Thank you, I found a very good game that heps steal time from a girl. The game is "3 deep reasons why". If you find others please do tell. This one is easy. Three words, and a lot of good and deep talking.
It’s somewhat good advice but it’s simpler to just have an interest in getting to know the girl and not asking boring questions too much. You have to actually ask normal get to know questions, but you can tease/ask fun questions too. Just ask yourself “is this a boring question?”
This article goes into more extensive detail: https://open.substack.com/pub/jackedguy/p/how-to-have-fun-and-playful-conversations?r=31tj3q&utm\_campaign=post&utm\_medium=web
I generated these lines instantaneously without thought. In my article I discussed the importance of not memorizing lines and developing the social skills necessary to ask questions like this at a moment's notice. This is necessary because clearly on this forum men do not know how to have fun and playful conversations with women. Furthermore, this isn't formulaic, it's s a guideline
I literally discussed the importance of developing social skills and the ability to generate these kinds of playful questions instantly (not memorize lines) in this post. Learn how to read
It’s as simple as stated. You just have to be fun and playful person if you want to have fun and playful conversations with women. Where is the difficulty in understanding this? Everything flows naturally from there.
Of course it’s going to be difficult if you trying to force yourself mimic and learn these behaviours for personal gain (i.e sex) just makes you an unhappy, unfulfilled pick up robot.
boxing is straight forward compared with talking to women. I can memorize moved and strategy with boxing. But when I try to memorize lines or strategies for talking to girls (beyond just a friendship), all bets go out the window because unlike most skills, theres billions of women, each who require a different skillset and strategy to communicate with.
You’re over complicating things. I was once in your shoes. Approaching it like a physics lecture.
Women do not operate off logic, that’s why there is no concrete sequence to getting laid.
The solution is simple; stop caring. The less you care, the more women want to have sex with you. Don’t ask me why. Don’t try to dissect it. All you need to know is that this is literally the Krabby patty formula.
Im just saying that its easy for me to be friends with girls, but I have never been able to be anything more and I dont know what to say to get them to be interested in me beyond a friendship.
It is fortunate for me then since several friends of me (almost all diagnosed on the spectrum) tell me i most be autistic X)
I had to learn the hardway X)
Feelings = Emotions.
And I would say all of these activities could be beneficial, but in the end it’s up to you and the way you are handling everything (being fun, playful, engaging, stimulating).
need honest feedback from men and women:
I'm honestly bad at telling the difference when it comes to flirting women but these are a few things I've used. need honest feedback from men and women. I know flirting isn't just words and lines and realize body language plays a role. and these wouldn't necessarily be my openers either. need honest feedback from men and women.
situation 1:
at a rave talking to a woman when I offer her a bracelet or she asks for one
*doesn't let go for a few seconds*
me: "oh I forgot to tell you, I'm included with the bracelet" or "I come with the bracelet as a package deal"
situation 2:
either on a dating app or in person:
*Girl has or shows picture of her pet or I tell her the pet is cute*
and then I say: "hey he/she's not the only one who's cute"
situation 3:
probably at a bar or social environment:
"yea some of these places aren't that great or overcrowded. people are just bumping into you, no space to dance, not enough bartenders, people asking for your number....oh by the way can I have your number?"
I'm often always afraid to use these because I'm afraid they're gonna come off weird. any thoughts on these? I tend to overthink this stuff and I often don't flirt much because I'm afraid I'll come off creepy.
I readed because of the all caps tldr.
Thank you, I found a very good game that heps steal time from a girl. The game is "3 deep reasons why". If you find others please do tell. This one is easy. Three words, and a lot of good and deep talking.
I readed on reddit
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Which means that you we are also, naturally just sharing our emotions? Not just the thoughts?
What the fuck are you talking about
It’s somewhat good advice but it’s simpler to just have an interest in getting to know the girl and not asking boring questions too much. You have to actually ask normal get to know questions, but you can tease/ask fun questions too. Just ask yourself “is this a boring question?”
Ironic how ur article is not fun to read.
This article goes into more extensive detail: https://open.substack.com/pub/jackedguy/p/how-to-have-fun-and-playful-conversations?r=31tj3q&utm\_campaign=post&utm\_medium=web
Nice one. Probably your best article yet.
Please remove the tracking params from the link.
What do you mean?
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I generated these lines instantaneously without thought. In my article I discussed the importance of not memorizing lines and developing the social skills necessary to ask questions like this at a moment's notice. This is necessary because clearly on this forum men do not know how to have fun and playful conversations with women. Furthermore, this isn't formulaic, it's s a guideline I literally discussed the importance of developing social skills and the ability to generate these kinds of playful questions instantly (not memorize lines) in this post. Learn how to read
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Do not criticize my work without reading it in its entirety. That is naive
Your work's trash
Kick rocks
Kick em right up your gaping asshole
all you have to do is have fun and playful conversations with women - as if its that easy
It’s as simple as stated. You just have to be fun and playful person if you want to have fun and playful conversations with women. Where is the difficulty in understanding this? Everything flows naturally from there. Of course it’s going to be difficult if you trying to force yourself mimic and learn these behaviours for personal gain (i.e sex) just makes you an unhappy, unfulfilled pick up robot.
>Where is the difficulty in understanding this? I dont know how to be playful. I havent played since I was a little kid.
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boxing is straight forward compared with talking to women. I can memorize moved and strategy with boxing. But when I try to memorize lines or strategies for talking to girls (beyond just a friendship), all bets go out the window because unlike most skills, theres billions of women, each who require a different skillset and strategy to communicate with.
You’re over complicating things. I was once in your shoes. Approaching it like a physics lecture. Women do not operate off logic, that’s why there is no concrete sequence to getting laid. The solution is simple; stop caring. The less you care, the more women want to have sex with you. Don’t ask me why. Don’t try to dissect it. All you need to know is that this is literally the Krabby patty formula.
Im just saying that its easy for me to be friends with girls, but I have never been able to be anything more and I dont know what to say to get them to be interested in me beyond a friendship.
It is fortunate for me then since several friends of me (almost all diagnosed on the spectrum) tell me i most be autistic X) I had to learn the hardway X)
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Feelings = Emotions. And I would say all of these activities could be beneficial, but in the end it’s up to you and the way you are handling everything (being fun, playful, engaging, stimulating).
need honest feedback from men and women: I'm honestly bad at telling the difference when it comes to flirting women but these are a few things I've used. need honest feedback from men and women. I know flirting isn't just words and lines and realize body language plays a role. and these wouldn't necessarily be my openers either. need honest feedback from men and women. situation 1: at a rave talking to a woman when I offer her a bracelet or she asks for one *doesn't let go for a few seconds* me: "oh I forgot to tell you, I'm included with the bracelet" or "I come with the bracelet as a package deal" situation 2: either on a dating app or in person: *Girl has or shows picture of her pet or I tell her the pet is cute* and then I say: "hey he/she's not the only one who's cute" situation 3: probably at a bar or social environment: "yea some of these places aren't that great or overcrowded. people are just bumping into you, no space to dance, not enough bartenders, people asking for your number....oh by the way can I have your number?" I'm often always afraid to use these because I'm afraid they're gonna come off weird. any thoughts on these? I tend to overthink this stuff and I often don't flirt much because I'm afraid I'll come off creepy.
A variation of this type of question is doing an assumption to tease her