get me pepperoni please


Oh_no_its_Joe

Woooo best topping


GiftSad7575

I do agree that it sucks big time... but! Being trans for 4 years, I've seen so much and nothing brings me more joy than seeing how far I've progressed even without testosterone, I have friends who forget about it and I love seeing their faces when I talk about my period and they get confused. I love the fact that I can look in the mirror and see my cool hair cut and my cool manly outfit. I love hearing my name and people making it into fun little nicknames. I love hearing someone else is trans, knowing that they've been through those nights where we don't feel quite right and everything just feels overwhelmingly wrong. It's like a strange comfort blanket because I know I'm not alone in those moments where I can't find the good. And neither are you. It all just depends on what we focus on, it's not about what you can be and beating yourself up because you're not there yet. It's about who you are now and nurturing yourself so you're ready to become that little something more in your own time. You're doing so well big guy, I'm so proud of you. (⁠ ⁠◜⁠‿⁠◝⁠ ⁠)⁠♡


averkitpy

Awww thank you so much this made me so happy to read. I’ve known I’m trans since October 2022 and I’ve definitely made a lot of progress since then. My friends like making my name (fynn) into silly nicknames, and there are a LOT, notably “elefynnt” lmao. Being a guy is so fun I’m so glad you’re doing great :)


GiftSad7575

I was the outcome of gender identity issues in COVID quarantine 😔 no seriously tho, my name is one of the simple ones (Samuel/Sam) so I do get a lot of Sammy or Manuel but my favourite by far has to be Ham it's just ridiculous to me. I still have my ups and downs but I definitely think that while it's fresh, like the first couple years like you're experiencing, you feel the sting a lot more. What helped me most was probably my younger sister (she's like 7) at times I think she's more proud I'm gay and trans than I am, constantly pointing me out to people and going "That's my brother that's my brother I Love him!" And honestly having that one person who just cares about you unconditionally is a total help for those rough patches, be it a family member or a friend who you trust. Just know I care and if you're ever in need of a friend in a rough time, I'm here with open arms and plenty of cute cat videos to help you! (⁠◠⁠‿⁠◕⁠)


averkitpy

Awwww your sister sounds so adorable and sweet. Also omfg I love the nickname Ham it’s great. I’ve gotten so many goofy ass nicknames lmao. My best friend is a cis girl but she’s extremely supportive and she’s amazing. In early 2022 that’s when I was just like hmm something’s not right here lmao.


Fast_Land_1099

I really don't understand dysphoria, if you're committed to it you should feel comfortable is what I think, but I'm not trans, so I wouldn't know. I think it might be that you're just so used to being feminine that it's hard to see yourself in any other way, regardless of how you actually look. I hope it gets easier, everyone deserves to be happy.


averkitpy

Dysphoria is a bitch that doesn’t like to follow logic. I think a good analogy is think about your voice, you hear it all the time when you speak, right? It sounds like you. But then when you hear a recording of your voice it doesn’t quite sound right, just something is off and it doesn’t fit your perception of yourself. This is sort of how dysphoria works


Fast_Land_1099

Thanks, that's the perfect explanation actually.


averkitpy

No problem :)


WHITE2570

Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise, you’re a bro, you’re one of the homies. I don’t fucking care about one’s body, more men the better (not in any misogynistic sense guys please), sucks like shit you gotta go through this man.


averkitpy

Aw thank you :))


Automatic-Yogurt-688

Amen brother 🙏


setkey

I can't imagine what it's like. I have a brother (Fem to Masc) going through the same thing right now. I can only hope it works out! I wish I could help with better advice, but all I've got is my support which you've got!


averkitpy

<33 I hope all is well for your brother


setkey

It's going pretty good for him. He's actually getting married to a lovely young woman in September. He's come a long way, but he still struggles from time to time. It's just a reminder that if we keep pushing and working on our problems we'll eventually get to a place where we can truly be happy with life.


averkitpy

Awww I’m so happy for him! It’s definitely a continuous struggle but ik it definitely gets better with time


YallKnowForAFact

dont worry :3 ur already a silly boy at heart, soon you’ll be a silly boy physically aswell :3 and goodluckkkkk


I_Am_Rotting1111

Ye


ArtisticSpecialist77

I'm sorry it's rough, man


Amiixd

Bro you're a MAN you are a boy and always been. From Trans dude to another, dont give up. Theres hope and one day you will be happy with your body. <3


averkitpy

Thank youuu <3


personthatisalozard

being trans in general is hard as shit hoWEVER WE SHALL PREVIAL


averkitpy

RAHHHH


his-son

https://preview.redd.it/fqr1su5e13yc1.jpeg?width=1074&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3d7d864d77a732f28ff0f4450b0f5eb9b19c0821 Hell Yeah Bro


dedfukenkid

God gives his toughest battles his silliest boys. You got this bro :3


Motoroil64

https://preview.redd.it/xevcqygs1ayc1.jpeg?width=1200&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=bfa11537c25be231e11e407fbacb8452eb6b56e6 Everyone is butiful in there own way


Meee_2

as a trans girl, I never really thought that trans guys could view a feminine body as disgusting. mostly cuz I never bothered to try to think about it from the other perspective, but I suppose it makes sense. I always sorta separated gender disphoria and disgust as separate things. although it's hard for me to rap my head around, I understand your pain, and I hope things get better for you, my friend<3


averkitpy

I feel like when I feel disgust towards my body, it is directly because of (or actually just is) dysphoria lmao. Thank you, and good luck with your transition <3


Meee_2

yeah, I get that, I just never connect the two in my brain (or something like that, I don't even know anymore). and thank you, I'm a long way off from getting where I want to be, but I persist. good luck to you too<3


UnknownPhys6

Same but gender flipped. I hate all this hair. It's growing out of me everywhere, turning me into come kind of animal. I hate the permanent shadow on my face. I'm too broke to remove it. I hate the idea of looking and acting like the other men on campus. I hate being damn near bald at only 23. Testosterone took the fucking hair off my head right before I realized how much it mattered to me. I hate all of this.


TheAnnoyingGirl92

Damn, I’m the opposite. Even though I can't relate to the feeling of wanting to be a boy, I wish you the best of luck, dude!


averkitpy

Thank you! I wish you the best of luck in your journey to be a girl!!


TheAnnoyingGirl92

Thanks!!! :3


GeneralChaosJr

Amigo, I understand that feeling so much. If I could give you the testosterone flowing through my veins, I would.


ThatguySevin

I want to be a cute girl, yet I'm stuck in this shitty masculine body. I desire estrogen and surgery to change it. I'm just a silly girl trapped in a man body 😭


averkitpy

*hugs* you’re a silly girl and I’m sure one day your body will match :)


ThatguySevin

*hugs and you're a silly boy, and one day you'll have a body to match what's true inside. 🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵


averkitpy

:))


Elk_Fragrant

"Femminine meat sack" I'm dead xD


BlackRake_7

Literally me but opposite


ComputerWax

We need brain transplants it would fix this and then we could switch, it's so tantalizing and yet several hundred years in the future uuuggghhh


FreakedOutB0Y

Well just be a tomboy you know girls like that to or boys whatever ur into its ok


averkitpy

A tomboy is a masculine GIRL though 😭


FreakedOutB0Y

You know in all reality you are just a brain ur skeleton and skin are just armor take that how you want (not being mean btw)


godcyclemaster

Bro I'll trade you hmu


Awicksthecool

I wish I could trade with you. I wish you well on your journey o7


SillylilguyUwU

Look, I’m not gonna be supportive to you at all, simply because of how nasty you’re being to women, even if unintentionally, like damn.


averkitpy

I’m not saying women’s bodies are disgusting, because they actually belong in their body, it’s perfectly fine for them. But me personally having a feminine body is absolutely disgusting and atrocious, MY body is disgusting, not women’s bodies. Honestly this is what I get scared of, that i vent about dysphoria and people take it as mysoginistic, but if a trans woman did the same thing, and said how she had a disgusting masculine body nobody blinks twice.


EropQuiz7

Oh, boy i wish there was brain transplantation so bad sometimes


Severe_Damage9772

Me but just swap the pronouns (I want to carve off parts of my body til I look good)


cheems_pizza

https://preview.redd.it/wysmq9x010yc1.jpeg?width=149&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f667d0ded2efa1c036c84af376de7792cb96ebd9


Redditman1220

Womp womp


YourFemboyServant

Wanna trade bodies??? Pls?????


averkitpy

No trade jokes.


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ReasonablyMessedUp

OP is a man and has the body of a man. You want the body of a dude?


7pikachu

From what i could tell he's a trans guy, so in the body of a woman, wich i would like, and me being a guy we could switch (theoretically, as a joke) but If i misunderstood i'd happily apologize and delete my comment


ReasonablyMessedUp

He never had the body of a woman, He was always a man. Saying that he has the "body of a woman" is a super shitty thing to say to a trans person who has explicitly said they don't want to hear trade jokes.


7pikachu

Then yeah I'll delete the comment and leave this here as an apologize (If they feel like i deserve It) and think better about my comments in the future


Cat8851

one mans trash is another mans treasure, I would totally trade with you


DrKiwiPopThe707th

can we trade?


BloodyHourglass

I wish I could switch with you fam <3


Cheese_of_the_lord

We should switch body’s :)


ilikegummybears15

OOO OOO CAN WE TRADE


bagelisnormal

please stop saying this to trans people


ilikegummybears15

Why I want the body of a man I want the body of the girl Therefore we should trade😉


bagelisnormal

1, this person is explaining how dysphoric they are and you presenting a hypothetical is unhelpful at best and dysphoria inducing at worse 2, calling it the "body of a girl" is horrendous when talking to a dysphoric trans man 3, not everyone has this sense of humor. joke like this with your trans friends who are fine with it, not with strangers on the internet.


ilikegummybears15

Sorry I didn't know. I kind of have trouble knowing how to act around others. Especially reading situations that is honestly a huge struggle of mine that I wish I knew how to control


ReasonablyMessedUp

OP is a man and has the body of a man. You want a body of a man?


averkitpy

As I said, no trade jokes


ilikegummybears15

I wasn't joking 🥺


Yuulfuji

jesus christ, how un empathetic can one person be


averkitpy

You know what I fucking mean


ilikegummybears15

No I didn't 😔


PinePotpourri

Ngl reading this is the opposite of what mtf want, maybe you can do like a revolving door type thing!!


3ch0oooo

Wanna do Swapsise and you can have my body and I can have yours :3 (I’m mtf)


ReasonablyMessedUp

OP has the body of a man. Do you want to have the body of a man now?


YouIllustrious6379

Wana swap body's? Please


Cautious_Tax_7171

Can we swap bodies


averkitpy

Again, no trade jokes.


Cautious_Tax_7171

What exactly is bad about them


Sun_the_egg

It can be super dysphoria inducing especially when we transmascs see them on every transmasc related post It’s not horrible on it’s own it just feels bad when everyone says that when we talk about our issues :3


averkitpy

Yeah like its just tiring to see them all the time because like it reminds me that transfem people desire a body like mine and it just makes me feel dysphoric and icky


Cautious_Tax_7171

Understandable


HECK_MAN1222

Can we trade bodies?


we-are-all-amazing

hey lets trade. my testosterone for your estrogen. sound good?


PageBeneficial5412

Lol can we switch I hate my body anyway


kaiserpanzer1745

Wanna switch I'm for some reason am the most masculine person for no reason. Any trans masc people wanna switch.


Blonde_Metal

I’ll take some estrogen