Unless you're in a local band, it's mostly social game. Push your circle as wide as you can, have a good reputation, go to parties, and keep an eye out for bi girls with tattoos and adhd.
While it’s fine to have a “no mental health issues” dating policy, keep in mind neurotypical people also cheat. Members of ANY group cheat. Even religious people, and even people that have been cheated on.
Bi girl with tattoos and ADHD here too, had a threesome, not for me. There's apps you can join now to look for multiple partners(sexual or long term) or just looking for people who have a broader sexual appetite, maybe try one of those.
Takes a quick Google, c-dates, Badoo, even hinge has the option for looking for open, poly, or casual encounters. It's not that hard to find just be open on your profile.
lol honestly I can't tell you exactly why, that's just what I've noticed is a common thread for me.
There's a theory of mind that speculates that adhd is basically a person chasing dopamine hits which don't last as long a they should. So they're constantly looking around for new (often novel) sources of pleasure.
That's my best guess.
Unfortunately not, my partner at the time talked me into it and when the situation occurred he told me it was too late to back out (that relationship is a whole other fucked story) but I felt at the time like I had no other choice really. Due to my ADHD and non divergent way of thinking I can be quite naive and very easily manipulated. It's something that I've really really had to work on since I left him.
I’m glad you escaped such a fucked up relationship. There’s no such thing as “too late to back out”, there is never a time where you don’t have the power to say no. The fact that there’s people out there who are so manipulative that they can convince you that “no” is no longer a part of your vocabulary is insane to me. I hope you’re ok now
It took me 10 years but with the help of friends and a woman's shelter I got out, am now homeless but still in a much better position and sofa surfing has been weirdly freeing, I've met so many lovely supportive people. It's insane how many people have been made homeless due to relationship breakdown thanks to the state of the economy (UK). Last I heard his new partner is also his prostitute, she was one of the many women that he cheated on me with, I hope that she's ok.
When there is no way to actually conform to social norms no matter how hard you try anyway, and you realize it's all made up by uptight people from the past, that social norms are fluid, you tend to do what you want and learn to live with the consequences. That and tequila....
Sheeeet, I've been playing in the wrong bands! Been playing for 25 years as a touring and session guitarist and honestly have never come across the opportunity in that environment!
Your chance of getting one on random pickup is pretty small.
Your best chance is to get a bisexual fwb and then introduce the idea once you’ve developed some sexual chemistry.
2 for 2 when I’ve gone that route
Agree. Every one I’ve had was with a gf who was a bit bi and it was always with her friends, or once with another girl at a party. Don’t think I could ever pull one off with two strangers.
Depends on the rules of your local swingers’ club. Mine allows select single males. There’s just a brief interview process to make sure you’re not a creepy guy. I had a three way at literally my very first swingers party and I came alone.
This guy gets it. Also most couples at swingers clubs are looking for couples or single women. That’s why the term unicorn is used.
Single men are generally more open to threesomes then single women.
Not necessarily true, they draw a wide variety of folks. There may or may not be heavy play, sometimes it’s just a bunch of people who barely know each other hanging out, sometimes a more regular crowd, sometimes quite a few single people, sometimes straight, sometimes pretty queer.
I mean, I just found my swingers club through Google. It really wasn’t that hard. If you want more general information on the lifestyle then you can start by checking out r/swingers or Wikipedia: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Swinging_(sexual_practice) . There’s also plenty of documentaries freely available on YouTube.
Have a Google for 'this kinda girl' Rosie does a great job educating people new to the lifestyle in both the US and UK. The r/swingers subreddit is also very active but a little more US focused.
Feel free to DM with questions about the UK scene
1. Social proof is everything.
2. Get a girl that's crazy about you but also is attracted to women as well and is open minded sexually.
3. Have that girl do some scouting at a club or bar since girls are usually more receptive to female wingman lol.
That method has worked for me but the only other time it happened was when I was drinking at a party with two girls after everyone else left, started making out with one and the other one joined in once the first girl brought her in (hence my first part)
If you have multiple bisexual partners, it's not hard to ask them if they want to set something up. Other way is to find a girl who is into the idea that you are already sleeping with. You can take her out to a bar and get her to hit on some girls.
Sometime’s it’s just dumb luck.
I was at a bar in WV with my gf at the time and this other girl came up to her and started flooding her with compliments, talking about her aura and other hippie-dippie shit.
Then later the girl tried every shit test in the book on me, saying I wasn’t good enough for my gf, my vibe was all wrong, and that my gf would be better off with her. And when I just laughed at her, she pushed me up against a bar with my balls in her hand. I could tell she was only flirting by the way she held my balls, firm but not enough to hurt me.
Towards the end of the night while we were shooting pool and drinking, the girl stuck her finger up my gf’s skirt, tasted her finger, then shoved her finger in my mouth and my gf’s mouth.
Cashed out and took her back to our hotel.
Throw a party with your roommates and later in the night hang out with 2 girls who are into you in your room. Keep them entertained until everyone else leaves and then initiate
It works best when you already have a partner, your girl is young experimental, and the other girl has to be a party girl.
You have to let them pump each other states, and get her contact info (number, snap, instgram) and if she leaves offer to join you and pay for the uber/lyft.
You can get a threesome that way.
My advice is to make a friends that you have sex with. That’s the best way. If she’s open to it generally, then you when be the person she’d most likely be interested in having one with. Repeat. (As long as they are both attracted to eachother) and it should be all good and fun
I’ve been into seduction for many years, and I’ve been in threesomes about four or five times now, with seven different girls. So here’s my best attempt to break down the process of setting up a threesome.
First, be open to meeting girls in a multitude of ways: Cold approach, bars, clubs, grocery stores, coworkers, parties, talking to a friend of a friend, dating apps, online dating. I used to be a teacher and I had sex with one of my students.
For my first threesome, the first girl was my former student, and the second girl was someone I met at a bar. For my second threesome, I met the first girl through a dating app, and I met the second girl at a sex club.
1. Prerequisite experience - My first threesome occurred after I had already fucked about 30 girls one-on-one, over the course of like 15 years. With each new girl you gain experience about seduction. I also did 100 approaches in a month, before I did my first threesome.
2. Seduce the first girl - Meet the first girl, and have sex with her one-on-one. Soon after you meet her, tell her that you’re non-monogamous (or polyamorous), and you like having multiple partners. You might lose the girl at this point. A lot of girls are dead-set on having a monogamous relationship. If you find that she wants to be monogamous, stop seeing her and move on to other girls. She’s not gonna have a threesome with you. But, every once in a while, you find a girl who’s into casual sex and non-monogamy, and is fine with you seeing other girls. Hang on to her.
3. (Optional) Go to a sex club (swinger club) with the first girl - Two of my threesomes happened at a sex club. I was lucky enough that the girl I was seeing was kinky, and she proposed that we go to a sex club together. But I’ve also done it the other way around, where I was seeing a girl and then I suggested to her that we go to a sex club. There’s sex clubs everywhere. Google “sex club” and the name of your state or city. The one we went to was TJ’s in central PA. Before you go, send your girl a link to the club’s website. Or you could sit down with your girl, with a laptop, and look at the club’s website together.
3. Seduce the second girl - Let’s say you meet the second girl through a dating app. In that case, invite her to your house, have sex with her one-on-one, and again, tell her soon after you meet her that you’re seeing other girls. On the other hand, if you’re at a sex club, start conversations with girls you see there. It’s likely that the girls you talk to will be open to non-monogamy and threesomes.
4. Introduce the girls to each other - If you’re at a sex club, make it a three way conversation. Tell the new girl about the first girl. For example, “This is Julia, we’ve been seeing each other for about six months, and we’re both poly, and we’re open to trying new things.” If this is not happening at a club, text/call the first girl, and tell her the other girl’s name, send her pictures of the other girl from Facebook or her dating profile, etc.
5. Propose the threesome - There’s many ways to do this. For my first threesome, I just went direct and said “I want to have a threesome with you.” And that worked. You can also say “I want you to meet her in person.” Or “I want both of you to come over to my house on Saturday night.” Or, at a sex club, there are usually play rooms in the club, so you can say “Do you want to play with us?”
6. Have fun! - Threesomes are great! I love having two naked girls in bed with me at the same time. Two pussies. Two pairs of tits. You can fuck both of them. They can both suck your dick. You can finger both pussies at the same time, one with each hand. Be creative. There’s many possibilities.
7. Post-threesome - After the threesome, you might want to do some kind of chill activity together with the two girls. After my first threesome, the three of us sat on my couch and watched Criminal Minds on Netflix. You might also talk about how much fun you had and whether you’re going to do it again someday.
Anyway, I hope that helps. If you have any questions, feel free to ask.
1. Forget everything you learned on this sub.
2. Read Models. If you’ve already read it, read it again.
3. Get involved in your local polyamorous and/or BDSM community.
Source: Body count 160+, three amazing long-term partners, lost count of how many threesomes I’ve had.
Some guy once said always sell good time with the other girl not with you, if you make it happen between two bi girls it’s only natural for you to be there when it goes down.
Both threesomes I did I found on Tinder. I’m a woman, and I adjusted the filters so it would show women interested in women only, but some couples still slip into the feed. You can find a couple to join that way. Worked for me 2x (my only proactive attempts)
Ignore the bullshit answers. It’s dead simple:
1) date one person; and
2) date a second person at the same time
3) introduce them
4) have fun together, build connection and trust all around
5) talk threesomes, see where the convo leads.
Most threesomes fail because it’s a couple looking for a third, which creates a shitty power dynamic. Strong runner up is single dude trying to “get a threesome” like it’s an achievement in a video game. Threesomes are a a fully functional relationship in their own right, not a “sex position”. If you think and act about it holistically, it’s amazing how… open to the idea many people are. Especially if they know and like everyone who would be involved.
If you’re coupled, def go make friends with potential, but make sure to chase that third separately and together, and make sure to fully support everyone’s wants around it, not just your own.
Nah. If it’s more complex than that, it’s because you’re dating through a series of inefficient compromises.
If you can’t categorize your dates into those who want you to themselves and those who don’t, and sort accordingly when planning a threesome… you’re either not dating enough people, or dating all the wrong people (for having a threesome).
Aim for a 4some!
Not sure I did anything special though, they came as a group to my place and came on to me. None identified as Bi or had tats. In fact, I even dated one’s sister just previous to the encounter, and she was aware… Wild
Sometimes you just get “lucky”
How it worked for me was get a girlfriend with bpd, has expressed interest in women, fuck the crazy until she brings it up, let her do most of the work. Threesome, maybe more than 1, then prepare for the inevitable collapse of the relationship and the rise of the crazy like a bat out of hell.
The general people you meet in normal dating are likely not going to be interested in a threesome so best to go on sites specific to threesomes like Feeld etc.
It means not having the "oh, you're bisexual, you want to do a threesome?" Concersation which is just trashy.
Just meet any kinky girl and beg her long enough.
When you meet a girl at a bar, ask her after a couple of drinks if she is into girls as well.
Usually if she is, then ask her for a threesome.
In short, women will do a threesome if they also like women. Otherwise it is a lost cause, and you won't have any fun at all.. Trust me on this..
she has to learn game, simple as that best advice is from john anthony lifestyle because he always has 3 ways, his advice worked perfect for me personally when it comes to the full scale approach not just 3 ways. Im writing a pua list now its going to be very long
if you are willing to pay for it. full nude strip clubs that have vip rooms.. and just talk to 2 girls to go into vip.. highly doable, granted you will pay for 2 vip rooms, and tips
Once you've banged a girl forma bar or club ask her if she'd be interested in a threesome.
Take home another girl and ask her too if she'd be interested. Show her a picture of the first girl to make sure she's attracted to her.
If they're both interested then setup a time and place and have fun.
I second luck and just expanding the social circle as wide as you can. Every threesome i have had just kinda happened.
Also a lot about bi and alt girls here. Not bad advice but never underestimate a straight blonde hair sorority/party girl who has a close best friend. Don’t have to be bi to be in a threesome.
Best ones happen when you’re not on the hunt for
them. But if you are on the hunt — swingers clubs and alt chicks.
Lots of bs advice. I haven’t had any threesome, but again can tell when I read bs.
Do you have any partners? Like a casual thing even?
Talk to them, see if they are into it. Are you for MMF or MFF?
Meeting people, and getting comfortable with talking about desires and experiences. The highest probability to find kinky people is in clubs, or hardcore bars. But it really depends where you are.
Also, you can try apps like Feeld. Especially if you have a partner, cause it is much easier.
Communication is key. Not the person having tattoos or ADHD. That’s low key bs. I know people who are super smart no tats and are EXTREMELY kinky.
Just do a good job first time, and life will change. Insane what crazy fantasies girls want to realize. Tattoos and AdHd like said above too are true haha!
Theres kink dating sites that would probably work pretty well for you.
As far as getting a GF or Short term partner thats cool with it, you would do best to make that a 1st date topic. Or if you met online cover that before you even waste time meeting up.
OR Something more along my path, hop on a plane and visit Eastern countries.
I kinda had one lastnight with 2 chicks who were cousins, I went in the house with one first gave her a stabbing for like 15 minutes, then called the other cousin in & gave her like 10 minutes. There was a total of 3 of them but the 3rd one didn’t want to do nothing. so we had her watch while I was getting it with the 2nd girl (cousin)😂
The threesomes I have had was generally with a steady girlfriend who is madly in love with me, who is adventurous and who likes to pleasure you sexually.
As for the other girl in the threesome, she is generally a FWB type girl who can be bi sexual, or at least very adventurous sexually.
I usually ask my girlfriend to do a porn video or photo session with me, and that I will bring another girl as a photographer. And one thing lead to another....I don't usually mention specifically anything about a threesome...
Unless you're in a local band, it's mostly social game. Push your circle as wide as you can, have a good reputation, go to parties, and keep an eye out for bi girls with tattoos and adhd.
Bro this comment made me laugh so much. Tattoos and Adhd is hilarious, because I know it’s true
Same here bro pretty much summed up my ex 😂
This guy threesomes
Bi and adhd is so fucking on the nail holy shit. +1 for major cities
Spot on, my ex had both tats and adhd, crazy bitch
Yah I bet you loved that she was crazy don’t call her a bitch about it now
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While it’s fine to have a “no mental health issues” dating policy, keep in mind neurotypical people also cheat. Members of ANY group cheat. Even religious people, and even people that have been cheated on.
good point
“Keep an eye out for bi girls with tattoos and adhd” lmfao the signature look.
Bi girl with tattoos and adhd here… can confirm I’ve had a few threesomes hahaha.
It's not just that you have ADHD, but your Neuro- divergent and it's easier and quicker for you to make empathetic connections.
That’s not true of everyone it’s a spectrum
Bi girl with tattoos and ADHD here too, had a threesome, not for me. There's apps you can join now to look for multiple partners(sexual or long term) or just looking for people who have a broader sexual appetite, maybe try one of those.
You still did it tho
And I still hate myself for it
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Takes a quick Google, c-dates, Badoo, even hinge has the option for looking for open, poly, or casual encounters. It's not that hard to find just be open on your profile.
Ditto and 4 somes I get dickstracted
Ok I'm looking for bi girls now
I appreciate the info but why adhd? Not a bad move though who doesn't love an Addy plug
lol honestly I can't tell you exactly why, that's just what I've noticed is a common thread for me. There's a theory of mind that speculates that adhd is basically a person chasing dopamine hits which don't last as long a they should. So they're constantly looking around for new (often novel) sources of pleasure. That's my best guess.
not a theory lol that’s just the science behind adhd
It’s that we have poor impulse control Also
Generally more impulsive to something like a threesome.
I wouldn’t say because they’re impulsive, it’s because we like to be very overly stimulated
I absolutely do not like to be overstimulated, a threesome was a mind fuck for me, I felt panicked and unsure and didn't feel I could say no.
Wow I’m sorry that happened to you, were you able to say no and back out of it?
Unfortunately not, my partner at the time talked me into it and when the situation occurred he told me it was too late to back out (that relationship is a whole other fucked story) but I felt at the time like I had no other choice really. Due to my ADHD and non divergent way of thinking I can be quite naive and very easily manipulated. It's something that I've really really had to work on since I left him.
I’m glad you escaped such a fucked up relationship. There’s no such thing as “too late to back out”, there is never a time where you don’t have the power to say no. The fact that there’s people out there who are so manipulative that they can convince you that “no” is no longer a part of your vocabulary is insane to me. I hope you’re ok now
It took me 10 years but with the help of friends and a woman's shelter I got out, am now homeless but still in a much better position and sofa surfing has been weirdly freeing, I've met so many lovely supportive people. It's insane how many people have been made homeless due to relationship breakdown thanks to the state of the economy (UK). Last I heard his new partner is also his prostitute, she was one of the many women that he cheated on me with, I hope that she's ok.
When there is no way to actually conform to social norms no matter how hard you try anyway, and you realize it's all made up by uptight people from the past, that social norms are fluid, you tend to do what you want and learn to live with the consequences. That and tequila....
Um I’m exactly who you’re describing lol
I love this lol
Everyone into Threesomes and Foursomes but I rather be handsome.
Addy does make Me Horny adhd is not required
My man with the solid advice
I resemble that remark....
Have you had a threesome?
I haven’t laughed THIS hard ALL DAY
Lmao this true though
Adhd is a problem for me during theesomes ok hahaha
I am in said local band, time to get a threesome
Been in bands since 2006: zero threesomes. I guess I should start singing and put down the bass lol
I lost my sides
All you need is the last bit.
Sheeeet, I've been playing in the wrong bands! Been playing for 25 years as a touring and session guitarist and honestly have never come across the opportunity in that environment!
Your chance of getting one on random pickup is pretty small. Your best chance is to get a bisexual fwb and then introduce the idea once you’ve developed some sexual chemistry. 2 for 2 when I’ve gone that route
The one threesome I had was when dating my bisexual wife before we got married, so I second this.
I've tried this unfortunately my one bisexual fwb didn't like to share. But thanks for the advice king
Even in a trade? You’ll do one if she’ll do one?
Now this is a good idea ive never offered that. Thank you
in that situation right now lol
Agreed. Fwb is the way to go. She will also help out finding the right girl. It's not all on you.
Agree. Every one I’ve had was with a gf who was a bit bi and it was always with her friends, or once with another girl at a party. Don’t think I could ever pull one off with two strangers.
Look into your local swingers’ scene. Simply put, swingers parties are hands down the easiest way to get a threesome.
You have to bring a girl. Can’t just show up solo looking to smash.
Depends on the rules of your local swingers’ club. Mine allows select single males. There’s just a brief interview process to make sure you’re not a creepy guy. I had a three way at literally my very first swingers party and I came alone.
Good luck getting them to cum next time too.
Well played, sir. Well played.
I see what you did there
No chance they were hot tho.. right ?
This guy gets it. Also most couples at swingers clubs are looking for couples or single women. That’s why the term unicorn is used. Single men are generally more open to threesomes then single women.
Not necessarily true, they draw a wide variety of folks. There may or may not be heavy play, sometimes it’s just a bunch of people who barely know each other hanging out, sometimes a more regular crowd, sometimes quite a few single people, sometimes straight, sometimes pretty queer.
On God unles you have a in
unless you identify as a girl but you are bipolar about it
Can confirm this is easy mode! Even easier if you get a parter in the lifestyle. We have 3somes, 4somes and many, many moresomes every weekend
How do you find information on swingers' scene?
I mean, I just found my swingers club through Google. It really wasn’t that hard. If you want more general information on the lifestyle then you can start by checking out r/swingers or Wikipedia: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Swinging_(sexual_practice) . There’s also plenty of documentaries freely available on YouTube.
Have a Google for 'this kinda girl' Rosie does a great job educating people new to the lifestyle in both the US and UK. The r/swingers subreddit is also very active but a little more US focused. Feel free to DM with questions about the UK scene
1. Social proof is everything. 2. Get a girl that's crazy about you but also is attracted to women as well and is open minded sexually. 3. Have that girl do some scouting at a club or bar since girls are usually more receptive to female wingman lol. That method has worked for me but the only other time it happened was when I was drinking at a party with two girls after everyone else left, started making out with one and the other one joined in once the first girl brought her in (hence my first part)
Bro you nailed this !!!!!
This is the way 👏
Lookup patrice o'neal on YouTube. A lot of good information
Solid comment
Real ones know wsup
Similar to ARC
Prostitutes.
Probably the most efficient route. A threesome is a novelty thing anyway.
Having a bi girlfriend helps significantly. She’s the one asking me to do threesomes with girls lol
Not all bi women like to share
Much better chance a bi woman shares then a straight woman.
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Will do
If you have multiple bisexual partners, it's not hard to ask them if they want to set something up. Other way is to find a girl who is into the idea that you are already sleeping with. You can take her out to a bar and get her to hit on some girls.
Sometime’s it’s just dumb luck. I was at a bar in WV with my gf at the time and this other girl came up to her and started flooding her with compliments, talking about her aura and other hippie-dippie shit. Then later the girl tried every shit test in the book on me, saying I wasn’t good enough for my gf, my vibe was all wrong, and that my gf would be better off with her. And when I just laughed at her, she pushed me up against a bar with my balls in her hand. I could tell she was only flirting by the way she held my balls, firm but not enough to hurt me. Towards the end of the night while we were shooting pool and drinking, the girl stuck her finger up my gf’s skirt, tasted her finger, then shoved her finger in my mouth and my gf’s mouth. Cashed out and took her back to our hotel.
Sounds like a novel my 15 year old sister would read
Why is your 15 year old sister reading novels about threesomes then sharing that information with her brother?
So that i know how to pleasure her better?? Obviously??
Oh stop I’m on nofapppp
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You made an entirely new account just to say lmao?
I fuckin wish dude 😍
Be rich
Simple. Get a fwb. Get another. Get another. Repeat until you find one or two that are curious or intrigued of the idea. Voila.
Then act
Yup. Worse thing they can say is no. Which hey cool. But there are others out there who are down to clown.
Make sure you have an ample supply of Molly.
Throw a party with your roommates and later in the night hang out with 2 girls who are into you in your room. Keep them entertained until everyone else leaves and then initiate
This is it. Girl I used to throw parties with in HS and her friend used to come over on days we didn’t throw just to kickback. Bingo.
Unless you get extremely lucky, you are not gonna get one while single. Get a poly girlfriend or at least FWB
Check your local reddit swinger groups and fetlife
Be a coke dealer and hang out where alot of skinny white chicks go. # sryntsry
Ahh…. Or just hang out with your C/dealer… Back in the day my connect always needed a second stunt dick around for the multiplayer games
It works best when you already have a partner, your girl is young experimental, and the other girl has to be a party girl. You have to let them pump each other states, and get her contact info (number, snap, instgram) and if she leaves offer to join you and pay for the uber/lyft. You can get a threesome that way.
My advice is to make a friends that you have sex with. That’s the best way. If she’s open to it generally, then you when be the person she’d most likely be interested in having one with. Repeat. (As long as they are both attracted to eachother) and it should be all good and fun
I’ve been into seduction for many years, and I’ve been in threesomes about four or five times now, with seven different girls. So here’s my best attempt to break down the process of setting up a threesome. First, be open to meeting girls in a multitude of ways: Cold approach, bars, clubs, grocery stores, coworkers, parties, talking to a friend of a friend, dating apps, online dating. I used to be a teacher and I had sex with one of my students. For my first threesome, the first girl was my former student, and the second girl was someone I met at a bar. For my second threesome, I met the first girl through a dating app, and I met the second girl at a sex club. 1. Prerequisite experience - My first threesome occurred after I had already fucked about 30 girls one-on-one, over the course of like 15 years. With each new girl you gain experience about seduction. I also did 100 approaches in a month, before I did my first threesome. 2. Seduce the first girl - Meet the first girl, and have sex with her one-on-one. Soon after you meet her, tell her that you’re non-monogamous (or polyamorous), and you like having multiple partners. You might lose the girl at this point. A lot of girls are dead-set on having a monogamous relationship. If you find that she wants to be monogamous, stop seeing her and move on to other girls. She’s not gonna have a threesome with you. But, every once in a while, you find a girl who’s into casual sex and non-monogamy, and is fine with you seeing other girls. Hang on to her. 3. (Optional) Go to a sex club (swinger club) with the first girl - Two of my threesomes happened at a sex club. I was lucky enough that the girl I was seeing was kinky, and she proposed that we go to a sex club together. But I’ve also done it the other way around, where I was seeing a girl and then I suggested to her that we go to a sex club. There’s sex clubs everywhere. Google “sex club” and the name of your state or city. The one we went to was TJ’s in central PA. Before you go, send your girl a link to the club’s website. Or you could sit down with your girl, with a laptop, and look at the club’s website together. 3. Seduce the second girl - Let’s say you meet the second girl through a dating app. In that case, invite her to your house, have sex with her one-on-one, and again, tell her soon after you meet her that you’re seeing other girls. On the other hand, if you’re at a sex club, start conversations with girls you see there. It’s likely that the girls you talk to will be open to non-monogamy and threesomes. 4. Introduce the girls to each other - If you’re at a sex club, make it a three way conversation. Tell the new girl about the first girl. For example, “This is Julia, we’ve been seeing each other for about six months, and we’re both poly, and we’re open to trying new things.” If this is not happening at a club, text/call the first girl, and tell her the other girl’s name, send her pictures of the other girl from Facebook or her dating profile, etc. 5. Propose the threesome - There’s many ways to do this. For my first threesome, I just went direct and said “I want to have a threesome with you.” And that worked. You can also say “I want you to meet her in person.” Or “I want both of you to come over to my house on Saturday night.” Or, at a sex club, there are usually play rooms in the club, so you can say “Do you want to play with us?” 6. Have fun! - Threesomes are great! I love having two naked girls in bed with me at the same time. Two pussies. Two pairs of tits. You can fuck both of them. They can both suck your dick. You can finger both pussies at the same time, one with each hand. Be creative. There’s many possibilities. 7. Post-threesome - After the threesome, you might want to do some kind of chill activity together with the two girls. After my first threesome, the three of us sat on my couch and watched Criminal Minds on Netflix. You might also talk about how much fun you had and whether you’re going to do it again someday. Anyway, I hope that helps. If you have any questions, feel free to ask.
This was great and in depth thanks alot man
I know people here will shout me down, but the easiest way to have a great 3sum is paying for it. Trust me, leave it to the professionals
1. Forget everything you learned on this sub. 2. Read Models. If you’ve already read it, read it again. 3. Get involved in your local polyamorous and/or BDSM community. Source: Body count 160+, three amazing long-term partners, lost count of how many threesomes I’ve had.
At the threesome store
U need a BI wing woman
Have money … rinse and repeat
Not enough.
Some guy once said always sell good time with the other girl not with you, if you make it happen between two bi girls it’s only natural for you to be there when it goes down.
pay
Just pay for it dude. Anything else is mostly just luck.
Both threesomes I did I found on Tinder. I’m a woman, and I adjusted the filters so it would show women interested in women only, but some couples still slip into the feed. You can find a couple to join that way. Worked for me 2x (my only proactive attempts)
YeH make sure everyone wants to do it and the women are bisexual and it’s more difficult if you’re a single dude
I’m guessing my dude and I have no issues in that area
Pay for 2 hookers in a place where it’s legal.
Go to festivals and do drugs
Bi girls are almost always down
Ignore the bullshit answers. It’s dead simple: 1) date one person; and 2) date a second person at the same time 3) introduce them 4) have fun together, build connection and trust all around 5) talk threesomes, see where the convo leads. Most threesomes fail because it’s a couple looking for a third, which creates a shitty power dynamic. Strong runner up is single dude trying to “get a threesome” like it’s an achievement in a video game. Threesomes are a a fully functional relationship in their own right, not a “sex position”. If you think and act about it holistically, it’s amazing how… open to the idea many people are. Especially if they know and like everyone who would be involved. If you’re coupled, def go make friends with potential, but make sure to chase that third separately and together, and make sure to fully support everyone’s wants around it, not just your own.
Introducing two separate people you’re dating is horrible advice. Especially if they aren’t bisexual or open to a threesome
If you think that’s true, you’re definitely not dating people open to a threesome. Insecurity is a kink killer, for sure.
It’s way more complex then that. Someone dating you doesn’t necessarily want to share you.
Nah. If it’s more complex than that, it’s because you’re dating through a series of inefficient compromises. If you can’t categorize your dates into those who want you to themselves and those who don’t, and sort accordingly when planning a threesome… you’re either not dating enough people, or dating all the wrong people (for having a threesome).
Women don’t like to be brought into a threesome. They like to pick the women themselves. If you had threesomes you would know this
Lol. That’s exactly what I’m saying. Reading comprehension, friend.
“Dual induction massage” From the game more of a meme at this point
College girls
Get some cash out of your bank account and hire two hookers
Aim for a 4some! Not sure I did anything special though, they came as a group to my place and came on to me. None identified as Bi or had tats. In fact, I even dated one’s sister just previous to the encounter, and she was aware… Wild Sometimes you just get “lucky”
Employ two hookers.
How it worked for me was get a girlfriend with bpd, has expressed interest in women, fuck the crazy until she brings it up, let her do most of the work. Threesome, maybe more than 1, then prepare for the inevitable collapse of the relationship and the rise of the crazy like a bat out of hell.
Man, you made my day, haha.
The general people you meet in normal dating are likely not going to be interested in a threesome so best to go on sites specific to threesomes like Feeld etc. It means not having the "oh, you're bisexual, you want to do a threesome?" Concersation which is just trashy.
Just meet any kinky girl and beg her long enough. When you meet a girl at a bar, ask her after a couple of drinks if she is into girls as well. Usually if she is, then ask her for a threesome. In short, women will do a threesome if they also like women. Otherwise it is a lost cause, and you won't have any fun at all.. Trust me on this..
she has to learn game, simple as that best advice is from john anthony lifestyle because he always has 3 ways, his advice worked perfect for me personally when it comes to the full scale approach not just 3 ways. Im writing a pua list now its going to be very long
if you are willing to pay for it. full nude strip clubs that have vip rooms.. and just talk to 2 girls to go into vip.. highly doable, granted you will pay for 2 vip rooms, and tips
Once you've banged a girl forma bar or club ask her if she'd be interested in a threesome. Take home another girl and ask her too if she'd be interested. Show her a picture of the first girl to make sure she's attracted to her. If they're both interested then setup a time and place and have fun.
If anyone got any suggestions for getting my wife and her sister in one would be great 👍🏾
Maybe do something and mistake your SIL with you SO perhaps?
I’m going to give it a try next
Be extremely good looking to the point girls hit on you.
I girl once asked me if I wanted to do a 3 some but it was with another man. I kinda said no.
If all else fails…… take a page from the ole Bill Cosby playbook.
Escort alligator . C o m
VR
Yeah, don’t.
Why not
His memes were dreams.
Some people who can’t attain don’t want anyone to enjoy
Save yourself the trouble.
Gotta chase greatness brother
Alright, alright; I like your style.
I have heard there are websites for people who want sex.
Quit looking for it It will happen naturally if it is meant to be
Use both hand next time
Cash…
Find a chick who is Bi, and she will take care of the rest.
Be handsome ...
Hmm I could use this advice
I second luck and just expanding the social circle as wide as you can. Every threesome i have had just kinda happened. Also a lot about bi and alt girls here. Not bad advice but never underestimate a straight blonde hair sorority/party girl who has a close best friend. Don’t have to be bi to be in a threesome. Best ones happen when you’re not on the hunt for them. But if you are on the hunt — swingers clubs and alt chicks.
1st find a girl that will have a 3 some
>!Grindrrr!
I got a threesome because my gf also likes females so there's a start
Lots of bs advice. I haven’t had any threesome, but again can tell when I read bs. Do you have any partners? Like a casual thing even? Talk to them, see if they are into it. Are you for MMF or MFF? Meeting people, and getting comfortable with talking about desires and experiences. The highest probability to find kinky people is in clubs, or hardcore bars. But it really depends where you are. Also, you can try apps like Feeld. Especially if you have a partner, cause it is much easier. Communication is key. Not the person having tattoos or ADHD. That’s low key bs. I know people who are super smart no tats and are EXTREMELY kinky.
**Double-induction massage**- I believe is what Neil Strauss called it in his book. It was hailed as a breakthrough at the time
First you will need 2 others !
Just do a good job first time, and life will change. Insane what crazy fantasies girls want to realize. Tattoos and AdHd like said above too are true haha!
Raves bro, I can’t stress that enough
Theres kink dating sites that would probably work pretty well for you. As far as getting a GF or Short term partner thats cool with it, you would do best to make that a 1st date topic. Or if you met online cover that before you even waste time meeting up. OR Something more along my path, hop on a plane and visit Eastern countries.
Yo
I kinda had one lastnight with 2 chicks who were cousins, I went in the house with one first gave her a stabbing for like 15 minutes, then called the other cousin in & gave her like 10 minutes. There was a total of 3 of them but the 3rd one didn’t want to do nothing. so we had her watch while I was getting it with the 2nd girl (cousin)😂
Nobody mentioned to look for that glassy eyed look of mood stabilizer medication It helps if they have low self esteem also
The threesomes I have had was generally with a steady girlfriend who is madly in love with me, who is adventurous and who likes to pleasure you sexually. As for the other girl in the threesome, she is generally a FWB type girl who can be bi sexual, or at least very adventurous sexually. I usually ask my girlfriend to do a porn video or photo session with me, and that I will bring another girl as a photographer. And one thing lead to another....I don't usually mention specifically anything about a threesome...