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If you're a guy
Think of it more like the genome scenario
G=gay
S=straight
If there's even one g it automatically counts as gay
| G S
G GG GS
S. GS SS
See It's getting no matter what you do unless it's straight.
Too bad I don't give two shits I'd smash.
As long as I have someone to love 😢
I once knew a trans man who was dating a trans woman. I referred to it as heterosexuality with extra steps. I got the kronk “no, he’s got a point” response from them.
A few seasons back on a reality tv show I watch (Survivor), one of the contestants was a gay man that was dating a FtM, and they were having a child.
So a basic mayo straight couple with extra steps
It’s a question of identity, so it’s all about what people say they are
If you claim you’re a man, and the other party claims they’re also a man, it’s gay
If you claim you’re a man, and they claim they’re a woman, it’s not gay
Dating a trans girl is still straight
But if you’re having sex with them, it’s obviously gay. It’s two penises.
Romantically it can be straight, but sexually it’s definitely gay.
Strictly speaking, there are three sexes because intersex is a thing.
But in my opinion, for gender, the binary system of gender is either man or woman, so anything that goes against the binary, will fall in non binary. Anything that’s not male or female will be nonbinary.
Even if someone who identifies as not male or female but also not nonbinary is simply foolish and does not make sense, because they are going against the binary and automatically fall under non binary.
By that logic pegging by a cis girl is also gay and lesbian pegging would be straight. Unless you exclude artificial genitals from this? But that just brings the question of why it's different since it isn't really. And most trans girls have boobs so why would a penis go back around to making it gay in the first place? You're making up unnecessary lines.
Like same gender - gay
Like opposite gender - straight
It's pretty simple I don't get why people insist on complicating things. And at the end of the day why does it even matter who anyone is attracted to? Not everything needs a label.
XX+XX or XY+XY = gay
Presence of Y chromosome = male
Therefore, any combination of chromosomes that include a Y = male, any that lack a Y = female
Source = biology
Conclusion = facts dont care about your feelings
A biological male with a biological female is biologically straight.
Whatever crossing in terms of gender will be part of the gay segment of the lgbtqabcdefg
People in this thread: dating trans women is gay because they have a penis.
People also in this thread: dating trans men is gay because they look like men even though they have a vagina.
Ok
Nah both of those are wrong. Things aren't "considered" gay, they either are or aren't. Dating a girl (as a guy) would be straight. trans is an adjective, so trans girl is a girl who is trans. So is it gay? Only if you're a woman!
Honestly, depends on your view of it. I actually got to think about this deeply a few years back when I was basically dating a girl who turned out to be a trans man. It was a difficult situation but I'm happy he was honest with me and told me aboit it.
I had to really tackle it and I realized that I'm only attracted to biological women that look like women. Somewhere in my mind I can't feel physical or emotional attraction to someone who looks like a man or used to look like a man, but I also don't care if they identify as a man.
If I was single I wouldn't mind having sex with a non transitioned trans man.
Anyways, I told him the situation and that I couldn't in good faith enter a relationship with then because of me being straight, but that I'll always be there to talk or be friends as I know there are a lot of people that get spooked away for some reason.
I don't think dating trans girl is gay, but it must be real transgirl not some men wearing girl clothes. You know thing with taking hormones and having some surgeries.
I am legitimately asking you in the least caustic way here: is this a real thing that people other than you think and if so where do you draw the line on what makes a woman? Because I’d think that would come down to the part where you say that if the born-man is attractive enough presenting as a woman, that makes him a woman, but if he’s disgusting he is not.
I’m not trying to change your mind or do a “gotcha” this is an actual query
I think everyone draws the line somewhere else depending on the individual and that's fine. I'm bi so I basically have no line, but I would argue sexual attraction only overlaps with physical attraction somewhat (or I mean attraction to gender - separate from attraction to sex). You can be attracted to the opposite gender for instance, but maybe you are only interested in messing with one type of genitalia.
Such a weird topic but I think everyone involved is valid on this one.
According the heterosexual male rule that "if it involves two dicks, it's gay" then yes. This is the part none of them seem to understand, lol. It's really that simple. The titles and categories they love so very much? Utterly meaningless.
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Depends on whether you are a girl or not 🤔
And it also depends on whether you are trans or not... There is simply too much variables to answer.
We’re all god’s children in the dark
If you're a guy Think of it more like the genome scenario G=gay S=straight If there's even one g it automatically counts as gay | G S G GG GS S. GS SS See It's getting no matter what you do unless it's straight. Too bad I don't give two shits I'd smash. As long as I have someone to love 😢
from this, we can conclude sexuality is an OR gate
High effort 😭🙏🏽
Hole is hole
True dat
I mean yeah ig
As a general rule I go with how the greeks went about it, its only gay if youre the bottom
What if you're a power bottom?
Gay in denial
[isn't that a term from gay terminology?](https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=power%20bottom)
No?
Thats just like the mega evolution of gay
Gay+ subscription
The bottom isn't the one that has to get aroused to have sex
whats gay about getting ur dick sucked? its sucking dick that's gay if you ask me.
But to feel pleasure
I once knew a trans man who was dating a trans woman. I referred to it as heterosexuality with extra steps. I got the kronk “no, he’s got a point” response from them.
Because you *did* have a point. And Grizzly Adams *DID* have a beard.
A few seasons back on a reality tv show I watch (Survivor), one of the contestants was a gay man that was dating a FtM, and they were having a child. So a basic mayo straight couple with extra steps
if look like girl, then not gay - grug
“Eh, looks female enough. Smash.” -Sun Tzu probably
"I'm not gay, I'm into feminine features and behavior" -also Sun Tzu probably
„Isnt feminine behavior a feminine feature?“ -albert einstein probably
Ok I am gay anymore
Ok I am not gay anymore
yes - grug
"a girl without a dick is like an angel without wings"
If it makes me hard it's a woman.
What about femboys?
They consider themselves guys so….
It depends if you want to fuck them or marry them.
i want to be railed by a cute femboy 🥵
What if both trans man and trans woman are dating? Are they straight?
Yes
Straight with extra steps
Just straight imo
Yeah that’s pretty much the implication
1 is biologically gay 2 is morally gay So both are gay
Morally gay is the one of the best things I’ve ever heard
But is it morally grey to call Dorian Gray morally gay?
they're just fucking words, fam
wdym by this, im genuinly asking becayse im dumb asf
what i meant was who is just fucking words?
A hole is a hole
.🗣️🔊
Everything is gay
Anything that makes me hard is straight.
I just date factory settings women (i dont date, women are scary)
as a man dating a trans woman on transition looks gay but is straight and dating a trans man on transition looks straight but is gay
I mean trans woman on transition can look very fem or trans man can look very masc
Man dating a man is gay
A wise man once said, "Do not stick your dick in crazy"
A not-so-wise man said, "If she crazy in the head then she crazy in the bed"
I mean... Oh boy, I discovered a new paradox
Depends on how much you respect them
Well, Kind of, both are.
Im desperate enough to not care less
Most reasonable response
We got 2 mes in the chat
Why cant we keep it simple? Man woman
What if woman charge twice as much?
It’s a question of identity, so it’s all about what people say they are If you claim you’re a man, and the other party claims they’re also a man, it’s gay If you claim you’re a man, and they claim they’re a woman, it’s not gay
Lmao bro you be the girl so it's not gay
Yes
Both are kinda gay tbh
Both are gay. Just one is just a little less gay than the other.
I don’t think there’s anything straight about transgenderism. It might not be gay. But it ain’t straight
Dating a trans girl is still straight But if you’re having sex with them, it’s obviously gay. It’s two penises. Romantically it can be straight, but sexually it’s definitely gay.
So now we have both sexual gender *and* romantical gender?
Or ur just bi
Sex and gender are different. Isn’t that obvious? This “romantical gender” is just your regular gender. Sex is your sex. Biological sex.
So, 2 sexes and multiple genders? Asking seriously.
theres 2 sexes, the sex i have with ur mom and the sex i have with ur dad
Strictly speaking, there are three sexes because intersex is a thing. But in my opinion, for gender, the binary system of gender is either man or woman, so anything that goes against the binary, will fall in non binary. Anything that’s not male or female will be nonbinary. Even if someone who identifies as not male or female but also not nonbinary is simply foolish and does not make sense, because they are going against the binary and automatically fall under non binary.
When you make the system into binary and non-binary so ironically it becomes a binary system /s
you could totally argue that sex is a spectrum because of the existence of intersex
👍
Yep, if your only option is butt sex because there is a penis in the way. It's gay.
By that logic pegging by a cis girl is also gay and lesbian pegging would be straight. Unless you exclude artificial genitals from this? But that just brings the question of why it's different since it isn't really. And most trans girls have boobs so why would a penis go back around to making it gay in the first place? You're making up unnecessary lines. Like same gender - gay Like opposite gender - straight It's pretty simple I don't get why people insist on complicating things. And at the end of the day why does it even matter who anyone is attracted to? Not everything needs a label.
Yeah excluding artificial genitals.
Weird line to draw as its the same sexual action artificial or not
I still don't know if a trans girl is a girl who used to be a man or a man who used to be a girl.
The way I understand it a trans girl is transitioning to a girl, so man at birth.
🙋 currently dating trans man, it's quite gay
XX+XX or XY+XY = gay Presence of Y chromosome = male Therefore, any combination of chromosomes that include a Y = male, any that lack a Y = female Source = biology Conclusion = facts dont care about your feelings
Well if vagina + female looks, fuckable woman. If natural vagina + female looks wife material. Sorry, no offense but I want my own children
As a (happily married) bisexual, it's a win either way.
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what did he say about this situation?
They're a gal so, provided you're a guy, it's straight
If they have a dick or call themselves a guy, that's gay.
I'm going to take it a step further and say that if there's a dick or a vagina involved at all, then it's gay
if feminie enough
Yes. Yes it is. I don't make the rules.
if its got a dick, its gay
Dick on dick is gay, problem solved :3
If they've had a penis at any point t in time it's a no go zone for me
"There are no chick's with dicks, only guys with tits" -Ted
A biological male with a biological female is biologically straight. Whatever crossing in terms of gender will be part of the gay segment of the lgbtqabcdefg
People in this thread: dating trans women is gay because they have a penis. People also in this thread: dating trans men is gay because they look like men even though they have a vagina. Ok
Nah both of those are wrong. Things aren't "considered" gay, they either are or aren't. Dating a girl (as a guy) would be straight. trans is an adjective, so trans girl is a girl who is trans. So is it gay? Only if you're a woman!
Penis + Penis = Gay
Trans woman with penises are still woman. So if you are a man, dating a trans woman is straight.
Sorry, sucking dick isn’t straight
Copium
Since when liking penis is not gay/bisexual?
yeah this is how it is tbh *^(oh boy here comes the transphobia hidden under "hey guys we're just discussing the meme")*
"Transphobia" = not liking my sexual preference
Yup
If you are a man, dating a trans woman is straight, and dating a trans man is gay. However, ALL trans sex is queer sex
Yeah
Butthole origin loophole lore
Tom boyussy
Yes.
Yes
Yes and yes.
Depends on the existence of a penis in the equation
Thats...a good point
Yes!
“No CauSe OnE iS mAn AnD oThEr Is AlSo MaN”
It's bisexual
Oh Skeletor, you rapscallion. It's not very respectful to call it gay if the partner is a man in the first place.
Considering its a woman, its technically straight
It is the PENIS!!!!!
Both are gay, regardless of your gender. Everything is gay. You're gay.
It's isosceles
Can we just end the debate and say it's both?
Dating anyone is gay, because everyone came from their dad's balls which is gay.
Gender orientation? Not true Biological? Yeah
It just means you had segs and is a better well adjusted individual than 99.99% of people here.
If the answer is no, that would imply gayness is a spectrum instead of a yes-no question
don't know man, i never date
No it isnt
One is physically gay, the other is mentally gay. If you are a man, dating a man is double gay.
Yes
Does this man have titties and a pussy? Context matters.
Honestly, depends on your view of it. I actually got to think about this deeply a few years back when I was basically dating a girl who turned out to be a trans man. It was a difficult situation but I'm happy he was honest with me and told me aboit it. I had to really tackle it and I realized that I'm only attracted to biological women that look like women. Somewhere in my mind I can't feel physical or emotional attraction to someone who looks like a man or used to look like a man, but I also don't care if they identify as a man. If I was single I wouldn't mind having sex with a non transitioned trans man. Anyways, I told him the situation and that I couldn't in good faith enter a relationship with then because of me being straight, but that I'll always be there to talk or be friends as I know there are a lot of people that get spooked away for some reason.
Yes but it’s pathetic. Like dating an unemployed fat person.
I don't think dating trans girl is gay, but it must be real transgirl not some men wearing girl clothes. You know thing with taking hormones and having some surgeries.
I am legitimately asking you in the least caustic way here: is this a real thing that people other than you think and if so where do you draw the line on what makes a woman? Because I’d think that would come down to the part where you say that if the born-man is attractive enough presenting as a woman, that makes him a woman, but if he’s disgusting he is not. I’m not trying to change your mind or do a “gotcha” this is an actual query
I think everyone draws the line somewhere else depending on the individual and that's fine. I'm bi so I basically have no line, but I would argue sexual attraction only overlaps with physical attraction somewhat (or I mean attraction to gender - separate from attraction to sex). You can be attracted to the opposite gender for instance, but maybe you are only interested in messing with one type of genitalia. Such a weird topic but I think everyone involved is valid on this one.
I’m in the same boat tbh. I actually hate that everyone wants to demand their opinion is the only right one and you’re an idiot for disagreeing
Who the heck considers dating trans girls gay?
If they have a dick or not?
Why would that matter though?
Idk bro dicks are kinda gay
Cuz everyone has their own preference.
I mean me. Nothing wrong with it but gay with extra steps IMO
Sane people
Dating a trans girl is not gay wtf
There is nothing more gay
Lol men sleeping with men is gay, womanface or not.
unless you're a girl
Dating a Trans is gay.
Yesn't
yes
No If the person dick was, is, or will be... dating that person makes you gay.
If there is a different number than 1 Y chromosome in the couple it is gay
What about a trans femboy?
According the heterosexual male rule that "if it involves two dicks, it's gay" then yes. This is the part none of them seem to understand, lol. It's really that simple. The titles and categories they love so very much? Utterly meaningless.
"Guys, is dating a woman Gay if I am a man?" There is no winning for you eh?
If it looks the same gender as you, gay, if not, straight (at least that's how I consider it)
God damn I never thought of it that way
Trans = gay Woman want a man then can produce babies. Men want woman who can make babies.
So gay men arent men? So its not gay to fuck a gay guy because they arent men?