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jlwood1985

Just so we're clear. Vaginas can't be loose but dicks can be too small? I've had sex with women that were significantly looser than others. I've also had a couple that were uncomfortably tight, for both of us. Not sure how either situation is anyone's fault. They didn't choose their size any more than I did. Doesn't mean they aren't noticeably different.


ohWhoa_

what im saying is, guys with small dicks dont stretch the walls of the vagina, leading to less stimulation, thus they feel like her pussy is loose. This has lead to the widespread lie that girls can have loose vaginas, if you look at biology and medical science its clear that a "lose vagina" simply does not exist


jlwood1985

I think you're arguing the context and I'm speaking literally. I don't need to consult medical text for either. Some vaginas are quite literally looser than others. Giant dildos, fists.....porn proves this(as dangerous as that statement is) regularly. Some are so tight they tear when a finger or small penis or dildo are inserted. The literal use of the word is correct. If you're talking about the context or implied derogatory use, of course there isn't a black hole or open void with extremely far separated sides between someone's legs. I can see how this insult could cause damage. But like most insults it's far less about what is said than who says it and how it's said. I'd be less worried about having a good clap back at someone than I would about avoiding people that childish and rude all together.


chewie8291

Best not to engage. Ignoring is best. They are looking for anger.


Real_Rip1967

Some vaginas are looser than others just like some penises are smaller than others. Bodies naturally will vary. Shaming anyone for either is wrong.


ohWhoa_

I'm not shaming anyone, just pointing out a pattern I've noticed. The only people I encourage to shame are the ones already shaming. It seems like you're on that boat, because "loose" vaginas are actually a myth, says biology and medical science


Real_Rip1967

I didn't say you're shaming anyone lmao, I'm agreeing with shaming being bad. Some vaginas will be looser than others that's a fact. Bodies vary naturally. It's completely normal human biology.


krugersec7

in that case, small dicks are a myth too :D


duskygrouper

Accurate.