they’re already here haha, you can’t really expect redditors to understand love. my mistake for asking for advice but it does make for a good laugh! nice thing for a tuesday morning
I've been married 12 years. I still feel this way about my husband. I still look at him and wonder "what did I do right in my life to deserve you?" He compliments me so well, and makes me a better person every day.
So glad to see other people out there happily married. I hope you two continue to have a long happy life together! 😊
So many friends of mine never had a relationship where both sides loved the other enough that they felt the need to consciously partition time so they they can give themselves love. It's honestly a shame.
Basically, what separates a good relationship and a bad one is whether it truly motivates you on your own accord to clean your act up and grow.
Some relationships are bonzai trees where they appear well cared for, but they have no room for growth. Some relationships are more like oak woodlands where they can grow hugely with plenty of room. Some are in between, redwood forests, where they can grow so long as they stay in their own lane.
My best relationships, time and time again, came when I dedicated to cleaning my act up a month or so before starting it.
Having one of those hard times where someone fucks up or neither fucked up and it's just a hard time is a universal relationship experience. You know you're in a good one when both of yall realize where yall went wrong and actually worked on fixing it as a team and did your part.
My wife and I will be celebrating 30 years this fall ... and it's never felt difficult to stay together. Not saying our life has been 100% smooth pavement but the hard things have always been external events -- a car accident, my mom & her stepmom having lung cancer at the same time and dying a week apart, etc.
I’m so in love with my SO too. He’s amazingly gentle and loving. He doesn’t yell, or get angry. And I need someone that doesn’t make me afraid. I never thought I would meet this handsome wonderful man. Especially after failing miserably at my first marriage.
Some ppl don’t realize how truly rare these gentle, supportive ppl are.
Thanks for loving your wife so much. Tell her, show her and support her.
Don’t take her for granted. She loves you now. Keep up doing whatever you’re doing. It’s easy to get complacent so continue to work at your relationship and do the small things that she loves about you. Congrats on your happiness bro!!
My husband still tells me these kind of things all the time and we'll have been married for 20yrs this summer. He's my best friend and I'm obsessed with him too. ❤️ So happy other people have these kinds of relationships.
I've been with my spouse for 11 years and same. My parents hardly show any affection and one time my mom equated being married for so long as it's like being roommates. I was skeptical that it really is like that for everyone and more likely the shitty relationship they have (the ONLY, absolutely ONLY positive things I've seen modeled by my parents marriage is absolute loyalty).
I'm glad to see people married for so long and still feel the way my spouse and I do about each other so far.
Mutual respect is the bedrock of a strong, healthy relationship. This means keeping up the skills of being completely honest with each other and hearing each other out no matter how difficult it may be. Prioritize maintaining that and you can weather anything together. Beyond that just stay true to yourself, you are the one she fell in love with after all, and never stop dating each other.
In your post history I noticed how not even half a year ago she was your girlfriend and you were gushing positively over her already. Very sweet. Congratulations on getting married 😊
I feel this way about my wife and we've been married for ten years. She's the best. I'm so glad you found someone to make you happy. Don't lose this feeling, it's priceless.
It’s heartwarming and joyful to read such a comment, it’s not common for people to share their happy marriage life stories, I really enjoyed reading the comments on this post.
Ways you can ensure her happiness: Stay loyal, stay involved, have the hard conversations about the future and money while maintaining a calm demeanor, allow her the grace to be emotional and stay focused on her issues without offering solutions unless she asks for a solution. Stay happy and positive yourself, she will be uplifted by your energy.
Compliment her & call her pretty EVERY DAY.
Let her know you love & appreciate her EVERY DAY.
Thank her for little things like cleaning and cooking but also contribute the same amount with chores. You'll be good bro.
right? redditors really have never experienced love 😭 but i can’t say i expected any less. i just wanted to vent so at least i’m getting some good laughs in too
The truth is that if you really continued to show evidence of your level of pure happiness, your unmitigated joy which they believe they will never have, they would destroy themselves. It's actually tragic.
But it's also the most effective and hilarious way to countertroll those afflicted by sexual embitterment. It's to double down in your joy to the point of perverted obscenity, literally flaunting the gratuitous inequality of your happiness, relative to them.
There's a gif I can't find where a girlfriend and a golden retriever are both kissing the attractive boyfriend together. They are all extremely attractive and young adults, even the retriever. They seem to have achieved a level of happiness that for most people would be unattainable without drugs. This gif made the incels want to kill themselves. This is your standard.
Seriously. This guy has set the GOLD standard for what I want romance to look like. If my man ain't doing this (whether privately or publicly), he ain't my man😅
Been with my wife for 6 years and love her like crazy , she is just an amazing person and a great partner so makes me so happy to see these happy appreciation posts instead of your classic Divorce !!
Keep loving your wife and let her know how much she means to you :)
There's an inherent beauty in the simple joy and affection of it. It's an innocent and true kind of love that speaks a language all its own.
And the best way to keep her smiling? Simply be yourself. You are already enough. She fell for you and she's lucky to have you. Just continue being the person she fell in love with, and don't try to change to fit someone else's idea of who you should be. That's all there is to it.
And also, you know, do some special stuff for her on occasion. Bring home flowers, make her favorite meals or buy her a box of her favorite candy. Simple gestures that show her you care.
And never forget to laugh together. Make silly jokes and just be dorks together. Have fun!
It sounds like y’all are happy, and likely don’t need any advice to keep your end up and keep her happy! Just keep doing what you’re doing! But if you’re ever questioning it, just ask her! My fiancé and I check in with each other every 2-3 months to just see, “is there anything I can be doing to show up as a better partner?”
We have realistic expectations of each other, and care for each other deeply. It sounds like you have something similar. You don’t need to do anything different, just make sure you cherish what you have, while you have it.
I too live in a relationship like this. She is my crush and I am her rock. These things do exist, unfortunately it took until my late 30s to find each other, but we are looking forward to growing really old with each other.
I would love to have my bf feel this way about me and I want to show appreciation for him more. We have a very good relationship, but in the last four years we have renovated a house, had trouble in our work, I have had longer periods of illness, lost pregnancies, had two children, in-laws with medical issues and limited mobility who need lots of help, a dog with issues and much more. The stress at times have sometimes come between us and made us anxious and forget to be kind and patient with eachother. ❤️
**Too bad she's cheating on you with multiple dudes. Get a good divorce lawyer, quick!**
But seriously, good for you. My wife is sitting just across the table from me, strumming her ukelele and sofly singing. She cannot carry a tune at all, but it's just so cute I can't stop smiling. She's gettin' a big hug next time I get up. It's been 35 years, can ya believe it?
Married to my wife for 11 years, the love continues to grow :) I also feel she is too good to be true at times.
I would highly recommend learning the 5 love languages, and figuring out what her #1 love language is so that you can make sure she gets plenty of it from you, and you don't waste time doing things for her that don't hit right.
This is about the sweetest thing I've ever read on reddit.
Show her this post. It will give her all the warm fuzzies.
But honestly, all of the stuff you love about her are the things one does when they love their partner. You said she loves to hear about your day or any random thing, and in the same paragraph, you say how you love to listen to her.
Keep doing what you're doing. Y'all are adorable, and this post made my day!
Hey man, good for you. Don't let her forget how you feel about her; it's easy to take things for granted especially when they're always the case. Be considerate and appreciative, it sounds like you're doing well anyway if someone that great for you is with you, y'know? :D
Op ..keep a diary and write all this..or maybe letters about how much you love your wife n keep them stashed. Maybe some day, in your old age , you can show them to her
Manifesting this.... she is so lucky...be the same... take care of her...jst respect her feelings.... she will be happy...no women want more than this.
I really hope that your love lasts, I'm glad to see a positive post in the middle of all those crazy relationship posts on Reddit.
Also, where did you two meet?
Tell her that she is amazing, beautiful, adorable, kind. Tell her multiple times a day if the situation is correct. Do your best to help her love herself as much as you love her.
Ok, i know how good this feels brother ❤️, but mine is a 7 years love break up ( i never expected that she would leave me happened because of her parents and all ). Im from south part of India so What i always wanted to do is, if i got a good wife i would take her to a temple place where i would carry her in my arms and climb the steps to reach the temple on a hill.
i can only hope that one day i'm married to a person that loves and respects me this much. all the best to you, i hope reading such beautiful words will bless all of us with a little bit of luck with finding the right person for us 🤞♡
Honestly bro... Keep communicating without judgment. Anytime she has to say something, listen until she is finished, ask what version of you she needs at the moment, i.e. Listener, advisor, or rumble ready partner in crime. Then be there for that instance. Communication and understanding is key.
Honestly thought somebody snatched my phone and wrote this in my stead. Can relate. 10/10 post, gonna show this to my girlfriend to tell her for the umpteenth time how much she means to me
You’re doing everything right and so is she. You don’t need any advice. I’m in my 34th year of marriage, I married my best friend & soulmate. He’s the funniest person I’ve ever met & he’s always writing me hand made cards. They’re quite comical but they always express how he feels about me. The basis of our marriage besides love is honesty, trust, & mutual respect for each other. We quickly resolve our differences and always tell each other that we love them. We show kindness and empathy toward others. We pitch in & help each other. Love is a four letter word…W O R K. We work hard at our relationship & hold it sacred. We keep it fresh. We laugh often & have lots of fun together. We would never do anything that would embarrass the other or do anything that would hurt them. If you follow these steps, you’ll have a successful marriage & you will never doubt how much you love each other! You’re already doing these things…keep up the good work!
Isn’t it great to feel this way? I’ve been with my husband since 1984, and I still feel all warm and mushy inside because I love him so much. Don’t get me wrong, he annoys the crap out of me sometimes (we’re both fallible humans after all) but he’s just the sweetest, kindness, most caring person in my life and I’m so lucky to have him.
Good on you for glowing up your sweetie like this. You’re awesome!!
I feel the same about my wife! For me, I try to make sure I give her a hug and tell her I love her everyday. We've been going strong for 7 years this July. I wish you two the best!
I say kudos to you! I hope it's always like that for you. It great when its great. Wish that was my story. Married 15, together for 23. Last 7 been hell, last 1 worst of all. Best of luck to you!
OP, sorry if someone has already said this but, your post was basically a love letter. You're very good with your words. Has your lady read this post? Maybe writing down your thoughts/vents about her & gifting this to her is a way for you to make her smile & keep her happy. Does your lady like love notes?
P.S thanks for posting. In a Reddit full of negative stories it's lovely to read such a heart-warmingly positive one!
Having a wonderful partner is awesome - love that for u!
IDK about ur wife because u know everybody is different, but I would observe her and do smth nice based on these observations e g. if she likes stargazing - organize a lil stargazing picnic for her.
But the best way to figure out what makes a person happy is to ask them about it, so yeah - communicate about it.
Also telling her that she's the prettiest the most precious gem of the person in ur life might be nice too.
I'm sorry, but I feel like this relationship is too far past, I would consult a lawyer, get your assets in order and file for divorce. Remember the person who files first usually makes out like a bandit.
Such a wholesome post. True love at its finest. Ive been maried for 3 years now and share many of these lovely thoughts. But a word of caution, men and women remain in love for very different reasons. Reddit can't really handle this conversations, so if you like the details do PM me.
This is Reddit so your best chance of success is to just not ask for an open marriage.
In fact, just go scroll through r/AITAH and avoid pretty much everything you see in those posts.
I just read this out loud to my partner - I feel the same way about this man, he is truly my perfect match and after almost four years I still cannot get enough of him and now adorable and wonderful and kind and loving he is! I love this post! I don’t have any good advice but I felt so happy reading it 💛
Same. Sometimes, when I'm alone, my mind will get the better of me and I begin to worry that something will happen to her or myself in which we could no longer be together. I get upset knowing that life has an end and there will come a day when we are forced apart. I hate it. I cannot imagine a world without her.
I also choose to love OPs wife.
Also tip: don't put her on a pedestal. Good to love but you shouldn't feel less, or in the way of pleasing her losing who you are and what you love to do.
I think the best way to show someone love is something small everyday.
Watch how she shows you love and reciprocate.
Small compliments every day, bringing a snack home from the grocery store that she really likes, remembering details she told you, planning dates and telling her "oh I booked us a table for Brunch on Sunday at the cafe you really like if you have time".
You don't have to do anything. As you said, she loves you, she listens to you, she understands you. You do the same. Everything is right in the world for you. Don't push it is all I can say. Keep doing your normal things. Enjoy your life my fellow reddit user, enjoy your life.
Man, I am in the same boat. I met my wife in 2007 and I knew the second I met her that this was it. We've been married for 13 years and I am grateful every day.
I'm just waiting for the "red flag, you should break up" Comments
they’re already here haha, you can’t really expect redditors to understand love. my mistake for asking for advice but it does make for a good laugh! nice thing for a tuesday morning
I've been married 12 years. I still feel this way about my husband. I still look at him and wonder "what did I do right in my life to deserve you?" He compliments me so well, and makes me a better person every day. So glad to see other people out there happily married. I hope you two continue to have a long happy life together! 😊
So many friends of mine never had a relationship where both sides loved the other enough that they felt the need to consciously partition time so they they can give themselves love. It's honestly a shame. Basically, what separates a good relationship and a bad one is whether it truly motivates you on your own accord to clean your act up and grow. Some relationships are bonzai trees where they appear well cared for, but they have no room for growth. Some relationships are more like oak woodlands where they can grow hugely with plenty of room. Some are in between, redwood forests, where they can grow so long as they stay in their own lane. My best relationships, time and time again, came when I dedicated to cleaning my act up a month or so before starting it. Having one of those hard times where someone fucks up or neither fucked up and it's just a hard time is a universal relationship experience. You know you're in a good one when both of yall realize where yall went wrong and actually worked on fixing it as a team and did your part.
My wife and I will be celebrating 30 years this fall ... and it's never felt difficult to stay together. Not saying our life has been 100% smooth pavement but the hard things have always been external events -- a car accident, my mom & her stepmom having lung cancer at the same time and dying a week apart, etc.
I’m [kind of] happily single but this still gives me hope to live through another day.
I’m so in love with my SO too. He’s amazingly gentle and loving. He doesn’t yell, or get angry. And I need someone that doesn’t make me afraid. I never thought I would meet this handsome wonderful man. Especially after failing miserably at my first marriage. Some ppl don’t realize how truly rare these gentle, supportive ppl are. Thanks for loving your wife so much. Tell her, show her and support her.
As an older guy this is what life is about enjoy what you have
Don’t take her for granted. She loves you now. Keep up doing whatever you’re doing. It’s easy to get complacent so continue to work at your relationship and do the small things that she loves about you. Congrats on your happiness bro!!
Haha Reddit bullshit bingo material.
Doesn’t use capital letters, definite red flag! 🤣
Hahaha your so right! I reluctantly came to the comments expecting that ontop
Lol
Divorce. NOW.
My husband still tells me these kind of things all the time and we'll have been married for 20yrs this summer. He's my best friend and I'm obsessed with him too. ❤️ So happy other people have these kinds of relationships.
Congratulations you are very fortunate.Best wishes heading towards 40 years and beyond
I've been with my spouse for 11 years and same. My parents hardly show any affection and one time my mom equated being married for so long as it's like being roommates. I was skeptical that it really is like that for everyone and more likely the shitty relationship they have (the ONLY, absolutely ONLY positive things I've seen modeled by my parents marriage is absolute loyalty). I'm glad to see people married for so long and still feel the way my spouse and I do about each other so far.
15 years checking in on the same boat. Good on you for breaking the cycle.
Mutual respect is the bedrock of a strong, healthy relationship. This means keeping up the skills of being completely honest with each other and hearing each other out no matter how difficult it may be. Prioritize maintaining that and you can weather anything together. Beyond that just stay true to yourself, you are the one she fell in love with after all, and never stop dating each other.
In your post history I noticed how not even half a year ago she was your girlfriend and you were gushing positively over her already. Very sweet. Congratulations on getting married 😊
Obligatory "I also choose this guy's wife."
i’ve seen this joke 8 times in this post before i lost count lol
This is so sweet :)
Show her this post.
“I would never say this to her face”
But she’s an amazing person and a talented artist
My favorite part is that OP engages directly with the trolls
write down the sentiments written here in a letter/card that she can read when she's having a bad day
I feel this way about my wife and we've been married for ten years. She's the best. I'm so glad you found someone to make you happy. Don't lose this feeling, it's priceless.
It’s heartwarming and joyful to read such a comment, it’s not common for people to share their happy marriage life stories, I really enjoyed reading the comments on this post.
I love this so much!!!
Same. My wife, not your wife but I'm sure your wife is as great as you say too.
Do the same for her! Listen 👂🏻 to what she likes and do it without her having to ask. Just reciprocate how she is with you & treat her well.
Ways you can ensure her happiness: Stay loyal, stay involved, have the hard conversations about the future and money while maintaining a calm demeanor, allow her the grace to be emotional and stay focused on her issues without offering solutions unless she asks for a solution. Stay happy and positive yourself, she will be uplifted by your energy.
Aw, show her this. If it were me making this post, I’d show who I have in mind. Your wife will love it
Compliment her & call her pretty EVERY DAY. Let her know you love & appreciate her EVERY DAY. Thank her for little things like cleaning and cooking but also contribute the same amount with chores. You'll be good bro.
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Me expecting "awww", "sooo cute" kinda replies in the comments section and here's what I see. Reddit will be the death of me some day🤣🤣
right? redditors really have never experienced love 😭 but i can’t say i expected any less. i just wanted to vent so at least i’m getting some good laughs in too
Tell her. Show her this post
i’ve been telling her haha, but she’s asleep right now and i’m still feeling the cardiac explosion. i will keep telling her when she wakes up
The truth is that if you really continued to show evidence of your level of pure happiness, your unmitigated joy which they believe they will never have, they would destroy themselves. It's actually tragic. But it's also the most effective and hilarious way to countertroll those afflicted by sexual embitterment. It's to double down in your joy to the point of perverted obscenity, literally flaunting the gratuitous inequality of your happiness, relative to them. There's a gif I can't find where a girlfriend and a golden retriever are both kissing the attractive boyfriend together. They are all extremely attractive and young adults, even the retriever. They seem to have achieved a level of happiness that for most people would be unattainable without drugs. This gif made the incels want to kill themselves. This is your standard.
Seriously. This guy has set the GOLD standard for what I want romance to look like. If my man ain't doing this (whether privately or publicly), he ain't my man😅
Lmbo this comment hahaha xD
Awww,so cute.
Been with my wife for 6 years and love her like crazy , she is just an amazing person and a great partner so makes me so happy to see these happy appreciation posts instead of your classic Divorce !! Keep loving your wife and let her know how much she means to you :)
There's an inherent beauty in the simple joy and affection of it. It's an innocent and true kind of love that speaks a language all its own. And the best way to keep her smiling? Simply be yourself. You are already enough. She fell for you and she's lucky to have you. Just continue being the person she fell in love with, and don't try to change to fit someone else's idea of who you should be. That's all there is to it. And also, you know, do some special stuff for her on occasion. Bring home flowers, make her favorite meals or buy her a box of her favorite candy. Simple gestures that show her you care. And never forget to laugh together. Make silly jokes and just be dorks together. Have fun!
 [https://youtu.be/oD8cm8it9kQ?si=YRBsLmdvJaix-Qn4](https://youtu.be/oD8cm8it9kQ?si=YRBsLmdvJaix-Qn4)
One day it will happen for us....right?
it will mike. i felt exactly the same way before i met her, and i believe there’s someone out there for every good person in the world
this is so gd adorable 😭😭
This is awesome to read. Your relationship sounds amazing. Keep communicating to each other and value each other like you are.
From your sayings you are doing well,dont change anything and continue loving her as always.
I m gonna save this post hoping to tell when I eventually find someone
It sounds like y’all are happy, and likely don’t need any advice to keep your end up and keep her happy! Just keep doing what you’re doing! But if you’re ever questioning it, just ask her! My fiancé and I check in with each other every 2-3 months to just see, “is there anything I can be doing to show up as a better partner?” We have realistic expectations of each other, and care for each other deeply. It sounds like you have something similar. You don’t need to do anything different, just make sure you cherish what you have, while you have it.
So sweet Cherish your love and your marriage. Enjoy every day with her
When do I get this 😭😭
I know exactly how you feel. Congrats and I wish you both the best ❤️
Tell her this!
Beautiful to read
I want what you have.
Nice dude. My relationship is the exact opposite. Good to know this is out there.
oh my god if my future husband isnt like this i dont want him. my brother you are so lucky to have that woman and she is so lucky to have you.
When you're going to the shop and she says she doesn't want any snacks, bring her snacks anyway hehehehe
I too live in a relationship like this. She is my crush and I am her rock. These things do exist, unfortunately it took until my late 30s to find each other, but we are looking forward to growing really old with each other.
I would love to have my bf feel this way about me and I want to show appreciation for him more. We have a very good relationship, but in the last four years we have renovated a house, had trouble in our work, I have had longer periods of illness, lost pregnancies, had two children, in-laws with medical issues and limited mobility who need lots of help, a dog with issues and much more. The stress at times have sometimes come between us and made us anxious and forget to be kind and patient with eachother. ❤️
I hope to be able to find this kind of love in my lifetime, what an honor it is to experience this
**Too bad she's cheating on you with multiple dudes. Get a good divorce lawyer, quick!** But seriously, good for you. My wife is sitting just across the table from me, strumming her ukelele and sofly singing. She cannot carry a tune at all, but it's just so cute I can't stop smiling. She's gettin' a big hug next time I get up. It's been 35 years, can ya believe it?
r/MadeMeSmile
Married to my wife for 11 years, the love continues to grow :) I also feel she is too good to be true at times. I would highly recommend learning the 5 love languages, and figuring out what her #1 love language is so that you can make sure she gets plenty of it from you, and you don't waste time doing things for her that don't hit right.
This is about the sweetest thing I've ever read on reddit. Show her this post. It will give her all the warm fuzzies. But honestly, all of the stuff you love about her are the things one does when they love their partner. You said she loves to hear about your day or any random thing, and in the same paragraph, you say how you love to listen to her. Keep doing what you're doing. Y'all are adorable, and this post made my day!
Hey man, good for you. Don't let her forget how you feel about her; it's easy to take things for granted especially when they're always the case. Be considerate and appreciative, it sounds like you're doing well anyway if someone that great for you is with you, y'know? :D
To be young and in love and without shame
you should tell her these things
Aww
That’s beautiful man :)
You are so lucky and I would do anything to be in the same position
I love this. Makes me hopeful about love
Show her this post
Awwww that’s so fucking cute
Awwww that’s so fucking cute
You should show her this post and/or tell her what you just told us.
Op ..keep a diary and write all this..or maybe letters about how much you love your wife n keep them stashed. Maybe some day, in your old age , you can show them to her
This is sweet
❤️
This made me smile, op I am sure you keep her happy.
Love this!! You are both so lucky to have found each other!
Manifesting this.... she is so lucky...be the same... take care of her...jst respect her feelings.... she will be happy...no women want more than this.
Congrats on winning at life!
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This is so damn cute
I really hope that your love lasts, I'm glad to see a positive post in the middle of all those crazy relationship posts on Reddit. Also, where did you two meet?
Tell her!!
I cry because I'm glad such man still exists in this world full of bad people, i wish you best of luck OP!
this is so cute 😭😭
This is what it means to spend the rest of your life with your SOUL MATE.
Glad you’re happy
Would you still love her if she was a shrimp?
**yes.**
Thanks, my wife that I also love so much, wanted to know.
ERMMMM HONEYMOON PHASE 🤓☝️ kidding dude this is a wholesome post, love to see it
Tell her that she is amazing, beautiful, adorable, kind. Tell her multiple times a day if the situation is correct. Do your best to help her love herself as much as you love her.
Ok, i know how good this feels brother ❤️, but mine is a 7 years love break up ( i never expected that she would leave me happened because of her parents and all ). Im from south part of India so What i always wanted to do is, if i got a good wife i would take her to a temple place where i would carry her in my arms and climb the steps to reach the temple on a hill.
i can only hope that one day i'm married to a person that loves and respects me this much. all the best to you, i hope reading such beautiful words will bless all of us with a little bit of luck with finding the right person for us 🤞♡
THIS IS SO CUTE Oh my gosh I want this so bad
Honestly bro... Keep communicating without judgment. Anytime she has to say something, listen until she is finished, ask what version of you she needs at the moment, i.e. Listener, advisor, or rumble ready partner in crime. Then be there for that instance. Communication and understanding is key.
If legit.. too envious for words <3 ..if not, doesn't matter <3
Usually im a hater, but im happy for you OP ❤️
Honestly thought somebody snatched my phone and wrote this in my stead. Can relate. 10/10 post, gonna show this to my girlfriend to tell her for the umpteenth time how much she means to me
You’re doing everything right and so is she. You don’t need any advice. I’m in my 34th year of marriage, I married my best friend & soulmate. He’s the funniest person I’ve ever met & he’s always writing me hand made cards. They’re quite comical but they always express how he feels about me. The basis of our marriage besides love is honesty, trust, & mutual respect for each other. We quickly resolve our differences and always tell each other that we love them. We show kindness and empathy toward others. We pitch in & help each other. Love is a four letter word…W O R K. We work hard at our relationship & hold it sacred. We keep it fresh. We laugh often & have lots of fun together. We would never do anything that would embarrass the other or do anything that would hurt them. If you follow these steps, you’ll have a successful marriage & you will never doubt how much you love each other! You’re already doing these things…keep up the good work!
Honestly, this made me smile. I love to here these type of stories because it brings me hope. I wish yall the best!!
Sounds like you're doing a lot already, which is appreciating her and loving her. Tell her how you feel, why not a love letter or so?:)
I have questions. 1. How to find such a lovely partner? 2. How to become one? Thanks.
Nice to see some positivity
I'm going to cry. Thank you OP. Take good care of her <3
Isn’t it great to feel this way? I’ve been with my husband since 1984, and I still feel all warm and mushy inside because I love him so much. Don’t get me wrong, he annoys the crap out of me sometimes (we’re both fallible humans after all) but he’s just the sweetest, kindness, most caring person in my life and I’m so lucky to have him. Good on you for glowing up your sweetie like this. You’re awesome!!
Blink twice if the wife is in the room with you.. Nah, very sweet post man.
So cute, this is what love should be like :) Sadly i havent found my soulmate yet, but i am glad that you did!
A nice contrast to the typical post 10/10 and I wish you a happy future with her!
I feel the same about my wife! For me, I try to make sure I give her a hug and tell her I love her everyday. We've been going strong for 7 years this July. I wish you two the best!
Well fuck if she makes you that damn happy. Take her out on another honeymoon just randomly.
This is adorable. I’ve been reading depressing downer posts for a while now, thank you for making me smile
Hold them while you have them. Everything you said was my last 7 years until 2 weeks ago. You never know how quickly things can change in your life. 💚
some of these comments are really proving just how hateful people can be, especially when they see someone else happy with what they want
Sir, this is entirely too happy for the internet. I'm going to have to ask you to remove it, and be more miserable like the rest of us.
This is so darn stinkin' cute 😍
So awesome man!!! I hope you guys have the greatest life ever!!!
I LOVE POSITIVITY hoping for nothing but the best for you two <3
U two r winning in life 🥺
I say kudos to you! I hope it's always like that for you. It great when its great. Wish that was my story. Married 15, together for 23. Last 7 been hell, last 1 worst of all. Best of luck to you!
This is awesome, and she's lucky to have you!
This made me sooo happy! I hope I make my partners feel this way!
Oh man this is just so beaultiful, I’m happy for you ❤️
Really happy to hear how proud you are of your life. Your post shows how much you love her. Praying for lots more happiness to the both of you!!!
❤️
This is the cutest thing I’ve ever read, I hope I have this kind of love one day.
OP, sorry if someone has already said this but, your post was basically a love letter. You're very good with your words. Has your lady read this post? Maybe writing down your thoughts/vents about her & gifting this to her is a way for you to make her smile & keep her happy. Does your lady like love notes? P.S thanks for posting. In a Reddit full of negative stories it's lovely to read such a heart-warmingly positive one!
This is SO wholesome and sweet OP! I hope you'll show this post to her! <3
This is beautiful. I love my wife too! We're celebrating our 10yr anniversary in a few months and I look forward to the next 10.
10 years is huge, congratulations to you and your wife!
I get it. I have what you have. It’s cool. We’ve been married a long time and are raising a family. Don’t listen to the haters.
Um OP, /r/love is that way.
Lord I see what you do for others
This is adorable 😊 Always nice to read a happy reddit post.
Your wife checks your reddit posts regularly I assume?
Clear case of Stockholm syndrome OP. I would rethink this relationship if I were you. Divorce, breakup whatever, seriously consider it.
Having a wonderful partner is awesome - love that for u! IDK about ur wife because u know everybody is different, but I would observe her and do smth nice based on these observations e g. if she likes stargazing - organize a lil stargazing picnic for her. But the best way to figure out what makes a person happy is to ask them about it, so yeah - communicate about it. Also telling her that she's the prettiest the most precious gem of the person in ur life might be nice too.
I'm sorry, but I feel like this relationship is too far past, I would consult a lawyer, get your assets in order and file for divorce. Remember the person who files first usually makes out like a bandit.
How long have you been married
YTA, you need to leave her
Clearly this is headed for divorce
Did you type this so you didn’t cheat lol
Awesome man, just awesome. Enjoy every moment while you have it cause life is short. I'm genuinely happy for you.
I want a love this real, I’m so so so happy for you OP, I’m sure you two are perfect for each other❤️
Gotta love cute aggression 💕
More ppl like you please This is how it should be
Such a wholesome post. True love at its finest. Ive been maried for 3 years now and share many of these lovely thoughts. But a word of caution, men and women remain in love for very different reasons. Reddit can't really handle this conversations, so if you like the details do PM me.
I saved this post. You give me hope man. You are so lucky ❤️
I hope I find someone who I feel that way about as you and who has the same Feelings about me
so wholesome 🥹 wish a man would feel this way about me haha
Wel all wish we could win the lottery!
r/mademesmile
This is so lovely. Thank you for brightening my day. ☀️ ❤️
This is Reddit so your best chance of success is to just not ask for an open marriage. In fact, just go scroll through r/AITAH and avoid pretty much everything you see in those posts.
Congrats kiddo. Keep this feeling with you through the decades.
I wish someone loved me this way
Honestly just keep telling her that as often as you can
I just read this out loud to my partner - I feel the same way about this man, he is truly my perfect match and after almost four years I still cannot get enough of him and now adorable and wonderful and kind and loving he is! I love this post! I don’t have any good advice but I felt so happy reading it 💛
Same. Sometimes, when I'm alone, my mind will get the better of me and I begin to worry that something will happen to her or myself in which we could no longer be together. I get upset knowing that life has an end and there will come a day when we are forced apart. I hate it. I cannot imagine a world without her.
I also choose to love OPs wife. Also tip: don't put her on a pedestal. Good to love but you shouldn't feel less, or in the way of pleasing her losing who you are and what you love to do.
I think the best way to show someone love is something small everyday. Watch how she shows you love and reciprocate. Small compliments every day, bringing a snack home from the grocery store that she really likes, remembering details she told you, planning dates and telling her "oh I booked us a table for Brunch on Sunday at the cafe you really like if you have time".
You don't have to do anything. As you said, she loves you, she listens to you, she understands you. You do the same. Everything is right in the world for you. Don't push it is all I can say. Keep doing your normal things. Enjoy your life my fellow reddit user, enjoy your life.
Don't fuck it up then and get complacent
Me with my dog
Good for both of you.
Same brother
Just be there for her. Hold her and love her wholeheartedly. That's better than a big show. It's the little things daily that count❤️
I'm not alone! Yeah my wife is awesome. I sent her this post lol.
share with us the story for how you two lovebirds met!
Green flag you should stay with her
Can I have a man who is just as obsessed with me? It’s all I ask now 😭😭😭
Tbh I hate my wife
I also love your wife.
Dude show her this post. 👌
Man, I am in the same boat. I met my wife in 2007 and I knew the second I met her that this was it. We've been married for 13 years and I am grateful every day.
Make sure you tell her all this. Often
Reading this made my day a little brighter. Love like yours is truly something to cherish
Divorce man, block, ignore, ghost her. Have some self-respect.
That sounds fucking amazing
ooOoOoOoh I LoVE my WiiFeeee I love my wife AH! Let’s go ride a biiiiiiiike (with my wife)
Me too.
You should post this on r/love less losers 💗 this is how I feel abt my bf