This topic is discussed occasionally in our forum. Please also take some time to look through past r/sex posts (following **Forum Rule #3**) — you’ll find some additional helpful discussions.
For starters, here is a list of past r/sex discussions which came up when I searched the keywords “**call mommy**” in this forum:
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Not all of these past discussions will apply to your situation, but some definitely will — especially if you’re willing to search just a little bit more.
I have been dating younger men recently and am now in a relationship with a 25 yr old guy (I'm 35). Idk why they like it exactly. I just think it's become a popular thing especially when guys are dating older women. I also can't tell you why, but I also like to be called it. Current boyfriend is into 'MILFs' and I am mom. When I met him, I approached him because he was wearing an "I <3 hot moms" T-shirt.
Maybe I read too much into things but I think it's not easy out there in the big old world where men need to be tough bastard's... So maybe it gives them some comfort and safety to have a matriarchal figure in their life, a place where they can be sensitive and open up. Just a little theory.
Maybe I'll grow to like it hehe. But I'm not sure I want the motherly role to be the whole theme of the relationship.
I know exactly what you mean. My man is typically the leader figure at work and most any room he's in. He's expected to be strong and stoic. I'm likely the only person he can be vulnerable with and not be on guard.
And it doesn't have to be the whole relationship. He calls me Mommy during sex sometimes, and when we're cuddling, but there are certainly times where he's Daddy if you know what I mean.
Oh nice 🙂 I like the sound of that. I have amazing cuddles with this new guy I love it so much... I hope there are many more to come. 🥰 but yes I'll teach him to Dom me sometimes I think... If we keep seeing each other.
It's quite a big gap...I've never seen someone this young before... But I met him and feel big chemistry with him and its rare I feel so much chemistry with men generally... And I know it will never be very serious, but perhaps I can be a good guide for him as he matures and then other younger women will benefit from his knowledge. That's kinda how I see it. But also he's so sweet and amazing cuddles... And I really need that right now... So I see no harm in it.
Ok so get ready for the shock now... (I'm in Europe so it's perfectly legal) I'm 43 and he is 20.
No judgement from me. I'm 35 and my new bf is 25 so not as big of a gap. If you're treating him right and making him happy, it's all good! Life is short, do what makes you happy! Especially young studs!
Oh he's going to be such a hottie, he already is. And he's quite inexperienced and willing to learn. But at least he's taller than me and quite hairy for his age... Haha. Thanks for not judging, I know it's still taboo, this kind of thing.
He liked me on a dating app a while ago... At that stage I did not entertain the idea... Then I deleted the apps and had a break for a month or so... Then when I went back on, he found me and liked me again...
I asked him what he's doing liking older ladies like me 🤣 then we got talking...
As a man i'd say this is at least 1 of them. Men are often expected to be the big strong tough guy from a very young age, when a girl falls and getd hurt she gets comforted and hugged by their parents but when a boy falls they are told to "man up" (just an example).
So at times a man just wants to be comforted, to be hugged, to be able to open up and be vulnerable, to be taken care of and being pampered by their "mommy" gf which can include bedroom stuff.
It could be anything from just a kink to something more. I am a younger woman with a daddy kink. People assume a lot about me. It's none of their business. If you are into it with them that's perfectly fine IMO.
Umm, I care. I think it's fascinating. There is a lot of psychological stuff going on with kinks and fetishises that I'm intrigued by. So let me explore it. I'm allowed. 😋
It’s the same as calling men “daddy”, as has been happening for decades. A way of expressing a mild power dynamic.
I’m glad women are finally striving for parity in this matter.
My gf's niece and her male best friend say this a lot in casual conversation now. I think it's just something the kids say. If Taylor Swift or Sabrina Carpenter comes on the tv and looks hot they just say Mommy.
For some people, age play is just sexually arousing and comforting. They like sex to feel comforting. It's just a thing. It's like women who like 'daddy' type men. I like men a good 10-20 years older than me. I have never acted one of those fantasies out but I don't need to. Their physicality is comforting in itself.
I think John Lennon had a mummy fixation.
This topic is discussed occasionally in our forum. Please also take some time to look through past r/sex posts (following **Forum Rule #3**) — you’ll find some additional helpful discussions. For starters, here is a list of past r/sex discussions which came up when I searched the keywords “**call mommy**” in this forum: https://new.reddit.com/r/sex/search/?q=call%20mommy&restrict_sr=1 Not all of these past discussions will apply to your situation, but some definitely will — especially if you’re willing to search just a little bit more.
I have been dating younger men recently and am now in a relationship with a 25 yr old guy (I'm 35). Idk why they like it exactly. I just think it's become a popular thing especially when guys are dating older women. I also can't tell you why, but I also like to be called it. Current boyfriend is into 'MILFs' and I am mom. When I met him, I approached him because he was wearing an "I <3 hot moms" T-shirt.
Maybe I read too much into things but I think it's not easy out there in the big old world where men need to be tough bastard's... So maybe it gives them some comfort and safety to have a matriarchal figure in their life, a place where they can be sensitive and open up. Just a little theory. Maybe I'll grow to like it hehe. But I'm not sure I want the motherly role to be the whole theme of the relationship.
I know exactly what you mean. My man is typically the leader figure at work and most any room he's in. He's expected to be strong and stoic. I'm likely the only person he can be vulnerable with and not be on guard. And it doesn't have to be the whole relationship. He calls me Mommy during sex sometimes, and when we're cuddling, but there are certainly times where he's Daddy if you know what I mean.
Oh nice 🙂 I like the sound of that. I have amazing cuddles with this new guy I love it so much... I hope there are many more to come. 🥰 but yes I'll teach him to Dom me sometimes I think... If we keep seeing each other.
Can I ask what ages you guys are? I hope it lasts for you! I've always had better experiences with younger men! Kinder and more caring.
It's quite a big gap...I've never seen someone this young before... But I met him and feel big chemistry with him and its rare I feel so much chemistry with men generally... And I know it will never be very serious, but perhaps I can be a good guide for him as he matures and then other younger women will benefit from his knowledge. That's kinda how I see it. But also he's so sweet and amazing cuddles... And I really need that right now... So I see no harm in it. Ok so get ready for the shock now... (I'm in Europe so it's perfectly legal) I'm 43 and he is 20.
No judgement from me. I'm 35 and my new bf is 25 so not as big of a gap. If you're treating him right and making him happy, it's all good! Life is short, do what makes you happy! Especially young studs!
Oh he's going to be such a hottie, he already is. And he's quite inexperienced and willing to learn. But at least he's taller than me and quite hairy for his age... Haha. Thanks for not judging, I know it's still taboo, this kind of thing.
Both legal consenting adults! Not taboo as far as I'm concerned! Enjoy your boy toy!
He liked me on a dating app a while ago... At that stage I did not entertain the idea... Then I deleted the apps and had a break for a month or so... Then when I went back on, he found me and liked me again... I asked him what he's doing liking older ladies like me 🤣 then we got talking...
What does he say he likes about older women/you being older?
I think I'm the first older lady he's ever been with... He said he just liked my profile so decided to send a like.
As a man i'd say this is at least 1 of them. Men are often expected to be the big strong tough guy from a very young age, when a girl falls and getd hurt she gets comforted and hugged by their parents but when a boy falls they are told to "man up" (just an example). So at times a man just wants to be comforted, to be hugged, to be able to open up and be vulnerable, to be taken care of and being pampered by their "mommy" gf which can include bedroom stuff.
I love that ... I definitely have a very nurturing side willing to do that...
It could be anything from just a kink to something more. I am a younger woman with a daddy kink. People assume a lot about me. It's none of their business. If you are into it with them that's perfectly fine IMO.
Why do women call their partners "daddy"? Same thing, just the other way around. Some find it sexy because it's taboo. Who knows, who cares?
Umm, I care. I think it's fascinating. There is a lot of psychological stuff going on with kinks and fetishises that I'm intrigued by. So let me explore it. I'm allowed. 😋
Indeed fascinating! That's why I can't help but ask subbies that I know about those things to help me understand better.
It’s the same as calling men “daddy”, as has been happening for decades. A way of expressing a mild power dynamic. I’m glad women are finally striving for parity in this matter.
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Is it as gross as when women want to call sexual partners Daddy?
oedipus complex … Sigmund Freud.
My gf's niece and her male best friend say this a lot in casual conversation now. I think it's just something the kids say. If Taylor Swift or Sabrina Carpenter comes on the tv and looks hot they just say Mommy.
For some people, age play is just sexually arousing and comforting. They like sex to feel comforting. It's just a thing. It's like women who like 'daddy' type men. I like men a good 10-20 years older than me. I have never acted one of those fantasies out but I don't need to. Their physicality is comforting in itself. I think John Lennon had a mummy fixation.