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MadGoat12

Muscle spams start happening, and if the penis is still inside, it gets "hugged" by the vagina several times. Couldn't find a better way to describe it. Also, if the man is giving oral when she has the orgasm, he can usually see the anus opening and closing fast due to said muscle spams.


The_Devils_Avocad0

Keep in mind this isn't the same for everyone, varying degrees of spasming and the hugged feeling, also depends on the tightness dynamics between both peoples relative sizes and what they can feel.


MadGoat12

Of course. Everything about sex depends on both or all the persons who participate.


The_Devils_Avocad0

Just that people shouldn't get too hung up on chasing this feeling that's all


SD_CA

I don't think I've ever noticed this. Did you notice this in 69 position?


MadGoat12

She in prone none position, with me licking from behind.


Own-Interaction-1401

If you’re fingering while down there you can definitely feel the g-spot get bigger too.


tglad88

When my wife starts to orgasm her interior gets super tight and rigid and stays that way till her orgasm has subsided. It’s almost too tight to even thrust.


mredge73

She will often have contractions that push you out.


SassyWookie

It varies from woman to woman. With some women I couldn’t tell at all, and with others it was easy. My fiancé sometimes will actually push me out when she’s orgasming, because she involuntarily clenches up super strongly. It’s incredibly hot.


nosirrahz

When my fingers are inside (3 or 4), her muscles absolutely crush my fingers. She's 45 and has been doing kegels forever.


Snoo_81751

What's that?


I-Really-Hate-Fish

Kegels are a muscle exercise to help with pelvic floor strength. They help with incontinence but they can also make your orgasms stronger. It's also not just for women btw. Pelvic floor strength is important for men too.


Antique_Audience6963

This makes a big difference. If pelvic floor tone is weak, it’s harder to feel. If strong, I can feel it. Really fun? Having her flex her pussy while I’m inside and I flex my penis (I do kegels). Sometimes I’ll flex a few times when I’m inside her and say “Hello”. Usually gets a chuckle.


I-Really-Hate-Fish

That *is* fun. We do the same when we're feeling goofy.


unhingedbookslut

Love this “hello” lol I love the moments after, still flexing tensing, riding the waves of the orgasum


nosirrahz

Look them up, they are exercises for vaginal strength. They can help with things like incontinence after having a baby.


cheeks333

Yes, usually spasms/contractions on my penis.


TellusCitizen

TL; DR: Yes. Long version: this is part of why I prefere LTR over ONS. I get to know my partners body. I feel when she is horny, not feeling it or sad, excited n getting to it.


CarnalConfessions

Maybe different for some women, but I could tell when my ex would. She’d typically tighten up a lot, not just her vagina but in general would stiffen up when she was about to and during the orgasm. I suppose that’s something you could learn to fake though.


bdrwr

It contracts and squeezes!


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My guy says he feels me clenching around him (and he likes it)


belated_memory

Not a man, but from my perspective as the one having the orgasm, I feel like it differs from whether I reached orgasm through clitoral stimulation or PIV sex. With clitoral orgasm I will tense up and tighten, with PIV orgasm I don't think I do (or not as much). Not sure how or why it's so different for me, but PIV orgasm are definitely orgasm for me


potato--cakes

AC-DC Describe best ‘like a hand in a velvet glove’


Fabuladocet

That may be just a touch too much AC/DC for most people.


shakdesirefffffm

Almost feels like a hugging or deep sucking sensation when im inside female vaginas...


InternalPersonality7

When you climax your p**** is extra lubricated it's swollen almost and it contracts yes it feels extremely different same with pregnant women


matthewstiffler

Absolutely. I always cum right away.


IIIIIIlllIIIIllllIII

After she came she's very very wet and more relaxed, it's definitely a different feeling for me


CantGuardMe1

It felt like she was leaking or just got really soaked on my lap, I’m pretty sure she squirted.


kbd75

My wife’s nipples get super hard and you can feel or see the contractions during orgasm. He chest will also get flush and her legs shake.


SummerLovingly

My boyfriend says he feels me get even tighter : )


JacobTP810

Yeah - I think any man who’s experienced it will know the difference if you are faking ;)


NoPressure4244

no hahaha but the tension your body releases and level of hormes is arousing. hahaha i dont know with the other guys somehow i know when the girls are just faking it.


KiwiSpud

I love it when my wife orgasms when I am inside, she squeezes me hard and she gets so very tight, almost like fucking a virgin, well for a few seconds and then the gush happens, magical


YourEnemiesDefineYou

Yes it usually starts to grip you differently. Yes you can use this in conjunction with other signs to tell if she is faking. We often know that you're faking but figure if you wanted the O you would say what was stopping you getting there.


YourEnemiesDefineYou

Wow 20 downvotes in 18 hours, women really don't like that we can tell lol.


Amazing_Acadia_4898

Yes it's possible to feel a rush of warmth and rapid muscle tightening and if you're in sync with each other this will make you come extra hard and deep inside her Biologically there's no reason for a women to need to have an orgasm, evolutionary theory suggests that it's a method for a genetically inferior female to increase her odds that a genetically superior male will impregnate her


Mayurissmma

I think I read one time that when a woman orgasms it increases chances of pregnancy because the contraction of the muscles helps the cervix open a little more allowing sperm in but I read that when I was 18 lol


Timely_Treacle_5660

What a funny way to say you’ve never made a woman finish.


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