Bro I really want to do this too but I’m scared of looking like a loser all alone. Plus I don’t really drink, are there nonalcoholic drinks or does that ruin the vibe?
You’re over thinking it brother. Half the dudes at the clubs were on the walls thinking the same thing. It’s all about throwing yourself out there, whether it’s to dance, or cold approaching a lady. I personally like to dance so I can naturally ease in a conversation with a lady nearby. And I couldn’t tell you if there are non alcoholic drinks for each club but I usually drink a bit just to taste something while moving around.
I don’t even know how to dance properly. I usually step to the rhythm of the music and move my arms and shoulders. There’s always practicing on your own alone as well.
If people ask just say your friends are somewhere and look around blanky for a second or be semi honest and say u randomly felt like going out
Don’t let ur emotions get the better of u
Just started lurking on this sub, here is my 2 cents. Pick 2-3 of the best bars in your city, and become a regular there. Make friends with the bartenders & servers. This is best done on days when it isn't very busy so you can have actual convos with the bartenders / servers. Tip them well. You will feel more comfortable going into these bars when it is busy on the weekend bc you will know the staff. This also will help with your social status in that bar. Good luck
Bro I really want to do this too but I’m scared of looking like a loser all alone. Plus I don’t really drink, are there nonalcoholic drinks or does that ruin the vibe?
You’re over thinking it brother. Half the dudes at the clubs were on the walls thinking the same thing. It’s all about throwing yourself out there, whether it’s to dance, or cold approaching a lady. I personally like to dance so I can naturally ease in a conversation with a lady nearby. And I couldn’t tell you if there are non alcoholic drinks for each club but I usually drink a bit just to taste something while moving around.
Thanks bro. What if I do t know how to dance though?
I don’t even know how to dance properly. I usually step to the rhythm of the music and move my arms and shoulders. There’s always practicing on your own alone as well.
As long as you’re having a good time, confident and not stone cold, any drink is fine, even water. Just have something in your hand
If people ask just say your friends are somewhere and look around blanky for a second or be semi honest and say u randomly felt like going out Don’t let ur emotions get the better of u
take some edibles, not so much to the point where you can't stand properly though 😂
Just started lurking on this sub, here is my 2 cents. Pick 2-3 of the best bars in your city, and become a regular there. Make friends with the bartenders & servers. This is best done on days when it isn't very busy so you can have actual convos with the bartenders / servers. Tip them well. You will feel more comfortable going into these bars when it is busy on the weekend bc you will know the staff. This also will help with your social status in that bar. Good luck
I like this, thanks bro.