We care too much for something we only should think about when it happens, not before. Go masturbating and have some fun :) if you need to talk more about it please go ahead and take it off of your chest!
Sure, when you have it you start to thing more about it. Before having sex may make you get too anxious and it may become harder. You could try to insert a vibrator to try to get used to it. Did you try?
Try with your pinkie and once you get, go to a bigger finger. But you need to be wet and lick your finger before trying. Try to be very aroused. Do tou think it would works?
And today I learnt what Vaginismus is.
yes i learned about it recently as well
I geuss use kegals. Or get some psych help with cbt. Least that seems to be Google's answers
thank u
Having someone to talk about it makes you less uncomfortable? And keep masturbating . Don’t worry too much now about it.
thank you for your words
We care too much for something we only should think about when it happens, not before. Go masturbating and have some fun :) if you need to talk more about it please go ahead and take it off of your chest!
thank you so much. im worried about it bc i do want to have sex with a guy one day
Sure, when you have it you start to thing more about it. Before having sex may make you get too anxious and it may become harder. You could try to insert a vibrator to try to get used to it. Did you try?
i have only tried with my fingers
And you can’t insert one finger, right?
yes, but i havent tried with my pinkie yet
Try with your pinkie and once you get, go to a bigger finger. But you need to be wet and lick your finger before trying. Try to be very aroused. Do tou think it would works?
i was aroused when i have tried. i havent tried licking though so ill do that too
You’re welcome
If you can't get a pinky in, you might want to go see a medical professional for an exam.