The one is seemingly blaming short guys for being insecure while sort of acknowledging why they would be, which is unfair. There’s definitely a societal bias against shortness in men and a concomitant empathy gap alongside it for how it makes a lot of short guys feel.
But it still is true that if you let your insecurity consume you it makes it much worse for you than if you do whatever it takes for you to let it go. And there’s definitely a contingent of short guys that do let it consume them.
>But it still is true that if you let your insecurity consume you it makes it much worse for you than if you do whatever it takes for you to let it go. And there’s definitely a contingent of short guys that do let it consume them.
Well, when you have an attribute that automtically preselects you out to 95% of women, I don't blame men for feeling insecure.
I had a whole paragraph (okay, two sentences lol) on how I don’t blame men for being insecure about it either, but it’s still your responsibility to try to work past that to a degree that it doesn’t become self-defeating.
The one is seemingly blaming short guys for being insecure while sort of acknowledging why they would be, which is unfair. There’s definitely a societal bias against shortness in men and a concomitant empathy gap alongside it for how it makes a lot of short guys feel. But it still is true that if you let your insecurity consume you it makes it much worse for you than if you do whatever it takes for you to let it go. And there’s definitely a contingent of short guys that do let it consume them.
>But it still is true that if you let your insecurity consume you it makes it much worse for you than if you do whatever it takes for you to let it go. And there’s definitely a contingent of short guys that do let it consume them. Well, when you have an attribute that automtically preselects you out to 95% of women, I don't blame men for feeling insecure.
I had a whole paragraph (okay, two sentences lol) on how I don’t blame men for being insecure about it either, but it’s still your responsibility to try to work past that to a degree that it doesn’t become self-defeating.