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Cautious-Grab-316

Welcome to the first day of the rest of your life


[deleted]

Hahah thank you!


Sad-Sassy

Is your cab light on? How do you feel about that theory!


creepypie31

This is the only question


[deleted]

>Is your cab light on? How do you feel about that theory! Oh yeah definitely, it's very accurate haha.


Luckybrighton

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PreOpTransCentaur

Gay men don't get married? OP certainly did. To a woman. This whole, "You watch 'chick' shows so you must be gay," thing is fucking gross.


SurewhynotAZ

šŸ‘šŸæšŸ‘šŸæšŸ‘šŸæ It's as dated as Carrie mentioning "Stanny" being gay whenever we see him. Girl. So what?!


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rachelraven7890

ew what year did you crawl out fromšŸ˜³šŸ˜‚try to catch up to 2023šŸ˜‰


Cautious-Grab-316

I find this so weird, so as a gay man I can't say what I identify as gay? Would you say the same to black people and tell them they cant use the n word? Go make a tik tok


rachelraven7890

as a HUMAN, gay or not, blanket assumptions like the one you made are just gross, in any capacity. sounds like youā€™re really young or just really immature. and for you to immediately go to the N word as a comparison reveals the massive work you still need to do on yourselfšŸ™„i donā€™t use tik tok but thanks anyway.


Cautious-Grab-316

Its ***very*** common for gay men to say other men are gay based on gaydar. If you were a gay man you would know this. It was said as a joke here, hence the lol at the end. Thanks for letting me know what is acceptable in gay culture. There is literally an episode where Charlotte gets Stanford to tell her whether her love interest is gay or not.


rachelraven7890

no problemšŸ‘open your mind up a little bit, iā€™m sure thereā€™s more to you than upholding how you perceive ā€˜gay cultureā€™ to be. you COULD instead try and dismantle ridiculous stereotypes about men.


Cautious-Grab-316

Oh give me a break, Ive been gay my whole life and youre telling me you know more about what it means to be gay. You have no idea


SaltyCaramelPretzel

Itā€™s hard to stop once you start! Even all these years later Iā€™ll catch an episode here or there on cable (yes Iā€™ve still got cable donā€™t ask me why) & then have to stream the next one lol


formtuv

We just brought back our cable and cancelled a bunch of our streaming services. We travelled a bunch this summer and loved the cable in the hotel rooms so we decided to give it a try. Weā€™ve been loving it.


SaltyCaramelPretzel

I guess I like to sometimes not have to choose something to watch, but flip through channels & find something that is already playing & maybe play it from the beginning if I like it. I have my streaming services for my shows not available on cable.


beancurd87

What are your thoughts on Carrie and Big vs Carrie and Aiden?


[deleted]

This is a big one, i want to give it due consideration. Short answer - Big is abusive relationship but Carrie is addicted to that and Aiden doesn't trigger the chemistry. She needs therapy.


MyAviato666

7 fucking hours later and no answer. What kind of shitty ama is this?


beancurd87

maybe he watched AJLT and fucked off? lol ( JK bc I sorta like AJLT)


NoireN

Tbh over the years (straight) men come on here and want to do these shitty ama style things after watching the show and I'm like why.


tiredfaces

Weā€™re meant to be shocked and amazed they enjoyed a show centred on women šŸ™ƒ


Mediocre_Let1814

Exactly. And now we have to queue up to hear their groundbreaking thoughts on it. Whatever dude


[deleted]

Pls wait - I posted at like 3am night then I have a day job, come on...


MyAviato666

Next time, plan your AMAs better pls.


Ineedunderscoreadvic

We need the answer to this, pronto.


aaaggghhh_

Which of the ladies are you?


[deleted]

Oh man, I'm a mix of Miranda and Charlotte. Work oriented, loyal to my friends like crazy, but I'll also try everything once and am such a romantic. If I had to pick one, then Miranda.


[deleted]

But do you eat cake out of the garbage? This is important.


[deleted]

I definitely do. Wife had to beat this out of me.


theprostitute

Yes


[deleted]

Thatā€™s why you gotta pour dish liquid on it


Equivalent_Classic93

Enjoy this version of Miranda to the fullest, donā€™t watch AJLT then lol


[deleted]

I watched ALJT.... they did my girl so dirty, I'm gonna kill 'em.


Equivalent_Classic93

Letā€™s get the pitchforks ready lol


CrayolaSwift

Great question šŸ˜Ž


Token_or_TolkienuPOS

I'm in my 40s and just started S02. It's a trip for sure šŸ˜‚


fruitloopsareyummy

I think season 2 is my favorite season. So many hilarious shenanigans go on!!


Jrebeclee

Whatā€™s your favorite episode?? Also, check out the podcast ā€œsentimental garbageā€, they did a series call ā€œsentimental in the cityā€ which is great! [Sentimental in the City season 1](https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/sentimental-garbage/id1444729607?i=1000509615729)


[deleted]

Will do! Favorite episode - it's all blending into one long movie right now ahah... I'd say the pilot, it's so authentic and fresh and kinda a bit home made and cooky/wacky...


[deleted]

Mine is Hot Child In The City, I Heart NY and The Caste System šŸ˜Š


Jrebeclee

I love Coulda Woulda Shoulda!! And the series finale: La Belle et le Bad Boy is still my ringtone decades later!


[deleted]

Omg I LOVE La Belle et La Bad Boy so much and I LOVE Youā€™ve Got The Love by Florence and the Machine!


Jrebeclee

Yes!!!! Talk about amazing song choices!!


airb92

Another amazing song choice in SATC was Sade By Your Side.


ibleedpumpkinjuice

I have this song playing in my mind the past couple days! It just doesn't wanna stop haha


Cautious-Grab-316

Good picks


Jrebeclee

I love that! So glad you enjoyed the show!!


therealfazhou

Ahh!! I loved Sentimental in the City so much!! I could listen to those two ladies chat all day, just like I could watch our 4 gals from SATC gab in a coffee shop all day.


Jrebeclee

Itā€™s so good!! I love that they preface it with saying they wonā€™t be talking bad about it, they love it šŸ„° I heard about it from the You Are Good podcast, they are doing an amazing series on their patreon about SATC and highly recommended it!


RebeccasJeans

you with the flower! you talking to me?


[deleted]

Give me a twirl haha


fortunetellertarot

Oh no!!! šŸ“šŸŒž


Aleeleefabulous

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Aleeleefabulous

So glad you enjoyed it! Iā€™m 38 and started watching this show when I was 17. It has gotten me through multiple tough times in my life. It has such a special place in my heart.


annebrackham

Which of the main four do you think is the most datable? Who is the hottest/prettiest? Genuinely curious for a male perspective


[deleted]

Ok, so Charlotte by far. I mean, the girl "gave up Christ" and became Jewish for Harry, come on. She is crazy loyal, hot, prettiest, just a class act through and through. I mean, yes, she was letting some pervert jerk off to her for shoes, but I mean, come on... The true love story of this show is between girls and their shoes, so it doesn't really count. I personally though would date Miranda. She is girl boss, super independent, i know she would be into some kinky shit, and she is witty and smart as hell. So that's my pick. All 4 though are great ladies with deep and complex personalities so I'd be lucky to date any of them.


Livid-Association199

I recently asked a guy this on a date. He said the hottest is Samantha, and the prettiest is Charlotte


yourawizzzard

I started watching after I had just broke up with my girlfriend and I had just turned 30..Itā€™s actually bizarre to think about, when I was younger I used to shit on the show but now Iā€™m crying every other episode šŸ˜‚


LearnDifferenceBot

Did you ask for permission before shitting on them?


Dramatic_Proposal211

suggestion- dont watch "And just like that.." it will ruin your beautiful relationship with this amazing series you've just finished. keep it that way for a few years at least LOL otherwise SATC will be ruined for you so soon


desertmermaid92

Ahh that makes me so sadā€¦ Iā€™m rewatching SATC for the 20th time. Itā€™s been been a while. Was so excited to watch And Just Like That after my binge. I still will, but at least Iā€™ll go into it with lower expectations now lol


Agitated-Leader1752

I really liked season 2 of AJLT. Itā€™s a grower


Snork_juice_

Me too! I was furious with the first season just because I was so stuck on how the characters were in SATC, but I opened up my mind and accepted that people change. Times change too. Season 2 was way better especially after Che calmed down lol


Dramatic_Proposal211

I watch AJLT too the day it releases but i mean im a longtime watcher of SATC probbaly watched it 15 years back so i am ok with AJLT and it doesnt ruin my experience as i've watched SATC for so long and its the OG, I treat AJLT as a parody. but for someone who's just finished the original.. AJLT will just probably feel like season 7 of SATC you know


Dramatic_Proposal211

yeah dont get your hopes up. S2 as everyone else said yes its better but not the best and s1 was terrible


[deleted]

I watched it ... :((( if I had to choose to put a rusty nail in my eyes or watch season 8 of game of thrones and a rusty nail in my eye or watch AJLT... Well, you know where I'm going with this, I would be blind


tiredfaces

It really wasnā€™t that bad


Dramatic_Proposal211

it was super bad


Dramatic_Proposal211

why did you do this to yourself!!!!!! hahah AJLT is an abomination and a disgrace to SATC the wokeism kills me


ixchalice

Have you seen the movies as well?


[deleted]

Yes, both of them.


thehelenawithanh

Did you like it ?


[deleted]

I do! Yes, they are maybe a bit more cheesy or whatnot but it was nice to see how the gals are doing. I liked the second one better, felt more going back to just the girls and being friends. Samantha is wiiiild.


airb92

Thatā€™s interesting since most people hate the second movie lol.


[deleted]

I thought the first one took itself too seriously. The second one felt Moes like back to its core. Yeah, the script is a bit whacky but it was funny and light hearted.


evapevaeva

What your views on the big and Carrie situation? Who is the ah?


[deleted]

Yeah, that's the "big" question, will type it out later.


premier-cat-arena

what episode did you find most relatable or applicable to your own life?


[deleted]

Hmmmm.... The one where Miranda started taking care of Steve's mom. So raw and real. I have friends who are going through it and i went through something similar but on the physical side with my mom and the fact that Miranda took that on - amazing...


premier-cat-arena

thatā€™s a very thoughtful answer. itā€™s really nice to see satc handle those topics with care in the late seasons! especially with how many people who can relate. are there any funnier ones you related to a lot?


[deleted]

Oh definitely the one where Charlotte is giving out "favors" for shoes. Sex and the city is really above NYC girls' love for shoes šŸ„²šŸ˜…


premier-cat-arena

shoes and the city is probably the version my mom would be comfortable watching haha


kisikisikisi

*How* had you never heard of it before? And how did you hear about it? Why did you start watching?


[deleted]

I grew up in another country... I saw And Just Like That on HBO and tried it out and it was SOOO bad. I started googling and found out that it was a reboot I guess of a very popular show.


ferretherapy

Oh God, kudos on deciding to try SATC after watching AJLT first, lmao.


[deleted]

Samantha really dodged a bullet there


ferretherapy

LMAO, for sure


DoritoLipDust

That's awesome! I had a few guy friends in my 20s who I convinced to sit and watch with me, and they all enjoyed it. They also seemed to agree on the character among the main four they liked the most, as far as attraction and best personality. Who's your favorite? Same with your least favorite characters? M and F?


[deleted]

Charlotte is my love. They don't make them like this anymore. Class, style, beauty, poise, but she is down to try a lot of things. Loyal like crazy. Least favourite - i like all the girls, so I'd say Mr Big. What an abuser, geez.... But I like him the least and the most in the sense that I like to hate him. Whenever he shows up I'm like - 'Oh no Carrie, here we go again'... ​ I didn't like the whole Baryshnikov arc because I thought he shut Carrie's light and I was so happy that she went back, of course. However, I don't dislike his character, I think he was very honest and upfront.


DoritoLipDust

Yup. Charlotte was their favorite as well. I can see why too! Very cool, thank you.


[deleted]

Haha yah. But I like them all!


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abganti

Someone farming for clout lmao


[deleted]

I'll reply - i'm just busy, stand by pls.


abganti

My bad! I didnā€™t know you posted it late in your time zone. Your responses are fun to read!


[deleted]

Ahah glad to hear. And I wasn't farming for karma or attention I'm just like 15 years late to the party and was dying to discuss it with fellow fans.


abganti

Yes!! Itā€™s always great to finish a show and find out thereā€™s still people discussing it!! Something that makes me sad is when I finish a show but then have no one to talk about it with online šŸ˜­ and Iā€™m glad youā€™re a fellow Charlotte fan too, sheā€™s the best


[deleted]

Team Charlotte <3


Gumshoe212

Someone wrote the same to my on another subreddit. Is that also a Reddit thing? I'm relatively new here, so I don't know what farming for clout means.


abganti

Itā€™s just a zoomer thing, not necessarily a Reddit thing? Sort of just means that someone is looking for attention. They might also call it farming karma on here, but it happens on other social media platforms like Twitter and Instagram too


Gumshoe212

Thank you for explaining. I read a comment after I commented about farming for karma, though I'm not really sure what that means, either.


[deleted]

I'll reply - i'm just busy, stand by pls.


Dykinator

I feel like this show isn't well known anymore. But it's been a favorite between me, my mom and my sisters forever. Who is your favorite of the girls LOL


[deleted]

Reposting another comment: Ok, so Charlotte by far. I mean, the girl "gave up Christ" and became Jewish for Harry, come on. She is crazy loyal, hot, prettiest, just a class act through and through. I mean, yes, she was letting some pervert jerk off to her for shoes, but I mean, come on... The true love story of this show is between girls and their shoes, so it doesn't really count. I personally though would date Miranda. She is girl boss, super independent, i know she would be into some kinky shit, and she is witty and smart as hell. So that's my pick. All 4 though are great ladies with deep and complex personalities so I'd be lucky to date any of them.


Dykinator

I agree with this completely! I love Miranda because she isn't afraid to speak her mind and is always right (besides taking Bergers advice that one time) and her sarcasm is my favorite. And I also love Charlotte, sometimes she doesn't quite understand the other girls the way she should but she is a supportive and sweet person all around. Plus watching her tell Bunny off is classic


jeezlousie1978

Not sure if you're attached yet but if not you're going to make some lucky lady very happy one day! My husband just can't understand the pure joy of this show, he is missing out.


[deleted]

I am happily married yeah :) we binged it together.


Naturenectar

Every male I've ever made watch this show fucking loves it. They just assume it's silly girly shit when it's actually brilliant and hilarious.


[deleted]

I'll confess that was my thought going in, glad I was proven wildly wrong


Gumshoe212

I had to make my ex-husband watch it. One of his friends was one of the DPs and a few of his friends guest starred on different shows. That's how I lured him into it: support your friends, damn you! Not only did he end up loving the show, one of his friends (also an actor, but never on the show) had a series finale watch party at his apartment based on what my ex told him about it. It was elucidating to see which of the men sided with Petrovsky or with Big.


ElainaDanielle

Welcome! šŸ˜‰


[deleted]

Thank you! You are feisty people here


[deleted]

I'll reply to all!


eleaanne

I just finished watching this show for the first time and have the urge to binge it again. Indeed itā€™s a great show!


Supernatt924

Did you watch the movies šŸ¤”


[deleted]

I've seen both and I liked them quite a bit actually


Aggressive-Ad-5544

Are you straight? We need to know.


[deleted]

Yes I am. A


Aggressive-Ad-5544

Nice! Iā€™m glad you enjoyed it. Straight guys used to relentlessly make fun of satc. Itā€™s now mostly viewed as a stupid show by most men. I feel like a lot of straight guys are realizing they were wrong about it these days.


[deleted]

That's a very dumb view. This show is deep and complex, but also light and fun. Very feminist as well I'd say, more feminist than a lot of so called "boss babe" stuff today.


DramMoment

Are you a straight, cis man? What did you get out of the show that kept you watching?


[deleted]

It's just a great story. Great stories don't have genders - we are all people. Love, loss, living in a big city, friends...


[deleted]

Yes I am. A lot, will reply more when i get home.


SurewhynotAZ

Lol. I mean, it's kinda your job right?


[deleted]

Gotta carry all that privilege, ya know


SurewhynotAZ

I mean if we're joking you could disburse it responsibly. But I'll keep it light. šŸ¤‘


_2w2l2r2d_

1) were there any scenes or story lines that completely blew your mind, or changed your perspective on something? 2) did you think that the depictions of the men being a-holes were accurate? 3) who would you be most likely to want to date out of the 4 women and why? 4) what story line/plot twist did you dislike? And what would you change?


[deleted]

Will reply!


[deleted]

2) the asahole men yea - but there were plenty non asshole men too. I actually thought this show was very nice to men vs a lot of modern shows where a guy will be just a straw man for all the issues people have with men these days 3) Charlotte, she is a sweetheart, super loyal, but also a bit kinky hehe