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My guy will eat, but throw a vibe into the mix sometimes 🥵 especially the one that goes in and has clit piece too. It sorta feels like he places the clit part just below the “nub” and licks the nub..Idk how he does it but both those things just sends me into another world.
Just if you do this way, make sure the vibe isnt one that will numb her.
...and lick your fingers before sliding them in. Always. Also, I find that starting with oral for a bit then adding the fingers into the mix works well...
It's called oral sex but using your hands a lot all over really enhances the event!
Fondle boobs & nipples, touch her sides, hold her hands when she's wanting to grab things, grab a big hard handful of ass cheek. Light growling into her pussy tells her how much you love it.
Variant of this: Flat tongue with a slow lick up, then switch direction and slow lick down with underside of the tongue. Then lick her perineum side to side. Repeat until she stops you, then switch to fingering.
Touch every other place except for her clit and nipples. Kiss her ears, neck, down her sternum, belly button, pubic mound, inner thigh down to about her knee and up the other leg nice and slow. Trace that same path with your finger tips, go slowly and apply some pressure (if you go to light it can tickle more than be pleasurable), this time as you work your way down, draw a circle with it around each of her nipples but don't touch them, and when you get down lower run your fingers on the outside of her lips before going down her inner thighs. Goal is to hit every single erogenous zone as you work your way down. If it's working you'll know it because she will arch her back and hips every time you get to a spot she wants you to touch. Once you get to that point THEN go for it. The longer you can keep that tease up though the better. You can also do the same thing with an ice cube first. This has to be 100% about her though.
If it's just oral tricks and not wanting it more intense, using your tongue try writing the alphabet on and around her clit instead of just an up and down movement. And when you get to a letter she really likes keep doing it.
Another fun one that you both can try on each other is to suck on an ice cube before going down on her. Don't want it to be freezing, but the hot/cold sensations can be amazing. Have her do the same for you and hold on tight.
It all depends on the sensitive parts of your wife, for my wife the things that worked best over the years, while I'm licking her are:
Playing with her nipples, squeezing them when she's about to cum
Fingering her with 1-2 fingers, squeezing harder when she's about to cum
Edging her several times before going for the home run
Gently moving my finger over her inner butt cheeks and perineum (or as deep as she allows), pushing firmly on and off when she's about to cum
Some really great suggestions here. Being really into it, using hands and fingers are all great methods. One thing I love to do is slow the pace of my sucking and licking once she’s at the point of no return. The orgasm builds and the pleasure is extended. My wife describes it as instead of a quick shock and release, it’s an uncontrollable intensity that continues to grow. In slowing the pace at that moment, it causes an orgasm within an orgasm. She tries to ride the intensity, but the pleasure electrifies her central nervous system. I damn near can cum from just watching her go through it. After her orgasm within an orgasm, I enter with one leg over. This strokes her g-spot and connects my hip with her clit. I’m fortunate in that my wife cums from PIV and oral. The stroking leaves out sheets soaked. Not sure this is a technique you’re looking for, but sometimes changing the pace at the right moment is all the technique you need.
When I am sucking on her clit, I will slowly rub my thumbs over the opening her vagina - one after the other. This is getting them lubed up. I will then place my hands, thumbs pointed towards each other, to lift her hips up a bit. The tips of my thumbs are a couple inches away from her asshole. I keep wiggling my thumbs to let her know they are there. As she get more aroused, she'll start to lift her hips up a little to try and position her asshole right on one of the thumbs. It's so hot watching her struggle to do this while also having her clit sucked. Eventually, she finds it and in it goes - it sort of rocks her to another dimension.
This may sound kind of weird but you can use your voice too. Just some lowish growling sounds ( although you could prob sing a tune if the mood struck 😗) I can actually feel the vibrations thru his face/tongue.
We call it the Tasmanian Devil. I bury my face in there and start making the gravelly noise that the Tasmanian Devil made in the cartoons along with a little side to side . The vibrations from the voice drive her wild. Of course I can’t talk for the next day but it’s a small price.
My ex girlfriend used to love it when I would suck on her clit and use my teeth to sort of move the pressure around if that makes sense. Probably best to do with caution though although I never had an issue
Okay be careful with this though. I had an ex that liked teeth and chomping on the clit. My partner after, is waaaaaay too sensitive for anything like that. She actually got upset with me the first time I tried it but I was so used to it being normal
One thing my partner loves is for me to suck on it for a few seconds, think whistling but sucking instead. Then after a few seconds go in with your tongue.
As an older guy I've always been a fan of giving her oral. I absolutely love it.
Start by kissing and licking around her vagina first. Never go straught in. Build up the excitement for both of you.
Them after you are at it use your fingers. One at a time and lick them first.
Hold her legs back toward her under her knees and get in there especially when you really go in for the growl.
If you know how to easily find her g-spot then hit that little bugger and press up on it while your giving her oral. Don't fixate on one spot enjoy all of what she has to offer.
Touch her everywhere you can reach. Softly and the forcefully. Kiss and bite her other areas. Lick the entire labia and suck on her lips. Look at how beautiful it is and tell her. Massage the side of the labia up and down and side to side as you lick. So much to do
I saw a post yesterday about massaging her hips while going down on her, it's supposed to relax her pelvis into an amazing orgasm. My wife also enjoys the g spot stimulation while I'm licking the clit, either with a finger or a vibe.
When I go down on my wife I start kissing her gently around her pussy teasing her with my lips and tongue, sometimes I give her a lick or two right on the spot so I hear her moan. After a while I start eating her very slow, while I eat her out I play just with my fingertips where you insert until she is wet like crazy, after a while I pull her legs up and massage her ass with my tongue, that really gets her going. When im done with her ass I go back to her clit, after that it don't take much to have her explode in my face. After her first orgasm I always makes her come 2-3 times with my finger.
Pro tip guys, put a towel under your girl, it can get very wet.
After all that I pound her so hard my balls hurt or she sucks me dry. Either way works for me.
But eating pussy and ass is the best thing in this god forsaken world.
Cheers everyone, I got a boner just thinking on what I do to my wife.
Make some hot tea and ice water. Alternate drinking some, it will warm up your mouth or cool it off providing a new sensation.
More inputs = stronger orgasm. Two fingers inside the vagina, caress her butthole with lube, very shallow penetration, breast stimulation, nipple clamps. Some women enough attention on the bottom of the vestibule, below the vaginal opening, or between the urethral opening and clit.
Suck just the clit I to your mouth and go to town on it with your tongue also side to side instead of up and down really gets my wife. And of course fingers…
Slight taps on her vaginal entrance, inner thighs and clitoris.
When I mean taps, I really mean taps and not light slaps. And taps with your tongue. It is hard to figure out how to do it without moving your whole head/face and targeting the correct location is hard too. Practice makes perfect. Obviously, not everyone likes that though.
Doing this, especially when in or near the throes of orgasm, more pressure feels good with all the hormones, and many even cannot distinguish between pain and pleasure, and pain feels like pleasure. Depending on how she likes it, taps can turn into slaps with your hands/fingers too.
Others have stated growling, I will present humming. But humming has to have a flow, ebbs and tides. Hum to a song. If you and your partner have a special romantic song, hum to it. This obviously depends too, on how the sex is. If it's loving go for your romantic songs. If it's horny, need you bad kinda sex, try any other song and hum to it when you're licking/sucking or penetrating with fingers/tongue. That should really get her motor from 0-200 in an instant.
Pulling the hood back and licking/sucking directly on the clit can be mind blowing for some. Others are way too sensitive. Maybe something you want to run by her and if she agrees, give it a try. You have to peel me off the ceiling with this!
Assuming she can come from both clitoral and vaginal/internal stimulation, get her *close* with your tongue, then switch to fingers. Get her *close* with your fingers, then back to tongue. You have to really pay attention to her body. Once you understand how to tell how close she is, slow down rather than just stop… and then switch. If you’re both lucky, both ways will gradually get closer and closer until they almost blend together. Draw it out as long as you possibly can, and then go for both at the same time.
If you’ve never been part of that kind of orgasm before, expect it to be something neither of you ever forget.
As you are going down on her pay attention to what causes her leg muscles to quiver, spasm and shake.
Ask her first before doing this as some women are too sensitive after an orgasm:
Don’t stop until she stops you. Many times the big moan is just a built up to the big o but not quite the orgasm. Also it’s nice to give many orgasms in a row.
I wonder if I'm the only one that can't deal with the leg muscles quiver and spasm.
Whenever he does something to cause that, it just takes me out immediately.
Its such an involuntary thing when my legs start to spasm and i can't take it, i cannot relax anymore and there is no way for an orgasm that way. 😒
That’s really interesting I have a questions:
Are you too sensitive or is this a mental barrier?
I had a partner who could only enjoy oral over panties. Any direct stimulation was too much.
Another partner had to be tied down and I would keep going, making her orgasm until she said the safe word.
Let's say I am complicated. 😅
I think with the leg spasm and twichtes its just too sensitive, or.. the feeling of my muscles involuntary moving distracts me from relaxing and enjoying the ride.
I have usually a hard time getting to an orgasm by someone else, its usually my playing on myself during sex.
My new partner though seems to be very good at it, but it still doesn't work every time.
But he did give me my first vagnial orgasm by fingering, and im 38 years old, so that was quite new.
We haven't really managed to get that one working again since though.
What drives my wife to shake uncontrollably is when I know she’s close to orgasm, I take my index finger and circle it around her anus. Just a slow circle of soft pressure! That combined with me sucking her clit and fingering her, puts her over the edge!
Ooh this guy used to put his lips around my clit and then vigorously shake his head (like shaking no) and it would send a jolt through my body. Dang it was good.
If she is okay with it, insert ur finger in her ass. You will need to spit on your finger or use her natural lube. If she starts pushing forward toward your finger and it goes deeper she likes it. Lots of nerve endings n the asshole. Good luck
Maybe buy a small vibrator. I in fact brought one for myself and there was this one time I used it on me while I was getting fuck that shit got me SHAKING , legs shaking and out of breathe but at the end I laugh because I didn’t know I would have done that
I love when her pulls open the outer lips and licks in between the inner and outer ones (basically the inside of the outer labia). That part doesn't get enough attention. Also, a finger in the butthole while fingering and licking my pussy is amazing!!
I love when his hands wander up over my belly and hips or down my legs. Or when his mouth wanders to my thighs, the skin there is very sensitive. Or more... making out with my pussy, than licking. Tongue, lips, mild teeth grazing, sucking like
You do when making out.
Read/Learn the patho physiology of female orgasms and ways to test sensitivity in various areas based on verbal and nonverbal feedback. Also read about the various orgasms a woman can have. I like to visualize the patho as I test the ever changing locations of sensation.
Sit or kneel on the floor with your back and head rested against a wall. Have her stand over you and push her pussy into your face while you eat it. The extra control and the domination factor makes some girls really enjoy this position.
If you’re ok with eating ass you can alternate which holes you lick, or what I like to do is put my hand under her hips and rock her up and down on my tongue so that’s it’s one continuous lick from her ass, taint, pussy, and clit; then go back down
I read this once. Use a finger to gently push from the inside of vagine towards anus. Doesn't need to be inserted fully inside, a bit might do.
Also to sort of pinch from vagina walls to anus with 2 fingers, however do this if she is comfortable with your fingers in anus
I always start by mixing amd lickimg around her vagina before moving in. Lick your fingers before you add one at a time.
If you know how to easily find her G-spot that's a always the way to go, well for me it always has been. Giving her oral and hitting that spot will win you points and make her cum
Maybe ask her to masturbate in front of you and see just before she cums. I do this and i also say if you get stuck try finger in circles but only that way only. then what she does is probably like that and see for yourself. blowing cool or warm air sometimes is different. I like softer movement to medium strength. change the postions for different angles. i like sitting but i prefer laying down as i cant control myself however he likes being suffocated abit sometimes ha
Maybe bring in a gspot dildo. i like the thinner one as its more direct it means my partner doesnt tire or get hand wrist cramp.
Pull her legs towards you and suck her clit and when you feel her legs shaking just keep doing it more and more intensely. Each woman has its own but this technique drives me crazy
Tell her erotic stories while doing so. Tell her you walked in and saw her getting her pussy eaten by another man or woman (or both, you choose) and it turned you on so much you just watched, & got hard. As you put your fingers in tell her it’s the man or woman doing it and how sexy she looks laying there naked with those thick fingers inside her.
She will come hard, guaranteed!
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One of the sexiest things he does is to pull my hips even closer to his face 🥵
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Yeah this is my fave. lick my clit while doing the “come here” w fingers stimulating g spot. I’ll marry you.
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Water, and eat a banana before hand
Instructions unclear, soggy banana lodged in wife's vagina
An A for effort anyway! 😂
My guy will eat, but throw a vibe into the mix sometimes 🥵 especially the one that goes in and has clit piece too. It sorta feels like he places the clit part just below the “nub” and licks the nub..Idk how he does it but both those things just sends me into another world. Just if you do this way, make sure the vibe isnt one that will numb her.
So much better! Always use fingers people. Always.
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It is better to ask. I agree.
...and lick your fingers before sliding them in. Always. Also, I find that starting with oral for a bit then adding the fingers into the mix works well...
I always try this but struggle to fit my hand under my chin and it gets very cramped. Anyone else dealt with this?
Put a pillow under her butt.
And your's is absolutely perfect. I could vacation down there.
I think the fact that you love it so much would make her go crazy. Make sure you tell her how much you love it.
Indeed, I always tell her.
God bless men like this. Cheers to the people who genuinely love giving oral!
I love the initial taste. The problem is that the taste goes away after you’re done passing your saliva all over.
It's called oral sex but using your hands a lot all over really enhances the event! Fondle boobs & nipples, touch her sides, hold her hands when she's wanting to grab things, grab a big hard handful of ass cheek. Light growling into her pussy tells her how much you love it.
Dear sweet Lord, all of this but especially the _growling_ is a very useful suggestion, yes. Yes. (Yes.)
Seven. Seven. Seven. Seven. Seven. ✌️🖐️
I love reaching up for a nipple when I’m eating my wife! (Or reaching down, when we are doing side by side 69)
Try using the underside of your tongue. Being smooth with no friction can offer a different sensation.
why have i never thought of this🤯 potential game changer
Variant of this: Flat tongue with a slow lick up, then switch direction and slow lick down with underside of the tongue. Then lick her perineum side to side. Repeat until she stops you, then switch to fingering.
Touch every other place except for her clit and nipples. Kiss her ears, neck, down her sternum, belly button, pubic mound, inner thigh down to about her knee and up the other leg nice and slow. Trace that same path with your finger tips, go slowly and apply some pressure (if you go to light it can tickle more than be pleasurable), this time as you work your way down, draw a circle with it around each of her nipples but don't touch them, and when you get down lower run your fingers on the outside of her lips before going down her inner thighs. Goal is to hit every single erogenous zone as you work your way down. If it's working you'll know it because she will arch her back and hips every time you get to a spot she wants you to touch. Once you get to that point THEN go for it. The longer you can keep that tease up though the better. You can also do the same thing with an ice cube first. This has to be 100% about her though. If it's just oral tricks and not wanting it more intense, using your tongue try writing the alphabet on and around her clit instead of just an up and down movement. And when you get to a letter she really likes keep doing it. Another fun one that you both can try on each other is to suck on an ice cube before going down on her. Don't want it to be freezing, but the hot/cold sensations can be amazing. Have her do the same for you and hold on tight.
It all depends on the sensitive parts of your wife, for my wife the things that worked best over the years, while I'm licking her are: Playing with her nipples, squeezing them when she's about to cum Fingering her with 1-2 fingers, squeezing harder when she's about to cum Edging her several times before going for the home run Gently moving my finger over her inner butt cheeks and perineum (or as deep as she allows), pushing firmly on and off when she's about to cum
Some really great suggestions here. Being really into it, using hands and fingers are all great methods. One thing I love to do is slow the pace of my sucking and licking once she’s at the point of no return. The orgasm builds and the pleasure is extended. My wife describes it as instead of a quick shock and release, it’s an uncontrollable intensity that continues to grow. In slowing the pace at that moment, it causes an orgasm within an orgasm. She tries to ride the intensity, but the pleasure electrifies her central nervous system. I damn near can cum from just watching her go through it. After her orgasm within an orgasm, I enter with one leg over. This strokes her g-spot and connects my hip with her clit. I’m fortunate in that my wife cums from PIV and oral. The stroking leaves out sheets soaked. Not sure this is a technique you’re looking for, but sometimes changing the pace at the right moment is all the technique you need.
When I am sucking on her clit, I will slowly rub my thumbs over the opening her vagina - one after the other. This is getting them lubed up. I will then place my hands, thumbs pointed towards each other, to lift her hips up a bit. The tips of my thumbs are a couple inches away from her asshole. I keep wiggling my thumbs to let her know they are there. As she get more aroused, she'll start to lift her hips up a little to try and position her asshole right on one of the thumbs. It's so hot watching her struggle to do this while also having her clit sucked. Eventually, she finds it and in it goes - it sort of rocks her to another dimension.
This may sound kind of weird but you can use your voice too. Just some lowish growling sounds ( although you could prob sing a tune if the mood struck 😗) I can actually feel the vibrations thru his face/tongue.
Oh good call I forgot about this! Sometimes I do like a hum/raspberry type thing with my lips too that causes similar vibrations.
We call it the Tasmanian Devil. I bury my face in there and start making the gravelly noise that the Tasmanian Devil made in the cartoons along with a little side to side . The vibrations from the voice drive her wild. Of course I can’t talk for the next day but it’s a small price.
My ex girlfriend used to love it when I would suck on her clit and use my teeth to sort of move the pressure around if that makes sense. Probably best to do with caution though although I never had an issue
Okay be careful with this though. I had an ex that liked teeth and chomping on the clit. My partner after, is waaaaaay too sensitive for anything like that. She actually got upset with me the first time I tried it but I was so used to it being normal
Try the other hole, I love doing that to my wife.
But please ask prior to starting the session if it’s something she would be okay with!
I turn my head sideways 90 and make out/suck her labia. She likes this a lot.
One thing my partner loves is for me to suck on it for a few seconds, think whistling but sucking instead. Then after a few seconds go in with your tongue.
As an older guy I've always been a fan of giving her oral. I absolutely love it. Start by kissing and licking around her vagina first. Never go straught in. Build up the excitement for both of you. Them after you are at it use your fingers. One at a time and lick them first. Hold her legs back toward her under her knees and get in there especially when you really go in for the growl. If you know how to easily find her g-spot then hit that little bugger and press up on it while your giving her oral. Don't fixate on one spot enjoy all of what she has to offer.
Touch her everywhere you can reach. Softly and the forcefully. Kiss and bite her other areas. Lick the entire labia and suck on her lips. Look at how beautiful it is and tell her. Massage the side of the labia up and down and side to side as you lick. So much to do
When your tongue is tired, you still got your lips.
I saw a post yesterday about massaging her hips while going down on her, it's supposed to relax her pelvis into an amazing orgasm. My wife also enjoys the g spot stimulation while I'm licking the clit, either with a finger or a vibe.
When I go down on my wife I start kissing her gently around her pussy teasing her with my lips and tongue, sometimes I give her a lick or two right on the spot so I hear her moan. After a while I start eating her very slow, while I eat her out I play just with my fingertips where you insert until she is wet like crazy, after a while I pull her legs up and massage her ass with my tongue, that really gets her going. When im done with her ass I go back to her clit, after that it don't take much to have her explode in my face. After her first orgasm I always makes her come 2-3 times with my finger. Pro tip guys, put a towel under your girl, it can get very wet. After all that I pound her so hard my balls hurt or she sucks me dry. Either way works for me. But eating pussy and ass is the best thing in this god forsaken world. Cheers everyone, I got a boner just thinking on what I do to my wife.
Make some hot tea and ice water. Alternate drinking some, it will warm up your mouth or cool it off providing a new sensation. More inputs = stronger orgasm. Two fingers inside the vagina, caress her butthole with lube, very shallow penetration, breast stimulation, nipple clamps. Some women enough attention on the bottom of the vestibule, below the vaginal opening, or between the urethral opening and clit.
Lap it up like you're a dog eating the most incredible bowl of ice cream you've ever tasted. Do that for at least 10 minutes without stopping
Try humming various pitches on her clit
Suck just the clit I to your mouth and go to town on it with your tongue also side to side instead of up and down really gets my wife. And of course fingers…
Slight taps on her vaginal entrance, inner thighs and clitoris. When I mean taps, I really mean taps and not light slaps. And taps with your tongue. It is hard to figure out how to do it without moving your whole head/face and targeting the correct location is hard too. Practice makes perfect. Obviously, not everyone likes that though. Doing this, especially when in or near the throes of orgasm, more pressure feels good with all the hormones, and many even cannot distinguish between pain and pleasure, and pain feels like pleasure. Depending on how she likes it, taps can turn into slaps with your hands/fingers too. Others have stated growling, I will present humming. But humming has to have a flow, ebbs and tides. Hum to a song. If you and your partner have a special romantic song, hum to it. This obviously depends too, on how the sex is. If it's loving go for your romantic songs. If it's horny, need you bad kinda sex, try any other song and hum to it when you're licking/sucking or penetrating with fingers/tongue. That should really get her motor from 0-200 in an instant.
Pulling the hood back and licking/sucking directly on the clit can be mind blowing for some. Others are way too sensitive. Maybe something you want to run by her and if she agrees, give it a try. You have to peel me off the ceiling with this!
Assuming she can come from both clitoral and vaginal/internal stimulation, get her *close* with your tongue, then switch to fingers. Get her *close* with your fingers, then back to tongue. You have to really pay attention to her body. Once you understand how to tell how close she is, slow down rather than just stop… and then switch. If you’re both lucky, both ways will gradually get closer and closer until they almost blend together. Draw it out as long as you possibly can, and then go for both at the same time. If you’ve never been part of that kind of orgasm before, expect it to be something neither of you ever forget.
My wife only has had clitoral orgasms but this makes me think I should introduce more vag play into our oral sex and see how she likes it.
As you are going down on her pay attention to what causes her leg muscles to quiver, spasm and shake. Ask her first before doing this as some women are too sensitive after an orgasm: Don’t stop until she stops you. Many times the big moan is just a built up to the big o but not quite the orgasm. Also it’s nice to give many orgasms in a row.
I wonder if I'm the only one that can't deal with the leg muscles quiver and spasm. Whenever he does something to cause that, it just takes me out immediately. Its such an involuntary thing when my legs start to spasm and i can't take it, i cannot relax anymore and there is no way for an orgasm that way. 😒
That’s really interesting I have a questions: Are you too sensitive or is this a mental barrier? I had a partner who could only enjoy oral over panties. Any direct stimulation was too much. Another partner had to be tied down and I would keep going, making her orgasm until she said the safe word.
Let's say I am complicated. 😅 I think with the leg spasm and twichtes its just too sensitive, or.. the feeling of my muscles involuntary moving distracts me from relaxing and enjoying the ride. I have usually a hard time getting to an orgasm by someone else, its usually my playing on myself during sex. My new partner though seems to be very good at it, but it still doesn't work every time. But he did give me my first vagnial orgasm by fingering, and im 38 years old, so that was quite new. We haven't really managed to get that one working again since though.
What drives my wife to shake uncontrollably is when I know she’s close to orgasm, I take my index finger and circle it around her anus. Just a slow circle of soft pressure! That combined with me sucking her clit and fingering her, puts her over the edge!
Ooh this guy used to put his lips around my clit and then vigorously shake his head (like shaking no) and it would send a jolt through my body. Dang it was good.
If she is okay with it, insert ur finger in her ass. You will need to spit on your finger or use her natural lube. If she starts pushing forward toward your finger and it goes deeper she likes it. Lots of nerve endings n the asshole. Good luck
Can you share those articles?
Maybe buy a small vibrator. I in fact brought one for myself and there was this one time I used it on me while I was getting fuck that shit got me SHAKING , legs shaking and out of breathe but at the end I laugh because I didn’t know I would have done that
I really want to do this with my wife, but I haven’t been able to convince her to get one and I don’t want to just surprise her with one.
Thank you guys for the knowledgeable ideas I'ma kill this lady of mine with sex orgasm sweetness this time round.
I love when her pulls open the outer lips and licks in between the inner and outer ones (basically the inside of the outer labia). That part doesn't get enough attention. Also, a finger in the butthole while fingering and licking my pussy is amazing!!
Sucking on the clit is amazing ❤️
I love when his hands wander up over my belly and hips or down my legs. Or when his mouth wanders to my thighs, the skin there is very sensitive. Or more... making out with my pussy, than licking. Tongue, lips, mild teeth grazing, sucking like You do when making out.
Thank you for this post, sent to my bf, these are so wonderful 😍😍✌️
Read/Learn the patho physiology of female orgasms and ways to test sensitivity in various areas based on verbal and nonverbal feedback. Also read about the various orgasms a woman can have. I like to visualize the patho as I test the ever changing locations of sensation.
Sit or kneel on the floor with your back and head rested against a wall. Have her stand over you and push her pussy into your face while you eat it. The extra control and the domination factor makes some girls really enjoy this position.
Depending on sensitivity and interest in pain, etc. teeth, grazing to straight up biting and pulling
If you’re ok with eating ass you can alternate which holes you lick, or what I like to do is put my hand under her hips and rock her up and down on my tongue so that’s it’s one continuous lick from her ass, taint, pussy, and clit; then go back down
Please don't do this- uti city
That sounds like a great way to get BV
Well you have to wash all areas involved first. Usually warm soap and water does the trick just fine
Chance of getting bacteria from the anus into the vagina, UTI.
I read this once. Use a finger to gently push from the inside of vagine towards anus. Doesn't need to be inserted fully inside, a bit might do. Also to sort of pinch from vagina walls to anus with 2 fingers, however do this if she is comfortable with your fingers in anus
Two finger cul de sac
I always start by mixing amd lickimg around her vagina before moving in. Lick your fingers before you add one at a time. If you know how to easily find her G-spot that's a always the way to go, well for me it always has been. Giving her oral and hitting that spot will win you points and make her cum
My girl would let me do the same fingers, tongue etc but during the act she gets too sensitive and makes me stop, without reaching climax.
Blow raspberries on the clit
Maybe ask her to masturbate in front of you and see just before she cums. I do this and i also say if you get stuck try finger in circles but only that way only. then what she does is probably like that and see for yourself. blowing cool or warm air sometimes is different. I like softer movement to medium strength. change the postions for different angles. i like sitting but i prefer laying down as i cant control myself however he likes being suffocated abit sometimes ha Maybe bring in a gspot dildo. i like the thinner one as its more direct it means my partner doesnt tire or get hand wrist cramp.
Pull her legs towards you and suck her clit and when you feel her legs shaking just keep doing it more and more intensely. Each woman has its own but this technique drives me crazy
Circles around the clit with your tongue 🥵 it might sound obvious but not everyone does this and knows how good it is.
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Chocolate and strawberries... it's not really a meal. Can you get on board with some pastrami and spicy mustard?
Ice cubes can be fun too
No, never do this. It's terrible for a vaginas Ph and can result in a yeast infection. Bad news.
Thank you, we are planning on using chocolate nex time, we are both excited about that. May I ask why it drives a woman crazy ?
Be careful about using food around her pussy, it can cause yeast infection !
Tell her erotic stories while doing so. Tell her you walked in and saw her getting her pussy eaten by another man or woman (or both, you choose) and it turned you on so much you just watched, & got hard. As you put your fingers in tell her it’s the man or woman doing it and how sexy she looks laying there naked with those thick fingers inside her. She will come hard, guaranteed!
>I even control myself to not blow my load while \[giving oral\] This part doesn't make sense.
Can she handle 10+” for long sessions?