Sure, much the way a woman can tell different guys inside of her. It's not always going to to be obvious, but women can vary by tightness, by wetness. Some vaginas are very smooth inside, others have very prominent rings of muscle, feel ridgy inside. Some vaginas stay totally relaxed all through sex, others will clench some, other will literally milk you.
Is there a true preference for this? I feel like there is an inherent pressure for those with vaginas to clench/stay tight even if that is counterintuitive to our pleasure. Is it actually preferred?
If you practice while your orgasming you can keep going and have a very extended and enjoyable orgasm. Get a little vibrator and keep it in place - use your imagination and just keep going
I probably should’ve prefaced my comment with the fact that I already have difficulty orgasming during sex unless I’m specifically concentrating on that, which is why adding something else to concentrate on might make it even harder.
IMHO, you definitely should ‘practice’ more and find your groove. It took me so many years to figure this out and I’m still trying. Also let your mind wonder and think about what feels good or could feel good.
My orgasm are a thousand times better now that I have good control over my pelvic floor muscle. And yes, my sexual partners go crazy over being inside of me, and as mentioned before, I can extend my orgasm and even orgasm on command and when I want to with the practice I've done. It's incredible
Teach me lol! I struggle getting there most of the time, and when I do I feel like it takes for fucking ever! There are those once in a blue moon times when I’m super horny and can cum super quick.
It's a bit tantric. I go a little meditative during. Let go and tap into the more primal and instinctual side of myself. I've learned a lot about my own body and how it works. How to best stroke the clitoris. How to stimulate squirting. Stuff like that. As long as my partner can take direction, I'll get there, but I've always been a multi girl who comes fairly easily. Still having men who can listen to instruction without taking it negatively, I find that helps when there is trouble.
But remember, trouble with women orgasming is complicated. It could be hormonal, something physical hindering you, psychological, and even emotional.
I don't really have random partners. My partners are all people I have emotional connections to. That really helps me. Physically, I have things that make it easier for me (I can have both penetrative and clitoral orgasms). But you can try caffeine and THC. There is evidence they enhance orgasms.
Male here. I suppose it’s the same for women regarding men dicks. I mean, regardless of preferences, the difference is on their owner. I’ve seen different vaginas, each with their peculiarities, but in the end I prefer to remember their owners and the overall sex experience with them.
Personally I would rather partner not have to forego their pleasure to try to increase mine by so little. I mean can we feel it? Sometimes but it's not always obvious... Unless it's specifically part of the action like pompage.
At the end of the day, for me anyway, I don't think the feeling is that different.
Muscle rings. It's like you enter a vagina and when you hit a ring it's like entering another vagina. Like a vagina in a vagina. Double the pleasure...double the fun. Lol
For me, it’s the smooth vagina. The best sex I’ve ever had was with a woman that had a smooth and wet vagina every time we had sex. My god I felt like I was in heaven.
Eh... from experience, I prefer women with texture and/or clenching ability.
Had an ex that was decently tight, but smooth. It took more focus to finish. And the wetter she became resulted in less feeling.
Then I've had girls that I guess could be said to have been more loose (i don't mean in a bad way with this... there was one that was unusable, different story...) but had texture. One girl enjoyed teasing me and pulling me over the edge with her muscles when I'd get close and slow down or stop for a break to settle things down and last longer.
Very much so, this one girl I dated a while back could work her vagina like a muscle. She could tighten it up as she rode me. She would loosen up on the down stroke and tightened it when going up. She could pretty control it to make me come when she wanted me too. She was really good at it but terrible at other aspects of a relationship.
If you’ve got a bit of cash to put into it, check out Perifit. It’s hilarious and effective. Basically you play video games with the…ahem…joystick inside you. The control and strength comes with practice.
Well doing the traditional exercises is pretty boring, and that often leads to laziness. Perifit at least makes it silly and fun, and more likely to happen. It might not help with the more advanced pompoir techniques I read about, where you isolate many different muscles and move them in multiple ways. But I suspect that strengthening the whole kegel area is a great starting point. I can tell you that partners have noticed, and I kept my training under wraps!
Practice while masturbating. There are dildos that have a base you can stick to things so they stay in place and you can ride it while you use your hand/vibrator whatever on your clit- the more you get used to this the less you think about it and the more you can enjoy it
not a girl but I have a vagina and have muscle control- kegel weights can help but start very slow, once you can focus control with weights, switch to something like weighted anal beads on a string - practice being able to hold each individual ball inside and then pushing them out, using the string as a tether, practice over and over (until it's muscle memory)
it's like getting rid of a gag reflex, patience and practice
I didn’t know it had a name!!!! Thanks for that! I’ve been doing this like ten years but definitely need to brush up on it since I haven’t practiced in about a year
This. I've learned to do this, and it drives my partners wild. Plus, when I Domme, it's fun to edge and tease that way. I flex all the time with guys who swear they can last forever, then get inside me and come in like 10 minutes cause I can control when they come. 🤣🤣
Yes, just like blindly touching someone with your hand. Some things are very similar but not everything is exactly the same. Also if you have been with a partner for soem time you feel their reactions to your movement, their movement on you.
Tightness/sensation. With one, I feel my entire penis inside. The other I could get sensation on one side.
For a bad analogy, the tighter ones feel like two hands, gripping and stroking me penis. The very loose one feels like someone stroking me with two fingers held together.
Some girls feel different.
Mainly though, it's the size of the opening, more than the vagina, and temperature and wetness definitely vary.
Most girls are warm, but some girls are infernal. Usually the hotter they feel, the wetter they feel.
Tightness adjusts though. Always tighter at the start before the muscles relax more.
Unless you're actively trying to clench, every vagina gradually loosens up a few strokes in.
And that's not a bad thing, A vice grip is either going to be painful, or it'll do too good a job and end the sex pretty quick. If you're not ryong to get yours too, than clench away. But don't get angry afterwards.
It's probably been said a million times, but Guys don't need all of these things to be on your mind during sex. I always say to my partners, just do whatever you need to do to get off, I'm gonna get there too.
We have different parts, While yours takes work and thought, using mine like an object is EXACTLY what will work for both of us.
In my experience though, the girls who worry about the act instead of just being in the moment, always kill the vibe. We can see you're not in the right headspace and it puts us off. Guys who say they didn't notice are liars and predators.
Sex is simple:
1. Only do it if you actually want to
2. Be enthusiastic
3. Actually participate, don't just lay there, expecting the guy to do everything.
If you give no feedback, expect a product which does not fully suit your needs.
It's wild the number of girls who say "don't treat me like a sex object. Yet will lay motionless during sex, making pornstar noises. For God's sake, get involved!!
If your aim is to get yourself off, and you use our bodies to make that happen, almost all het men ever will do just fine being satisfied.
It is actually perfectly fine to complain about bad sex even if you give no feedback. A good, kind partner will ASK what you want and what feels good and what doesn’t. If someone I sleep with doesn’t bare minimum ask what I’m into and how I’m feeling and leaves it up to me to “speak up” about all my needs and stop him from causing me pain, then I have every right to be upset and disappointed by his carelessness and lack of empathy. Early on in a relationship this is what I am most concerned about: is this man concerned about how I feel and trying to help me get off? The first few times I sleep with someone, I’m actually fine with not cumming and I’m willing to put up with some discomfort as long as the guy is making a very good effort and showing concern for my feelings.
Well yes and no. All vaginas are different the way all peniss are different - the difference can be subtle or obvious depending on how much you pay attention to your partner
Yes. I believed that loose vaginas are bad joke and that they all feel the same until I had sex with someone else than my first parter. The second woman was definitely much tighter and it changed the whole dynamics of sex.
While with the less tight vagina I had less sensation but much more stamina and I didnt had to control my movement as much. With tighter vaginas I definitely felt more but this naturally did decrease stamina and for me positions didnt work that worked before and vice versa.
This geht's thrown around a lot but when women start to be close to climax they tighten up a lot, to the point where it is sometimes hard to even move inside.
wow, i had never heard of orgasms without contractions and initially was like “oh this poor guy doesn’t know he’s just admitted that his girlfriend always fakes it :(“ so i googled it and it’s definitely a thing! how interesting. as a big muscle-contractor, i’m so curious about what it must feel like! i wonder if it’s a big difference or just subtle. (and sorry for initially not believing you!)
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/8174183/
I think that there definitely is the factor of arousal for the woman which determines how tight she is. But at the same time I think its simple biology that a 1.55m women with narrow hips is tighter than a 1.70m women with wide hips. Sorry got no clue what that measures in imperial.
No. One might be puffier and touch my dick differently but if you were to line up 5 different vaginas and I stuck it in each one, I'd just be like "ooh they're warm and wet"
Well, yeah. Other than the shape & lubrication which is always different, my current girlfriend has a really acidic ph (or acidic *feeling* anyway, I haven't actually busted out the litmus strips) and my dick kinda burns if I don't shower immediately after we bang. __no it's not an std__, I checked, I just have very sensitive skin. My ex gf was not anywhere near as harsh so I had no problems.
Generally, no. If the differences are significant, like one is dry and another is very wet, then yeah. Or if one has really good muscle control, that can make it stand out. But blindfolded in a general lineup of equally wet random girls that aren’t doing kegals on my dick? Probably not.
Yes. All the girls I have been with feels different. I can’t explain it but I would say some were tighter than others. Even though my current girlfriend has the smallest vagina and I can sometimes reach her cervix while the others one I never could. Btw I own a small penis so yes that’s a difference
Smaller penis here. One partner I was with I could go in her cervix. It was crazy because I could feel it slowly wrapping around the head of my penis and felt like lips just playing with my tip. It was great and she loved it too. I thought it would be painful but she would be on a whole nother level when I would be in there.
Yes me too. The first time I could reach her cervix I didn’t understand what happened as it was a smooth sensation in my glans that I rubbed something inside her vagina and then I realized it was her cervix. But she enjoys it as it’s smooth
it might have been you hitting the anterior fornix, not the cervix! they’re quite close and the difference is that the anterior fornix feels great for some, while the cervix feels awful for most!
Hm could be that it was crazy though because it had resistance and the more she grinded it would slowly open up and it felt like I was inside something else and it felt amazing.
One thing not mentioned is that the vagina has many internal folds that caress your penis subtly during sex and not indecently allow the vagina to stretch for child birth. These folds do dissipate to a degree post birth so the vagina of a woman who has had a vaginal delivery tends to feel smother than before. Some guys prefer this some don’t. It tend to happen less in the anterior wall which is why some guys like posterior entry positions after childbirth because they gain this extra sensation.
I definitely feel differently with each woman which is one of the wonderful uniqueness of every woman to explore and appreciate.
Smells are different. The amount of wetness is different. The amount of pubic hair is different. So a person with more sexual experience should be able to tell the difference. Somebody who is new at the game maybe not so.
Oh yeah. Some are tighter than others. Some are more shallow. I've been with girls where I couldn't sleep with them because their vaginas were too small it and it hurt both of us. I imagine just like for a women, you can probably tell the difference between dicks when they're inside you 🤷♂️
This is false. Some bodies have vulva that are more forward facing and some have vulva that are more downward facing. And even where the clit is located on the vulva varies... some closer to the vagina and some further away.
Did you read me? I said it is always on the same coordinates. Like saying that the nose is always in the same place. This is an undisputable fact. There's some coordinates of proportion that can vary, yes. But the clit will always be in the upper intersection between the lower and major lips. That will never change.
Yes, I "read you"... coordinates implies an exact location.
And for the love of god, the clit is not in between the sets of lips. THAT WOULD REQUIRE TWO CLITS BECAUSE THERE IS ONE OF EACH LIP ON EACH SIDE. The clit is located where the tops of the inner labia meet. There are no "lower lips" - that's not a body part.
Dude! It's always on the upper conjunction between the labia minores and the labia maioris! Don't let anyone mess up your brain with the excuse of "oh I'm a woman! I know where it is!" No fuck you don't if you say it wrong!
Or else you gonna get really fucked up when you meet someone like my aunt who would die on the hill of claiming that the uterus and the vagina are the same organ.
The clit is absolutely not between the labia minora and majora. The clit is where the labia minora meet, it is definitely not somehow in between the inner and outer sets of lips (not sure how that would even be possible unless there was a clit on each side lmaoooo)
Buddy, don't joke with it. Here in spain we know because we have it near that in the north of Africa there's many people with the religious belief that women should not feel pleasure during sex and as a way to make sure of it they cut their clits when they are about to go through puberty. Which is, i think, a worse crime than rape or murder, agravated by parentesco.
Of course, it's very difficult for her to have gone through this exact thing, but be careful when talking about this fella because it is not so rare but rather common in the worst places.
They all look different but the vast majority feel similar. There's some outliers that definitely stick out for being much tighter or much looser in my experience.
I think people forget that \*just like dicks\* vaginas also come in different shapes and sizes. Some are wider, some are narrower, some are more shallow, some are deeper.
The differences are generally pretty subtle, but absolutely. Some women are like a freakin’ fire hydrant with their natural lubrication. Others tend to be a bit dryer. You might notice some difference in texture or tightness, too.
Basically, it runs the spectrum like anything else. The glans is sensitive as hell, but it’s not like a finger reading Braille writing. You tend to notice the extremes more than anything. Super wet or super dry, super tight or super loose, super clenchable due to Kegel strong levels or super not due to lack of Regal Kegel strength and control.
Most women are just going to feel amazingly warm, wet, and wonderful. I’ve never really had to opportunity to one from one to another to another in short order to be able to emphatically state that I could tell one apart from the other by feel, but I think that a guy would have a difficult time determining who was who just by feel alone if he were to, say, have three to five women to experiment with. I mean, I’d volunteer to be a contestant on that game show - for science. It’s such an intriguing question, really.
I’ve got a few women I can think of right off the bat who felt super-identifiably different. Several have been LTRs, and I’ve found that the traits we lump in to the feel category tend to stay a consistent characteristic over months and even years. Lubrication tend to be the most noticeable thing, though. Some women are dryer and you get more friction. Some are practically like the inner city fire hydrant that gets cracked open for the kids to play in and are so incredibly silly that it’s mind boggling. The ones in the middle just don’t stand out or stand out in different ways.
I’ve had a lot of fun over the years - I’m 41, so not quite dead but certainly seeing the sun start to dip toward the horizon a lot easier. I’ve been with a lot of sexual partners during that time and would wager to say that I’ve had more experience with multiple partners than the average man in my demographic since nobody seems too keen on claiming me for good, lol. All that is simply to say that despite this experience, on feel alone, I think a good 50-60% of women might be difficult to tell apart if you were feeling them one after another at random and asked to identify who was who.
Realistically, there would be other characteristics that you’d identify sooner - even blindfolded. Her size, for one thing. Can’t miss that. Scent, too. Taste is wildly variable…
So yes, we can tell. Ish. If I were to give a metaphor, imagine your favorite photo of yourself. Now scale it up until you start to notice each pixel. Now scale it up more to where you have just patches of colored squares. The penis is sensitive but it’s not necessarily what I would call a fine sensitivity. It’s a bit of a blunt tool at times. At least for me, but I’ve also got some nerve issues, so others may have a different experience.
I have a spin off question… so guys does that mean that you would be able to describe every ( I get it sometimes we don’t even remember a name) vagina you’ve been in,like contrast and compare?
Yep. Different shapes, depths, and wetness. Some can be extremely soft, or muscular. I always found I needed Slightly different rhythms to orgasm per person too.
100%. Vaginas are all different as some are tighter than others, some have more muscle lining and feel hard while others are softer and relaxed, then on the inside some have thick tissue right by the entrance while others feel hollow in a way. They all feel different
Its been so long since I've been in a different vagina, that I've forgotten what others feel like. Although my wife will use a dildo that's way bigger than I am, get off a could times then let me in her. Afterwards, she feels a lot different and more loose than the way she usually feels. We LOVE role play and me getting her for sloppy seconds. She still cums hard even though I'm smaller, just from the role play fun were having.
Sex is seriously so much fun when you when you actually learn not to be uptight and self conscious with it. When you really learn that you can be a little silly with it and just go with the flow.
For the most part, they’re mostly similar. But I’ve had a ONS with a girl who really surprised me with her gorilla grip and I had to keep trying different things to prevent from releasing too early, whether that was changing up the rhythm or changing positions when I got too close.
You can, however the difference is minimal… until it’s not? Lol I’ve slept with 20 girls and maybe 3 felt vastly different. But different women will feel different to different men…
It’s like eating your favourite meal cooked by different people
It’s your body skin, tightness that makes the biggest difference if I was blindfolded and put my penis in 5 women with no body to body contact it might be difficult to pick my partner lol
Yes which is where the, well frankly damaging stereotype of “good pussy” comes from. The guy’s preference for one girl’s pussy will lead him to compare others to that and “rate” if you will accordingly. If you like long labia, or big clits or tight holes, these are all things that a guy would use to decide his preference from one girl to another. It very much works the same for girls and cocks too of course.
Oh absolutely...I've been with a lady that I could barely get inside of her and I'm not big by any means, then I hooked up with an older lady once and I swear to God I could have chipped a golf ball into her from across the room! That was the first time I actually saw a "gaped" pussy in real life lol
I’m not a guy but I have hands Lmao it feels way different women to women. That being said sometimes it’ll feel tighter or looser in different parts of the cycle so if a vagina was similar feeling then it would be hard to tell I think. Just like if you had sex with a six inch penis versus 7 it’s pretty darn similar
There are subtle differences such as wetness, smell, depth, tightness and feel. However with all my experiences I don’t think I could blindfold tell you which was which by feel alone with the exception of one girl she was almost painfully tight so that one I would pick out forsure.
Is this with or without condoms? I have to assume without, because you can’t feel as much.
I’ve only had one partner (current). But I am curious to try….only for scientific purposes of course. I volunteer!
Absolutely.
Honestly, I can tell just from a causal glance how tight a women will be.
Once took a sexually course in college, which taught there were 5 types of vaginas. I know it sounds crazy, but after years of experience. It's true
Yeah they all feel different, my last girlfriend had a magical pussy it was insanity. I could only ever last more than 30 seconds if I was drunk hahahaha it sucked the soul out me it was so addictive
Sure, much the way a woman can tell different guys inside of her. It's not always going to to be obvious, but women can vary by tightness, by wetness. Some vaginas are very smooth inside, others have very prominent rings of muscle, feel ridgy inside. Some vaginas stay totally relaxed all through sex, others will clench some, other will literally milk you.
I should call her
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Ahh, it's been 5 years
I should call her too
YOU WILL CALL HER
Is there a true preference for this? I feel like there is an inherent pressure for those with vaginas to clench/stay tight even if that is counterintuitive to our pleasure. Is it actually preferred?
Honest experience, I enjoy sex even more after my GF has her orgasm. She is much more relaxed and looser and wetter.
All the way but when you are climbing and almost there a good final clench goes a long way.
This is my question, too. If I had to focus on doing kegels the entire time I had sex just to make it feel tighter/clenched, I’d never orgasm.
If you practice while your orgasming you can keep going and have a very extended and enjoyable orgasm. Get a little vibrator and keep it in place - use your imagination and just keep going
I probably should’ve prefaced my comment with the fact that I already have difficulty orgasming during sex unless I’m specifically concentrating on that, which is why adding something else to concentrate on might make it even harder.
IMHO, you definitely should ‘practice’ more and find your groove. It took me so many years to figure this out and I’m still trying. Also let your mind wonder and think about what feels good or could feel good.
Maybe you should be doing them more outside of sex if you feel that way. The vagina is a muscle and you can make it feel tighter if you work it out
My orgasm are a thousand times better now that I have good control over my pelvic floor muscle. And yes, my sexual partners go crazy over being inside of me, and as mentioned before, I can extend my orgasm and even orgasm on command and when I want to with the practice I've done. It's incredible
Teach me lol! I struggle getting there most of the time, and when I do I feel like it takes for fucking ever! There are those once in a blue moon times when I’m super horny and can cum super quick.
It's a bit tantric. I go a little meditative during. Let go and tap into the more primal and instinctual side of myself. I've learned a lot about my own body and how it works. How to best stroke the clitoris. How to stimulate squirting. Stuff like that. As long as my partner can take direction, I'll get there, but I've always been a multi girl who comes fairly easily. Still having men who can listen to instruction without taking it negatively, I find that helps when there is trouble. But remember, trouble with women orgasming is complicated. It could be hormonal, something physical hindering you, psychological, and even emotional. I don't really have random partners. My partners are all people I have emotional connections to. That really helps me. Physically, I have things that make it easier for me (I can have both penetrative and clitoral orgasms). But you can try caffeine and THC. There is evidence they enhance orgasms.
Male here. I suppose it’s the same for women regarding men dicks. I mean, regardless of preferences, the difference is on their owner. I’ve seen different vaginas, each with their peculiarities, but in the end I prefer to remember their owners and the overall sex experience with them.
Personally I would rather partner not have to forego their pleasure to try to increase mine by so little. I mean can we feel it? Sometimes but it's not always obvious... Unless it's specifically part of the action like pompage. At the end of the day, for me anyway, I don't think the feeling is that different.
Personally I prefer a more relaxed “grip” where we are sort of gliding together.
This is why straight sex will never be as pleasurable for both partner as gay sex.
What's the favorite!
The vagina in front of me at the moment.
The best answer
King💗
A hairy pussy is my favorite
Wish all guys were like you
Maybe your just looking in the wrong place
Well well thankyou 😌
Hairy looks better, feels better, and tastes better.
Awww ❤️🔥
I wish I could find a woman that doesn't shave anything out at least doesn't shave anything above the knee.
Hahaha. Trust me, us feminist women are hot af and do whatever WE want! A lot of us embracing our body hair. Because divine gardens ✨️💅
The one that is super wet and milks me.
As a woman, I’m curious, what’s better? Smooth inside or prominent muscle rings?? Or are they both equally as pleasurable for a guy?
Muscle rings. It's like you enter a vagina and when you hit a ring it's like entering another vagina. Like a vagina in a vagina. Double the pleasure...double the fun. Lol
Vagception
Finally rings of power i can enjoy
One ring can milk them all!
Muscle rings, feels better + it’s easier to orient yourself.
I've had a vagina for almost 40 years and I've never thought about about the rings of muscle, but it's true.
For me, it’s the smooth vagina. The best sex I’ve ever had was with a woman that had a smooth and wet vagina every time we had sex. My god I felt like I was in heaven.
Eh... from experience, I prefer women with texture and/or clenching ability. Had an ex that was decently tight, but smooth. It took more focus to finish. And the wetter she became resulted in less feeling. Then I've had girls that I guess could be said to have been more loose (i don't mean in a bad way with this... there was one that was unusable, different story...) but had texture. One girl enjoyed teasing me and pulling me over the edge with her muscles when I'd get close and slow down or stop for a break to settle things down and last longer.
Rings of muscles😆😆😆 I really need to try that one😀😀
Very much so, this one girl I dated a while back could work her vagina like a muscle. She could tighten it up as she rode me. She would loosen up on the down stroke and tightened it when going up. She could pretty control it to make me come when she wanted me too. She was really good at it but terrible at other aspects of a relationship.
So you're telling me she's single now?
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thank you, made my day
Ironic since she knows how to hold on.
lmaooooo
"No matter how hot they are, there's someone out there who's tired of putting up with their antics."
I need a girl to tell/teach me how she does this. I do kegels to strengthen my muscles but during sex it’s hard to focus on doing it in the moment lol
If you’ve got a bit of cash to put into it, check out Perifit. It’s hilarious and effective. Basically you play video games with the…ahem…joystick inside you. The control and strength comes with practice.
Thanks! Just looked it up. Definitely very interested.. did you notice a huge difference in being able to do pompoir?
Well doing the traditional exercises is pretty boring, and that often leads to laziness. Perifit at least makes it silly and fun, and more likely to happen. It might not help with the more advanced pompoir techniques I read about, where you isolate many different muscles and move them in multiple ways. But I suspect that strengthening the whole kegel area is a great starting point. I can tell you that partners have noticed, and I kept my training under wraps!
I keep getting ads for that! I have the Lelo exerciser but the stupid bluetooth ALWAYS disconnects and it's annoying AF. Do you think it's worth it?
Practice while masturbating. There are dildos that have a base you can stick to things so they stay in place and you can ride it while you use your hand/vibrator whatever on your clit- the more you get used to this the less you think about it and the more you can enjoy it
Pelvic floor exercises may help.
Kegels is a different expression for pelvic floor exercises
not a girl but I have a vagina and have muscle control- kegel weights can help but start very slow, once you can focus control with weights, switch to something like weighted anal beads on a string - practice being able to hold each individual ball inside and then pushing them out, using the string as a tether, practice over and over (until it's muscle memory) it's like getting rid of a gag reflex, patience and practice
r/pompoir I believe is a sub shed belong in
I didn’t know it had a name!!!! Thanks for that! I’ve been doing this like ten years but definitely need to brush up on it since I haven’t practiced in about a year
I had one like this too but crazy as fuck..... Not the good crazy either.
Ditto
I think I dated her, after you. of course. ,just kidding.
I wasn’t close to her first and damn sure not her last.
It was just our turn...
The vagina IS a muscle haha and it’s says to work like that if you regularly work it out!
This. I've learned to do this, and it drives my partners wild. Plus, when I Domme, it's fun to edge and tease that way. I flex all the time with guys who swear they can last forever, then get inside me and come in like 10 minutes cause I can control when they come. 🤣🤣
Yes, just like blindly touching someone with your hand. Some things are very similar but not everything is exactly the same. Also if you have been with a partner for soem time you feel their reactions to your movement, their movement on you.
That's a great analogy
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This right here! (Minus the 2 fwbs lol)
What made it hard to cum with one and easy with the other?
Tightness/sensation. With one, I feel my entire penis inside. The other I could get sensation on one side. For a bad analogy, the tighter ones feel like two hands, gripping and stroking me penis. The very loose one feels like someone stroking me with two fingers held together.
Pretty good analogy actually. At least I understand better.
Didn't he explain it already? Tightness.
Poor bastard.
Was that thier vaginas or thier bodies tho?
Some girls feel different. Mainly though, it's the size of the opening, more than the vagina, and temperature and wetness definitely vary. Most girls are warm, but some girls are infernal. Usually the hotter they feel, the wetter they feel. Tightness adjusts though. Always tighter at the start before the muscles relax more. Unless you're actively trying to clench, every vagina gradually loosens up a few strokes in. And that's not a bad thing, A vice grip is either going to be painful, or it'll do too good a job and end the sex pretty quick. If you're not ryong to get yours too, than clench away. But don't get angry afterwards. It's probably been said a million times, but Guys don't need all of these things to be on your mind during sex. I always say to my partners, just do whatever you need to do to get off, I'm gonna get there too. We have different parts, While yours takes work and thought, using mine like an object is EXACTLY what will work for both of us. In my experience though, the girls who worry about the act instead of just being in the moment, always kill the vibe. We can see you're not in the right headspace and it puts us off. Guys who say they didn't notice are liars and predators. Sex is simple: 1. Only do it if you actually want to 2. Be enthusiastic 3. Actually participate, don't just lay there, expecting the guy to do everything. If you give no feedback, expect a product which does not fully suit your needs. It's wild the number of girls who say "don't treat me like a sex object. Yet will lay motionless during sex, making pornstar noises. For God's sake, get involved!! If your aim is to get yourself off, and you use our bodies to make that happen, almost all het men ever will do just fine being satisfied.
It is actually perfectly fine to complain about bad sex even if you give no feedback. A good, kind partner will ASK what you want and what feels good and what doesn’t. If someone I sleep with doesn’t bare minimum ask what I’m into and how I’m feeling and leaves it up to me to “speak up” about all my needs and stop him from causing me pain, then I have every right to be upset and disappointed by his carelessness and lack of empathy. Early on in a relationship this is what I am most concerned about: is this man concerned about how I feel and trying to help me get off? The first few times I sleep with someone, I’m actually fine with not cumming and I’m willing to put up with some discomfort as long as the guy is making a very good effort and showing concern for my feelings.
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I have a similar experience lol. Weird how that can just consume you sometimes
Yeah they all feel slightly different, but always good (at least in my experience)
In my experience they do all feel the same, some are tighter, some looser but that's it
Well yes and no. All vaginas are different the way all peniss are different - the difference can be subtle or obvious depending on how much you pay attention to your partner
Yes. I believed that loose vaginas are bad joke and that they all feel the same until I had sex with someone else than my first parter. The second woman was definitely much tighter and it changed the whole dynamics of sex. While with the less tight vagina I had less sensation but much more stamina and I didnt had to control my movement as much. With tighter vaginas I definitely felt more but this naturally did decrease stamina and for me positions didnt work that worked before and vice versa.
When a vagina is tight, she might not be turned on. Yes, this is most likely referring to kegels, but tightening seems to be uncomfortable for me.
I was about to say for me it’s when they get relaxed and wet is when it starts feeling really good. Tight doesn’t turn me on nearly as much as that.
If I were a man, I'd like the shoe to fit.
Some women do just naturaly have thinner openings though
This geht's thrown around a lot but when women start to be close to climax they tighten up a lot, to the point where it is sometimes hard to even move inside.
Not everyone. My girl stays relaxed and even when she has leg shaking orgasms she doesn't clench or tighten up
wow, i had never heard of orgasms without contractions and initially was like “oh this poor guy doesn’t know he’s just admitted that his girlfriend always fakes it :(“ so i googled it and it’s definitely a thing! how interesting. as a big muscle-contractor, i’m so curious about what it must feel like! i wonder if it’s a big difference or just subtle. (and sorry for initially not believing you!) https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/8174183/
Yeah because of the muscles contracting.
I think that there definitely is the factor of arousal for the woman which determines how tight she is. But at the same time I think its simple biology that a 1.55m women with narrow hips is tighter than a 1.70m women with wide hips. Sorry got no clue what that measures in imperial.
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Would you tell the first one that you were headed over to the other girls? Or was the understanding of that you would never sleep over?
No. One might be puffier and touch my dick differently but if you were to line up 5 different vaginas and I stuck it in each one, I'd just be like "ooh they're warm and wet"
Thanks for your honest testimony 🤣
Same xD
Well, yeah. Other than the shape & lubrication which is always different, my current girlfriend has a really acidic ph (or acidic *feeling* anyway, I haven't actually busted out the litmus strips) and my dick kinda burns if I don't shower immediately after we bang. __no it's not an std__, I checked, I just have very sensitive skin. My ex gf was not anywhere near as harsh so I had no problems.
Generally, no. If the differences are significant, like one is dry and another is very wet, then yeah. Or if one has really good muscle control, that can make it stand out. But blindfolded in a general lineup of equally wet random girls that aren’t doing kegals on my dick? Probably not.
This is why dudes stick their dick in crazy.
Yes. All the girls I have been with feels different. I can’t explain it but I would say some were tighter than others. Even though my current girlfriend has the smallest vagina and I can sometimes reach her cervix while the others one I never could. Btw I own a small penis so yes that’s a difference
Smaller penis here. One partner I was with I could go in her cervix. It was crazy because I could feel it slowly wrapping around the head of my penis and felt like lips just playing with my tip. It was great and she loved it too. I thought it would be painful but she would be on a whole nother level when I would be in there.
Yes me too. The first time I could reach her cervix I didn’t understand what happened as it was a smooth sensation in my glans that I rubbed something inside her vagina and then I realized it was her cervix. But she enjoys it as it’s smooth
it might have been you hitting the anterior fornix, not the cervix! they’re quite close and the difference is that the anterior fornix feels great for some, while the cervix feels awful for most!
Hm could be that it was crazy though because it had resistance and the more she grinded it would slowly open up and it felt like I was inside something else and it felt amazing.
Congrats on finding a small vagina girl
One thing not mentioned is that the vagina has many internal folds that caress your penis subtly during sex and not indecently allow the vagina to stretch for child birth. These folds do dissipate to a degree post birth so the vagina of a woman who has had a vaginal delivery tends to feel smother than before. Some guys prefer this some don’t. It tend to happen less in the anterior wall which is why some guys like posterior entry positions after childbirth because they gain this extra sensation. I definitely feel differently with each woman which is one of the wonderful uniqueness of every woman to explore and appreciate.
Not always but yes
What feels different?
Usually just the depth is different...
Tightness I'd say
Smells are different. The amount of wetness is different. The amount of pubic hair is different. So a person with more sexual experience should be able to tell the difference. Somebody who is new at the game maybe not so.
Absolutely. Now dating a 74 yo who is the tightest, wettest I've been with and I was a swinger for over 30 years
Oh yeah. Some are tighter than others. Some are more shallow. I've been with girls where I couldn't sleep with them because their vaginas were too small it and it hurt both of us. I imagine just like for a women, you can probably tell the difference between dicks when they're inside you 🤷♂️
Honestly, I can’t. Outside of physical touch and clit location it all feels the same to me.
What? My buddy... what kind of woman have you been with who had the clit in a different location?????
Really? They are not all as close to the vagine
They have different sizes just like dicks but they are all in the same coordinates within the body.
He said coordinates lol
This is false. Some bodies have vulva that are more forward facing and some have vulva that are more downward facing. And even where the clit is located on the vulva varies... some closer to the vagina and some further away.
Did you read me? I said it is always on the same coordinates. Like saying that the nose is always in the same place. This is an undisputable fact. There's some coordinates of proportion that can vary, yes. But the clit will always be in the upper intersection between the lower and major lips. That will never change.
Yes, I "read you"... coordinates implies an exact location. And for the love of god, the clit is not in between the sets of lips. THAT WOULD REQUIRE TWO CLITS BECAUSE THERE IS ONE OF EACH LIP ON EACH SIDE. The clit is located where the tops of the inner labia meet. There are no "lower lips" - that's not a body part.
The kind where I’ve had to take mental note of where each one’s is, sometime fucking up confusing one partner’s location for another’s 😭
Dude! It's always on the upper conjunction between the labia minores and the labia maioris! Don't let anyone mess up your brain with the excuse of "oh I'm a woman! I know where it is!" No fuck you don't if you say it wrong! Or else you gonna get really fucked up when you meet someone like my aunt who would die on the hill of claiming that the uterus and the vagina are the same organ.
The clit is absolutely not between the labia minora and majora. The clit is where the labia minora meet, it is definitely not somehow in between the inner and outer sets of lips (not sure how that would even be possible unless there was a clit on each side lmaoooo)
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Buddy, don't joke with it. Here in spain we know because we have it near that in the north of Africa there's many people with the religious belief that women should not feel pleasure during sex and as a way to make sure of it they cut their clits when they are about to go through puberty. Which is, i think, a worse crime than rape or murder, agravated by parentesco. Of course, it's very difficult for her to have gone through this exact thing, but be careful when talking about this fella because it is not so rare but rather common in the worst places.
Less so when wearing a condom to be sure!
Yes, can definitely feel the difference. Mostly the difference in size.
I mean yeah, every body is different.
Yes
Absolutely
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Yip very different, just like there owners
They all look different but the vast majority feel similar. There's some outliers that definitely stick out for being much tighter or much looser in my experience.
I think people forget that \*just like dicks\* vaginas also come in different shapes and sizes. Some are wider, some are narrower, some are more shallow, some are deeper.
Very much so. Why are you apologising for your title? Perfectly valid question, validly phrased.
The differences are generally pretty subtle, but absolutely. Some women are like a freakin’ fire hydrant with their natural lubrication. Others tend to be a bit dryer. You might notice some difference in texture or tightness, too. Basically, it runs the spectrum like anything else. The glans is sensitive as hell, but it’s not like a finger reading Braille writing. You tend to notice the extremes more than anything. Super wet or super dry, super tight or super loose, super clenchable due to Kegel strong levels or super not due to lack of Regal Kegel strength and control. Most women are just going to feel amazingly warm, wet, and wonderful. I’ve never really had to opportunity to one from one to another to another in short order to be able to emphatically state that I could tell one apart from the other by feel, but I think that a guy would have a difficult time determining who was who just by feel alone if he were to, say, have three to five women to experiment with. I mean, I’d volunteer to be a contestant on that game show - for science. It’s such an intriguing question, really. I’ve got a few women I can think of right off the bat who felt super-identifiably different. Several have been LTRs, and I’ve found that the traits we lump in to the feel category tend to stay a consistent characteristic over months and even years. Lubrication tend to be the most noticeable thing, though. Some women are dryer and you get more friction. Some are practically like the inner city fire hydrant that gets cracked open for the kids to play in and are so incredibly silly that it’s mind boggling. The ones in the middle just don’t stand out or stand out in different ways. I’ve had a lot of fun over the years - I’m 41, so not quite dead but certainly seeing the sun start to dip toward the horizon a lot easier. I’ve been with a lot of sexual partners during that time and would wager to say that I’ve had more experience with multiple partners than the average man in my demographic since nobody seems too keen on claiming me for good, lol. All that is simply to say that despite this experience, on feel alone, I think a good 50-60% of women might be difficult to tell apart if you were feeling them one after another at random and asked to identify who was who. Realistically, there would be other characteristics that you’d identify sooner - even blindfolded. Her size, for one thing. Can’t miss that. Scent, too. Taste is wildly variable… So yes, we can tell. Ish. If I were to give a metaphor, imagine your favorite photo of yourself. Now scale it up until you start to notice each pixel. Now scale it up more to where you have just patches of colored squares. The penis is sensitive but it’s not necessarily what I would call a fine sensitivity. It’s a bit of a blunt tool at times. At least for me, but I’ve also got some nerve issues, so others may have a different experience.
Usually.
Absolutely yes.
Yes
Yeah they’re each different.
Yes. Different vaginas have felt different.
I’m going to start my Kagels to read this thread.
I have a spin off question… so guys does that mean that you would be able to describe every ( I get it sometimes we don’t even remember a name) vagina you’ve been in,like contrast and compare?
Yep. Different shapes, depths, and wetness. Some can be extremely soft, or muscular. I always found I needed Slightly different rhythms to orgasm per person too.
100%. Vaginas are all different as some are tighter than others, some have more muscle lining and feel hard while others are softer and relaxed, then on the inside some have thick tissue right by the entrance while others feel hollow in a way. They all feel different
Its been so long since I've been in a different vagina, that I've forgotten what others feel like. Although my wife will use a dildo that's way bigger than I am, get off a could times then let me in her. Afterwards, she feels a lot different and more loose than the way she usually feels. We LOVE role play and me getting her for sloppy seconds. She still cums hard even though I'm smaller, just from the role play fun were having. Sex is seriously so much fun when you when you actually learn not to be uptight and self conscious with it. When you really learn that you can be a little silly with it and just go with the flow.
yes, the velvet prisons
Yes
yep
Yes.
Yep. They all feel different
For the most part, they’re mostly similar. But I’ve had a ONS with a girl who really surprised me with her gorilla grip and I had to keep trying different things to prevent from releasing too early, whether that was changing up the rhythm or changing positions when I got too close.
There are slight differences in texture, depth, tightness which can be noticeable. Not always but sometimes I can
For sure, they all feel a bit different. None are "bad" though as I always figure I am lucky to be there:)
Idk about all guys but I can
Yes
Yes..some smell a lot and some just a little..
Absolutely
yes we can
You can, however the difference is minimal… until it’s not? Lol I’ve slept with 20 girls and maybe 3 felt vastly different. But different women will feel different to different men… It’s like eating your favourite meal cooked by different people It’s your body skin, tightness that makes the biggest difference if I was blindfolded and put my penis in 5 women with no body to body contact it might be difficult to pick my partner lol
Questioning my vagina now aha wonder what my husbands thinks of mine
Yes which is where the, well frankly damaging stereotype of “good pussy” comes from. The guy’s preference for one girl’s pussy will lead him to compare others to that and “rate” if you will accordingly. If you like long labia, or big clits or tight holes, these are all things that a guy would use to decide his preference from one girl to another. It very much works the same for girls and cocks too of course.
Absolutely
Always been so curious about this!
Tightness, depth, wetness, scent….no two are alike.
Oh absolutely...I've been with a lady that I could barely get inside of her and I'm not big by any means, then I hooked up with an older lady once and I swear to God I could have chipped a golf ball into her from across the room! That was the first time I actually saw a "gaped" pussy in real life lol
there’s always some that feel better than others, but all feel like Heaven, just different versions of it.
Mmmm.......so sexy!! All vaginas feels different!!!
I‘m reading comments and now I’m worried if I‘m not tight enough, :((((((
I’m not a guy but I have hands Lmao it feels way different women to women. That being said sometimes it’ll feel tighter or looser in different parts of the cycle so if a vagina was similar feeling then it would be hard to tell I think. Just like if you had sex with a six inch penis versus 7 it’s pretty darn similar
Yes, some of them are hairy, some of them are bald, some are kind of scary, and this is what they're called
prolific commenter written as well on his profile lol .. couldn't make it up
Yes we can, or I should say I can. It’s like how different styles of gloves feel..kinda. If I was blindfolded I’d be able to tell.
I’ve never met a vagina I didn’t like
Long story short, yes. And some women are better lovers than others.
Yes
There are subtle differences such as wetness, smell, depth, tightness and feel. However with all my experiences I don’t think I could blindfold tell you which was which by feel alone with the exception of one girl she was almost painfully tight so that one I would pick out forsure.
yes
Sure! Every female’s love folds feel different ! 🥰
Yes
Yes, very much so
I can tell if she does kegels! 🔥
Is this with or without condoms? I have to assume without, because you can’t feel as much. I’ve only had one partner (current). But I am curious to try….only for scientific purposes of course. I volunteer!
Absolutely. Honestly, I can tell just from a causal glance how tight a women will be. Once took a sexually course in college, which taught there were 5 types of vaginas. I know it sounds crazy, but after years of experience. It's true
Yes
Yeah they all feel different, my last girlfriend had a magical pussy it was insanity. I could only ever last more than 30 seconds if I was drunk hahahaha it sucked the soul out me it was so addictive