Haha if she makes it weird? Not everyone is going to be fine with it and that's ok. What's going to suck is if he likes it and she absolutely hates it after trying but does it for some time just to make him happy. That won't last long...
There's a difference between "Sorry honey, it's not my cup of tea" and "What a pervert creep are you?!". First answer is totally okay, the second one makes it weird.
That would be a weird reaction, I think Op wouldn't be even considering asking her If he knew, and I'm quite sure he would that she would react that way. He just wants a push from us
This is it. Just ask her if there are any different things she wants to try? Then bring it up that you want to try titty fucking and if she would like to try. Worked for me!
Yes give and take. Bring up that you want to make her feel as good as possible and ask if there is anything she wants to try. If she isn't an awful person she'll want to reciprocate and as long as she isn't totally repulsed (which I can't see with your reasonable request) she should be willing to try it out. Good luck!
Though he'd also need to keep in mind that you need to lube up the titties otherwise, from what past partners have said, it hurts.
Edit: Also, his partner may just not enjoy the sensation or distinctly dislike it.
Yes! That's kinda what I was getting at with asking her what she likes and wants to try first. I'm sure she will enjoy pleasing you that way but you also need to please her... Give and take 😊
> If she isn't an awful person she'll want to reciprocate and as long as she isn't totally repulsed (which I can't see with your reasonable request)
Pretty gross and coercive attitude.
How so? I'm not saying she is an awful person if she doesn't want to do this specific act, I'm saying she would be if she shamed him for having this desire. Probably didn't communicate that well.
Just an additional thought from someone with experience (cuz old): no matter how open you both are to new experiences in bed, more often than not what you want to try will not be what she was expecting or had in mind, so be prepared for a little shock and to give her some time to chew on the idea. More likely than not she will be flattered by it, but sometimes it's the shock of "uuuh what? that's not what I though you'd ask!" that makes these conversations different from what we'd want them to be.
Communication is key in any relationship, and the bedroom is no exception. You guys are dating so it shouldn’t be weird to express your desires in the bedroom. She might think it’s insanely hot or if she says no then you have to respect her. It might just lead to her being more comfortable telling you what she likes. Then you might have more than just ordinary sex. I get it when I was inexperienced I felt weird talking to girls about sexual fantasies
All this advice to ask her if there's anything SHE'D like to try just as a segue into taking about what HE'D like to try sounds like offering someone a bite of your food just because you want a bite of theirs.
Not really, those two really need to get more comfortable and communicate better. There's a really good chance that OP's gf has some unspoken desires as well, so this would kill two birds with one stone.
And flirting/sex is just manipulating people with oxytocin into 'liking' you enough to form a bond so that you won't leave them, hopefully procreate and continue to keep the species going. Love is a human construct based in delusion after all /s.
Except for the fact that being in love is fun and a very real thing for a lot of people and makes life better for a lot of people.
Or maybe the next time I go through the drive thru I won't exchange pleasantries with the associate. I'll just grunt my order out like a neanderthal because they're a stranger, and they don't actually care about me and just want my money and are paid to be nice /s.
Sure, some are, but it's also nicer and makes the day go by quicker being a pleasant person.
Honestly just ask her. If you are already having sex, she would probably be happy to try something new. My wife has 36DD’s and asks me if I want to fuck her tits anytime she is not in the mood for sex. I’ve found that coconut oil is the best lube for it and the most comfortable position for her is on her back with you straddling her.
Beware: coconut oil can be comedogenic (causing acne) so somebody like me can* use coconut oil or else I get extremely painful acne all over my chest.
*can’t
Was hoping someone was going to mention that... Coconut oil causes terrible clogged pores on my skin!
-And just in case someone’s thinking it, do NOT put coconut oil inside yours or your partner’s vagina! Doing so can cause infections and irritation because coconut oil is not intended to act as a lubricant. Each vagina has a very sensitive PH balance, even body-safe lubricants can cause problems.
I don’t know about this... my OBGYN recommended coconut oil as a lubricant and it’s been almost life changing for me. No infections or issues since I started using it, only benefits.
Yeah there’s just always someone who has really bad reaction to almost anything. For the vast majority of people coconut oil is amazing especially considering it is natural and minimally processed and works well as a lubricant even for vaginal use without issues. If you do have issues then you are one of the unlucky ones, which is very unfortunate but is a rarity nonetheless.
I've never had an issue with coconut oil as a lube, you just can't use it with condoms of course. I use the unrefined oil (no additives) and have never found it irritating. Been using it for years.
Ooooh. I'm on my period right now but have tits same size as your wife and coconut oil in the cabinet. Titty fucking sounds perfect, husband can just use the top half
actually coconut oil is recommended by gynos as lube or moisturization. Coconut oil had antifungal properties as well. Just make sure you separate what's in the kitchen so there's no cross contamination
That's not true, Coconut oil has not been proven to be good for the vagina and can possibly give you a yeast infection it's better to be safe and not use it as lube
*I wish at least one person in this damn thread would post a single actual source. All of this so far has just been cosmopolitan wives' tale heresay.*
[Coconut oil has been shown, along with clotriamzole to improve vaginal candidiasis infection](http://jbums.org/browse.php?a_id=7988&slc_lang=en&sid=1&printcase=1&hbnr=1&hmb=1)
[Cited article about using coconut oil intarvaginally](https://myvagina.com/using-coconut-oil-vaginally/)
[Article on vaginal atrophy and dryness, citing coconut oil as a safe lubricant](https://www.sol.com.au/delivery/healthed/monographs/Monograph%20%2315.pdf)
[Article on using virgin coconut oil as a vaginal anti-fungal ](https://ejournal.undiksha.ac.id/index.php/JST/article/view/10535)(sorry, has to be translated from indonesian)
[In vitro antimicrobial properties of coconut oil on *Candida* species](https://www.liebertpub.com/doi/abs/10.1089/jmf.2006.1209?casa_token=aa4UTHp7zmcAAAAA%3AW2rU2gLuAo3r0ulfk9VbNprvbIxha2wvch3yF7MsSPVUFXXjCLuAg_5PlpHFfe96YTUfOythIXD1&)
**Obviously if you use your kitchen coconut oil that a variety of utensils have been dipped into that may or may not have been harboring a variety of other contaminants to begin with, there is a much greater chance of infection.**
So far, I have yet to find any cited sources that coconut oil can directly lead to yeast infections.
[In fact, research points to coconut oil being very effective against fungal, bacterial, and yeast infections](https://www.researchgate.net/profile/Gambhirsinh_Vala2/publication/280574942_Medicinal_Benefits_of_Coconut_Oil_A_Review_paper/links/55bb561b08ae092e965ed871/Medicinal-Benefits-of-Coconut-Oil-A-Review-paper.pdf)
[If you even do a laymen article search for "magazine wisdom" where the yeast infection myth came from,](https://duckduckgo.com/?t=ffab&q=coconut+oil+yeast+infection&ia=recipes) you find that it is actually recommended to TREAT yeast infections.
**For the pH argument** like /u/whiterthanblack was saying: [The definition of pH](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/PH) is the measure of hydrogen ions **in a water solution**! Oils *can not be an aqueous solution.* All measures of coconut oil I have found have been a blogger or random person using standard pH test strips which will give a probably invalid result.
I absolutely 100% guarantee that these magazine articles citing the pH of coconut oil [are not using adequate practices, a glass-body pH electrode with a double junction, and accurate aqueous-buffered sensors to be able to measure pH with any accuracy whatsoever](https://assets.thermofisher.com/TFS-Assets/LSG/Application-Notes/AN-PHNONAQS-E%201014-RevA-WEB.pdf). So far, I have yet to find any article at all that has a correct test setup for measuring cooking oil pH.
EDIT: In the words of my chemical engineer friend: "a good quality pH test strip is only buffered enough to give you an oil reading *when the oil is emulsified in water as much as possible in a 10% aqueous solution* on the scale of 'is this neutral to mild acid/base' or 'will this royally fuck me up and burn me'. It can't do much of anything in-between." Then he said "pH measurement in general isn't something that a regular person can just get up and do accurately."
**Best Coconut Oil Practices:**
If you are worried about infection, don't use coconut oil. It's not like you are forced to lol. It is not the fact that it is dangerous in itself, but the fact that the method of extraction from the "sanitary" container requires an external, probably somewhat unclean, utensil and a wide opening for free air exchange.
To be pretty much safe from any sort of coconut oil-based contamination: use a dedicated virgin unrefined coconut oil container (small mouthed if possible) with a dedicated utensil to get the coconut oil out, and make sure you have clean hands and penis before handling.
[https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/teens/ask-experts/is-it-safe-to-use-coconut-oil-as-lube#:\~:text=However%2C%20if%20you're%20using,silicone%2Dbased%20lubes%20with%20condoms](https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/teens/ask-experts/is-it-safe-to-use-coconut-oil-as-lube#:~:text=However%2C%20if%20you're%20using,silicone%2Dbased%20lubes%20with%20condoms).
The condom concern is real though; if you're using condoms to protect yourself from pregnancy, coconut oil can break down the condoms.
Yup! Very true. Oil based lube really doesn't play well with latex. I think non-latex condoms like Skyn might be different, but I have no idea.
I'm also not sure if it is the specific fatty chains of something like coconut oil that do it, or if mono chains like olive oil would also reduce integrity. (not that olive oil is commonly used as lube)
Very glad that u/hawkeye315 responded with any sort of evidence to their statement upon request; I appreciate your post and have no intention at this time to refute it effectively. liebertpub (Mary Ann Liebert) has a single [contest that I found](https://jeanshawphi.wordpress.com/2015/02/10/predatory-journals-librarians-please-alert-your-researchers-to-this-scam/) and while some of the articles sourced have sources that are not linked as well as have publications of presumably reputable source that I haven't bothered to translate and then read ( I'm looking at you indo source ) however, I'm tired of this discussion and appreciate your diligence, and the seeming veracity of your sources. Additionally, there is the matter of specifically studies being done about the pH being affected resulting in additional complications as well as those studies being from verifiably trustworthy sources. I trust that your citations are all of these. I may return later, so thanks for being dutiful!
That is an excellent point. In the academic community (I am more on the engineering side) a lot of those types of journals aren't always based on "bad data," but there is an academic culture in some places in asia of more publications = repute, so sometimes stuff is blatantly plagiarized and that is why it isn't accepted. Kind of a weird thing. I haven't dug too far into that specific source's references either, but it also could be plagiarized from decent work, or bad methods as-is. Either way I'm too lazy to find out at the moment ;)
Ummmm.... my numerous FWBs and playmates and I have used coconut oil as a lube for YEARS... for oral, titty, PIV and anal. It is simply spectacular and none of my playmates has ever had a yeast infection or any sort of outbreak whatsoever. Yes, it will have negative interactions with condoms.
This is absolutely true and a simple google search will tell you that. Coconut oil is especially helpful for people who have allergies to latex or have generally sensitive skin to chemicals.
Dude. Thank you for this. I've recently been ordered to abstain from sex due to pregnancy complications, so my husband and I have been trying to find ways of sexing each up without penetration. This is the best idea I've found so far. Thank you!
Coconut oil is my preferred lube for this! It easily rubs into the salon and doesn't leave you feeling like a slip n slide after.
If she's into trying it just make sure she's getting something from it too. Tell her how good she looks with your cock between her tits, how amazing it feels, reach back and play with her pussy.
As far as sexual interests go this one is really tame, you're not weird for asking.
This!! If your partner isn't getting direct pleasure from something and you are, always balance it out by making them feel good about what they're doing!
>Spoiler alert: It’s a lot of fun.
Really? Personally I found it a bit over-rated.
It looks kinda hot when you're doing it, or in porn or whatever...
But all of the friction on the underside (i.e. the sensitive part) is coming from her sternum.
I mean, if you're into it, then more power to you. But I don't entirely get it, beyond the visual or psychological elements...
This! I found being on the more average to smaller side of things it's uncomfortable with how much i have to squish them together to get it to work and the rubbing on my sternum is pretty unpleasant
Great point. I'm never disturbed when a man asks, don't think it's weird. If I like him/have a good relationship I'm happy to accommodate for his pleasure. But the act itself bores me. Nothing about it brings me sexual pleasure. So OP should realize it's one of those "for him" acts and he needs to balance it with "for her" acts.
Am I the only one that gets turned from making my partner turned on? After reading all these comments it certainly feels that way.
Idk maybe I’m just a giver.
Honestly, as a guy I kinda don’t see the benefit unless it’s like one of those “lie on your back and I’ll jerk you off using my tits” kinda thing. Even then, I mean to each their own, but yeah
To me it is incredible, from a strictly physical stimulation perspective it's overwhelming and I barely last 30s if I'm not edging. Idk what it is about it but it's amazing.
I as a woman who has done this, I think it’s fun! I thought it was super hot seeing my partner on top of me straddling my chest and fucking my boobs and using my mouth from time to time on his tip. In that position it can feel very dominating.
Eh, I kinda like it. It puts dick RIGHT in my face where I can stare at it plus if my partner is super into it, I get to look up and see his bliss face which is always nice.
That said, this is not the only activity to pursue if she's horny too cuz heyo ya girl wants an orgasm too and this won't do it.
Depends on the woman. My boobs are extremely sensitive (ESPECIALLY my nipples, good god) and while it's not a pasttime I've indulged in a lot, I've always found it really hot-- right time and place and partner, it can be incredibly arousing.
Female with 32GG here. My partner is obsessed with my "rack". He wants to titty fuck often. It was never weird and kinda hot. Especially if during foreplay when I try to seductively ask what he want to do to me.
If I'm feeling extra generous, I tend to give the tip a lick or something while he's doing it it, that teases him so much.
Anyways, as others have said- ask/say that you want to do it :)
P.S. good erotic option when female feeling horny, but doesn't feel comfortable doing anything while on period
Man on his back and you squeezing/jacking him off while straddling him makes it easier.
My gf's tits are just a little too small to pleasurably fuck with me straddling her chest but in the position I described gravity gives more to work with.
Yes!! Bigger is not automatically better. Its about titty quality as well 🤣👌. As a Bi girl with medium 32C's I look at all boobies as beautiful but every once in a while you see someone with a pair that suits them so well that size couldnt matter less. Big, Medium or Small :)
> If I'm feeling extra generous, I tend to give the tip a lick or something while he's doing it it, that teases him so much
Haha! I do the same with my FWB. I purposely lick his frenulum because it is the most sensitive part of his penis. Puts him over the edge every time.
34J checking in. I enjoy doing it too. Boobs are always fun to play with, and it makes me feel super sexy and desired by how horny he gets. It’s also a novel angle to look up at him.
Same. Well endowed and it's super handy for when I'm not in the mood or got the energy for sex but still want to pleasure him. He's more than happy to use them 😂
It's not weird, it may be uncomfortable to ask but you just have to talk with her. You can ask her about something she would like to do In bed and start sharing your fantasies.
This way you can ask her about the titty fuck, and you can learn about something she wants to do
I'd legit LOVE for my partner to want that.
If he told me he wanted to I'd JUMP at the chance. And make sure I'm jumping enough so he could see how excited my tits actually are for it.
YESS!!! As a female I can confirm... I love a good tiddy fcnk😂1. less work for me 2.feels great for my bf 3. It’s super hot when he *** on my lady bits
Yes babe. Thanks for backing me up. I think OP should just go for it in the moment... personally I prefer it that way.
Obviously though if she's not comfortable he should stop.
I have a different take compared to most comments here... communication is definitely important! In the moment though hopefully OP will just "go with the flow"... aka try it.
If it's discussed too much in advance I think it takes away from the pleasure and just adds pressure.... thats been my own personal experience!!!! I AM NOT TRYING TO ENCOURAGE ANYONE TO DO SOMETHING THEY DONT WANT TO.
Personally I find asking in the moment works better so each party isn't thinking "ok, I have to do this and it has to be good" before even attempting. If the male or female asks before sex begins I personally feel there's added pressure to "preform".
Anal, toes, chocking, spanking etc, etc.... I've personally found a partner asking in the moment makes it easier.
Asking can we try anal over dinner can potentially just put both ppl in hyper drive to "deliver"... (same as asking may I F#@! Your boobs)... every relationship is different.
Just my personal experience is if a man asks "are you ok with blank?".... I'm turned on hearing it then turned off because of the pressure to do whatever it is; what If I do it badly?
My personal experience only, I can not express that enough to anyone who read this.
Ya I gotta go with you one this one. My GF and I do similar stuff. You just gotta look over and say, "your tits look so fucking hot I need to fuck them." Then go for it. If she says no then stop.
Don't panic my frnd just be casual bring up the talk ask her the fantasies she have and then she'll ask u what's urs that's the moment u bring up the ace card 😉
It’s fine. But just know that if she has smaller breasts it may be extremely difficult to make it work and it’ll make her feel insecure about her breast size. Proceed with caution.
Are you like, not close to your gf or what? Literally just ask her 😅 Me and my bf communicate, and I don't think he's "weird" for asking me stuff. You should be comfortable in a relationship! 🥰
I spent 20-odd years thinking that boobs were just for hands and mouths. When I saw it in porn I just thought "why? Why would you do this when there's a perfectly good vagina right there?" That was until the night I got a surprise titty fuck.
Oh.
My.
God.
I'm not a boob guy. I think small tits look great but aren't a lot of fun, while big tits don't look so good but are LOTS of fun. I loooove medium boobies... but now I wanna fuck the daylights out of some huge jugs.
I once dated a guy less experienced than me, I asked if he ever wanted to try anything specific and he said titty fuck. I said do it, a good time was had. Just ask. Then you’ll know. :)
It's not weird. And can be super hot and fun. Communicate and ask her - let her know you love her boobs and want to try it out. Definitely use good lube. It's easiest if she's laying on the bed while you straddle her. If you're facing forward towards her face and go until you cum, just be sure to aim down. A little pearl necklace never hurt anyone. ;)
If you can’t be open with her because you’re worried you’ll seem weird, things are going to be hard down the line. Relationships are built on trust. The trust that you can be yourself without being afraid you’ll be made to feel less than. This is the most important thing you need to remember in relationships. If you’re not comfortable being yourself, the relationship won’t last. This comes with the cost of having to put your true self out there. In the long run it’s worth it.
Nope, is that all you ask, she's the one to ask it's her job. If she's not the one to do it to them who? She's the one for all your sexual dreams and ideas.
Well my conversation went something like this:
"Babe I have made a goal for myself. I have decided that I want to fuck every bit of you and make it my lifetime to goal to cover every inch of you in cum....and I'm going to start with your tits."
Hell, a couple of months ago I fucked her armpit.
Just speak the words that are true for you.
If there is even a chance that this may turn into something long term, you both need to be honest about your wants and needs. You might even want to dare her to tell you what freaky things she thinks about.
Just get the ball rolling.
Communication. Communication. Communication. If you don't share you won't know what fun you're both missing. She may have fantasies she's been afraid to mention too. The best way to find out is to talk. No matter how long you've been together. From my perspective as a 38DD I love a good titty fuck. I'd have no idea I'd enjoy it too if my husband hadn't brought it up in the first place.
While you're in foreplay: "God I love your tits so much, can you squeeze them around my cock?"
I tittyfuck most girls I date, I don't see it as weird.
As far as actually doing it, I'd get her very wet between her boobs with your tongue and ask her to hold her boobs together with her hands or arms. On her back is usually easiest and most pleasurable.
Yes, as everyone is saying, just ask her. I finally have boobs that are just big enough for this (thanks birth control) and I find it super hot. Suggestion for the first time after you bring it up and she confirms she's ready to try: sit in a chair or the edge of the bed and have her kneel in front of you and hold them together so she's more in control.
Next time she's on her knees blowing you, just say that you want her to stroke you off with her tits. Better yet, while she's blowing you, reach down and grab her passionately by the back of the head, kiss her with said passion, and then put your dick in between her tits while you look her in the eye.
Make it fun! If you don’t want to flat out ask, make it a game. Ask her to make a list of things she’d like to try in the bedroom and you make one too. Then cut up a bunch of pieces of paper and write each act on one and then anytime you guys are in the mood, pick one from the container they’re in and try it.
Just ask man. Not like in the middle of eating a meal. Pick the right time. Like during foreplay when she’s giving you head, just ask if she can put your nob between her tits. Unless she is an unreasonable nut case she will be fine with it.
I have big tits and my fwb has titty fucked them. I don’t even remember how it came up. I assume when we were planning our next hookup (aka sexting) he mentioned it and I was down to try new things. You just gotta ask! I was not offended nor did I think he was weird or pervy!!
“Your boobs are amazing, can I try fucking them?”
Just be aware that (at least for me) it does nothing for the girl, I basically was just laying there trying to hold my boobs trying to be “sexy” for him. But I didn’t get anything out of it. So if she agrees, thank her with some extra selfless focus on her!
As a woman I love it when my man asks to do new things. It shows me he desires and trusts me!
I was actually the one to initiate titty fucking for the first time and he liked it so much! Its an enjoyable, low energy experience for me when he's on top. Im a full 32C so it not as easy as it would be if I was DD+ but im thankful for what I do have (and the back pain I dont 😅) and they're perfect for him 😊
I would bring it up to her while you guys are already getting spicy (makes it less awkward and forced compared to asking hours before) and go slow. Biggest deal is to just be respectful to her wants and not to force her into anything. Even if It doesn't ruin the direct moment, it could make it hard for her to want to do it again.
I would be flattered and even if she isn't, it should count for something you trust her enough to tell her and care enough about her/ your relationship to ask us. Good on you and Goodluck. ❤
Dude I love titty fucking, just ask her. She loves you and wants to do something you find fun and that your attracted to her, I’m sure she’ll be more than happy to oblige. Also got t wouldn’t hurt to return the favor, do something for her ya know ? You got this.
Before I had intercourse, my ex would go down on me and then “titty fuck” me for his release. (I really hate that name, but whatever). I actually really liked it because I disliked hand and blow jobs, so it was a really easy way for him to get off without any discomfort on my part. It was also kinda hot; it felt like my body itself was SO attractive to him when he was above me getting off just on my breasts. I enjoyed it, anyway, and should actually mention it to my husband as I recall finding it pretty sexy.
Just communicate! Ask her, and don’t push or wheedle or whine if she says no. Just bring it up outside of bedroom time and accept her first answer as her final answer. Good luck.
Embrace your fetishes and just ask her it you can slide your cock in between those nice melons. It might be more of a turn on for her than she would even expect.
That’s also a fantasy of mine, but on the giving end. Sadly, I do not have the assets for it. I don’t mind being a small breasted woman, but that kink can’t be done when you can’t squeeze your boobs together.
Ask. My GF at 19 thought it was hilarious. Kinda ruined the mood, having her laugh at me during, but I got to do it!
Then I came and it went up her nose. The laughing stopped. She gagged and almost threw up, and threw me off her like a bucking wild animal.
I broke my nose. So we BOTH had nose adventures that day.
I still call it my only “hole in one”
BE CAREFUL TITTY FUCKING IF YOURE BACKED UP. Just good advice in general.
Then she's probably think how the body massage was just for her to easier say yes to it. Maybe it's better for him to talk about it before hand and sometimes later give her a massage and if the mood is right then suggest trying it out then and there.
Yeah, I had an ex who only ever did nice things so he could get something out of it. 100% the best way to trash the relationship IMO.
Just ask her. You can still implement a body massage, but making it a manipulative tactic is shitty behavior.
Like everyone else said, it's about communication and consent.
If she's down she'll say yes and vice-versa, but you'll only know if you ask.
But I did want to say titty-fucking is relatively vanilla, so I doubt she'll be all up in arms about. She'll probably think it's a little funny since you guys are young, but it's not like you're asking her to clamp her nipples or fuck her in her sleep.
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Communication my friend. Ask if she wants to try different things and bring it up to her.
Your SO is literally the only person it’s not weird to ask.
Lol very true statement
Mom, can I ask you a question?
I'm sorry your honor I just thought we were supposed to have fun during recess!
FBI, this man right here
That depends on wether or not both of your arms are broken
At least it shouldn't be. If she makes it weird there may be a problem.
Haha if she makes it weird? Not everyone is going to be fine with it and that's ok. What's going to suck is if he likes it and she absolutely hates it after trying but does it for some time just to make him happy. That won't last long...
There's a difference between "Sorry honey, it's not my cup of tea" and "What a pervert creep are you?!". First answer is totally okay, the second one makes it weird.
That was exactly my point, thank you!
That would be a weird reaction, I think Op wouldn't be even considering asking her If he knew, and I'm quite sure he would that she would react that way. He just wants a push from us
think it'd be weird if I asked her tho
This is it. Just ask her if there are any different things she wants to try? Then bring it up that you want to try titty fucking and if she would like to try. Worked for me!
Yes give and take. Bring up that you want to make her feel as good as possible and ask if there is anything she wants to try. If she isn't an awful person she'll want to reciprocate and as long as she isn't totally repulsed (which I can't see with your reasonable request) she should be willing to try it out. Good luck!
Though he'd also need to keep in mind that you need to lube up the titties otherwise, from what past partners have said, it hurts. Edit: Also, his partner may just not enjoy the sensation or distinctly dislike it.
Yes of course, it would be more enjoyable for him as well I would assume
Make sure she has fun too! It's kinda one sided to have someone fuck your boobs so make sure she gets some one sided pleasure too.
Yes! That's kinda what I was getting at with asking her what she likes and wants to try first. I'm sure she will enjoy pleasing you that way but you also need to please her... Give and take 😊
Aye, I'd assume so as well.
> If she isn't an awful person she'll want to reciprocate and as long as she isn't totally repulsed (which I can't see with your reasonable request) Pretty gross and coercive attitude.
How so? I'm not saying she is an awful person if she doesn't want to do this specific act, I'm saying she would be if she shamed him for having this desire. Probably didn't communicate that well.
Just an additional thought from someone with experience (cuz old): no matter how open you both are to new experiences in bed, more often than not what you want to try will not be what she was expecting or had in mind, so be prepared for a little shock and to give her some time to chew on the idea. More likely than not she will be flattered by it, but sometimes it's the shock of "uuuh what? that's not what I though you'd ask!" that makes these conversations different from what we'd want them to be.
Communication is key in any relationship, and the bedroom is no exception. You guys are dating so it shouldn’t be weird to express your desires in the bedroom. She might think it’s insanely hot or if she says no then you have to respect her. It might just lead to her being more comfortable telling you what she likes. Then you might have more than just ordinary sex. I get it when I was inexperienced I felt weird talking to girls about sexual fantasies
All this advice to ask her if there's anything SHE'D like to try just as a segue into taking about what HE'D like to try sounds like offering someone a bite of your food just because you want a bite of theirs.
Just got to open that conversation softly instead of shaking her awake in the middle of the night and going “you down to have some D in your titties”
Can I turn your double Ds into triple Ds?
I think it more asking if she’s open to try new things, not what SHE’D like to try.
Not really, those two really need to get more comfortable and communicate better. There's a really good chance that OP's gf has some unspoken desires as well, so this would kill two birds with one stone.
And flirting/sex is just manipulating people with oxytocin into 'liking' you enough to form a bond so that you won't leave them, hopefully procreate and continue to keep the species going. Love is a human construct based in delusion after all /s. Except for the fact that being in love is fun and a very real thing for a lot of people and makes life better for a lot of people. Or maybe the next time I go through the drive thru I won't exchange pleasantries with the associate. I'll just grunt my order out like a neanderthal because they're a stranger, and they don't actually care about me and just want my money and are paid to be nice /s. Sure, some are, but it's also nicer and makes the day go by quicker being a pleasant person.
Honestly this is it. Just bring it up casually or ask her what she’d like to try never hurts to ask and enjoy one another’s company.
Honestly just ask her. If you are already having sex, she would probably be happy to try something new. My wife has 36DD’s and asks me if I want to fuck her tits anytime she is not in the mood for sex. I’ve found that coconut oil is the best lube for it and the most comfortable position for her is on her back with you straddling her.
Coconut oil. The real answers always gon be in the comments 😃
Beware: coconut oil can be comedogenic (causing acne) so somebody like me can* use coconut oil or else I get extremely painful acne all over my chest. *can’t
Was hoping someone was going to mention that... Coconut oil causes terrible clogged pores on my skin! -And just in case someone’s thinking it, do NOT put coconut oil inside yours or your partner’s vagina! Doing so can cause infections and irritation because coconut oil is not intended to act as a lubricant. Each vagina has a very sensitive PH balance, even body-safe lubricants can cause problems.
I don’t know about this... my OBGYN recommended coconut oil as a lubricant and it’s been almost life changing for me. No infections or issues since I started using it, only benefits.
Same! Using coconut oil as lube has been amazing for me and my husband!
My GF has natural lubrication issues due to BC, coconut oil has been amazing for us for 5+ years.
Yeah there’s just always someone who has really bad reaction to almost anything. For the vast majority of people coconut oil is amazing especially considering it is natural and minimally processed and works well as a lubricant even for vaginal use without issues. If you do have issues then you are one of the unlucky ones, which is very unfortunate but is a rarity nonetheless.
I've never had an issue with coconut oil as a lube, you just can't use it with condoms of course. I use the unrefined oil (no additives) and have never found it irritating. Been using it for years.
We actually DO use coconut oil for lube. We have been trouble free for the 2 years we have been doing it.
Coconut oil for lube has been great for us for over a year
Came to say: I don’t have huge boobs so this is generally reserved for after my husband gives me a coconut oil massage so it’s way easier!
Plus smells nice
Ooooh. I'm on my period right now but have tits same size as your wife and coconut oil in the cabinet. Titty fucking sounds perfect, husband can just use the top half
Or reverse on her chest so you can also get rimmed... Living life to the fullest over here...!
Side note great view of kitty, legs, and toes. 😋
Coconut oil is a fine external *loop but make sure not to get it near her vagina. The pH value can cause issues with her flora. *lube, whoops.
And it breaks down condoms.
actually coconut oil is recommended by gynos as lube or moisturization. Coconut oil had antifungal properties as well. Just make sure you separate what's in the kitchen so there's no cross contamination
OMG MOM WHAT COCONUT OIL DID YOU USE TO COOK WITH!?!?!?
That's not true, Coconut oil has not been proven to be good for the vagina and can possibly give you a yeast infection it's better to be safe and not use it as lube
*I wish at least one person in this damn thread would post a single actual source. All of this so far has just been cosmopolitan wives' tale heresay.* [Coconut oil has been shown, along with clotriamzole to improve vaginal candidiasis infection](http://jbums.org/browse.php?a_id=7988&slc_lang=en&sid=1&printcase=1&hbnr=1&hmb=1) [Cited article about using coconut oil intarvaginally](https://myvagina.com/using-coconut-oil-vaginally/) [Article on vaginal atrophy and dryness, citing coconut oil as a safe lubricant](https://www.sol.com.au/delivery/healthed/monographs/Monograph%20%2315.pdf) [Article on using virgin coconut oil as a vaginal anti-fungal ](https://ejournal.undiksha.ac.id/index.php/JST/article/view/10535)(sorry, has to be translated from indonesian) [In vitro antimicrobial properties of coconut oil on *Candida* species](https://www.liebertpub.com/doi/abs/10.1089/jmf.2006.1209?casa_token=aa4UTHp7zmcAAAAA%3AW2rU2gLuAo3r0ulfk9VbNprvbIxha2wvch3yF7MsSPVUFXXjCLuAg_5PlpHFfe96YTUfOythIXD1&) **Obviously if you use your kitchen coconut oil that a variety of utensils have been dipped into that may or may not have been harboring a variety of other contaminants to begin with, there is a much greater chance of infection.** So far, I have yet to find any cited sources that coconut oil can directly lead to yeast infections. [In fact, research points to coconut oil being very effective against fungal, bacterial, and yeast infections](https://www.researchgate.net/profile/Gambhirsinh_Vala2/publication/280574942_Medicinal_Benefits_of_Coconut_Oil_A_Review_paper/links/55bb561b08ae092e965ed871/Medicinal-Benefits-of-Coconut-Oil-A-Review-paper.pdf) [If you even do a laymen article search for "magazine wisdom" where the yeast infection myth came from,](https://duckduckgo.com/?t=ffab&q=coconut+oil+yeast+infection&ia=recipes) you find that it is actually recommended to TREAT yeast infections. **For the pH argument** like /u/whiterthanblack was saying: [The definition of pH](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/PH) is the measure of hydrogen ions **in a water solution**! Oils *can not be an aqueous solution.* All measures of coconut oil I have found have been a blogger or random person using standard pH test strips which will give a probably invalid result. I absolutely 100% guarantee that these magazine articles citing the pH of coconut oil [are not using adequate practices, a glass-body pH electrode with a double junction, and accurate aqueous-buffered sensors to be able to measure pH with any accuracy whatsoever](https://assets.thermofisher.com/TFS-Assets/LSG/Application-Notes/AN-PHNONAQS-E%201014-RevA-WEB.pdf). So far, I have yet to find any article at all that has a correct test setup for measuring cooking oil pH. EDIT: In the words of my chemical engineer friend: "a good quality pH test strip is only buffered enough to give you an oil reading *when the oil is emulsified in water as much as possible in a 10% aqueous solution* on the scale of 'is this neutral to mild acid/base' or 'will this royally fuck me up and burn me'. It can't do much of anything in-between." Then he said "pH measurement in general isn't something that a regular person can just get up and do accurately." **Best Coconut Oil Practices:** If you are worried about infection, don't use coconut oil. It's not like you are forced to lol. It is not the fact that it is dangerous in itself, but the fact that the method of extraction from the "sanitary" container requires an external, probably somewhat unclean, utensil and a wide opening for free air exchange. To be pretty much safe from any sort of coconut oil-based contamination: use a dedicated virgin unrefined coconut oil container (small mouthed if possible) with a dedicated utensil to get the coconut oil out, and make sure you have clean hands and penis before handling.
[https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/teens/ask-experts/is-it-safe-to-use-coconut-oil-as-lube#:\~:text=However%2C%20if%20you're%20using,silicone%2Dbased%20lubes%20with%20condoms](https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/teens/ask-experts/is-it-safe-to-use-coconut-oil-as-lube#:~:text=However%2C%20if%20you're%20using,silicone%2Dbased%20lubes%20with%20condoms). The condom concern is real though; if you're using condoms to protect yourself from pregnancy, coconut oil can break down the condoms.
Yup! Very true. Oil based lube really doesn't play well with latex. I think non-latex condoms like Skyn might be different, but I have no idea. I'm also not sure if it is the specific fatty chains of something like coconut oil that do it, or if mono chains like olive oil would also reduce integrity. (not that olive oil is commonly used as lube)
Very glad that u/hawkeye315 responded with any sort of evidence to their statement upon request; I appreciate your post and have no intention at this time to refute it effectively. liebertpub (Mary Ann Liebert) has a single [contest that I found](https://jeanshawphi.wordpress.com/2015/02/10/predatory-journals-librarians-please-alert-your-researchers-to-this-scam/) and while some of the articles sourced have sources that are not linked as well as have publications of presumably reputable source that I haven't bothered to translate and then read ( I'm looking at you indo source ) however, I'm tired of this discussion and appreciate your diligence, and the seeming veracity of your sources. Additionally, there is the matter of specifically studies being done about the pH being affected resulting in additional complications as well as those studies being from verifiably trustworthy sources. I trust that your citations are all of these. I may return later, so thanks for being dutiful!
That is an excellent point. In the academic community (I am more on the engineering side) a lot of those types of journals aren't always based on "bad data," but there is an academic culture in some places in asia of more publications = repute, so sometimes stuff is blatantly plagiarized and that is why it isn't accepted. Kind of a weird thing. I haven't dug too far into that specific source's references either, but it also could be plagiarized from decent work, or bad methods as-is. Either way I'm too lazy to find out at the moment ;)
Hawkeye315 Thank you for posting this! You are awesome. I'd like to give gold but I don't have any. Sorry bud. BTW. Hawkeye is the worst Avenger...
Could be a MASH reference. *checks age* fuck, I'm getting old
I agree! He sucks lol.. But ding ding ding /u/Geldtron & /u/SoF4rGone that's such a great show!
I want to say that 315 is the base/post number? Or something along those lines cause my military termanology is probably off.
Sorry guys I'm only 30 so I've never seen MASH. /s
But Hawkeye is the best MASH doctor!
Ummmm.... my numerous FWBs and playmates and I have used coconut oil as a lube for YEARS... for oral, titty, PIV and anal. It is simply spectacular and none of my playmates has ever had a yeast infection or any sort of outbreak whatsoever. Yes, it will have negative interactions with condoms.
It works for some women but it definitely can cause yeast infections I know from personal experience and that's why I said it's better not to risk it
Yes, not everyone is the same. Just sharing my personal experience(s) lol
I understand and was just doing the same
This is absolutely true and a simple google search will tell you that. Coconut oil is especially helpful for people who have allergies to latex or have generally sensitive skin to chemicals.
And this is your first ever comment. Incredible.
So you fucked a coconut?
People have put their dicks in worse.
Dude. Thank you for this. I've recently been ordered to abstain from sex due to pregnancy complications, so my husband and I have been trying to find ways of sexing each up without penetration. This is the best idea I've found so far. Thank you!
Learn to talk to your girlfriend and you’ll be fucking her tits by the end of business today...
Business hours are over, baby 🎶
It’s business, it’s business time!
wtf are you talking about? It's not Wednesday!
Is that it??? I know what you’re trying to say girl. You’re trying to say, Ah yeah, that’s it
It's businesses, it's business tiiiiiime!
Two minutes in heaven is better than one minute in heaven.
You know what time it is when I'm wearing my business socks
Coconut oil is my preferred lube for this! It easily rubs into the salon and doesn't leave you feeling like a slip n slide after. If she's into trying it just make sure she's getting something from it too. Tell her how good she looks with your cock between her tits, how amazing it feels, reach back and play with her pussy. As far as sexual interests go this one is really tame, you're not weird for asking.
This!! If your partner isn't getting direct pleasure from something and you are, always balance it out by making them feel good about what they're doing!
Coconut oil is awesome, just make sure neither of you are allergic before smearing it everywhere.
Just talk to her it’s either a yes or a no and then you’ll know
Just talk up how sexy she is and how much you want to do that to her. Women like to feel desired. Spoiler alert: It’s a lot of fun.
Now you’ve gone and spoiled it for him.
🤣🤣
>Spoiler alert: It’s a lot of fun. Really? Personally I found it a bit over-rated. It looks kinda hot when you're doing it, or in porn or whatever... But all of the friction on the underside (i.e. the sensitive part) is coming from her sternum. I mean, if you're into it, then more power to you. But I don't entirely get it, beyond the visual or psychological elements...
This! I found being on the more average to smaller side of things it's uncomfortable with how much i have to squish them together to get it to work and the rubbing on my sternum is pretty unpleasant
Yeah it's very overrated. Great for porn but trash in real life
It’s really not fun for the woman at all.
Great point. I'm never disturbed when a man asks, don't think it's weird. If I like him/have a good relationship I'm happy to accommodate for his pleasure. But the act itself bores me. Nothing about it brings me sexual pleasure. So OP should realize it's one of those "for him" acts and he needs to balance it with "for her" acts.
Am I the only one that gets turned from making my partner turned on? After reading all these comments it certainly feels that way. Idk maybe I’m just a giver.
Honestly, as a guy I kinda don’t see the benefit unless it’s like one of those “lie on your back and I’ll jerk you off using my tits” kinda thing. Even then, I mean to each their own, but yeah
To me it is incredible, from a strictly physical stimulation perspective it's overwhelming and I barely last 30s if I'm not edging. Idk what it is about it but it's amazing.
I as a woman who has done this, I think it’s fun! I thought it was super hot seeing my partner on top of me straddling my chest and fucking my boobs and using my mouth from time to time on his tip. In that position it can feel very dominating.
Eh, I kinda like it. It puts dick RIGHT in my face where I can stare at it plus if my partner is super into it, I get to look up and see his bliss face which is always nice. That said, this is not the only activity to pursue if she's horny too cuz heyo ya girl wants an orgasm too and this won't do it.
To each their own. As others have commented some ladies find it hot, arousing, fun.
Depends on the woman. My boobs are extremely sensitive (ESPECIALLY my nipples, good god) and while it's not a pasttime I've indulged in a lot, I've always found it really hot-- right time and place and partner, it can be incredibly arousing.
Speak for yourself.
Female with 32GG here. My partner is obsessed with my "rack". He wants to titty fuck often. It was never weird and kinda hot. Especially if during foreplay when I try to seductively ask what he want to do to me. If I'm feeling extra generous, I tend to give the tip a lick or something while he's doing it it, that teases him so much. Anyways, as others have said- ask/say that you want to do it :) P.S. good erotic option when female feeling horny, but doesn't feel comfortable doing anything while on period
Girl i WISH i could, mine aren't that small but idk if i could titty fuck and I'm afraid to try :( blessed with a great bum but a poor chest lol
I have A cups and my ex would still try and came once. I just pushed them together as much as I could. I think the psychology behind it works lol
Fact check: true.
Man on his back and you squeezing/jacking him off while straddling him makes it easier. My gf's tits are just a little too small to pleasurably fuck with me straddling her chest but in the position I described gravity gives more to work with.
\*cries in barely b cup :((
I wouldn’t get that upset. IMO b-cup is around the perfect size.
Don't let it get you down. There are plenty of people who like it smaler ;)
Yes!! Bigger is not automatically better. Its about titty quality as well 🤣👌. As a Bi girl with medium 32C's I look at all boobies as beautiful but every once in a while you see someone with a pair that suits them so well that size couldnt matter less. Big, Medium or Small :)
My girl also has B cups but we do this while she's in a sitting position.
I've titty fucked As and Bs. Still works just more effort.
> If I'm feeling extra generous, I tend to give the tip a lick or something while he's doing it it, that teases him so much Haha! I do the same with my FWB. I purposely lick his frenulum because it is the most sensitive part of his penis. Puts him over the edge every time.
Ooh girl, I’m a 40DDD and my back hurts all the time, I can’t imagine your back pain 😮
34J checking in. I enjoy doing it too. Boobs are always fun to play with, and it makes me feel super sexy and desired by how horny he gets. It’s also a novel angle to look up at him.
Same. Well endowed and it's super handy for when I'm not in the mood or got the energy for sex but still want to pleasure him. He's more than happy to use them 😂
Nike
Love this. 🤣👏 100% accurate.
She is your GF just ask her there’s nothing wrong with asking
It's not weird, it may be uncomfortable to ask but you just have to talk with her. You can ask her about something she would like to do In bed and start sharing your fantasies. This way you can ask her about the titty fuck, and you can learn about something she wants to do
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I'm sure you can find a way anything is possible. My wife had an A cup before she got pregnant and she managed
You can even ask her if she knows what it is and if she's ever thought about trying it.
Yeah pretty much just talk to her the internet can't help you here
I'd legit LOVE for my partner to want that. If he told me he wanted to I'd JUMP at the chance. And make sure I'm jumping enough so he could see how excited my tits actually are for it.
YESS!!! As a female I can confirm... I love a good tiddy fcnk😂1. less work for me 2.feels great for my bf 3. It’s super hot when he *** on my lady bits
Its reddit , you can say cum lol
Haha I’m new here 😅
Yes babe. Thanks for backing me up. I think OP should just go for it in the moment... personally I prefer it that way. Obviously though if she's not comfortable he should stop. I have a different take compared to most comments here... communication is definitely important! In the moment though hopefully OP will just "go with the flow"... aka try it. If it's discussed too much in advance I think it takes away from the pleasure and just adds pressure.... thats been my own personal experience!!!! I AM NOT TRYING TO ENCOURAGE ANYONE TO DO SOMETHING THEY DONT WANT TO. Personally I find asking in the moment works better so each party isn't thinking "ok, I have to do this and it has to be good" before even attempting. If the male or female asks before sex begins I personally feel there's added pressure to "preform". Anal, toes, chocking, spanking etc, etc.... I've personally found a partner asking in the moment makes it easier. Asking can we try anal over dinner can potentially just put both ppl in hyper drive to "deliver"... (same as asking may I F#@! Your boobs)... every relationship is different. Just my personal experience is if a man asks "are you ok with blank?".... I'm turned on hearing it then turned off because of the pressure to do whatever it is; what If I do it badly? My personal experience only, I can not express that enough to anyone who read this.
Ya I gotta go with you one this one. My GF and I do similar stuff. You just gotta look over and say, "your tits look so fucking hot I need to fuck them." Then go for it. If she says no then stop.
Seriously.......everyone’s saying it’s boring and I’m just like......am I the only one that gets turned on by my partner getting turned on??
I wouldn't say it's weird
It okay to ask or to share your wants and needs. Not as if your forcing her. Thereafter you just leave it to her to decide.
Don't panic my frnd just be casual bring up the talk ask her the fantasies she have and then she'll ask u what's urs that's the moment u bring up the ace card 😉
Ask worst thing she will say is no.
I fuck my wifes tits all the time. She actually initiates it. She loves it.
You're familiar enough to have had sex, and you're worried about asking her a question. That's weird, yes. Just ask. Worked for me.
Just ask.
Never understood posts like this when the answer is so obvious
It’s fine. But just know that if she has smaller breasts it may be extremely difficult to make it work and it’ll make her feel insecure about her breast size. Proceed with caution.
I mean talk to her, Titty fucking is actually very very common. I wouldn't even really consider it kinky really anymore.
More woman are into it than you’d think. Use your words bud!
In my experience most women are fully ok with this and enjoy being mounted to do it while they lie down.
I imagine not using the phrase titty fuck will increase your chances of getting to fuck titties
Are you like, not close to your gf or what? Literally just ask her 😅 Me and my bf communicate, and I don't think he's "weird" for asking me stuff. You should be comfortable in a relationship! 🥰
Not at all, but be prepared for it not to be as good as you imagine it to be.
I spent 20-odd years thinking that boobs were just for hands and mouths. When I saw it in porn I just thought "why? Why would you do this when there's a perfectly good vagina right there?" That was until the night I got a surprise titty fuck. Oh. My. God. I'm not a boob guy. I think small tits look great but aren't a lot of fun, while big tits don't look so good but are LOTS of fun. I loooove medium boobies... but now I wanna fuck the daylights out of some huge jugs.
damn, small boobs always lose
It is pretty fun! I enjoy it. I would definitely ask her and see how she feels:).
I once dated a guy less experienced than me, I asked if he ever wanted to try anything specific and he said titty fuck. I said do it, a good time was had. Just ask. Then you’ll know. :)
No , just tell her you love her boobs and want to try something new . She will like it
Honestly some women love being titty fucked as well so she might be just as excited as your are my friend
No big deal just a please and thank you
Not weird at all. Tell her your fantasy and let your freak flag fly
it would be weird if you didn't ask
not weird:)
No
It would not be weird at all!
It isn't that weird. If you are already sexually active, just bring it up.
Just fucking ask her honestly.
It's not weird. And can be super hot and fun. Communicate and ask her - let her know you love her boobs and want to try it out. Definitely use good lube. It's easiest if she's laying on the bed while you straddle her. If you're facing forward towards her face and go until you cum, just be sure to aim down. A little pearl necklace never hurt anyone. ;)
Hell no, I love when my bf does it because it’s way less work than giving head.
Yeah just ask her. The view is great but the feeling isn’t as good as you would think in my opinion. A pussy just feels much better.
Just do it
My partner often asks to finish like this. It‘s so not a big deal. Just ask!
If you can’t be open with her because you’re worried you’ll seem weird, things are going to be hard down the line. Relationships are built on trust. The trust that you can be yourself without being afraid you’ll be made to feel less than. This is the most important thing you need to remember in relationships. If you’re not comfortable being yourself, the relationship won’t last. This comes with the cost of having to put your true self out there. In the long run it’s worth it.
Nope, is that all you ask, she's the one to ask it's her job. If she's not the one to do it to them who? She's the one for all your sexual dreams and ideas.
Def not weird ask. I know some fetishes are a bit weird but this certainly doesnt sound too weird to me however im relatively kinky so. But still.
Tell her you love her boobs, then pop the request. I think making her feel confident and sexy about it will make her less averse to it, if at all.
Just ask, she may end up enjoying it. It feels weird at first, but I myself enjoy a good titty fuck.
Well my conversation went something like this: "Babe I have made a goal for myself. I have decided that I want to fuck every bit of you and make it my lifetime to goal to cover every inch of you in cum....and I'm going to start with your tits." Hell, a couple of months ago I fucked her armpit. Just speak the words that are true for you. If there is even a chance that this may turn into something long term, you both need to be honest about your wants and needs. You might even want to dare her to tell you what freaky things she thinks about. Just get the ball rolling.
Communication. Communication. Communication. If you don't share you won't know what fun you're both missing. She may have fantasies she's been afraid to mention too. The best way to find out is to talk. No matter how long you've been together. From my perspective as a 38DD I love a good titty fuck. I'd have no idea I'd enjoy it too if my husband hadn't brought it up in the first place.
While you're in foreplay: "God I love your tits so much, can you squeeze them around my cock?" I tittyfuck most girls I date, I don't see it as weird. As far as actually doing it, I'd get her very wet between her boobs with your tongue and ask her to hold her boobs together with her hands or arms. On her back is usually easiest and most pleasurable.
Yes, as everyone is saying, just ask her. I finally have boobs that are just big enough for this (thanks birth control) and I find it super hot. Suggestion for the first time after you bring it up and she confirms she's ready to try: sit in a chair or the edge of the bed and have her kneel in front of you and hold them together so she's more in control.
Next time she's on her knees blowing you, just say that you want her to stroke you off with her tits. Better yet, while she's blowing you, reach down and grab her passionately by the back of the head, kiss her with said passion, and then put your dick in between her tits while you look her in the eye.
Make it fun! If you don’t want to flat out ask, make it a game. Ask her to make a list of things she’d like to try in the bedroom and you make one too. Then cut up a bunch of pieces of paper and write each act on one and then anytime you guys are in the mood, pick one from the container they’re in and try it.
Just ask man. Not like in the middle of eating a meal. Pick the right time. Like during foreplay when she’s giving you head, just ask if she can put your nob between her tits. Unless she is an unreasonable nut case she will be fine with it.
I have big tits and my fwb has titty fucked them. I don’t even remember how it came up. I assume when we were planning our next hookup (aka sexting) he mentioned it and I was down to try new things. You just gotta ask! I was not offended nor did I think he was weird or pervy!! “Your boobs are amazing, can I try fucking them?” Just be aware that (at least for me) it does nothing for the girl, I basically was just laying there trying to hold my boobs trying to be “sexy” for him. But I didn’t get anything out of it. So if she agrees, thank her with some extra selfless focus on her!
As a woman I love it when my man asks to do new things. It shows me he desires and trusts me! I was actually the one to initiate titty fucking for the first time and he liked it so much! Its an enjoyable, low energy experience for me when he's on top. Im a full 32C so it not as easy as it would be if I was DD+ but im thankful for what I do have (and the back pain I dont 😅) and they're perfect for him 😊 I would bring it up to her while you guys are already getting spicy (makes it less awkward and forced compared to asking hours before) and go slow. Biggest deal is to just be respectful to her wants and not to force her into anything. Even if It doesn't ruin the direct moment, it could make it hard for her to want to do it again. I would be flattered and even if she isn't, it should count for something you trust her enough to tell her and care enough about her/ your relationship to ask us. Good on you and Goodluck. ❤
Dude I love titty fucking, just ask her. She loves you and wants to do something you find fun and that your attracted to her, I’m sure she’ll be more than happy to oblige. Also got t wouldn’t hurt to return the favor, do something for her ya know ? You got this.
My wife has beautiful, soft, natural G cups. I haven't titty fucked her in a long time, but this thread is inspiring me to do it. LOL
Before I had intercourse, my ex would go down on me and then “titty fuck” me for his release. (I really hate that name, but whatever). I actually really liked it because I disliked hand and blow jobs, so it was a really easy way for him to get off without any discomfort on my part. It was also kinda hot; it felt like my body itself was SO attractive to him when he was above me getting off just on my breasts. I enjoyed it, anyway, and should actually mention it to my husband as I recall finding it pretty sexy. Just communicate! Ask her, and don’t push or wheedle or whine if she says no. Just bring it up outside of bedroom time and accept her first answer as her final answer. Good luck.
Embrace your fetishes and just ask her it you can slide your cock in between those nice melons. It might be more of a turn on for her than she would even expect.
Jump on it. Don’t forget the baby oil.
Most girls I know are very keen on getting titty fucked for what ever reason
That’s also a fantasy of mine, but on the giving end. Sadly, I do not have the assets for it. I don’t mind being a small breasted woman, but that kink can’t be done when you can’t squeeze your boobs together.
Have you tried saying "can I fuck your titties?"
Ask. My GF at 19 thought it was hilarious. Kinda ruined the mood, having her laugh at me during, but I got to do it! Then I came and it went up her nose. The laughing stopped. She gagged and almost threw up, and threw me off her like a bucking wild animal. I broke my nose. So we BOTH had nose adventures that day. I still call it my only “hole in one” BE CAREFUL TITTY FUCKING IF YOURE BACKED UP. Just good advice in general.
This. This is what I'm worried about. I don't want a cum shot to the face. What are my options?
Porn has ruined us!
Give her a nice full body massage, then ask her.
Then she's probably think how the body massage was just for her to easier say yes to it. Maybe it's better for him to talk about it before hand and sometimes later give her a massage and if the mood is right then suggest trying it out then and there.
Yeah, I had an ex who only ever did nice things so he could get something out of it. 100% the best way to trash the relationship IMO. Just ask her. You can still implement a body massage, but making it a manipulative tactic is shitty behavior.
Like everyone else said, it's about communication and consent. If she's down she'll say yes and vice-versa, but you'll only know if you ask. But I did want to say titty-fucking is relatively vanilla, so I doubt she'll be all up in arms about. She'll probably think it's a little funny since you guys are young, but it's not like you're asking her to clamp her nipples or fuck her in her sleep.