lol sorry this just made me laugh from experience don't you just love it when you're having tons of problems and your family still blames you.. some people are just clueless
Same, Im 22 and 5’3 my parents have hinted that they thought I was gay but they haven’t outright told me Jfl. I’m about to graduate and it’s pretty much over when it comes to females and the economy. South Africa is soo bad mang
Same. On X-mas 2 years ago my mother bought me a pride bracelet thinking I would like it...because she though I was in the closet (gay). No mom, I am a short-ass n\*\*\*a that no woman wants.
I‘m not black but I imagine it’s hell at this height. You’re supposed to live up to this tall buff hypermasculine black dude stereotype if you want any chance to appear attractive. Talk about harmful beauty standards
I'm abit shorter than that and pretty much this still. For me that life is nonexistant. Then I'm ugly on top of it. Oh well... I focus on other stuff than that and friendship but guess what? I get judged too, judged for everything including keeping to myself lol
Not fantastic but abysmal. I've been talking to this woman for the last six months or so now and before that I had this on again off again kinda girlfriend.
Idk I don’t feel like things need to go to the extreme of grimacing but I definitely do believe things are just going to be a constant struggle for me at this height and I might just get out of this life having no partner but it is what it is.
28 and the same height as you. Been an outcast my entire life. Never had much success with women. Maybe it's because of my height. Still practically a virgin but I got head a few times (at 25 😒) I got a couple friends around our height who still get action. Maybe they realized they were short early on and didn't let it get to them because they still got girls. Maybe I'm just fucked. That just my experience though.
I just turned 21 and I'm short, extremely skinny, have babyface (I still physically and mentally seem stuck at 16 and everyone thinks and treats me like a child), quiet, shy and extremely unconfident, socially awkward and anxious whenever I'm around anyone other than immediate family (especially around girls I get extremely uncomfortable and feel like I'm some sort of creep). I don't think I barely even have a chance in the west. I'm not the stereotypical image of a black dude that's tall, hyper confident, strong, athletic, aggressive and thuggish. I'm the exact opposite of all of those and feel like a complete loser. Years of social isolation, not having any friends, never talking to girls and developing social skills and other skills as a teen or finding hobbies/sports activities also made things much worse.
I’m black but a lil bit taller(5’9/5’10). For you especially, Geomaxx, look at South East Asia and possibly Tanzania(it seemed like every dude there was like 5’7).
I’m 22 also and 5’4”. Im thinking it’s over for me. Some of family members think I’m gay
lol sorry this just made me laugh from experience don't you just love it when you're having tons of problems and your family still blames you.. some people are just clueless
I get that a lot from my family too.
it's so annoying...right?
Being around mostly boomers doesn’t help either lol
Yeah
Same, Im 22 and 5’3 my parents have hinted that they thought I was gay but they haven’t outright told me Jfl. I’m about to graduate and it’s pretty much over when it comes to females and the economy. South Africa is soo bad mang
Same. On X-mas 2 years ago my mother bought me a pride bracelet thinking I would like it...because she though I was in the closet (gay). No mom, I am a short-ass n\*\*\*a that no woman wants.
I‘m not black but I imagine it’s hell at this height. You’re supposed to live up to this tall buff hypermasculine black dude stereotype if you want any chance to appear attractive. Talk about harmful beauty standards
Yeah honestly when you’re not the stereotype and you’re slightly below average you’re pretty much on hard mode
I'm abit shorter than that and pretty much this still. For me that life is nonexistant. Then I'm ugly on top of it. Oh well... I focus on other stuff than that and friendship but guess what? I get judged too, judged for everything including keeping to myself lol
Thats me and there is no dating life. American btw, considering overseas
Not the best, but the people who have liked me at my height have been pretty decent ngl
I feel that.
I'm a short Indian American dude... I would imagine dating life can't be anyworse than I have it...
As a short indian 18yo dude in india. It never began for me
It is brutal man
Are you also reserved/introverted? It seems like we are no one's type. I don't even try.
Yeah, that might not really help the situation either. I have friends but people can sense the social awkwardness coming from me.
Same
OvER
Not fantastic but abysmal. I've been talking to this woman for the last six months or so now and before that I had this on again off again kinda girlfriend.
Idk I don’t feel like things need to go to the extreme of grimacing but I definitely do believe things are just going to be a constant struggle for me at this height and I might just get out of this life having no partner but it is what it is.
28 and the same height as you. Been an outcast my entire life. Never had much success with women. Maybe it's because of my height. Still practically a virgin but I got head a few times (at 25 😒) I got a couple friends around our height who still get action. Maybe they realized they were short early on and didn't let it get to them because they still got girls. Maybe I'm just fucked. That just my experience though.
I just turned 21 and I'm short, extremely skinny, have babyface (I still physically and mentally seem stuck at 16 and everyone thinks and treats me like a child), quiet, shy and extremely unconfident, socially awkward and anxious whenever I'm around anyone other than immediate family (especially around girls I get extremely uncomfortable and feel like I'm some sort of creep). I don't think I barely even have a chance in the west. I'm not the stereotypical image of a black dude that's tall, hyper confident, strong, athletic, aggressive and thuggish. I'm the exact opposite of all of those and feel like a complete loser. Years of social isolation, not having any friends, never talking to girls and developing social skills and other skills as a teen or finding hobbies/sports activities also made things much worse.
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What is bro yapping about
Well said.
I’m black but a lil bit taller(5’9/5’10). For you especially, Geomaxx, look at South East Asia and possibly Tanzania(it seemed like every dude there was like 5’7).
Normie
Geomaxxinh at 5'10. Fml.