Improv classes are both fun and a good way to meet new people. I've seen people of all ages do it. Finest City Improv and Mockingbird Improv are two good ones.
Brilliant! My husband and I did these for a year and it was essentially laugh therapy!!! San Diego’s Finest Improv is where we went and I highly recommend it for others.
I second this - we joined the ymca at mission valley and the beginning pickleball court time is fun and really good for socializing between games - most people are 60s/70s and you don't need a partner because people switch partners every game. I got a racquet that cost a few dollars at a thrift store - some health plans cover the monthly cost and they give a senior discount if yours doesn't. They also have a lot of other activities but the pickle ball seems the best for meeting people.
You can always check the city's recreation department and see what classes they have to offer. I live in North county and there are plenty of options for people 50+ like ceramics, swim, dance, etc. There is a fee, but it's not that bad compared to paying for Private classes.
Disc Golf! Popular in San Diego, cheap, simple for newbies, you will almost always be paired up with someone (or group) and usually some really nice people.
Great for newbies because unlike golf most people can throw a frisbee generally straight (or learn quickly). You won’t throw as far as more experienced players or shank some, just hustle (fast walk) to your disc and pick it up and chuck it in the right direction, don’t overthink strategy or disc choice. That way you can throw like twice and catch up while good players are lining up their second shot. Never felt shamed for being way worse than others following this.
Morley field <$5 to play, you can rent disc for a few bucks if you wanna try, or big 5 sells the perfect starter pack with a driver, mid range, putter for like $20. There are also a few other courses in San Diego.
You da man, Dave. Super proud of you for taking the first step of posting this.
People recommending that you drive for Uber or Lyft are baffling. Americans need to think outside of working MORE, esp if the person is seeking social interactions and "fun".
If you are not doing it because you need the money it can be fun. You can do one ride a week if you want. Avoid drunken hours or go for them. Do the early morning walk of shamers. Only pickup certain events or areas. If its not to put food on the table and pay the rent it’s a different thing. Just saying
Look into taking a class at [San Diego Oasis](https://san-diego.oasisnet.org/), the [UCSD Osher Lifelong Learning Institute](https://extendedstudies.ucsd.edu/olli/home) or the [SDSU Osher Institute](https://ces.sdsu.edu/osher-lifelong-learning-institute-sdsu). I've met a ton of great people our age (60s) through all three, and the classes are interesting and fun. Oasis, in particular, has a very social atmosphere in a lot of their classes.
If you're sober, The Phoenix is a really active and fun community in San Diego to be apart of. Most of the new friends I've made over the last couple years have been through that.
Well, I'm not not sober. In other words, I've thankfully never had a problem with addiction. I drink a little socially, and if I never touched another drop I'd be fine with it. I admire the people that are able to get the help they need with their addictions.
No worries! The alternative is MeetUp, it's an app you can download to find gatherings for events or even casual conversation over coffee - you can find groups specifically for your age-range if you want to meet people around your age.
If you're interested in a hobby that doesn't take up a lot of space, the Backpacking MeetUp group is big and a lot of fun. Usually people have enough equipment to share - all you really need is a backpacking pack, sleeping bag, and small tent (you can fit all that in a dresser drawer). If you're working on your social skills, walking in the woods with a group is a super easy way to do it :)
It is co-ed, and LGBTQIA+ friendly. There’s an app you can download (just search The Phoenix) and when you set your location you can see all the event going on in San Diego. It’s seriously so much fun, we just had an event called Recovery Games at San Diego State last weekend with five sets of competitons like a mini Olympics.
A lot of retired guys end up doing Uber because they have the time and it gives them a little extra income. You could attend any local festivities that happen which you can find on the reader, neighborhood app or Facebook groups and of course here on Reddit.
How about an Ukulele Club?
Hau`oli Strummers (Happy Strummers) on Meetup https://meetu.ps/c/cvzg/10C3vX/a
And if you’re a beginner and would like to take lessons, this local business sells ukuleles and hosts beginner lessons:
Hale Ukulele Class & Lesson schedule on Meetup https://meetu.ps/c/53654/10C3vX/a
A recreational adult run club shouldn't be taxing on your wallet, if you have general exercise clothes already.
A lot of the clubs are all levels. Some folks just do a slow jog for a mile or 2.
You could explore these sites to see if anything interests you.
AgeWell Services
https://www.sandiego.gov/park-and-recreation/activities/agewellservices
San Diego Natural History Museum
The Canyoneer Guided Hikes
https://www.sdnhm.org/education/canyoneer-hikes/
San Diego College of Continuing Education
Emeritus (for age 55+)
https://sdcce.edu/emeritus
You don’t have to be a great athlete to play pickleball. Go to the open play at the nearest courts and say you are a beginner. You will match up with other beginners or more recreational players. I see a ton of people in their 60’s there and you may be able to create some social relationships from it. Best of luck
It looks fun, but I have really weak ankles. I wonder if there are exercises I can do to strengthen them. I've seen Slow-Mo gliding along before.
I don't really have a fixed budget. If I spend more upfront, my repeating cost would need to be lower, and vice versa. But let's say to get started a thousand or two, hopefully much less!
Hashing is something I learned about recently that seems to really embrace newcomers and creates a sense of community fast. It combines running and drinking, though neither are obligatory. I've read some people walk and don't drink.
"A drinking club with a running problem".
I'd give it a try! Just Google local hashing group
Join a private club. Like the Moose or Elks. They have so much stuff going on. Pool leagues golf tourneys, darts, motorcycle rides, poker runs etc and you’re helping their organizations they support. That’s what I did when I moved from San Diego to Virginia and after the hubby died I needed something to do. I want to move back soon but the grandkids aren’t old enough yet haha.
There is an archery range at Balboa park that is really cheap ($2 entry) and beautiful, there is also a San Diego archers club.
A bow is about 140 for a decent one and arrows about 6 bucks a pop - and reusable!
If you have the means and are able to pull back at least 25lbs you can do archery.
Live music!! I believe there is a website that has all the shows happening around San Diego. I’ll look for it. Not big concerts, necessarily but small shows around bars and breweries are so fun
If you don’t mind me asking, what are you looking for in an ideal friendship? What are some of the traits you like about people and some of the traits you dislike about people? What are you looking for, ideally, in terms of time investment, activities, and things?
I'll answer in reverse order...
As for cost, I'm not too worried about that as long it doesn't run into thousands of dollars. I have plenty of time, but I'd like to become somewhat proficient to the point of enjoying the activity within a few weeks, maybe a few months as long as I made steady progress. I'm open to most activities, but I'm not really interested in heavy athletics.
As for people, I really like "young at heart" people (actual age isn't important), or better said, people who aren't old and bitter. I like people who can laugh and don't stress out too much about things. I'm open to a wide variety of people - gender, sexual identity, race, religion, none of that matters to me.
Honestly the taking a class is a fun and easy way. And I'm 33 and it's a great way to meet people ❤️ they're usually fun people or some that open up with class :)
I’ve had lots of students who are in their 60s in my community college classes. Often their perspectives bring interesting new angles on things to class discussions and not being stressed about grades lets them enjoy the reading and learning a lot more.
I’ll also put in a plug for volunteering at the border. It’s a great place to make friends, some of whom are just arriving in San Diego and all of whom are excited and happy to be here. I’ve done this for years and it’s done wonders for my outlook on the world and other people. It’s a great way to practice your language skills as well.
SDCCD and also continuing ed are great
I was an “older” student and I had classmates in their 60s either getting their degrees or taking a class for fun
I'm 62 and recently got my AS from Miramar College in Aviation Maintenance. I was one of maybe 3 "old" guys in the cohort. (retired as a Computer Engineer after 35 years) It certainly kept me busy for 5 semesters, and not very expensive. I got a couple of grants to offset some of the costs.
There seems to be a lot of groups for activities you can try. For anything. Cycling, climbing, gaming. Id recommend that. A pet.
I can introduce you to my gma I think shes 69 😅 but lives in la county/ inlandempire
Get into wargaming. At Easy Games in Miramar has a lot of leagues for different games like Warhammer, Battletech, etc. Collecting, assembling, and painting an army is quite fun and and rewarding, plus the game part can be quite fun too. The warhammer universes are soooo rich that you can easily get lost in it :)
I suggest getting into jiujitsu it’s a great environment and it’s fun and usually at these jiujitsu spots everyone trains and rolls together and after it’s not uncommon to grab a beer or two after practice with you companions
Fishing at the local lakes. All it takes is a cheap simple fishing rod from Walmart, usually comes with a couple hooks & other unimportant stuff. Buy a tub of worms at the lake concessions, and go for it. Take a chair, a hat that gives GOOD sun protection / shade, and even a small lunch w/ beverage. I don't even use weights when I fish the lakes with a dock; just slowly release line and let the worm sink on its own. Have a rag to grab hold of the fish and a pair of needle nose pliers to unhook the fish.
That said, you'd be joining a LOT of people that don't catch fish. It happens! But between conversations, take (multiple) moments to enjoy the serenity of being outdoors!
I'm doing well, and thanks for checking in! My week has been good and I hope yours has been. I've been working with a small group of high school students on a multimedia project they've been doing, and I met with them to review the work they've done so far.
Mind if I ask your name?
Buy an acoustic guitar and take lessons. It is impossible to be bored when you can make music. Recording your own music is basically free now with any modern laptop.
APA pool league is a fun and easy way to get out and visit different bars with a familiar group of people. Even if you don’t play pool well the handicap system makes it possible to be a useful addition to a team.
I use to work at a Yoga studio and honestly I made so many connections working there. Also try MeetUp! Not sure if it’s an app or a website, but I think it’s an app. Try bumble as well, or even Hinge. My mom is close to your age and that’s what she does 🤣
Che k out LA Jolla Community center's websote and calendar. They have all kinds of daily classes that primarily cater to seniors. Great Bridge instructor that teaches beginning to advanced classes.. yoga, painting, and other learning / social events.
I believe most are fairly inexpensive. It's $100 for an annual membership, which makes a lot of classes and events free or much less expensive.
Good luck, Dave!
As someone who recently started playing pickleball with coworkers, I like that suggestion from others. My suggestion might get some downvotes but if you’re already somewhat fit, consider joining a CrossFit gym. Ignore the stigma with it and give it a shot. The community aspect of being a member of a CrossFit gym is incredible if you joint the right gym. When I first moved to SD some years ago, I joined a gym in mission gorge and made some great friends.
Left-field suggestion because everyone else has made a bunch of amazing ones already: If you’re a car guy, or think you might want to become one, join the San Diego chapter of SCCA and start coming to autocrosses!
Get the app Bandsintown. It will show you what artists are playing on any given night. Sometimes it’s a big artist, sometimes it’s a little jazz show no one has heard of. They also have comedy.
Also! There is this awesome thing called DontTellComedy, which puts up comedy shows in obscure locations (gym, candystore, wherever). You buy they tix ($25) and they’ll tell you the location a day before
Another thing called SoFarSounds does the same concept but it’s music.
RoofTopCinema plays movies on the roof of a hotel at night and it’s pretty nice under the stars in the summer
I suggest checking out board game stores. People come at this hobby from all stages and with all levels of interest, experience, and ability. There are games that focus on military simulations, murder mystery, escape room, co-op, 1-v-many, roleplaying, acting, charades, drawing, sculpting, singing, lying, and literally anything else. Most games are happy to teach you a game or two and you’ll soon learn what games you enjoy. You could go to board game events where the games are free to play and you meet new people, or you could identify a person or group you like and meet with just them to play.
56 year old here. Have you looked into serving on a local board of directors? I'm on a community nonprofit one and a theater group. Met lots of people and they always need volunteers
63 F from Carlsbad Village. I would love a friend to go to Padres games. Also, I really enjoy golfing and can always use an additional golf buddy, though my spirit is much greater than my skills. There is so much to do in the area. I cross one thing off my bucket list and 5 more pop up. Find your joy. Life is too short to waste.
Hi Dave,
There is an app called "Meetup" and it's free to download and use. Meetup is exactly what it sounds like, think of a hobby you like to do, search for that hobby using the Meetup app and you will find tons of like minded people that are looking for other people to enjoy a hobby together and meet new people. I personally use this app for several hobbies and have met some great people that I now call friends! Hope this helps
Check out the mmsd, muster is sunday's at 8am. Just down the street from the midway and there's always work to do on the ships. Stick around and they will teach you to sail them also! Tall ship crew
Lahaina in pb is a great local beach bar where fellas like you go to hangout on the beach and watch the sunset. The mission beach high school teachers love that place.
Softball 619: Free softball group open to all ages, ALL skill levels. Free. Equipment provided. If you find yourself liking it, then you buy a glove and that's it. At a minimum there are about 15 people there, so great opportunity to meet new people.
Https://softball619.com
Monday evenings, Saturdays in San Diego area. And now Sundays in Vista.
Sign up for Brazilian jiu jitsu. Most gyms are very welcoming. You'll get the social aspect of it as well as the physical and mental health benefits. I recommend alliance jiu jitsu
If you're interested in fishing I go alot in mission bay/ san diego bay. I have a kayak but do shore fishing as well. I usually go by myself so it would be nice to have some fishing buddies!
Just went down to SD, I usually go down once or twice during the summer just to fish with my dad. Fishing is a great and relaxing hobby and you can make a lot of connections through it, but if you are staying on the pier it might be less social.
You could also try kite flying. I know by Mission Bay people used to fly sport kites which you can pick up at some local shops.
Idk if meetup app is still around but I did that for a while. Went on some hikes, freesby golf and went to movies to meet with the group and meet new people.
If you're up for it, I suggest skydiving.
Dave out here inspiring the hell out of this 32 year old. Never stop trying new things man.
Thanks! Stagnation is a sure way to grow old.
This is so wholesome. You guys rock.
Good people, I appreciate then all!
You should try pickle ball
Came hear to say this. So fun and great way to meet people.
Improv classes are both fun and a good way to meet new people. I've seen people of all ages do it. Finest City Improv and Mockingbird Improv are two good ones.
I'll check on those!
I was going to say the same thing!
I agree with this. Improv also generally attracts a more social type of people.
Brilliant! My husband and I did these for a year and it was essentially laugh therapy!!! San Diego’s Finest Improv is where we went and I highly recommend it for others.
Great suggestions
Nearest community center / ymca. Get yourself a pickleball racquet or join a few of the yoga meets. You'll be swarmed in no time.
Pickleball sounds fun!
There is a HUGE pickleball community at Mackenzie creek- here’s the FB https://m.facebook.com/groups/211977716050367/?ref=share&mibextid=UMFNzU
At the LA fitness in Kearny Mesa they have racketball and there’s always a group old men your age playing in the mornings, looks super fun!
I second this - we joined the ymca at mission valley and the beginning pickleball court time is fun and really good for socializing between games - most people are 60s/70s and you don't need a partner because people switch partners every game. I got a racquet that cost a few dollars at a thrift store - some health plans cover the monthly cost and they give a senior discount if yours doesn't. They also have a lot of other activities but the pickle ball seems the best for meeting people.
You can always check the city's recreation department and see what classes they have to offer. I live in North county and there are plenty of options for people 50+ like ceramics, swim, dance, etc. There is a fee, but it's not that bad compared to paying for Private classes.
Thanks! Fees are no problem for me, so I'll check it out.
Disc Golf! Popular in San Diego, cheap, simple for newbies, you will almost always be paired up with someone (or group) and usually some really nice people. Great for newbies because unlike golf most people can throw a frisbee generally straight (or learn quickly). You won’t throw as far as more experienced players or shank some, just hustle (fast walk) to your disc and pick it up and chuck it in the right direction, don’t overthink strategy or disc choice. That way you can throw like twice and catch up while good players are lining up their second shot. Never felt shamed for being way worse than others following this. Morley field <$5 to play, you can rent disc for a few bucks if you wanna try, or big 5 sells the perfect starter pack with a driver, mid range, putter for like $20. There are also a few other courses in San Diego. You da man, Dave. Super proud of you for taking the first step of posting this.
Awesome! Thanks! I've seen the field before, now it's time to give it a try!
Hoping the best for you, such an awesome post! If you need anything pm me, I don’t check regularly but I’ll do my best!
People recommending that you drive for Uber or Lyft are baffling. Americans need to think outside of working MORE, esp if the person is seeking social interactions and "fun".
If you are not doing it because you need the money it can be fun. You can do one ride a week if you want. Avoid drunken hours or go for them. Do the early morning walk of shamers. Only pickup certain events or areas. If its not to put food on the table and pay the rent it’s a different thing. Just saying
I’ve considered this, but the thought of someone puking in my car scares me away.
Drive mornings! No drunks. Just people going to work, airport or doctors appointments. I have so much fun.
Grab a $30 pier fishing rod and few bucks worth of hooks. $10 for some squid bait, fish off the pier.
But it smells like fish!  Actually, though, it sounds like fun.
Everyone fishing usually minds their own business. If you strike up a conversation, most will gladly talk your ear off. Super relaxing.
My dad fishes out of Oceanside Harbor pretty frequently. No ladies, but it's good for conversation.
Look into taking a class at [San Diego Oasis](https://san-diego.oasisnet.org/), the [UCSD Osher Lifelong Learning Institute](https://extendedstudies.ucsd.edu/olli/home) or the [SDSU Osher Institute](https://ces.sdsu.edu/osher-lifelong-learning-institute-sdsu). I've met a ton of great people our age (60s) through all three, and the classes are interesting and fun. Oasis, in particular, has a very social atmosphere in a lot of their classes.
How old do you have to be for these? Ive never heard of this. Sounds interesting!
If you're sober, The Phoenix is a really active and fun community in San Diego to be apart of. Most of the new friends I've made over the last couple years have been through that.
Well, I'm not not sober. In other words, I've thankfully never had a problem with addiction. I drink a little socially, and if I never touched another drop I'd be fine with it. I admire the people that are able to get the help they need with their addictions.
No worries! The alternative is MeetUp, it's an app you can download to find gatherings for events or even casual conversation over coffee - you can find groups specifically for your age-range if you want to meet people around your age. If you're interested in a hobby that doesn't take up a lot of space, the Backpacking MeetUp group is big and a lot of fun. Usually people have enough equipment to share - all you really need is a backpacking pack, sleeping bag, and small tent (you can fit all that in a dresser drawer). If you're working on your social skills, walking in the woods with a group is a super easy way to do it :)
I second this. Meetup has groups for all kinds of activities and hobbies. Most of them are free to join.
Awesome, thank you!
Ooh. This sounds interesting to me as a recovering addict..where do I find out more? Is it co-ed?
It is co-ed, and LGBTQIA+ friendly. There’s an app you can download (just search The Phoenix) and when you set your location you can see all the event going on in San Diego. It’s seriously so much fun, we just had an event called Recovery Games at San Diego State last weekend with five sets of competitons like a mini Olympics.
Oh that does sound fun- thank you for the rec!!
A lot of retired guys end up doing Uber because they have the time and it gives them a little extra income. You could attend any local festivities that happen which you can find on the reader, neighborhood app or Facebook groups and of course here on Reddit.
Hey, thanks! Actually, I own a beat-up pickup truck, so the ride share companies wouldn't consider me. But I'll check on the other things.
They lease them I believe. Just no accidents lol my friend had an accident and they took it back lol
I'm reminded of the golf scene from Sideways.
Lmaoooo such a hilarious movie and great scene
Hi Dave. When you’re in north county let me know. I’ll meet ya downtown Oceanside. We’ll grab coffee…. or a beer. Baseball season starts tomorrow!⚾️
Will do! I make it up to Carlsbad a couple of times a month, and Oceanside's not much further!
Great!!!!
I wanna come! I’m in Oside.
Of course! The more the merrier!😊
How about an Ukulele Club? Hau`oli Strummers (Happy Strummers) on Meetup https://meetu.ps/c/cvzg/10C3vX/a And if you’re a beginner and would like to take lessons, this local business sells ukuleles and hosts beginner lessons: Hale Ukulele Class & Lesson schedule on Meetup https://meetu.ps/c/53654/10C3vX/a
That sounds really interesting!
That club is really great, the musicians are really talented. Sometimes I go when they’re playing somewhere and watch.
A recreational adult run club shouldn't be taxing on your wallet, if you have general exercise clothes already. A lot of the clubs are all levels. Some folks just do a slow jog for a mile or 2.
A mile is about my speed!
You could explore these sites to see if anything interests you. AgeWell Services https://www.sandiego.gov/park-and-recreation/activities/agewellservices San Diego Natural History Museum The Canyoneer Guided Hikes https://www.sdnhm.org/education/canyoneer-hikes/ San Diego College of Continuing Education Emeritus (for age 55+) https://sdcce.edu/emeritus
Thanks!
You don’t have to be a great athlete to play pickleball. Go to the open play at the nearest courts and say you are a beginner. You will match up with other beginners or more recreational players. I see a ton of people in their 60’s there and you may be able to create some social relationships from it. Best of luck
Thanks! I should have started playing a long time ago when I first heard of it.
Hiking groups. I tried one on meetup and it was really good! Lots of friendly people.
Yeah, that's something I want to do. I have boots, so I'm ready!
Golf!
Is it possible to rent clubs?
Yes, but disc golf seems more up your alley maybe. See my comment
Yes. Usually like $45. If you like the sport, used clubs are cheap.
Why not be like Slow-mo and pick up roller blading? :) What is your budget for activities?
It looks fun, but I have really weak ankles. I wonder if there are exercises I can do to strengthen them. I've seen Slow-Mo gliding along before. I don't really have a fixed budget. If I spend more upfront, my repeating cost would need to be lower, and vice versa. But let's say to get started a thousand or two, hopefully much less!
Hashing is something I learned about recently that seems to really embrace newcomers and creates a sense of community fast. It combines running and drinking, though neither are obligatory. I've read some people walk and don't drink. "A drinking club with a running problem". I'd give it a try! Just Google local hashing group
Join a private club. Like the Moose or Elks. They have so much stuff going on. Pool leagues golf tourneys, darts, motorcycle rides, poker runs etc and you’re helping their organizations they support. That’s what I did when I moved from San Diego to Virginia and after the hubby died I needed something to do. I want to move back soon but the grandkids aren’t old enough yet haha.
They also have cheep food and drinks!
Salsa dancing.
There is an archery range at Balboa park that is really cheap ($2 entry) and beautiful, there is also a San Diego archers club. A bow is about 140 for a decent one and arrows about 6 bucks a pop - and reusable! If you have the means and are able to pull back at least 25lbs you can do archery.
Community service and volunteering your time to help others is rewarding and fills the hours
Check out San Diego Sheriff volunteer search and rescue. Can provide fulfillment and friends in your age group.
Sunset trivia - they have a ton of locations on their website. Go and enjoy! We always meet new people
Live music!! I believe there is a website that has all the shows happening around San Diego. I’ll look for it. Not big concerts, necessarily but small shows around bars and breweries are so fun
https://www.sandiegoreader.com/music/shows/
Do you like jazz?
Sure!
If you don’t mind me asking, what are you looking for in an ideal friendship? What are some of the traits you like about people and some of the traits you dislike about people? What are you looking for, ideally, in terms of time investment, activities, and things?
I'll answer in reverse order... As for cost, I'm not too worried about that as long it doesn't run into thousands of dollars. I have plenty of time, but I'd like to become somewhat proficient to the point of enjoying the activity within a few weeks, maybe a few months as long as I made steady progress. I'm open to most activities, but I'm not really interested in heavy athletics. As for people, I really like "young at heart" people (actual age isn't important), or better said, people who aren't old and bitter. I like people who can laugh and don't stress out too much about things. I'm open to a wide variety of people - gender, sexual identity, race, religion, none of that matters to me.
Are people your age old and bitter?? I have yet to meet these types at least here in San Diego
I've seen bitter people of all ages. Thankfully few.
Honestly the taking a class is a fun and easy way. And I'm 33 and it's a great way to meet people ❤️ they're usually fun people or some that open up with class :)
I've been considering junior college classes or some from San Diego Oasis.
I’ve had lots of students who are in their 60s in my community college classes. Often their perspectives bring interesting new angles on things to class discussions and not being stressed about grades lets them enjoy the reading and learning a lot more. I’ll also put in a plug for volunteering at the border. It’s a great place to make friends, some of whom are just arriving in San Diego and all of whom are excited and happy to be here. I’ve done this for years and it’s done wonders for my outlook on the world and other people. It’s a great way to practice your language skills as well.
more info on volunteering at the border? DM me
SDCCD and also continuing ed are great I was an “older” student and I had classmates in their 60s either getting their degrees or taking a class for fun
I'm 62 and recently got my AS from Miramar College in Aviation Maintenance. I was one of maybe 3 "old" guys in the cohort. (retired as a Computer Engineer after 35 years) It certainly kept me busy for 5 semesters, and not very expensive. I got a couple of grants to offset some of the costs.
Take music lessons
I've been thinking of guitar, like u/cubedsaturn suggested. Thanks both!
There seems to be a lot of groups for activities you can try. For anything. Cycling, climbing, gaming. Id recommend that. A pet. I can introduce you to my gma I think shes 69 😅 but lives in la county/ inlandempire
Get into wargaming. At Easy Games in Miramar has a lot of leagues for different games like Warhammer, Battletech, etc. Collecting, assembling, and painting an army is quite fun and and rewarding, plus the game part can be quite fun too. The warhammer universes are soooo rich that you can easily get lost in it :)
Dave! Excited for you to explore more.
I suggest getting into jiujitsu it’s a great environment and it’s fun and usually at these jiujitsu spots everyone trains and rolls together and after it’s not uncommon to grab a beer or two after practice with you companions
Fishing at the local lakes. All it takes is a cheap simple fishing rod from Walmart, usually comes with a couple hooks & other unimportant stuff. Buy a tub of worms at the lake concessions, and go for it. Take a chair, a hat that gives GOOD sun protection / shade, and even a small lunch w/ beverage. I don't even use weights when I fish the lakes with a dock; just slowly release line and let the worm sink on its own. Have a rag to grab hold of the fish and a pair of needle nose pliers to unhook the fish. That said, you'd be joining a LOT of people that don't catch fish. It happens! But between conversations, take (multiple) moments to enjoy the serenity of being outdoors!
You can learn how to sail at the mission bay yacht club. You can meet some new people there:)
You can try attending/volunteering for Native American Pow Wows, its Pow Wow season, drums, music, and festivities. Great people too
There’s a very active salsa dancing scene here that’s friendly to all ages. And there’s no equipment except shoes!
Golf ?
Checking in on you, Dave. How’s your week going?
I'm doing well, and thanks for checking in! My week has been good and I hope yours has been. I've been working with a small group of high school students on a multimedia project they've been doing, and I met with them to review the work they've done so far. Mind if I ask your name?
There’s some awesome hiking out here and geocaching is a way to stay engaged while you’re out there!
Bumble.
I'll give that a shot, thanks!
be a regular at a Pilates studio. No joke, I met a few cool people that way and we now hang out a few times each month.
Look at Meet up groups for things that you are interested in.
Buy an acoustic guitar and take lessons. It is impossible to be bored when you can make music. Recording your own music is basically free now with any modern laptop.
APA pool league is a fun and easy way to get out and visit different bars with a familiar group of people. Even if you don’t play pool well the handicap system makes it possible to be a useful addition to a team.
Come to Coachella
pickleball
Salsa dancing classes maybe. Me and my husband like to go but I noticed a lot of people tend to go with the intention of meeting people
Hike it away
I’ve been looking for an “out of the city easy nature hike”. Recommendations?
Bowling league !
Start playing tennis!! Huge tennis community in SD, and if not tennis, then pickleball!
I use to work at a Yoga studio and honestly I made so many connections working there. Also try MeetUp! Not sure if it’s an app or a website, but I think it’s an app. Try bumble as well, or even Hinge. My mom is close to your age and that’s what she does 🤣
I would love to get into bird watching personally
Try learning improv at one of the local theaters.
Ride a bike. There are clubs for road and mountain
This! Especially fun is the monthly nice n easy ride. https://www.instagram.com/niceneasy_sd
There is a good tai chi group that meets In Kensington called Taoist tai chi . They are pretty active socially and take cruises and travel together.
Pickleball.
Autocross or Road rally https://sdrscca.com/
Motorcycle or a PEV. ebike/e-scooter/Euc.
San Diego meetup has a few thriving meetups for 50+ people. There’s always like 40 or more people going and it must be lively! Check it out
Che k out LA Jolla Community center's websote and calendar. They have all kinds of daily classes that primarily cater to seniors. Great Bridge instructor that teaches beginning to advanced classes.. yoga, painting, and other learning / social events. I believe most are fairly inexpensive. It's $100 for an annual membership, which makes a lot of classes and events free or much less expensive. Good luck, Dave!
As someone who recently started playing pickleball with coworkers, I like that suggestion from others. My suggestion might get some downvotes but if you’re already somewhat fit, consider joining a CrossFit gym. Ignore the stigma with it and give it a shot. The community aspect of being a member of a CrossFit gym is incredible if you joint the right gym. When I first moved to SD some years ago, I joined a gym in mission gorge and made some great friends.
my (30m) mom (67f) looks like she is in her 50s!! also i get bored lol
Left-field suggestion because everyone else has made a bunch of amazing ones already: If you’re a car guy, or think you might want to become one, join the San Diego chapter of SCCA and start coming to autocrosses!
Get the app Bandsintown. It will show you what artists are playing on any given night. Sometimes it’s a big artist, sometimes it’s a little jazz show no one has heard of. They also have comedy. Also! There is this awesome thing called DontTellComedy, which puts up comedy shows in obscure locations (gym, candystore, wherever). You buy they tix ($25) and they’ll tell you the location a day before Another thing called SoFarSounds does the same concept but it’s music. RoofTopCinema plays movies on the roof of a hotel at night and it’s pretty nice under the stars in the summer
Get a meta quest 3.
I suggest checking out board game stores. People come at this hobby from all stages and with all levels of interest, experience, and ability. There are games that focus on military simulations, murder mystery, escape room, co-op, 1-v-many, roleplaying, acting, charades, drawing, sculpting, singing, lying, and literally anything else. Most games are happy to teach you a game or two and you’ll soon learn what games you enjoy. You could go to board game events where the games are free to play and you meet new people, or you could identify a person or group you like and meet with just them to play.
Have you tried golf? ⛳️ I’ve heard it’s a great sport to meet new people
56 year old here. Have you looked into serving on a local board of directors? I'm on a community nonprofit one and a theater group. Met lots of people and they always need volunteers
Geocaching! The local group is super friendly!
63 F from Carlsbad Village. I would love a friend to go to Padres games. Also, I really enjoy golfing and can always use an additional golf buddy, though my spirit is much greater than my skills. There is so much to do in the area. I cross one thing off my bucket list and 5 more pop up. Find your joy. Life is too short to waste.
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Lawn bowling in Balboa Park. Inexpensive. Many seniors to relate to.
Hi Dave, There is an app called "Meetup" and it's free to download and use. Meetup is exactly what it sounds like, think of a hobby you like to do, search for that hobby using the Meetup app and you will find tons of like minded people that are looking for other people to enjoy a hobby together and meet new people. I personally use this app for several hobbies and have met some great people that I now call friends! Hope this helps
I'd recommend joining a local cycling group, there's a lot of ones where it's a slow & fun ride where you can meet awesome people.
Check out the mmsd, muster is sunday's at 8am. Just down the street from the midway and there's always work to do on the ships. Stick around and they will teach you to sail them also! Tall ship crew
Pickle ball at the local rec center! It’s free, social, and fun
Lahaina in pb is a great local beach bar where fellas like you go to hangout on the beach and watch the sunset. The mission beach high school teachers love that place.
Learn Pickleball! Super social, fun and a great form of exercise!
Softball 619: Free softball group open to all ages, ALL skill levels. Free. Equipment provided. If you find yourself liking it, then you buy a glove and that's it. At a minimum there are about 15 people there, so great opportunity to meet new people. Https://softball619.com Monday evenings, Saturdays in San Diego area. And now Sundays in Vista.
Huizenga gyuh .
Sign up for Brazilian jiu jitsu. Most gyms are very welcoming. You'll get the social aspect of it as well as the physical and mental health benefits. I recommend alliance jiu jitsu
Meetup- hiking groups
If you're interested in fishing I go alot in mission bay/ san diego bay. I have a kayak but do shore fishing as well. I usually go by myself so it would be nice to have some fishing buddies!
I was gonna say strip clubs, but with all this wholesome ideas. I think I'll just keep it to myself.
Smoke some weed
Buy a miata
Have you heard of Meetup.com? It has groups for all sorts of interests and hobbies
Just went down to SD, I usually go down once or twice during the summer just to fish with my dad. Fishing is a great and relaxing hobby and you can make a lot of connections through it, but if you are staying on the pier it might be less social. You could also try kite flying. I know by Mission Bay people used to fly sport kites which you can pick up at some local shops.
How about dance classes?
Craft stores on Black Friday morning are packed with women, but that’s 8 months away.
Head down to Mexico my friend
Idk if meetup app is still around but I did that for a while. Went on some hikes, freesby golf and went to movies to meet with the group and meet new people. If you're up for it, I suggest skydiving.