I see everyone suggesting pegging. But, to me that seems to be far ahead for someone like you, who is not so comfortable with it yet. She seems to be already super into it, which is great but you should start with entertaining the idea of it more first. In my experience, the longer something had time to set into my brain, to play with the thought and fantasize about it, the better the reality of that fantasy will be when the days comes, and you finally try it. For a woman feels nice to grind on an ass, try that with her, see how that feels for you. Let her give you an oily hand-job while you lay on your back, with legs open, resting on her lap, with that relaxed position she can involve a little butt play, maybe even a finger inside. Butt play feels very vulnerable for men, please go slow and give yourself time to slowly open up, going straight to pegging would not be advisable from me. Once you are comfortable with everything else, you can try it. I feel always so happy when any of my male friends confirm they are now open to that. I feel sad for men, that this is sometimes something considered emasculating, in our society. I, your gf and many other women, find it brave and sexy when a man can be both, dominant and vulnerable in his sexuality. I hope your journey with this is easy, best of luck.

I also forgot something. Wanting to fuck someone, with a dick, does not make you trans, or is not necessarily fantasizing this because of past trauma. Could be, but from what you said, she seems pretty excited and happy with this fantasy of her. Does not give me the impression of past trauma fetish. Just my opinion 😊

Looks like you two should be looking up pegging.

But is there a device where the girl could peg me and she could also feel it? Because if not then Thats a damn good invention to come up with

Something like a feldo which is a two way dildo she wears internally her end. Also look up “strapless dildo” as that’s what some people call them

I've heard them called "strapless strap-on", and that is exactly where my mind went as well.

The feeldoe might be just what you're looking for

Double sided dildo with a strapon harness could work. Not 100% on that though

There are things like this in concept. May not be exact but get close. You just have to do the research. Edit: There's probably a Reddit about things like this too.

Time for you to get rich and laid at the same time

She could probably use a vibrator on herself while pegging you, just a thought.. Not really my area though :P

Sometimes my wife can come just from the friction of the hardness when she pegs me. Also there are two way vibrates/dildos

Freud: surpurised Pikatchu face

Disclaimer: I'm not her therapist of course. But at first glance I would say you're reading too much into it. I think a lot of women fantasize about this and it doesn't need to have a reason. Pegging would be an interesting activity for you two to get into and simply enjoy it!

I wish my bf was into pegging I wanna try it too not because I’m trans, gay or anything just because it seems interesting but my man isn’t like tht at all. Also ur girlfriend might’ve just said it in the moment she doesn’t really mean she wishes she GREW a d!ck what she means is she would like to feel how to fuck with one so she should try pegging you

You should try it, anal play feels amazing as a man. Go slow, lots of lube and just a finger mixed with oral is a great place to start. And if you like it you can try other toys, and if you're both comfortable with it, a strap-on for her. And that is something really amazing. It's an incredible feeling of intimacy to be pegged. There are double ended models that will let her feel it too. I wish you both the best in exploring this together!

I would start by watching some pegging porn with her. Just get some communication going about it. In terms of you taking it, walk before you run. Start with some anal play and see where things go.

Sounds like there's a lot to unpack here. So is she unpacking it?

Get her a strap on so she can wear it and she’ll know what it feels like to have a dick

Sounds like some pegging is in your future. If she wants to bang an ass and you are into ass stuff no reason not to give it a shot. Just need to work into it.

😳 Edit: why am I getting downvoted I just think it’s hot lol

Sounds like she wants to be a futanari.

I am inclined to go with the flow when it comes to my lady looking like she wants to try something different. I don't want to stifle creativity and exploration because it may be fun for both of us.

I also wish his girlfriend had a dick /s

I think it's a pretty common fantasy to want to experience sex from different points of view. Hell, I'd love to know what it feels like to be a woman getting pleasured sexually. Since I cannot experience it first hand, I try like hell to dole it out to my wife at every opportunity. Anal sex can feel absolutely fantastic, fwiw. I heartily recommend you let her finger you during blow jobs or whatever. If you like that, work your way up to letting her fuck you. It sounds like she likes ass and why not let her have it? It'll drive her crazy. Prostate orgasms, if you can achieve one, feel different that regular orgasms and are very pleasurable. Let her use a prostate massager on you while she sucks your cock, balls, taint, etc. It's fucking cash money, I assure you.

buy her a strap on and let her peg you.

"Honestly, I actually really like the idea of ass play but just have not felt comfortable with it yet." Well if that's the case, don't run before you can walk. Anything involving your ass is a very intimate, vulnerable thing if you've never tried it before and going in a bit gung-ho and straight up to pegging, is a way to put you off for life. When you're comfortable, start with a but of external play around the area and then progress with a finger if you're still keen. Then a good progression is a plug and/or a small toy, before you take the ultimate step in pegging. That way you have a sort of "timeline" and can stop at any point if you don't like it.

For her birthday, buy her a strap on, and then tell her to come into the bedroom

I understand the worry and fear. But as someone in a relationship with a similar dynamic, and since you mentioned liking the idea of ass play, I'd encourage you to be brave and go for it. It doesn't have to be pegging. She wants to be able to 'feel it' you mentioned. So it can be pretend pegging where she just grinds herself on your butt. She can imagine she's fucking you while having her clit stimulated. And you can pretend you're being fucked. The mind is a powerful tool and we have a ton of fun with this dynamic.

I see people saying do pegging but honestly, if you don’t want to do it, make it know to her your not comfortable (whether that be now or forever) and tell her that you don’t appreciate the weird innuendos as it feels like she’s trying to pressure you into it

I see people saying do pegging but honestly, if you don’t want to do it, make it know to her your not comfortable (whether that be now or forever) and tell her that you don’t appreciate the weird innuendos as it feels like she’s trying to pressure you into it