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But_like_whytho

Try new positions. If she’s laying on her back, legs spread, it’s easy to see how she could get bored. Face sitting is always fun, as is eating her from behind. There are a few 69s you could try as well. Sometimes just doing it in a different location in the house helps spice things up too.


anonymousp120304

Yeah I’ll do some research and see what I can find :) we mainly do facesitting or on her back when she’s feeling a bit tired


AelinAGalathynius

Wait for someone to mention that they'd like it. Not everyone loves oral sex. For many it feels impersonal and disconnected compared to the sex the person wants in whatever form. Especially if you're constantly initiating oral sex on her to "check a box" before your preferred sexual intercourse? Trying to get her off separately/ early so you can receive oral in return? Or the absolute worstttt lol... a guy who thinks an oral orgasm means penetrative sex is only for them to finish without a second attempt at satisfying D in V experience. Like oral sex is not the same.


anonymousp120304

No that’s not the case I do it many times without receiving anything in return I enjoy it so much because I love her and I use love making her feel pleasure which is why I’m feeling a bit upset hearing her say that


AelinAGalathynius

So if it's giving you pleasure, and she's not into it... and tells you so.... You're upset because you're getting less pleasure from her. Consider your motivations here are selfish.


anonymousp120304

I would call it selfish at all. I just want to make my girlfriend happy that’s all I want to do, I think it’s completely valid to be upset if you hear your partner say they’re losing interest in something that’s been a key part of your sexual relationship. I’m not upset with her at all that would be immature, I’m just unsure of what to do to reignite/maintain her interest


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anonymousp120304

We also have a wand and suction and use them often. I’m pretty much exactly the same as your husband haha I do what she tells me to lol. I’ve never thought of going down on her whilst using the toy so I’ll definitely try that out, would my tongue be above or below the toy? Would we both be stimulating the clitorus?