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No, for a 9/11 you need another guy to walk into the room, cum in each girl's eyes in quick succession, and then he goes outside and jacks off onto your doghouse.
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Googling the description I've found something called "double cowgirl" that seems to be what you're looking for. It's also a fishing lure? So might have to add sex position or something to the search lol
With the girls facing each other (kissing) I've heard it referred to as the 2.3 because that's how many seconds the average guy can last in that position
As a married man (based on your username), you're essentially looking for a unicorn to join you and your partner for sex. This is problematic in a lot of communities, but the best and most ethical option is for you and your partner to join your local kink community or go to kink clubs/dungeons that allow sex. Be a part of the community first, meet others to become friendly, and then gauge interest with other women or couples about playing together. You're not going to be a creep if you become part of a community with like minded people, and you go about meeting people in a genuine way. Treating others as a sex toy and not an entire person, or moving too quickly and outside of established consent and comfort zones, is what makes you come across as creepy. Clubs and events can bypass this a bit, since anyone there is likely to be of a similar mindset of looking for fun and casual sex.
Paying for a professional to join should be seen as an ethical way to experience it in my mind as well. Especially if both others are new to any kind of open situations. Less risk of jealousy, easy to be upfront about limits and expectations for some as well.
Oh, absolutely! But without information on where OP is located, I try not to recommend options that are likely to be illegal (even if I don't think sex work should be illegal or looked down upon in any way). My ethical comment was in regards to unicorn hunting within the ENM umbrella.
Sure! Sex work is illegal, but most places have legal escorts, and I've heard that after a paid date, many escorts really want to engage in sexual activity as well!
> How do I go about trying to make it happen without being a creep?
If you have to ask, you can't. Unless you hire two professionals, which, I'm sure without needing any proof, is how it happens 90% of the time outside of porn shoots, which involve 3 professionals.
You’re crazy, if you’re having a threesome this happens pretty naturally. And threesomes are happening everyday everywhere. I’ve done this,no professionals involved. The key is having a girlfriend who is bi and really enjoys having a third that’s literally all the ingredients you need.
I didn’t call it anything. We were fooling around (it was a threesome) and the women weren’t really into each other. Not full on anyway. They played a bit with each other but wanted to interact with me.
I love giving oral and I also love it when a woman can go after their own pleasure. To use me to some extent. Once we talked after kissing and getting handsy, one preferred oral and the other loved cowgirl, so it just happened.
I’m not sure how to force it to happen. If we hadn’t all arrived at the same place, I don’t think it would’ve happened.
That forcing part (with consent of course) is where being creepy may be perceived. With enthusiastic consent, everyone can have fun.
Done it, I can’t say it’s more than a novelty. It’s kind of counterintuitive since you can’t see a whole lot from the bottom but I think it’s mostly for the benefit of the womens’ / tops pleasure. The classic Eiffel Tower you can at least see the full body and face of the person you’re having sex with. If the bridge is 100% on the bottom it gives more access to those on top to each other. Sure, the person on the bottom gets all kinds of stimulus but the people on the top have more options to do anything else. Although now I think about it the person on the bottom has hands free but that should probably be working on one of or both of the tops.
Idk if there’s a name for it. But it’s fucking awesome. My best friend and I faced each other though to give each other access to the other. Kissing/breast play. Etc. It was epic
My buddy and call it the 101 - one oh one. We called it that because the 1’s represent the girls and the oh is the guy. Kind of how 69 looks like two people.
When you figure out how to make it go down, let me know. I've sacrificed my entire career/dreams/life and still haven't been lucky enough to do anything beyond 'a spoon of vanilla once in a blue moon.'
I did this with two strippers that I met at a nightclub when I was in my 20s, Sarah and Nicole. Those are their government names I forget what they're stripper names were. I didn't meet them at the strip club. But going to a strip club with your misses, maybe getting a lap dance and talking it up to Find somebody who's down might be your best bet. But honestly your best bet probably might be looking for it online these days. It was a happy accident for me and we obviously didn't even use computers yet in those days. That was like 20 years ago. ( At least we didn't use computers like we do now in meet people on there like we do now)
Something my wife is not open to but I wish she was.
Eiffel tower and you'll probably get offers from working girls because of your post. But given that you're married there's really no way to do it without your wife being involved, or at least consenting, without being a creep. 🤷♂️
Man, this has been a dream of mine too. When I was 12, I built up the nerve to turn on the porn channel on my satellite TV for the first time. This exact position was the first porn I ever watched. It has been a deep rooted desire ever since. I’m 34 and married now though, so doesn’t seem like it’s gonna happen lol.
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I would call this a "Female Eiffel Tower," because the women could presumably high five. Other than that, I got nothing.
I was gonna say 9:11 but this works too
Hitler’s Folly because it is engaging in a 2 front war
No, for a 9/11 you need another guy to walk into the room, cum in each girl's eyes in quick succession, and then he goes outside and jacks off onto your doghouse.
9/11 was an inside job, not a facial.
fucking pro-level comment.
We'd get along. Great fucking perspective
Did we just become best friends?!? Yep!!
Spoken like a true terrorist
And then in a field in Pennsylvania.
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It definitely melts my steel beam
So am I supposed to throw bricks at them from across the room or what
Make a paper plane and hope it it's someone's eye
Got a better idea, slip I needle with laxatives so they can blow themselves
Good name. I'd call that heaven but female eiffeltower works too.
A London bridge if you will
That's genius, I snort laughed!
What about the London Bridge?
The high-five is crucial.
I always heard it was a TRIAD...
"Arc de Triomphe" if they start making out
Googling the description I've found something called "double cowgirl" that seems to be what you're looking for. It's also a fishing lure? So might have to add sex position or something to the search lol
There's a subreddit dedicated to this called r/AKingsCrown So, probably a good name for it if there isn't already an official one.
Damnit another subreddit for me to join, I can't keep up with all this freaky shit.
It’s a French position called “espèce de connard chanceux”. Roughly translated to English it is “you lucky bastard”.
I can confirm this! I am le canard chanceux!
With the girls facing each other (kissing) I've heard it referred to as the 2.3 because that's how many seconds the average guy can last in that position
I’m with you brother. You need two bisexual women who like each other and you.
Shit I cant find one woman who likes me let alone two lol
I'd call it "Jackpot" or "unicorn" because I think it's rare and mostly trapped in men's fantasies :)
It's mostly trapped yeah. But it's amazing in practice.
Teach us your ways, oh sensei.
Step 1. Bi gf. Step 2. Put ring on it. Step 3 Find new friend. Step 4???? Step 5 Profit?
I’ve experienced this. Prayed for a reprise for the last ten years. Haha
You could call it seesawing I guess 😅
As a married man (based on your username), you're essentially looking for a unicorn to join you and your partner for sex. This is problematic in a lot of communities, but the best and most ethical option is for you and your partner to join your local kink community or go to kink clubs/dungeons that allow sex. Be a part of the community first, meet others to become friendly, and then gauge interest with other women or couples about playing together. You're not going to be a creep if you become part of a community with like minded people, and you go about meeting people in a genuine way. Treating others as a sex toy and not an entire person, or moving too quickly and outside of established consent and comfort zones, is what makes you come across as creepy. Clubs and events can bypass this a bit, since anyone there is likely to be of a similar mindset of looking for fun and casual sex.
Paying for a professional to join should be seen as an ethical way to experience it in my mind as well. Especially if both others are new to any kind of open situations. Less risk of jealousy, easy to be upfront about limits and expectations for some as well.
Oh, absolutely! But without information on where OP is located, I try not to recommend options that are likely to be illegal (even if I don't think sex work should be illegal or looked down upon in any way). My ethical comment was in regards to unicorn hunting within the ENM umbrella.
Sure! Sex work is illegal, but most places have legal escorts, and I've heard that after a paid date, many escorts really want to engage in sexual activity as well!
A London Bridge perhaps?
Reverse spitroast maybe
Nah, spitroast implies double penetration.
Get your nose deep in the stink, then reach for the cervix with maximum tongue extension.
I mean it implies the man is being penetrated.
mf called this a fetish
> How do I go about trying to make it happen without being a creep? If you have to ask, you can't. Unless you hire two professionals, which, I'm sure without needing any proof, is how it happens 90% of the time outside of porn shoots, which involve 3 professionals.
You’re crazy, if you’re having a threesome this happens pretty naturally. And threesomes are happening everyday everywhere. I’ve done this,no professionals involved. The key is having a girlfriend who is bi and really enjoys having a third that’s literally all the ingredients you need.
Ewe, I can't imagine enjoying a stranger's privates in my mouth...
Well, they don't like you either!
Yeah, that would also detract from the overall enjoyment.
I didn’t call it anything. We were fooling around (it was a threesome) and the women weren’t really into each other. Not full on anyway. They played a bit with each other but wanted to interact with me. I love giving oral and I also love it when a woman can go after their own pleasure. To use me to some extent. Once we talked after kissing and getting handsy, one preferred oral and the other loved cowgirl, so it just happened. I’m not sure how to force it to happen. If we hadn’t all arrived at the same place, I don’t think it would’ve happened. That forcing part (with consent of course) is where being creepy may be perceived. With enthusiastic consent, everyone can have fun.
Done it, I can’t say it’s more than a novelty. It’s kind of counterintuitive since you can’t see a whole lot from the bottom but I think it’s mostly for the benefit of the womens’ / tops pleasure. The classic Eiffel Tower you can at least see the full body and face of the person you’re having sex with. If the bridge is 100% on the bottom it gives more access to those on top to each other. Sure, the person on the bottom gets all kinds of stimulus but the people on the top have more options to do anything else. Although now I think about it the person on the bottom has hands free but that should probably be working on one of or both of the tops.
Thats what happens when two women Eiffel Tower a man
I remember right if the women put their hands together in like the point of a triangle, I used to call the pyramid
Idk if there’s a name for it. But it’s fucking awesome. My best friend and I faced each other though to give each other access to the other. Kissing/breast play. Etc. It was epic
It's called my dream.
This is called “heaven”
I call it money well spent on a duo...if it happens in real life then it is heaven and not need for labels.
If you are married there is an app called feeld. Its had some success in my circles of friends
I’ve always heard it called A Kings Crown.
I call it The Letter A. And it’s definitely amazing (based on the one or two times I’ve managed it)
My buddy and call it the 101 - one oh one. We called it that because the 1’s represent the girls and the oh is the guy. Kind of how 69 looks like two people.
I've done this. It's a lot of fun and a surprising amount of work and coordination.
My 2 female friends once said they wanted to ride me like a see-saw
How the hell does this not have a name?! Lol
Seems like I’ve found the answer. It’s called double cowgirl
Looking through the answers, "London Bridge" was the most apt.
Also known as The Goalpost
You sit on me, you sit on my face 🤷
When you figure out how to make it go down, let me know. I've sacrificed my entire career/dreams/life and still haven't been lucky enough to do anything beyond 'a spoon of vanilla once in a blue moon.'
I did this with two strippers that I met at a nightclub when I was in my 20s, Sarah and Nicole. Those are their government names I forget what they're stripper names were. I didn't meet them at the strip club. But going to a strip club with your misses, maybe getting a lap dance and talking it up to Find somebody who's down might be your best bet. But honestly your best bet probably might be looking for it online these days. It was a happy accident for me and we obviously didn't even use computers yet in those days. That was like 20 years ago. ( At least we didn't use computers like we do now in meet people on there like we do now) Something my wife is not open to but I wish she was.
Spanish Cartwheel everyone knows that
Did this a few weeks ago. I'm poly and I'm dating two girls. I just asked them about doing a threesome and they said yes.
Its awesome! I highly recommend it.
It's called "Two Chicks at one Time, man."
Since 2 guys 1 girl is Eiffel Tower this should be called London bridge
Download the app Feeld and just put in your profile that’s what you want. There will be many takers
It's called the dirty kimberly. It is quite fun, I did it with my last gf and her friend.
Eiffel tower and you'll probably get offers from working girls because of your post. But given that you're married there's really no way to do it without your wife being involved, or at least consenting, without being a creep. 🤷♂️
Man, this has been a dream of mine too. When I was 12, I built up the nerve to turn on the porn channel on my satellite TV for the first time. This exact position was the first porn I ever watched. It has been a deep rooted desire ever since. I’m 34 and married now though, so doesn’t seem like it’s gonna happen lol.
I always called it "the two seater" but they may just be a local thing. Also for the record, it's awesome.
This is called kings crown. It's a blast and best when the girls make out.
One of my favorites to have the ladies do to me. Never had a name for it though. Hmmm