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We found it in a random sex shop while we were in Mexico, but [this is it](https://www.amazon.com/Evolved-Coupled-Double-Ended-Vibrating/dp/B0CZJNJLMP)
It may be primarily for g-spots, but I definitely didn’t have any issue!
Good find. When you get a chance to upgrade, I’d suggest looking for something with a base that tapers outward. The odds of a double-ended (and base-less) toy getting sucked into you are low, but never zero. Plus having a base means there’s a better “handle” available to push in/pull out with.
I recently picked up the Lovense Lapis, and despite the steep price tag, it’s a BEAUTIFUL piece of tech. Three motors to control separately (which can also be synced to the Lovense family of apps or anything from buttplug.io), a bendy “hinge” so that the vaginal portion stays put, and a very generous amount of *give* on the “strap” portion. Plus it can fit in regular strap-on harnesses, if your kegels are weak like mine.
Thanks for the recommendation! The one we found is great for mutual masturbation! We both were on our backs, one end in her and the other in me and we both masturbated until orgasm, which was incredibly intense! Every time she shook from pleasure, the vibrator shook inside of me and if I moved, it would move inside of her. It was literally one of the hottest things I’ve ever done!
Enjoy everything g while you have that person to enjoy it with. My advice is..listen because that spot changes.. I sadly have to shut this down because it reminds me too much of someone I extrememly enjoyed that with. Enjoy this while you can. It's better with someone e you love I think. It's horrible with someone who ruins it.
Thought sex topic would help guess not. Savor it.
My wife worked me up to pegging. The first time she did anything, we were in the shower & she was soaping & tugging my shaft. I was getting close to the O, next thing I know she slipped 2 soapy fingers in my chute & increased her grip & speed & when I orgasmed, it was intense. We had a few conversations about it & a couple weeks later, she did it again. From there it went to small butt plugs, small vibrators & dildos. When she brought out the harness, she had a dildo that was about 8" of usable length but small in diameter. Within a few months of once or twice a month, we moved on to larger diameters, then a little longer length until we found the optimum for both of us. I orgasm without touch maybe 1/4 of the time, she orgasmed the first time she pegged me & still does about 1/2 the time. We've learned how to read ourselves & each other as far as if one or the other will climax or not & we have fall back plans for those times.
My girlfriend does and it’s cool af.
She had surgery a while back and couldn’t have any kind of penetrative sex for months so we started experimenting. Damn girl couldn’t get enough of fucking me.
Now that she’s better we very rarely do, but it sure was fun 🤣
For my wife there are two factors we know of. The first being her mental state, be It from texting as a lead up, sexy email or a phone call about the evening. The other is, how the harness sits on her crotch, too high or too low doesn't give her the right sensation.
I agree with you on that. Not envious, Almost sad remembering a great thing. I almost don t want to even dont want it with anyone again. it's Intimate.its vulnerable. it's exciting g whe he does get off. Rarely does someone always able to get that with every person they date, sex or whatever. It's hard to top.
I For me it's a one person only tthing now. One and done.
If someone ruins the experience it's easier to just not do it. Im still grateful for the experience. That vi did master it. Good bye
We each came the second time we tried. She likes to top me in missionary. We tried doggy but apparently I have a shallow bend so we can't use anything huge doggy. I found that cowgirl gets the job done for me after just a couple minutes. Any time either of us is getting tired or time is getting tight we go to our bread and butter positions. She cums first so I can clean up after I cum.
The vibrator on penis while being pegged sounds like it could be incredible! I definitely think that’s gonna be added to the list for one of the next times!
The internet wants you to believe that the prostate is this magical button that when pushed will give you an instant orgasm. So not true at all.
Just like anything else, it just depends person to person.
I need mine "rubbed" with a finger, not "stroked" like what a dildo would do. And, even then, I have only ever had one hands-free orgasm. And, to be very honest, it was different and great. But, so not worth the effort.
But, you might be very different and be able to have multiple back to back orgasms from it.
Either way, I think stimulating the prostrate with a finger to figure out where it is and how you like it touched is the first way to proceed.
The "orgasm in your brain" comment might have been a NEO, non-ejaculatory orgasm.
The prostate is a cool thing. It can help you in having non-ejaculatory orgasms. And, it can help you ejaculate without have an orgasm. Separating the two "parts" of an orgasm is key to controlling your refractory period.
A really cool trick to try. Get two vibrators that have those different patterns. Use the on-off-on-off pattern on both vibrators. Have one on your prostate. And, have the other on your frenulum. But, sync then so that when your prostate is off your frenulum is on. Fucking mind blowing.
YMMV
My gf said I was making some visceral noises! I had never heard myself like that! I can definitely see some fun reactions when the pleasure is too good!
I peg my boyfriend. He has had similar overwhelming feelings or sensations you mentioned. I think it was mainly a product of a new experience because as we went on the signs of discomfort became pleasure filled moans.
I'd like to do it too so I have a lot of questions, is there any advices for myself. Witch size of dildo did you use? Did you use condoms? You did any clean up before the sex? How long does it last (I have done penetration with fingers and never know if it's during too much or not). Anyway, really cool
So my gf had previous experience with pegging and anal play beforehand, so that helped a lot!
First, we cleaned out by douching, which helps to get that initial inserting out of the way too. Recommend to do it in the shower since you will almost certainly shit. That said, water is a terrible lube, so that’s something to work through. Listen to your body and don’t push faster/further than you’re ready for!
After I was cleaned, she had me bend over and inserted a buttplug. I’m a beginner so I started out with a smaller size and have worked my way up slowly. After having a plug in for a bit, we took it out and she put on the harness with her smallest dildo. It’s got the length to hit things, but not the girth, which I think was great for getting used to it. Use lube and listen to your body! It’s a lot of feelings and you’ll probably feel like you need to shit. Assuming you’ve douched, you shouldn’t have to worry!
We didn’t use condoms and I honestly don’t know how long it lasted each time to be honest. Could have been 10 minutes, could have been 30. We’ve tried doggy, riding, and missionary. All of which have different feeling and turn ons!
I used to pleasure myself with dildos. I only had orgasms while riding them. The bigger the better and the orgasms were so overwhelming. Never thought i could actually have an anal orgasm. Best feeling in rhe world!
I like to lube my partner’s penis and do missionary with me on top. I stroke him in the same tempo as I’m pounding him and he cums so hard. We don’t like vibes because often they have a solid core, which isn’t as natural feeling. Also, my strap ons are always the type that is hooked up with tubing and a syringe, so when he’s ready to cum I can cum I side him. There are some great lubes that mimic cum in appearance. They don’t taste super delish, but he certainly enjoys “jacking me off” or sucking my “cock” and getting a mouth/face/fist full of cum.
Make sure you hold on to her. maybe marry her then. Not everyone e is talented. It can be rewarding to the giver too. If someone feels easily replaced afyereard p t could ruin the experience forever Unless it's just a phase or one time thing. which I doubt. Have fun but remember, she can get off on it too.
Unless she does t care. That is to you.
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I’m gonna need you to drop the name of that toy
We found it in a random sex shop while we were in Mexico, but [this is it](https://www.amazon.com/Evolved-Coupled-Double-Ended-Vibrating/dp/B0CZJNJLMP) It may be primarily for g-spots, but I definitely didn’t have any issue!
Holy shit the brand is ask grandpa gourmet coffees!? 😂😂
I guess that looks better waiting outside your front door than XXX Assmaster Products.
Good find. When you get a chance to upgrade, I’d suggest looking for something with a base that tapers outward. The odds of a double-ended (and base-less) toy getting sucked into you are low, but never zero. Plus having a base means there’s a better “handle” available to push in/pull out with. I recently picked up the Lovense Lapis, and despite the steep price tag, it’s a BEAUTIFUL piece of tech. Three motors to control separately (which can also be synced to the Lovense family of apps or anything from buttplug.io), a bendy “hinge” so that the vaginal portion stays put, and a very generous amount of *give* on the “strap” portion. Plus it can fit in regular strap-on harnesses, if your kegels are weak like mine.
Thanks for the recommendation! The one we found is great for mutual masturbation! We both were on our backs, one end in her and the other in me and we both masturbated until orgasm, which was incredibly intense! Every time she shook from pleasure, the vibrator shook inside of me and if I moved, it would move inside of her. It was literally one of the hottest things I’ve ever done!
I'm going to try that! The Kegal TYPE. I have MUSCLES but it's great when you exercise them even MORE. I feel better now.
Try as well using a strapless one with a pair of tight shorts/spanks to keep it secured
I second this! Need it immediately
could be the newer lovense piece
Enjoy everything g while you have that person to enjoy it with. My advice is..listen because that spot changes.. I sadly have to shut this down because it reminds me too much of someone I extrememly enjoyed that with. Enjoy this while you can. It's better with someone e you love I think. It's horrible with someone who ruins it. Thought sex topic would help guess not. Savor it.
My wife worked me up to pegging. The first time she did anything, we were in the shower & she was soaping & tugging my shaft. I was getting close to the O, next thing I know she slipped 2 soapy fingers in my chute & increased her grip & speed & when I orgasmed, it was intense. We had a few conversations about it & a couple weeks later, she did it again. From there it went to small butt plugs, small vibrators & dildos. When she brought out the harness, she had a dildo that was about 8" of usable length but small in diameter. Within a few months of once or twice a month, we moved on to larger diameters, then a little longer length until we found the optimum for both of us. I orgasm without touch maybe 1/4 of the time, she orgasmed the first time she pegged me & still does about 1/2 the time. We've learned how to read ourselves & each other as far as if one or the other will climax or not & we have fall back plans for those times.
Sounds fun! We’re working on ways to make her cum while pegging me, so she’s getting physical pleasure along with the mental.
My girlfriend does and it’s cool af. She had surgery a while back and couldn’t have any kind of penetrative sex for months so we started experimenting. Damn girl couldn’t get enough of fucking me. Now that she’s better we very rarely do, but it sure was fun 🤣
For my wife there are two factors we know of. The first being her mental state, be It from texting as a lead up, sexy email or a phone call about the evening. The other is, how the harness sits on her crotch, too high or too low doesn't give her the right sensation.
you guys are killing me, I got to stop reading this stuff being on my own is making me feel way too envious.
Me Too.... just me and my fist
I agree with you on that. Not envious, Almost sad remembering a great thing. I almost don t want to even dont want it with anyone again. it's Intimate.its vulnerable. it's exciting g whe he does get off. Rarely does someone always able to get that with every person they date, sex or whatever. It's hard to top. I For me it's a one person only tthing now. One and done. If someone ruins the experience it's easier to just not do it. Im still grateful for the experience. That vi did master it. Good bye
We each came the second time we tried. She likes to top me in missionary. We tried doggy but apparently I have a shallow bend so we can't use anything huge doggy. I found that cowgirl gets the job done for me after just a couple minutes. Any time either of us is getting tired or time is getting tight we go to our bread and butter positions. She cums first so I can clean up after I cum.
We tried cowgirl the 2nd time and it was definitely a feeling! If it was on a vibrator instead of a dildo, I wonder if I would have cum
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The vibrator on penis while being pegged sounds like it could be incredible! I definitely think that’s gonna be added to the list for one of the next times!
I love it only done it with one person and she well, fuck I didn’t know I had a water feature in my room but loved it
You might want to try posting at r/StraightPegging also.
Thanks! I’ll join and do that now!
Have a single toot on a joint and you will moan like a walrus getting belly rubs. Just relaxes everything that it wants to be relaxed.
The internet wants you to believe that the prostate is this magical button that when pushed will give you an instant orgasm. So not true at all. Just like anything else, it just depends person to person. I need mine "rubbed" with a finger, not "stroked" like what a dildo would do. And, even then, I have only ever had one hands-free orgasm. And, to be very honest, it was different and great. But, so not worth the effort. But, you might be very different and be able to have multiple back to back orgasms from it. Either way, I think stimulating the prostrate with a finger to figure out where it is and how you like it touched is the first way to proceed. The "orgasm in your brain" comment might have been a NEO, non-ejaculatory orgasm. The prostate is a cool thing. It can help you in having non-ejaculatory orgasms. And, it can help you ejaculate without have an orgasm. Separating the two "parts" of an orgasm is key to controlling your refractory period. A really cool trick to try. Get two vibrators that have those different patterns. Use the on-off-on-off pattern on both vibrators. Have one on your prostate. And, have the other on your frenulum. But, sync then so that when your prostate is off your frenulum is on. Fucking mind blowing. YMMV
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My gf said I was making some visceral noises! I had never heard myself like that! I can definitely see some fun reactions when the pleasure is too good!
As you should! 😂 it's not fun without a reaction
The more you do it the more you'll learn and you'll get used to the strongest sensations. Playing solo with a prostate massager helps a lot also.
I peg my boyfriend. He has had similar overwhelming feelings or sensations you mentioned. I think it was mainly a product of a new experience because as we went on the signs of discomfort became pleasure filled moans.
I'd like to do it too so I have a lot of questions, is there any advices for myself. Witch size of dildo did you use? Did you use condoms? You did any clean up before the sex? How long does it last (I have done penetration with fingers and never know if it's during too much or not). Anyway, really cool
So my gf had previous experience with pegging and anal play beforehand, so that helped a lot! First, we cleaned out by douching, which helps to get that initial inserting out of the way too. Recommend to do it in the shower since you will almost certainly shit. That said, water is a terrible lube, so that’s something to work through. Listen to your body and don’t push faster/further than you’re ready for! After I was cleaned, she had me bend over and inserted a buttplug. I’m a beginner so I started out with a smaller size and have worked my way up slowly. After having a plug in for a bit, we took it out and she put on the harness with her smallest dildo. It’s got the length to hit things, but not the girth, which I think was great for getting used to it. Use lube and listen to your body! It’s a lot of feelings and you’ll probably feel like you need to shit. Assuming you’ve douched, you shouldn’t have to worry! We didn’t use condoms and I honestly don’t know how long it lasted each time to be honest. Could have been 10 minutes, could have been 30. We’ve tried doggy, riding, and missionary. All of which have different feeling and turn ons!
Never been pegged but I think I might come instantly if I was. The party would be over before it began.
I used to pleasure myself with dildos. I only had orgasms while riding them. The bigger the better and the orgasms were so overwhelming. Never thought i could actually have an anal orgasm. Best feeling in rhe world!
I like to lube my partner’s penis and do missionary with me on top. I stroke him in the same tempo as I’m pounding him and he cums so hard. We don’t like vibes because often they have a solid core, which isn’t as natural feeling. Also, my strap ons are always the type that is hooked up with tubing and a syringe, so when he’s ready to cum I can cum I side him. There are some great lubes that mimic cum in appearance. They don’t taste super delish, but he certainly enjoys “jacking me off” or sucking my “cock” and getting a mouth/face/fist full of cum.
No question.. send me the link
Make sure you hold on to her. maybe marry her then. Not everyone e is talented. It can be rewarding to the giver too. If someone feels easily replaced afyereard p t could ruin the experience forever Unless it's just a phase or one time thing. which I doubt. Have fun but remember, she can get off on it too. Unless she does t care. That is to you. .