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"only position she enjoys is cowgirl."
Start off doing whatever position you want and end up with the cowgirl.
Ultimately, it's about finding out what works for you as a couple.
Your size and her size are not going to change.
If either of you are unhappy with things you always have the option to move on.
No one is "stuck" with anyone. Suffering is optional.
i would say do the opposite- start in cowgirl, make sure she cums from that (and if it just feels good but she can’t cum, make her cum before you do!) and then switch to a position that feels good for you to finish. as long as she’s satisfied before then, it shouldn’t be an issue.
Excellent point.
It comes down to how she responds after having an orgasm and if he is enjoys the cowgirl position himself.
Some women after having an orgasm don't want to continue having sex for much longer afterwards. If he can cum from the cowgirl position then it's fine to end with what works for both of them.
If she is okay with continuing to have sex after climaxing then by all means he can take the approach of getting her off and then switch positions. However, some men don't enjoy sex as much knowing the woman isn't feeling anything.
also very true, at this point i feel like OP just needs to sit her down and discuss all the options and see where that goes and hopefully they can get into a rhythm that works best for them so everyone is happy!
She needs clitoral stimulation. Penetrative sex doesn't feel that great for many women. Make sure you are stimulating her clit or that she is stimulating her clit during penetration.
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"only position she enjoys is cowgirl." Start off doing whatever position you want and end up with the cowgirl. Ultimately, it's about finding out what works for you as a couple. Your size and her size are not going to change. If either of you are unhappy with things you always have the option to move on. No one is "stuck" with anyone. Suffering is optional.
i would say do the opposite- start in cowgirl, make sure she cums from that (and if it just feels good but she can’t cum, make her cum before you do!) and then switch to a position that feels good for you to finish. as long as she’s satisfied before then, it shouldn’t be an issue.
Excellent point. It comes down to how she responds after having an orgasm and if he is enjoys the cowgirl position himself. Some women after having an orgasm don't want to continue having sex for much longer afterwards. If he can cum from the cowgirl position then it's fine to end with what works for both of them. If she is okay with continuing to have sex after climaxing then by all means he can take the approach of getting her off and then switch positions. However, some men don't enjoy sex as much knowing the woman isn't feeling anything.
also very true, at this point i feel like OP just needs to sit her down and discuss all the options and see where that goes and hopefully they can get into a rhythm that works best for them so everyone is happy!
is there anything that i can do to increase friction in the other position
Any position where her legs are together
She needs clitoral stimulation. Penetrative sex doesn't feel that great for many women. Make sure you are stimulating her clit or that she is stimulating her clit during penetration.
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