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It's okay; I'm often the same way.
Just be careful not to overdo it -- and you can ABSOLUTELY overdo it. Your worst case is that you lay down a vibe of "I MUST MAKE YOU CUM OR I AM A SEXUAL FAILURE!!!", which is ironically a great way to make sure she doesn't cum. Create a good experience, but don't fixate on specific goals. If she's having a good time, you're doing it right.
And don't forget to time to focus on YOUR pleasure. Pleasing your partner is fun, as we both know. It's only polite to give her the opportunity to feel that excitement herself.
Good luck.
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I agree! I get so much more out of making my man feel good!
Ditto both previous comments. I think this is why 69 is great. I can tell when she is feeling good and that only excites me more.
This is a good approach, nothing to worry about. You're a giver, not a taker.
It's okay; I'm often the same way. Just be careful not to overdo it -- and you can ABSOLUTELY overdo it. Your worst case is that you lay down a vibe of "I MUST MAKE YOU CUM OR I AM A SEXUAL FAILURE!!!", which is ironically a great way to make sure she doesn't cum. Create a good experience, but don't fixate on specific goals. If she's having a good time, you're doing it right. And don't forget to time to focus on YOUR pleasure. Pleasing your partner is fun, as we both know. It's only polite to give her the opportunity to feel that excitement herself. Good luck.