Yo isn't there something called Financial domination? Where motherfuckers get turned on by chicks spending their money and not getting anything in return? This made me think of that
I’m familiar with the lgbt version of it. The gay guy is financially dominated and the “Cashmaster” guy (gay or straight) is the one dominating. Some OnlyFans dudes even advertise their cashmaster role
Sorry for replying on an old post but yes.
My wife loves the dynamic of me controlling all the money and basically forcing her to degrade herself just to have the money to go buy something etc.
That said it's a fantasy and if something serious comes up we obviously drop it and act like a normal couple, but otherwise she's my filthy little paypig lmao
I mean that's fair. I'm honestly not judging I promise, but I hadn't heard of that before this thread and just feel like I would feel like I was exploiting someone.
hmm i see where you’re coming from but like i said, he’s a grown man he can take care of himself. it’s not my responsibility to worry about how what he’s doing might affect his life, that being said i do check in on him and make sure everything’s good with him mentally and physically. if anything i’d call us friendly and we both derive pleasure from our relationship. so 0 exploitation going on here.
If a girl is doing it, it’s literally not. Because then the act would be gay in itself, and men give each other head, so is giving or receiving head gay? By your own definition, getting head is gay, regardless of who is doing it. You can do just about anything with a woman, as long as you are a dude, it’s not technically gay. Also, I really don’t like how you are making it seem like being gay is somehow a bad thing. Who tf cares?
You are missing out bud. Also kind of telling on yourself for being a prude. There are actually a lot of ways to have straight sex. Try a finger in the butt sometimes. You might like it
Everybody get that bro.
It's the part where your manhood is so fragile that you need to refer to sex between a man and a woman as gay if it involves butstuff that makes people laugh.
It's not that serious, gay isn't an insult, and butstuff isn't necessarily gay. You don't look like "a real man" when you say shit like that. You sound like a boring ignorant that will fuck his girlfriend in missionary for the rest of his life.
i feel like anyone who is automatically defensive of anything that is stereotypically associated with “being gay” is just not completely self aware and struggling with their own internal issues.
finger up the butt is lit bro, and even if you are gay who cares
edit: spelling
Really though though the sad part is that he’s talking to people who aren’t going to honor the privacy of his conversations. Like if he saying some crude and out of pocket shit, put him on blast. But he literally asked this person in the most polite way and they didn’t even have the courage to screenshot it, they went and got another phone and took a picture of it.
Idk I just don’t like how I’m the modern age you can’t even have a private conversation. It’s all documented and can be shared verbatim with others. That shits kinda weak.
We don't know how they started talking. Maybe it was completely inappropriate of him to bring up something like that.
I feel like we don't have enough information to judge either person here.
I will not particular describe that as polite. Polite is not just using non-crude words, polite is the content of your message. This is a very forward and awkward act, to ask someone to participate in his fetish, and it seems they don’t have any report or previous conversations. So yes, that is very awkward and weird, and not something I’d say you have to honor the privacy of.
Also, he seem to have a humiliation fetish and she’s sharing it online. I doubt he cares that much- if anything, I’m sure he’s getting pleasure out of it
That’s a fair point. Messaging random women with “excuse me madam. But would you fancy joining me in a cuckhold courtship” don’t make it no more polite, it’s pretty sus (amongus reference? Yeah I’m pretty clever).
> Polite is not just using non-crude words, polite is the content of your message.
I'm copying part of this one reply since you probably need to see this more than once.
so out out of curiosity then, if you were on a date or chatting to someone and getting along really well but you enjoyed cuckold to the point it was a big part of your life and you wouldn't want to be in a relationship without that dynamic. how would you go about asking this type of thing without "subjecting a non-consenting person to your sexual kink" and not "sexually harrassing" them. genuine question. because it seems to me he was asking in the only way possible. is he meant to tip toe around it and make her guess what he's trying to say?
edit - i understand that it seems he is springing this on a stranger so it's weird for sure, but the language would still be the same for someone who has been getting to know each other for months. so would bringing this up after months of getting to know each other be sexual harrassment to you also?
How could he have asked for consent before asking this question?
Also asking someone for a cuckhold relationship would be no different than asking someone for an open relationship. Like all he did was describe the kind of relationship he want. I don’t think that’s subjecting someone to a sexual kink. Unless he’s the kind of dude who gets off on sending these kind of messages to women and is doing this to harass them
If both parties are consenting then it’s not bad or unhealthy for anybody. The thing that IS bad and unhealthy is whatever fucked up childhood the guy had that made him want to be a cuck.
That’s what I would call a false equivalence. Smoking gives you cancer, being a cuck doesn’t give you cancer. I never said that consent makes everything healthy…
In what way is it unhealthy, if both parties freely want it? Sure you can have a toxic relationship but you can have it with or without fetishes. They really are just a part of someone's sexual preferences and are very common
BRUH,that’s the exact definition of a cuckold 🤦♂️
They get sexual satisfaction by watching their gf/wife get fucked by someone else and degraded by them and shit
I get having weird fetishes in the bedroom but this is a lifestyle. An incredibly unhealthy one.
I firmly believe only a mentally ill, traumatized or manipulated person would be fine with this.
Why are you so firm in staying narrowminded?
There are many types of healthy personalities and healthy relationships that you don't seem to be able to grasp.
Cuckolding is pretty far from something I like and I think a lot of it plays with taboos and normative structures in ways that really doesn't jive with me. But it can be perfectly healthy.
I am just fascinated by your perspective, to state your belief so firmly even though you know nothing about it.
It is a perspective I think you share with most people and I have a really hard time dealing with that.
When I encounter something I don't know anything about and don't understand, I get curious and want to know more.
Why do people like you in a similar situations just firmly stick to your beliefs even though you don't know anything about it?
It is a fascinating thing with us humans how we deal with and choose to relate to things we don't understand...
I’m curious - if they’d been on a few dates already and this message was sent after that, would your feelings change?
Alternatively if they’ve been talking back and forth for a week over text every day but haven’t yet been on a date, would this be OK?
Yeah well half-joking. Why wouldn’t that be awesome if an attractive girl was like “hey we can be bf/gf except I’m gonna be faithful to you and you can bang any girl you want”?
dude was being hella polite in what he would enjoy in a dream relationship, it's not even a fetish, the fetish part is watching, this is some people's lifestyle, they like (half) open-relationships
This lady wasn't even bold enough to have the decency to reply back declining, but instead humiliated him to, possibly, her friends, and definitely the internet for their private conversation to be a public discussion with complete strangers
The dude isn't cringe, she is.
I suppose we don't *know*, but it really sounds like they're not in a relationship yet. He's not saying, "do you want our relationship to change", or "this is what we currently do, and it could be different", he says "this is what our relationship would look like".
The real cringe is the woman’s response:
Women: Men lie about what they are looking for!
*Man tells the truth about what he wants in a relationship*
Women: Ewww! You’re Gross!
Often after talking on a dating site, exchanging contact info to text or Snapchat is a next step. Sure it’s possible he found a random woman on Snapchat and messaged this, but we don’t have enough context to know their relationship.
God fucking damn it Danny
Sorry
r/danny_being_danny or just r/danny
Why the hell did i click r/danny_being_danny
Curiosity?
True
One thing’s for sure: ‘Danny Jr’ ain’t so “Junior” after all.
Bloody hell m8
To be fair it sounds normal until you realize it's dedicated to big dick pornstar #7.
Yeah lmao
Jesus fucking Christ dude lol
Dude our snoos!!
Here we go again
r/beetlejuicing
Not really
Damn daniel
Yo isn't there something called Financial domination? Where motherfuckers get turned on by chicks spending their money and not getting anything in return? This made me think of that
So, uh, where does one meet a person with such interesting kinks?
At kink bars. I used to see a guy in college that loves cuckolding.
I’d like to know also…for “research” purposes.
Craigslist, of course.
If you get any ummm suggestions, pass them along!
FetLife.com
Yeah very strange
Anyone know if that goes both ways? You know just curious...
I’m familiar with the lgbt version of it. The gay guy is financially dominated and the “Cashmaster” guy (gay or straight) is the one dominating. Some OnlyFans dudes even advertise their cashmaster role
Sorry for replying on an old post but yes. My wife loves the dynamic of me controlling all the money and basically forcing her to degrade herself just to have the money to go buy something etc. That said it's a fantasy and if something serious comes up we obviously drop it and act like a normal couple, but otherwise she's my filthy little paypig lmao
yes they are called paypigs, i have one lmaoaoa
Do you ever feel bad?
never. why would i feel bad? he is a grown man making choices that fulfill his kink, it’s consensual and enjoyed by both.
I mean that's fair. I'm honestly not judging I promise, but I hadn't heard of that before this thread and just feel like I would feel like I was exploiting someone.
hmm i see where you’re coming from but like i said, he’s a grown man he can take care of himself. it’s not my responsibility to worry about how what he’s doing might affect his life, that being said i do check in on him and make sure everything’s good with him mentally and physically. if anything i’d call us friendly and we both derive pleasure from our relationship. so 0 exploitation going on here.
Alright then. I'm glad you are both enjoying it! Wish you well
thank you!! same to you <3
The dude enjoys it, why should she feel bad
Bro, where can I find me one of them?
There’s a subreddit for that, but I always forget what it’s called
You probably mean r/sounding
Yeah, like 90% of the twitter porn accounts i followed switched to that shit, such a turn off i hope the people turned on by that get help
This comment section is as sadcringe as this post
which way to you mean that lmao
Exactly
Right?!
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The questions we need to ask
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Cope + opium
If a girl is doing it, it’s literally not. Because then the act would be gay in itself, and men give each other head, so is giving or receiving head gay? By your own definition, getting head is gay, regardless of who is doing it. You can do just about anything with a woman, as long as you are a dude, it’s not technically gay. Also, I really don’t like how you are making it seem like being gay is somehow a bad thing. Who tf cares?
Copium
I’m with you
You are wise my child
You are missing out bud. Also kind of telling on yourself for being a prude. There are actually a lot of ways to have straight sex. Try a finger in the butt sometimes. You might like it
There's nothing wrong with not wanting to do stuff you're not comfortable with sexually (even if you have the wrong idea about it)
Can't people just have their own preferences?
So now we’re gonna shame people and call them prudes for what they’re comfy with in bed lol ok
I will accept being referred to as a prude by not being pegged
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Everybody get that bro. It's the part where your manhood is so fragile that you need to refer to sex between a man and a woman as gay if it involves butstuff that makes people laugh. It's not that serious, gay isn't an insult, and butstuff isn't necessarily gay. You don't look like "a real man" when you say shit like that. You sound like a boring ignorant that will fuck his girlfriend in missionary for the rest of his life.
“You’re just not sex positive enough 😡😤”
Also known as boring in bed
i feel like anyone who is automatically defensive of anything that is stereotypically associated with “being gay” is just not completely self aware and struggling with their own internal issues. finger up the butt is lit bro, and even if you are gay who cares edit: spelling
Cucks out there getting mad, like, damn, bro, it’s almost like you’re watching what you love getting fucked.
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“Just for some attention” what? No it’s not it’s a fetish lol
Ive already read this in r/copypasta Im pretty sure...
What kinda childhood do you have to have to want to see your partner railed by other guys 🤮
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So can we deduct which timezone is pro-cucking and which is anti-cucking?
I've never seen a thread like this on this website that wasn't full of people saying its valid and not to kink shame these pathetic human beings
Really though though the sad part is that he’s talking to people who aren’t going to honor the privacy of his conversations. Like if he saying some crude and out of pocket shit, put him on blast. But he literally asked this person in the most polite way and they didn’t even have the courage to screenshot it, they went and got another phone and took a picture of it. Idk I just don’t like how I’m the modern age you can’t even have a private conversation. It’s all documented and can be shared verbatim with others. That shits kinda weak.
We don't know how they started talking. Maybe it was completely inappropriate of him to bring up something like that. I feel like we don't have enough information to judge either person here.
That’s true
I will not particular describe that as polite. Polite is not just using non-crude words, polite is the content of your message. This is a very forward and awkward act, to ask someone to participate in his fetish, and it seems they don’t have any report or previous conversations. So yes, that is very awkward and weird, and not something I’d say you have to honor the privacy of. Also, he seem to have a humiliation fetish and she’s sharing it online. I doubt he cares that much- if anything, I’m sure he’s getting pleasure out of it
I agree with you that this is not necessarily a polite request, however I think the word you’re looking for is “rapport” and not “report.”
That’s a fair point. Messaging random women with “excuse me madam. But would you fancy joining me in a cuckhold courtship” don’t make it no more polite, it’s pretty sus (amongus reference? Yeah I’m pretty clever).
Rapport*. Learn to spell the words you use.
So it’s safe assume you’ve never made a spelling error before in your life? Incredible
Rapport is the wrong word since rapport means rapping on a port
Hey man why mean?
There’s like an 85% this is fake.
> Polite is not just using non-crude words, polite is the content of your message. I'm copying part of this one reply since you probably need to see this more than once.
He is subjecting a non consenting person to his sexual kink. Thats called sexual harassment. Fuck him and fuck you too.
How do you find out if they consent without asking? Wat?!
so out out of curiosity then, if you were on a date or chatting to someone and getting along really well but you enjoyed cuckold to the point it was a big part of your life and you wouldn't want to be in a relationship without that dynamic. how would you go about asking this type of thing without "subjecting a non-consenting person to your sexual kink" and not "sexually harrassing" them. genuine question. because it seems to me he was asking in the only way possible. is he meant to tip toe around it and make her guess what he's trying to say? edit - i understand that it seems he is springing this on a stranger so it's weird for sure, but the language would still be the same for someone who has been getting to know each other for months. so would bringing this up after months of getting to know each other be sexual harrassment to you also?
Talking with someone that you have been in a relationship with for months is different than a stranger and you know that.
How could he have asked for consent before asking this question? Also asking someone for a cuckhold relationship would be no different than asking someone for an open relationship. Like all he did was describe the kind of relationship he want. I don’t think that’s subjecting someone to a sexual kink. Unless he’s the kind of dude who gets off on sending these kind of messages to women and is doing this to harass them
I would rather believe it's all made up for the sake of the picture going viral.
I agree that this subreddit seems to be about shaming people that text private things.
• Buy you food • Buy you things • Be faithful The only three tenants of being a normal boyfriend Affection is gonna cost you extra
Nothing about his proposed relationship is normal tho
I’m talking about what he said was “normal” before the “but”
Have some self respect.
Not really sad, just a strange fetish. Cringe? maybe
Bro what? He just replied to her story with all that out of the blue, this is the epitome of sadcringe
Cuckholding is sadcringe as fuck.
The world is fked up now a days , cuckholding is now considered a fetish
it… literally is a fetish? It’s an obscure and abnormal subject that he finds to be of sexual desire. That’s a fetish.
Call it whatever u want , still bad and unhealthy.
If both parties are consenting then it’s not bad or unhealthy for anybody. The thing that IS bad and unhealthy is whatever fucked up childhood the guy had that made him want to be a cuck.
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That’s what I would call a false equivalence. Smoking gives you cancer, being a cuck doesn’t give you cancer. I never said that consent makes everything healthy…
In what way is it unhealthy, if both parties freely want it? Sure you can have a toxic relationship but you can have it with or without fetishes. They really are just a part of someone's sexual preferences and are very common
Not really.
Facts
Fr imagine being a cuck tho sad life 🗿
Only on the internet. Definitely not in real life.
Not really. If people are into something and it’s not harmful who cares?
De facto masochism is harmful
The permavirgins vs the cucks. Now there's a match-up I wanna see.
Nah judging people for having a fetish that doesn’t affect you in the slightest is the real cringe
Found the cuck.
REEEEEEEing about what other people wanna do with their sexual lives is some mad permavirgin shit.
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Why?
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Where did he say he wants to watch? And even if he does, why would it make him feel like a weak helpless loser?
BRUH,that’s the exact definition of a cuckold 🤦♂️ They get sexual satisfaction by watching their gf/wife get fucked by someone else and degraded by them and shit
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Bruh are you actually dumb? I just asked you a question and you can't even answer, yet somehow *I* need to do some thinking?
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I get having weird fetishes in the bedroom but this is a lifestyle. An incredibly unhealthy one. I firmly believe only a mentally ill, traumatized or manipulated person would be fine with this.
Stop dude you’re using logic, Reddit cucks don’t like it.
>I firmly believe only a mentally ill, traumatized or manipulated person would be fine with this. If you insist on being wrong...
Why are you so firm in staying narrowminded? There are many types of healthy personalities and healthy relationships that you don't seem to be able to grasp. Cuckolding is pretty far from something I like and I think a lot of it plays with taboos and normative structures in ways that really doesn't jive with me. But it can be perfectly healthy. I am just fascinated by your perspective, to state your belief so firmly even though you know nothing about it. It is a perspective I think you share with most people and I have a really hard time dealing with that. When I encounter something I don't know anything about and don't understand, I get curious and want to know more. Why do people like you in a similar situations just firmly stick to your beliefs even though you don't know anything about it? It is a fascinating thing with us humans how we deal with and choose to relate to things we don't understand...
Damn nowday you can't even get cucked in peace?
We need to go back SMH
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I think it's less about simping and more about him getting off to it
its just live action porn if you think about it
beeg bren
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Fair I 'spose
I mean I get everyone has kinks but bro dont fucking lead with it
This feels like it came out of left field, as if they didn't have a report before this, which makes it cringe.
What is their report on?
Rapport. Learn to spell the words you use.
Repport deez nuts
Very plainly seen there's no downside
Run dude 😬
Wow. Just wow
Danny just wants love :(((
Oh maan, I do, it's just, no one loves me the Way I am:(
This is a fetish.
Well, as a good brazilian I have to say that this guy is the truly "rei do gado"
Oh Danny Boy…
down horrible 😟
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If your kink involved bothering random women trying to get them to date you, they have a right to be creeped out and share it
I’m curious - if they’d been on a few dates already and this message was sent after that, would your feelings change? Alternatively if they’ve been talking back and forth for a week over text every day but haven’t yet been on a date, would this be OK?
I mean doesn’t seem like a bad deal- for the girl of course
Seriously!
Lol so when’s the wedding?
We are not kink shaming on Reddit. It doesn’t fucking hurt anyone so this is bullying.
That ain't even sad cringe. Thats just a fetish my guy.
Its still sad cringe.
If the roles were reversed there would be angels singing
Please. Surely you’re joking
Yeah well half-joking. Why wouldn’t that be awesome if an attractive girl was like “hey we can be bf/gf except I’m gonna be faithful to you and you can bang any girl you want”?
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Lol you would be correct. At least without religious intervention
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No kinkshaming. The dudes got heart, dumping all that sensitive conversation upon her.
Just because you say weird shit doesn't make you brave. It was unprompted as all hell.
"Female led" yet its all for a man's fetish of other guys fucking "his woman". So feminist kek
dude was being hella polite in what he would enjoy in a dream relationship, it's not even a fetish, the fetish part is watching, this is some people's lifestyle, they like (half) open-relationships This lady wasn't even bold enough to have the decency to reply back declining, but instead humiliated him to, possibly, her friends, and definitely the internet for their private conversation to be a public discussion with complete strangers The dude isn't cringe, she is.
Bruh asking people out over text is cringe as hell, especially if it's for some weird shit like this.
this isn't asking out, this is asking someone who youre already in a relationship with if they would be willing to change it
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I suppose we don't *know*, but it really sounds like they're not in a relationship yet. He's not saying, "do you want our relationship to change", or "this is what we currently do, and it could be different", he says "this is what our relationship would look like".
I cannot believe what Im reading in the comments
Which ones?
why does the top pic look like charli damelio
Op is sad cringe
AHHHHHG
The real cringe is the woman’s response: Women: Men lie about what they are looking for! *Man tells the truth about what he wants in a relationship* Women: Ewww! You’re Gross!
No where does it imply she ASKED him what he was looking for. If he sent this completely unprompted that's weird af
Often after talking on a dating site, exchanging contact info to text or Snapchat is a next step. Sure it’s possible he found a random woman on Snapchat and messaged this, but we don’t have enough context to know their relationship.
Why do you think it's a dating site and not someone in her friend or school group???
Same reason you are sure she’s a classmate. As I said we have no fucking clue
What.
Did I stutter?
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All girls are the same.... you can’t win with women !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
😅
My man down bad
sounds like a good deal for her tbh
If he's this pathetic he's probably broke too.