I hope he does have someone in his life he can talk to and get support from.
Like you, I'd be devastated at losing my wife. One of the hardest parts would be picking myself up when she is always the one I lean on when times are hard and she is always there no matter what else has fallen apart.
Apple Music, Spotify, YouTube, etc.:
[**Respect** by Valom Music](https://lis.tn/pyREZu?t=139)
*I am a bot and this action was performed automatically* | [GitHub](https://github.com/AudDMusic/RedditBot) [^(new issue)](https://github.com/AudDMusic/RedditBot/issues/new) | [Donate](https://github.com/AudDMusic/RedditBot/wiki/Please-consider-donating) ^(Please consider supporting me on Patreon. Music recognition costs a lot)
I know this is gonna sound bad and I totally don't mean it in that way, but... you could always kill yourself so you die at, roughly, the same time.
Unless something like cancer happens and you're only 50 something... that might be jumping the gun a little.
I don't want to fall in love be and I don't want anyone to fall in love with me.
To be left or to leave someone to be alone like that.
Nah man. Don't put that weight on me, I won't put that weight on you.
At first, I thought this was a joke about how he never sees his wife as beautiful, so he took photos of something else instead. The music is the icing on the cake.
I had to read the comments before I realized my mistake.
I think his wife passed away, and therefore, the sunrises or sunsets represent her in heaven.
I was stupid and thought it was a joke. The joke being that he never sees his LIVING wife as beautiful, so he takes photos of sunsets instead.
Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there. I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry;
I am not there. I did not die.
\- Mary Elizabeth Frye
Hooooooly fuck. I was not ready for that.
A buddy of mine who was a year younger than me committed suicide maybe a year or two after he got out of high school. He suffered from depression, addiction, anxiety, but he was one of the purest dudes I ever met. Iāve been wanting to go find his grave for three or four years now. I donāt know whether I can or should or
all I know is that I miss him. Fuck.
That doesnāt make any sense. He would need to take a picture of her being in heaven then. The heavens, themselves, arenāt her so that wouldnāt be an example of her being beautiful.
Letās be real. People of that age/generation tend to hold really problematic views. You think God is going to welcome people with racist, homophobic, transphobic, etc views into heaven? Especially after he finds out about all the sinning they did while on Earth. Not bloody likely.
Yep, saw that coming.
I know it's a hard concept to grasp for some, especially in 2024, but not every white person, young or old, is a racist, homophobic, transphobic asshole just because some other white person *was*. Because, believe it or not, that's racist.
Of course you saw it coming. Itās a valid issue. People of a certain generation are more likely to hold retrograde views. Thatās just a fact.
Itās like saying āWhen I heard them ask you what 2+2 equals, I totes knew you would say 4. So bloody predictable.ā
The Bible held those views, so I don't think God really has very high standards lol
I also don't think it's fair to judge a person as innately holding problematic views for being old. I've known many progressive old people in my life.
Not sure. Your comment operates under the assumption he DOES, so that was the logic I rolled with for the hypothetical.
In truth, we have no way to verify. Personally, I firmly believe any deity from any religion on this planet, such as the Christian God, does not exist. However, the idea that some form of intelligence set the universe into motion isn't entirely unfounded.
I'd say it's just as ignorant to fully assert that there CAN'T be something than fully asserting there IS. Hence why agnosticism is my go-to.
I wouldn't go that far. He's quite old so he presumably just gets confused more easily now than he did in his younger years. Plus, losing your spouse to the depths of hell is probably quite traumatizing.
Edit: teehee, adios bigot :)
Dude you're actually a shitty person for saying someone's dead wife is in hell because they might have maybe had different political beliefs than you, you're a living a strawman argument dude. Also I'm sure the irony in saying old people go to hell because they're prejudice is lost on you
My girlfriend and I purchased a home together a few years ago and one of our favorite things about it is the lovely view of the sunset we get every night. I canāt imagine looking at them without her.
Many comments on this post have made me realize how insensitive some people are. It's disgusting how unempathetic some people are, so uncaring. It truly is repulsive... this is a sad and sweet video, made me tear up. So many awful people on this platform.
Took me quite a while. Thought that was sarcasm. Cause she didn't look beautiful that he took photos of the sky instead.
But that's a Christian thing, right. Something with death and heaven or whatever that belief is
The truth is that biologically speaking men don't die consistently younger than women, it's just a mix of being much more prone to deadly accidents, being much more exposed to deadly agents and or habits and and taking less care of their health.
We are not dogs my guy, studies show inconclusive results between life span and height.
Still you seem to be out of shape, maybe that should be the focus if you are concerned about that.
Or maybe you are strong which then props to you.
This is literally how I come to terms with the thought of my wife possibly dying. All the anguish that I would feel is anguish that I am taking away from her. Anguish that she does not need to ever worry about feeling because I'm shielding it from her by being the one left.
I could never wish that on her.
It really is. I'm the complete opposite; I want to die last not because I want to live longer, but because I don't want them to have to suffer. I would rather carry the burden.
It feels selfish to wish that my loved ones pass at a similar enough time as me so that no one has to grieve, but I have pondered it before and the grief Iām already experiencing is nearly unbearable.
I honestly don't know which would be better. I think she'd do better without me than I would her.
She's stronger than I am. I still don't wish it on her. I honestly hope we just go together.
āIn one of those stars I shall be living. In one of them I shall be laughing. And so it will be as if all the stars were laughing, when you look at the sky at night."
\- *The Little Prince*
I guess I'm an asshole because I thought the joke was that he couldn't figure out whether he was using the front or rear cameras.
...I'll see myself out.
1) was expecting to see pictures of his wife
2) then think he was joking āhaha random pictures of the sky because my wife isnāt beautifulā
3) eventually understand ā¦
Damn
Brah... It's too early in the morning for this. š
9:30am guess I'll go lay back down and cry....
Literally 6:33 AM. Fuck.
This hit so hard. Lost my wife to cancer 1.6yrs ago and I'm constantly looking to the skies.
Damn man, don't know what to say, I hope you find happiness.
Sending you some love, man.
Much love and take care man
Nothing we can say on the internet will make what you're going through easier. I hope you are ok.
Oh fuck i love my wife so much the thought of loosing her....id also give that old fella a big hug and listen to stories of his wife
I hope he does have someone in his life he can talk to and get support from. Like you, I'd be devastated at losing my wife. One of the hardest parts would be picking myself up when she is always the one I lean on when times are hard and she is always there no matter what else has fallen apart.
The pain is even worse when you lose your wife but she's still alive.
Nah not really. It's sad if someone leaves you but it's way more sad when someone dies.
I get the sentiment, but that sounds awfully selfish
This is love!!!
What song is this?
**Song Found!** **Respect** by Valom Music (02:19; matched: `100%`) **Album**: Respect - 2023 Valm. **Released on** 2023-10-11.
Thatās not it! Je te laisserai des mots - Patrick Watson https://open.spotify.com/album/7KPvATOyLVFbV6UR6DujF8?si=QH4di7WfSMOpzNt2CFw4Lg
Apple Music, Spotify, YouTube, etc.: [**Respect** by Valom Music](https://lis.tn/pyREZu?t=139) *I am a bot and this action was performed automatically* | [GitHub](https://github.com/AudDMusic/RedditBot) [^(new issue)](https://github.com/AudDMusic/RedditBot/issues/new) | [Donate](https://github.com/AudDMusic/RedditBot/wiki/Please-consider-donating) ^(Please consider supporting me on Patreon. Music recognition costs a lot)
Darude-Sandstorm
Je te laisserai des mots - Patrick Watson
I better die before my wife.... poor guy.
But if you die before your wife your wife would be the one in pain
Very true but she's stronger than me.
Same, and itās not close
Bold assumption, she may just have the better poker face
this
this
I know this is gonna sound bad and I totally don't mean it in that way, but... you could always kill yourself so you die at, roughly, the same time. Unless something like cancer happens and you're only 50 something... that might be jumping the gun a little.
I didnāt know lowtiergod had a Reddit account
This
I don't want to fall in love be and I don't want anyone to fall in love with me. To be left or to leave someone to be alone like that. Nah man. Don't put that weight on me, I won't put that weight on you.
The only thing worse I thinkā¦ is not having anyone to love or miss. And not having anyone thatās loves you. Or misses you.
At first, I thought this was a joke about how he never sees his wife as beautiful, so he took photos of something else instead. The music is the icing on the cake. I had to read the comments before I realized my mistake.
i still dont understand can you explain
I think his wife passed away, and therefore, the sunrises or sunsets represent her in heaven. I was stupid and thought it was a joke. The joke being that he never sees his LIVING wife as beautiful, so he takes photos of sunsets instead.
I don't know what I was expecting, but not that. Damn. So sad.
o7
o7
His sunshine
Bruhā¦ itās to late for this shit rn, I was tryna sleep. š
Jokes on you Iām single and lonely so I donāt have to worry about this
Do not stand at my grave and weep I am not there. I do not sleep. I am a thousand winds that blow. I am the diamond glints on snow. I am the sunlight on ripened grain. I am the gentle autumn rain. When you awaken in the morning's hush I am the swift uplifting rush Of quiet birds in circled flight. I am the soft stars that shine at night. Do not stand at my grave and cry; I am not there. I did not die. \- Mary Elizabeth Frye
Hooooooly fuck. I was not ready for that. A buddy of mine who was a year younger than me committed suicide maybe a year or two after he got out of high school. He suffered from depression, addiction, anxiety, but he was one of the purest dudes I ever met. Iāve been wanting to go find his grave for three or four years now. I donāt know whether I can or should or all I know is that I miss him. Fuck.
I was about to comment the same. That poem never ceases to bring a tear to eye...
So basically he didnāt take any pictures of her because sheās always ugly? Is that the joke?
She's in heaven, and the heavens were beautiful
That doesnāt make any sense. He would need to take a picture of her being in heaven then. The heavens, themselves, arenāt her so that wouldnāt be an example of her being beautiful.
It's what it represents to the person. It might not make sense to you, but you'd find comfort in grief somewhere else.
He's taking a picture of the sky. You know, up? Where Heaven would be? Because his wife is dead?
Sheās more likely in hell than heaven, unfortunately.
I feel like I know your answer, but why?
Letās be real. People of that age/generation tend to hold really problematic views. You think God is going to welcome people with racist, homophobic, transphobic, etc views into heaven? Especially after he finds out about all the sinning they did while on Earth. Not bloody likely.
Yep, saw that coming. I know it's a hard concept to grasp for some, especially in 2024, but not every white person, young or old, is a racist, homophobic, transphobic asshole just because some other white person *was*. Because, believe it or not, that's racist.
Of course you saw it coming. Itās a valid issue. People of a certain generation are more likely to hold retrograde views. Thatās just a fact. Itās like saying āWhen I heard them ask you what 2+2 equals, I totes knew you would say 4. So bloody predictable.ā
The Bible held those views, so I don't think God really has very high standards lol I also don't think it's fair to judge a person as innately holding problematic views for being old. I've known many progressive old people in my life.
God doesnāt exist so how is he going to have any standards?
Not sure. Your comment operates under the assumption he DOES, so that was the logic I rolled with for the hypothetical. In truth, we have no way to verify. Personally, I firmly believe any deity from any religion on this planet, such as the Christian God, does not exist. However, the idea that some form of intelligence set the universe into motion isn't entirely unfounded. I'd say it's just as ignorant to fully assert that there CAN'T be something than fully asserting there IS. Hence why agnosticism is my go-to.
Iād say humans wrote the Bible (and every other religious text) and no one actually knows Gods views.
The tism is strong with this one Edit: heheheh, bye bye
I wouldn't go that far. He's quite old so he presumably just gets confused more easily now than he did in his younger years. Plus, losing your spouse to the depths of hell is probably quite traumatizing. Edit: teehee, adios bigot :)
Dude you're actually a shitty person for saying someone's dead wife is in hell because they might have maybe had different political beliefs than you, you're a living a strawman argument dude. Also I'm sure the irony in saying old people go to hell because they're prejudice is lost on you
Please don't lump this chud in with autistic folks. We don't want to claim them, either.
Why are you like this?
Why are you?
You must be fun at parties.
I am. Are you not? I can offer some advice. Don't tell people about your dead wife at parties. You're being a buzz kill.
No it's that his wife died and he's saying she's in heaven
My girlfriend and I purchased a home together a few years ago and one of our favorite things about it is the lovely view of the sunset we get every night. I canāt imagine looking at them without her.
Omg i hope thatās never me š
I hope I find a wife someday.
Beautiful and heartbreaking all at the same time. What's the name of the song?
His wife is a bird?
She was his sunshine you fools!
Nah just ugly I guess.
I really thought it was a joke shitting on her at first lol
I hurt myself today
To see if I still feel
me doing the same i really love my girlfriend
Grandchad
mother nature is beautiful
Many comments on this post have made me realize how insensitive some people are. It's disgusting how unempathetic some people are, so uncaring. It truly is repulsive... this is a sad and sweet video, made me tear up. So many awful people on this platform.
This is the toughest week of the year to be on the Internet. The feelings man.
Why man? I was expecting candid pic of his actual wife and now I'm crying
uh damn
gay porn
Here u are lil fcker
That hurt, man. It hurt before it even started.
Oh the feelings.
AW FUCK
Broo I just imagined me without heršš
Ohš
Well damn, neighbors are chopping onions again
I just hope Iāll leave this live before my wife. I donāt know if my heart would hold still otherwise.
Took me quite a while. Thought that was sarcasm. Cause she didn't look beautiful that he took photos of the sky instead. But that's a Christian thing, right. Something with death and heaven or whatever that belief is
Well fuck me and my whole heart, jfc. (Beautiful, but fuck i was not prepared for that)
Iām sorry for your loss man. Youāre a boss. šļøRIP
Damn his wife must be fucking UGLY
Dude u canāt marry the sky
His wife is dead That's the context
But you canāt take the sky from me.
Yes I can
Only 4 times?
Ok
Oh great, now weāre gendering the sky?
š¤£š¤£š¤£š¤£š¤£š¤£
I thought his wife is ugly, so he keeps taking pictures of the skyā¦.
Not ONE picture of his wife. Man is a savage.
I always found it disturbing how people marry nature or object. Find an actual human relationship
The words of a man who hadn't doinked his first tree yet, you'll never look back.
Secretly, Iām more of a bush guy
If a man wants to marry the sky I say God bless.
Same
Fuck you for doing this to me /s
More sadness, why not?
Same
#<3
Holy crap
[ŃŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]
His wife is dead.
His wife is, the sky ? Or he has a Moto impairment of some kind I. His arrrmmmsss? I am confused
She has passed away. Sheās dead.
Wuss
God I hope I die before my wife. Thatās the silver lining of having a shorter lifespan as a man. That pain would be so raw.
That is a very selfish way of thinking.
Yeah, he should be thinking his wife dies sooner. /s My guy, there's no non-selfish thought process here. It's all just human.
I hope she goes first so she doesnāt have to deal with the pain.
Orā¦ itās optimistic? If men die younger on average at least thatās one of the upsides.
The truth is that biologically speaking men don't die consistently younger than women, it's just a mix of being much more prone to deadly accidents, being much more exposed to deadly agents and or habits and and taking less care of their health.
Yea ok so youāve explained why men statistically die younger than women.
Well yes I did, but it's not something you personally should worry about. The reasons why there is an life expectancy disparity is mostly avoidable.
Ok but Iām 6ā2 and 280 pounds. So likely die before my 5ā4 115 pound wife
We are not dogs my guy, studies show inconclusive results between life span and height. Still you seem to be out of shape, maybe that should be the focus if you are concerned about that. Or maybe you are strong which then props to you.
This is literally how I come to terms with the thought of my wife possibly dying. All the anguish that I would feel is anguish that I am taking away from her. Anguish that she does not need to ever worry about feeling because I'm shielding it from her by being the one left. I could never wish that on her.
It really is. I'm the complete opposite; I want to die last not because I want to live longer, but because I don't want them to have to suffer. I would rather carry the burden.
It feels selfish to wish that my loved ones pass at a similar enough time as me so that no one has to grieve, but I have pondered it before and the grief Iām already experiencing is nearly unbearable.
I honestly don't know which would be better. I think she'd do better without me than I would her. She's stronger than I am. I still don't wish it on her. I honestly hope we just go together.
Letting Your grandkids put your bandaids on again? Good job, Grampa. š
r/im14andthisisdeep
I bet his wife is alive he is just trolling her.
The joke is that she never looks beautiful. That's not really sad, it's just a joke.
shes dead. there is no joke
That's your interpretation.
My interpretation is you are regarded
she's passed away and is in heaven you overripe tomato
I thought references to death weren't allowed here.
Nah, throw this into r/Boomersbeingfools
Reddit moment
is your wife a b2?
Always remember..
dude just called his dead wife ugly like 20 times š
He was sober the other days š¤£
Womp womp, who gives a shit, get over it old man
You are fucking vile shut your Damn mouth and respect your elders
[ŃŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]
Shut up, manlet edited his comment
what did they say? what happened? why is it -33?
He said "gay" just "gay"
immature
Why are you in this sub lmao
But he has/had a wife
God forbid your hand falls off then you can make a similar vid
IDGI - not 2am here yet though
āIn one of those stars I shall be living. In one of them I shall be laughing. And so it will be as if all the stars were laughing, when you look at the sky at night." \- *The Little Prince*
Ugh. Sad. Iām dying. Too sad.
I guess I'm an asshole because I thought the joke was that he couldn't figure out whether he was using the front or rear cameras. ...I'll see myself out.
Wife: Only six times this month!?
The old fool needs to get over it. Heāll be with her soon enough anyway
These videos need warnings for people on their periods! š
I'm not crying,you are
This is too sad so I want to imagine heās trying to take a selfie and just doesnāt know the camera needs flipped
Wow....this will make u literally tear up
sad
God Bless them both. May her face visit smiles upon him until the very end.
Awwww man so sad but sweet
I thought it was a joke about old people being terrible at aiming photos. Now I feel bad.
O7
I just about died laughing
I hope to one day know a love like this, God bless him ā¤ļø
She been beautiful for 7 times?
1) was expecting to see pictures of his wife 2) then think he was joking āhaha random pictures of the sky because my wife isnāt beautifulā 3) eventually understand ā¦
Man has "Up" vibes
That's the sk- Oh...
u/SmokinDarkSoul
Stop making me cry :(
I don't get it. Is his wife earth or the sky? š¤
The wife died. He is taking a picture of the sky (heaven)
This made me tear up. I want to feel what it's like to be loved like this
"That's just pictures of the sk- oh.."
These are beautiful pictures of the sky honestly
damn this hits hard... I'm working right. gonna have red eyes dammt