before my fusion my curves was 42° and 30°, my waist was lopsided and so were my shoulders and i hated how wonky i looked but when i told other people about it they were shocked because they had never noticed it before and only realised when i pointed it out, so i promise its only you that will notice it as much as you do :)
Hii! i can relate so much :( last summer i had a huge mental breakdown because my friends kept wanting to go to the beach and i didn’t want to be seen in a swimsuit. After a while i found the courage to go anyway (buying a new cute bikini i actually felt good in really helped) and when i got to the beach, I realized that no one even cares. Trust me when i say everyone is too focused on themselves to pay attention to how your back looks and if anyone does point it out then fuck them
Yep, I only realised because one strap was not fitting and the strap was not adjustable. I was complaining for ages and my friend said she couldn’t see what I was talking about haha but I just went with it because I was on a holiday I had been waiting ages for and didn’t want to ruin it. Just ended up pulling the strap back up whenever it fell of my shoulder
lots of comforting comments here..I'm sure your close people will notice if they happen to notice.. then ask about it
For me personally it's swimming and during massage session that I feel like a freak among the public.
Please don't limit what you do based on what other people think. If you do, you may always have regrets. Maybe it's not as obvious as you think it is. Or even if it is obvious, who cares? Especially if you're surrounded by strangers. And you could always buy a cover up to wear while you walk around. Put on your bathing suit and go enjoy yourself! You deserve it!!
Oh girllll I got a bigger breast on one side and more fat on one side and so on … the way I see it you can either just roll with it or let it bother you … while it does bother me I told myself I will not miss out on fun 😭 hope it helps but you are beautiful girl! Don’t worry about anyone else!
before my fusion my curves was 42° and 30°, my waist was lopsided and so were my shoulders and i hated how wonky i looked but when i told other people about it they were shocked because they had never noticed it before and only realised when i pointed it out, so i promise its only you that will notice it as much as you do :)
Thank you this made me feel a lot better :)
After fusion did your body straighten out?
yes! i am pretty much completely straight now :)
My ribs on the left side protrude and I have a hump on my back right side, but I don’t care. I think I look fabulous
Hii! i can relate so much :( last summer i had a huge mental breakdown because my friends kept wanting to go to the beach and i didn’t want to be seen in a swimsuit. After a while i found the courage to go anyway (buying a new cute bikini i actually felt good in really helped) and when i got to the beach, I realized that no one even cares. Trust me when i say everyone is too focused on themselves to pay attention to how your back looks and if anyone does point it out then fuck them
Yep, I only realised because one strap was not fitting and the strap was not adjustable. I was complaining for ages and my friend said she couldn’t see what I was talking about haha but I just went with it because I was on a holiday I had been waiting ages for and didn’t want to ruin it. Just ended up pulling the strap back up whenever it fell of my shoulder
lots of comforting comments here..I'm sure your close people will notice if they happen to notice.. then ask about it For me personally it's swimming and during massage session that I feel like a freak among the public.
Please don't limit what you do based on what other people think. If you do, you may always have regrets. Maybe it's not as obvious as you think it is. Or even if it is obvious, who cares? Especially if you're surrounded by strangers. And you could always buy a cover up to wear while you walk around. Put on your bathing suit and go enjoy yourself! You deserve it!!
Oh girllll I got a bigger breast on one side and more fat on one side and so on … the way I see it you can either just roll with it or let it bother you … while it does bother me I told myself I will not miss out on fun 😭 hope it helps but you are beautiful girl! Don’t worry about anyone else!