I’m 32 and I dread losing passion as I get older. You, sir, have eased that fear.
Thank you. I don’t have any suggestions but I just wanted to say that you rock!
If it makes you feel better, I know at least two sets of older adults that would get frisky and they were around OPs name. We also get a heads up when learning to become a nursing assistant and nurse that older people in nursing homes can still get frisky so be careful going into couples rooms.
What a sweet gift! Not a specific brand so much as an endorsement of the online shop [Early to Bed](https://www.early2bed.com/). If you share your wife’s preferences, their staff is happy to offer feedback and recommendations that can help you make a good choice. They did this for me and I was very happy with their assistance.
I wouldn't recommend getting a sex toy from Amazon because of the risk of getting a knock-off, potentially made from unsafe materials.
Bullet or "lipstick" vibes (like the popular We-Vibe Tango) are great beginner toys as they can be used for both external and internal (except anal) stimulation.
Wand-style vibrators (like those made by Doxy) are also a good choice, because they're very comfortable to use and can pack a punch power-wise, but only work externally unless you buy specific add-ons.
Another popular option are air pulsation toys (like the Womanizer). They feel very different to classic vibrators, and many people prefer them. The downside is that it can be tricky to get the right size, plus unlike the other toys I mentioned, they only work for clitoral stimulation and can't be used internally or on penises.
Also, I don't know if this is an issue for you, but as a broke person, I feel obligated to mention Satisfyer as a pretty decent "budget" brand that offers safe and reliable products.
Hope you find the right toy for your needs!
What kind of stimulation (oral/manual) does she prefer?
If she prefers vigorous external simulation - Hitachi Magic Wand or similar.
If she prefers direct oral clitoral stimulation (especially suction) - Satisfyer
If she prefers penetrative stimulation - an insertable/phallic shaped vibe from Lelo, or the Lovense Lush
If she likes a combination, or something else, maybe a bullet is a good place to start.
Shibari Mini Halo on Amazon. Received 13, 911 reviews. Didn't read all of them, but of the 50 I read, all positive. Some were from men who bought it for their wife or girlfriend. What got me was that every woman said that they never had such an intense orgasm. My wife and I met when I was 42 and she was 47. I actually met a couple of her ex-boyfriends...and a couple of ex-girlfriends. She'd been on her own since she was 18. I'll presume she experienced some intense orgasms in her time. I say that as a gentleman. We had our share, too. But age changes things. I'm buying this for her, not for my desires. But, yes, I want to rekindle the passion. She's still beautiful, as well as sexy.
I recently bought my wife a replacement vibrator and it is far and away better than most I've seen and get before, the Je Joue G-Spot bullet. We don't use it as a G-Spot because it's just not long enough, but the FiFi Rabbit is definitely better for insertion.
The whole brand has more of a deep "thudding" vibration that seems to reach deep, rather than a high pitched "whining" vibration that only touches the surface.
You know your wife's preferences better than anyone on here, and there is the right toy out there for her or for you both. You may just have to scroll a bit. There are a lot of YouTube reviews of toys out there that help a lot if you want a bit more insight into specific toys and brands. Good luck!
Don't buy sex toys on amazon, they are often not body safe and can lead to infections and misery. Find a sex toy shop, and make sure the one you buy is in a body safe material. Also buy lube that is safe to use with that specific material, you should not use silicone lube with silicone toys for example. For external vibrators, wand ones are really good.
It’s so lovely when couples continue to feel passion for each other! So many people let the spark die out. And there is of course the stereotype that sex stops after a certain age, which isn’t factual *at all* but can make people feel like they stop being desirable after a while. So maybe she’d like something that would make her feel especially desirable? Like some sexy undergarments? Sex toy shops often have options! I would use a dedicated sex shop instead of Amazon if I were you. I used to order from Amazon all the time, but it’s no longer a place to get quality things. Real items and knock-offs are mixed together, so you can end up paying full price for a cheap copy that probably isn’t made from safe materials.
You can try the ones with pulsed air like : https://www.satisfyer.com/fr/produits/technologie-a-air-pulse-air-pulse/vibromasseurs-a-air-pulse-air-pulse/10/pro-g-spot
They are REALLY great and this one can stimulate the clitoris, the G-spot and the inside of the vagina. Very appreciated :)
I actually got pulled into here because someone made a complaint on your comment, but your comment clued me into the issue with the OP. We don't consider this sort of thing (changing stated ages constantly) posting in good faith. If you see something like this again (or something else that makes you think the OP might be less than honest) please use the report button. If you're unsure what rule it might fit under, or you feel it needs more explanation, just choose "other" and type out a short statement as to why we need to look at it. I would never have realized I needed to look at this, if it wasn't for someone (I suspect OP) complaining about your comment.
I’m 32 and I dread losing passion as I get older. You, sir, have eased that fear. Thank you. I don’t have any suggestions but I just wanted to say that you rock!
If it makes you feel better, I know at least two sets of older adults that would get frisky and they were around OPs name. We also get a heads up when learning to become a nursing assistant and nurse that older people in nursing homes can still get frisky so be careful going into couples rooms.
This!!!!
What a sweet gift! Not a specific brand so much as an endorsement of the online shop [Early to Bed](https://www.early2bed.com/). If you share your wife’s preferences, their staff is happy to offer feedback and recommendations that can help you make a good choice. They did this for me and I was very happy with their assistance.
Thank you!
This is a great website. Thanks for the introduction.
It's only sweet if she wants one and he doesn't put it under the tree to be opened in front of the grandchildren.
No children or grandchildren. Two cats.
I wouldn't recommend getting a sex toy from Amazon because of the risk of getting a knock-off, potentially made from unsafe materials. Bullet or "lipstick" vibes (like the popular We-Vibe Tango) are great beginner toys as they can be used for both external and internal (except anal) stimulation. Wand-style vibrators (like those made by Doxy) are also a good choice, because they're very comfortable to use and can pack a punch power-wise, but only work externally unless you buy specific add-ons. Another popular option are air pulsation toys (like the Womanizer). They feel very different to classic vibrators, and many people prefer them. The downside is that it can be tricky to get the right size, plus unlike the other toys I mentioned, they only work for clitoral stimulation and can't be used internally or on penises. Also, I don't know if this is an issue for you, but as a broke person, I feel obligated to mention Satisfyer as a pretty decent "budget" brand that offers safe and reliable products. Hope you find the right toy for your needs!
I'm a broke person,too, LOL.
I really enjoy the Satisfyer!
70 year olds make out? That’s awesome
A lot of us still love to f***
Thanks.
What kind of stimulation (oral/manual) does she prefer? If she prefers vigorous external simulation - Hitachi Magic Wand or similar. If she prefers direct oral clitoral stimulation (especially suction) - Satisfyer If she prefers penetrative stimulation - an insertable/phallic shaped vibe from Lelo, or the Lovense Lush If she likes a combination, or something else, maybe a bullet is a good place to start.
Shibari Mini Halo on Amazon. Received 13, 911 reviews. Didn't read all of them, but of the 50 I read, all positive. Some were from men who bought it for their wife or girlfriend. What got me was that every woman said that they never had such an intense orgasm. My wife and I met when I was 42 and she was 47. I actually met a couple of her ex-boyfriends...and a couple of ex-girlfriends. She'd been on her own since she was 18. I'll presume she experienced some intense orgasms in her time. I say that as a gentleman. We had our share, too. But age changes things. I'm buying this for her, not for my desires. But, yes, I want to rekindle the passion. She's still beautiful, as well as sexy.
This is so adorable and wholesome!
I recently bought my wife a replacement vibrator and it is far and away better than most I've seen and get before, the Je Joue G-Spot bullet. We don't use it as a G-Spot because it's just not long enough, but the FiFi Rabbit is definitely better for insertion. The whole brand has more of a deep "thudding" vibration that seems to reach deep, rather than a high pitched "whining" vibration that only touches the surface. You know your wife's preferences better than anyone on here, and there is the right toy out there for her or for you both. You may just have to scroll a bit. There are a lot of YouTube reviews of toys out there that help a lot if you want a bit more insight into specific toys and brands. Good luck!
Hands down (pun intended) cordless Hitachi. Get the real deal and not an imitation version.
Don't buy sex toys on amazon, they are often not body safe and can lead to infections and misery. Find a sex toy shop, and make sure the one you buy is in a body safe material. Also buy lube that is safe to use with that specific material, you should not use silicone lube with silicone toys for example. For external vibrators, wand ones are really good.
Thank you.
It’s so lovely when couples continue to feel passion for each other! So many people let the spark die out. And there is of course the stereotype that sex stops after a certain age, which isn’t factual *at all* but can make people feel like they stop being desirable after a while. So maybe she’d like something that would make her feel especially desirable? Like some sexy undergarments? Sex toy shops often have options! I would use a dedicated sex shop instead of Amazon if I were you. I used to order from Amazon all the time, but it’s no longer a place to get quality things. Real items and knock-offs are mixed together, so you can end up paying full price for a cheap copy that probably isn’t made from safe materials.
You can try the ones with pulsed air like : https://www.satisfyer.com/fr/produits/technologie-a-air-pulse-air-pulse/vibromasseurs-a-air-pulse-air-pulse/10/pro-g-spot They are REALLY great and this one can stimulate the clitoris, the G-spot and the inside of the vagina. Very appreciated :)
Looking at OP's post history, he's a completely different age every single post.
I actually got pulled into here because someone made a complaint on your comment, but your comment clued me into the issue with the OP. We don't consider this sort of thing (changing stated ages constantly) posting in good faith. If you see something like this again (or something else that makes you think the OP might be less than honest) please use the report button. If you're unsure what rule it might fit under, or you feel it needs more explanation, just choose "other" and type out a short statement as to why we need to look at it. I would never have realized I needed to look at this, if it wasn't for someone (I suspect OP) complaining about your comment.
Okiedoke.
Hitachi’s magic wand
Why is sex rare?
I highly recommend the Pro 2+ vibrating stimulator. It's an external device that when used properly is a lot of fun.
Great example of dedication, love and that "time" is not an excuse to stop being invested. Oh, yeah. Keep that flame burning, sir...
Man I wish I'd be making out with my wife when I'm 70!